7 "Holy Girl" Habits That Changed My Life | HEALTHY CHRISTIAN HABITS...to be *that christian girl*?

The internet today is flooded with images of "that girl" and somehow we all feel like we need to be her. There's even a Christian edition of "that girl" dubbed "that Christian girl," but here's the thing...we don't need to strive to be like "that Christian girl," we need only strive to be more like CHRIST. Scripture doesn't tell us to be like "that holy girl;" it tells us to be more like the one true holy GOD. In this vlog-style video, I'm sharing 7 habits that have actually changed my life, because as I've committed to them, they've helped conform me more into the image of Christ. Pursuing healthy Christian lifestyle habits certainly isn't a bad thing, but we need to have the correct heart posture in doing so - and I'm going to be sharing exactly what that is in this video. 🤍
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“Since it is written, 'You shall be holy, for I [God] am holy." | 1 Peter 1:16

[@kacinicole]

Remember...the goal isn't to be like "that holy girl," it's to be more like the one true Holy God 🤍 comment your favorite habit from this video!

[@jackelineyepez15]

Thanks so much for this Kaci! So many golden nuggets ❤❤God bless

[@melissamoore9764]

My favorite godly habit is talking to God all through out the day. My favorite way to move is taking walks. Thank you very much for sharing this video of yours with us Kaci. ❤ God Bless You and Your Family.

[@pamelarenee8314]

Thank you for talking about this! I felt ‘THAT Christian girl’ was wrong and I’m glad I never followed it. The goal is to walk with God and know Him

[@asifmuniruniverse7732]

Hi, it's doesn't means that but I wanna to ready in same time both way

[@raeford1127]

All of them were really good 😊. Put if I’d to choose it would be making sure I get that rest on the sabbath and talking to Christ t/o the day :). Does your partner partake on any of the habits separately or together? Would love to see that come together 😊

[@lindasuebell8308]

I so wish there were females like you when I was a young adult! I’m 69 years old. Some days I feel older and some days I can’t believe I’m this age. I am happy to say that no matter your age your videos are for all ages. I’m enjoying them tremendously and growing in areas of my Christian walk more daily. I’m thankful that God is equipping you to do this type of work. It is, I believe a calling on you and your husbands lives. I love watching your precious baby growing and I’m proud of you and your husband in your parenting. Your family are in my prayers.

[@dailybibleverses5898]

praying for you!

[@박-r3d]

Kaci, I just wanted to let you know that your videos helped me get back to God after drifting away for over five years. I was in faith until I decided to move to Korea in 2017. In the States, God was a regular part of my life. I always had my Christian radio in the car, I loved my church, and every "bless you" after a sneeze reminded me of His presence. IMO Korea is not an easy place to be secure in faith. There are almost no connection to Christianity in anything, most people are either athiest or buddhist, and being kind/loving often leads others to bullying or walking all over you. There is so much drinking and nightlife, and most people view these worldly joys as a natural daily habit kind of thing. There is so much fast fashion and glamour and the importance of appearing your best at all times. there is so much to care about while living here that God was often pushed down from my priorities. Then so much time passed and I got lost. Once I started watching your bible study videos and read up on the websites you recommended, I enjoy my QT with God every day and I pray a lot more sincerely. I feel so much more security and peace in His presence and I'm sure He used you to call on His lost sheep. Thank you and Thank God for bringing me back, and I pray my husband will become a believer too in the future. ❤

[@mimisksk5]

wow your testimony is so touching, God bless you! may He continue blessing you, and always keep him #1 no matter the circumstances🤍

[@lmao.pureee]

😢❤❤❤❤

[@CinemaDoll137]

this was an insightful comment!@@Givebackthescarf

[@ritaberil7455]

You're a great mother, wife, and an example of a godly christian woman. I know it's all by His grace but your obedience and spiritual discipline is evident in your life. Thank you for pushi g us to be cliser to our awesome God.

