8 Questions To Ask Your Partner Before Getting Married

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@BestieHealth
@BestieHealth 6 жыл бұрын
What other questions should you ask before getting married? Let us know in the comments section below! Enjoyed this video? Please leave a like and share it with your friends! :)
@missy5585
@missy5585 5 жыл бұрын
Bestie INTRODUCTION toooo LONG!!!!! Overall Great Video😃
@imaldaramos5861
@imaldaramos5861 5 жыл бұрын
I fnt have any question to my husband..after 20 yrs walley married not working..
@mariahlukuni6595
@mariahlukuni6595 5 жыл бұрын
Bestie Good
@sunithareddychukka2100
@sunithareddychukka2100 5 жыл бұрын
Mm
@vidadedolphinofficial1642
@vidadedolphinofficial1642 5 жыл бұрын
Does she have a kids...with somebody before me..
@casasearl
@casasearl 5 жыл бұрын
Never trust words, but trust actions!
@sinashomar1806
@sinashomar1806 5 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@molemokoloi5012
@molemokoloi5012 5 жыл бұрын
True
@UNKNOWN-gb2kj
@UNKNOWN-gb2kj 4 жыл бұрын
Hmm.. right.
@shamembanu2588
@shamembanu2588 4 жыл бұрын
Well said
@yvonnensimire5647
@yvonnensimire5647 4 жыл бұрын
You right
@Nurluz
@Nurluz 5 жыл бұрын
Video starts 2:07 You're welcome
@skylarblue2450
@skylarblue2450 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks😂😂
@anytaophilie9820
@anytaophilie9820 5 жыл бұрын
NUR LUZ thanks. I didn't hesitate to forward it
@simranrufai7874
@simranrufai7874 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤️
@유나-w3w
@유나-w3w 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@_drlee
@_drlee 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@eastvegasraised4205
@eastvegasraised4205 5 жыл бұрын
My wife and I met when we were in elementary school. I'm 4 yrs older than her so at that time we never had a thought of ever being together. We now have 5 kids and 16 yrs of love together!
@akinyinicole6469
@akinyinicole6469 5 жыл бұрын
My person is 6 yrs older and when we met it never crossed our minds that such a thing would ever happen but we are better than we could ever imagine
@ItsLovelyG
@ItsLovelyG 4 жыл бұрын
AMEN, THANK YOU
@esthermpata7883
@esthermpata7883 4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful!!!!God bless
@srinathnathan
@srinathnathan 4 жыл бұрын
God Bless !!!
@hardcore_legend7101
@hardcore_legend7101 4 жыл бұрын
Congrats😊
@Top10-r7n5h
@Top10-r7n5h 5 жыл бұрын
Been married 15yrs... For me you need to be like minded, work as a team sharing duties, be honest, loving, caring, have patience, listen to each others opinions, be accountable, learn to forgive and apologise, have Trust in each other and above all fear God with pure heart and implement all moral values religion teaches you to. You should also eat out when you can and travel together as much as you can as it helps with stress and life becomes more enjoyable. Sharing finance and having family gatherings is a must to really appreciate each other as well....
@Jackgritty28
@Jackgritty28 5 жыл бұрын
Are you a doctor or lawyer, what do you bring to the table if anything✔😭🤑😣💘
@Jackgritty28
@Jackgritty28 5 жыл бұрын
How many deal breakers is there?🤑⌚♿🚭🚼🚩🏳
@Solobreed91
@Solobreed91 5 жыл бұрын
Gold 💞⚖️
@maddiefield382
@maddiefield382 5 жыл бұрын
You almost had it until you brought the fairy tales in...
@Nostalgicinquisitor
@Nostalgicinquisitor 5 жыл бұрын
I don't think I'm getting married lmao
@doctorchaimaachanel8974
@doctorchaimaachanel8974 4 жыл бұрын
1 how is your relationship with your family and feiends 2financial goals expenses and debts 3 do you want to have kids 4 how ambitious are you ? 5 do ur desires match 6 how important ahealthy life style is? 7do you share a religion r u confortable with? 8 who does what around the house nd with kids
@sonakshimaity222
@sonakshimaity222 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks 😊
@jarvissamaro1010
@jarvissamaro1010 Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@LeilaLamb
@LeilaLamb 5 жыл бұрын
It’s all very well to ask these questions before marriage, but it’s also important to remember that the answers might change as time goes by.
@faithblessed5798
@faithblessed5798 5 жыл бұрын
So %100 true. We see that everyday. And suprised by people action so far from what they showed at first, said or promised. Liars n evil minded😑
@rachaelhodza7918
@rachaelhodza7918 5 жыл бұрын
true
@asu1293
@asu1293 5 жыл бұрын
absolutely true
@akinyinicole6469
@akinyinicole6469 5 жыл бұрын
Very true
@navonatvgh6352
@navonatvgh6352 4 жыл бұрын
True...
