8 Simple Habits To Be Effortlessly Charming

Looking for advice on how to be charismatic? Ever felt like some people instantly make us feel important? Some people instantly make us feel special and light up a room just by walking into it. We can’t always define it, but some people have it: they are naturally charismatic. Thanks to their research, we now know that charisma is less of an inborn set of traits but is something that everyone can develop by practicing a few key behaviors until they become habitual.
DISCLAIMER: This video is designed for educational purposes and is not suggesting that people who embody these qualities are classified as being ‘charismatic’. These are just some of the habits that, according to research, contribute towards somebody being charismatic.
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[@Psych2go]

HAPPY Friday. What are you doing today? DISCLAIMER: This video is designed for educational purposes and is not suggesting that people who embody these qualities are classified as being ‘charismatic’. These are just some of the habits that, according to research, contribute towards somebody being charismatic.

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Happy Friday, love everyone to works on this channel

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Thanks

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I’m gonna... Uh.. Umm.. Run until I can’t anymore??

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I am staying in indoors because it is rainy.

[@thewea3042]

sign* finally a break that give me a second to breath

[@kana3880]

Charisma is something you develop, a skill even if some people are naturally charismatic.

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Are you sure I can't just use skill points?

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@@colev5075 modern problems require modern solutions

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@@frostbite9926 so that’s a yes

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What's the artist for your pfp? It looks really cute!

[@kana3880]

@神aqua I actually don't know I just searched random pictures on the internet

[@audreyshin7827]

I choose my words carefully because i’m self conscious

[@Psych2go]

And because of that, you are charamastic.

[@silas-arlo]

i am self conscious and i dont choose my words very carefully, depending on the situation

[@ICEcoldJT]

“Remove expectations from people and you will remove their powers to hurt your feelings. If you don’t like something, just take it away, it’s only power is your attention.” ✨

[@Akirathechampion]

That's the greatest escape plan. Always keep it in mind.

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[@tee7423]

I hope every kid reads it, imma go read it out loud to my younger siblings.

[@imonlyhuman573]

Help me to find the power switch of my attention. Really need to control it 😹

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[@jennyneon]

Watching Psych2Go can technically make you charismatic.

[@Akirathechampion]

Kinda

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[@p1ntu_]

@Xavier don't impersonate our philosopher brother.

[@ihavetallbrains2011]

Y e s

[@Psych2go]

100%.

[@goyeolv]

Summary 1. 0:44 Choose words Carefully 2. 1:07 They Encourage self - disclosure 3. 1:37 They radiate Warmth 4. 2:07 They may crack intelligent jokes. 5. 2:43 they know how to steal the limelight 6. 3:11 They believe in themselves 7. 3:40 They readily admit their own failings 8. 4:03 They rarely lose their temper

[@hayleystubbs591]

Thanks so much for this 😊

[@samuraiboi2735]

@The Emo Trans Bimbo no

[@user-oq4yk1xd7d]

@The Emo Trans Bimbo you prolly have a fever

[@samuraiboi2735]

@The Emo Trans Bimbo i think your high

[@samuraiboi2735]

@The Emo Trans Bimbo okay nvm i got no time to talk to some stranger

[@aquariusqueen6130]

“Do you ever stop to think about your words?” Me: Accidentally ratting on myself telling a story to my mom.

[@Psych2go]

hehe

[@veigaranao8134]

Me

[@thewea3042]

It is not fair that you are attractive physically, and totally ignored those who are very beautiful deep inside their heart. Conclusion, never make a friend before observing them.

[@teekanne5330]

You mean observing with Cameras.

[@byrondelvalle6478]

One of the best compliments I've received and still regularly think about is a friend of a friend called me genuinely charming and charismatic. It's a great feeling to know that people do find me charismatic. :)

[@glutimousmaximous9148]

Bruh tell me ur ways

[@MeganMarieMasters]

