When you start healing , there comes a point where you actually start to think "do i really want my ex back?". That's when you gain your power back and even if they return , they have to give you a really good reason as to why should you come into this relationship once more ? What's the gurantee that they won't break up again ? I hope whatever I said makes sense to people who are healing right now :) Thank you Rory. Your videos are really good , practical and to the point.
@stepzu61016 жыл бұрын
After pointlessly working myself up over my ex making it official with rebound, I've come to realize that how could it ever be the same? Granted, if you got back with your ex you would both be different. The fact is that our exes chose to walk away and are in the midst of puppy love with someone that is not us. It's a hard pill to swallow.
@matrixband126 жыл бұрын
Im at the 11 month mark and I'm done.... No more gettting my ex back... She wasnt a great gf... being avoidant.. she is afraid of participating in a healthy relationship :( to bad for her
@thelegionary076 жыл бұрын
@@matrixband12 Bro.. Create a Bumble or Tinder account and get some new tail.. Seriously, to hell with our exes.. Karma will strike them sooner or later.. They will never find guys like us willing to work on themselves and become better partners.. They will continue to be miserable as they date bottom of the barrel scum. We're the prize, not our exes.
@matrixband126 жыл бұрын
@@thelegionary07 That is for sure bro... You are in NYC i believe... If you head down to the jersey shore... maybe we can get a beer. I blocked my ex's phone yesterday....We never had a relationship and i dont want that back... maybe someday we can bump ulgies if i can do it wihout emotions.. (like her)
@thelegionary076 жыл бұрын
@@matrixband12 I go to Point Pleasant beach for a weekend every summer.. My brother also moved back by Atlantic City.. I'll keep you posted man
@WOODY-REBELS5 жыл бұрын
You saved my life. Nobody has been able to reach me like you have. Thank you. You've helped become a better man, father and friend. Respect.
@justqueenie14806 жыл бұрын
The grass is not always greener on the other side!
@theseattlegreen18715 жыл бұрын
Sometimes its more stinky.
@angelicabernardino38104 жыл бұрын
its never.
@christianespinosa38854 жыл бұрын
Or the grass is too tall they step in shit.
@martinemaryhernandez7293 жыл бұрын
Most times it is though!!!!
@andrewcruz75952 жыл бұрын
@@christianespinosa3885 ironically ex got in a rebound ....he looked nice on outside ..just like tall grass ... Deep down though he was a shit bag.. She ended up going out and eventually they broke up . Then she got into a 2nd rebound . All within 2 months
@Solocup736 жыл бұрын
It sucks, but I'm going to fix myself first before I get into a relationship with someone else. More power to her, puppy love fades. God bless them both.
@sanlaw5845 жыл бұрын
How could you ever trust them after this though?
@itsmesuryat75703 жыл бұрын
So true
@andrewcruz75952 жыл бұрын
Exactly. ..it hurts so much in the beginning ..but eventually things plan out if you just walk away
@Freddy19008 ай бұрын
Never take them back!
@liveoutloudhd6 жыл бұрын
The greatest feeling is when you move past caring what your ex is doing. I just completed the "relationship inventory" exercises and "walking away" ritual I learned from the book "Getting Past Your Breakup" by Susan Elliott. My energy and thoughts are completely different now, and I feel so much better...
@RoxyAKADrakesWife6 жыл бұрын
No contact works! Took 1 month of NC for them to start contacting me again. Now I'm just waiting for everything to fall into place.
@burcutekinalp16 жыл бұрын
Roxy AKA Drakes Wife and what happened?
@ayazmalik52606 жыл бұрын
A really good and educational video. You are an all-time nice and empathetic coach. A game-changer. You’ve enriched my life in terms of relationships. Thanks Rory 😀🙏
@TheLoveChat6 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad my content is able to help you!