[@kacinicole]

It truly is His grace...this is such an encouragement to me, thank you 🤍

[@the.undividedheart]

Loved your focus on being like CHRIST not like “that Christian girl.” Glory to God! - Selena 🤍

[@kacinicole]

Yes - that is the only goal! 🙌🏼😊

[@aleamilr]

watching you do the "mom bounce" throughout this video reminds me of this past fall when we were picking out pumpkins for jack o' lanterns and my husband noticed that I had started unconsciously bouncing my pumpkin. That instinct is still strong even tho9gh my youngest is now seven! lol

[@ilibertyi]

My youngest is now 27!! I still do "the sway" in line at the grocery store! LOL

[@anjalisartistry870]

When we know that God loves us, we physically manifest it by loving ourselves as we are redeemed and are God's children

[@shannonlynnelarry]

I’m only a couple minutes in and I’m so thankful you said what you said, that we are to be like Christ, not like the girls who are posting the vids. I think a lot of people needed to be reminded of that! Thank you!! ❤❤

[@shamisopasi]

One thing I love about you Kaci, is that you ALWAYS point it back to Christ! Christ is the centre and it’s His likeness we should be striving for 🙌🏾

[@Homemaking_Africa]

Its always about JESUS

[@kacinicole]

AMEN 🙏🏼

[@rochelleperry2242]

@@kacinicole How to get back in Christ I feel the life sucked out of me and lost everything..... going back into foolishness. I was well made And in Christ an Youth Congress and let satan blind and talk me out the godly life deceived. I hate this ruin what God had. I used to hear from Him and I think I just sat down fussing and had severe depression but had got back. I didn't understand these sins I was a well known RN l&D nurse and was in church but just did stupid. I need God and want heaven but don't understand what I did and where I went horrible wrong. I can not depend on my parents I hate I ruined this......Yiu all are in another church. I had miss my time here an coming back mess me up. I needed to stay in one place.......one ministry.

[@Shrinerrachel]

I loved this 🙌🏼 This video screams “follow me as I follow CHRIST” Thank you for pointing others to Christ and not to yourself. So good.

[@jennifercontreras4876]

Kaci your videos have been motivating me so much for the past couple weeks, every morning I drink my coffee and do a bible study with you and write everything down in my journal I love the way you break everything down. God is amazing 🙏🏻❤️

[@kacinicole]

Wow this is humbling to hear and makes my heart so happy...praise God! 🥲🤍

[@Cassidy_Wells]

Thank you for this girl! Ive been wanting to incorporate more holy habits, but I quickly ended up missing the point. I wanted to be more rooted in Christ in all of these things and not myself. I prayed over this today to submit my authority to Him, and the rest just falls align naturally I don’t to force these things to be perceived in a certain way because that’s not what I’m doing it for. So thanks for this video I needed it!

[@jessicawarner7634]

I wear my baby almost every minute of the day and have to do tasks all day wearing her as well. I almost never see that on youtube. Stand up Bible time for me too! You've made me feel known and seen in a way, like there are no excuses for not spending time with God.

[@gabriellebarbir7039]

I’m due with my first in just a couple weeks and watching your postpartum journey has been so good for me! I find your approach to be so appropriately focused and realistic. Thanks for sharing!

[@faithituntilyoumakeit]

I love this video and your content! One thing I would like to add is to spend intentional intimacy with your spouse, if you have one. God intended us to have another person in our lives that was half of us and neglecting that relationship robs us off the gift that is. My husband and I are working on building a marriage ministry in our church and this has been the number one thing God has put on my heart. Intimacy happens every day and it may look different for everyone, but we all need quiet intimate moments with our spouse to keep the enemy out and God's love in. ❤ just got my mr. Pen highlighters and pens today! I'm very excited to start using them!

[@leslieplus3136]

I'm having such a hard time practicing more holiness in my life. I do amazing for awhile then temptation seeks its way to my life & I notice it afterwards. Or sometimes I noticed sin in the moment but my flesh is weak and I give in. I wish & pray my own husband would walk with me during my journey with god but he isn't completely ready.. he believes in god but he thinks that's good enough. I need prayer !!! I've been reading and studying the Bible. Highlighting and making notes, reading commentary and talking to other Christians about certain topics which help alot, but im still living in sin and I don't feel worthy of God and his mercy for me. 😢 Watching videos like these help me get back on track, but today I feel like a hypocrite 😕 anyone have any advice??

[@pisicacutecat4869]

I'm praying for you and your husband. 🙏🙏 Focus on the Family here on KZbin has a lot of great advice for marriage.

[@andreahowell3282]

Just pry and wait on God. "Be still and know that I am God." Psalms 46:10

[@michellecuneo2427]

Renew your mind! The Bible says there is no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus! I used to feel what your feeling and do still from time to time, but the Holy Spirit taught me to trust the Word on that subject (my worthiness/enoughness) over my emotions. Every time I felt like I failed God I had to practice dwelling on Gods love and grace and accept it was all I needed as I learned to accept that I wasn’t perfect. Now my emotions have followed since my thoughts are in line with His Word. Also, for sin issues the Word of God is enough too! If you’re struggling with bitterness let’s say (which I did) know what God says about this and renew your mind, I had to literally hate bitterness because it was an offense to the God I love for it to loose it’s power. The enemy sets up strongholds but Gods weapons to tear them down are His Words!