@@glutimousmaximous9148 Many people have told me im very confident & charming and honestly Im very greatful that people percieve me that way its hard to explain because im naturally an extravert and I always talk to people first or make the first move, even if your anxious just think about the other person they are also probably anxious as well & by you talking to them or making a first impression without ever knowing them....it makes people very happy & makes them feel important (which they are) for example Theres this girl in my biology class & she often sits alone one day I walked up to her & just sat down, was quiet for a few seconds & then I turned towards the direction of her face and said a purposley cringey joke I then made direct eye contact, smiled & started laughing she looked at me & giggled I then proceded to introduce myself by saying my name I let there be a moment of silence & then I asked where she got her sweatshirt from because it was really unique she looked at her sweatshirt & was shocked I had even taken recognition to it & said Oh um thank you & smiled. I then said no problem, then I asked her about the work we were doing & asked what type of things she was into & she immidietly started opening up to me

[@MeganMarieMasters]

@@glutimousmaximous9148 long story short these are a list of things I do or say that are charasmatic or charming

[@strawberryxoxo6841]

@@MeganMarieMastersAs an introvert who suppresses the extroverted part of me and gets drained easily you are literally goals 😅 I’m working on developing these skills, online it’s easier to be this charismatic and confident but in person it’s a whole different things and I’m working on it.

[@thekrixhna]

Keanu Reeves is so charmastic that I clicked the video as fast as I can by seeing the Thumbnail. 🤩

[@Mtz2604]

Me too.

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Lol

[@Psych2go]

High five!

[@Psych2go]

@@Mtz2604 ;)

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@@Psych2go ✋

[@afaegfsgsdef]

The Narcissism test: Step 1: Take a minute to think about yourself Step 2: If you made it to step 2, you are probably not a narcissist

[@WisdomWealth77]

Motivation is what gets you started. Habit is what keeps you going. 🧡

[@RK-rv9dr]

i gues dicipline is also a factor

[@Resident--a]

Ah, the full embrace of one's self... Love yourself properly, learn to love others properly. Though for many of us, this requires some level of suffering, not for the purpose of pain, but for the purpose of knowledge. I don't like experiencing this, but I absolutely adore that.

[@alessadolan5718]

I’m natural charismatic, i’ve noticed that people became very drawn to me in a short time, that people kept saying that i’m special for them & that i’m a good person because i actually listen to what they’re saying. It makes me feel super warm and happy because i didn’t even knew what charisma was for a long time 😂.

[@mtotheb2062]

"they believe in themselves" O I guess I'm not charismatic

[@uwu-df6cd]

well u can be one now

[@soulaliwel9860]

Cause you are a normal healthy person

[@more1494]

Keenu reevus 😻👌in thumbnail

[@heyman4151]

Most charismatic person ever

[@Asgretalos]

Keanu Reeves lez goooo

[@kay5101]

Time traveler

[@luna22180]

1. They choose their words carefully 0:43 2. They encourage self-disclosure 1:08 3. They radiate warmth 1:38 4. They may crack intelligent jokes 2:11 5. They know how to steal the lime light 2:44 6. They believe themselves 3:10 7. They readily admit their own failings 3:38 8. They rarely lose their temper 4:03 Hope this helps

[@forgottendoors2442]

Hi everyone I'm Diana. I started writing about myself in comments and alot of people replied with similar stories and great advice🧡 Now I'm out of my abusive relationship.. I'm finally free. I don't feel attached and I'm not scared anymore. I'm slowly gaining back my confidence and fixing my health. I'm grateful for all the support I got even though it was through strangers. #feelingblessed😇

[@imonlyhuman573]

Good to know that Diana.. Keep it up🌻🌻🌻

[@gianz73]

That's great, Diana! The world is indeed full of kind, interesting and helpful people. Wish you all the best in life!

[@nitishsharma7545]

That's really Nice to hear Diana 😇.... love from India😇

[@myrna4445]

Same. I felt very sad at first. Now I’m getting to the point where I see the light.

[@josiepark5521]

I like how Keanu's face is on the thumbnail 😂

[@Psych2go]

Would you like us to interview him?

[@josiepark5521]

yes please

[@ninaa9061]

Natalia’s voice is so soothing 💕

[@jimmygarcia7250]

Thats amanda i think

[@nikkozoneyt9471]

when you just want to chill behind the scenes but the spotlight finds you.

[@Psych2go]

Finds you all the time!

