7 things I wish I could tell my single self // singleness advice for christian women

[@NaileaGuerrero]

I’ve seen a lot of really good advice about singles who desire to be married but this was the best! Exactly what I needed to hear from another Christian woman. I know God led me to this video. God bless you sister! 🩷

[@vintagehourglass]

"your five year plan is stupid" made my jaw drop and laugh out loud. that was a message of the Holy Spirit for sure hahah. The whole message was on point but that part hit me square in the gut

[@erikabarth-zl7jn]

Is doesn't matter how Old you are had me crying 😭 thanks for this just what I needed. Im going to be 33 this year and still haven't found the one ...but I want to have hope

[@GameOn71213]

Im 34 tired all the time and i never use to think about getting married and i never use to thinking about getting a husband, until recently on my 34th birthday a sudden Desire just came up

[@Yuunamiee]

"Everything you said-everything that you were before-is me now. All the things I'm doing have a purpose, as I'm searching for the one for me, but in the end, I just get ghosted and it all ends. Today, October 8, 2024, I just finished talking to my mom about this topic, and she advised me to let go of everything and focus on the Lord. The Lord will provide, and I don’t need to search because I’ll only get hurt. I really want to enjoy my singlehood as a Woman of Christ because I’m tired of it all. I found your video, and we are so alike that I’m crying again. Thank you for your message. God bless you. PS. I pray that I find a group of Woman of Christ in my singlehood, who can help me to enjoy this journey with Jesus!

[@karmaquartz1819]

14:11 Hearing this. The reminder of his love even if the worst case scenario. God, give me peace, knowing that if everything is so full of Love and Peace. Even if I am to be single forever, I am not being punished, I am being Loved. God enter my heart and show me that your Love is truly all I need and everything else comes to you, lead by God. Any man or women could never fufill me as God will, He is preparing me. He is loving me. Thankyou, praise be to you, Abba. Who else but you. Praise be to you, for speaking Truth through this soul. Thankyou. Amen.

[@allydidier791]

It's hard for me to hear, but it's what I need to hear. Thank you for being so encouraging and hopeful

[@kaylagrace8562]

This was such a balm to my heart. Thank you for posting this. As someone who’s never dated, it made me feel so comforted.

[@jessibellnatalie6382]

this is exactly what i needed, Jesus is always #1 !!

[@Mary-gr3mr]

Wow I enjoyed this video. You are SO fearless and beautiful when you speak!! Thank you!!! I'm in a prayerful waiting season right now and this brought me so much encouragement and rest. I want to let go of my grip and just watch God

[@blueriver1604]

I have been on youtube for many years. This is probably the best video dedicated to single women of the Almighty God. WOAH!!!!!!😮

[@NastasiaGrace]

awww thank you SO much!!

[@Rebekah-m4f]

I NEEDED this!! Every point was spot on. I'm single and have wanted to be a wife and mother since I was little. It's good to hear you talking directly to single fears with God's truth.

[@steveroberts2855]

Wow...this was sooo encouraging! Even tho I'm a guy, I benefitted greatly from your encouragement. It helped me feel I can just relax knowing God knows exactly when and who so I can concentrate on just being an encouragement to others!!

[@melissavogt5113]

Thank you for posting this I love the part at the end about what if I meant to be single for the rest of my life and just being at peace with that and accepting that it’s what God says is best even if I don’t understand that really helped me and put me at peace with what if I am supposed to be single for the rest of my life even though I feel the longing to have a family I really love them and I needed it so thank you. Don’t pay attention to the naysayers continue posting because you’re spreading help and love to all who are willing to hear and accept what you’re saying and it helps a lot so thank you❤️❤️🤗🤗

[@leesarolan]

Jesus loves you he died on the cross for your sins. Believe in him and you will be saved and go to heaven!

[@enigma4526]

It's more than just heaven babes! The beauty of being reunited to the Lord who first loved us will always supersede the idea of Heaven.

[@AmberDennis001]

Jesus obviously doesn't have a purpose for me but thanks for being thoughtful

[@Corykenshinfan07]

​@@AmberDennis001yes God does. No matter who you are do not lose faith in God. Im telling you its worth it. Dont let the devil keep lying to you ❤

[@lotta2451]

So encouraging, wish there were more Christians that would encourage singles like this, with God's truth. This fall I have cried a lot about my singleness and still think it's hard, but this reminded me of God's goodness and made me cry some tears of thankfulness. Thank you & God bless you! ❤

[@monet9426]

This was preeeetty good sis. Was Totally rethinking how to not worry and be more in tune w God’s peace. Especially that part of “where am I gonna meet my husband?”😅 Thank you 🙏

[@mikasigar]

Greetings from Malaysia. Thank you for uploading this video. God bless.