@vickev1254
@vickev1254 5 жыл бұрын
1 How does your family and friends relationship looks like. 2 what are your financial goal. 3 will we have children together. 4 how ambitious are you. 5 are satisfied with desire for intimacy. 6 are you happy with each others approach. 7 do you share religion or spiritual practices. 8 how do you share responsibility btwn kids
@honeybujji1229
@honeybujji1229 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you....
@sweetiepie4328
@sweetiepie4328 4 жыл бұрын
I have the answers to all these questions without ever asking in the 2nd week
@nerdysuzcategui3811
@nerdysuzcategui3811 4 жыл бұрын
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@albertaannan8473
@albertaannan8473 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you @Vic Kev
@AntoninusPius100
@AntoninusPius100 3 жыл бұрын
@@sweetiepie4328 You need more than 2 weeks...
@peacejones3790
@peacejones3790 5 жыл бұрын
The truth is u will never no what's going on in the other persons mind. And that's very scary some people will always lie to get what they want whether married or not.
@thegamercity9176
@thegamercity9176 5 жыл бұрын
peace jones true
@campbecy
@campbecy 5 жыл бұрын
True...as much as you may get acceptable responses to these questions, only time will tell.
@ambermikhailepec4048
@ambermikhailepec4048 5 жыл бұрын
Agreed...😊😇
@anugyapaudel8984
@anugyapaudel8984 5 жыл бұрын
Agreed😊
@maherainaam9048
@maherainaam9048 5 жыл бұрын
Agreed fully
@stacyyealock6779
@stacyyealock6779 5 жыл бұрын
Never had to ask anything... I was on my own at 14yrs old. She was 1 month younger than me, and we both were just needing someone to love. "The .. Will you marry me question was not ever said, didn't have to be". We married at 17yrs. old, have 2 wonderful children and 9 grandbabies. Married 35yrs not 1 argument. Lucky.. IDK, but Love, yes.
@navonatvgh6352
@navonatvgh6352 4 жыл бұрын
Wow...
@m.prashanthjohn335
@m.prashanthjohn335 4 жыл бұрын
😮😍
@Dvious1
@Dvious1 4 жыл бұрын
Wow
@stacyyealock6779
@stacyyealock6779 4 жыл бұрын
@@Dvious1 11-16-2020 35yrs
@stacyyealock6779
@stacyyealock6779 4 жыл бұрын
@@m.prashanthjohn335 11-16-2020 35yrs
@bettystallonegiftjb7622
@bettystallonegiftjb7622 5 жыл бұрын
Who forwarded up to minute 2 based on the comments, basically I value my time
@lekemildred6259
@lekemildred6259 5 жыл бұрын
Betty Stallonegift me
@wnn88
@wnn88 5 жыл бұрын
Hahaha...yes..me😀
@lessieharrolds1515
@lessieharrolds1515 5 жыл бұрын
I did
@sbonzama7013
@sbonzama7013 5 жыл бұрын
Haha whats up with all these unneccessarily long videos lately. I have a short attention span, i want things to go straight to the point.
@ypanso
@ypanso 4 жыл бұрын
if my parents have asked even 1 of those questions before they got married, I would for sure not existed
@jacquelinemolefe6124
@jacquelinemolefe6124 4 жыл бұрын
😂🤣
@khairulkafee9500
@khairulkafee9500 4 жыл бұрын
💀💀💀💀
@carolinerajkumar
@carolinerajkumar 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah.. True😳😳😂😂😂
@bekita3386
@bekita3386 4 жыл бұрын
😅😅😅
@mbuyamatandawinnie2369
@mbuyamatandawinnie2369 4 жыл бұрын
Hahah kkk
@americamike6204
@americamike6204 5 жыл бұрын
I asked a heck of a lot more than that. Your ideas are a good start but dig deep on touchy subjects, it may bring some pain but it will show both of you that 1; you can discuss life deeply and survive the conversation 2; you start a life together with the truth. Don't forget to get an STD test done too, that might shine light on a subject everyone has been taught to avoid, yes past. Their past can become your future. We are extremely happy, but we know everything about each other. We share everything, like writing this comment. Oh and chores.. if you ain't doing it together, you are missing out.
@peterojas2740
@peterojas2740 5 жыл бұрын
Very vital questions to ask each partner, some of which I never gave much consideration to at all. It is wonderful to observe folks celebrating engagements, weddings, anniversaries. There is much that has to be done for those healthy relationships to remain together.
