9 Months on Estrogen! : MAJOR ANNOUNCEMENT | Stef Sanjati

[@pinkweaselgirl]

I literally cannot even comprehend how someone could call you a sir...

[@lionelheisler4887]

me too. 💚

[@pinkweaselgirl]

+oliviaisonyoutube she's obviously so feminine if just baffles me how someone could be so rude. Like I'm cis and I look manlier than her😂

[@OkamiSamaa]

Sounds like they did it just to be facetious

[@pinkweaselgirl]

+Okami Samaa that breaks my heart tbh

[@charlottelake966]

I really don't get it either

[@echervey]

I'm so happy for her! Such a gorgeous face and now she's just gonna feel even more confident I'm so happy

[@boyfriend23]

I'm happy she's happy and your happy. YAAY for happy! ^^

[@55nova]

1buffyhutch she's not but ok

[@futurezawyer8422]

well born yes lookin no

[@echervey]

1buffyhutch well biologically male yes but she's a girl and I'm not having this discussion lmao. If you don't believe in GID then why are you watching her videos

[@rosalina4852]

tbh, you don't even look like a sir at all??? You literally look like a fairy princess! (not about the surgery, the sir thing)

[@rosalina4852]

you can think whatever you want, but its rude anyway.

[@eveashbrook9151]

Oh my gosh you are so beautiful, gorgeous, and you are such a HUGE role model for me. I am so so proud of you! I've been watching you for just about 9 months and to be able to be here while you have gone through this journey. Again I am proud of you and love you girl!!!!!!!!!

[@eveashbrook9151]

I am proud to be a little bun!

[@AngelinaKlair]

Congrats! So happy for you!!

[@kawaiicat6478]

ANGELA I LOVE YOU OMG, I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU WATCH STEF IM SCREAMING

[@StefSanjatiOfficial]

HI BABE thank you!

[@AnyaIsMistaken]

Congrats Stef!

[@smolsquirrel]

If you are nervous about bra shopping, a way to find out your size is to take measuring tape, and measure around your rip cage and along your back... the inches would be your band size. To find out your cup size, measuring tape around your chest and back *MINUS* the measurement of your rip cage. Do the same measurement on your chest leaning forward, and minus the rib cage measurement. The average between the two will be your cup size 1 inch difference is A, 2 inch difference is B, 3 inch difference is C... and so forth. Example: my rib cage is 28. Measurements around my chest are 32, but leaning forward, the measurement around my chest is 33. Average is 32.5, then! So 32.5- 28 = 4.5. 4 inches means D, half an inch means DD. Therefore - I am 28DD. Hopefully this information helps, or eventually helps C:

[@meowmew444]

I'm so excited and happy for you! I've watched you for years so it's amazing to see you grow into who you really are as a person. Also, your surgery is happening on my birthday! That day is going to be amazing for sure 😊💕

[@AmaraAmbrosia]

dec 16 is my bday toooooo! :D

[@Ahsan-RN]

and I am here tryna get rid of estrogen 😛

[@torifletcher474]

And then you got the gender fluid over here like WHAT IS HAPPENING WHAT AM I SOMEONE SEND HELP

[@thing7269]

loll same

[@jacerlab]

Same 😂

[@dashah9]

give me yours dude literally 😭😭 I'll love you my testosterone

[@finnsuglycorner2099]

Sameeee

[@leoniesauter2248]

I don't understand how anyone could misgender you. You just DON'T look like a Sir ^^ If I saw you shopping for earrings why would I think you were male? Why? 😂😳

[@leoniesauter2248]

I just got to the point of the video where you talk about your FFS. I'm so happy for you!!! You go girl! 🎉🎉🎉

[@leoniesauter2248]

***** You misspelled she ;)

[@quandmeme7200]

no more than a natural-born Cartesian myself, while children don't want to grow up and like to stay stuck in their fairytale, period.

