7 Killer Jokes That Make People Love Being Around You

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Today you’re going to learn 7 easy ways to make people laugh and love being around you.
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0:00 - Intro
0:26 - #1: Say the opposite
0:51 - #2: Use looney tunes logic
1:44 - #3: Double down on your joke
2:59 - #4: Double down on someone else's joke
4:43 - #5: Use the reverse defense
5:40 - #6: Use the fake out method
6:19 - #7: Use go to jokes
7:35 - Find your personality and charisma style
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[@dredhead117]

“I said to my son ‘what’s up buddy’ cause I don’t know his name cause I’m never home” 😂😂😂 lol that’s golden

[@johnthomson3248]

lol

[@pamelot]

Really got a big smile from me! HahaHAH. 😁

[@RR-sr7yo]

That sounds like something my best friend will say to her son when he's over his baby. Not even a year old yet :p But he's trying harder to grow up. He promised k bye

[@lolacern5008]

@@johnthomson3248 😢

[@keepinitreel4306]

Kevin Nealon is a master of the craft.

[@graceguerzon8347]

1. Say the opposite of what they expect. 2. Looney logic 3. Double down your joke. 4. Double down on someones joke. 5. The reverse defense. 6. The fake out method. 7. Use go to jokes

[@tobubirole3097]

This is one of those situations where help is if no help. Still have to watch the video for better explanation

[@jangofett7593]

Just told my friend I am the one who murdered his mother, he laughed so hard he cried.

[@anaymakan6989]

@@tobubirole3097 facts. How’s someone gonna know what the fake out method is if they haven’t watched the video

[@graceguerzon8347]

@@tobubirole3097 I just list it for me, if you don't know what's on the list you can watch the video hahaha

[@cnervip]

8. Be yourself.

[@Rich-xz3lo]

“Know your enemy” was the wittiest line here 😂 4:30

[@tinalewis6782]

I’ve discovered that when I say something ridiculous but with a completely sincere expression and speaking tone, everyone cracks up. This worked every time in the office. Co-workers two aisles away would laugh (shows that everyone listens to everyone in an office, just FYI.)

[@Sandman60077]

It's called deadpan comedy.

[@andresbarriga5305]

That's what she said

[@CrabbyO]

"I DO know cars! That's a car, right there." 🤣 perfect delivery.

[@HeyYaKnow]

4:00 it's called running with a premise, very common amongst funny people. However, like you said, there's a fine line between playing along and stealing the spotlight.

[@judylandry302]

We all could use more laughter in our lives. Thanks 😊

[@billiswillis8293]

A clear indicator of how miserable the existence of too many people is.

[@pizzaparkerhotdogmaguire3225]

Allahu Akbar

[@mohammedabdel-hadi9114]

What is looney tunes logic please?

[@NazriB]

Lies again? Butt Of Jokes Minnesota Breastfeeding

[@vytasivanouskas]

Good set up I used today at the doctors office with the receptionist, "Do you have any other questions?" I couldn't resist, "How do you fix a cracked pumpkin?. She, ???. With a pumpkin patch." This was T-ball.

[@geloradananrlyeh8495]

Q: How do you repair a broken tomato? A: Use tomato paste. 😊

[@user-dx9my1en2d]

@@geloradananrlyeh8495 q: how to fix a koala? a: lilo and stitch

[@TempFile8907]

Love to see a break down of popular Dungeon/Game masters and how they hold attention and be entertaining for extended periods of time.

[@olivianord2565]

Like the people who direct the jungle ride at Disneyland

[@YiannisANO1911]

basically its people who are genuinely passionate about something and believe it or not when someone nerds out about his passion, in the right setting of course, its a very likable thing.

[@colorsandcats]

@@YiannisANO1911 it takes a lot more to be a charismatic DM than simply a passion for the game. That's why most DMs aren't as charismatic as Mercer, even though they're probably as passionate

[@adankohnhorst829]

woah, super interesting. I'd love to see a breakdown of people who are able to captivate and speak for extended periods

[@soloboardgames]

That is actually really easy. People are there for a purpose and want what is being given. It is true escapism

[@SeanLunny]

Self deprecating humor is always a good tool to use in moderation

[@erenjeager5290]

Would it be wise to be the butt of your own joke the first time you meet someone or once you get to know them more?