@alicet9780
@alicet9780 2 жыл бұрын
Summary 1. What does your relationship with each others family & friends look like? 2. What is your financial goal in terms of annual income (inidividual and collective) and financial expenses like? (any debt, future plans on finances) 3. Will you have children together? (How many? When? How it will change where you live? How finances come into play?) 4. How ambitious are you? (Affect how much time you spend at career, hobbies?) 5. Satisfied with frequency of intimacy? (Do desires match? If not find new ways to attract each other) 6.. Are you happy with each others approach to health? (Your partners habits and lifestyle may affect yours) 7. Religion or spiritual practice (how much time devoted to it, respect for each others) 8. How do you share child and household duties? (Who takes care of what? Consider careers, delegation of responsibilities)
@SunniDae333
@SunniDae333 Жыл бұрын
thanks
@PhysioFusion257
@PhysioFusion257 5 жыл бұрын
My fiance already told me all these nd much more Alhumdulillah blessed to have him in my life😍
@proudcitizen4883
@proudcitizen4883 5 жыл бұрын
Kashaf Saeed Masha Allah
@melodyrobishaw4601
@melodyrobishaw4601 5 жыл бұрын
The wonderful job
@carotari4491
@carotari4491 5 жыл бұрын
Kashaf Saeed that's so swt
@wardashiundu9913
@wardashiundu9913 5 жыл бұрын
Mashaallah
@katushabemiria637
@katushabemiria637 5 жыл бұрын
Happy for you
@ladyjay7005
@ladyjay7005 5 жыл бұрын
First things first, ask what is your HIV status?
@nyashat4820
@nyashat4820 5 жыл бұрын
Or to just go for hiv test😁
@bezz5803
@bezz5803 5 жыл бұрын
Lady Jay lol 😂
@anthonyarabia838
@anthonyarabia838 5 жыл бұрын
The person you marry should be a virgin 😂
@ladyjay7005
@ladyjay7005 5 жыл бұрын
But there are HIV positive virgins😑
@raquelvelazque9198
@raquelvelazque9198 5 жыл бұрын
H.I.V. positive people deserve a fulfilling life too. It's finding the right person who isn't shallow and loves u no matter what. Things happen that are out of their control but that's God's decision if he will bring light into someone's dark world bc of someone catching an STD. I'm sure they didn't ask for it.
@ATrueLoveOfficial
@ATrueLoveOfficial 5 жыл бұрын
These are pretty fair questions to be asked and consider when you are thinking of getting married. Marriage is a handful but if you put God at the center of your relationship and that you are genuinely serious about it, you'll be fine.
@watherwintes8835
@watherwintes8835 5 жыл бұрын
Hello dear
@freeman405
@freeman405 4 жыл бұрын
That's only your imagination. Because you live in a fantasy world.
@Dvious1
@Dvious1 4 жыл бұрын
True
@Dvious1
@Dvious1 4 жыл бұрын
@@freeman405 You dont know enough to say anything
@freeman405
@freeman405 4 жыл бұрын
@@Dvious1 Can you imagine that, what he says? Put a imaginary so called god at the center of your relationship.
@elizahuston4610
@elizahuston4610 5 жыл бұрын
Who scrolled before this video even got to halfway? Me in all honesty theres always gonna be something going on so i say never follow your heart but ur mind
@antyaier5046
@antyaier5046 5 жыл бұрын
This video is very good for everyone who's trying to get married or plan to have a family planning and long-term commitment.
@ronaldhiler7449
@ronaldhiler7449 5 жыл бұрын
I am one fortunate individual, I have been with the same woman for 42 years and our marriage is rocksolid! What the flip is wrong with people today? These times they are a changing. It the first time we were married was at Lake Solano Park in Vacaville California back in 83, the second was at the temple of our lord at Las Vegas Nevada, and the third we Tied the knot at the Spring fair in Palmer Alaska. Both of us agree we play our cards right as well as correctly for all time & eternity!
@imaginarychip4916
@imaginarychip4916 5 жыл бұрын
The thing is if u make the wrong choice ur life is semi ruined She/he can ask for a divorce and get half ur stuff and money She / he can cheat on u She / he can steal u
@poopstar6091
@poopstar6091 5 жыл бұрын
How lucky 👍 good on you keep it up. Good luck for years rest of your life👌
@beautyqueen315
@beautyqueen315 5 жыл бұрын
Love from Pakistan for you both:)
@shortcovers2094
@shortcovers2094 5 жыл бұрын
Its about 3 words Love, Trust, nd Family .
@jofloletschat7788
@jofloletschat7788 Жыл бұрын
I’ve learned late after marriage that you need to know beforehand what each other’s concept of marriage is and what’s expected of a spouse
@emperorwarrior
@emperorwarrior 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing, some times planning alone is better than have a man to anipulate a woman's life or wanna keep a woman stuck, envious or jealous of his admirable partner. No matter what employment or ideas, a religious, health, money, property & selfishness etc. Sometimes it's better to be alone than with bad company
@markokuot8950
@markokuot8950 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks, too much freedom without a spiritual guide lines or life, it will end up with that ideas....
@jovi7239
@jovi7239 3 жыл бұрын
Hello Rosemary how are you doing today
@blessedchild2575
@blessedchild2575 5 жыл бұрын
I would ask them if they put God before and us second
@ketrinajames3165
@ketrinajames3165 5 жыл бұрын
blessed child God should come first
@MM-xm5yj
@MM-xm5yj 5 жыл бұрын
You are Amazing 🙏💕
@yvonneimbur4302
@yvonneimbur4302 5 жыл бұрын
Of cus you two are second
@helenidemudia2353
@helenidemudia2353 5 жыл бұрын
Exactly ! That's the rule nr. One
@twade39
@twade39 5 жыл бұрын
This is when i knew my fiancé was the one. He has always put God first in everything and that includes me and i’m perfectly happy with that ❤️
@victorokafor4051
@victorokafor4051 5 жыл бұрын
Ask God in prayer for a perfect life partner and first consider her religious life. Does she fear God? Then plan other things with her/he. I will ask my partner to be how much she loves God... JESUS CHRIST.