[@wildmuffinx7119]

The animated doctors are so cute ^•^

[@Psych2go]

Thank you :D Glad you like it

[@sarahashraf6171]

This comment is cute.😂

[@kwanpost5353]

I've never considered myself as a charming individual until an acquaintance pointed it out just the other day and even then, I couldn't believe it since I've always thought charismatic is a trait possessed mostly by extroverts which I'm not. Then, psych2go made this video and bam! Well, okay... it's nice to know that I turned out to be one. Instant self-esteem boost! Thanks, psych2go. ❤️

[@TheCynthiahawkins]

The most charismatic person I know is an internationally renowned film and television actor. I know him personally, and he is naturally adept in all of these traits. In fact, when you spend time with him, he makes you feel as if you're the only person in the world when he's talking to you. He is very warm, incredibly funny, and he has good manners. In the 19 years I've known him, I've only seen him lose his temper once, and it was under extraordinary circumstances. These traits are all divorced from his work on screen. When he's on screen, he is magical at his craft and authentic. In real life, however, he is genuine, present, and delightful without necessarily tapping into his professional talent to connect with people. He's also a good friend and very kind to people.

[@ericblack7379]

I find your voice relaxing and charismatic and often get much information from this. Helpful as I had cptsd

[@galaxylucia1898]

This was an informative video as always, glad to learn new tips on how to be a more approachable. But, my favorite thing was the background music-the string arrangement was beautiful. Thanks.

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Your voice might be one of the most soothing voices I've ever heard. I thank you for sharing this video

[@mhamadkarate4260]

Your voice is so soft and calming

[@nassiefagar3411]

Your drawings are getting better and better keep up the good work

[@julianneferguson5696]

I needed this!! Thank youuu

[@musicalcoversforpros279]

John wick never talks so he doesn't have to choose his words

[@siddhantdas9436]

He only chooses his wepon

[@Lil_lit_Bruh]

@@siddhantdas9436 no he uses whatever he has

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John wick is my favorite movie even though I am a girl

[@cloudyhead5351]

Thank you for all your videos and advices 💙🎶 I am really interested in the psychology since I took the mbti (my result was infj) So thank you 😊

[@claireconway8510]

I'm charismatic but I sometimes say things without thinking so I need to work on this some more. Etiquette coaches say we should ask questions when someone shares something and only give advice if we're asked for it. The acronym W.A.I.T. helps me a lot. Why Am I Talking? 😀 👍 I enjoyed the video a lot thanks. Often being pleasant and aiming to please others is less important than acknowledging your own needs, experiencing honest emotions, speaking the truth in kindness and being assertive. ;-)

[@juanalferez]

"Is less about you, and more how you make others feel" cool 😎 video !!!

[@NoobtuberFan]

Every single one described me lol, I knew people liked me alot straight from the get to, but its nice to hear that every thing you listed fits perfectly to me.

[@mitchliam974]

Wow y'all did great research for this. Spot on.

[@ridameer2075]

love the background music of this video❤ full charismatic vibes 💃

[@saltytoshiro3685]

Well of course the most charismatic group of individuals would know about what makes charisma! :) Keep up the great work!

[@illiyeen0024]

"They rarely lose their temper" okay I can never be charismatic 💀

[@Psych2go]

No worries! We have the solution for you...

[@illiyeen0024]

@@Psych2go awww really 😍 glad to know that

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Thank you!

[@sabinaenayet4532]

Thanks. Learning so many things from this channel. 💕

[@Psych2go]

So glad!

[@PoonamSharma-gj5fu]

3:14 you suddenly started to speak slowly, that gave me chills, the horror kind , I don't why 😟

[@babydai5472]

Habbit number 1: Be Keanu Reeves Congratulations you made it!!

[@arzan1193]

This channel has educated me soo much! Thanks (:

[@1kayowa]

absolutely loved this thank you

[@petergayah7677]

this is so me; my natural socialization xD. I love your videos, the characters at the end; dancing, were so cute too. Lots of love from little me; from trinidad and tobago :D

[@psyche0598]

A neutron walked into a bar and asked the bartender "How much for a drink?". The bartender replies "For you? No Charge!" (I had to after that photon joke)

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👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

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Thanks for sharing.

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This is amazing :0 :D thank you! I hope everyone has a good day btw :0 💕

[@Psych2go]

Thank you too!

