7 Uncomfortable Truths Everyone Needs To Accept

[@Psych2go]

Have you ever wondered if you're on the wrong path in life? We made a video on that too: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fGG9Z2aei9uAi68

[@thewea3042]

Yes I had a really bad time and the path is painful

[@JustaRegularYoutubeChannel]

Hi! Thanks for the informational video!

[@katherinyang822]

Please talk about schizotypal personality disorder in the next video. My psychologist has just told me about the result of the personality disorder test in which there’s a heavy implication that I’ve been suffering from depression and schizotypal personality disorder (and to a lesser degree, BPD and paranoid personality disorder). It’s true that I’ve been very often stated by many to be outlandish and way too isolated, but I remain quite unsure. Thank you.

[@Cation_bibliophile]

I adore this channel it helps me alot

[@joannaroma5400]

I don't really think about this... i'm very young so i just think i'm going to have to choose one day what path i'm going to go through

[@camerongover8459]

"Your trauma is not your fault, but your healing is your responsibility" I had to write that down

[@ananya0653]

Omg same. I wrote it down as soon as I heard it.

[@keiron.4612]

That easy is it to recover from trauma

[@Cat_in_Spacetime]

Note that down! Note that down!

[@melonchaa07]

Its honestly sad that you have to take responsibility over something you didnt do

[@musiclover162702]

@@melonchaa07 You're not responsible for your trauma but that doesn't mean you can use it as an excuse to treat people poorly. No one needs to be your emotional sponge or punching bag.

[@stayhappylittlemermaid]

There are times in life when even the smallest words or actions are infused with the most exquisite meaning.

[@justaduck4897]

Deep bro

[@lotuxrepine9949]

That stands for most of the time

[@flamingaish]

True indeed

[@Ruby2Gruvy415]

So then is the statement, “ words don’t mean shit

[@lexuex]

）了）

[@Shemagh4]

"If you are not happy single, you won't be happy married. Because happiness does not come from relationships, it comes from cats." -some random dude

[@tofferooni4972]

Cats

[@Satan666Official]

I did not expect that twist. I love how the pfp is a cat picture too.

[@TertiaryQuota]

Its actually comes from dogs!

[@tofferooni4972]

@@TertiaryQuota Both. Both is good.

[@NightNekomata]

Yes. Cats and Dogs

[@datboi6954]

1. only you can change yourself 1:21 2. only you can give yourself closure 1:52 3. taking no risk is the biggest risk 2:32 4. sometimes quitting is for winners 3:12 5. if they really wanted to, they would 3:52 6. happiness isn't anywhere down the road 4:36 7. you can't love someone else until you love yourself 5:13 I hope I could help! (:

[@user-tr3jw1df6q]

Hi

[@JustaRegularYoutubeChannel]

Thanks!

[@brianbasic1133]

Ay, it's Dat Boi! Thank you for good work. :)

[@user-tr3jw1df6q]

*waits for the “OMG TIME TRAVL AAAAA”*

[@msphilosophicalmind]

Yes 🥰

[@Surai00]

Here's another hard truth: Too much kindness breeds a lack of accountability. Be honest, even when it hurts. The people who look to you for direction won't find it, if you are lying to protect their feelings.

[@IshaSharma11]

Well said

[@Surai00]

@@IshaSharma11 Thank you!

[@KxNOxUTA]

There is a principle in which help should always be granted where people fail to walk on their own for real. But to help beyond that can be equivalent to depriving them of their opportunities to grow. And it can turn into a lack of trust in their capabilities, which can be a lack of respect we do not want the people to suffer we care for.

[@inyooniverse]

Need to write it down

[@katakana1268]

💯💯💯

[@amirayahia3824]

"Don't quit because it's hard, quit because it's making you unhappy" What if it's making me unhappy because it's hard ?

[@whatthequack8596]

College

[@amirayahia3824]

@@whatthequack8596 Absolutely !!

[@paint.816]

I think there is a difference between feeling extremely uncomfortable and out of your depth, and having a challenge. If you're feeling the former, than maybe quitting is the best option. And, don't be afraid of quitting!!

[@NotYourEverydayIcecream]

I assume what u mean is nowadays all the struggles we encounter at some point leaves us empty and in the end we know that it was not we truly wanted.

[@indigowendigo8165]

Well, I guess if it's like a video game, there's a big difference between fighting something that's hard but challenging and all around still fun to fight, as opposed to something so hard it sounds impossible and not very fun to fight at all. :p

[@manuellashalom9906]

"Hurt me with the truth but never comfort me with lies!" Edit: wow many agree with this

[@onlyme6662]

Highly agreed

[@StarWolfKing]

Ben Shaprio: Facts don't care about your feelings.

[@keiron.4612]

So true

[@StarWolfKing]

@@hah-no. And that's why most can't get ahead in life because they let their feelings get in the way of the facts.

[@StarWolfKing]

@@hah-no. You ever see Jordan Peterson's work?

[@ICEcoldJT]

“Your mind will always believe everything you tell it. Feed it faith. Feed it truth. Feed it with love.” ✨

[@paint.816]

@Earth Yup I mean I can't say that's a bad thing 😅 . . .

[@wulansawitri]

thank you for the words. these words really open my eyes and heart ♡♡

[@cosmo7238]

My golden rule is, that there's no obligation to be nice to everyone. I mean being able to say "no" etc. Edit: people might abuse your kindness for their own benefits.

[@shaereub4450]

You're not obligated to like anyone, but showing kindness and respect isn't bad.

[@cosmo7238]

@@shaereub4450 You are right!

