9 MISTAKES CHEAPENING YOUR HOME & EASY, BUDGET FRIENDLY TIPS TO FIX THEM | LUXURY STAGING TIPS

[@katherineastahl2623]

Valentina, I enjoy your videos and useful tips. However, one of the things I’ve noticed lately on your videos and on HGTV is the use of “art” to complement a design rather than as a celebration of creativity or something that resonates with the owner. You recommended that people go to Crate & Barrel or Pottery Barn. However, you never mentioned supporting talented local artists or even commissioning a local artist to paint something that does go with/creates a color scheme. Buying something mass produced for a department store can rarely replace the visceral reaction you get when you fall in love with an original piece of art that is one of a kind. Local artists need our support and high quality pieces can be bought for a fraction of the cost of something at Pottery Barn.

[@jessicam.1267]

Well said. Ikea, Target, Pottery Barn art 🤮 it says hi I'm a sheep that has no sense of what I like I just picked the picture that matched my other decor from World Market. Not ok. Oftentimes I think these people get kickback from the sheep stores like Pottery Barn or something. It's my personal choice to reduce waste by buying second hand goods so I don't shop there for much of anything but especially art. I'd rather have a bare wall. Lol

[@BeautyRestored61]

I totally agree.i would rather have one expensive unique piece of artwork than some mass produced piece.

[@mchoe5890]

Those mass produced pieces are not art in my opinion. Many people buy pieces that “go” with their decor theme and color, not pieces that have meaning to them. A house without family photos is NOT a home.

[@Nanno00]

Exactly! I buy art that means something to me and always from the artist. I much prefer to have art that says who i am, rather than a mass produced item that says cheap!

[@Nanno00]

@@mchoe5890 I mostly agree and slightly disagree. I don’t like to “decorate “ with family photos. I display them in areas that are FOR family, such as down hallways that lead to the bedrooms or a few, small, tastefully framed on hard surfaces scattered around. But my main art is directly from artists. Nothing mass produced. I buy them on Etsy , from festivals or even Facebook market or others were done by friends who are amazing artists.

[@jennyborter7416]

My top five items making your home look cheap...rugs that are too small, too many small items, farmhouse signs, mismatched colored furniture, and clutter!!!!

[@HouseofValentina]

I couldn’t agree with you more!

[@lynnmarchiano9775]

oh my gosh agree- writing on anything is tacky

[@jillannsarah5932]

@@lynnmarchiano9775 Yes!!!

[@dcny69]

Farmhouse signs 🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

[@sarairivera4006]

About miss match color funiture is depends because is worse machy machy ones depending on your decore style

[@ThePrincessSJL]

Tip for re-using old blankets - If you live in a cold climate, store one in your trunk in case you get stuck on the side of the road or need to warm up a passenger from being outside too long. Can also work as an impromptu picnic blanket!

[@popovka]

Or if you have to change a tire and need sth to lie down on/need to protect your clothes, so: yes, great and valid tip!

[@hildagodges8236]

Also the animal shelter uses old blankets and old towels.🐶🐱

[@suziejames7510]

Yes, I've always carried a blanket in the boot of the car and a shovel too in the winter. Been stuck in snow far too often.

[@sandytaylor8482]

I once passed by a minor accident where the victims were standing outside their vehicles. As I drove along, it dawned on me that it was 20 degrees outside, and the victims didn't even appear to be wearing jackets. I turned around and left them a large throw that I had in my car. I knew I would never see it again, but seeing them standing there, there was no way I would've kept it. We live in a very small community, so apparently, the victims recognized me and later returned the throw, thanking me for the act of kindness. Lesson learned. Keep throws, a couple of old towels, a small bag of pet food, and other things like that in your car that you might glean from making your living space look classier.

[@evelynsaungikar3553]

@@popovka In a pinch, you can get out your car mats or trunk liner.

[@susanmulvey6311]

I have framed my granddaughters paintings from before kindergarten through hi-school. But I’ve had them framed professionally. (And it was not inexpensive, but worth it” When I was in the shop other customers commented that they thought they were done by professional artists. Of course not all are “masterpieces”! 😂And they are not all over my home, but putting them in certain rooms in my home, adds love and beauty!Also the girls 20 years, later still love to see their “masterpieces” hung stylishly in my home! 😉

[@bridgetwoodward8031]

I have my favorite times with family displayed in my hallway and it makes me happy!

[@annb1265]

Our dining room table is near-sacred. It's a gorgeous dark classic wood that we bought at age 24 and I'll never regret. We have a lovely sit-down lunch and dinner everyday because my husband works at home, and I want to instill respect for quality food and good manners to our kids (8, 4 and one on the way). We homeschool at our table. We have neighbors and friend from church over every few Sundays just to build community. My dining table is very important to me because of what it symbolizes.

[@peppersghosttheater]

@@NancyNoo7007 store it where?

[@simpleshoes]

@Ann B this is one of the loveliest comments I’ve seen on KZbin. Gracious living is always in style! 👍

[@HarpistJoanna]

Cheers! You sound like a kindred spirit. 🙂 I, too, cook a couple good meals every day and we sit down together at the table. Real plates and cloth napkins for most meals with fresh flowers in the center, often. I also homeschool our three kids. These are the good ‘ol days, when we take time to connect and enjoy each day together.

[@nikitabonita37]

Ditto, I was going to sell our solid cherry wood table bc we moved into a home that is a bit small for the table but I just can’t let it go. We also have the buffet table that matches. We have dinners there, my 3yo son has grown up w this table and I’m convinced it can withstand anything lol. They will probably be much more difficult to come by in the future. Thank you for sharing your story, it really resonates.