[@SeanLunny]

@@erenjeager5290 I would definitely do it in either scenario - it’s a good way to break the ice with someone new and always a good way to make an old friend laugh

[@SevenHunnid]

I love to eat food while smoking weed on my KZbin channel, to cure people’s boredom :)

[@puertoriconnect4611]

Yeah, there’s a way to do it. Some people do it too much and it’s awkward. Especially when women roast themselves for how fat they are. It feels like there’s no right way to react to that.

[@MetaITurtle]

Oh only in moderation? Oops..

[@user-ss3xw1ow7n]

This actually happened. I just finished completing a job for a body shop and needed a RO number for my invoice. I asked the service writer for it. He went to look it up and said, “I can’t even remember the guys name”. I said jokingly “ Lipshiitz?” And he responded without hesitation “no, but my butt whistles”. I laughed about that for days.

[@zyxwut321]

Basically, being funny is about being likeable. Being likeable is about being honest, humble (but not scraping), generous, curious and fun. It's about seeing the absurdity of life in new and surprising ways but still having a fundamental hope underneath it all.

[@RussellClausse]

In my opinion forcing techniques is difficult, but there is one that is plain simple and natural which is being able to find humour in yourself. It is S Tier in making people laugh, and it doesn't feel forced!

[@BananaRaid]

What's the technique to that?

[@RussellClausse]

@@BananaRaid it takes long term practice but its essentially just to not take life too seriously. Its almost like self degrading humour, laughing honestly about your insecurities... but you must learn to love yourself 🙏

[@BananaRaid]

@@RussellClausse I was making more of a yolk. But now with your heartfelt answer I have egg on my face.

[@RussellClausse]

@@BananaRaid oh hahah ofc i just cant see your face through the screen lmao

[@BananaRaid]

@@RussellClausse Wouldn't be eggactly what you'd expect. Okay the puns are over. easy.

[@WanderTheNomad]

These are like the things people know, but also don't know. Like gravity or oxygen. Nearly everyone is experiencing then at all times, but very few people actually look deeper into it, point it out, and explain it.

[@nuddkor]

Although I agree with these pointers for how to joke and how they land, the thing I think I am not hearing is "how do you do this in real time" cause honestly if you think about this too much or try to plan for these situations you will likely fail. The key is what your motivation is. If you go into a conversation with the intent of making people like you it will likely fail. Instead, go into every conversation with the intent on cracking a joke. Don't worry about if people like you just looking to crack a joke. If it doesn't land, then don't worry about it and try again (within reason of course). My 2 bits.

[@nuddkor]

Also, playing off of somebody else's joke isn't stealing... it is riffing. And it is mutually beneficial.

[@johnmalcolm4822]

What about someone getting tired of never getting a straight answer from you, and who eventually realises you think your charisma is more important than their need to be taken seriously?

[@blootooth00]

Practice makes perfect too, and you're totally right about making the focus the joke. I used to be a tourguide, and I also worked the ticket booth before the tours. I decided both as an ice breaker, and because I wanted to get better at wordplay, I would make puns of people's names. This might sound annoying, but people absolutely loved it, and i started a lot of conversation this way or got people laughing before we started my tour. It started out pretty difficult to come up with the puns, but after a week or two, someone would hand me their credit card and it would take me 2 seconds to think of something, and it also made other puns easier because suddenly my brain was on the lookout for that kind of wordplay. I feel like these actors get a lot of practice time in interviews, so their real-time whit gets a lot of exercise. Absurd humor like Ryan uses about calling his parents cannibals is the same way, it gets easier to think of jokes that his that right balance of absurdity and good humor when you do it often.

[@IsraelMedrano]

You answered your question on how to do it in real time, with your last sentence. You just gotta practice: the more you put your self out there and practice these techniques, the more effortless it will become until being charismatic is just who you are. Kinda like riding a bike, at first you have to think about every move and you will fail, bit you learn from failure and eventually you won't even have to think about it anymore, it just comes naturally.