[@vantasariae6790]

@@shaereub4450 i'm still learning this

[@Cat_in_Spacetime]

@@shaereub4450 .. Master shower me with some more wisdom, on how to behave in social situations

[@buttercupkat]

@@Cat_in_Spacetime People love to talk about themselves, so try to be a good listener.

[@perrystalsisworldofbiology767]

"Never talk to strangers" Probably why I don't have an friends.

[@theucheao]

I remember being taught *don’t* talk to strangers not *never*

[@indigowendigo8165]

@@theucheao Isn't that basically the same thing...? It's not like their saying you should only sometimes not talk to strangers, or talk to them if their not strangers anymore, right...? o.O

[@onlyme6662]

I'd prefer to talk to a stranger because I know I can walk away and not get feelings hurt. Just an acquaintance! As for fake friends I've learned to speak up and go for juggler and then grey rock, never ever return. Hard to do yet look what they did to me and not care. UNACCEPTABLE! People who claim to have friends are most definitely on social media accounts but in real life not many we can call genuine friends. They are narcissistic people evil.

[@ahassett37]

Rip There’s the whole “don’t talk to strangers thing” then there’s me with an entire server of friends on discord who I have never met irl- If you’re not an idiot you can usually tell what kind of person they are tho And if you meet through a smallish public server especially for like a specific thing for a yt channel like how I met them then you probably have a pretty good idea of what they’re like from that People who are like each other tend to be somehow drawn together lol Also just like be careful with information And don’t trust people who don’t seem to have interests of their own until you say one of yours and then they suddenly agree Those are usually creeps Don’t give out your address or if you’re more worried don’t give out your country or state or whatever I’d say timezones are fine Ages are too tbh If you’ve known the person for a while and trust them then you can go further, like with maybe face reveals or whatever Honestly people are like “dOn’T sHaRe YoUr AgE” and like while that may be valid in some cases in most situations age isn’t really a big thing Like people aren’t going to literally figure out where you are or whatever by your age It’s a number that helps people know what they might want to censor from convos in public chats Like you most likely will not suddenly be stalked and targeted because people know your age Only share it in like safe places tho Don’t share it on a big server with a bunch of shady people That’s just stupid So like internet rules is just don’t be a dick for no reason and don’t be stupid and you should be fine

[@katiearbuckle9017]

I think it needs to be rephrased "Talking to Strangers is okay, you sometimes have to.. To make friends, figure out Red/Green Flags, dogs, transactions, Co-workers, neighbors, folks online. But if THEY GET AUTOMATICALLY CREEPY GET THE FUCK OUT OF THERE!!"

[@pkxd326]

I am praying for those people who are depressed or having difficult situations.

[@adithiyaathiyagoo5536]

Me too

[@theucheao]

Thank you, I really need it

[@pkxd326]

@@theucheao you are enough strong then you think. So try not to worry

[@deezbuttons4784]

Thank you so much.

[@vee-ayo]

Thank you so much

[@SoraFan23]

Its sad that society tends to tell everyone what they should do with their lives, but in todays world all those things you were taught as a kid become so outdated. So its a good idea to focus more on yourself. Only you can make yourself happy and take the right path you think works out for you.

[@faizanaz4321]

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[@xmaskedartistx]

HUMAN RACE

[@elenavernet2289]

Exactly

[@taabishkhanself-improvemen7331]

*"Making a big life change is pretty scary. But, you know what's scarier? Regret."* Hope this can motivate or inspire some people. Just trying my best to help others as a small channel myself, have a great day!

[@lacy3512]

Agree.

[@corinnebloom7005]

@V Maverick if you disagree you don't need to share that. If this person wanted your opinion they would ask for it.

[@Elozero250]

@V Maverick cope harder

[@noorsabah1766]

This motivated me thankyou :))

[@chandlermccullen3515]

Regret really ain't that scary to me..

[@sandpiper_]

when you have a huge comfort zone so it's hard to step out of it:

[@kimberlybogert7031]

Yeah...😅

[@paint.816]

That's something to admire for sure! I wish I had a bigger comfort zone.

[@hehe_lemonade5114]

I'm out of my huge comfort zone and it's kinda hard to experience everything without your comfort zone I'm sorry if you don't understand

[@kimberlybogert7031]

@@hehe_lemonade5114 I get a bit So it's all good. 🌺I'm trying to some what myself but I'm not completely there tho.😅😔

[@greatwavefan397]

A blog from a writer who used to hate phone calls wrote that the comfort zone is actually a gradient. The other extreme of comfort is terrifying-but the middle of the gradient is excitement. You wanna land there to change.

[@BizzyLaVicious]

One thing I've noticed about closure is; if you're not mentally ready for it, confronting the person that hurt you probably won't help much, if at all. If you haven't come to terms with the trauma, seeing that person again tends to be a trigger more than anything. I feel that confronting them should not only be the last step in one's healing journey, but also an optional one.

[@rcla_3088]

Exactly. Some would say that it's an essential part of the healing process when in reality it should really be considered more often as optional. Sometimes, you just feel like quitting without explanations because of your mental health and that should be normalized.

[@claudiawaid5532]

Yes an Honest Discomfort is much better than a Dishonest Comfort ☺️

[@avery9972]

I'm trying so hard to stop talking to her. I remember all the good times we've had but she makes me so unhappy, she never talks to me unless I start a conversation, and she's just always so negative. Update: I blocked her, finally

[@leaharmbruster6047]

yayyy! Progress and healing!!

[@quietchild2226]

Congratulations!!!