[@bwiseok]

I to have a dining table that I’ve been caring around with me since I was 28. I am now 62 and still have my family dining table. It’s heavier than any table I’ve had to move. The chairs are gone but the table is still going strong. I’m in the process of building a small home in this home will be built around that table. When my children were young we sat around that table. My children did their homework at that table. We did school projects at that table. That table has many memories

[@giuliagandolfini8655]

Oh finally someone confirming I am not a monster for not liking to display personal photos of my family in my house! Thank you for this 😂

[@betsybabf748]

Anyone who has an issue with family photos and wanting to see loved ones while in your own home daily has missed the point of life. Finding joy from seeing loved ones, both living and deceased opposed to trying to find joy and self esteem from falsely thinking people will see you a certain way shows a well-adjusted, selfg confidemt person with healthy loving relationships who understands what truly matters in life. You keep looking at your loved ones and feel happy!! 💓

[@rebeccahale322]

Same here.. I think dusty photos demean the subject..

[@roccafellario8279]

Agree I’ve always kept family photos in an albums it has no reflection on you as a person each to there own 👍

[@raquellambropoulos279]

The key is to use matching frames high quality and black and white not too many either. But to have none??? Thats not a home. Only exceptions if you are selling your home nothing personal should be out

[@AVA-MARIA]

@@raquellambropoulos279 When I sold my home I left all my framed personal and religious photos on the walls where they have always been. I had multiple people who wanted my home and went for over ask so it wasn’t a deterrent at all 🙂♥️ I think it depends how they are displayed.

[@walterfoyt5985]

If you have old blanket that you don’t want, donate them to an animal shelter.

[@asheirahs_nook]

I did that recently, and they were really happy with them ^^

[@jelatinosa]

I just commented this before I realized that someone already had! But yes, this!

[@alexiss680]

old towels too

[@dianaduperre1172]

Good idea! Or donate to a homeless shelter

[@nchhimfinch214]

Towels too!!

[@carolefox6553]

Oh, Oh, Oh... If you're going for a more expensive look, I definitely agrees with everything, including family picture. But... I want to tell you about one exception. I was on a tour of lofts in our town. One of the lofts was owned by a single guy in his 40s-50s. I loved his place. It was very industrial with a mostly black, gray and silver color scheme, Concrete counter tops throughout, all very sleek. AND, there was a gallery wall as you entered, a large collection of small black and white family pictures. It was unexpected and added just the right touch. It has been years since I saw it and it is still one of my favorite interior memories. Thanks for the video, Valentina!

[@ColleenJoudrey]

Less clutter definitely has an impact on the space. I decluttered and cleaned my kitchen really nicely just yesterday ago and between my husband and kids, it was trashed by the time I woke up this morning. At least with less clutter, I can put it back to rights in about 10 minutes.

[@Rose80388]

I love staging homes, but when it comes to living in a home, as beautiful as I want it to be, if it’s not personal, with family pics to warm me or just make me smile, I might as well be in YOUR home or someone’s office.

[@cherylkavanagh3387]

Exactly!

[@mr-tg4xn]

Maybe try adding one 2 amall antique frames on a table instead of family photos on walls. The way you chose color nand decor of your home is not the same as me so why would you feel likemyounare in someone else's home . There are tens on ways other than photos to personalise a space.

[@rossy9539]

@@mr-tg4xn you are missing her point

[@Daringtobemyself]

Amen

[@bennu09]

Not everyone is meant to live in expensive looking homes.

[@teresaremaniak856]

When we sold our first house many years ago, the final selling point was a personal picture of us in Bermuda. They had been to the exact spot, recognized it, and decided our house was their new home!

[@BoeBreezy]

I'm not a fan of family photos on the wall or having them displayed during a showing. I do, however, think it's fine to have them displayed in a dedicated area, on a bookshelf etc. Family photos gives the feel that people actually live in the home, and are filled with memories. I'm a sentimental type person, so that is just my opinion. I also think filling walls with mass-produced art work cheapens the look of a home. There are so many affordable options for unique wall art available, etsy, local aspiring artist etc. The other things you mentioned I agree with you 100%. A clean home makes for an inviting home.

[@NoName-vw6ft]

Еxactly. Why pay giant corporation to reprint things, instead of paying similar amount to young artist for original work???

[@cherylkavanagh3387]

Valentina, I have watched you for a long time and 99.9% of the time, I agree with your decorating suggestions and have many of the same things in my home. However, when you said that hanging family photos cheapens a space, you lost me. I am not talking about staging a home for sale, where I agree that all personal items (including family photos) should be removed. I am talking about a home where people actually live. Having said that, I would agree that how you display family photos and personal items can enhance a space or cheapen it, depending upon how it is done. I have two very small baby photos of my sons in tiny beautiful frames that sit in the corner of my powder room vanity. They give me joy each time I see them. I have other photos throughout my home that bring back memories of a trip to France, a wonderful Christmas, etc. I frame them nicely and the displayed photos are carefully curated. I also have a considerable collection of original paintings that I have acquired over the years. I purchase pieces that I love and the combination of it all brings me much pleasure. Yes, my coffee tables have trays with items and books that I love along with plants and flowers. I believe that all of this makes a house a welcoming home to those who live there and to those that visit. (Sorry, just realized how long this is!)

[@sugoiharris1348]

I agree! When you have things you value and treat them like they are valuable to you, like nicely framed baby pictures, they will never cheapen your house. They give a homey, loving, comfortable feel and visitors will notice in a positive way.

[@cherylkavanagh3387]

@@sugoiharris1348 Thank you for your kind response!

[@jillgaddis3889]

I agree with you. In fact I chose black and white photos of my family, had them framed in black and made a gallery wall in the kitchen eating area. I use my dining room for eating everyday, not for just special occasions, heck we are special and it is a good family time.