[@michellecuneo2427]

Also just heard this study recently and highly recommend for wives…no matter your husbands status ❤ kzbin.info/www/bejne/mqOWiJaclLpleM0

[@Nixie_the_Pixie]

This is why I really appreciate you - you're honest and you ALWAYS make sure the priority is God.

[@nehajadhav9684]

7 habits : 1) Spending time with Jesus every morning by reading bible 📖 2) Expressing Gratitude😊 3) Exercise 💪 4) Nourishing our bodies 🍎🍳 5) Pray through the day to God 🙇 6)Cultivate Christian Community 👥👥 7) Priorities Rest 😌☺

[@gethsemanebibletime]

So grateful there are inspiring godly women like you outhere. That you’re not leading people to comparison by “holy” girl habits that in the end are kind of superficial. I love that you are encouraging in explaining what the rooted qualities of those habits should be. Thank you always for being encouraging Kaci!!

[@jch12341]

Love this Kaci!! So thankful that you reminded us that being "that holy girl" isn't the goal-being more like Jesus is. And I love all of these habits! The hardest ones for me are honestly moving my body and nourishing my body. I know it will come with time and I am so thankful for God's new mercies every day!!

[@221bornot2b]

Have you done any videos on how to grow in your love for God? I’m kind of a legalistic Christian. I’ve been going by the book for the majority of my life, I try to be as black and white on the rules as I can be, but I struggle to feel God’s love and feel passionate about the faith in a way like new converts do. I struggle with getting my emotions where they need to be, like God is just a lifestyle or a set of rules instead of a relationship.

[@lmao.pureee]

7:45 folding dishes ❤😂😊

[@hyefndt4241]

Thank you for this video! Another way that you can move your body aside from working out, is actually doing everyday activities like household chores or running errands! There's this term called NEAT (or non exercise activity thermogenesis) that basically says that everything we do in our daily lives is a form of movement/calory-burning activity :))

[@stephaniemejias5733]

Kaci, your intro to this video was all anyone could need, absolutely spot on, and what my heart needed. I've been scrolling through these youtube videos about "that Christian girl" and taking peeks at some and I keep getting this unsettling feeling in my belly, and I just wonder why am I feeling unsettled by what some people are showing when its not "bad" at face value. You gave words to what I couldn't. Thank you for pointing us all to the image we are truly trying to replicate, you're doing great work.

[@manders8484]

Awesome video ! Getting healthier through workouts and eating better is the one I am not good at right now!

[@nickbroadhurst5924]

You can do it. Focus on foods and exercises you can continue long term.

[@jasminebumgarner1]

Yes! I love this, Kaci. Brilliant title - I think it will draw many who need the reminder that, “holiness is Christ in me” ~ including myself. Also, thank you for the ideas for Christian disciplines to get in rhythm of consistently doing. Could you share the resources that you’re using to learn about nourishing your body and proper nutrition fits God’s design? Or anything you’ve researched that would be helpful in healing/getting healthier physically, emotionally, and mentally?

[@kacinicole]

Ah I'm so glad to hear that, that is the prayer 🙏🏼😊 hmm that is a great question! I feel like there's so many resources I've learned from, but I would recommend the freely rooted podcast as a helpful starting point!

[@jasminebumgarner1]

@@kacinicole Thank you!

[@olivialindsey]

Kaci thank you for always bringing TRUTH to youtube!!!!! 💗💗💗

[@nicolewilliams317]

Thank you kaci for this, I needed this to remind me to strive to look like our Savior. Judah is such a beautiful baby

[@paulathefairy676]

Thank you Kaci, I have just discovered you and am enjoying the videos, and it’s lovely to see Judah in them 🥰 I changed my morning routine several years ago and I spend at least half an hour in quiet time and doing yoga, this gives me spiritual connection to God and starts my day right with gratitude in my heart 🌸 I am a busy mum and nurse in England and everyone rushes about, starting our day right with the Lord gives us peace 💓

[@anjalisartistry870]

Being that girl isn't bad but adjustments are needed

[@HazelKaliati]

Kaci you videos are just so refreshing!💕May God continue blessing you. There's so much fast paced content but your Content speaks God!. Thank you so much

[@kacinicole]

Praise Jesus...this is so encouraging to hear 🥲

[@AlbertSmith-ou5uu]

Happy for you that you allow the spirit to lead you into the light.and follow Jesus.