[@chloestewart2842]

I’m going through the same thing right now. They make so many false promises and say they’ll be better in the future when they’re making no effort in the present. I’m almost ready to block him. Almost there

[@JellyOnAPancakeAyyyy]

I was in the same case, where this boy i used to talk, always was acting in such cold and apathic way that it keeps hurting me, i tried to make things work, but he just doesn’t care at all… even when he knows that insensitibly way he talks to me was hurting me he still didn’t care at all, so i also block him and GOSH what a relief! I need really to work in my self and start focus on myself…

[@yup7323]

"If they really wanted to, they would" is so damaging. Sometimes I just can't function, or my anxiety and self-hatred (I'm working on it) is so overwhelming I can't convince myself someone actually wants to hear from me. It's not because I don't want to. Edit: also my ADHD and other issues makes it hard to keep track of things in my life, sometimes I need constant reminders.

[@vanshu8160]

Sometimes its ok not to be ok ,😊

[@sionmarak1916]

Don't fret my friend. You're not the only one.

[@clayr.w1829]

If it makes you feel any better I learned first hand that it’s not always true plus people don’t do things they want to do all the time for different reasons. What I really suggest though is to be more open to your friends about why you don’t contact them more often ( this can take time for some so only if you feel comfortable) For me personally I would often ask my friend to hang out but she never asks me first and resentment starting building towards her. But then I remembered how much I care about her and I didn’t want to feel this way towards her anyone bc of the assumption ‘if she really wanted to she would.’ So I just asked her why and I learned she recently got diagnosed with depression and also had bad anxiety. We then reassured each other of our friendship and that we’re here for each other. I hope this helps :)

[@SuperWiiBros08]

Even if I admit all these truths I'm still struggling, idk if I can love myself anymore or push myself forward or quit or accept the reality, no matter how much I try confront my problem, I'm still struggling, idk what to do anymore when I've tried everything, I have nothing else to try than do nothing and wait for something.

[@karl8739]

God bless you brother/sister. I'm here to tell you to try God.... :) He made you in his image and loves you much more than you know. Its because you did it in you own strength and not his.

[@kirbed9486]

Perhaps finding the source of why you do not love yourself will help. These steps only go so far but if you can’t find the root of an issue you can’t exactly tend to it, you know? I’m not an expert though, I won’t claim to be, I can just tell you what’s helped me, I hope it helps you too. Godspeed

[@MrDuckDrawz]

i felt that

[@pratikpalchowdhury2454]

1) only you can change yourself 1:21 2) only you can give yourself closure 1:52 3)taking no risk is the biggest risk 2:32 4)sometimes quitting is for winners 3:12 5) if they really wanted to, they would 3:52 6) happiness isn't anywhere down the road 4:36 7)you can't love someone else until you love yourself 5:13

[@lade18]

Thank you💖

[@freya3969]

Thank you, time traveller

[@mspiritt]

How have u commented 3 days ago while the video's been uploaded an hour ago 🤐

[@lade18]

@@mspiritt Exactly. I don't understand that either!!

[@greatwavefan397]

Jokes on them, I'm into that!

[@Blobpwq]

I'm just LOVING the animation every single time I watch a video

[@kimberlybogert7031]

It's very cute☺️🌸🌺

[@bhawnabangari2389]

The only reason I watch this channel is because of the extremely cute animation 🤣.

[@kimberlybogert7031]

@@bhawnabangari2389 that the 2reason for me😅

[@Psych2go]

Thank you :D Glad you like it. Is this your favorite animation so far?

[@Blobpwq]

@@Psych2go it was named: "6 signs a person likes you even if you don't think so" or something. The animation there was so CUTEEE

[@bm_997]

I’m scared to accept the truth and face those feelings and getting out of my comfort zone, so im just ignoring and procrastinating my problems

[@adithiyaathiyagoo5536]

Sometimes we must risk it for the biscuit🍪

[@nodwolf]

You made a step forward already by acknowledging you're scared, and even if it's a tiny bit of progress, you made that progress. And I'm proud of you.

[@Nibbleman]

Hello Psych2Go team! Ever since i started watching your videos i always felt so alone and thought i was just an anomaly of civilization. But your videos have not only help me understand certain disorders and lifestyles, but have help me understand that I'm not alone in my struggles. Keep up with what your doing and i will always support you guys. You guys are doing amazing work!

[@Psych2go]

Hi Icy, thank you so much for your thoughtful message and donation to support this channel. This is why we keep on making content to make help others. We're here for you!

[@Nibbleman]

@@Psych2go Thanks for the response, watching your videos has made me a better person and i hope people can relate to your videos in the way I did. Also don't forget to neglect your own mental health Psych2GO Team . Love the work you guys are doing!

[@JohnSmith-zw8vp]

3:12 -- So it's a classic case of "quitters never win, winners never quit" vs "you gotta know when to fold 'em".

[@CourtneyAverett]

#5 “If they really wanted to, they would” This is one of the most difficult ones for me. There’s always that person that doesn’t reply to my text and it leaves me so angry, lonely, and discarded. I now tread more carefully with people, because at any moment they can change their mind about me and ignore me.

[@ryanstarlight8018]

Some people are bad at communicating. It's not always that they don't want to

[@kaseyhussle]

Truth is to painful. I dont wanna confront the truth about love, relationship, women, self love, friends, people. I'm scared. I scared to heal. I'm scared not to heal. I dont wanna go out my comfort zone any more. Iv tried enough the last few years.