[@brooklynngarrison490]

Thank you so much for this video nastasia! I’ve been so insecure for not having a boyfriend and I feel like every one around me is getting married but this video was right on time!! I know God wanting me to watch this God bless you sis!

[@beautifullykayla]

Wow this really helped me so much and for the first time I actually feel at peace in my singleness

[@jennaroseb]

Im 28 and never had a serious relationship, I never knew how to go about relationships. I never had a parent figure, never had those "talks," in school I was everyones friend. Its embarrassing that ive never had a long term serious relationship but it is what it is

[@myiagrant3922]

Needed to hear this thanks 😊

[@HamiltonRowan-r6z]

I have no intention of marrying anyone now. I am quite content living on my own and doing activities that I like! I don't want to deal with the hassle of trying to negotiate terms to live by with a partner. I am single and celibate, and that's not going to change. I get more blowback from people who say I am jaded and missing out on something wonderful. I don't care. I will not be pushed into doing something I don't want to do!!

[@romysv]

I'm in my 30s and the idea of being single forever scares the living daylights out of me. Why have such a deep and strong desire to love someone fully and be loved in return if it's not meat to be? I don't think God would be that cruel.

[@abigail_joy]

i’m not 30 and this might not be what you want to hear but i agree fully. i have such a desire to love someone and grow a family with the person i love but God uses everything for his glory. God isn’t a cruel God. he is almighty and sovereign and with that means his plan is sovereign and perfect even if it’s not what we want.

[@kacywennberg4268]

This was so good, so many times when people address this topic it can come off condemning and leaving people feeling like they aren't doing enough. Or that they need to make it happen/figure it out. I feel like it was simply said- Trust God, trust his timing, don't stress. Great message!

[@teampakstv]

good advice..we should evaluate ourselves again

[@siennaw6255]

Thank you for this video 🥺🙏 really needed it right now...struggling in the midst of a breakup and desiring marriage so much. This hit so hard in so many ways 🥺🤍 how did you finally be able to feel at peace? I know and want to, but I just struggle to feel it in the singleness

[@MorenitaBonita19]

Same. I know I have to let a person go and I felt like I was soo close to being married so starting over is scary and wondering if I’ll meet someone better and when…But this was sooo timely. It has to be well with our souls. 🤍🙏🏽

[@siennaw6255]

@@MorenitaBonita19 aww I'm so sorry to hear 🥺🙏 but yes exactly, that's very similar to how I'm feeling...it's scary but comforting knowing God has a plan and we just have to trust ✨️🤍

[@minimallyleah7208]

Thanks for this video! It was encouraging and much appreciated, peace and blessings to you Lil sister in Christ ❤️👍🏾

[@ericaisblessed5]

I’m not gone lie, this was one of the BEST Christian single woman advice videos periodddd!! Thank you for this! 🩷

[@aenigmatica8]

💗Ohhh I really needed to hear this. Thank you. It’s a hard season…

[@camf7886]

This was the BEST singles advice I’ve ever seen! THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! ❤

[@Sarah.M]

You articulated this so well, glad you shared this. It’s for my good!

[@hildablanco1591]

Urban cowboy movie is good to educate yourself on marriage

[@lucijaurek133]

Can't wait to finish work and watch the video!

[@oliviapos3397]

Bless you- I needed to see this today

[@somethinggood9267]

This was a good video, i found it encouraging for this period of my life. Thank you

[@elisaalaine8109]

So good! What a word you just spoke!! 🙌

[@Lillymu961]

I feel like I really needed this video. Thank you for making it. God bless you.💜

[@daniellekramer93]

I’m 30 and I’ve been single since 2016.

[@RachelNichols-writer]

Here's something to remember. You will still get to Heaven if you never marry--as long as you belong to Jesus. Getting to Heaven and being with the Lord is the only thing that matters. The only perfect happiness. It will last for eternity too. Marriage will only last for a few decades if both of you keep your vows. As Christians should. But Heaven is forever!