[@kittiblu7343]

tbf, some males do shop for earrings. Stef isn't male, obvi. But, a lot of Transgender and cisgendered ppl shop for earrings.

[@leoniesauter2248]

***** I absulutely agree, I don't think it was on purpose, either. And I think transgender people should tell others when they're misgendering them, that's the only way we can learn from our mistakes.

[@courtneylee2187]

baby girl... all girls hate their arms if they aren't stick thin.... your not alone. I haaaaaate mine lol. tis life.

[@matuballon]

true

[@KC-pp8xd]

I hate my arms because they're stick thin xD

[@courtneylee2187]

+Kai Senpai we can't win lmao

[@jessicapayne6552]

OOOKAAYY!! That's what I was sayin' I friggin hate my arms from the side LOL

[@uglydawgy]

My arms are stick thin and it makes my torso look fat so idk

[@nixiberry]

When you said 'I really want fifty pounds of underwear' I was like 'yeah Victoria's Secret is really expensive' but then I remembered you're not English so you meant 50lbs not £50. Still tru tho..

[@mariekt313]

😂!

[@fionapeddie9825]

Ikr!!!

[@21MaMaBeAr22]

Being from England I too thought she ment £50 not 50lb lol

[@charlee2149]

+RainbowKittyy 95 I'm from England and thought that too lol

[@paintedbunting83]

people like you make me want to give up less. its so hard but thank you

[@brendanbush2174]

How does she get misgendered? She looks very feminine

[@brendanbush2174]

Go for that surgery! You can do it!

[@GeorgiosD90]

Well, you cannot tell just by looking at her face in a video.

[@azhrayharris8]

The woman was probably going off of body shape more than makeup and hair. Nine months is a long time, but it won't get rid of the "v" guys have.

[@cdickenson64]

From the pictures on this channel, she has always looked feminine.

[@greyescale]

I smiled so big when you announced your surgery!!!! I'm so happy for you!!! It might be weird but over the course of the year I've been watching you you've become like my KZbin big sister and hearing all this good news makes me so happy for you. I love you Stef!!!

[@greyescale]

& you're getting it the day after my birthday!!!! That makes me so happy!!!!

[@roorooroo368]

Smiled all the way through this video. Your excitement for the surgery is getting me so so excited!!

[@catherinetrewhella5133]

I feel like misgendering someone when you work in retail is this double edged sword. On the one hand, you don't want to misgender someone who's trans, and on the other you don't want to imply that beauty standards or the product your selling is confined to one binary gender. If they're doing it with cruel intent, that's a whole other story. And I'm not trying to invalidate the hurt being misgendered can cause someone. It's just a tricky topic, when you're paid / demanded to be as customer pleasing as you humanly can.

[@catherinetrewhella5133]

*Regardless, I hope you get the comfort from the procedures that you're looking for. It's been so wonderful to see you become more and more comfortable / happy as these videos progress.

[@scales251]

Valid point.

[@madiis18account]

you could just like, not used gendered language at all

[@jenaya632]

in some places you're trained to use words like sir and ma'am though, and you can get in trouble if you don't use them. ridiculous, i know, but it does happen.

[@SamiHottChick123]

If you're not sure then don't use gendered language. Even if you're "trained" to use certain words, no employer will be upset with you for not offending a customer.

[@TheBowTieCat]

why don't people just avoid gendered terms in customer service period.

[@gollyanger9193]

it's a formal thing. but otherwise i do agree.

[@righteous.butcher]

when I worked in retail, if I had any doubt whatsoever I wouldn't use gendered terms. its simple but people do it anyway????

[@oathboundsecrets]

Hey, don't be ashamed of having NORMAL arms!!!!! The idea that your arms should be perfectly toned like some kind of robot, and not soft and wobbly like a human being.... It's a fucking lie! Don't buy into it!!!!