[@fiolacristone2401]

It's okay if you're not ready yet, but you can't keep in your comfort zone forever, you also need to confront things, ik it's hard and scary to do so, but we all in the same boat here, don't worry we got your back even we're not there in face/physical! You can do it bro, we believe in you, you are amazing, we can pass these together, just dont give up!!🙌🏻🔥♥

[@VengefulPolititron]

yes you can stay in your zone. we are not the same some people never rockclimb find out who you are. you don't have to like cars, or dance, or whatever. we. are. different. we. are. not. the. same. we don't have to be like others. be your true self. the one you were born as. not the one you wish you were. and then be you. and find God.

[@VengefulPolititron]

I was always dragged from my "comfort zone". it's who you are. listen to your gut feeling. do Not do things that you are not ok with.

[@NodokenStar-k917]

I’ve learned that simply lying to someone to avoid breaking their hearts and happiness is even worse than telling the truth, especially when it prolongs. Yes, it is painful to do it, but very rewarding to overcome difficulty.

[@SmartVideosJarkaWatched]

Harsh lessons ... which I would much rather learn from you than from the harsh experience that--while it might teach 'better'--leaves trauma that can make one unable to USE the lesson. Thank you for helping us avoid those experiences.

[@juliecontent]

i feel like im always in my own lil bubble (as you can see) because you'd assume putting up boundaries would keep you safe but it's actually counter-productively harmful and i've only learned to understand that with time (accumulation of regrets/suppressed anger&frustration/everyone feels out of reach like im outside of society norms/inexperience in life in general) and dw i'm slowly learning to burst out of it, i've been facetiming friends and posting some videos on youtube even tho im really scared of what others think of me cuz i dont really know what s considered normal and i want everyone to like me but that cant always be the case (it's kind of lil baby steps like that), i hope you get there too one day if you're struggling like me, i believe in me and if you dont believe in you, worry not, i am a certified you-believer :)

[@connorg.3381]

It’s interesting isn’t it, that living safely, is one of the most dangerous things someone can do.

[@grimmthenightmare]

Thank you

[@cloverhighfive]

5. If they really wanted to, they would. That's one that has helped me a lot. I've had a relationship where we were a lot on the same page, and I thought it was going towards a BFF relationship, and treated it as such. Turns out, I was mostly a placeholder for them. An audience. They never talked about anything personal. There's some grief that comes with the realization you're not on the same page, but I decided to treat them exactly the same as they treat me, no more, no less, and we're good. Not BFFs, but good acquaintances. It wasn't easy though.

[@javierho6047]

My grandmother died 2 months ago, she was really close to me and always bought gifts for me. Sometimes, it just hurts so much when I think about the fact that she’s gone that I really don’t know what I’m feeling anymore. Sometimes I wished I had someone to hug or talk to in real life, it really helps. Oh well, life never fails to disappoint.

[@faheezaltaiwo3981]

I don't know if this helps but I'm sorry for ur loss and ur soo strong love it'll work out okay

[@arona6692]

My grandmother passed away a year (and a half) ago. I was really closed to her, we had comun hobbies, she kept sending me a text everymorning to show her affection even though I lived with her for a year. I took her death pretty hard and other bad stuffs happened in my life shortly after and I felt like shit for a while. Today I still miss her, I still feel sad but I don't feel the same pain I used to when I am looking her cane or her chair. I don't know if it will get better, for you nor for me, but it will get easier.

[@outoftouchnetwork]

My grandmother was like my best friend as a kid. We understood each other and could talk freely. When she died about 10 years ago it really felt like I lost a part of me. Looking back I remember how funny and genuine she was just being herself.

[@jaden1987]

"you have to risk failure to succeed, you have to risk heartbreak to find love"

[@moonshorts795]

"You can't love other, until u love yourself" MY LIFE TIME PRBLM... My girl was the best... Could give her life for me... Understood my worth... But i didn't feel the same way., although I wanted to feel the same way..... Till this day I'm fucked up

[@aiswaryaswain6996]

It's OK....Same here...My boy was an angel.... Believed in me till last bit....I am fucked up too..But for the sake of him and our love....I am changing even though he is gone . It's worth it. Hope it helps.

[@velvethilarity]

I had that struggle long time ago too,, it might not be as helpful as it was for me, but my advice would just be to get to know yourself, to understand your own behavior and emotions,, I hope it helps at least a bit,, I also have a boyfriend with the same struggle and I'm seriously trying my best to help him out as much as he's trying to get out of this situation, but there's nothing that can be done if the one with the struggle doesn't want to do their part of the job yk :/

[@s.f7778]

Please do a video on accepting that things can’t be fixed, I’m struggling with racism and feeling very hopeless about it❤️

[@gabrielanava9996]

F**k those idiots who judge you for your identity and not for your caracter, you deserve to be respected if you give it first.

[@Zodiax04]

U are amazing person don't let those bad mothed noodles to ruin your life...Everyone deserves to be respected!!!

[@lacyyyy]

im with you. 🤎

[@brucejohnson9696]

I'm going to go with LOVE, hate is too great a burden to bear. (paraphrased) Dr. Martin Luther King

[@s.f7778]

@ROY LIU not really, not about racism, I feel extremely misunderstood,unheard and like nobody will ever understand or care to, it’s been very hard these past couple of days

[@QueenGreenflame]

This whole video just told me that I'm failing at life and never will succeed- I'm terrified of becoming an adult, I don't wanna continue if it's all just stress, anxiety, depression, and responsibilities piling up...

[@supersimon4922]

I am so lucky to not have anyone who takes me for granted and so i wish you all may have similar luck finsing people you care about and who care about you

[@aaronaustrie]

I realized recently that happiness doesn't come from what you have, rather it comes from yourself and the people you spend your time with

[@spdnb]

Thing is, people are quick to tell you to love yourself. No one ever tells you how to love yourself. Like, how does a person get to a state to where they love themselves? (in a healthy way, not like narcissism.)