@ahday59635 жыл бұрын
Listening to it while on the way to gym. Thank you so much
@ahday59635 жыл бұрын
thank you the love chat! i lose 22 pound since last month the first time i listen to your video and hit the gym right away 5 times a week. It really does make me feel so good about myself and see the changes of my body day by day and plus working lot harder after my breakup.. new job opportunity and lots of more coming events from vogue i-D and nowness megazing wanted to take pics of me (really glad i hit the gym so im more fit now! hhah) also i produce and Djing eletronic music and friends of mine are asking if i have time to make my own gig ect. So many good things coming by and im really happy i have the patient to work on myself and practice self love... very important infomation: if you really work hard and keep your eyes open. you will see there are chances out there, and you have to grab it and work on it. my father always tell me "chances are for people who are prepared. " as long as you really work it for yourself and somehow you will become more happy than ever and successful in your life. and when you reach that point. you gonna be like... im actually.. quite happy just to be by my own! best revenge is being more happy and successful than your exs lol. i can do it! so does the rest of the listeners as long as you focus on yourself because in the end of the day. YOU are the only one who can make yourself happy and you will start to validate your own worth than the world can give it you
@fuzzypanda1684Ай бұрын
I was already in great shape when she left me, so continuing to go to the gym does nothing for me.
@A500g6 жыл бұрын
Cool finally somebody spoke more about rebounds! My ex is in no conact and blocked me 3weeks after the break up everywhere. l wasnt needy or anything. l hv tried to reach out in the last 6 months 3x just to ask how is life, she never replied. Last night l saw her in Paris - the city of love with her "rebound". They are together since 4months now what l know. The guy speaks her language, has a good JOB and looks clean and sober :) She looks happy with him. l still believe we had very special realtionship the last 15 months traveling the world, BUT somehow l see less and less hope that she will ever reach out to me. l hope you speak more about this tonight! see you!
@BlackLabelSlushie6 жыл бұрын
A500g why do you mention that the boyfriends "looks clean and sober?" Were drugs/alcohol a reason for your breakup?
@A500g6 жыл бұрын
yes also, l drank almost every week 1-2 bottles TULLAMORE. But she also drank with me :) but l cant cope with the hangover, so l was " rude" from time to time she said. l dont see it like this, l just say the truth what l think always. She was to sensitive.@@BlackLabelSlushie
@BlackLabelSlushie6 жыл бұрын
Whiskey got me too. I've cleaned up my act though :)
@Danash20136 жыл бұрын
I really hope my ex and her rebound works out!
@yeet68766 жыл бұрын
Well I’ve accepted that my ex ain’t ever coming back after I saw her last month after about 7 months and haven’t talked to her since that night and she’s been with the new guy for 7 months now I don’t think she would ever really second guess about getting back with me if things ended between them I have worked on myself but I still feel there is room to improve as always
@Taffy954 жыл бұрын
Update ?
@yeet68764 жыл бұрын
taffy cosmin new guy and her didn’t last loot she basically used him to get back at her mom which is dumb on her end and well we eventually started talking again and hanging out for a year she apologized for the way things ended she denied us dating again and recently told me she thinks we should stop talking cuz of her parents and honestly man when she told me that I honestly didn’t care lmao mentally i had been moving on when her and I were just friends but eh I already knew she was full of it and I’m better off without her in my life I don’t really think of her much and when I do I don’t feel anything just disappointment in her at the end of the day I did all I could for her and if she can’t see that then that isn’t my problem it’s her loss it took me a long time to tell her I trusted her and even then I didn’t completely when people do you dirty it’s hard to trust them again cuz she’s a huge liar and no the grass isn’t greener on the other side like at all lmao
@Taffy954 жыл бұрын
@@yeet6876 sorry to hear that...you deserve better. Thank you for sharring your story.
@yeet68764 жыл бұрын
taffy cosmin I mean it’s whatever I’ve moved on and it’s not the end of the world life goes on
@L12A16 жыл бұрын
Rory. You are a total and utter god send! Thank you SO SO much. The help you are giving me and others is priceless. Thank you! Liza x
@stepzu61016 жыл бұрын
"Your relationship skills just led you to a breakup" -insert Leonardo as Gatsby meme- Rory, can you make a video on attachment style? Seems like a lot of us (or cough just me) got swept away in the wave of anxious/avoidant relationships.