[@mariannetherissetorres1960]

Cheryl I really understand what you mean about the family photos, I had to chose a couple of my son and daughter to keep next to my heart, on the other hand my husband is an artist and paints in all sizes. Just imagine how my home was, I said was because we remodeled everything that we barely are finishing arranging things around. Yes he had to put many paintings in storage. However I keep what I love including photos. ❤️❤️

[@cherylkavanagh3387]

@@mariannetherissetorres1960 Thank you, Marianne. I believe that it is important to surround yourself with things that you love and give you pleasure.❤

[@hantejudy]

My husband and I have some beautiful, expensively-framed artwork. It was very affordable because we bought all of it from the artists, already beautifully framed. Juried art festivals are great places to buy original, framed, affordable pieces.

[@jennbidwelledwardson2885]

Everything you said is exactly what our realtor had us do when we sold our house 2 years ago. And here in our new house, I'll put up every family photo I want. 😁

[@susalkasarahi]

I think a good compromise for the family photos is if they're professionally taken you can print them out in black and white and that way they look kind of artsy, but I also agree that family pictures would work better in a hallway or the staircase, not main living areas.

[@aprilmorgan9807]

If I were selling my home I would take down family photos because people do like a home they can see themselves in. If I’m not selling my home then professionally taken pictures is a nice upgrade. A good photographer can turn family photos into pieces of art.

[@markita.hardenhome]

Agreed. The matting and framing is also key

[@aprilmorgan9807]

@@markita.hardenhome Good point

[@AVA-MARIA]

@@aprilmorgan9807 not always the case. I sold for way over ask and had multiple offers with my professionally framed personal and religious photos hanging in my home where they have always been. That’s just something that’s recommended but not always a true statement.

[@neighborhoodcatlady6094]

I keep mine on my dresser in the bedroom. Nothing in the rest of the house.

[@nadiacoffey2609]

I love having a formal dining room in my house. I know the trend is to have everything open and people don’t use their dining rooms anymore but I can’t imagine! I bought a beautiful custom made Amish dining room table and it is so beautiful! My dad also made me a beautiful buffet where I store all of my nicer dishes and cutlery for entertainment. We eat dinner in there as much as possible and we have a large bay window overlooking our front garden. We never leave clutter there. I always have some kind of decoration in the middle of the table even if it’s just a vase with some flowers. I also would mention, just changing some light fixtures in your home can also make a huge difference in your home. I changed all of the fixtures in my house as soon as we moved in. I bought all of the new fixtures from Lowe’s and Home Depot and they made a world of difference in my home!

[@holdenerfamily7921]

We have 7 children and a zero clutter/zero family photos home. I’m married to a professional concept artist, I agree with these tips. 😉 Everyone is shocked that we keep it so clean. And it makes our home easy/peaceful. Draws attention to the people in it and the gardens surrounding it.

[@mrsmdub75]

I agree with you! We have no personal photos anywhere, except 3 graduation photos of our 3 children. And even then, they are on one shelf high up in our personal office. Easily removed if needed. That’s all we need!

[@therealnancybee710]

Sounds cold and impersonal to me.

[@mrsmdub75]

@@therealnancybee710 When you’ve lived with a hoarder family member, you’ll understand. I’ve always been a simple and minimal person, my cabinets only have 6 plates, six cups, 6 coffee mugs, ect. Clutter everywhere makes my mind cluttery. Family photos are a thing of the past. If I really want to see photos, that is what my cell phone is for. Living a minimalist life is the BEST for me!

[@jadedstar7442]

Can you come help me with my house? I hate being a clutterer. It always comes back. I think people are born with clutter seeds that keep growing. 😢

[@98Goober]

@@jadedstar7442 me too! I had two garage sales and purged a lot before my boyfriend moved in with me because we needed more space, but now it has been 8 years and my house is full of stuff again :(

[@lob1523]

I agree about the family photos too. Since I do like seeing them tho I think a option of putting them in the kitchen, hallway or a bedroom is a good alternative. Leave the art for the living room and dining room

[@HouseofValentina]

Love this idea!

[@SparkIMO]

I agree! Mine are strictly in the bedrooms.

[@karmagrace2877]

We only put family photos in bedrooms too

[@katythriftyunder35homeowne57]

You can use only the nicer important photos and get high-quality frames for them. I use photos of my garden instead of art and its very special for us. We have the cutest photo of our chickens, when they were babies, from 2020.

[@rociosimaytis5470]

I agree not on the walls, I’m ok on a hallway but not too many, I buy nice frames and display just a couple on an end table.

[@korenbrigham]

Great video! I put my yard trimmings in a large vase and especially love the way Japanese maple branches look. Both my grandmothers always said to decorate with art in the spaces where one entertains guests and keep family photos small and in other rooms. I do want to add that I hope people will buy from artists. It’s hard to make a living and there is some wonderful, original art to be found.

[@janrobert3176]

I agree with the family photos advice. Years ago I heard a decorator say, "Art on the walls, photos on a table." Family photos in lovely silver frames on a side table can work, but never groupings of the grandkids in various frame sizes on the walls, Grandma style. One exception may be black and white professionally taken photographs of family members done as an art installation. I've seen this and it can look lovely if done properly. Another great video, Valentina!

[@DavidOwenCreates]

Yes!!!

[@katherineastahl2623]

I don’t like to see family photos in social spaces in a home. Perhaps some small photos on a side table or tastefully arranged on a dresser in a bedroom.

[@aliciajames8038]

Best comment ever!! A few pictures on a side table and in my opinion the rest in photo albums !!!

[@xinyiteh3328]

While I can see black and white family photos being suitable for aesthetics, it is however pretty stigmatised in my culture - black and white photos are pretty much for dead ppl only 😅

[@karelmillard9854]

Perfectly said

[@shannonschwab3754]

I *totally* agree if I'm selling my home as few personal items as possible should be out-that includes family photos. Buuuut I respectfully disagree, I live in my home, not an art gallery. I LOVE your channel all of your tips and insights. One out of nine ain't bad 😃

[@HouseofValentina]

Ha, I'm so glad that you're here!