[@amelmatt5641]

Several “aha” moments in this video. Love this channel.

[@Psych2go]

Glad you enjoy it! :) - Cindy

[@IshaSharma11]

❣❣

[@LittleCrazyGamer]

"You can't love someone else until you love yourself" While this is partially true, I see it so often being interpreted as "you can't be in a functional relationship when you yourself don't function". That's so much f*cking bullshit. There's a lot of people out there who will never be truly "functional", no matter how hard they try to heal. And everyone deserves to feel loved. Everyone deserves to know what it's like to be in love. There ARE instances where "broken" people find ways to hold giving, wholesome and supportive relationships with others, and become that much better people because of it. This subject is as far away from black-and-white as a subject can be, and I'm really fkn tired to hear people talk about it like it's not.

[@cherry03512]

the last two hit hard. although i've heard nr 7 a bit differently - love yourself before expecting others to love you.

[@ScorpionStrike7]

“Humans are complicated beasts. You believe comforting lies while knowing full well the painful truth that makes those lies necessary. In the end, it is not important what you think. It is only important what you do.” -A Monster Calls

[@angiejones968]

I learned all these in therapy. So true, my therapist said this means I'm healing, I'm growing🙂. Now I'm working on applying this every day. It's hard but someday I'll get there. My point being I hope this help's someone here reading this not to give up. It's a slow process you will get there. 3 steps forward 1 step backwards you are still 2 steps ahead! Just look at how far you have come. Look back but dont stay there you are on a journey.

[@jakeofalltradesmusic]

I shoulda quit at a certain point in life, but I was constantly brainwashed that the only reason people quit is because their losers, and the only reason for failure is quitting. Now, I live in regret because I didn't quit

[@VengefulPolititron]

exactly trust no one. follow your gut. be yourself. say no say no again say no again say no and walk away

[@meryemkobi8182]

I loved when you said : While trauma is not your fault, healing is your responsibility! OMG so meaningful

[@ButterclawEnthusiast]

"go to where you know you are loved and appreciated" If only that place existed

[@paint.816]

That place is here my guy. You are loved, whether you believe it or not. There are billions of people out there for you to interact and one day, feel safe with some of them.

[@enlargedmetalrod]

Damn Well I love you and appreciate you amazing stranger ♡︎ Talk to me I have anxiety, low self esteem, I hate myself, and am heartbroken

[@ButterclawEnthusiast]

@@enlargedmetalrod i'd love to talk! you got a discord? i'd be happy to add you

[@enlargedmetalrod]

@@ButterclawEnthusiast yeah sure here i literally just made a discord acc so i can talk lol i don't really know how this works so ill just give you my username andpeggy21

[@ButterclawEnthusiast]

@@enlargedmetalrod awesome! Mine is Austinn#7756

[@shift3613]

"If they really wanted to, they would" that's where hope is your worst enemy

[@avashattuckmusic]

another one: people are going to hate you in life, no matter what you do. but that doesn't make you a bad person. only change you for yourself, not others. :) if other people hate you, then that's their fault.

[@avashattuckmusic]

@@Maito89 yeah that's true, i just mean in general for most people. but some people can be really shitty, lol. also, i love the self deprecating username-

[@avashattuckmusic]

@@Maito89 no sarcasm, hehe

[@sai23576]

"I'd rather be hurt by the truth than comforted by a lie" These were all great truths! It may take some time to come to terms with these truths, but it's a gradual process. Great video! ❤️

[@angelmermaid1920]

The golden rules for me: * Your trauma is not your fault,but healing is your responsibility. * You have to risk failure to succeed. * Don't quit because it's hard,quit because it's making you unhappy. Thanku psych2Go

[@KxNOxUTA]

Very true indeed. Something that I notice about it, is that we often talk about "picking the easy way out" when we talk about choices that do not align with what needs to be faced and done. And I find it rather fascinating we say that. Because avoiding things for the wrong reasons (including avoiding to leave for the right reasons) may appear easy at the start, but at the end, it turns out just as hard. Or even harder. Because there are tremendous losses that do not appear to be obvious (to others. I can only speak from my perspective here). We start to nurture bad habits and cycles causing damage to ourselves and others left and right. We run a direction making the way back harder and harder. And what I feel is not mentioned often enough is: Walking your way (back) in(to) integrity is actually equally easy (and hard)!! Integrity is like a self-feeding system. Challenges taken from a place of integrity can NOT be compared with challanges taken from a lack of integrity. It's not even close in how much more energy and determination you have when coming from a place of integrity. Meanwhile integrity is not something you have or haven't. It is something we build and nurture. Something we eventually need to put together over a long time, with help in baby steps. But it is WORTH the effort. Because it makes a difference. It holds us and pushes at our back. It challanges us and grows us. Slowly learning to accept the truths above and understanding that getting help along the way is part of that process, is the way to building a different starting point for yourself. No matter thr challange, you can then start from you standing or even hovering and soaring, rather than having to pick yourself up from the floor before you can even take in and assess the challange ahead. Anf don't we all know that life will not always allow us enough time to get that done before it comes crashing in. Today, I hope you have the courage to reach out to yourself no matter where you lie or stand or fly. And to maybe just prod at yourself a little dropping some clumsy joke. Or to allow you to simply look at yourself in your current state and look at all the judgements bubbling up to give them a look and let them pass. Like you let the noise of cars pass. You notice, but do you exhaust yourself raging about it 24/7? Hopefully not. Your judgements are no different. They are there. They must not matter. They will fall aside further when you've nurtured yourself enough to crawl further away from that busy street. Emotions may be storming. It's fine. Keep crawling you'll find a shelter. The storm may not cease but you must not endure it's full force. That is self-love. To care enough to allow yourself to look, to crawl away, to get picked up and carried a part of the steps. To allow yourself to sit up. All in due time. Today, I hope you can make you your observer, later a helper, later a friend, later your home and comfort and place of abundance.