[@StefSanjatiOfficial]

I would love for my arms to be either soft or wobbly - they're muscular. :p I appreciate it though, the same thing applies 💕

[@ravenna9969]

madonna is a muscular woman too

[@GeorgiosD90]

You mean toned like sexy not like some kind of robot. Although I agree, for example muscular toned arms are the most attractive because they are the healthiest kind of arms.

[@angiet7380]

Someone's jealous

[@ashleylong4737]

Scho0rschi Q&A.

[@EvalineBelle]

i am SO happy for you! Boston is only an hour away from me, do you think you'd have time for a quick meetup?!

[@StefSanjatiOfficial]

I hope so! I would like to, but we'll see~

[@emmaversace4329]

+Kylie Summers im not an expert dont take my word i might be wrong but i dont think you need hrt for ffs, hrt might help but i dont think its mandatory.

[@JulieUlie]

HRT Changes the fat redistribution of your face, this means it will look more rounded and cute. Whether you have HRT or not, you can have these surgeries done. HRT Doesn't affect bones. (Probably wanna wait for HRT though before you make decisions like surgery)

[@emmaversace4329]

+Kylie Summers Once again not 100% sure but this is at least how i'm getting estrogen. My family wants me to see a therapist before i transition, therapy isnt completely guaranteed but it'll probably factor in at some point of transition. The therapist will make sure you're actually transgender, then recommend you to a doctor that can prescribe you hormones (forgot the name, endocrinologist?) they will ask you more questions, physically examine you, then prescribe you hormones (you usually start with a small dose, and you might be able to choose between taking your hormones in pills, injections, or a patch) my first therapy session is actually sept 15th so your path might be different but i hope this was at least some help lmao.

[@pleaseunsubscribe9656]

+Kylie Summers good luck

[@joywalsh6150]

Ah good for you hun well done on getting the surgery booked, sounds soooo painful though! Yikes!!!

[@joywalsh6150]

Wow just looked at the Drs transformations, I'm gobsmacked at his work!! Amazing!!! 😊

[@KarliAnderson05]

I'm so beyond excited for you!! As someone who is struggling through my own battles (chronic 24/7 pain, likely for rest of life), I've enjoyed watching your videos and keeping up with your progress. It helps to bring me out of my world. It's awesome to see such happiness!

[@starrats444]

YESSSSSS MOMMMMMMM

[@kaidens7349]

YYYYAAAAAASSSSSSAQUEEEEEEEENNNN

[@atlas5335]

Yessss!!!

[@rushfan2112_]

Try Aerie for bras! They have so many different styles and they are a lot more inclusive

[@JRenee141]

I just wish aerie carried my actual size though :(

[@dreamsicle3113]

what gets me is that I'm sure the hot topic employee was looking crusty and Stef was looking like class.

[@eleazaleaza]

you seem so much happier. I'm happy for you 💕

[@delaneym.7412]

I don't even know how anyone could misgender you unless they knew exactly who you are or didn't realize you were a girl if you were wearing masc clothes and they saw you from behind and you had a masc haircut. So ridiculous that people are like this. I love you so much and I'm so excited that you're getting your FFS, keep it going!

[@delaneym.7412]

BTDubs, it's totally okay to be a muscular girl! As a Pre-T trans man I genuinely understand the dysphoria that can come from having arms that don't match the rest of you, but there are so many strong women out there like Kacey Katanzarro (I hope I spelled her name at least half right) who are American ninja warriors. I know this won't alleviate dysphoria but I just wanted you to know that your arms are great no matter what, as silly as that sounds. I don't remember exactly how I got my arms "feminine," I guess mostly just through kind of cruddy genetics, but if I find any ways I'll absolutely tweet them to you because I want you to be as comfortable in your body as you possibly can be. So so so much love

[@lauralboney4504]

I haven't seen you since your 4 months on estrogen update.... I've always thought you were beautiful and amazing long before you started the stuff. But I can't believe the changes you've made. I'm so proud of you. I'm so immensely happy for you to get the things you've always wanted done. It's been really awesome and a privilege to follow you and watch you become who you've always been..... I really hope you let us take this journey with you leading up to the surgery and postop the healing I want to see it all be there for it all. Wishing you the best. Xoxo

[@lorigirl65]

What??? You DO NOT look like a SIR! DUH!!