[@mingram15]

It's your home not an art gallery...LOVE IT!😁💞

[@catic15]

I am always appalled, when I look at photos for listed houses, by the number of places with listing photos showing every room filled with clutter - dining tables with dishes, piles of clothing, messy beds and crowded closets. I'm getting ready to sell my house next year and getting rid of my excess stuff is my absolute top priority! As for art, I'm a bit of a snob - my art isn't expensive but it's all individual works by artists, not mass-produced from a chain store.

[@ellaredseals2694]

Im glad to see this comment about houses on the market an shocked at the photos in listing showing messes ,,, let alone going to see these homes...I do not understand why some realtors regardless if you can professionally have home staged Do Not tell their home seller these need too be clean before I can even take photos to list it appalls me ... I do however understand some may not have the means to putchase things to spruce it up..But they can certainly clean it up... On the subject of family photos , I do find it rude too think if living in my home not selling it that somebody finds it cheapens home, (Rather rude comment I believe)..On the other hand when selling our first home way back when the realtor did have us remove our gallery hall of family photos why : so the prospective buyers were not looking at your family an imagining themselves in your home this is a good a steadfast tip that should be followed I believe...Also had us pack up our nic nacs an same reason...What I found was there was less to pick when home sold ! Yeah But for most I wish she do a video for realtitors an people selling to watch about the junk an untidy homes I've seen lisited is amazing too think somebody would wanna buy it with it being trashed...I personally have walked out of a few homes over yrs when looking to buy when I've seen nasty messes ! Why cause if they have no respect to clean it up to sell what else is wrong w home they haven't taken care of ....

[@Dbb27]

I’m also a Realtor and that’s one of my pet peeves. A towel thrown over a bed post, clutter everywhere and toilet seats up. Even saw a pic with a floater one time. Absolutely lazy and embarrassing to my profession.

[@jillgarcia7335]

I agree! I love shopping at local artist co-ops and when on trips visiting art shows - I’ve picked up some beloved pieces and had the added pleasure of meeting the artist and hearing their stories and inspiration! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🖤🤍

[@kaykay1265]

I am so thrilled to have found you today! I read many years ago that a lot of people go on vacation to get away from their clutter, etc. So I now live keeping my own home 'staged'. I don't have small kids and I know everyone cannot. I want the feeling that I'm on vacation in a luxury suite. No, I'm not rich by far, but videos like this sure can get the job done without a fat wallet. Please keep these coming, I'm your new number one fan!

[@HouseofValentina]

You said that very well, and we're the same way. We used to go on vacation for the same reason and now when we do we compare everything to home.

[@janicebott4498]

I too found her today and I’m obsessed! We’ll have to fight for the #1 fan title though. 😀

[@ashleyowens1093]

I live in a small home with a limited amount of flat surfaces - which I keep clutter free and curated! So I have a gallery wall in my bedroom where I hang black frames for my black and white photos of family. My family is everything and this is just for me.

[@debbiemas4395]

Oh My Goodness, I brought my pictures down to paint and I thought I was a bad grandma because I don't want them back on the wall! Glad I'm not alone...

[@27Spiritgirl]

Your comment about not displaying family photos was very brave ... and I agree - best relegated to a den or bedroom, preferably in black and white, and simply, but elegantly, framed. Brava for saying this out loud!! ;-) xoxo

[@HouseofValentina]

Thank you!

[@magpiesmith971]

My family photos are in a mix of beautiful frames, each is small, and they sit on a large antique buffet in the back of the living room - not hanging on the walls. If someone wants to walk over to them and take a look, that’s their choice. This enables me to change the photos out as time goes by if that’s what I want. My husband is a photographer and my mother was an artist, and their things hang on the walls in prominent places. Other artists things fill in the gaps around the house. This works for me. 😊

[@artbysonyabadgley]

One thing that helps me "see" a room from a different perspective is taking a photo of a room with my phone. Then view the photo. I can usually see clearly what needs to go and what can stay ( or moved around). You have great tips but I do display family photos in my family room on one wall. They are all framed in the same type of frame. When my grandkids come visit they love seeing a special photo of them hanging on my wall. Now if I were selling my home, then yes, all the personal items in my home would be packed away. So that the perspective buyer can picture themselves living in my home. I've owned lots of properties in my life and have always staged my homes. The first one person/persons that have seen them bought them. I do have to comment on the room you were standing in. This is my opinion so please take it as such. Your walls are painted that dark hipster blue ( looks blue on my tv) and what pops out to me are the door hinges and doorknobs and not the artwork. And the beautiful raised paneling (sorry can't think of the correct name atm) is painted the same blue. Why not a different color to bring out the beauty of it? Again, its just my opinion.

[@Jewelybee7]

I do the same thing, I take a picture of my room it really helps see where the changes need to be made.

[@glamsky3257]

The room she were in is deppressing.

[@betsyulbrich7362]

Believe that color is very dark grey, almost black.

[@theresaalexander4142]

The room she Is in is depressing.

[@20128096]

I absolutely agree with the family pictures tip ❤️ I guess they shouldn't be the first thing your guests should see and they are better at a more intimate yet open space of your home.

[@kathykaufman1244]

As a senior who has moved way too many times...I totally agree with your moving and staging tips!

[@patriciamiller9317]

I just sold my house and before it went on the market, I took ALL family photos off the walls. In fact, all art and let the stagers put whatever they wanted. It was GORGEOUS! I don't think I'll put pictures or anything on the walls in my new house. The clean, uncluttered look is timeless. My kids are older anyway. Great tips!

[@bonniejuzdowski4347]

You were extremely lucky! I D cluttered and cleaned everything down to a minimalist look before the stagers came in. They put up some ugly artwork and even plastic flowers on the kitchen table. I thought it looked terrible. There were comments at showings that said that the house looked like it had been staged. And it sure did. Anyway it’s sold right away in this market they usually do. But my experience was not that great I was not impressed at all.