@ayoolasylvanus4333
@ayoolasylvanus4333 5 жыл бұрын
Lol...will she say she hates God? Or will she claim to love God any less than 100%?
@AMAZINGBABYOFFICIAL
@AMAZINGBABYOFFICIAL 5 жыл бұрын
👍👍👍
@melodytanrui1742
@melodytanrui1742 5 жыл бұрын
yes I believe that everything depends on the wills of God.
@oluwatosinakintayo5526
@oluwatosinakintayo5526 5 жыл бұрын
Though spirituality is important, It's more complicated than that. Compatibility of personality& lifestyle is very key to a successful union. You can't possibly marry anyone of the same faith in the name of loving God. Your need to know each other very well and be willing to commit each other.
@abab9622
@abab9622 5 жыл бұрын
Interesting. Fearing....instead of loving your God. 🤔
@mountainhigh4134
@mountainhigh4134 5 жыл бұрын
I'm married for 17years, and I have 1child. I just remembered asked to my husband before I marry to him is about where we can live after we married.
@nor6041
@nor6041 3 жыл бұрын
Where are you from what country?
@mountainhigh4134
@mountainhigh4134 3 жыл бұрын
@@nor6041 Taiwan
@jovi7239
@jovi7239 3 жыл бұрын
Hello Amber how are you doing today
@Satisfying_vidzz
@Satisfying_vidzz 4 жыл бұрын
His relationship with family nd frnds is very important more then me😓😓
@pouringwithrobyn4365
@pouringwithrobyn4365 4 жыл бұрын
I'm in a long distance relationship , and we can only text because he's a Soldier but he still tells me he loves and misses me with photos of him hoping it works out 💟
@rosesafoa8910
@rosesafoa8910 3 жыл бұрын
Becareful.because some of them are scammers.+233238897116
@bonniegrimes1099
@bonniegrimes1099 3 жыл бұрын
Hello! Robyn Happy for you and your solider but be careful . It's hard on long distance apart but trust has to be there also . Don't be fooled by a person you haven't meet in person yet. Get to know one another more before making serious decision
@wendyshoo3476
@wendyshoo3476 3 жыл бұрын
Long distnce reltionship seldom works. Because overtime the felling just faded especially when you meet someone better than him and he is besides you in reality. Best luck.
@findaruthkpakiwa6235
@findaruthkpakiwa6235 3 жыл бұрын
What is the name of this song he used in the video
@nerizabondad9365
@nerizabondad9365 5 жыл бұрын
It's obvious , if you still have questions in your mind then you both are not compatible but if you feel comfortable with that person already, you don't need to ask more questions because questions didn't pop up when you are in love.
@salacollection4167
@salacollection4167 3 жыл бұрын
You are highly right
@muskaangulati122
@muskaangulati122 5 жыл бұрын
When a couple fall in love with each other they do not think....they just do love only....and if love is true...they both can sacrifice anything for their partner. I think this video applicable for arrenge marriage....not for love marriage😊love is blind💕 hi i m from india💐
@gladislas3475
@gladislas3475 5 жыл бұрын
That's very true
@calenjoshua8375
@calenjoshua8375 5 жыл бұрын
Love does not come from arranged marriage ,we do not accept arranged marriage because love comes when you choose your perfect partner
@poonamsangroya8302
@poonamsangroya8302 5 жыл бұрын
I also agree with u From India🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳
@mumtazcadaani1781
@mumtazcadaani1781 5 жыл бұрын
me too agree with you iam from somalia love is stronger than everything
@shaguftaanwar4742
@shaguftaanwar4742 5 жыл бұрын
Exactly u r correct....👍👍👍
@ramonaturner401
@ramonaturner401 5 жыл бұрын
This video is good for first time married individuals ...
@francreation
@francreation 5 жыл бұрын
Hahahahahahahah
@Heidi_137
@Heidi_137 4 жыл бұрын
Ya, jailbait topics... Things change all those questions means nothing after having kids and responsabilities.
@faithhopelove2484
@faithhopelove2484 5 жыл бұрын
My first question is number 8 question after everything is going awesome with first God.
@libreverdaderamente4450
@libreverdaderamente4450 5 жыл бұрын
What god ?
@freeman405
@freeman405 4 жыл бұрын
Your imaginary god exists in your head.
@tatjana7008
@tatjana7008 5 жыл бұрын
People change yourself, their life financial situation, sports habits etc as well. And from my experience relationship based on love last longer time. But for majority of people this list is really helpful, to minimize divorce risks (sounds very material for me)
@lindafurroughs8216
@lindafurroughs8216 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly i always tell them actions speak louder then words. They say anything they THINK you want to hear. But dont follow up with actions.