[@andypezcovers]

I work in sales and make cold calls and your approach here absolutely works. I always try to break the ice with cracking a joke... it works 98/100 times and the other 2 times it's a little awkward but nothing too bad.

[@blakewittler5646]

I started watching this channel so I could help my inverted friend talk to people and this has been very helpful in my own conversations

[@artthomas8017]

If he's upside down there's a built in set of jokes.

[@Jeph629]

Maybe just turning him over on your way to English class would be more helpful.

[@ittaiklein8541]

@@Jeph629 & Thomas - you both got it wrong ; he's not inverted; toes over head - he's inverted; Inside Out ! - Now *THAT* should really get a laugh.

[@quasar917]

This is really great. Im an introvert and i unconciously doing this tricks just to stay out of trouble. Just laugh whenever someones joking, go with the flow add something witty when u think of something and enjoy the rest of the conversation. When the topic runs out transition to another. If conversations taking too long says youll go to the bathroom and leave. Create excuses for later hahaha

[@fixed-point]

I have one that I've used frequently for at least a decade. Almost always gets a chuckle. This was a recent example: Them: "Who was that actress ... she was an elf in Lord of the Rings?" You: "Cate Blanchett?" Them: "That's the one!" You (deadpan): "Never heard of her."

[@TheMmAaTtZz]

my favourite version of this is as follows: "Who's that character from that cartoon?" "the one with the straw hat, scar under the eye, made of rubber?" "Ye, him!" "no idea who you're talking about"

[@mac8911]

Thanks, going to use this

[@davidspence2072]

This was a "Zero phone-checks" video. So good!!

[@ashboheme]

I find that I tell the absolute best knee slappers of a joke when I’m comfortable and don’t put pressure on myself. When you aren’t constantly looking for an opportunity, the opportunity will come to you

[@rickylyon3846]

The first technique is my go to every time and it works like a charm every single time. I just think "what would be the worst answer possible?" and go with that.

[@anonymouxx9261]

I understood and have done and knew all of these things and it boosts my confidence to see that I've been on the right track all along :D

[@johnnyregs2378]

No matter how many of these videos I watch I'll never be as cool as Tim Olyphant on Conan in a Tshirt, shorts and flip-flops.

[@ratsalad178]

these tips are super helpful, thank you!

[@callen8908]

It’s funny to recognize how we already do some of these things, without consciously thinking. It occurs to me that I say “what could go wrong?” dismissively like the proposed plan/idea (maybe my own) is just…fine, and NOT filled with obvious risks or blowback

[@philliprobinson7724]

Hi. The essence of humour is in taking people's minds in a different direction than they'd expect. Their laughter is like the air escaping from a balloon that has been popped. Cheers, P.R.

[@macroxela]

2:33 another good thing about this technique is that you can make mistakes with your jokes and people will still laugh because they already see you as a funny person due to doubling down on the joke. Conan clearly forgot his punchline but it still worked because of that technique.

[@hgb0005]

Conan didnt forget anything

[@macroxela]

@@hgb0005 look at his body language. It's obvious that he did, he just recovered from it well enough that many people miss it and think it's part of the joke.

[@hgb0005]

@@macroxela So he forgot the punchline 5 seconds after doing the joke the first time?

[@macroxela]

@@hgb0005 it's kind of obvious he did. Not sure how you don't see it. He literally said so as well.

[@panteleymonschekochikhin-k1978]

Looking like he forgot the actual phrase and saying random funny stuff instead IS the punchline. Holy cow how much of this channel's audience are actual lizard people?

[@QuietMindsIntrovertChannel]

LOVE This - glad I found this channel. Thanks! ❤😂

[@SamiiRSMT]

I realized that I do all of those mentioned. But that's only when I'm in a good mood which is very rare since I'm depressed

[@cognitivestate9512]

Yeah, I'm the same. If I'm in a devil may care mood, I think I am consistently funniest person I know in real life, but I HAVE to be feeling it and in the mood, which I am mostly not... Especially lately.

[@Nicole73672]

Relatable!!