[@sandeecohn121]

Hello, I find your design shows informative because of your pre situation as a host. The the 9 mistakes kitchen episode challenged everyone to look around. My husband & I are70+. I am that person who is for putting away; that has become increasingly difficult. The mixer remains on the counter because the knees don't bend and back pains are over-the-top. Point being perhaps you could design a show for the viewer who has experienced physical change in their life style. BTW, I buy 2 different color sponges because my husband would use the same one to wipe counter as well as the floor. Thank you, Sandee

[@hantejudy]

Thanks, Sandee, I do the same thing with the two colors of sponges! One doesn't get chemicals on it other than soap, so it is good for the cutting board, wiping counters. The other one can get cleansers and be used for greasy dirt, floor spills, etc. When I put stuff away that has been sitting on my kitchen counter and then come back in the room later, I think the cleaners have come by :) Makes such a difference. Do what works for you -- I totally get arthritis and other aging pains. If you're staging your home, then you can get crazy with putting everything away.

[@jillgarcia7335]

You have great suggestions!

[@Julia-qx2ec]

Omg! I feel the same way about personal photos but I've never said it! I'm glad I'm not the only one.

[@Angie-ci1lp]

Only if I was staging my HOUSE to sell,however my HOME is my personal history tell and enjoy

[@barbaragoncalves8633]

Me too, never liked it.

[@gigistephens8130]

Me three ladies! I don't care for all the family photos in my home. I have about 10 and I'd like to decrease to about 3. I've always felt so guilty, so I displayed the photos. I do like the idea of putting them in the hallway. 😄

[@susannevling1291]

I don't like the idea of strangers viewing my home for sale and seeing my children, grandchildren and personal things especially when they already know my address. It sounds a bit paranoid but crimes have been committed after viewings.

[@agnediciuniene9861]

I have photos taken by professional photographer that look really high end. But I also don't care if they make my home look cheaper.

[@sarahterry2140]

Such photos in silver frames are typical in old money homes - I just ignore some of this advice. I don’t wNt to live in a place that looks like a hotel - impersonal with mass-market “art”.

[@agnediciuniene9861]

To be honest, I am not so crazy about my home looking expensive. I want it to look stylish, comfortable, alive and express my personality.

[@-nellie-m3711]

I Love all your tips, especially taking away the family photos, I used to have a wall dedicated to my family photos and when we renovated I put them all away and changed it up with art work and it made such a beautiful difference, I see my family enough Lol 😂 that I don’t need them hanging on my walls anymore. Thanks V for all you share with us to make our homes look better and more beautiful. Cheers from Queensland Australia 🇦🇺💖💖🖤🖤

[@HouseofValentina]

You're welcome Nellie!

[@Shakashack2022]

I love your wall-art approach to staging a house for sale. A warm & inviting pretty home, TO SELL, can be created without the family headshots. When not selling, by all means display the precious family photos wherever & however. 😊

[@shebacastro4729]

(Not for staging) But I love a photo gallery wall with matching frames. Bonus if there are extended family included on the wall and some older black and white pictures.

[@karlarockster7979]

Thank you for helping me not feel guilty about putting away photos. Just a couple days ago I looked around my place and there's family photos on every wall, and on every piece of furniture. With an extensive family, and some family squabbles lately it made me ask myself why I have all these family photos here anyway because all they do is create clutter. I had the thought of just boxing them all up and putting them away, at least for a while, so that I can declutter and start over. I might like not having family photos all over. I can take the photos out of the frames and put them in photo boxes, so I still have them, they're just not cluttering up everything, including the refrigerator. I was feeling a bit guilty about it, but you just gave me permission, confirmation that what I was considering was the right thing to do. Yeah! I feel liberated already, and I haven't even begun the task yet!

[@sgardner2526]

Great tips, when you "went there" with the family photos, I thought, uh-oh the comments may not be too kind.... But to each their own. I agree with all your tips and think they are spot on. Time for me to get new blankets! Tfs!

[@HouseofValentina]

Thank you so much!

[@cathycoleman9386]

Great tips!!! I’m a realtor in Houston and give the same advice on family photos, when selling a home. Even in beautifully staged homes, family photos are a distraction. Buyers spend more time looking at the cute kids and awesome vacation spots, then imagining themselves living in the house. Valentina, keep teaching!!! Also, that jacket is fabulous!!

[@haleygrigg9571]

Old blankets usually end up in my kid's playroom for forts. And all beds, even my preschooler's and 1st grader's beds, have decorative pillows and a throw blanket on them. There's nothing more calming at night than a tidy and inviting bed! 😊

[@Clutching.My.Pearls]

I watched this video, then followed your video ideas, and honestly my house, which I'm keeping, looks SO MUCH better!! Just these simple yet effective ideas are wonderful. Thanks Valentina! 💖

[@lilytosado1719]

I agree with all tips except the family pictures. I love having pictures of family memories hanging on my wall. It brings me joy and that's what's important. I don't decorate for people, I decorate for me and my family. Just my personal opinion.

[@karenokeane6461]

I agree about the family pictures in a 'public' space like the living room or powder room. But they're wonderful in a home office/work area and in bedrooms/dressing rooms.

[@inouno77]

The smell of the house makes a big difference also. I am a Realtor and can smell old spaces.

[@RoyallyMessy]

I have large photos of my kids that have been taken over the years. They are displayed in an upstairs hall/stairwell. I know they are not in style but I love them and my kids significant others love seeing them. I have moved several times and I also packed them up along with many other things to show my house. I like to live with my granny’s things around me but I understand I have to put them up when I sell a home. When selling a house, think one beautiful thing on any flat surface. Also, I love sitting at the dining room table using China and silver - I think it should be an everyday or at least weekly event.

