Do not forget that we live in a world dominated by fake people with fake characters and fake outlooks. Seeing an authentic,confident and secure person for the masses is like seeing a threat for their fake personality. Always stay yourself and eventually the right people will be attracted to you.
@DTB19953 жыл бұрын
@@user-lc5zp6fk6b change the world or be changed by the world
@magg933 жыл бұрын
well said my dude!
@jpbart13903 жыл бұрын
that's the way i roll.
@gtpcruiser023 жыл бұрын
After I grew a beard and shaved my head people started to address me as Sir and showed much more respect than before when I was clean shaven and had hair on my head.
@magg933 жыл бұрын
@@gtpcruiser02 Maybe that´s because you look 20 years older
@blahblah17245 жыл бұрын
I perfer people to leave me alone. Has far as friends go I would rather have 4 quarters to 100 pennies.
@arcanegulo54415 жыл бұрын
Ooooh Ahhhh mr insight😄
@My6StringSweetheart5 жыл бұрын
People seem to care more about acquaintances and social connections/status than genuine friendship nowadays. It's like a numbers game for them, popularity over everything.
@parrish16165 жыл бұрын
Two fifty cents pieces for one
@77dris5 жыл бұрын
Great quote
@undertaker11ism5 жыл бұрын
Blah Blah I would rather have a dollar bill to 4 quarters
@king493345 жыл бұрын
Unapproachable is great people always want something from you
@eargasm35265 жыл бұрын
King Tin very true
@nickcarducci34135 жыл бұрын
people are overrated, If people want to approach you, they want something from you. And most women don't give a crap about men, it's what you can give them, is what they really love, get a clue dudes!!!!!
@GQ-jv9uw5 жыл бұрын
Exactly they want to take advantage of you
@ryanalexander69435 жыл бұрын
Ahhh I found the intelligent people in the comments lol. You guys said it.
@king493345 жыл бұрын
@The Dandy Essentials the only one I need is God.
@gorillawhale10464 жыл бұрын
I know I'm unapproachable I choose to be that way, cause I don't trust people as far as I can throw them. 5 or less friends is how I roll.
@OnThePath7774 жыл бұрын
Same, it's not that I'm weak, scared or arrogant, I'm just not a very social person, I also have view points very different from most people. I do enjoy the company of like-minded people every once awhile but not constantly. I'm very satisfied with who I am and I'm not changing for anyone. Period.
@raetaylor60514 жыл бұрын
@@OnThePath777 🎯💯🙌👏🙏
@zipey24534 жыл бұрын
Yeah, you're 14 yo kid who watched hyouka,classroom of the elite and SNAFU how do I know?
@mikeatwill70644 жыл бұрын
I agree. Too many hidden motives. I nearly fell for the nice person approach. He was a business professional who was friendly passionate and shared common interested in business. I nearly invested thousands but decided to verfiy before committing. As I found out he was a convicted fraudster. I creased all communication and walked away. I always come back to an old proverb. 'Only the paranoid survive'. Theres only one you can trust - yourself and learn to say no. No matter how attractive the offer is.
@aladinbeats4 жыл бұрын
faxxxx
@callum52085 жыл бұрын
:1 don't look down on your phone :2 Smile more :3 Make eye contact :4 Your nervous :5 Your trying to hard :6 Your intimidating :7 negative body language
@andreasrs695 жыл бұрын
phil Mitchell Learn read body Language too! Today I made an effort to be more social. Instead of looking around I looked at other people in a not creepy way. I made this (cute) girl interact with me on a body language basis which was cool. I looked like a complete morron that moment since I was outside when it was raining before so I was wet af and my hair was messed up
@callum52085 жыл бұрын
Goo job there mate
@seoulting285 жыл бұрын
you're*, too* intimidating*
@ahmadhassoun53055 жыл бұрын
Oh cmon man. FFA doesn't drag out videos way longer than they should be. I don't think we should be putting stamps as many people would just end up reading the first comment and not watching the video,which he puts much effort into. Idk but that's my opinion
@JHow8615 жыл бұрын
@@seoulting28 *You're* a virgin.
@jeffreyjeter24105 жыл бұрын
Not all guys care about being approached especially if they value their own company. The majority of people that approach you aint worth talking to
@TheAtm123454 жыл бұрын
The fewer the friends, the less worries you'll get
@lonchaneyslover76354 жыл бұрын
Very true, out of all the bar girls that approached me at my local bar. Got my number and it never went anywhere lol .
@Guitar1574 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@cameronthemagician284 жыл бұрын
Damn.....I'm approachable. Lmao. I guess this is bad.
@SydneyGreenstreet12274 жыл бұрын
Lon Chaneys Lover Who exchanges phone numbers at a bar?LOL.It’s either on that night or forget her.
@coachbahman5 жыл бұрын
Be comfortable with yourself. Don't mind other people's opinion. You have no control over them. Insecurity is scary..
@ricardomendes34505 жыл бұрын
Stop carrying about other people's opinion is what I've been trying a lot recently. I've noticed that the least i mind for people's opinion and the least I try to impress them, the more confident(and happy) I get.
@Paschendale_5 жыл бұрын
Easier said that done 😁
@adriancooley18195 жыл бұрын
Yeah but the problem is getting to that point
@stormcorrosion1765 жыл бұрын
As a 38 year old, that is the one piece of advice I too would share with younger people
@krane155 жыл бұрын
On the contrary, you have a great deal of control of other's opinions. Just ask any politician.