[@HamiltonRowan-r6z]

That I need to trust God completely. You may not get the things you want but you will get the things you need.

[@rachel_espinoza]

God doesn’t look at relationship status, contrary to what people believe. I’m single but I actually like it. I couldn’t keep up with a relationship anyway.

[@Sydney-ih3lj]

thank you for this encouragement! much needed

[@stevemacinnis5000]

I just want to put this out there! I'm a 25-year-old Christian man and I'm looking for marriage. If any young single Christian women are interested, let me know and I'll tell you how we'll proceed (we have to protect ourselves against KZbin scammers). Like Nastasia, I'm celibate, I've never been with a woman because I only want one woman for my entire life! 🙏❤

[@brbinamara1778]

Am interested in Ur proposal.

[@wonderwoman3512]

Hi steve, I'm so terrified to do this, I'm a christian lady from Nigeria, waiting on God for the one he has for me. I really don't feel the need to help God in that aspect but I'm not sure why I'm doing this, i hope i don't learn the hard way

[@deb5787]

Wow... I really needed this video! These are great tips!❤

[@MNMA...12345]

I listened to the video 3 times till now. Thank you Stas for this video.

[@syedazainab8226]

Very helpful ❤ Thanks for posting!!! 👍

[@MakenzieJoInspo]

Your videos always encourage me so much💗✨thanks so much for sharing!

[@jaeemimah8442]

Thanks 🥺

[@hamdinat]

Very nice sharing my friend 🌹👍

[@desiresoul5359]

How to date and meet a Christian man as a single mum of one with no family support because I had my child out of wedlock?

[@01happykat]

Thank you - I needed these words!

[@brittanyallen6778]

Thanks for this ❤wish I would’ve watch this when I was young those were some crazy years lol 😂 when me and my husband got together I decided I was done with men lol 😆

[@kpinkie88]

😓thank u so much for this video sis❤️ stay blessed

[@ArielTheApostolic]

What about for YOUNG single women. I’m 13 turning 14 soon and so many of my peers and teens my age have bfs. I’m lonely. I can’t date until I’m 18, and it’s so hard waiting. I’m trying to rush it, but I can’t help it.

[@izzybitsyspider03]

Technically, you aren't a woman yet! Don't let the pressure get to you. I'm sure you know this, but you are still very young and have a lot of time! If God wants you to meet a nice guy in high school or when you're older, then it will happen.

[@LaguBudakKuching]

girl take your time!! Trust me, enjoy your teenage years!❤

[@stevemacinnis5000]

How many of your friends' relationships will last? Do you want a relationship or do you just want a boyfriend to be able to say you have a boyfriend? You should only date a guy with the intention to marry him. Think about that.

[@albertlopez2237]

I had legalistic/ strict father I could not date till I was 16 but could not drive till I was 18 so as a guy at 16 if your not driving at least in my day your not dating. So it might as well have been 18. I know what it is like when your friends have something you can't. Video games were not allowed in the house growing up so I had a number of things since I could remember being school and being left out. When going through the process it feels like an eternity. But time will pass and when you cross that path the pass will be the pass it will not matter. But at the same point it's really no point being in a relationship building an emotional bond when you can't do anything with it meaning marriage is no where close in site.

[@ArielTheApostolic]

@@izzybitsyspider03 | Thank you, I just worry that God will return before I get a chance. But that’s not a good mindset to have.

[@valglavcheva]

Thank you for sharing this with us! I really needed to hear all of these points.❤

[@precious1653]

Thanks for this video Nastasia!

[@JohnDretired]

Proverbs 25 : 24

[@AvidReader19]

Great video! 💯

[@rsbyoutube4588]

I HATTTTEEE my singleness. Feels like a punishment. Even with having a hobby and loyal friends

[@SisterinChrist-jy5dg]

Amen.

[@NoName-zb1gm]

It's good your are emotionally strong enough to be dumped 5 times. You will learn from it. Take it from someone who never dates because I hate the breakup part because I grow attached to women very quickly especially if I choose her. You are outgoing and extroverted so maybe look for a guy who is more introverted. That combo might work better for you.

[@NastasiaGrace]

I’m married with a son now so we all good!

[@gabrielaibarra6938]

Yeah but it is still painful to see how others have what you desire and you only get older and older IT HUTRS a lot Im 31 and I'm not getting any younger or atractive, it is really difficult it seems like I have a problem that's why nobody decided to love me...I see how other women are really loved and cherrish by their husbands and I don't get that, i'm writting this in tears it brokes me inside. I just don't get it why? Why not me?

