6 tips to show you appreciate him!

Do you find it hard to show your partner you appreciate the things he does for you?
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[@DrinkYourNailPolish]

I'm disabled and my husband busts his butt to provide for me as I can't work. This video was very helpful.

[@stickerlady1774]

Same 😭💗❤️‍🩹

[@stickerlady1774]

How do you clean cook ? 😢

[@gann007]

This video sent me back 60 years in time.

[@suburbanmomma9093]

Well sometimes we need to go back to what worked. Women want good men without being good women back

[@annamusike]

so so sad!

[@thelatentsexualfreak]

Marriages lasted longer 60 years ago

[@sweetsage198]

@@thelatentsexualfreak This!!!

[@ashleybellasxo]

I love this because gender roles are so tabu in today’s society!!! It’s so refreshing to encounter someone willing to promote traditional gender roles for once 😅 they’re not ALL bad and I think dividing the work in a traditional way can be really romantic and sexy 💋

[@BBGshop7]

There are fashionistas that tell us the no-nos in fashion, the relationship coaches that tell us the no-nos in relationships, there are the realists that call us out on our mess and tell us to get it together, ...and then there is you with a lovely combination of all 3. I'm less than a minute into this video, and I am loving the realness of it all. I will happily subscribe! Thank you!

[@gamerskillz4374]

I don’t ever leave a like for someone’s video. But this made me happy inside, as many videos as I watched about this matter some women didn’t really have good tips, it’s like your telling these women to treat their man respectfully in a calming manner, not kiss up to him or be his slave plus not deal with his crap and that’s what I appreciate, especially the praying part, that really got me. Thank you im a man by the way.

[@foreverrcocochenel]

Thank you for this content.

[@lilyisrael6038]

Great tip!! I’m so thankful that I know my role as a wife. I work a full-time job. My house is always clean, and dinner is always on a table for my family. I love to prepare my meals ahead of time.😘🤗

[@zeea6507]

Great video everyone should do what works for them. I do believe both are needed in the home to be tidy and awesome. I ork full time and contribute also but all depends on everyone's arrangements.

[@Mrs_Tobias]

Love this👌🏾

[@dracoarawn4002]

Tell me this woman or go back in time when this video was so I can meet a woman like this! It’s nice to be appreciated, too bad no one appreciates the other.

[@breannastewart7938]

Wonderful video!! Invaluable information that a lot of women refuse to incorporate...to their detriment!! Thanks!

[@kk-vo8wg]

I just wanna make him... Appreciated!

[@K.Adler1120]

I’m so excited to be a house wife 🥺 I work part time and he works full time. I want to make him happy and take care of his home and cook for him and treat him like a king. He deserves only the best

[@SOMEONE-jf4qd]

How old are you,if you don't mind

[@kimberleyspittel6429]

Omg this is actually pretty helpful. I deffentlly know there have been times I call my bf on his way gone from work asking when he will be home and ask him to bring home laundry detergent or cat food or something like that which I could honestlly get

[@alexs2351]

I agree with most things here except the home front thing. If we are working the same, expecting me to cater to him after im stressed from work is unfair. Now if im working part time or a housewife, that's a different story.

[@Strength_In_Wisdom]

Someones gonna have to clean up. Do it together, but you can't complain if it isn't done. If you can complain you can arrange

[@anfieldheroics4384]

Guess what else is unfair the fact we men are expected to pay bills,your entertainment,your food out of the home every little and big expense and multiple others things the least you can do is do something for him and cater to him because he caters to you 24/7 but no you women don't realise thata

[@OatmealTheCrazy]

@@anfieldheroics4384 please read to things before you reply

[@MrEOM41]

You should be single then 🤷🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️

[@MiranDoll03]

Aawww ur first rule is me😭 we work together but yes he does A LOT. A lot more than I do, I can do better tho! I want to show him how much I appreciate him!

[@sjministriestx]

Awesome video

[@annaelise6695]

I think this video is very applicable in households where the wife is (at least mostly) at home and there is an understanding between both partners that keeping the house is her responsibility and making money is his. However, I do think that it would have been good for you to point that out in the introduction of the video, as it took me some time to understand "the setting." For couples who both work, this seems unrealistic to live out perfectly, but I like the notion of applying some of the main ideas for myself. Like, I will be autonomous and take care of the areas of the house that are my responsibility well so it becomes one thing less for him to worry/stress about.

[@briandawsonii4451]

Finally a woman who gets it! 💙

[@produca]

Word🙏🏾

[@lolalassiterwhite1984]

My honey loves back massages. I agree with keeping the house clean. Also not bothering him about certain things. Either order it or go to the store and buy it.

[@shanacromwell2575]

I’m not even reading the critical comments because you are so right. Gender roles are important to be understood!

[@azariahsamaraisrael9640]

Question: Sis....DO YOU WORK A FULL TIME JOB?? Also? Do YOU HAVE ANY CHILDREN? Also, HOW LONG HAVE YOU BEEN MARRIED AND ALSO.....DID YOUR HUSBAND TREAT YOU WELL BEFORE YOU STARTED DOING THESE 6 TIPS? Or did he start AFTER you started doing these things??

[@user-no3wo5ob1w]

Mowriyah Amita this women is insane

[@bearbeartidy]

Agree , why woman need to serve the guy, we also hv a long day work? Why the fuck is woman's duty to make sure the home is all set? The fuck?