[@static-scribblez]

Not me scrolling down the comments and finding lots of timetravellers

[@nakshatramusic21]

Me too

[@manuellashalom9906]

Nah,thats not time travellers. Psych2Go kept it private for us but not for others (i think she didn't kept it private for those who joined her membership or whatever that is) then they commented the tine stamps

[@roseosbourne6448]

Manuella Shalom Barcelona shhhh you’re being too logical

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[@static-scribblez]

@@gyanjyotikalita5369 *shut up...please shut up...*

[@prowland8471]

1. only you can change yourself 1:21 2. only you can give yourself closure 1:52 3. taking no risk is the biggest risk 2:32 4. sometimes quitting is for winners 3:12 5. if they really wanted to, they would 3:52 6. happiness isn't anywhere down the road 4:36 7. you can't love someone else until you love yourself 5:13

[@TitanEaterOfCrayons]

Remember that nobody is perfect, but also remember that your imperfections are also what make you who you are, and you are amazing. Stay safe out there 💜

[@meena8739]

The narrator's voice is so soft that it makes uncomfortable truth so comfortable to listen

[@jacksonpavlich8198]

With number 7, I’ve found that to be a toxic mindset (no offense intended), as you can totally love someone while not feeling too great about yourself! That and telling someone that can lead them to try to force themselves to love themselves, or make them feel inferior/ doubt whether they are capable or worthy of love.

[@BuizelCream]

I think the context of #7 is limited to a situation if you are the one who needs healing. You can't reasonably help anyone productively if you are in a broken state, yet you are still able to love anyone else in general. Although, taken out of context can indeed make this advice toxic. A person who's struggling to cope into seeing their individual worth in long periods of time may continue to be unwilling in showing their love to others. They are in danger of becoming selfish and greedy, which is ultimately contertintuitive to anyone's goal in any sort of self-love journey.

[@alyssamcclellan96]

@@BuizelCream I would have to agree with that as well. I can say from personal experience that loving someone else can have a very positive impact on your life. They can help you grow into a better person and help you see the good qualities that you already have. It's like a plant, it'll never grow if don't give it water. And if all someone is told their whole life is "You're a worthless piece of trash" then that's all they're going to believe.

[@chieradione]

"Happiness isn't anywhere down the road" thinking about this, it really surprised me. Whenever I was sad I always thought, "tomorrow will be a better day" and kept thinking that eventually my sadness will wear off. This statement is really getting me to think things in a new perspective now, thanks!

[@Entropic_Alloy]

8. Nothing changes and the pain keeps growing. Also, these "platitudes" don't admit the fact that actually "moving on" is much easier said than done. The feelings don't just magically go away when you say, "I'm gonna move on now!" Life and the mind don't work like that.

[@mandypandy111ify]

That's why I think that telling people to "move on" is never good advice.

[@danawitdada6701]

Your voice is healing

[@SamElle]

putting myself out there is so so hard just because the times I have put myself out there, I have burned. I know there is a lot of healing and work I need to do on my own but trusting other people / taking risks is still something Im terrified of doing

[@connorg.3381]

You must be fearless. Consequences are out there, but you have to be able to take up such things. It’s how we as people get better. I used to be afraid to touch the blade of a knife, but now, I am completely fearless of knife blades since I just started holding them by their blades. Fearlessness goes a long way mate.

[@SamElle]

@@connorg.3381 yea it’s definitely something I keep reminding myself. I’m trying to think of action steps I can take because it would be naive to think that one day I’ll wake up and have a change of mindset

[@connorg.3381]

@@SamElle well, may I recommend you start with objects rather than situations. Like knives, are you afraid of the blades, buy a knife (like a really sharp pocket knife or switch blade or butterfly knife) and touch the blade, hold the blade, don’t slide up and down it, but feel it, and learn how to use it. Just an example, there are many things you could be afraid of. I also used to be afraid of getting hit hard, so I play football now and I have really high pain tolerance for things like that. Do what you will with my advice, I’m no expert.

[@paint.816]

You got this! You are smarter and stronger and more courageous than you think or know. Keep pushing and have faith in yourself!

[@ahassett37]

Same I’ve been getting better at putting myself out there in most situations, but I haven’t been able to at home, especially to my parents It’s just Every time I opened up before I got screwed up I mean I brought up verbal bullying after we had an assembly at school in first grade or so as maybe a segway to the fact that I got teased at school if it went well Well my dad laughed and said that words can’t hurt you And that kinda shattered my little world And I get yelled at for grades all the time and then stupid stuff that my dad decides to take offense to and a bunch of other stuff too that has just built up and is still building up I wish I could trust them but I don’t think I’ll be able to for a long while I have been making myself open up to friends and keep up interactions tho :) I’ve had friends drift away because I was too scared and shy to reach out and my goal now is to not let that happen I want to hold on and not just watch them drift away while doing nothing I want to reach out and keep laughing with them

[@erinshannon8031]

I definitely have a problem with going out of my comfort zone. I can do it but i get incredibly anxious and start putting myself down for every little thing. I know I'm missing out on so much in life but i just can't seem to let myself go much farther...