[@happygoluckystar8069]

Dear Valentina 😃 every tip in this video is right on point! Especially the one related to photos ☺️ yes! You are right, when looking for a home, nobody wants to see walls covered with zyllions of family photos taken over decades by current owners 🙄 its just making potential buyer feel like an intruder….. so, great advice 👍 thank you!! 🌹

[@HouseofValentina]

You're so welcome!

[@dorothywoods2047]

I just sold our home and I only had family pictures in bedrooms. The realtor wanted me to remove them all. Nothing personal showing. I am not big on showcasing many family pics around the house. If you have a home office placing small frames do look nice in this space.

[@lpetitoiseau9146]

I removed the coffee table from the center of the living room and replaced it with 3 Room & Board side tables. Then brought the seating closer. I hate huge TVs in the living room. Thanks for your tips!

[@marnoch4632]

I have to agree about family photos. But I thought that was just me! Lol I worked for a professional portrait photographer for years and sadly it changed the way in see professional family photos. So often contrived and excessively twee. I always cringe when I see them hanging on living room walls.

[@carolineboenig7777]

Agree on personal photos other than minimal display of very exceptionally done 'portraits'. Memories for the heart, art for the walls.

[@ericaquint1895]

A photo gallery wall as a focal point in a room is like someone saying “Hey! Look at this!” And then proceeding to tell you five different mini-stories at once. It’s a lot for the eye to take in at once. That’s why I prefer them in hallways

[@DavidOwenCreates]

You should check out my hallway..... I have a video on it BUT I literally have all my abstract art I made up on the walls (created my very own gallery in my home)... its .... A LOT 😅

[@jcmhanel1]

Feather filled throw pillows are great! You can plump them up. You can also buy a new cover to update.

[@Bocaschild]

Yes! Thank you! The only one that I’m still having trouble with is finding Art that I like, walls a bare sight now. And I don’t like personal photos all over the walls. Thanks for the tips

[@korenbrigham]

Etsy has some good art.

[@cooky75015]

Same! Struggling so much to find my style

[@peppersghosttheater]

I had some great photos I took on my travels. Not of people but reminders of great experiences. I had them professionally framed and love them. I also invested in some great art from local artists in Atlanta galleries, already framed. One place came and hung it

[@maryellenyork2819]

Great ideas for selling a home or wanting to look your best with company. Thank you for saying these ideas are to help sell a house.

[@Gerene37]

I love that you SAID IT!!! Yessss please call my mom and tell her to take down ALL of her wall art of family photosss! Hahaha I’m 50 and I don’t need everyone to see what my 80s school pics looked like LOL. I do have a family photo gallery but they are all black and white in my stairways and a few 7x5 in framed on my built ins. Seriously!! She has the entire family albums on the wall like it’s a museum.

[@HouseofValentina]

That’s so funny!

[@margarethackett4294]

Again great advice! I have a tip. I had a large portrait of my mother-in-law which my husband couldn’t give away. It had a beautiful heavy gold frame. So I ordered from Amazon sticky blackboard paper and covered the glass ( and picture) with it. I now have a beautiful blackboard for my office and hubby didn’t mind. 😊

[@suziejames7510]

I had never heard of Home Stagers until I met someone from the U.S. about 40 years ago and that was what her mum did. I live in the U.K. where we don't have them but I thought what a great job to have. I have seen so many homes for sale on Estate agents websites where the home owners haven't even cleaned and tidied their homes before any photographs were taken and they expect to get top price. What you have said is just basic common sense but this video should be made compulsory watching for all people about to sell their homes. Totally agree about family photos hung on walls, have always thought it just looks so bad. Great video xx

[@hantejudy]

The home I live in, I am convinced, had not been cleaned or vacuumed for 20 years before I bought it. There was a spot where the carpet and pad were worn through and you could see the slab. Dirty underwear on floors, pile of dishes in the sink. But I could see the great bones (and great view) and bought the house.

[@ashleymarieeee]

Kid friendly coffee table decor?? Mine is only empty because children 😂❤️ good thing they’re cute.

[@susalkasarahi]

Omg same! I have an ottoman with a tray and a fake plant on top that my 17 month old will take and run around the living room with 🤣🤣 I saw another video where the lady was talking about using asthenic wooden toys as decor that's kid friendly

[@monicawilson8075]

Right. I dont even try with that! : D

[@FM-xy6ux]

I think what you’re saying is completely true. I love family photos displayed and I have several (black and white on canvas) of my children because I can’t imagine a piece of art making me smile as much as my own children, but I agree my house would look more designed and stylish if I just used artwork. I would put the family photos in storage and swap out for generic art if I was selling my house. I love your content, thank you. X

[@glamsky3257]

Yeah selling and living is totally different.

[@judithortiz-velazquez4992]

Great tips. I’m glad that I’ve addressed the shoes in entryway. The dining table is a challenge because I set up my workstation there but I put all of it away Friday. Eliminating clutter is a constant but I’m improving. Good Fake greenery can be expensive. Mixing small fake greenery with real plants can help fill in voids. I’m a work in progress. My home is a work in progress. Thanks Mr. & Ms. V for stimulating the creative genes in me.

[@janelleespinosa6247]

I agree, when selling, all personal pics and trophies need to be packed away. If you are living there, arrange personal pics in a well designed not too many, area.

[@fallen7lady]

With family photos, it depends on how you display them. My opinion. There are ways to make them look good, just have to put some effort on the thinking. Loved all the tips given in this video 🌟

[@haven0916]

You have some good ideas about updating a home's look. Your own house, however, looks stark and without any personality.Please keep in mind that decore varies based on where you live. We changed our entire style of decorating after moving from the North to the tropics. Many things to consider. Your black and white would not work here. Some tips are good, though.