[@meganelizabethgarwood3990]

That's what I thought. If I had not watched her videos and saw her in a shop I would have no idea she was trans.

[@BaconBabe87]

The girl was probably jealous of how fabulous stef looks ;)

[@deadcarnivora8648]

she probably made an honest mistake knowing Stef was a girl but accidently saying sir I've accidently said sir once or twice I wouldn't assume the girl was trying to diss Stef

[@GreenTea_98]

I'm a cis female and i struggle with my arms too. my shoulders are pretty broad and my arms are huge to me. maybe you just have naturally broad shoulders which also affects your arms. i am more accepting of myself now though. i hope once you've finished transitioning you'll be able to love yourself even more too 😊

[@GreenTea_98]

also congratulations on raising the money for your ffs! i hope it goes amazingly 💜

[@fruitbat1600]

dude i'm relatively thin but i put my arms on my side and i feel like my upper arms look like a wad of dough was slapped against a flat surface and flattened. it sux

[@kimberly_erin]

Me too my arms are terrible. It's genetic :/

[@fruitbat1600]

Kim Urciuolo is it actually genetic? just curious, where did you hear that or are you speaking from experience with your own family...? i hate it so much, i swear it gets worse if i gain a measly 5 pounds >:[

[@KawaiioHimeSama]

Holy you look stunning :O

[@carmenc4926]

So excited for you! I just moved out of Boston. I wish I could have offered you a place to stay while you recover.

[@poohbear539100]

WOW IM SOO SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!!!!

[@poohbear539100]

AND YOUR FFS DATE IS 2 DAYS AFTER MY BDAY WOW

[@sarahmastine5147]

Its two days after mine!

[@poohbear539100]

the 14th???!?!?!?

[@sarahmastine5147]

Yes

[@ab3978]

OK your camera is hella out of focus and I can't see how cute you look if it's blurry. Ps. If I knew you as a friend like in real life, I'd go bra shopping with you. Don't be scared to go in! Everyone gets scared going in to a bra store (like young girls who are getting their first bras always do!) once you're in, you go back with more confidence! Love you~

[@nekkobat6876]

That's a problem with your own device then, because the video is crispy clear for me. Don't blame her when it was probably your wireless connection

[@Hellreader]

Nah, me too, it blurs a bit at a point in the video

[@filoral]

i thought i was the only one who noticed

[@sarahlouise6776]

Nope, definitely out of focus.

[@otakub3atz2397]

I'm so excited and worried for you. I hope the procedure goes well!!! Good Luck!

[@kittysunflower4811]

is it messed up that when im at work, and I can't figure out what some people's pronoun are, I'll just not say anything like sir or ma'am at all?

[@StefSanjatiOfficial]

No that's actually a good practice.

[@kittysunflower4811]

+Stef Sanjati ooo I'm so happy you replied. I love you girly. and I loved going through your experience together.

[@QuadiePoo]

Good luck with that. As a human you make connections and try to communicate efficiently and sincerely. You usually do say things like he, she, him, her, sir, ma'am, etc. If you misgender then apologize but dont use pronounce like it or things as such. But I mean Stef, even if I didn't know of her, I'd still call her ma'am or she. She doesn't even look like a man.

[@kittysunflower4811]

+Quade Carter it is hard to take words like that out of your vocabulary. but if I saw stef I would proudly say ma'am. but some people look very androgynous, so I don't know what to say. I don't want to rude obviously. especially with customers.

[@KimmyElHornoBimbo]

Yea it's much easier to avoid it if you can to save embarrassment and offending someone.

