6 Things We've Learned in 6 Years of Marriage

[@annaturner458]

PLEASE DO A SERIES ON SUBMISSION!!! I would absolutely love to hear a biblical explanation of what submission looks like! Love y’all’s content, I’ve been listening from the beginning and am so encouraged by your growth

[@AbbyMcGuire23]

Milena- when Jordan compliments you, RECEIVE it! 😊 I was the same way before, when my hubby complimented me (which is a million times a day) I would ALWAYS brush it off every. Single. Time. like “Oh thanks but I look like crap!” Or “what?! My hair is so greasy!” Or “Ew no I need to shower” etc. And then it finally hit me- it doesn’t matter how I feel or what I think of myself in that moment. My husband is showering me with compliments. Accept it lovingly and flirty, and even give one back! It’s a much more feminine quality to simply say thank you instead of trying to tell them why you didn’t deserve the compliment 🥰♥️

[@thesatisfiedsoul]

I love this 🥹😍😍

[@caroelizau]

My husband does this all the time and it makes me sad because I’m literally telling you what I think about you and if you don’t receive it, it’s like you don’t believe me 🙃

[@MegaTelenovela]

I'm sure she does, privately. I guess it depends when and where it happens.

[@AbbyMcGuire23]

@@MegaTelenovela oh I’m sure haha! I didn’t mean this in a negative way at all! She’s such a beautiful women 😊 I just like to encourage women to receive compliments instead of turning towards self-deprecating humor! (which is honestly what most of us do!!)

[@MegaTelenovela]

@@AbbyMcGuire23 that's so true. I I agree 💯. I didn't mean you meant it negatively.

[@haleyfield248]

I’m all for the mini series!!!

[@Joen_30]

Me 2

[@babycate912]

100% on the mini series. My husband and I have been struggling to find a church in our small town due to this issue. We’ve been there done that with the “practical life skills as a Christian” teaching, which is fine, but we want more than that. There are so many things the church chooses to avoid or skim past these days due to cancel culture or to avoid conflict, so I’m all for diving down that path of the “taboo” things the church doesn’t often speak about. Love you guys, super excited for this!

[@meaghangiles5427]

The mini series is literally everything my husband and I have been talking about recently!! Even as specifically as the giants y’all talked about so I am all in to hear y’all’s perspective on the spiritual realm! Also, a mini series on submission would be AMAZING!! Being a more newly wed couple my husband and I have talked about this a lot and it’s hard to find a lot of good advice and answers about this because the world has made submission synonymous to slavery.

[@swaysme5446]

Your spouse is the best mirror of yourself. If they say you are acting a certain way or making someone feel something... it's the purest form of reflection. 3yrs married 6yrs together today.

[@jaxmb14]

The supernatural mini series is such a good idea. I’ve been really struggling with how to view and understand the spiritual world. My main struggle is not knowing when God is speaking to me vs when I’m getting lied to by the enemy. Or if I’m just talking to myself. It’s been hard tbh. Like how much influence do they really have over us? What are their limitations? Can they control the weather? So. Many. Questions.

[@sannachristina6464]

I think the reason the ‘never go to bed angry’ is such important advice is that you never know what could happen overnight. My grandparents argued very frequently and one morning my grandad didn’t wake up - he had passed away in his sleep from a completely unexpected heart attack. He was only 60 years old and my mum was in her teens at the time. It was a total shock. My grandma told my mum later on how relieved and happy she was that they hadn’t been fighting the evening before he passed, as they would often go to bed without resolving things. My parents have been together since they were 17 (30+ years) and have always tried to follow the ‘never go to bed angry’ advice because of that.

[@Granolaeccentric]

I would be SO BEYOND HAPPY if you guys made a series about all those things!!

[@dakotadupee2176]

I’m so here for this mini series!! Something I have learned In my husband and I marriage (5 years) Is choose love always and don’t ever be afraid to be the first to forgive. Also when something bothers you speak up and don’t let that fester or try and fix it on your own because it never works to fix things on your own. Your spouse is your person!

[@samanthaschaaf3066]

Yesssss!!!🤩🤩🤩 A mini series like that would be amazing for my husband and I to watch together! Can’t wait! 🎉

[@courtneymenking2009]

Bring on the next 7 weeks, team! My family and I are so blessed to hear unbelievable teachings on the supernatural and the mysteries of the Bible now - but before finding Godly leadership, we were lead astray by online communities that didn’t have a true picture of what God was truly saying. I’m praying for your discernment as you prepare to speak truth of God’s Word!