[@debrarozich8945]

I love your videos and learn a lot. If anybody gets upset at your helpful suggestions, they need to understand you are a professional and you are sharing with us what actually works. Thank you. XO, cowgirl Deb

[@thebeautyofflavor]

I love a nicely designed coffee table as well. I bought the two-level glass and iron one from Pottery Barn and have several items of interest on the bottom shelf. Then on the top level, I have that faux jade plant that you showcased in the middle to add some height! That plant is so beautiful and reasonably priced. I'm thinking about adding another one in my kitchen. I'm horrible with keeping plants alive, so besides the faux plants, I've found real orchids to be easy to keep alive and they add such a nice softness and design. Just 3 ice cubes a week to water them- so simple.

[@HouseofValentina]

That sounds lovely!

[@notalltheories]

Towels! Nicely folded or hotel rolled, all matching. Bathrooms need love too, especially staging to sell. A luxurious bathroom is a major selling point.

[@20128096]

Future video request: Could you please make one on your professional journey too! I would love to know how you made it possible to work overseas and then re-established yourself back in Atlanta.

[@viomarjessbar1740]

I absolutely agree with the family photos. I have been thinking of how odd it is that we stick photos of our family members on the walll that already live there. So taking them down or changing them up is ideal, indeed!

[@jrepubyoutube2532]

I agree about family photos! Thanks for saying it, Valentina! You're the best!

[@michah321]

I agree and actually I wouldn't mind beautiful tastefully sized portraits but they are always giant pictures of their kids in a sports uniform or goofy family picture or a GIANT wedding picture in the living room 30 years after they are married.

[@sableann4255]

@@michah321 Agree! :)

[@andreavanda5402]

I totally agree, pictures of family belongs in a certain area of the home like the bedroom and not the main areas of the home like the living room.

[@juliemckinnon6213]

Well. You knew you would get comments regarding family photos. 🤷🏻‍♀️. I can say that when I went to sell a home I removed ALL personal items including family photos. I got 20% over comps! I also followed other agent advice like clearing out 50%+ of a closet, fresh flowers, lighting..lighting...lighting and had it professionally cleaned often. It really paid off for me!! Btw my neighbors thought I was nuts re my asking price. Not only did I get it but I had the BUYER pay ALL fees!! My agent got three neighbor listings after as well. 👍🏼

[@HouseofValentina]

That's awesome!

[@donnayeager2703]

I agree about the dining room! I like to linger over a good meal in a beautiful room. It's is a free luxury we should give ourselves.

[@DebbieMcCullough]

I think an issue with family photos is they’re often generic and posed. I love seeing a more artfully constructed photograph, such as candid shots or landscapes that also happen to have someone in it (maybe at a distance.) But I agree with the concept in general, to consider whether you may see it at an art exhibit.

[@clairebear964]

Loving your tips - so practical and things everyone can do. I love your classic style and not necessarily recommending what the current style trend is.

[@Reulus]

Nobody asked but, what I see in most of the vids on decorating is nothing but wall decor, not art but wall decor and there is a difference. The DIY 'art work' ought to be described as wall decor as art as in ART is a totally different animal. Note, it is always a DIY 'abstract' painting, why not a DIY landscape or portrait? I believe the answer is obvious. The key phrase is ABSTRACT as it appears people doing this believe abstraction only requires splashing paint on a canvas in whatever way. Anyone that believes abstraction is not laborious, thoughtful, skilled, and an emotionally charged creation lacks an understanding of art. I hope no one is offended by this comment as it is not my intention, I simply wish to make a clarification that should be understood as to believe that anyone can DIY an abstract work of art is devaluing the work of artists that work in that genre. Family photos, I place in the bedroom, or if it is on the more public accessed areas, I chose black and white or sepia, professionally taken photographs of my ancestors. I do have some casual photos in my kitchen. One key thing is to place them in quality frames.

[@dcny69]

Smartest reply I ever read. I have a professional abstract painter friend and it’s not cheap or easy to make. And it takes lots of skill and time.

[@dw7939]

I'm an abstract artist and a piece can take me weeks, even months depending on my layers. The truth is it can take years to learn a painting skill that takes 20 minutes to execute. That's why most DIY art looks so flat and childish - depth and composition are usually missing. But, maybe trying a painting will open the door to understanding art or even to taking up painting.

[@mirabellegoldapfel6256]

I want to like this comment like 200 times. I am an artist myself and if I hear "get your art from homegoods (only if you reaaally love it please)" or "just paint abstract stuff yourself" a piece of my soul dies a little bit. It is like when you are in a museum with abstract pieces and people say the inevitable "haha, I could do that myself, why do people pay so much for this". Well most probably you can't or you did not because this kind of art does not appeal to you. Abstract art requires as much knowledge of composition, color theory, art history, materials etc as non-abstract art.

[@PatriciaBerlinerMA]

I am so glad you said what you did about personal photos!

[@Margaretcs0103]

I have a family picture gallery in a mud room area that leads to an in-law suite that I built for my parents. I wanted them to feel at home and comfortable. The photos are old black and whites and they range from 1922 to 1964. Mt parents are both gone now and when I look at my wall I remember each family member and appreciate how fleeting life really is. I 100% agree that to stage a house they should be gone!

[@jillgarcia7335]

Very special memories in those photos - how lovely!

[@kimstclair1879]

Hi Valentina thanks for what great vlog, it was all great advice and "i" loved it. After having put some houses through their paces. The very first tip I was given is that "personal things are for private spaces". Before even the agent is called, I go through everything 3 times, that's everything. Draws, cupboards shelves etc. I do my cleanse donates and on the last run through I place a proper packing box an paper in several areas and start an initial pack, label and store. I do this because I have leant that people like to open those unexpected cupboards and draws where photos and personal keep sakes have been slipped into. By the time the agent arrives the place looks wonderful. By the time the house goes on the market it looks stunning. Cheers from Melbourne Kim

[@GG-si9we]

Love all your tips and you are so classy; your hair, makeup, clothes - everything! Keep ‘em coming! Also love your personality. 😊🙏💓

[@raquellambropoulos279]

With her job it is so damn important for her to look perfect!! If she can't pull herself together what would that say about her ability to stage your house? Right?