@hcim6 жыл бұрын
these videos are fantastic and got me through my first ever real (10 month) relationship that ended last month, i thought i wanted her back but u should never want someone back that abandoned you. I'm moving on and fully healed and i never thought we would break up and boom it happened. I'm glad to say that i don't care to hear from her again and i will never break no contact :)
@matthewgalan69376 жыл бұрын
Please make a video on your ex leaving you for someone else 🙏🏻
@judyclark94916 жыл бұрын
Love your videos. I always thought my ex was in a rebound relationship. He cheated on me and is now going with this woman. You said something that made me think, that when someone leaves you for someone that it is different than a rebound. Can you do a video on either how to heal after being left for someone else or on whether there is a chance to reconnect when your ex left for someone else. We were together for 6 years.,it's been 6 months since the break up. Trying to move on, working on myself, but this pain and hope still is present.
@DianaVanessaful2 жыл бұрын
Update??
@judyclark94912 жыл бұрын
@@DianaVanessaful Wow. Its been 3 years. Time definitely flies. My ex and I are still apart. He is still with the woman he cheated on me with. I moved to another city. Lost 70 pounds. Got a new job. Still working on healing. I would love to report that im in a relationship but sadly not. But its ok. I'm doing ok. Thanks for asking.
@applelibradilla3 жыл бұрын
I was on this channel three years ago and now I’m back. Three years ago, I was the dumpee but I was the one who jumped into a rebound relationship. And he’s right. It usually never lasts. For me it lasted for 10 months and within those 10 months, I would contact my ex about having troubles with my new relationship. It was very toxic. It was hell, mostly because I never healed. But after that rebound ended, I took the time to heal and work on myself. Two years later, I found myself in a relationship again and after 3 months of it, I got dumped again. It’s only been less than a week and I’ve been self reflecting a lot and crying to release. Journalling also helps a ton. But I recently found out that my ex is in a rebound relationship and I also found out that he’s been telling bad stuff about me to other people and distorting what happened. I didnt react to it. It seemed like I expected it. So I reached out to my closest friends, told them, and asked them if they could help me move on. It’s only been a week. I feel like I’m the bigger person for doing self-reflecting and taking the time to heal. But I also know that he chose what he’s doing because he’s in pain. I’ve been there. Right now, I’m doing my best to work on myself. My anxiety levels are in a rollercoaster but I understand that it’s normal for it to fluctuate. These videos help calm my anxiety. With time and with a lot of kindness to myself, I know I can get through this painful season. 🤍
@fuzzypanda1684Ай бұрын
Never forget to take the difficulty setting you're living on into consideration. For me, after 3 years together, everything was fine. She was still all over me and loved spending time together. Then she told me she cared about me so much and would never hurt or betray me. Until then, I'd been resisting trusting her completely because I'd been hurt before, but when she said that, I knew it was time for me to trust her 100%, so I did. Later that SAME night, she met a guy who gave her butterflies, and left me 6 days later. She literally told me she cared about me so much that she'd never hurt or betray me, then met the guy she'd hurt and betray me for later that same night, the SAME day that I finally gave in and trusted her 100%. That kind of horrific timing can't be bought or learned, it's something the universe curses you with from birth.
@Louie_7776 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Rory. . You always inspired me for all of your videos. My boyfriend left me for someone else. We have been 7 years in a relationship. It's really hurting me so much.
@bobbya69094 жыл бұрын
Ma. Luisa Bautista how are you doing now honey?
@DayaTom6 жыл бұрын
He's in one. I wanna block him. I wanna block him so bad.
@promisys6 жыл бұрын
Daya Tom if the thought of looking at his social media bothers you I would block him. My ex started dating someone two months after ending a LTR and updated her Facebook of them together and I immediately blocked her. I was in the healing process and that just opened my wounds again.
@DayaTom6 жыл бұрын
@@promisys Hey. Good for you! Pretty much the same case with me. I saw him dating a new girl. And it didn't look healthy either. A day or two after I wrote this comment I blocked him. And I can say I'm finally over him!! After the longest 7 months. Hope it's over for you soon as well.
@carolinaballen-taborda16864 жыл бұрын
@@DayaTom It is being 4 months after I saw him last time. almost the same time he got engaged... hope I can get over him soon... I miss him... did he contacted you again?