@jovi7239
@jovi7239 3 жыл бұрын
Hello Linda how are you doing today hope you have a wonderful time at home
@Coacheben
@Coacheben 5 жыл бұрын
I love the presentation. It's so realistic questions
@thatonerandomguy3953
@thatonerandomguy3953 5 жыл бұрын
Good questions, but my wife and I already discussed every single point before getting engaged. Also, the intro was WAY too long.
@JustineMfulama
@JustineMfulama 4 жыл бұрын
THIS IS SUCH GOOD ADVICE! Asking the hard questions is so important.
@findaruthkpakiwa6235
@findaruthkpakiwa6235 3 жыл бұрын
Do you knw d title of d song that he used in d video
@joshuacollins7398
@joshuacollins7398 5 жыл бұрын
My girlfriend is Filipina. We plan on getting married. I will leave it in God's hands.
@julettcoley4149
@julettcoley4149 5 жыл бұрын
Very important to discuss these issues and more in order to determine compatibility
@wanjirulinet
@wanjirulinet Жыл бұрын
Have no clue of I getting married..but when the time comes,I will be able to ask these questions
@joystravellingvlogs2160
@joystravellingvlogs2160 5 жыл бұрын
Agreed to everything you have mentioned in this video, but above all we need to know is how much your partner loves you because only then every thing else will be possible to do isn’t?
@joshuaemmanuel3378
@joshuaemmanuel3378 2 жыл бұрын
Love is not enough to keep a relationship or wedding. If its LoVE most of these divorced celebrities will still be married. Love fade...what keep a marriage is commitment to eagh other
@lucyglavi6016
@lucyglavi6016 4 жыл бұрын
Some other questions I will ask is : 1. Will you accept my friends visitation 2.are we one day going to have a joint account in the future 3. How do we share the bills in the house 4.Are you OK of my companionship
@BestieHealth
@BestieHealth 4 жыл бұрын
Those are great questions bestie! ❤️
@TombstoneHeart
@TombstoneHeart 6 жыл бұрын
There is one question that is missing completely from that list and it over rides all of the other questions. Do you like your girlfriend's mother? If the answer is "No", drop the girlfriend, because whatever trait it is about her mother that you don't like, eventually it will emerge in the girlfriend too. And by then, you'll probably be married to her and that's when your problems will really start. Ask yourself that question first, before it's too late.
@BestieHealth
@BestieHealth 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment. It makes a lot of sense.
@diociharesibelli2547
@diociharesibelli2547 5 жыл бұрын
I agree with some women but not all the time,there are some things my mom does i dont like and i was never around her much growing up cuz she was working almost everyday and didn't come home till i was asleep so i didnt pick her habbits so it depends
@christinamitrovich7554
@christinamitrovich7554 5 жыл бұрын
This is not true if it was we could argue the same for the mans relatives.
@christinamitrovich7554
@christinamitrovich7554 5 жыл бұрын
Not all people are or turn out like their parents. People can make choices and be the choices they chosen.
@snap2114
@snap2114 5 жыл бұрын
TombstoneHeart That is SO NOT true cuz my mother was very timid. Something I am NOT!
@maryholmes733
@maryholmes733 5 жыл бұрын
Very practical these issues must be addressed. In order to see if wheather or not you are compatible, and you want your marriage to be successful. It's wisdom.
@lynnenriquez1909
@lynnenriquez1909 5 жыл бұрын
#7 Should actually be #1. My husband & I have so much in common & similar backgrounds. I was more religious & looking back, I wished I would have had him pray with me & gone to church with me. I also married a non-ambitious person who just mooched off me & cheated.
@compter809
@compter809 5 жыл бұрын
I believe unconditional love
@latoshabullock4723
@latoshabullock4723 3 жыл бұрын
Before we got married husband and I we had pre martial counselling with our pastor who is licensed she asked all of these questions and more. If you don't know how to talk about these questions I suggest pre martial counselling it is a safe environment to ask these and more.
@bradlifto2211
@bradlifto2211 5 жыл бұрын
Well you have not got in the right answer to the question until you are into it. Your answer can be change after give a taste of for the 1st time. So be yourself always love-care-forgive each other. See God in each other and treat each as how you would treat God
@stephenaquila7510
@stephenaquila7510 5 жыл бұрын
I Love your plane approach
@sdxcdwsfc8446
@sdxcdwsfc8446 5 жыл бұрын
Perfectly speaking. May God protect n guild us to choose a faithful,God fearing,Understanding n acts..Tnx for sharing keep up e good job. It very educative n interesting
@fleurof28
@fleurof28 5 жыл бұрын
aside from the other questions about the relationship about family and friends, I asked my husband before marriage if he knows about gambling he said he didnt know about gambling thing he passed coz I don’t want to be with the man the rest of my life who’s hobby is gambling...
@RogerMoonking
@RogerMoonking 3 жыл бұрын
The mind must be right, no individualism but interdependence.