[@raymondkent5762]

@@bearbeartidy @Mowriyah Amita Because it is important to love your spouse. Women have responsibilities because it is important to show your love to your spouse. Men also have that responsibility but you are so narcissistic that you don't realize both have responsibilities. You all are idiots. Original poster says in caps "DID YOUR HUSBAND TREAT YOU WELL BEFORE YOU STARTED DOING THESE 6 TIPS?" You don't get it, do you? You don't realize for one second that women have responsibility as well. Obviously men have responsibility. No shit, Sherlock. The whole world hates men and screams male responsibility. But it probably never crossed your mind that women have a responsibility to also contribute to the relationship. You idiots think that men are the only ones who need to treat their spouse right. Take your head out of your self absorbed butt and realize that BOTH HUSBANDS AND WIVES HAVE EQUAL RESPONSIBILITY TO TRY TO MAKE THE OTHER ONE HAPPY.

[@raymondkent5762]

Take your head out of your self absorbed butt and realize that BOTH HUSBANDS AND WIVES HAVE EQUAL RESPONSIBILITY TO TRY TO MAKE THE OTHER ONE HAPPY.

[@anfieldheroics4384]

@@bearbeartidy well how about all men stop paying and financing everything for you and watch all you women be homeless you rely on your men why do you think women get more hurt when relationship ends

[@RBlatch4d]

Great advice. When the woman is working too I think this applies both directions overlapping. Thanks for what you said about HENPECKING. Woman can pick a man to pieces over small stuff that is big to them to a point men can’t complete their own thoughts. Also, thanks for mentioning God. If God/Christ is at the center of the heart that is marriage, it’s an easy win when self is removed. Nice makeup.

[@temitopekayode7421]

Love u gal... Cute cute... Our ogbomoso wife....

[@sheenugeorge1806]

Both of them have to do everything

[@sweetsage198]

We miss you on YT 🤍

[@thatguyisamazing6725]

If a man is the total bread bringer and the woman acts as if ahe can't be bothered with any of what you're mentioning - what would you advice be to the man, and vise versa

[@elliebells2796]

Rasss! Staff are no where to be seen. It is well. Definitely pray for your man BUT make sure you pray to the Most High God and cover your man Jesus name according to the will of God.

[@JAchica11]

Well, if I don't have to work because my man is so rich, then fine! Otherwise, it's shared responsibilities all around!

[@Thoraine1987]

Lol exactly what i was thinking! Like if you both work full time, how is it fair the man gets an easier ride?? :O

[@DR---]

I'm a man and it sounds to me that you are clueless about men. If you want a man to feel appreciated, then just ask him what you can do to make him feel appreciated.

[@nhampton1115]

100% argee

[@promiseagboro4343]

Lovely tips I am taking home with me. My Bishop showed us this video. Sis check out IUIC on KZbin and learn more about yourself and God’s kingdom. Shalom

[@Big_CJ34]

AP! Build the kingdom! Shalom✊🏾

[@michaelametaverse]

#SuperFoxAward 🏆

[@MissRoyalty99]

Cant believe these ridiculously archaic views. Many marriages these days are an equal partnership. Because you don't work, don't assume some women aren't working as hard and even harder than their men. Many of us are breadwinners even. Not all women sit at home cooking and cleaning, awaiting their husband's return.

[@RaisaHadiza]

I did mention in the video that we do work! and I do work!! but many work but expect the money they make to only be for them and not shared for the house hold and in that case....

[@abigailisrael7593]

Eve Lhasa you sound like an ostrich

[@lulukhaled9215]

agree

[@kanikabhandari5970]

Ur right. Gold diggers do need to obey the husbands.

[@James2swift]

That dog line was really disrespectful. If a man used the word B*tch with a woman all hell would be let loose. Rubbed me d wrong way.

[@abigailisrael7593]

She was definitely using that as an analogy, was it a poor one maybe. But don’t take it to heart.

[@gpsglobal3024]

Who cares. Disappear!

[@Big_CJ34]

It was just a metaphor my brother. Not calling you sensitive at all but US as MEN, WE have to learn to be a bit more open to things. Think about it...MEN love their dogs right? If you working your dog to get those muscles up, what do we do? We reward them and in return that dog will continue to be loyal to US. Let us all lighten up as men my brother. I'm learning to be this way as well in all aspects of constructive criticism. Just some advice that was given to me. Shalom✊🏾

[@chrisreggaelove]

My chick does nothing for me. She needs a lesson on being a woman

[@isakle8474]

It was about the time you said that men are like big babies l stopped listening to the advice

[@thelatentsexualfreak]

Wow I can't believe a simple video like this has so many people bothered.smh

[@Strength_In_Wisdom]

The truth hurts.

[@sabrinakelly7408]

I smell misogyny. 😂 damn why ya'll want to treat your men like children. Real men don't need you to be their mothers. I feel like i'm watching a video made for the fifties 😅 a woman ain't a slave. If both our names are on the house, and we both racking up the cheques, he can take a broom and wash the dishes and cook too. Girls, start treating yourselves as equals. Women didn't fight for their rights to keep thinking the woman is basically at a man's beck and call. ⚖️

[@ryans.9502]

if he’s working all day, employed and she’s not why’s it so hard for her to cook and clean while he’s making money and gone all day? and obviously times have changed so it can 100% be the other way around.

[@josemontalvo4313]

Who did women fight? And we are not equal signing up for selective services is still only done by men.

[@elliebells2796]

Rasss! Staff are no where to be seen. It is well. Definitely pray for your man BUT make sure you pray to the Most High God and cover your man Jesus name according to the will of God.

[@virgeleyp.4040]

Ellie Bells AMEEEEEEEEEEEEN