@DayaTom4 жыл бұрын
@@carolinaballen-taborda1686 Hey, no he didn't and I didn't want him to anymore. Hope you can let it go in the most kind way to yourself. I just made a video on how to move on of tips I learned from this break up. If he got engaged to someone else after 4 months.. he might not be the most healthy person to be with. :\
@MentallyPhil6 жыл бұрын
Can you make a video on the advantages/disadvantages of no contact for somebody who doesn't use social media including their ex? And/or no common circle of friends?
@chrisn21254 жыл бұрын
Great suggestion. This is my situation too.
@TheLoveChat6 жыл бұрын
Who am I gonna see at the livestream on Nov 14th at 9 PM EST?
@kadijahadj16916 жыл бұрын
Probably me cause your voice is a cure for broken heart !!!
@ellem4music1566 жыл бұрын
The Love Chat I wish but I miss it everytime. As I'm in India.
@justepiales24402 жыл бұрын
My ex's rebound just contacted me a week after the break up. Apparently they've been hanging out throughout the week and she's already given her body to him. The rebound added me acting like I was his friend(didn't know he was the rebound) he got talking about relationships and kept pushing me and I told him everything about no contact. Then he shoved everything in my face. I blocked him then my ex contacted me saying that she's going to drop off my stuff soon and if I was alright? I just said yes I'm alright. Back in no contact we go
@sootyspark7281 Жыл бұрын
Have been in NC for over a month and firmly sticking with it. I don’t want him back but want him to reach out so I can tell him that - what’s wrong with me?!?
@razankalifa60626 жыл бұрын
thanks Rory..you are the best
@GrapHixRO6 жыл бұрын
do a video on what if they miss you and wanna reach out but don't because they re afraid that you might hate them
@alpamomo6 жыл бұрын
Happens all the time
@GrapHixRO6 жыл бұрын
@@clara7920 yeah i ve watched all videos on this chanel and they are great, but i'd still like Rory to do a video specific on what i suggested
@milagrosrodriguez41366 жыл бұрын
Great one I will love to see a video on this
@BlackLabelSlushie6 жыл бұрын
You're good Clara :)
@empowermentplan54765 жыл бұрын
GrappHix if they miss you it’s their bare minimum effort to drop you at least a text. Shorter than this respond I’m writing to you on my phone. If not then you should hold up to your dignity and be strong. It might just be your imagination whether they miss you or not. Because you never will have solid evidence.
@Pdacree777 Жыл бұрын
What if she's lying about being in a relationshe once told me she would do that to see how much that I really cared for her and I go well that's cruel and she's all know because once he came back I would tell him I really wasn't in a relationship I just wanted to see how you would respond that's exactly what she's doing it's sad.
@jluck13996 жыл бұрын
My ex got into a rebound relationship immediately after ours (of almost 3 years) ended and already practically cheated on him with me, I know hers won’t last and chances are she will be back at some point. But will I take her back, that’s the real question...
@stevenwylie61754 жыл бұрын
Did she come back?
@KabeloMotshabi5 жыл бұрын
Dear sir I've been in a relationship with my ex for a year and 3 months .My relationship with her was just fine and when it ended on a good side we never fought or anything .she just dumped me for someone who are church mates and after she said it's over I asked her to give me a reason why she left me and she did never give me a reason .She gave me her reasons after a long time .And we ended 2 months ago so .what can I do course i begged and nagged after the breakup and am still on no contact rule right now and she's bad mouthing me ,telling the whole world on social media that she wil never be with me .And her new boyfriend once text me threatening me that I should stay away from her and respect that .thats when I have any contact with her
@jeremymanick56846 жыл бұрын
What if your in rekindling stage like 3 months. She tells people that your her boyfriend like family but sometimes reminds you that were not together, should you ask for a commitment or wait until she does? What if you suspect she is speaking to other guys but is lying to you an telling you that you cant speak to other girls. Some days things are good then some days it isnt, long term relationship, hardly even talks much even if i try talking,sometimes i wonder if it even makes sense putting effort
@fuzion41345 жыл бұрын
I was with my ex for 5 years,she just left 2 weeks ago out of the blue and was very unfazed by it.i was there for her thru everything,car accident and I nursed her back to health,paid everything to hold the family down and she even went to jail for 2 months and I still was there. I saw she was in a relationship since October which would mean we were still together and I know she has gone places and has been intimate with him and its driving me insane thinking about it.i started no contact and it lasted almost 2 weeks and she reached out sending me pics of us and our animals and saying she misses me and trying to call to see me.i dont know what to do,someone please help,it hurts so bad and honestly knowing she has already been with someone so fast and probably while we were together I dont think I could back to the way things were ever.