[@luisabalan63]

love this video! can you do one in the future that explains looney tunes logic in more detail or maybe shows more examples?

[@Andrew-fy9wu]

You have to have watched looney tunes.

[@rob99201]

1) go to your local acme store and buy an anvil. Did you see a cat? 2) find your a nearby high cliff and carry the anvil to the edge 3) throw the anvil over the cliff edge 4) aren't you glad I skipped over step 2.5 to tie the anvil to your ankle? 5) since you are still alive, return the anvil to acme. Realize you did see a cat. You did! You did! If you understood all of these references, hum a little Merry Melody.

[@oldrrocr]

@@rob99201 no, you have to get the ACME anvil by mail order.😁

[@BestMoviesInLessTime]

This video is spot on, great tips and observations

[@K_Hammond]

When I crack a joke and people start laughing, I usually say, "Oh, you think I'm joking?" And continue a little bit, and it has always got people cracking up even more. Just be sure for the joke to be so absured there's no chance you'd be possibly being serious.

[@hugostiglitz47]

I use compliments with a very serious tone then turn the situation into a funny one, works every time. The idea is to create tension then relief

[@rishiraj2548]

Excellent piece

[@FlyingJustToFall]

Post Malone i always find to have the most interesting and laid back interviews. I also enjoy the stuff with Will Smith, but thats ofcourse quite a sensitive topic.

[@BucketWheat]

I guess my Brother and I "Trained each other" because we both do this constantly, whether it is conversation between us, or Us with others, or when we are 'on our own'... Complete mis-direction, or sometimes 'self-defecating', or twisting something up, or playing on the LITERAL meaning, or alternate meaning, rather than the INTENDED meaning. Even in the driest, most 'business type' situations, I was in "Sales" or Retail management, most of my career... and I did this with Customers to reduce the stress and feelings that I was trying to convince them to do something they were uncomfortable about.

[@samuel-uj2qn]

2.7 million people want other people to love being around them.

[@John.Christopher]

2:10 "...But thankfully they BRAISED me right"

[@pneumocystosis7115]

awesome vid! I’ve learned a lot

[@justb3418]

This video is an inspiration to search for 'laughter in movie scenes'. It's cool to see all the laugh in different genre movies.

[@bmilano1580]

This is why I thank God that there is Internet! I needed this all my life!!

[@WackLantern]

I been seein come clips of Jackie Chan on my feed recently n he such a kind hearted man. I’d love to see COC make a video about how to be genuine/kind/charismatic/etc like JC

[@BananaRaid]

If one needs to watch a video about being genuine then how genuine could one be ?

[@NickAbatino]

What a wonderful channel! Liked, subscribed.

[@nala3038]

This guy who, when his wife turned 40, told her - time to trade you in on 2 twenty year olds. SHE said - Honey, you're not wired for 220!

[@AlexTamayo.]

I had a sister once! 😆

[@tocov]

Who's that with Craig Ferguson at 6:45 HOT DAMN

[@TheDylls]

Doubling down on someone else's joke is my forté! I've had more than one person I had just met tell someone I knew well "I'VE never been funnier than when I hang out with him!" Lol

[@robertsmithington8892]

Double down on someone else’s joke can easily go south, unless you’re really funny. Too many times, I say something that gets a laugh, and an unfunny person tries to add to the joke and it bombs, or they wear the joke out really fast. I only have two friends that will crack me up doubling down on my joke, but these guys are the kind that will have you in tears. most people can’t seem to pull it off.

[@edu-kt]

Oh Tina, my celebrity crush since SNL and my favorite comedic actress thanks to 30 ROCK.

[@DanielA-nl9nv]

I feel like I do a lot of these naturally when I actually feel comfortable with somebody. But how do I actually feel the want to share my humor with other people when I'm starting to hate the world???

[@coopertrump1185]

You can even sometimes use these strategies in arguments, it will make the other person like you more and feel more open to agreeing with you

[@fatemaa8983]

So smart!!!

[@Deanforbes]

Appreciate how simply these types of jokes are laid out.