[@bailee3243]

My rule is: do whatever you want as long as it doesn’t negatively affect you or others

[@Psych2go]

Great life philosophy! Feel free to share others!

[@ForestHag]

Loved the video! Your voice is incredibly soothing. However, I do have an issue with the phrase "If they really wanted to, they would." Everyone has their own lives, their own issues, their own trauma. "If they really wanted to, they would", more often looks like "I really wanted to, but I couldn't." Putting in effort to socialize as much as the other person wants to socialize can be very hard. Anxiety, a depleted introvert battery, a depression episode, grief, the pandemic we've been in for over a year. It can all interfer with it. My friends are all extrovert and I don't put in nearly as much effort (read: time, messaging first, calling them first etc.) into our friendship as they do. But the effort I do put in still counts and they love me regardless. Communicate your wishes, but also your boundaries. And teach yourself to expect less. Of course, if people are taking you for granted and expect everything from you, but never give anything in return, cut them off. But it's never as black and white as that.

[@salomeyul]

It is easy to accept and agree to these truths when the approach is cognitive, the problem is that it means nothing when the issues are on the emotional side. That's why we can watch as many youtube videos on the topic as we want and still, we won't be able to break our toxic patterns.

[@dianelefever4975]

very valuable and insightful. Most of it I allready knew, but it's good to hear it again - some things you just need to hear time and time again ...

[@ICEcoldJT]

“Happiness starts with YOU. Not with relationships, not with your job, not with your money, but with YOU.” 👑

[@shahnazahmed4699]

Yes

[@Nanacoy-Nimo]

Ever since I was little, my parents already thought me about how society works today, and now they have a problem about me not having friends and being an introvert myself. I just have trust issues, and more mature than any other teenagers in my school lol.

[@more1494]

Not everyone you care about will care about you

[@はゆき]

If they don't care about me, then I won't care about them. They do it to me, I do it to them.

[@more1494]

@@はゆき i have the same behavior 😂

[@JustaRegularYoutubeChannel]

Sad but true...

[@farimazahid2329]

@@はゆき true 😌

[@lacy3512]

Well, same. But it kinda hurts when you thought someone loved you and later starts losing feeling for you and at the end abandoning you.

[@dre1978]

#5 made me cry ngl. I just ended my friendship with my childhood best friend a few weeks ago because they weren't putting in any effort, ditching me for their bf, lying to me, ignoring me, and more. It hurts, a lot, and I'm still healing/mourning but I know I don't need someone in my life that's going to treat me like that

[@Suojeluninja]

"Only you can change yourself." My military instructor: Allow me to introduce myself.

[@AnitaMelanie]

"You can't love someone else until you love yourself" Omg this really is old but GOLD!!

[@ΧρυσοβαλάντουΑδαμαντίδου]

I think it is better to regret something you have done rather than something you have never done.

[@VengefulPolititron]

no. action is worse. action brings bad changes. inaction keeps possibility

[@ΧρυσοβαλάντουΑδαμαντίδου]

@@VengefulPolititron You are right but iam right too.It depends on the situation and what I said was based on my experience that doesn't mean that l dont think action can't bring you a painful regret..In conclusion both action and inaction bring painful regrets.For some people action brings more regrets and for some other inaction.

[@Jackobee231]

"you must experience heart break to find love". I'll remember that.

[@munem939]

The hidden 8th truth: Doesn't matter how close you think you are with your friends, you're not really that close or as close as you think 😔

[@alexbaribeault]

Just because something is Doomer-like doesn't mean it's true. Can't you at least elaborate?

[@KxNOxUTA]

What if you are way closer than you think to every living thing out there, but maybe are still on your way of finding how to connect? 😊 Have you tried to check if expectations and responsibilities are distributed in a healthy way? We just learned what we cannot rely for on others, because they were never the once to provide it to start with. The magic happens once your remove all expectations and then take a look at what comes flowing in and is given by free will. These, are treasures. The rest, is a risky thing to need, but a wonderful thing to want. ❤️ If they aren't as close, then they may still be precious with whatever they are able to give. And from there, you have won the possibility to fit in other people with more capacity. Open that space, give the opportunity. Life will relentlessly attempt to fill it in. You only need to continue to form your understanding of what the right "close" is to you and why.

[@DavidRichardson153]

That "taking no risks" one is a definite uncomfortable truth. I used to be someone who took no risks. While I still mostly avoid risk, I took the tremendous risk of emigrating. Best decision I've made so far.

[@trusfrated3209]

"You can't love someone else until you love yourself" that's what bts taught me

[@gersoncuevas8137]

Leave this wretched land before you accurse it even further. I'm not serious.. This is a holy land, where everyone is welcome. Except BTS! Hah, gotcha. You can climb these golden stairs to heaven

[@stewiegriffin7581]

So true❤️❤️

[@aiyilldoitforyou]

thanks psych2go. you really help me out. i know and can move forward and heal. my dad had just passed away earlier today, but i can still accept it as i have to face the uncomfortable truths. thank you, the soothing voice aswell makes me feel better.

[@Psych2go]

No problem! We hope this video helped you in some way. Sorry to hear about your dad's passing. We offer our sincere condolences.

[@aiyilldoitforyou]

@@Psych2go thank you. ❤️ keep supporting ya! 😼😼👍👍👍

[@VictorPham_]

This is so true but I don't have the willpower to cut off toxic relationships..

[@VIBlNGFORLIFE]

You are stronger than you think you are

[@michelepascoe6068]

The lie I believed was " to make friends, just be a friend to others". That did not help establish boundaries, and I took responsibility for others' feelings and felt that I maybe deserved their bad behaviour somehow ... what did I do? when it was really all about them.