@theotheo5906 жыл бұрын
devastating until u realize no one has anyone locked, you didnt had anyone evan when u were in a relationship, and no one will fully fully comit to someone new without taking another peak at you.
@seanrooney1704 жыл бұрын
My ex is at university. I don't know if this guy is just a new friend in her friends group or if she is slowly starting to date him. He looks like me by the way. She told me she wants me in her life as a friend after some time past and after university maybe we can try again. I'm going to decline her friendship when and if she contacts me about friendship and to say we had something amazing and if she changes her mind let me know
@tbri55114 жыл бұрын
Hi Rory could you make a video specifically on when they leave for someone else?
@VlogsWithGareth6 жыл бұрын
My Ex got a rebound 2 weeks after left. still with her Rebound rushing love 2 YEARS on I Miss her lots but doesn't look like they will End or she will Come back? OMGG No Contact 2 years!! Can't move on 😔
@ulkalina6 жыл бұрын
I feel your pain, I’m in no co ta t going on two years myself - I don’t know if he is with somebody - it would kill me to know... I wonder how much can I really change? I will always be me. And it seems I will always love him. I get tears in my eyes at some point during the day every day, I keep busy but they will come back. I’m proud of myself when I feel strong and do not cry, but the tears always come back and the pain is just a part of me now.
@VlogsWithGareth6 жыл бұрын
@@ulkalina I'm glad it's not just me unfortunately My Ex blocked everywhere! So Painful can't see anything 2YEARS on I wonder if she misses me I cry most day days . But all I can do is work on myself And post on social media Do No Contact keep working on your life
@VlogsWithGareth6 жыл бұрын
@@ulkalinaJane Women's Pov Do you always Think or miss ya Ex even after a traumatic breakup??
@ulkalina6 жыл бұрын
G SHORTS:) Rory did a video on it - of course she thinks of you, she doesn’t have to admit it to anyone... She can’t forget you or delete her memories. And the fact she is in a relationship - dunno, there are many reasons why she would be... is it forever ? We don’t know... I don’t know how to get rid of that pain... it’s always there. I always cry in the shower, and usually when I wake up. Then I carry on without bigger problems. It is three that we can’t let go of the future - the plans we had, not the past ...
@ulkalina6 жыл бұрын
G SHORTS:) I unfortunately do, it pains me that I gave him so much credit, time love and attention - 14 years! I actually crossed the world to be with him! Literally - I went from Poland to SA - and when he was breaking up with me he told me that it wasn’t a Big deal ... No one ever hurt me this much, nothing ever hurt as bad as him leaving ... And yet I cry every day at some point ... I now know I cry for what it won’t be - not for what it was...
@queenladydi86295 жыл бұрын
OK so you said this does not include if your ex broke up with you to be with the other person. What do you call that then? and are you just screwed and there is nothing you can do about it? None of this applies?
@giglet525 жыл бұрын
I want to know this too. 😪
@queenladydi86295 жыл бұрын
Lisa Y I’m going to assume that we are not going to get an answer, it’s already been three months and he still hasn’t answered. I truly love his videos but this one I’m not sure what to think
@starbucks21014 жыл бұрын
i was a rebound for 7 years she found someone who is very familliar with her ex.
@keylanicanton55744 жыл бұрын
So me and my ex were together since high school. In high school we've stayed for 7 months then grew apart 3 years later. On June 2019 we got back together and lasted five months. On October 31st he admitted to cheating. Then it gotten to the point to where he had to choose. He chose her over me and us with her. He broke up with me in November and got together with her days later around that time. They have now been together for 4 months however I'm pregnant and it's by another dude. When I told my ex he says he wants to be involved since my child's father decided to not be there. While he is in this relationship with the girl he cheated on me with, everyday my ex constantly calls to check up on me and my unborn child. Does my ex want me back? Does he feel guilty? And does he have some sort of feelings for me? Now that he's with the rebound the rebound girl doesn't want to have intercourses with her. So I'm in the process of being in no contact.