[@yeskeslife1483]

Yes! listen to the Lord’s leading!!! He is working so many works in you two!!!! Please do the mini series yes!!!! Side note: I’m in tears right now because God is teaching me ALOT in life, marriage, motherhood and I have y’all to look up to and I’m so grateful! I have prayed for over a year for community and I now have community with woman in christ!!! And it’s changed my life!! And I feel God has been pushing me to read the book of Esther for weeks, im hearing it on the radio, in podcasts everywhere!!! And now i find out you’re releasing a Bible study of ESTHER tomorrow! To tell you I screamed when I heard that would be an understatement! I’m so so excited!!!! And can’t wait to do it together!!!! I have prayed to have the chance to meet you and just hug you so hopefully one day!!!👏🏻🤞🏻❤

[@asformeandmyhousepodcast]

Praise the Lord!! 🙌 so glad to hear this and for God’s faithfulness to meet you right where you are! We’d love to meet you 😊🙏

[@madisyngifford3507]

The mini series is such a good idea! Those are things I wonder about and want to discuss all the time and would love to hear you guys talk about it

[@JenniferaMayet]

Super excited for the mini series! I think people forget how real the spiritual realm is. SUPER EXCITED!!

[@baileycarter1335]

100% on the mini series!! Something must be stirring because my husband and I have been talking about this so much recently. Loved this episode ❤️

[@florz2833]

All in for the mini series ♥️🙏🏽 as a catholic, I would love to hear more of that among Christians. I feel that even if not enough people wanted the mini series, it should still be done if it’s something you guys feel the lord is having you all talk about. Love y’all

[@filmsbyar]

Something I've learned as a young married woman , is that, for a long time I wanted my husband to open up more , tell me about his day, and just , talk with me more . He did and still does communicate with me for sure. But i mean, i wanted him to really have more conversations with me . I realized one day while talking with him, that I was talking almost nonstop, and also I wasn't really listening to all he was saying . I've learned for myself with my husband , at least , to be more patient , be inquisitive and interested more in What he is talking about , and be slower to speak and more quick to listen. So now , when I slow down a little, and listen , he ends up telling me all kinds of things and I genuinely love our conversations more. It's crazy but even over the phone , for example, I saw I was dominating the conversations, and I felt I was not submitting to him by doing that , I was also convicted of overtalking and interrupting him which I'm still working on. But when I allowed for awkward pauses and I actually let him speak, then in turn of course I would have my round to share what was on my heart , it just felt so much more fulfilling and we've had more laughter, love , and also serious conversations with each other than before . It is very important how you choose to talk to and listen to your spouse . Also See James 8 :8 I believe we cannot tame the tongue but through God's power we can tame the tongue.

[@simbotha4730]

yes for the series, please

[@yr2384]

Wow the Lord really uses you both. My husband and I started getting into this so we would love this new mini series 🫶

[@marceguapacha]

Yes, yes, yes!!! Cant wait for this series.

[@Lola-eh9cp]

So into the idea of the mini series! I’m really interested to delve into that realm of Christianity a little more

[@elizabetheiring2364]

I 110% would love the mini series

[@shanaalisab2691]

This was good. Bring on the spiritual realm series !!

[@tawniyerkey8849]

We are the “Church” we are the Body of Christ! Everyone that is saved, and preach the Word of God is the Church. The Church was never supposed to be 4 walls… You are the Church! ❤ Thank you for doing your part in the Body of Christ, and preaching the Good News, which we are commanded to do.

[@vg7177]

Yes I'm very interested in that series!!! Thank you for being so thorough with the Bible, wanting to speak Nothing else but the truth!

[@laurakate8263]

Very onboard for the supernatural mini series

[@Ana-vw7cn]

Yes for mini series!!!

[@goodfruitseason]

I think talking a bout the spiritual realm is timely and needed. Go for it! Let the Spirit by your Guide.

[@kensington323]

Super interested in this mini series!! I remember seeing Milena’s story about discussing these topics in the car and I was super interested in learning more!

[@asdfghjklasskdfghjkl]

31:00 I would be cautious about having sex as a coping mechanism of diffusing an argument because there are many people who take that the wrong way as in having sex and then moving on without discussing and having a conversation about the argument that happened. It needs to be emphasized that communication skills need to be there too

[@jasminebrown6794]

Just celebrated 1 yr of marriage! 🎉 YES to ALL the content you guys suggested! Love it! Congrats on 6 yrs!! ❤

[@divyasamuel8285]

Yes for the mini series. Great podcast

[@kassandrawarner9952]

Yesssss I’m here!!!! Biblical convos yes please

[@mirandahenkel550]

I grew up in a church where the supernatural was a big focus. On one hand, I’m thankful for it, as I feel like I know so much and have a good amount of wisdom concerning these things - however I have just seen it taken too far unfortunately. Because of that; I’m always a little cautious. I think it’s interesting and important, but I do believe that sometimes the enemy can get in through it and make it a bit of an idol in the church. Almost where were focussing so much on the enemy and demons, that we miss what’s important and we miss Jesus. I don’t think it’s wrong to learn about it and to research it, but I do think we need to go about it wisely and with discernment.