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You people are my best friend and also each and every individual in comments and in this happy world , let's make this world more happy again.....❤️🙏👍🙌..... Really touched by the work you all are doing just thank you from 💓💖🙏.............................

[@Psych2go]

Thank you so much for your kind words. We are very happy to hear that! Please continue to help us share our video to make positive change in others' lives! :)

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@@Psych2go Sure 😊😊😊😊😊

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Thank you so much ❤️:)

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Thanks for sharing remain blessed great video

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You voice us soothing 💜 BTW I love your channel💗

[@arielmaule]

Amazing video.

[@lovelexie1945]

I know that I am naturally charismatic. I see it in the people I impact and everyone tells me that. I know and feel this way.

[@lovelexie1945]

@@rachelel.4863 CGlad I'm not the only 1. :D

[@abyssal_phoenix]

Quite some points are relatable to me I learnt something new about myself

[@egeuguz4996]

Your voice is stunning!

[@pfpchanger125]

Hey every body your early i hope your doing well, Also Happy Friday and i hope your ok, And last thing i gotta say is just look how well they did this video for people like us.

[@jorgeluispadillahernandez3087]

I can't believe how sweet your voice is

[@chuurios2220]

Thanks

[@itsmetenisha8742]

Today the counselor was telling us about soft skill , skills that we naturally was born with and I feel for me is charisma 😊

[@fatimadridi4659]

Merci

[@maxtreme69420]

For the first time this soon!! BTW love your content Psych2Go💙💙

[@steele_heart77]

The title: Charismatic The thumbnail: *Breathtaking*

[@Akirathechampion]

*exhale* *inhale*

[@axowotahl]

Your comment is pretty underrated

[@thatoneblueberry2738]

Oh la Vache!! I literally didn't knew i was this charismatic until this vid!

[@potatocaliii2480]

im earlyy Love this❤️

[@NatashaElsewhere]

The Narator has such a beautiful voice 😭❤️❤️

[@decoy2636]

Just be yourself and have fun wherever you may be or with those who ignite the fire of life inside you. Straight laced stiff people are just not a lot of fun to be around. Take a joke and laugh with them and soon enough the joke is on them and after a good laugh everyone there vibrate at a higher level. I'm sorry life is just too short to be around serious people who can't lighten up, when they laugh at as well as with you it makes for a good enjoyable atmosphere to bond with like minded people and the dark side of our lives these days lights up with joy. It's ok to forget our troubles for a while with others as the light shines on happy people for a while.

[@ans8485]

Most important is to accept yourself and be okay with it, don't pretend to be someone you are not.

[@flowerpotmadeofclay]

We are breathtaking!

[@Blue-wv1qx]

realizing that ive been the oppostie of this my whole life😞😞😞 i promise.. starting today. ill develope this habits

[@kega4062]

01:32 this animation is so funny to me omg. Your diary is contains such personal thoughts so making it rain with its pages?? AHAHAH I don’t think I could do that 😩😩😂

[@DaveItYourselfChannel]

One of my favorite FUN SHIRTS is a St. Patrick's Day shirt that says "I don't need luck, I have charisma!" So, true! 😁👍

[@kushagragupta8068]

Mam, I am suggesting some topics, think about them , to make a video on them. :- Like, How to know if a person is not right for you. Or, signs you are with the wrong person or friend.

[@Riottomsk1]

It is a strange thing that I find most of the mentioned things in myself (analyzing my general interactions) and I actually try to cultivate them in me. I am able to find attention in a group settings and more often then not become a center of it. This is great but somehow this does not help me even slightest in attracting someone to become more than "just a friend". For some reason I am unable to find a partner and continue to be stuck alone for years. (yes I watched all your related videos on the matter, overcome past relationship and trauma but no dice)

[@theblackowl555]

8 is the most relatable.

[@devidaughter7782]

I've been learning how narcissists are often described as 'charismatic'. yet narcissists are known to be poorly self-regulated emotionally, and totally self-absorbed, making others into 'narcissistic supply'. I'm not sure how to reconcile the information provided in this video, with the well-known charisma of (toxic) narcissistic people.

[@royale6652]

"They radiate warmth" ...Does getting compared to a space heater count?

[@Demonicidiot]

That just means I’m uncharismatic-

[@buttercupkat]

That doesn't mean you can't ever be. Besides, charisma is nice, but it isn't the main focus in life.