@celestenova3382 жыл бұрын
I think that my ex broke up with me for someone. Any videos on that??? 💔
@monicaAdkins12076 жыл бұрын
Rory, does that include ex's that are legally married for 15 years, cheat on their spouse and divorce to be with the new supply?
@maxximiz34 жыл бұрын
Rory, I know it could be head games but I am not sure if my ex is in a RR because her and I remained friends for months after the breakup, and now she is dating someone and has now deleted me from social media. So I was wondering if this means she is happy and has moved on and will ever come back.
@gritNglitter3016 жыл бұрын
Can you make a video on your ex dumping you to go back to his ex ?We were in a 4year relationship and he went back to his abusive ex
@empowermentplan54765 жыл бұрын
GlitterGrid lol she might not be that abusive then
@aliacoo6 жыл бұрын
Mine hooked up with someone who was fresh out of a divorce, less than three months after he broke things off with me. What are the odds for a double rebound working out? Will they both be working harder to make things work?
@myrtlejennings22094 жыл бұрын
My ex dumping me has been very painful and stressful.
@ameliajones87274 жыл бұрын
Do you want your ex back???
@TitoRN6 жыл бұрын
What if your ex thinks you have moved on, she told my mom and friend that she loves me but I am better without her, that I moved on already, broken up 4 months, this is the 2nd time with NC, 3 weeks NC so far, I ignored her phone call 3 weeks ago. Any tips? Thank you!
@HeroesField3 жыл бұрын
Is it just me or is it just sick to replace someone so fast? I mean i was with my gf for 6 years and after a week she had another guy. Yo i am out, when u comeback i am way better.
@zach5076 жыл бұрын
Hi Rory! Could you make a video about if an ex left you for someone else, as well as what they could be thinking/feeling as a result? Thanks :)
@furiogiunta58156 жыл бұрын
I second that!
@diannebarrett5716 жыл бұрын
Thank you 👏
@Professorclown5 жыл бұрын
You totally nailed it - exactly right. It's all (ironically) based on reverse psychology.
@HungTran-gx7cf6 жыл бұрын
it's been a month since i did no contract, I'm scared that she moved on (she just deleted all of our pics together on instagram today) Should I keep no contact? My friend who is a girl tell me that if I don't reach out to a girl first, she will just move on...
@Kidflash23235 жыл бұрын
If your ex DID leave you for someone else, is there a chance that the new relationship will fail? My ex emotionally cheated on me with a co worker and despite what everyone is saying to me, I still want her back.
@bosschedda_6 жыл бұрын
I think she is , but no actual proof. Not even gonna bother looking to see. Just gonna pull back and better myself. That's all.
@newjackcity19216 жыл бұрын
I Am Chedda yea in same situation don’t have proof but i think i know who
@tyrent19876 жыл бұрын
What if she has been seeing this other guy and thinking about him Other guy 12 years older ( 42y) And within 2 weeks she went out on a date with him We were together for 15 years. She left a letter and wanted to divorce Rebound Daddy issue
@beatricedangelo7855 жыл бұрын
Rory, do you think that our exes, after they've blocked us on every social media (I was acting needy) stalk us from time to time? ee had a short term relationship and don't live in the same city. I try not to stalk him but it happens like once in a month and I think he has a rebound even if I don't have proofs. it's been 5 months since we broke up (he said it was because of his father's death)
@amayanycole72506 жыл бұрын
And ! I tried contact I say two months ago and I told her I wish she’s doing well , she said for me to stop texting her and to leave her alone so this is like stubbornness and idiotic emotions taking place with her
@matiasdvoskin39852 жыл бұрын
No it’s you
@topcat20333 жыл бұрын
Hi 👋🏼 - what if they left you for someone else & are still together 1.5 years later? He's been with her longer than we were together at this stage. Is this still considered a rebound or monkey branching? I've emotionally never recovered 😭
@keithbrown2425 Жыл бұрын
Maybe you were the rebound
@topcat2033 Жыл бұрын
@keithbrown2425 Yes, chewed up & spat out. It's been 3.5 yrs now
@matrixband126 жыл бұрын
my ex told me she got into a rebound to forget and to get over me... after the rebound, she decided to be "alone" .....