@osoikhiakim3822
@osoikhiakim3822 3 жыл бұрын
+393510626079
@osoikhiakim3822
@osoikhiakim3822 3 жыл бұрын
If you need your ex love back text Dr Udo for help.
@jenjackson7371
@jenjackson7371 6 жыл бұрын
Good questions. I would ask them how often they expect to go out with their guy friends without me.
@freeman405
@freeman405 4 жыл бұрын
And how often would you go out with your women friends without him?
@catseyesinthesky1339
@catseyesinthesky1339 3 жыл бұрын
I would likely to mold into his/her lifestyle I go with the flow ? But marring someone is a pipe dreams and you got be compatible with each other and lifestyle And except each other’s family and friends 🧐🤨🤓
@tustazowiowao
@tustazowiowao 5 жыл бұрын
I did all those mistakes. everything you said are true
@mkhululinxumalo2713
@mkhululinxumalo2713 5 жыл бұрын
Me too.
@johnzoutewelle5015
@johnzoutewelle5015 3 жыл бұрын
AK and JP
@arijitsinghislove9841
@arijitsinghislove9841 3 жыл бұрын
I have to appreciate this channel for pointing out that it's necessary to ask your partner whether they want kids and not just assume everyone does❤
@osoikhiakim3822
@osoikhiakim3822 3 жыл бұрын
+393510626079
@osoikhiakim3822
@osoikhiakim3822 3 жыл бұрын
If you need your ex love back text Dr Udo for help.
@darcymolett9245
@darcymolett9245 4 жыл бұрын
All those are good questions and do need to be discussed with depth. That's why marriage counseling is good because those are the things that are important.
@vandanamasih5816
@vandanamasih5816 5 жыл бұрын
Put a marriage in God hands ... God will lead ... And protect from all the problems of the husband wifes
@dunnyduncan4700
@dunnyduncan4700 5 жыл бұрын
Vandana Masih very true
@sarwatbajwa5957
@sarwatbajwa5957 5 жыл бұрын
Vandana Masih Good answer
@myhate2033
@myhate2033 5 жыл бұрын
Yeahhh
@markking2977
@markking2977 5 жыл бұрын
my dear you get the answers.... God first
@bhavikapatel1205
@bhavikapatel1205 5 жыл бұрын
One should not just marry blindly. It's very important to know your partner before getting into commitment
@kokila4652
@kokila4652 5 жыл бұрын
I hv crssd all qst b4 watching, n v r leading ur 5 years of love. Wt ever 1st whn i met I tk him to my god n shwd my god thn my mom. However it goes my god vil take care. N he s always understanding, teaching things around me. Encourage me in my interest.
@beautifulqueen748
@beautifulqueen748 3 жыл бұрын
It’s all legit questions me and my fiancé talked about this before getting engaged
@stephaniebuckley8823
@stephaniebuckley8823 4 жыл бұрын
I have a big smile on my face. We have the same goals of looking after our families together. We are both certain we want to look after our families and help each other do so. We look after our finances together and are working towards budgeting together. We are so happy to think about money together because we have the same goals. We want to start a business together. But we also are not afraid that the other will be controlling with money. We have been speaking about having children and child rearing factors. We are weak where the other is strong and we know we will be there for each other when it comes to parenting. We have the same ambitions. We want to build a business in environmentalism and we want to do volunteer work. We are passionate together. More passionate together. And our sex life. Awesome. Just awesome. I think we are going to be together forever. So happy. We are both working together to be healthier. We have the same vision of health. We both have a background in Christianity and are both wondering what to do with that. Together we can work it out. And we find the perfect balance between dividing chores and we have a classic vibe of me being the Mum and him being the Dad. I accept he is the man of the house and I am the Mothering one.
@masih24
@masih24 2 жыл бұрын
Sry my lady I'm a 20 years old boy and I'm travelling to Europe I need some information if you have time to answer my questions I would be very glad ( it's about the relationship )
@masih24
@masih24 2 жыл бұрын
I'm a college student (bio informatic ) i really like to receive some guidance 😁
@poopstar6091
@poopstar6091 5 жыл бұрын
That is true I did a big mistake marrying without asking any of these questions😔
@berithaandersonn2234
@berithaandersonn2234 5 жыл бұрын
🤔🤔don't regret please, everything happens for a reason, try to solve whatever you have
@poopstar6091
@poopstar6091 5 жыл бұрын
@@berithaandersonn2234 Thanks😍
@babuiprojapotitomeraskask7525
@babuiprojapotitomeraskask7525 5 жыл бұрын
True each other belongs both whole life........
@michaelonyeka4075
@michaelonyeka4075 5 жыл бұрын
I've read too many questions to ask before getting married. In fact I give up
@raginisharma9302
@raginisharma9302 3 жыл бұрын
What an excellent video for people planning to get married - these are important questions to get clarity on
@BestieHealth
@BestieHealth 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks! Glad it was helpful 😊
@annammavarma4444
@annammavarma4444 5 жыл бұрын
God fearing & like minded people, such marriages will sustain because God is the Head of the Family. This is the secret of the success in Marriage.