@Autobot_Megatron5 жыл бұрын
Or maybe some guys avoid eye contact because they don't want to be labelled as creepy- or give off the impression that they're making someone- especially girls/women- uncomfortable. Sometimes, you wanna look at people eye to eye and smile at them and give off that warm approach. But the sad thing is, not everybody wants that.
@nathandelamora71073 жыл бұрын
yes
@atmant053 жыл бұрын
It's clear you overthink the way people feel. Stop caring what people think, but I understand what you're saying.
@Theemightguy3 жыл бұрын
If they think you're creepy for being kind and giving a simple gesture then the problem exist in them. You shouldn't worry how people react to what you do but rather what your intent is with what you do.
@atmant053 жыл бұрын
@@Theemightguy what if you not tryin to be creepy but you are bein creepy.
@atmant053 жыл бұрын
@Julian Williams I disagree to an extent but I understand what your saying. If your actions are seen as weird even if that isn't your intent, I feel like you should beself of aware of this and work on yourself.
@heizhummer63265 жыл бұрын
Remember your ego is not your amigo
@blackcitadel375 жыл бұрын
totally.
@luckyplays62525 жыл бұрын
I love it. I'm gonna use this phrase to calm down certain 'alpha' males
@heizhummer63265 жыл бұрын
@@luckyplays6252 no there is a difference between a alpha and a Jersey shore meat head
@jasonsedy5 жыл бұрын
Says who
@jumexsuave5015 жыл бұрын
@@jasonsedy There's obviously a difference between a arrogant douchebag and a humble honest dude
@garbonratslayer13874 жыл бұрын
I look grumpy on purpose so people will leave me alone. If they get to know me they're shocked to find out I'm actually a friendly person.
@rafaelianvargas12592 жыл бұрын
I always look angry beacause of my eyesbrows so i can relate
@Foxx319 Жыл бұрын
Same bruh
@leosilva41445 жыл бұрын
and looking down at your phone all the time makes you look like an easy target because you are not paying attention to your surroundings
@ultragrapple65655 жыл бұрын
@Rex Erection lmao looking at your phone like a douche, wtf does that mean my guy?
@cptfreeman89665 жыл бұрын
@Rex Erection Lmao everyone has a plan till they get punched in the mouth
@cptfreeman89665 жыл бұрын
@Silent_Q 7 Getting sucker punched ain't fun. Pay attention to your surroundings
@ultragrapple65655 жыл бұрын
@Rex Erection lol so someone who is afraid? Wheres the douchebag part
@de-b12215 жыл бұрын
It's a diversion, we know exactly what's going on.
@davetheintrovert21915 жыл бұрын
There is NOTHING wrong with being unapproachable. Other than a handful of close friends I have NO desire to be around people. Introverts rule. At least this one does.
@marcusdanny11935 жыл бұрын
Introverts rule. I can't get enough. I have achieved so much all on my own.
@darrylgibson35754 жыл бұрын
Oh no, I too suffer from social anxiety and sour grapes ;·{
@MrAlucard74 жыл бұрын
Eh, to an extent, I agree.
@shannonsmith72014 жыл бұрын
And this one.
@shannonsmith72014 жыл бұрын
@mbmhs and there gonna be more and more introverts has nothing to do with s.g or s.a.
@thuphat11235 жыл бұрын
Thank you for reinforcing my game to be more unapproachable.
@leelunk82355 жыл бұрын
LOL
@Sydney-rf2om5 жыл бұрын
Lmao yes
@ezpz46465 жыл бұрын
Thu Phat Lmao 😂
@TopShottaRudeboy5 жыл бұрын
😂
@khydo3 жыл бұрын
Konchigo
@CynicalBastard5114 жыл бұрын
What's the matter with being unapproachable? Loneliness is your best friend. Loneliness won't borrow money from you and don't pay you back; loneliness won't cheat on you, break your heart, divorce you and bankrupt you. Loneliness is highly underrated. "Whosoever is delighted in solitude is either a wild beast or a god". Aristotle.
@lonewolf-ok3vy3 жыл бұрын
There is a big difference between being lonely and being alone 🤣🤣
@Brian-kj6mq3 жыл бұрын
@@lonewolf-ok3vy Well I am both but I don't feel bad being either. Matter of fact I prefer it that way.
@lonewolf-ok3vy3 жыл бұрын
@@Brian-kj6mq first of all humans are not made to be lonely because we can't it's cool to show your pain as your strength but sooner or later everyone realises their faults . I used to think like you about being lonely but after sometime it resulted in depression .Being alone is good you can create new things and get to know yourself but being lonely is a disease 😒it realy is😒.🤷🏻♂️You accept it or not . (Sorry🤷🏻♂️ for any grammatical mistake because English is not my primary language ).
@azone95373 жыл бұрын
Yo when i go to somewhere crowded, somehow the crowd dissappear
@Brian-kj6mq3 жыл бұрын
@@lonewolf-ok3vy am an introvert but I have to side by your argument to some degree. I won't oppose you, there are some times I wish I had many friends, but yet again beggers ain't choosers right?. We have to do with the few ones we have.
@HereComeTheRooster5 жыл бұрын
I don’t smile very much because there’s no reason to be happy.