[@cameliap1146]

Only she has to stop "laughing" & pretending be fun. Only tips please. Toooo much glaze on the cake.

[@genahowe4206]

I'm not any kind of designer, stager, realtor or anything like that, but I think fresh rugs and clean, non-fussy window treatments help. Not a lot of print fabrics everywhere. But maybe that's just me.

[@shauni83]

Natural fabrics and materials have a tendency to look more expensive. For example one woolen blanket instead of several plastic ones. Or we own only two sets of pillowcases and bedsheets, but those are linnen. And a real wooden table can look gorgeous for generations!

[@KA-mq4wj]

I totally agree about family photos looking cheap. I had a neighbor who had 100’s of photos of her kids everywhere in the house. I remember thinking it was too much and made the house look chintzy

[@kesterha]

The thing about personal photos is soooo true! If they need to be there, then make sure you do the European antique chic and put them in silver frames of different sizes and styles and dress them up carefully displayed on an antique chest or such, that is what royalty would do… but putting family photos and blowups of holiday photos on the walls really looks super cheap…

[@daymonv3736]

I agree with you about removing personal photos when you are going to sell your home because it helps the buyer visualize it being THEIR house. I think many times the reasons they look cheap are, they are in inexpensive frames, they are grade school photos with the funky backgrounds, or their placement on the wall is off. I have seen beautiful family photos displayed on a gallery wall that looked sleek. All of the photos were black and white with white mats and black frames (different types).

[@kunya16]

Anything overly trendy cheapens a home. Right now it's farmhouse, shiplap and over use of wood tones. Those will be out as fast as they came in and will make the home look dated and cheap.

[@markita.hardenhome]

Totally agree. Too much of anything ruins the point. It takes it from stylish to themy. A touch of a trend with classic pieces is best. Not a throwing up of everything farmhouse for example...🙄😅.... especially if you live in the city and not an actual farmhouse

[@lo-fidreamsASMR]

Hot tip: Acetone off all words from farmhousey canisters and trolleys. I did this and it elevated these items into something far more timeless.

[@kunya16]

@@markita.hardenhome no one in an actual farmhouse has any farmhouse decor. Nothing is white. There's manure boots at the door, cow vaccine needles in the mudroom sink, bailing twine hanging around... Definitely no "gather" signs with white everywhere.

[@yvonnem.langlois5197]

Or grey tones everywhere, with a few touches of colour (here and there) which now appears to be the trend. In several years from now, it too will look dated .

[@LaughingInTiny]

I swear... one more IKEA hack gluing caning to a door or putting mud/baking soda on literally every single lamp and vase... I'm going to go full throttle insane. HOT TIP: this is why thrifting exists (and Facebook marketplace etc)... Get it FOR REAL for $7. Don't even get me started on chalk painting antiques! It makes me PHYSICALLY angry knowing how many beautiful pieces that were built to last for generations are about to be tossed when that trend goes sideways. 🤬😭

[@sallypea3202]

Totally agree with the personal photos. I don’t mind some smaller frames but giant photos of the family just aren’t necessary!

[@Jaacck45]

The tip are good and yes they are fun. Luckily I want to stay in my home however, I want it to look luxurious. So love tips - I haven’t got any blankets/throws.... yet 👍🏽😄

[@aprilmanning9629]

I personally don’t like family photos displayed on walls. For those who want their family photos around, how about one of those digital pictures frames that rotate pictures? Set on the kitchen counter or in an office perhaps, you can see them all the time. And you get to see more pictures. To me it’s the perfect solution. Great video. Great outfit and hair.

[@LebohangPonoane6346]

Like Julie khuu would say " buy once, cry once". Like that. Love your content, love your chanel 🖤🖤🖤

[@HouseofValentina]

Thank you so much!

[@HeyMJ.]

Thank you for this episode re: how to upStyle your home & actually LIVE in it! Your guidance is greatly appreciated. 🕊

[@lisaedelstein0118]

I agree with all of these and have implemented all of them in my home. Even the family picture suggestion! I don’t even like family pics in a bedroom. I don’t want my kids pictures anywhere near my bed (wink wink) The only place I have personal pictures is in my office. It’s where we have our vacation photos and memorabilia from cruises. It’s themed and gaudy 🤣 but that’s what I was going for.

[@lee8797]

In Australia we call them cushions and throw rugs, or throws. Sounds classier than 'blanket'.

[@maudelynn13]

Don’t worry. Lots of other designers on KZbin have already said family photos cheapen a space. I don’t agree if they are framed nicely.

[@maudelynn13]

And having mass produced art from studio McGhee target et all looks cheap.

[@enlightenedact]

Thank you for pearls of wisdom. I needed to hear those brutally honest opinions. You also provide great alternatives.

[@kerriuttaro6153]

Yesss!!!! The family photos! Soooo happy you said this! I agree with Everything you mentioned here.

[@lasnow4582]

Good episode and I agree completely about the family photos... though you can do it minimally, freshly and tastefully.

[@absj1204]

I loved loved loved this one. It is exactly what I needed to hear and the inspiration and motivation to kick my butt in gear to get stuff done around my house. Thank you so much for sharing all your amazing ideas. How are you liking your kitchen since you took down the gorgeous metal shelves and sent your Nespresso to the closet😀

[@janetholley1004]

She is a great motivator and I love enthusiasm ❤!

[@NatureHarmony_]

I really liked the tips! Some of them were completely new to me, and I would have never thought of them myself. But please just say it without appologising or exaggerating about what the viewers would think of it. You're an expert and we all learn from you.