[@bea5687_]

Thank you so much for making these videos. They have been so motivating and convicting as well. Please continue to make your content. It is spreading the gospel ❤

[@RelishThisMoment]

What a motivating video! I take a lot of walks too. I cannot help but reflect on God creations around me and how they relate to life. ❤ There is something so healing about being in his nature and finding stillness in a busy world.

[@Ivonysierramartin]

Praise God for this video you made. So much depth and pure understanding of why we should live a particular way. I love how you constantly reminded that there are things we take on or do that may be good but ultimately we are to be molded and transformed into the likeness of Christ and once we do the good fruits will show. May the Lord bless you and your channel. I loved every single habit you shared ❤

[@sarahobrien3752]

Thank you so much for this video💛 We recently attending a new church and my kids I've got well-adjusted and are attending and involved in leadership, for my self it's been a slow adjustment. 💛 Thank you for your encouragement!

[@sibesokalaluka2991]

I appreciate you talking about sabbath we really do need it. I keep thinking of it as a good motivator

[@hey3855]

Kaci, I love the quality of your channel. I'm always getting confirmation from your videos. God is so good, and so intentional. Keep spreading the gospel, and being a living example of who Christ is. Sometimes we are the only bible a person will read, so it is important that we live our lives the way God tells us to. Many blessings to you and your beautiful family! ❤

[@melodisaki91]

This is great, Kaci! I love how you point us to Jesus and not to ourselves. This is a great reminder of why we should be mindful about how we live our lives on a daily basis. ☺️

[@nesay1993]

I just bought from Mr Pen on the 10th. Only If the video came out 2 days earlier lol

[@HoneyLeigh]

I am so happy that I came across your channel, you seem like such a wonderful person, and I love how Christ shines through you, God bless xx

[@estherbyoona1572]

Lovely,lovely sharing and encouragements...Thank you so so much for your sharing...What I really want to implement more is being consistent with spending time with God and taking care of myself and my body...plus not going on my phone immediately I wake up...that has been such a struggle for me lately...❤❤

[@Search4Cherise]

Walking & Dancing are my favorite ways to workout! 😍✨🥳

[@anjalisartistry870]

We must know that we are not perfect and that Christian habits will discipline us.

[@divinelyfocused]

I enjoyed this so much ❤ had me thinking throughout the entire video about where I can adjust my life to put things back in place. Blessings my dear sis in Christ

[@cathyandresiak]

Excellent content and very important! Very smart young girl!! God Bless her!!

[@billiemobley6424]

I love this message today,thank you so much!

[@misskaykayRSA]

Loved this ❤. God is good 😊

[@audreygeorge9003]

I absolutely loved every moment of this video! So many great reminders and great motivation, thank you! YT algorithm put this video in my feed and I’m so glad it did. 🙌🏼 new sub here!

[@lediavth]

May God bless you and your family 🤍

[@itskristiialy]

Grow with Jo workouts are my favs!! Mainly the dancing ones lol but she also has walking and strength workouts.

[@jonessagurrea2778]

Thank you for the tips Kaci! Appreciate the Godly wisdom that this video conveys. God bless

[@joane6772]

Thank you so much for this video, what a wonderful reminder of what is needed daily to be balanced in God's love ❤️

[@LightSeekers777]

The world tells you to eat what they say is healthy, but this is ever changing. God tells us what IS FOOD, and what IS NOT FOOD. If we are truly interested in being conformed into His image, and set apart (made Holy) for all of God's good works, we should obey what He says to eat.

[@Lifewithinioluwa]

Thank you so much for this! ❤

[@leighasvideos]

Girlfriend!! So. Much. Truth. In the first 2 minutes. ♥️ needed this reminder.

[@haceeetordero6840]

This is so refreshing and such an encouragement to me! Thank you, Kaci! God bless you!