@jermainemyrn195 жыл бұрын
True
@imraanbulbulia804 жыл бұрын
I don't smile because it is artificial for me. I only smile when something is funny and makes me laugh. Smiling is overrated
@darkninja2364 жыл бұрын
It hurts the face tho
@tyjohnson25704 жыл бұрын
Harden up bruz
@ArmandoFloresAvila4 жыл бұрын
Stop being afraid
@fetachino4 жыл бұрын
god I hate when people say "smile a little" "why do you look so sad" "are you depressed" no I'm not depressed or sad it's just how my face is I'm quiet and conservative doesn't mean I'm shy I just have a sad resting face people need to understand this
@MisoElEven4 жыл бұрын
Thats still good...mine looks like Im angry :D I also cut my hair short (5mm usually) so people probably even asume Im some kind of a skinhead xD
@Guitar1574 жыл бұрын
I have this problem too lol
@Ares-hi2hw4 жыл бұрын
Yep same here
@blacktortoise68124 жыл бұрын
If you are squaded up, not smiling is being a dick. You have to vibe with the crew.
@blacktortoise68124 жыл бұрын
@austin M lol okay Meursault
@devinhiga19685 жыл бұрын
When you're successful you'll realize how lonely it is at the top...
@mohammedblooshi36735 жыл бұрын
Put it is peaceful especially if you are way too high that you are actually in the clouds....there is nothing there and no one can reach you....
@Oneofthemones13 жыл бұрын
@@mohammedblooshi3673 no it’s not , being successful is harder if not harder than being poor. You have lawsuits/litigation takes time and drains energy from you which could lead to depression. Always alone, not many friends etc just look at Elon, bill gates, trump etc success leaves clues
@mohammedblooshi36733 жыл бұрын
@@Oneofthemones1 Exactly....that is why I was trying to rationalise something soothing about it...but alas all that awaits you is harder work....to simplify look at the difference between a boxing world champion life style/responsibilities/training and an amateur who is doing it for fun. It is leagues apart.
@paranoidpony68613 жыл бұрын
It's lonely every step of the road, what are you talkin about?
@Triplekrosstre2 ай бұрын
The realist words ever
@jdjewellpa4 жыл бұрын
I have found when I am open and approachable, people tend to start asking me for favors or unload their emotional baggage on me in the hopes that I can give advice and fix them. I have learned over time for sake of my own sanity, time and well being I chose to be outgoing and friendly but give the perception of being unapproachable. edit scanning through the comments it looks like most guys feel very similar to me. They would prefer not being approached either.
@joemunoz14764 жыл бұрын
You nailed it man.
@cassius5732 жыл бұрын
Yes, this is correct, sir. I've been in many sides of the coin. But what intrigues me the most is how dumb I was to not realize I was doing a thing I didn't like myself: unloading emotional baggage and spreading negative energy. Needless to say, I became not very cherished for a while. But there is always a valuable lesson to take from any situation. Never ever be that person that radiates negative energy. If your life sucks, try to use other people to be positive, and an escape route rather than trying to have dark conversations about your issues with them. Instead of crying your heart out non-stop, invite over to a beer and try to have a laugh, cheer and stuff. Also, it's pointless to try and fix other people diving into their negative energy. You're not helping them, just getting infected. There are very rare occasions in which it is kind of acceptable to share a little of negative energy, and to be compassionate and let yourself be sad for an important person. Like death of a loved one and stuff. Other than that, avoid negative energy in a social relation like a plague. If you feel yourself sliding in that direction, stop and redirect. Modern western culture incentive people to be soft, let themselves be swallowed by sadness and depression. Don't do it to yourself.
@Dvsone20125 жыл бұрын
Some people don’t want you to know them and don’t have to explain themselves
@onlygafabotwhatigafbout84955 жыл бұрын
Dvsone2012 exactly
@twointhepinkoneinthestink4 жыл бұрын
It took quite a while to develop my unapproachableness. I’m not giving it up. It’s bliss to see a dude look at me and quickly look away in fear.
@maddogkilla13 жыл бұрын
Wait, why exactly do I WANT TO create better relationships with complete strangers?
@mr.shin.51383 жыл бұрын
Tips to be the grey man. 5. Say nothing or the bare minimum 4. Maintain neutrality and stoic outlook 3. Walk like you have purpose I.e places to be 2. If in a confrontation, it isn't a game its life or death, punch hard and fast and remove yourself from the area. You were never seen. 1. Always be aware of your surroundings I follow these tips among a few others and I can tell you that I've not been involved in any confrontation or difficult social situation that I couldn't make it out of. Remember that the mind is your sharpest tool, put it to work and you will survive.
@mansionoflostspiritsrecords Жыл бұрын
I like how from zero to one hundred it goes when implying that any confrontation is going to be violence
@commanderfreaky4 жыл бұрын
Other people's insecurities are not my problem
@valentinvas64545 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I feel only beggars want to approach me lol.
@theharshtruth85634 жыл бұрын
You are what you attract. 😂
@abusername12704 жыл бұрын
Avoid eye contact w these scabs and if they aproach stare though them like they're invisible
@drummonkeystuffuk18754 жыл бұрын
@@theharshtruth8563 Wait I am what I attract...Hmm I'm nothing then ha. Knew it all along.
@TheRealGanonKirby4 жыл бұрын
"Oh? You're approaching me? Instead of running away you're coming right to me?".... wait wrong video
@corvuscrow54854 жыл бұрын
This should have been called, "A Beta's Guide To being Liked by People that Don't Matter". Then in smaller print at the bottom, "Made By Beta's, For Beta's"
@Nobody924214 жыл бұрын
LOL. I have found that being unapproachable causes women to take it as a personal challenge. They don't take rejection well... like... at all. Just like a job interview. If you REALLY want the job, you won't get it. If you act you don't give AF, you always get an offer. Apathy is often interpreted as confidence. I shit you not. Omega's rule.