[@Sigridkrakenes]

Yes! I was going to ask if you could speak about the wife and husband's role in a marriage. Submission, love and all!

[@fabulousgabi1]

Love this sooo much wow! I have been with my now spouse since we were 17 and got married at 25, everything you touched on is on point! Thank you for sharing ❤️

[@emisvanburen593]

Much needed. Thank you. Yes! Please "Mini Series".

[@gabbyaldana-gl5hx]

I think the the mini series is a beautiful idea!!❤I grew up my whole 25 years of life in the Christian church with my family and husband.

[@stelslight]

The supernatural explorations are epic! You're driving deep into a rabbit hole hehe

[@mollyjaybooks]

YES!!!!! I would love to watch the miniseries!!!!!! 🙌🙌🙌

[@gabbyluidens813]

I would love for you guys to do a mini series. I have lots of questions as well and think these topics would be interesting to dive into. Love that you guys want to do this!

[@therealsubaekhyang]

I feel like people have twisted what submission means, so it would be nice to see a series on *biblical submission*

[@ashtoncornelison6731]

I'm one of the crazies. Yes this would be an amazing series. I felt that in my spirit as you were talking then when he got it out I was like YES!! PLEASE. Y'all are amazing. ❤️

[@simplymeliza]

Yes! Please do the mini series!!!

[@alexistafrawe9004]

Would love to have mini series on the topics you shared! This is exactly the kind of things that need to be discussed! Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us!

[@inesberit9196]

I‘m so here for the mini series! My family often discuss those topics and I know it’s not important for salvation but it can be beneficial to know about those things for your life.

[@ahnikastowell3882]

The mini series sounds so interesting! Definitely something I’m always wanting to learn more about

[@margaretjanec8484]

Yes to the mini series. Right before I clicked on to watch this I was searching for Christian resources on the spiritual realm. It is something I deal with daily, as we all do as Christians whether we know it or not! Unfortunately, It is glossed over in the church. A series on this by you guys would be an answer to prayer!

[@krystlprice3543]

Yes on the mini series. These are important conversations to have. We get up and hour sometimes 2 before the kids and read God’s Word together and we have a Bible curriculum that we use to teach our children during dinner. We also started taking a more intentional sabbath. With no electronics and this has changed us as a couple but even more as a family.

[@asformeandmyhousepodcast]

Wow you guys ROCK!!! So awesome and encouraging to hear 🙏

[@annie5956]

The mini series sounds great! Excited to hear it.

[@EsrahKuijpers]

Yes the mini series subject would be GREAT. Looking forward!

[@kiradelgado4669]

Yes yes on the Mini Series on this subject. I have been wondering on this topic sooo much lately.

[@MeganV89]

I love the idea of the miniseries!! I've been a Christian and in the church for as long as I can remember, but there have been holes in the teachings, as you mentioned, and a miniseries would be so helpful in filling those holes. This is an important topic and it deserves attention. Thank you for considering it!

[@asformeandmyhousepodcast]

Amen! We are right there with you. Thank you for affirming the need and interest 🙏

[@savannahtapley]

I would love the mini series!! Those topics are so interesting.

[@vivrodriguez_]

Yes for the submission series! Recently married and would love to dive deeper in this foundation!

[@magnolia7322]

Yes for the mini series!!!!

[@caseylewis3]

Hyped for the mini series!! My church touches on these topics! Grateful to work and attend a church that talks about the supernatural and operates in the gifts of the spirit!

[@Tamarazelmann16.5]

Yes please for the mini serie!!!!

[@briannacomeaux1885]

I'm here for the miniseries! And thanks for the advice, it's always helpful and fruitful.

[@marykleinhans4453]

Love the idea for the mini series!! I love that topic and I truly believe studying those things actually strengthens your understanding and knowledge of the bible + your relationship with God. There is SO much more to the bible + the spiritual realm than people realize. Sadly, I feel like the modern church dumbs it down at times. Also, have you ever listened to the podcast Blurry Creatures? They do a great job of going deep on this topic. My favorite guest they've had on the show is Dr. Laura Sanger.