@matiasdvoskin39852 жыл бұрын
Cool you don’t need to be with her after some other dude was all up in that…..right?
@Floral528 Жыл бұрын
I hope the rebound fails lol 🤷♀️ Not because I want my ex back but because f*ck them for devaluing me so!😊
@emsrosalejos22606 жыл бұрын
Is it rebound if my ex left me for someone else?
@xsmokeysealx60256 жыл бұрын
no
@leont40623 жыл бұрын
Yes
@unolovingvirgo83634 жыл бұрын
Hey
@jamesleegalarpe61696 жыл бұрын
Good day coach just asking What are the stage of rebound relationship?
@kyalibuzz59326 жыл бұрын
Can you make a video on if you are the rebound relationship but there was still something special there..
@newjackcity19216 жыл бұрын
Gregory White if she went back to her ex he prob will mess up again just sit back and wait it out an go no contact
@Rectifiable5 жыл бұрын
What if we’re the rebound?
@ra1zoninja5 жыл бұрын
Hi The Love Chat! I need your toughts on something. Ill be brief, soo me ex gf left me 2 months ago and went straight to dating her coworker. I've been in NC for a month now after trying to contacting her (no beeging or pleading, just trying to talk to her). So anyways i went on a date yesterday (too feel better nothing serious) with realy attracting girl(havent post my location or anything) after a coffea i suggested we go for a walk around a lake, and we bumbed in to her. I think she saw us before i did her, as we passed by i friendly said hello. Is this a good thing or no? I'm in panic mode a little bit, cuz i have a little hope left in me that we can be together. Thanks for your videos, continue doing great work!!
@bigdowner996 жыл бұрын
What if I was the rebound relationship?
@bigdowner996 жыл бұрын
They had a fiancee 1-2 months before we started dating. They ended the relationship 6 weeks in very abruptly, no fighting or anything. They told me they are taking 5 extra hours a week at work and that they didn't have time for a relationship anymore and wanted to be friends. I told them I understand and support them and walked away. Been near 2 months now and we've talked very little since. I wasn't mentioned to their friends or family either so I'm just assuming
@bigdowner996 жыл бұрын
@@clara7920 as far as I'm aware, her working more was the cause. We were still in that puppy dog phase so I'm very unaware if there was any other reason. In terms of no contact, I texted 2 weeks in and said i didn't get my promotion at work (when we broke up they said let them know if I got it) and said they'll always be a next time and left the conversation there
@shaneloc8314 жыл бұрын
Ex is keeping her rebound a secret. What could this mean?
@ameliajones87274 жыл бұрын
Hey man do you want your relationship to be fixed??..
@ameliajones87274 жыл бұрын
His work is perfectly okay.. and what you wish for will be yours just within 3days . ....same way he helped me before..
@ameliajones87274 жыл бұрын
☎️W-h-a-t-SAAp H-i-m 🖍️🖍️
@janina83094 жыл бұрын
What if his ex before me is his rebound?
@kewl800i4 жыл бұрын
Did he return to his ex? It appears that you are the rebound
@santinogoring88606 жыл бұрын
Do a video on Veronica Isles she's a dating coach.
@TheLoveChat6 жыл бұрын
I went to her channel and saw "Money Visualization techniques *Warning, works fast* , and "How to make someone marry you" Stay away, my friend.
@Calida23084 жыл бұрын
3 days after xD no time to feel the loss of me
@waltervila336 жыл бұрын
So if they left you for someone else that doesn’t qualify as a rebound relationship I didn’t get that part.