@alexmar91434 жыл бұрын
Lol best comment ever
@keandrethegoat11694 жыл бұрын
Beta male strategies🤣
@l.cuttzx35234 жыл бұрын
xd
@LosAngeles8224 жыл бұрын
Alphas dont go around trying to prove their alphas
@moamoaoz4 жыл бұрын
When you’re good looking, people away stare at you, and it causes me nervousness, but at the same time you want people to talk to you, but they don’t. rip.
@robkitchen53444 жыл бұрын
Yep... Then when I get approached they accuse me of being arrogant..... It's true i do feel mortally superior to lounge lizards and drunken trollopes.... But I'm not there to waste time with fending off intoxicated adult girls unable to remember what happened between drinking too much and waking up with someone new else too much... There's a reason why it feels strange.... I didn't pump and dump them. After hearing them moan amd yell out, practiced rants.... Its not worth the effort when they can't remember the next morning ..
@joerod25632 жыл бұрын
Don't worry. That won't last forever. I used to be very handsome (not exaggerating - women would chase me everywhere). But as I got older, bald, wrinkly and grey beard, now women just feel sorry for me and call me "Sir" all the time. I hate it.
@hollowpoint98652 жыл бұрын
@@joerod2563 how old r u now
@undead_66622 жыл бұрын
Nobody wants to talk to good looking people for their looks..... They only want to fantasize abt you with them..... Probably because the already have assumed the it's never gonna work out irl
@chasegainsovahoes6632 жыл бұрын
Bro tell me about it I got lean asf and started working out daily on my shoulders and arms,forearms and neck and I look intimidating without even trying my family tell me I look mad all the time when I’m not and I hate getting stares when I’m outside because I look good i don’t even try to one up everyone but people always seem to want to fight me
@agnum6395 жыл бұрын
I still prefer the peace and quiet that comes with solitude to the risk of negativity that comes from interaction.. Solid points and great video though✔️✔️
@erawwwww5 жыл бұрын
Agreed I was fine playing sports and video games then parents kept nudging that i have to find a girl and after having countless girls each one always spoke negatively about me and even in my face..like saying I'm short or even going as far as saying i have a lil dick, no wonder a lot of men are going their one way nowadays
@jasonkeppery34035 жыл бұрын
It's time Men leave the the gynocentric plantation and truly enjoy our lives without the negative female energy that brings us down.
@miepmaster254 жыл бұрын
You care about other’s negativity? If they’re toxic and don’t care about you just “use” them
@gregv81644 жыл бұрын
Being unapproachable does have its advantages. It's probably saved me a lot of inconvenience and heartache. Besides, it's part of my default personality.
@akbar84773 жыл бұрын
Agreed.
@chadcobb22855 жыл бұрын
There's an art to scowling so people don't bug you
@deakon0715 жыл бұрын
It's effective
@mikiryann58825 жыл бұрын
Snarling works better for me
@Ori0n19755 жыл бұрын
Growling works the best.
@BlackGirlLovesAnime65 жыл бұрын
@@Ori0n1975 lol
@DiversionG5 жыл бұрын
It's pretty easy I don't even try it
@fine_ol_chap3 жыл бұрын
I was already unapproachable back in school. Not because I looked like I was busy, it was just because nobody wanted to at least talk to me for whatever reason. I've lived most of my life that way and would prefer it to stay that way because I'm more used to it
@dougbillman23335 жыл бұрын
I don't like people... I have a hat, it says dysfunctional veteran... leave me alone... The more people I meet, the more I love animals........
@blueshanks15 жыл бұрын
Not the right attitude. You might go through life alone and miserable with that mindset
@user-pn9un3dc8y5 жыл бұрын
Yea, most people suck balls, but once in a rare while, maybe even once every year or 2, there’s somebody that’s worth getting to know. But overall I’m with you.
@krane155 жыл бұрын
Exactly. I'm not smiling because I don't want to talk to you. Take the hint.
@Sergeant_Camacho5 жыл бұрын
Congrats you are Adolf Hitler
@rounakgiri86645 жыл бұрын
Same....same.... people are asses.
@warriorsimplicity111 ай бұрын
I kinda agree with everyone in the comments that being unapproachable has it's advantages, but it also has it's disadvantages like not being able to make connections which help you in the future (like career and other shit), and everyone you already know start to tear away. I experienced it first hand
@daniyke10187 ай бұрын
How did you go through?
@JKs17765 жыл бұрын
Cool look at your phone, don't smile, send out negative vibes as much as you can, got it.
@Jackgritty285 жыл бұрын
The untouchable needs to be touched😭🤔
@MegaMkmiller4 жыл бұрын
"Send out negative vibes as much as you can...'' LOL! That is fuckin' funny dude!
@gabrielguzman60182 жыл бұрын
Not smiling is pretty much sending out negative vibes 😂
@eazyrat4 жыл бұрын
This video: make eye contact Me: makes eye contact Person: stop staring at me
@drummonkeystuffuk18754 жыл бұрын
Me: makes eye contact Girl: I'm calling the police
@Zidane9ful3 жыл бұрын
@@JoshTheTechnoShaman Genuine objective smile, I agree bro . 👍💯
@Gave-rf1hr3 жыл бұрын
@Drum MonkeyStuff UK lololol me makes eye contact . Girl: Runs away in horror
@KokoThreadz4 жыл бұрын
In other words. Don't be yourself.
@DREAMSINDIGITAL3 жыл бұрын
That's one thing I don't like about all this dating advice is they all tell you to act fake and I don't like to pretend.
@JehovahRapha7774 жыл бұрын
Perfect! Be 100% unapproachable and just approach whoever you want yourself.
@Seaturtle7772 жыл бұрын
Unless they are giving off signs that they don't want to be approached.