[@muumarlin1731]

This channel is consistently awesome. Doing God's work:)

[@tulusmarbun7060]

This is really great. The first technique is my go to every time 😊

[@Introvertedalpha]

We are a huge fan of making a joke to break the ice! Love the ones you shared!

[@UncompressedWAVmusic]

Very funny thanks.

[@Angelus_Mortis1123]

Very cool. 👍

[@geetsuri9257]

hello I really like your content and im a recent subscriber past 1 month and I have a question which is according to psychology its easier to make people laugh who already like you and there is no dount if you are able to make a person laugh he or she will like to be more around you , how would you go for a person you are meeting for the very first time and make them like you. if you had already make any video pls send a link in the reply if not pls make one

[@calvinbarrett437]

I greatly enjoyed your video thank you

[@LV-md6lb]

Joining this university on January first on 2023! Hold me accountable.

[@MortyMortyMorty]

I have watched a lot of self improvement channels, some were average, some were alright. But at the end of the day... There is night.

[@VidarMilhouse]

Deep

[@CaptChrispy]

Not exactly the same but I've got a great way to start a job interview : try to find something interesting on the way to the interview, if you don't see anything, use something from a recent time and pretend you just saw it (you can admit it later if you want). When you come in, especially if you're late (which you shouldn't be) start talking about this interesting thing at the first chance you get. Chances are the interviewer will at least want to hear you out for a few moments and at best let you talk for a couple of minutes. Now, you're much less nervous about talking, you feel some control, you seem a little interesting, you make THEM have to reconfigure and maybe they like you a little.

[@nancydrew3854]

Could you give an example please?

[@CaptChrispy]

@@nancydrew3854 It's been a while and I had some good examples at that time but I've forgotten them. You could say "I was just watching this video on the bus about 7 things to make people obsessed with you and one guy said it's a good idea to go to a job interview and talk about something interesting I saw. So I'm talking about that comment. Do you think that's a good idea?"

[@jamestk656]

A lot of this looks like it would work as long as you remember the principles. That Craig Ferguson joke though ("Her: That's a chick book!" Craig: "Oh you know, 'Know your enemy'."), just seems like pure on-the-spot wit 😂 That's just born from experience.

[@tolu2k]

I love your videos

[@jmartin4955]

Timing is everything.... Steve Martin was an expert at timing.

[@servicemanager8329]

Is that your cousin, Jack? I'm onto you!

[@commanderrico8892]

I've actually thought of the loonytoons solution a while ago, and it wasnt till now that I realized it. I use a ton of their jokes or phrases all the time

[@LiveDeerCamByCajun]

thanks for the video

[@glowfille]

telling jokes to make people laugh is not easy.. great tips!

[@djtdawg87]

Hey guys can y'all please, please do a video on James Spader's character of Raymond “Red” Reddington from The Blacklist, i mean not only is he a total badass but he's also super smart and confident and doesn't care what others think of him at all, he would be great to do a video on i think.

[@dobrilabijelic1631]

James Spader's character on Boston Legal too!

[@djtdawg87]

@@dobrilabijelic1631 Never really watched that show but if it's James Spader then heck yeah.

[@devinbelland4928]

Tbh as a person that has developed my own unique sense of humor that has influenced much of the world the thought of this video being found in my internet history im worried the validity of authenticity towards my sense of human being crafted independantly mostly the lack of recognition for my brilliance frightens me if people were to assume watching this was at any means a part of enhancing my abilities rather than sight seeing into how my life and some of what ive done would be like in hearing a scientific+like retort of something gifted to me by god a long time ago before laughter existed. Tbh.

[@GuitarCoast]

Great video!

[@guinness718]

The best humor is dark. Some of us are fortunate enough to be born with it.

[@monstdnt]

5:50 .. too good ~!

[@orangy8549]

Who is that

[@stingerprints]

do a Paul Walker video. There's tons of chill, candid interviews where he is displaying so much low-energy charisma

[@jeskow19]

His energy is suuuuuuper low......now.

[@DomCOuano]

for doubling down on someone else's joke. it's not stealing the spotlight. more like taking your turn to share it.

[@RocTheReaper]

The first step: Actually be funny.