[@gamefriend4622]

1:39 RIP the plant under the cap [*]

[@skywatcher369]

5:04 applies only if said place isn't saturated in toxicity from the persons environment. Then the mindset in that position would focus on removing one from said environment by recognizing that it is not ok or safe to stay there.

[@rainybear925]

::avid folllower:: Okay, i've thought about it all day. Can you please do an episode on an individual who's been outcasted by a group of peers who used to accept them but "they" never knew they were ever really accepted by them until they were out casted by them. Love ya'll!

[@maddie2289]

I am so grateful that you made this video, I really needed it today. The thing is that my friends are starting to all get really close with each other, but farther away from me. I've loved them so much and they are basically my whole world, but I can't take it anymore. They seem to know every single thing about each other but I'm always left out because they never message me or seem to care about me. I feel like I'm doing something wrong, but I have no idea what it is. I try to be as self-aware as I can and I literally give them all my love and energy... I never receive it back. It's really hard because other people care about me but my friends talk really bad about those people even though my friends are great people themselves. I don't know... sometimes I think I'm just too insecure and socially awkward but I really don't know. I was clinically diagnosed with anxiety and that might play a role but I just want to know whether they still like me or not. I'm hanging on and the best thing they could do for me if they didn't like me was to tell me that. I know I need to heal by myself, but I've been friends with these people for like forever and it's so unbelievably hard to let them go. It would probably make my life at school terrible but I need to heal my wellbeing because I used to be so happy and optimistic but now I don't even know who I am anymore. I don't know what to do. I don't want to apply my stress to anyone else's life and if you are reading this I hope you have an amazing day and god bless you. 💞❤️

[@Alhumdulila786]

People just believe what’s the most comfortable for them not what’s the truth

[@chrisyoung109]

I don't agree with "happiness isn't anywhere down the road" because some people are in a difficult circumstance, that truly makes them unhappy. There are many people who break free and begin a new chapter of life, one that makes them feel better than ever before.

[@notanartist9908]

uncomfortable truth: stalkers eyes are creepy and they don't think they are uncomfortable truth: never found honesty in people uncomfortable truth: people take advantage, it's not okay uncomfortable truth: people invalidate subjective truths unless it's theirs uncomfortable truth: people react to things even if it doesn't include them

[@taleseylad1249]

what an underrated comment

[@hehe_lemonade5114]

That's really true...

[@racheldavila6431]

Loved and needed to hear this, the uncomfortable truth when you hope they think enough about you to call or text but nothing happens 🙁😊🤪

[@xAshesxElitex]

All this does is make my pointless little existence in "comfort" seem not worth living at all....

[@perempuanbukanobjek4005]

I love the happiness part the most. People say to me, getting married will heal me and makes me happy. Actually I disagree but have a hard time trying to explain what I feel about that. This video helps me a lot.

[@slowboy3442]

I mean my parents give me closure..

[@chelseaharridass4531]

It's painful to accept the truth sometimes , because you know deep down in your heart you will never achieve or get that because it's either just your imagination or just extremely out of your reach . It hurts! It hurts a lot , to know that sometimes you can never get the things you desire and that's life , we can't really do anything much about it , we can only dream and wish it will come true or happen one day .

[@gault6546]

3:52 and what if... they're the only person left in your life who you could trust and care about, yet they still don't seem to want to stick around...?

[@Flinnowaty]

I have the same dillema right now and i don't know what to do. I don't have any friends except them, but they never make any effort, i feel like the relasionship is so heavily one sided, i'm always the one that have to make the contact, have been left hanging many times despite telling them about my mental health issues. It really looks like they don't want me around, but they too afraid to tell me that. I love them but it becomes too tiring for me.

[@gault6546]

@@Flinnowaty awe im so sorry *hugs*

[@SToXC_.]

@@Flinnowaty exactly same situation :/

[@GigaDank]

@@Flinnowaty talk to them about it and if they seem to not care leave them my dude your doing more harm to yourself keeping it up lots of love

[@vixytina]

“if they wanted to they would” something i’ve been struggling coming to terms with

[@galaxy_mooncat779]

Thanks pysch2go I needed this

[@curiousandwild5775]

Nice to meet you time traveler!

[@こねこ-u7k]

me too

[@ChristinBlueSky]

Another important truth is "Love does not conquer all"

[@tizianooricchio3549]

Psi: HP 420 - Level 69 Psi uses SLAP! It's super effective!

[@user-ml3bg1fc9b]

Accepting the truth is very hard.❤

[@sophiaquintana256]

I mean I have social anxiety so that just makes everything worse 😭

[@axolotl7153]

Same

[@scorpionkiller8881]

Same

[@sillycatsayshi]

i completely understand you, but haven't u seen a therapist or seeked help ? because as a human being your derseve to live your life at the fullest and enjoy every moment of it.

[@raccoon6997]

Same

[@grimmthenightmare]

I don't fully understand how you feel, but i can still try to help: something that helps me is to take it slow, one step at a time. You don't have to start a conversation with a stranger on the outside all of a sudden, start by something small like a simple "hello" to a visitor, if you find yourself panicking: breathe. Retreat. And prepare yourself so you can try again. Step aside if it's too much but remember to try again when you feel a lil bit more confident. Another thing that helps me it's to tackle the situation with humour. I hope i could help

[@onyxxop172]

As someone who always tells themselves things get better, #6 stung a bit. Though I understand it was meant more as happiness is something you make rather than obtain, it can be hard when you struggle with what happiness actually looks like in the now