[@Bear-gg8ic]

Yes do the mini series! Love all these topics🙏🏼

[@graciefreed]

I would love to hear y’all’s mini series!

[@soullove3128]

Please do the submission mini series! All the mini series please!! 🙏 I’m so happy I found you guys.

[@vg7177]

Milena, I truly love the difference you can visibly see in you, the work you have put in with your savior. It is proof of the fruits that come with it. I am currently trying to do the same. I unfortunately feel a bit defeated with an ongoing list over my head of what I don't like about myself and how I act. I see change but whenever I go back into my old ways (or my old fiery tongue) I'm so discouraged. Anyways, my point is to say, that you are such an encouragement, the way you have turned yourself around to be such a figure of Christ for your children and husband ♥️♥️ thank you for these videos, both you and Jordan!

[@katie4036]

Literally just talked about this with my husband would love this series

[@taniaramirez1732]

Yesssssss!!! Two thumbs up for the mini series!!! 😊

[@alexisciaravino6807]

Yessssss please for the mini series!!

[@jordyndavis1499]

Please do the mini series!!!! I love this idea

[@amandajoylong.]

oh my goodness YES! i love this so much & am SO excited for the upcoming podcasts!! 😍💫🫶🏻

[@melfeliciano777]

Yes, please continue the spiritual realm series!!!

[@tiffanymatallana9198]

Please do both mini series!!!!

[@Livygee]

My husband and I take time to listen to you because we have a lot of respect for how you live life and we share your podcast with other couples looking to re-connect. We would love a mini-series!

[@alymagda3215]

Yes please!!! Can’t wait for the mini series! Especially talk about the book of Enoch. Is it meant for us to know? Is it not part of the Bible for a reason or someone took it out as sabotage for us to not know all of that info. Can’t wait for this!!!

[@jarie9689]

Big yes for the mini series on all sorts of topics 🤩

[@annabethtate4569]

would love to see the mini series!

[@haileycleary5937]

A mini series sounds amazing!! So many things I have not dove into yet and hearing you all do this would be such a great start and example ❤️

[@Fidelia333]

The Bible project has a great series on heavenly beings! So excited for the Mimi series😊

[@AbbyMcGuire23]

YES to the new series!!! 🥳

[@gabyaux8467]

Yes to mini series

[@melodysanford5921]

Can’t wait for the mini series!!

[@NoelCiancaglione]

Mini series!!!!

[@Becky44-e7g]

100 % to the mini-series!

[@kaitlinhuffman9396]

Yes mini series!!!

[@CheyenneMarie]

YES YES YES TO THE MINI SERIES AHHHHH PLEASE!!!!

[@hannahgrenz9525]

Do we have the link to this dress 😍😍😍

[@roodges]

I'd love to listen to those mini series ideas

[@Alexizvell93]

Omg so agree!!! I will be reading the bible im like wait this angel has 6 wings??!! WHAT ?!! so im so anticipating this series❤️❤️❤️

[@peaceofjunkjournals]

Something I have learned is there is wisdom in discerning the proper time to bring up a hurt or misunderstanding to your partner or even just in any relationship. A lot of times it goes over much better when they aren't super tired and stressed. It is so hard to control your own emotions, but the more effort you put towards this the easier it becomes. And sometimes you'll realize that it wasn't that important all along and you saved your marriage from an unnecessary conflict ❤ This goes along with taming the tongue, which is only possible by having the Holy Spirit.

[@estrellaaguirre292]

I AM INTERESTED IN THE SERIES YOU GUYS WANT TO DO!!! May the Lord keep using you guys!

[@JennaAnnis]

Yesssss been waiting for you guys to get into spiritual realm!!!

[@kelseygreene8807]

Yay for the mini series and an awesome topic!

[@christinagenduso8065]

Can’t wait for the mini series! 🤍

[@elizabethmcgrath537]

Just wanted to say yes, I’m interested in digging deeper into the Bible of not so often things talked about in church :)

[@emilyfrazier9648]

oooh the submission mini series sounds awesome!! but either mini-series sound awesome! always love hearing what is on both your hearts!

[@cambiumlayer1318]

You guys are so insightful. Subscribed!

[@ssiimasematimba2621]

Yesss yesss yesss would love to hear more about this topic

[@jordanbird7]

The mini series sounds so interesting!!

[@ElissaWalsh-c4g]

Yes to the mini series!!! It sounds SO interesting!

[@angel031899]

Yes do the mini series please!! Brian sauve the haunted cosmos is a great podcast to listen to about this as well and maybe gain some inspiration!