[@mstarfen]

When I say “Hi, how are you doing today?”, they usually respond with “Good, how about you?” Their response is very polite, however; it may or may not be truthful. I have two different replies that always get a smile and sometimes a genuine chuckle or more. I either say “Well, I have to admit there’s always room for improvement” or “Oh, probably about medium”. I like being able to bring a bit of joy to others in the smallest ways.

[@jellybean9551]

I just realized how much I I double down on other people's jokes or what they say, and most of them time it works

[@theprinterdude9687]

OH YES I remember i always do the nr. 4 one Its like a thing i just do constantly lol

[@theprinterdude9687]

Yoooo the first one is so simple yet so effective I gotta make that a habbit and part of my personailty

[@maaxxi99]

I´m looking forward to being the most popular guy at work!

[@joseabad2552]

The first one I heard was a great one ❤

[@2Chenzzzz]

A lot of Conan and Ryan Reynolds humor here. Whoever made this video has good taste.

[@miqueiassilvanascimento7331]

Ótimo conteúdo

[@GrimHealer2294]

i remember this one time where i was the fairest among the class and the girls would all come up to me to ask me what cream i apply on my skin to look white, and i'll tell you that they are all dead serious about it, so one time in a free period during class, one of the girls asked me 'what's the cream ur applying to look so fair and that smooth skin?' and tbh in reality i don't even have smooth skin, but then all the girls turned their attention to me, so now i have nowhere to escape, so i gave it a thought, i prolly looked dead serious to them cuz i was furrowing my eyebrows. I said 'Hmm, that's a tough question, i don't really remember which i used the most, but i'd say water did the job, just try cold water, it made me go pale everytime i use it during the morning before leaving my house.' - they completely broke into laughters. Ah i love those days, btw this title attracted my attention and it's good lol. keep going with ur awesome videos!

[@FrankKirkwood]

It is also possible that the key to being witty is to know what the question is ahead of time and have a team of writers on hand to work up a response. This is the talk show formula.

[@ExotiCarsMiami]

1:21 They Make it comedy but it’s true 👁

[@marioyoda9426]

This is a new thing I already knew. it just got rid of the Jargon. Thanks for the thoughts.

[@helloryantanaka]

Great video

[@nestortorres3392]

"my fellows Obama's" JAHSHSHAHAHA that's jokes

[@deldridg]

Intonation, timing, eye expression etc. and to be in the right frame of mind are all fundamental to making others laugh. It's often something that can't be taught - some people just aren't funny. At all. My son as a 9yo used to love this one... "Why can't mum tell jokes timing". (No pause between "jokes" and "timing". Not expected from a 9yo and pretty funny. Good to give being funny a go though - the world needs more laughter!

[@L.I.T.H.I.U.M]

Do a video on Jax Teller. Probably how he commands respect.

[@rogerreimer6787]

I was interview for a doctor the interview was great I had warmth humour and got the job of my dreams the reason i didn't take it even though the medical center was what I always wanted because I was just their for a prostrate exam and never had any medical training.but i should of looked at the sign on the door closer. It said " All openings will be looked into" I took it the wrong way what a bummer..

[@ito4510]

I know one thing, as soon as i have enough money to pay for the CU subscription, i won't because i already have, so bye forever 😂

[@911___________DIVOC]

It helps to be Ryan Reynolds.

[@NormyTres]

Absolutely!

[@raghavdhariya9817]

Roast em keep on roasting them, might not be that funny but its really fun

[@davewebster689]

The content here that you have come out with is pretty cool and I thought to myself "you know what, I'll check out this course". Was blown away that you are trying to charge $600 for a course with 10 hours of videos, when I can go buy a book right now that will teach me stuff like this in detail for $6 on audible. I just really don't understand how you can value your course like that?

[@STFUppercut69]

This video needs a disclaimer at the beginning: You ACTUALLY have to be funny to pull this stuff off.

[@scytheyoru3160]

i am so good at number 5 already have been for the past 2 years no one can tease me without expecting something in return lol

[@alifadaeimanesh]

That was interesting. I would do these techniques everyday without being aware of them.