[@steinfrank3443]

Ummm...on a side note, I'm confused as to(as of the time of making this comment) how your comment is from two days ago when the video only came out 10 hours ago...

[@Demonicidiot]

@@steinfrank3443 TiMe TrAvEl

[@minaxx7913]

You've helped me a lot Psych2Go THANK YoUU

[@Psych2go]

Thank you :D Glad this video helped

[@alaiaadam5767]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 Sooo true ! A-Z Replay

[@angierodriguezcastellini6980]

Love the keanu on the thumbnail😁

[@isabelabarbosa6980]

I'm thinking if there is a way to be charismatic and not allow people to take advantage on you... to politely refuse things people ask from you and still radiate warmth. In my mind, it seems that when we need to do these things, for our own sake, we radiate cold or harden our heart in some way

[@dougarnold7955]

...no, I'm traveling light! 😁 Yep. I've been doing that for a while now!

[@DHarMunroe1]

Her voice in this video 😍

[@321conquer]

All 8 signs not me. Very harismatic! Don't you agree?))) TX for this valuable post. Very fascinating.

[@zachrobinson8357]

Ah, so me talking about my various scars and the idiotic stories behind them is charismatic. I always felt a positive reaction whenever I told them, but I never knew it was this important to being charismatic. Never realized the secret was literally just not being scared to admit you aren’t perfect, but instead showing self-growth.

[@keithjakala2970]

I am about to try for the first time in my life at age 43 going to show confidence, chariama, and sense of humor. I need to lighten way up about everything in life and stop being the same fears, shy, nervous,anxious stuttering baboon that doesn't even make eye contact with people I'm talking to. Guess you can say I know reality and I'm a realist...I'm going to fail miserably at implementing these things into my persona (*which is pathetic *). I actually have not one woman to attempt to be different than I have been in the past and maybe , just maybe I will meet a nice woman and keep her cuz of my implementation of things I've mentioned and more

[@gohhh4835]

Some people say I'm charming, I dont consider myself charming, But alot of people think I am, Honestly I dislike it a bit, I never get left alone, And when I get into arguments, There's always a bunch of people joining, Then Its like whatever I do effects the world, It's not all bad because you rarely get bullied but in all it's in between.

[@mafuru]

Very useful 😌

[@Psych2go]

Glad to hear that

[@mafuru]

@@Psych2go ❤️

[@SimpleLifeSG]

Time to brush up all this habits.

[@airmoonrose]

My friends family and my surrounding I’m slowly becoming charismatic ✨

[@mr.underground5223]

Whoever that is talking, I love your voice :)

[@zybra67]

hi i have severe depression and im scared of telling my parents that i wanted to seek help because i dont want them to feel bad for being the cost of my depression maybe if its ok can you guys make a video of how what to do and what to take if you have depression thx

[@tommygunn6901]

There are two I resonate with here

[@dottcsi4610]

" "JM Dromanah 2.0 " bounces in carfax a few years even just in time this already was missing, thank you, I love it

[@VictorPham_]

Is there a video on Imposter syndrome? I feel like I'm suffering from imposter syndrome.. it's my first year in university and I feel so inferior to my other classmates right now-- I love my field of study- but I just don't feel like I "fit in"

[@jackmarshall757]

You just described my crush.

[@soumyakantabehera7507]

Actually some of these points describe me as charismatic whereas the other points describes my bestie as charismatic btw thank you all your videos describe me myself that I'm capable doing anything🤗

[@Psych2go]

Thanks for sharing!! How many points described you? :)

[@soumyakantabehera7507]

@@Psych2go 3 points;)

[@galaxy_mooncat779]

I’m intrigued about how extroverts are happy

[@s1eepyz0mbie66]

We are not really happy in a way but I am happy when I’m with people and sometimes when I’m alone Some of us keep happy thoughts but I never met other extroverts talk about how they always stay happy so I don’t actually know if all extroverts are like this

[@axowotahl]

@@s1eepyz0mbie66 I’m an extrovert and I am happy when I’m with people. Today someone important to me passed away but instead of feeling sad, I talked about things that make me happy

[@poopoo5173]

The 1000th thumb up 👍