[@BryannaGordin99]

the explanation of the title itself made me like the video and subscribe! I can tell this is gonna be good!💞

[@kishab6759]

The one thing I think people don't get about Christianity is that at the end of the day it's not about did we limit social media today? Did we read X about of scriptures today, did we remember not to curse today, did we say the our Father and other prayers.. it's did we TALK to God today. I never knew I could do that. I mean beyond saying a pre-written prayer then asking him for help if I was really in ajam. I thought he had better things to do then listen to me for an hour talking about my day..my goals for the day.. the top things I needed help with etc. I thought it was all about "did I do the right things today.. was I nice to the crabby neighbor.. did I remember a meal prayer.. did I use every minute of my day wisely.. etc. I never really knew I could talk to God and that He WANTED me to talk to him. Now I do it all the time. Morning, night, in between. And I'm hearing him better.hes leading me to different pastors online that talk about relationship with him and knowing him not just knowing about him. That changed my life prayer is talking to God. To Father, Son, Holy Spirit, however you address God but just talk to him. If you can't set apart some time one day you can talk to him while doing dishes or folding wash. Just talk to him. Your video reinforces that your life doesn't have to be this perfect model of perfectness to be pleasing to God.

[@alexandratorres8784]

I truly love everything you do, you're amazing.

[@Diamondaaliyh]

You're amazing and truly Inspiring!!! God bless you Kaci 💗💗

[@dacia6247]

Thanks Kaci for showing us to be one and abide in Christ- not man

[@adriannelea1]

Judah is sooooooo adorable!!!

[@dariankilpatrick5564]

I just got some Mr. Pen highlighter from your storefront a few days ago! They just came in and I can’t wait to use them studying today!! 💗💗

[@kacinicole]

Aw yay - they are the best!!

[@elizabethsummermeado]

You are such an inspiration 🙏💜

[@teresaeckert1267]

Thankyou for this video. I needed it. I need a earlier bedtime on the week days so I can g e t up for work Mon. T HRU fri

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[@kayb328]

Great, great, great video!

[@wanitaguzman5292]

This is 🔥🔥🔥

[@nicholewalker8592]

Taking a sabbath

[@aaronhamermusic5597]

Thank you for this video.

[@robynlovisa5096]

Soo helpful 🌸✨

[@Nunuwon]

Such an inspirational video ❤thank you

[@Aliciae2009]

❤❤❤ AMEN!!!!!

[@AlbertSmith-ou5uu]

I see that the father had made your dreams come true.

[@sherriwheeler9771]

New subscriber ❤

[@anitawells3705]

Love it ❤️

[@practicalchristianity1182]

Have u seen ashley hetherington??? I think yes. I think it is ok but not our main goal.

[@LightSeekers777]

Taking our THOUGHTS CAPTIVE unto the obedience of Christ.....For the mind that is set on the flesh is hostile to God, for it does not submit to God's law; indeed, it cannot...... Our thoughts should ALWAYS be in obedience to God's Laws if we are FOLLOWING CHRIST. Read Psalm 119

[@NewCreationInChrist896]

Romans 10:9-10 “that if you confess with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. For with your heart you believe and are justified, and with your mouth you confess and are saved.”

[@laur2139]

Your baby is super cute!

[@teresaeckert1267]

Your baby is adorable

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I use mid liners and my church pen

[@marylee2672]

Amen!

[@hailieB527]

I like to do yoga

[@tapyamnonangministry5414]

Nice

[@marissawalters3785]

Great video Kaci!

[@kacinicole]

Thank you Marissa 😊

[@scaj76]

❤

[@asifmuniruniverse7732]

believe me in it way you'll became better Mom of your child

[@pezzle8542]

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[@Homemaking_Africa]

Clever tittle

[@kacinicole]

Hehe thank you!

[@feli9337]

Is it just me or do i love copying eyebrow movements in every video?😓 Im so weird

[@lucygale336]

😊

[@eden123-m21]

💖👌

[@bakedvegan6379]

What is Small Group?

[@pamelamorrisonn]

Evening Bible studies once a week around 7pm usually at someone's home. The one I just started going to is every 2nd Wednesday though..

[@asifmuniruniverse7732]

I have to go now bye

[@DiscipleShaynePlaylist]

Babies and boobies! What more could a person want? Oh than with an extra added green smoothie too of course!!! Wahoo! Oh and hugs and cuddles and... tickles and someone to say good morning to thats relatively normal & caring and kind. Nose Boop! Jesus is Alive!!! ⛪️💕🏃‍♂️💨🌍

[@adelamacedo1439]

You make me dizzy, every time that you hold your baby in videos you are jumping.

[@pamelamorrisonn]

I couldn't concentrate. Had to rewind few times and still missed stuff..

[@viljamaria316]

Love this video!❤ so important habits🙏🏻🤍✝️ love the first habit the most, awesome way to start the day by reading God's word♡ thanks for making it clear that it's not about the aesthetic or trying to be like someone else, it's all about getting closer to God and having a real relationship with Him🫶🏻