[@tvhead7074]

I don’t care how unattractive you think you are, speaking as a guy, women have it much easier than men do these days when it comes to dating. It doesn’t take much for an average guy to want to wife you up. Whereas it takes much more out of a man for a woman to find him attractive. I won’t lie though, looks do get you in the door as that’s what creates that initial attraction. It’s really not hard for women to look good though, even if you’re 31. I’ll preface this by saying that, if you’re fat, yeah most guys won’t want you (I just reclined in my chair cause I realized I’ll be typing alot more). But it’s crazy to me what most women consider to be fat and honestly, if a dude expects you to look a model, then that’s probably not a good long term partner anyway. You can have a layer of fat on you but, just don’t be morbidly obese. Cut out soda and drink water, cut out junk food, and walk for 30 minutes to an hour everyday and eventually work up to more intense cardio. Just please DO NOT starve yourself, don’t be one of those women. And I’m saying all of this because I don’t know you in real life to see how you look in person, I’m just covering all of the bases. You may look fine the way you are (we should still be exercising though). Maybe the reason why guys didn’t approach you in the past was because they were too nervous to do so, not because you were unattractive. Now though, it’s too late to wait for a guy to approach you. You’re gonna have to approach the guy and give strong signals that you’re into him. Also maybe lower your standards just a little bit if they’re unrealistic. From experience I’ll say that looks, while they matter, are not everything. A good personality can make up for some shortcomings in looks. Whatever guy you do find though will see your perceived flaws as attributes that he likes though. Lastly, don’t be insecure. I know it’s tough in this day and age. From my experience though, when I see a woman who seems happy with herself, even if she’s not a 10/10 model but instead like a 7/10, she instantly becomes more attractive in my eyes. You got this, there’s no reason to cry and buy a bunch of cats and ice cream. It’s not game over for you. The 40 year olds would wish to be 31 again.

[@gabrielaibarra6938]

I really appreciate the fact that You took the time to write all this some of the things You said made me feel better while other triggered me to be honest but I enjoy having a different point of view. I do take care of Myself, go to the gym I like dressing classy, I'm ambivert I work in myself as much as I can and I used to to meet people so I increase My posibilities....well nothing worked that's the reason I was so frustrated. If You ask me now I just accepted My situation I don't fight it I completely surrender. Thanks once again! I did not expected someone to take time to answer specially because I spoke My mind and I was so emocional when I wrote it.

[@tvhead7074]

@@gabrielaibarra6938 yeah reading it back sorry if the “even if you’re 31” part triggered you

[@hildablanco1591]

You need to see a officer and a gentleman movie or pretty woman

[@SyrenthiaRice]

I hate being single

[@patty_mrow]

🦚🌄🛰🚝

[@ОльгаБендзар]

Nooooo....... I cannot accept and understand this. Why would God create this desire in my heart to have a husband if His plan is for me to be alone? No, I refuse. By the way, unfortunately, there are a lot of people like this - people who always wanted to be in a couple, but God had a different plan for them, and it's terrible. And it scares me.

[@brittanyseward5080]

It’s almost like you miss being single. You embraced more of your singleness than your marriage. Sadly, marriage is also a beautiful gift. You keep saying the same thing over and over again.

[@CatrionaLafferty]

Lucky you finding your partner in your 20s. Im in my 40s and im too late to have kids. Your video upset me and had me in tears. I may be single all my life but i find it hard to accept.

[@romysv]

big hugs, tbh when an early 20sth person in a marriage tells me to be happy about being single maybe forever I find it upsetting as well.

[@JamesDelk-n3b]

Well we can talk can we I always wanted a women but many too much in careers which it's male should be in not physically strong enough even though work out cause of being smaller well they selfish just want careers thinking they can change men well others toxic but maybe you can be the one if you got Instagram I'm 58 and Christian born again too

[@GameOn71213]

Im 34 tired all the time and i never use to think about getting married and i never use to thinking about getting a husband, until recently on my 34th birthday a sudden Desire just came up

[@Alena23bloom]

🥹

[@brittanyseward5080]

It’s almost like you miss being single. You embraced more of your singleness than your marriage. Sadly, marriage is also a beautiful gift. You keep saying the same thing over and over again.