@feliciamkase2857
@feliciamkase2857 5 жыл бұрын
That is very true
@rozzykin3469
@rozzykin3469 5 жыл бұрын
I tend to disagree with you somehow
@freeman405
@freeman405 4 жыл бұрын
It's time to wake up. It only exist in your head. Look around you.
@sankarirajasekar9301
@sankarirajasekar9301 3 жыл бұрын
20 years of married life, dont think too much, no more expectations, life is very beautiful, just live with your blessed partner,and beautiful childrens,we submit our thankful heart everyday to our heavenly father, god bless u all👨‍👩‍👧‍👦🤝👍
@amayasolis1886
@amayasolis1886 5 жыл бұрын
Ofcourse I ask him to put God first in every step of our relationship
@freeman405
@freeman405 4 жыл бұрын
Put a imaginary god in your relationship. Sounds like a fairy tale.
@drrohitmisra
@drrohitmisra 5 жыл бұрын
Please remember that even with best of intentions a lot of times the girl's family and friends try and often time succeed in getting you separated from you by planting seed of doubts, fear and insecurity. I have seen that happening keep in mind emotional maturity of your partner / wife ..resulting in divorce /separation for life
@bradlifto2211
@bradlifto2211 5 жыл бұрын
In Marriage is quite and talk less is better. Quite will answer prayer
@EmangxMusicTV
@EmangxMusicTV 3 жыл бұрын
I have at least 17 solid questionnaires about my partner before considering marriage. Though I don’t even think out of 8 these questions in this video isn’t enough to know your partner. Just my opinion.
@vikagrish9443
@vikagrish9443 5 жыл бұрын
Liked the video. All these questions/thinking pop up naturally in our mind as we know each other better.
@johnrainsman6650
@johnrainsman6650 Жыл бұрын
I have a marriage question. I saw this happen in the hall near my brother's wedding reception. A female manager was upset with a caterer, who had signed up for a one-person shift. She said she didn't think he could manage the service alone. She was sternly all, "I've told you not to sign up for shifts by yourself, I've been very clear about that, I don't know how much clearer I can get for you to listen. You need someone there to give you instructions and guide you." And then the caterer said, "You know, I'm beginning to see why you work so many wedding receptions." What does his comeback mean? Whats the implied reason?
@Pe-Export
@Pe-Export 5 жыл бұрын
They were good questions though but you can never know your wife or your husband completely. You will keep discovering each other in marriage.
@ItsLovelyG
@ItsLovelyG 4 жыл бұрын
We can discover our future spouses, that's why we have this; Friendship, courtship and marriage. These three stages is important.
@georgeturner301
@georgeturner301 4 жыл бұрын
Excellent questions...asking such questions would prevent a significant number of marriages from taking place. I have always thought that it should infinitely more to get married as opposed to getting divorced.
@pabhishek3791
@pabhishek3791 5 жыл бұрын
There is only one formula, both should be like minded.
@shazanaombonya7938
@shazanaombonya7938 5 жыл бұрын
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@amylowery226
@amylowery226 3 жыл бұрын
I would add Get to know your Love Language, and discuss if hearing, understanding and learning for each is other is important to them. It should be!!!
@luvlife8277
@luvlife8277 5 жыл бұрын
Waited 7-8 yrs to get married and he literally changed the day after he said I Do ...we had a three yr old then, she’s now 18 and wonderful but her dad and I are not 🙄
@susankoech
@susankoech 4 жыл бұрын
They change a lot. He might even pretend not to be alcoholic, then show his true colour right after.
@eternalrage7082
@eternalrage7082 5 жыл бұрын
I'm already mentally prepared for marriage. She knows me as a worthy one.
@jeneviebrown4887
@jeneviebrown4887 5 жыл бұрын
I don’t think I will get married again too many things to consider
@snap2114
@snap2114 5 жыл бұрын
Jenevieve Brown. Me either! My spouse passed away in 2016 at age 60 and now I'm not really interested in meeting anyone new. Just waaayyy too many things to consider. I like not having to answer to anyone. I can walk around the house naked if I want to or need to. Besides menopause has robbed me of any desire for intimacy. So why do I need a man now?
@vidadedolphinofficial1642
@vidadedolphinofficial1642 5 жыл бұрын
...you don't have to consider all of this...the best thing is true love💙🔥...i'm single &ready to mingle...if interested give me a like👍
@josephinewanjiku384
@josephinewanjiku384 5 жыл бұрын
@@vidadedolphinofficial1642 haha single too
@vidadedolphinofficial1642
@vidadedolphinofficial1642 5 жыл бұрын
@@josephinewanjiku384 ....here is my watssap...contact let us mingle 0706078648 +254706078648
@georgetidwell003
@georgetidwell003 5 жыл бұрын
Jenevie Brown because marriage is bs to many things in this matriarchy country
@lhenhernandez5982
@lhenhernandez5982 5 жыл бұрын
Im dating a guy right now whose sarcastic, got angry easily to others, very ambitious, very straight forward, but sweet, kind hearted sometimes and can be trusted, funny guy too..were in a long diatance relationship but were on our 2nd month..hes always telling me about we getting married if this rel will be very serious and he doesnt want kids cause ive already have 2 kids😊 and hes 7yrs younger than me.. Hope we can survive this😊 i like him now☺️
@pasagin1613
@pasagin1613 4 жыл бұрын
Getting marry to the person that I can't even give my 100% trust.💔
@michaelt334
@michaelt334 3 жыл бұрын
You’re funny
@brenavguer
@brenavguer 3 жыл бұрын
Why would you ever do so?