@o.p.4585 жыл бұрын
The "smiling" benefit is a bit complex and overrated, especially in a world full of forced-smiles, smiling depression (nothing to laugh about), and the tendency of hoomans to exaggerate the positive with biases.
@krane155 жыл бұрын
Never listen to a women telling you to smile unless she's your wife -- or your boss in which case you learn to fake it, like I did.
@MonkiFI4 жыл бұрын
Put on a happy face! All my thoughts are negative....
@miepmaster254 жыл бұрын
Besides, smiling in many cases indicates nervousness
@nickyerps50515 жыл бұрын
I have alot of bad signs but when u make me talk .u will finde a nice guy
@nickyerps50515 жыл бұрын
@@glenpilson14 i let no one step on me. I always be me.even if am akward sad or happy ill be me
@glenpilson145 жыл бұрын
Yea Nick! That's what I like to hear! Stay positive, never give up, persevere !
@ciaphagray10635 жыл бұрын
Me 2.
@sixten84934 жыл бұрын
I live your comment. The wait is long though.
@nathanaelmukyanga38664 жыл бұрын
Nicky Erps me too
@danielj2334 жыл бұрын
The hapiness of your life depends on the quality of your thoughts.
@danielsummers54384 жыл бұрын
I love being left alone! I also love changing perceptions when someone does actually talk to me. Don't judge a book by its cover kinda thing
@Bulhakas4 жыл бұрын
I am so unapproachable that I have grown apart from all my closest friends.
@kavijackson8685 жыл бұрын
Time to bring out da headphones! 😋
@henkhodryza43405 жыл бұрын
Was hoping this will be part of the list
@pancakes40272 жыл бұрын
Purposely making myself unapproachable has saved my arse time after time. I easily avoid beggers, those kids selling chocolate at the front of grocery stores, crackheads at the bus terminal, etc.
@ismailelmassaoudi43175 жыл бұрын
just aproach someone if they think you're unaproachable problem solved
@ziulcast5 жыл бұрын
Exactly, if somebody want to approach you this person will don't give a shit that you have got a phone in front of you
@caiheang5 жыл бұрын
Why is this not the top comment over the piles of cynical self-defeating incel shit up there.
@darrylgibson35754 жыл бұрын
How would you know that they think that ? Or maybe THEY don't want to talk to you. I go by 1 rule, talk to people who talk to me...pretty lonely down here.
@blacktortoise68124 жыл бұрын
They're going to be awkward and defensive. They feel like they have to be on and will resent you for disturbing their isolation.
@jag8315 жыл бұрын
Damn. I became an unapproachable guy out of necessity to cope in rough adolescent times 20 years ago. Now it's a part of me almost as "me" as my hair colour. The point is, being unapproachable is even a decision you made at some point, since we are all social animals, whether you are an introvert or an extrovert it doesn't matter
@LPFSuleyman4 жыл бұрын
everytime i was approachable people did hurt me in many ways and being approachable never really did benefit me so I love to remain myself as unapproachable person to avoid further problems with people, I stopped being friends with everyone in real life but i am not really unhappy about it, I have realized they were no good for me
@Pedro-of4tn2 жыл бұрын
I think it’s good that you figured that out.
@LPFSuleyman2 жыл бұрын
@@Pedro-of4tn Yes you still can be friends with people but you have to remember just because someone is your friend today it doesnt mean they will be your friend tomorrow too so dont attach yourself to anyone too close that when that day happens you dont get too much hurt. I know its easier said than done because when you think you have found a person you enjoy his company its hard to not get attached so it takes probably alot of tries to get to that point. I am sure everyone has a friend or friends that they told you they will never leave you ever but they somehow left you anyway so they werent sincere when they said it. Finding really good friend that wont leave you is just as hard as finding a woman that will never wrong you and we all know how rare that is..
@sanoflight155 жыл бұрын
MEETING NEW PEOPLE IN THIS DAY AND AGE IS OVERRATED....THE AVERAGE PERSON DOESN'T CARRY BENEFICIAL ENERGY...IT'S BEST TO AVOID MOST PEOPLE AT ALL COSTS FOR PROTECTION
@davidlopez-rl4sh5 жыл бұрын
Not if you want to be a successful person in general
@LPFSuleyman4 жыл бұрын
@@davidlopez-rl4sh well then i prefer to live rest of my life unsuccessful because when i get friendly people bring nothing but pain to the table.. being lonely isn't bad, would you rather be lonely all your life rather than have friends that keep comparing the stuff you have with other people's stuff knowing its all you can afford and knowing it hurts you as fuck? well man, i prefer the life i have, i have met so many so called nice people that turned out to be monsters in reality so yeah :)
@floridianrailauto90324 жыл бұрын
@@LPFSuleyman I think that's why you have to do something similar back. If they make a joke at your expense, you do it back. Simple as that
@LPFSuleyman4 жыл бұрын
@@floridianrailauto9032 if someone does something nerve wrecking I rather permanently remove them from my life, I don't believe in giving chances to people because they do the same to me
@floridianrailauto90324 жыл бұрын
@@LPFSuleyman Nerve wracking? Could you elaborate?
@TheElixirProductions4 жыл бұрын
in my experience, the good looking guys are the ones with the most friends and attract ppl whether it be girls or guy friends they even get better grades due to halo effect. lol doesn't matter how they act, because no matter what they do, they will be seen as cool and ppl subconsciously want to be around them/like them it's all about looks ppl
@2ndhorseman3 жыл бұрын
I know right, just look at the pictures they use in these videos.