@razankalifa60626 жыл бұрын
@@clara7920 🤣🤣yes I think you could do that
@jupiter-walk54616 жыл бұрын
I think that might be "grass is greener" since the ex already have emotion for someone else while in a relationship with someone. Its still kind of oxytocin and all the other stuff taking place in the brain which later run out and they realize or decide who is better or if they are toxic the ex will repeat the same toxic pattern. Idk its my intake on the video
@waltervila336 жыл бұрын
Clara Bell-Kaff she jumped into a relationship less than a month with her boss after breaking up with me
@razankalifa60626 жыл бұрын
@@clara7920 start your own coaching channel
@jupiter-walk54616 жыл бұрын
@@waltervila33 clearly thats a rebound then, since she didnt invest her time alone to fix herself
@adriansanchez49816 жыл бұрын
So what does it mean when they leave you for someone else? My relationship was about to hit the 6 year mark (ironically the same day as the guy she left me for birthday). The month leading up to our break up she was talking to this guy a lot and told me at one point I’m the only one she’s ever been with and she didn’t want regret losing us but at the same time didn’t want to regret not taking the chance to see if there is someone else. After a month she chose to go see if the guy is the one. She’s blocked me on social media, posted photos of them on her Instagram with hearts from what I’ve been told. I haven’t talked to her in 2 weeks and we’ve been broken up for a month and a half. Prior to the 2 weeks I had been (like you said not to) her friend in responding to anything she asked me for but that was it I didn’t reach out to her or carry on conversation with her when she reached out to me. I didn’t know not to do this I had just recently ran into your channel and it’s been helping me a lot. Any advice on this would be great, thanks.
@Alex-mu6ow6 жыл бұрын
12 years together, broke up 5 months ago . She's now in a relationship , has introduced him to our daughter, has plans for a holiday in May , and is all over social media with him ... boo
@yanna46275 жыл бұрын
my ex back with his wish his
@candywillard64526 жыл бұрын
My ex and I broke up almost 3 months ago. A month into the breakup I find out hes hanging out with my now ex friend who we both work with! Of course she wants do be with him, she jumped right into hanging out with him as soon as I told her! They are sooo different and shes a definite downgrade! I just dont get it!
@Walteramirez6 жыл бұрын
First!!!! Yaaaaas Kween
@martinemaryhernandez7295 жыл бұрын
How dare anybody refer to someone’s Relationship as a Rebound just cause you can’t handle the Truth !? you can’ muster up the words “ I WAS DUMPED OR I WASNT GOOD ENOUGH I WAS JUST ENTERTAINMENT “ it is ,what it is and the sooner you deal with it then you’ll be a better person💯💯
@amayanycole72506 жыл бұрын
It’s been about 5 -6 months and .... she’s been on social media answering everyone who asks about me and she says she’s not worried about me but every time someone mentions me , she goes off or she specifically says her new girlfriend is way better then me , so in April she met this girl after I moved away and they started to get close as your girlfriend I will not pick and choose your friends as long as they know their place and don’t put their heads and ears in our business it’s all good but they started to catch feelings for each other so constantly she would lie about things for example I wouldn’t get a text back unless it was in the morning time she would always text me “ good morning “ plus she’s in track so 8 hours of school plus 4 hours of practice, I understood she was tired and needed rest after the day ! So I gave her that ... I wish I never did she took advantage and was always on face time with this girl and always talked to her she was slowly replacing me and she said she NEVER would things got more hectic and now they’re together we broke up in the endings of May , and they got together no latter then 2 weeks after , I didn’t jus jump into the relationship with her at first I needed to build more of a foundation and once I thought I was doing the right thing I wish I never told her how I felt if this was gonna happen ! But now she’s constantly calling me crazy which is a known fact for everyone who knows me , she called me immature and childish and she says her new girlfriend she told me not to worry about was nothing like that remind you the new girl sees her every weekend , they make 24 hours on the phone and I know because they always screen Shot stuff on post it on social media both of their accounts are private and I don’t follow them anymore , I could care less about what they say but my thing is this girl has always been jealous of mine and my ex’s relationship and now that she has it to herself she’s still bitter ! my ex was the one who hurt me and she’s mad at me and throwing shade like no tomorrow... I want us back but this negative energy is like the blockage to getting back together
@adamhunter42576 жыл бұрын
Hey. My ex is in a rebound. She reached out after almost 2 months of nc my side. She asked how is my mum doing and when is her birthday. I asked myself wtf, is she serious?:) it was over a week ago and I did not reply at all. Should I write anything?
@ProjectAchieva6 жыл бұрын
Her rebound relationship is probably not going so great, so she is "indirectly directly" contacting you!