@eahannan
@eahannan 3 жыл бұрын
You wont survive healthily until u deal with it together.
@aidanalariccross
@aidanalariccross 3 жыл бұрын
I've watched a lot these relationship videos and this one is definitely the best one I've seen 👌
@sixsensedayspa
@sixsensedayspa 5 жыл бұрын
Just perfect I tell people this all the time but they get very angry I just don't know why??
@ccsilva6110
@ccsilva6110 3 жыл бұрын
Don't care you doing right thing taking care of yourself and future family by practice.
@venapayne6090
@venapayne6090 4 жыл бұрын
Always pay attention to actions. Yes ask these questions but make sure you pay attention to the reactions.
@TomokoAbe_
@TomokoAbe_ 6 жыл бұрын
EVEN IF YOU DO NOT OWN MUCH--GET A PRENUPTUAL AGREEMENT. You will be sorry if you don't. During marriage even with separate credit cards your spouse charges everything to the max without your knowledge the judge can split marital debts in HALF and you pay half of it. A prenup will prevent that UNLESS you have a joint account or put your name on the loan then you are screwed even with a prenup.
@sinthiyapremra7793
@sinthiyapremra7793 6 жыл бұрын
Tomoko Abe i don't have to worry about anyofthese.cuz my marriage is chosen by God not these people who has all rules and regulations.
@sherineamla8143
@sherineamla8143 5 жыл бұрын
Prenuptial bst,it wrked for me!!!
@nicolasbota4995
@nicolasbota4995 Жыл бұрын
came for advice, stayed for the beats
@feliciachingambo5627
@feliciachingambo5627 5 жыл бұрын
Wow,this is really nice.am encouraged.
@missnellz4475
@missnellz4475 5 жыл бұрын
Always find a way to ask about the history of their health and also health of their family in case of hereditary illnesses
@shylooney13
@shylooney13 5 жыл бұрын
Lol 2 minutes wasted in just the intro
@fumbamutimankhata5795
@fumbamutimankhata5795 5 жыл бұрын
Katherine Perez crazy
@mauvalinabaker7424
@mauvalinabaker7424 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you I skipped the first 2mins
@kaiwrather3587
@kaiwrather3587 5 жыл бұрын
Right lol
@MrMarkcooldude
@MrMarkcooldude 5 жыл бұрын
Watch the video in 1.5x to save time
@La_abbess
@La_abbess 4 жыл бұрын
Lemme save you two minutes more, read the summary, generously itemized by the poster above you😅😂
@senkabobovcan2356
@senkabobovcan2356 2 жыл бұрын
Ok.... I'm from Bosnia Sarajevo and suddenly widow 13 years now. My husband in 1980 visit his sister who she was merij my cousin. We meet each other in new year eave 1979 _ 1980 It was love in first look . After 3 day he tell me we go get your all paperwork I'm taking you in Osijek ( Croatia ) He didn't ask me :) just telling me I not leaving you ... You will be my wife . :) After 5 days knowing each other I was traveling with hem to Osijek and be his wife for 28 years after he died . It was love , honestly , respect , preciatet , trust on top. I love hem for ever and hope I see hem again .
@rozzyhi1827
@rozzyhi1827 5 жыл бұрын
All of these questions sound like things u find out over a few years of being boyfriend-girlfriend. Cuz I imagine these conversations come pretty naturally to couples that never even think of marriage any time in the future.
@favourmbewe7789
@favourmbewe7789 5 жыл бұрын
very true points .... but God first in what ever we choose to do...
@amug3536
@amug3536 5 жыл бұрын
Before having children and or before living together.... Few people are getting married in the western countries, sadly
@starlight2371
@starlight2371 2 жыл бұрын
Time changes people and priorities changes! The big key here is appreciation. If your mate doesn't appreciate you then what is it all about? Might as well live and love a cat!
@reinavirtucio2229
@reinavirtucio2229 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for having me I in your life. .you are my one and only.
@mariannejune6791
@mariannejune6791 5 жыл бұрын
starts at 2:08
@thehuman2861
@thehuman2861 5 жыл бұрын
Good Person+ Good Person =True Love But unfortunately everyone thinks he is a good person but most of us are not and to find a good person you have to become one first, only then KZbin able to recognise a good person/soul.
@Adel-sq5fg
@Adel-sq5fg 5 жыл бұрын
U perfectly right ... ...i always wonder why people criticize whats true/right ...nways these are part of the 8 ....and u dont need 8 only ...always God makes u two meet u pray for these ...thanks narrator
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