@TheElixirProductions3 жыл бұрын
@@2ndhorseman facts
@JohnPierre-lz6vb3 жыл бұрын
It really depends. If you are really good looking a lot of people get intimidated by you and don't talk to you. Some of them want to be your friend. But if you have no confindence whatsoever , they'll quickly go away. It's as simple as that.
@chasegainsovahoes6632 жыл бұрын
Not to gas my ego( im on Semen retention )but I’m atleast a 8 or 9 im 8%bf and i workout my neck shoulders and forearms and arms and people tell me I look intimidating and mad all the time when I’m not and your right people always want to be your friend or talk to u and people are always staring it’s fucking annoying tbh , I remember getting no attention when I was 16 and fat now that im 18 and ripped and muscular and i dress good and smell good I always get stares from people driving in theirs cars or people walking around it’s annoying when your not trying to stand out and people always think I want to fight
@timmenhoff2 жыл бұрын
@@chasegainsovahoes663 ure 7 tops sry
@singdasorrow5 жыл бұрын
People find good looking people unapproachable as well
@vel69795 жыл бұрын
Cash Money that’s true there’s this beautiful coworker girl but I’m afraid of getting rejected so I don’t bother approaching
@ciaphagray10635 жыл бұрын
@@vel6979 if a girl wants you to approach her, she will give you signs
@vel69795 жыл бұрын
Ciapha Gray I’m just shy in general so it really doesn’t help
@pineappleduck10214 жыл бұрын
@@ciaphagray1063 that's the problem
@patbenz43274 жыл бұрын
@@ciaphagray1063Sometimes they give you "signs" and then rejected you or run away from you.. when you try to approach, leaving you in a situation where you have to deal with the pain of rejection without having a clue what went wrong or what you did wrong. So to minimize the pain, you just stop approaching them altogether.
@Anomize234 жыл бұрын
Its weird that after awhile you learn that those who look intimidating are just cool people. Most of them that is.
@Kenny-df3sx5 жыл бұрын
A video for me just as I plan to improve my social skills-perfect
@richardhineman5 жыл бұрын
An unaproachable or menacing mentally is a actually a big flag that this person needs a friend who understanding and in actuality is most likely sad and feeling lonely. Next time you see this sad person offer them a smile and make them laugh and see the miracle your small gesture can have. He or she will never forget the kindness you gifted and will make a loyal friend for life. You have the power to make do this just by having no fear. Fear is the opposite of love. So don't fear anything anymore or else you give power the opposite of love. Fyi that's the hells domain. And you really don't want anything to do with that. No fear.
@GamesCooky5 жыл бұрын
Talking to me is like talking to a rock. I think people either get awkward or uneasy as a result. It's a little amusing. Anyways, i don't really care.
@Steallio5 жыл бұрын
You're so cool
@alfred_philip5 жыл бұрын
I can relate with that 😁
@DREAMSINDIGITAL3 жыл бұрын
Yeah I can relate too, I always make people feel uncomfortable. I really don't like hanging with anyone because then I make them even more uncomfortable with how quiet I am.
@GamesCooky3 жыл бұрын
@@DREAMSINDIGITAL I might come across as quiet. I like being in the background. But i'll talk if i have to. My relationships tend to be kind of shallow. Which means i probably won't ask you how you're doing. There's just a lack of curiosity on my part when it comes to personal topics. I see myself as logical and objective. And maybe lack some emotional expression. But that's hard for me to say since i can't see my own face. It may explain why people get uncomfortable sometimes though. Being emotionless seems to be considered somewhat repugnant.
@Ghost-vg6iq2 жыл бұрын
@@GamesCooky Same dude same 😂.
@388dell2 жыл бұрын
I’m me, I don’t change for anyone. Act like yourself don’t be fake and pretend. If people think your unapproachable then so be it. People who actually vibe and understand you will connect.
@dongiogio7624 жыл бұрын
Super unapproachable as I'm also introverted and that's fine. I love my space
@mdw10022 жыл бұрын
I’ve found that most people who are “approachable” are that way because they are trying to be that way, not because it’s naturally who they are. There’s a lot of insecure people out there who need attention.
@Andrea-pe2iw5 жыл бұрын
Number 6 is probably my problem. In my social circle I am seen as the strong tough guy even though Im not a big dude (Im 5'9 180 with a low body fat percentage) I dont have tattoos and I always keep a clean shave. I thought that women were attracted to the "tough guy" and that you could never be too masculine. Given my little recent success with girls something isnt adding up here...
@unlikelyandunfortunate74764 жыл бұрын
100% of my life is I don’t wanna be approached 😂
@helloearth115 жыл бұрын
I think we should let people be people... The internet is putting people in a box... I'm no religious nut or anything, but I believe that we're all here to be different, even if it means some people will dislike you.
@UN1VERS3S Жыл бұрын
I'm a religious nut, is that wrong?
@Turin-Fett4 жыл бұрын
I'm married and I am a weld crew foreman so I think I know the game well enough, but most of the time I'd rather not be approached and act accordingly. I guess it's just knowing when and how to do the things that will get you what you want.
@HereComeTheRooster5 жыл бұрын
I hate everyone so keep away from me!
@ezpz46465 жыл бұрын
HereComeTheRooster Facts
@darrylgibson35754 жыл бұрын
Wow
@Bubbles997184 жыл бұрын
That's probably how most peeps feel about you
@TheJwwinter4 жыл бұрын
@@Bubbles99718 Good then.
@santicheeks11064 жыл бұрын
I agree with you but I hope you're not one of those people who always talks bad about other people because I hear it in school they're like, "I hate everybody in this room", and stuff like that its so annoying
@NoName-up9bg3 жыл бұрын
I'm definitely unapproachable. If I'm in public I don't want anybody to talk to or be near me.
@Vcore11514 жыл бұрын
People say I’m unapproachable but when they do get a chance to meet me they always say there happy they did so basically don’t judge someone but they way they look or act just be you
@anasazirodriguez48404 жыл бұрын
I found out that because I was weak before, I was being to strong and made me unapproachable- a great lesson
@Priest5 жыл бұрын
this is like real life survival guide for us cave goblins
@JsnGallardo2 жыл бұрын
These are really good tips for when you don’t want to be approachable. My issue is I’m not shy and objectively not a bad looking person and have a good social life. But when I’m out with friend or going about my day, random people talking to me is annoying
@_catulus5 жыл бұрын
1:34 Smile, though your heart is aching. Smile, even though it’s breaking. When there are clouds in the sky, You’ll get by if you smile.
@nonamemusic19325 жыл бұрын
I swear this is how i feel..wtf am i smiling for if nothings funny or exciting happening in my life at that exact moment in time lmao
@robotzkyx18125 жыл бұрын
THE JOKER..... JOAQUIN PHOENIX
@_catulus5 жыл бұрын
Robotzky X 👍👍
@1pharaoh4425 жыл бұрын
joker
@ciaphagray10635 жыл бұрын
Then thats a fake smile
@aldavedesierdo424 жыл бұрын
Having good company with urself is good but having the mindset of "i dont need friends i have myself" makes u a lonely person. Go out the box and be friend with anyone. If they mess u up then ignore them. Life is too short to be living solo.
@kemronfrederick5 жыл бұрын
If i am how i am to strangers with people ive known for years and are super comfortable with i get perceived as weak. So I am programmed to be on the defense. Also I am 6’7 with a skinny but ripped frame with tattoos. Also looks make you seem unapproachable. Hey this all stems back from my childhood. I was weak skinny physically so i was always picked on and taken advantage of. This one kid was bigger than me physically and always used to slap me around and try to mess with my head. I made it apart of me to never experience vulnerability like that ever again. So now I am the bad guy. For the ones who know me know i am really outgoing and very friendly. I guess Ill have to live with it... Nice vid tho thumbs up 👍🏽
@Bi0pandemic5 жыл бұрын
Lol similar situation for me, I was very short and chubby, Got picked on alot by older kids. I got tired of people looking down on me and i was going to stay the same height, so i joined wrestling in HS and eventaully started Bodybuilding, No one fucks with me no more. only issue is now im unapproachable because i show no sign of vulnerability. I kindve accepted the situation but its too bad since im like one of the nicest guys ever, so I minght not be approachable, however i guess ima have to just work on my aprroaches
@johnleardini11175 жыл бұрын
BWAHAHAHAHAHA
@deathislife35455 жыл бұрын
I'm an introverted man, I believe in quality individuals, not the quantity of mindless masses I can call "friends". I value people that would rather live dangerously free than peacefully enslaved. "A person is smart, people are dumb, stupid, dangerous, panicky animals and you know it" Agent K MIB1
@Bugumir5 жыл бұрын
Smile when you're miserable. Make eye contact with a lazy eye. Appear serene when you're nervous and try to look affable with a serious attitude, a bald head and a beard. Oh, and all without seeming fake. Sir, you've handed me an impossible task, but … I like a good challenge.
@kylealexander68614 жыл бұрын
I watched this for pointers on how to be even more unapproachable :)
@Geewunner4life5 жыл бұрын
I'm quite ugly, don't snort coke 43 times a day and I'm poor. That makes me General Unapproachable in a city full of phoniness, shallowness and artificially inflated humans.
@vensonj5 жыл бұрын
You must be in miami too
@Geewunner4life5 жыл бұрын
@@vensonj worse. I'm in NYC.
@michaelbarrow32775 жыл бұрын
G1ForLife LOL!!!!
@michaelbarrow32775 жыл бұрын
VJ LOL!!!
@michaelbarrow32775 жыл бұрын
G1ForLife QUITE UGLY??
@attentionlabel4 жыл бұрын
1. Eat more bananas 2. Never dry yourself when you shower 3. Never shower 4. Always wear sunglasses indoors 5. Invent your own language and shout in gibberish
@lukasleminskas30655 жыл бұрын
I've never felt so personally attacked before.
@abdolhamedsharef29243 жыл бұрын
keep your body open and inviting when needed that's a great tip thanks Jose.
@pras92585 жыл бұрын
Well, I don't need signs, I'm way beyond diagnosis. And guess what... I'm content and at peace with the way I'm.
@skerion79565 жыл бұрын
You may be happy now but not in the long run
@temporayaccoun5 жыл бұрын
Skerion how?
@skerion79565 жыл бұрын
@@temporayaccoun if you dont get approached it will be harder to meet new people and being lonely is not good in the long run
@temporayaccoun5 жыл бұрын
Skerion that’s true no doubt but we must become selective instead, ignoring the genuine people too can make a person lonely forever, while genuinely ignoring idiots.
@miepmaster254 жыл бұрын
Are you asking for our approval?
@Dante95nyc3 жыл бұрын
I've been told I'm "standoffish." That's because I've tried to emotionally invest in people and I'd always end up disappointed. Now just I don't trust anyone. It's just not healthy creating this facade of being a "nice guy." Most will still discover elements about you that turn them off. So might as well keep it 💯
@RKM85064 жыл бұрын
I'll just up my dosage to stop being socially anxious. Thanks.
@bryguysays29484 жыл бұрын
Sometimes us men just don't want to be approached by anyone, especially if we are busy.
@carlzer94694 жыл бұрын
N trying to hold the peace between my ass n undies in public
@nadirrabah67565 жыл бұрын
"Smiling less can make you more attractive to women" (I hardly / barely smile, YES!!!!)
@chris-wt7ol5 жыл бұрын
It works the other way with me. The negetive way
@nadirrabah67565 жыл бұрын
@@chris-wt7ol its like sales ("the takeaway") act like you don't give a $ht about em, you don't want / need them and they'll come running towards you.
@DanXJ194 жыл бұрын
I love how I’ve read about women complaining about men telling them to smile yet a handful of women I worked with DEMANDED I smile. Fuck outta here. Give me a reason if you want it so bad. ;)
@stefanrares4292 жыл бұрын
This a step by step guide of how to get rid of people when you don't want to talk.
@stresslee3 жыл бұрын
I don’t really care, if there’s someone I want to approach I’ll walk up to them and introduce myself lol I’m just who I am and anyone who doesn’t want to be a part of my life is not important. I’ll make the first move especially when I’m interested in a woman just to see what the deal is. If she says yes or no it’s fine with me either way. It’s better to know then to make up some false reality in your head. If she says yes, then great I got a new girl I can spend time with and get to know, if she says no then nothing lost, keep it pushing and now at least I’m not thinking about this girl anymore because now I know she’s not interested and there’s nothing wrong with that.
@petarvurdelja73144 жыл бұрын
I choose to be alone i didnt leave my house for 3 years just when i go to gym and work at night as a security i didnt been in relationship for 6 years it is not that i dont want it i just have no emotion anymore everything is boring same all stories i cant go to a coffe with someone because i can seat for 20 min and then just want to go home no matter is it a good friend, girl, or anyone else i got dissapointed in people i was working in caffe bar for 17 years and i just quit over night i snap so it is the way things are now
@miepmaster254 жыл бұрын
Do you want kids? The answer should be no
@shatishwasdewa82785 жыл бұрын
Resonate with me...Now I'm understand why everyone feel scared to speak with me😂😂
@theharshtruth85634 жыл бұрын
If i'm on my phone, it's "bu$ine$$". I'm not putting my phone down just because some low confidence girl thinks it makes me unapproachable. My financial stability and staying on top of my game is far more important than some onlooker who can't "woman up" and ask me a question.
@simonebernacchia5 жыл бұрын
Well explained, now make a new video on how make it work in the current PC hypersensitive urban environment, where just one look with the wrong length or with overthinking can put you in serious trouble...
@esdrascardona66064 жыл бұрын
Me: Sees title about self improvement Me again: Aw shit, here we go again
@BatBrakesBones5 жыл бұрын
I think I have the "try hard" issue. Not so much that I try too hard to be liked, but that I put myself in situations where I'm the most qualified or most skilled. Other insecure people don't want to associate with me because they can't keep up. They try to ostracize me. I gotta find better environments.
@haicimchase50285 жыл бұрын
SuccessBasis same, i know the feeling brother. It’s better to embrace your uniqueness rather than dumb yourself down for others who are insecure and don’t try hard in life for themselves.
@miepmaster254 жыл бұрын
You seem awfully full of yourself
@LaithNight2 жыл бұрын
I always give a death stare to people to make sure they don’t approach me. If I want you to approach me, I’ll turn my switch.
@david11____115 жыл бұрын
Who's having a good day
@MotivationByCharacters2 жыл бұрын
I like being chill and select people to deal with. I’m happy with it.
@cytroyd5 жыл бұрын
knowledge gives you conscious awareness which gives you the on/off switch for your subconscious behaviors.
@TheIgnoredGender5 жыл бұрын
I hate being bothered by people. When I'm walking outside and someone else is coming towards me, my technique is to wear headphones (I can't hear you), wear sunglasses (no eye contact), and drink my water (can't talk, busy drinking). Works every time.
@kemybolt5 жыл бұрын
That part with "New Persona" and tatoos can be good as well
@OmerK-iy3wu5 жыл бұрын
Kemy Bolt it doesnt make u fight good ;)
@OmerK-iy3wu5 жыл бұрын
Kemy Bolt u just look though but when somebody whoops u its all in vain lol
@angelus_solus4 жыл бұрын
1: I have no phone so that doesn't apply. 2: I don't have much reason to smile. 3: I have no problem with eye contact, but my eyes have the look of a mentally and emotionally tired war vet with ptsd. 4: I'm not nervous. 5: I never try too hard. I just carry on. 6: That doesn't apply to me either. 7: When standing in public, I don't cross my arms. My thumbs are in my pockets, so my arms aren't just hanging at my sides. I don't have an angry look either, just alert and cautious. It's kind of like looking at the face of a panther, mountain lion or cougar in its native environment.
@manurmad15394 жыл бұрын
I can relate with #3. I almost always get an adequate amount of sleep and yet I always have really thick dark circles under my eyes. It sucks.
@angelus_solus4 жыл бұрын
@@manurmad1539 Damn mate. That DOES suck.
@maroumajuro3075 жыл бұрын
I love being unapproachable it works for some of us it's the new way of things too much bulshit in the world in todays time
@JC-sc9rx2 жыл бұрын
Throw your hands in the air and wave them like you just dint care while smiling
@Red415544 жыл бұрын
I always love wearing hoodies in public and pulling the hood over my head. I just can't deal with people :)
@SydneyGreenstreet12274 жыл бұрын
Yeah but hoodies up indoors is douchy
@miepmaster254 жыл бұрын
You do that because you want your parents to come protect you.