[@Hannisnannis]

so happy for you!!! ❤❤❤

[@Hannisnannis]

ily

[@kiwiholmes3587]

My birthday is Dec 17! I'm so excited for you. Transformation is such a beautiful thing you're like a butterfly. Or a gem taking the perfect physical form suited for you (Steven Universe reference). I just can't express how pumped I am for you Steph.

[@maurosanchez1987ify]

Could of just said may I help you .

[@SPbakerbrange]

I know right

[@wowazowgirl]

yup. people are so weird and rude.

[@PucchoPanda]

I work in retail and I make a point to not end questions in 'sir' or 'ma'am' because I'm terrified of mis-gendering someone and hurting their feelings...works for me XD

[@diannplautz1321]

I'm soon super excited for you. I'll be watching and praying for you. for a swift recovery, and that you have as little pain as possible. I love you for your courage and strength. never lose that!

[@petalynch2312]

honestly how could someone misgender you if they didn't know you? when I first found your videos ages ago I didn't realise you were trans until I saw you had videos about being trans. love ya!

[@rainbowshankii]

by them asduming she was a he. Not hard?

[@petalynch2312]

+Clyde okay, but why would anyone assume she is a he? she looks far more feminine than masculine.

[@nekkobat6876]

+Peta Lynch Yeah and if you aren't sure if they're male or female, why not just leave out pronouns and say "Hello, can I help you?"

[@rainbowshankii]

Peta Lynch thats the whole discourse, They assumed stef wasn't

[@kcdarla]

I hope you corrected that rude person in Hot Topic. Wear your health earrings for a speedy recovery after the surgery.

[@danahayes07]

AIIEEEE!!! Stupid excited for you! Yes, PLEASE leave the crowd funding open, I want to help! I was wondering how you were doing this month and I am so happy to see your excitement (although less excited knowing that surgery is gonna be a major PAIN). I hope you get a little chance to explore Boston too- great city and super fun. PS- as usual, thanks for that little rapid-fire pep talk at the end! Sometimes it's just really nice to hear that. Back at you, your rock star goddess!

[@shaniamcadoo7048]

I might dye my hair green and white because of this

[@nekkobat6876]

Green is hard to pull off but I really want to do green too 😂

[@AngelXDTaty2]

I had my hair "Harley Quinn Style" for a month more or less, and then it turned green. It's not THAAAAAT hard to pull off. If you use purple you absolutelly pull it off. That's what I did and worked perfectly. So now you can use green without fear^^

[@AngelXDTaty2]

The blue part turned green, I mean.

[@roguesirena]

her white blaze is natural. you won't get whiter than silvery-white out of a bottle.

[@roguesirena]

her white blaze is natural. you won't get whiter than silvery-white out of a bottle.

[@TwinklingDK]

Can someone link me to her merch? It looks amazing!

[@StefSanjatiOfficial]

The merch is presently discontinued! I really need to make a new outro banner so people aren't disappointed D: As soon as I have new merch, you will know about it!

[@TwinklingDK]

You actually responded.. Fangirling quite hard, omg xD And I'm looking forward to it! I have a hard time finding merch I would actually wear, so I got sooo excited! ^.^

[@anthozoaz]

+Stef Sanjati I can't wait for it to be back! 💜

[@Wowzawhy]

Omg you are so cute! No surgery would make you look bad only more cute!

[@iggystardustt6943]

I am so, so happy for you! I love seeing your updates and I love knowing that things are going relatively smoothly with your transition! You're beautiful and ily!

[@kuhriynuh]

you should have just called her sir/used male pronouns back. that would have been super funny!

[@CharlieFox2015]

that's exactly what I was thinking :D

[@annakirwan783]

You shouldn't purposely misgender ANYONE.

[@CharlieFox2015]

Anna Kirwan there is a difference in calling someone who is mtf "sir" and calling the offender "sir". The effects are absolutely different.

[@ursie1986]

But that would be deliberately malicious. I think a shop girl in Hot Topic is probably on a path to openmindedness herself (the "alt" lifestyles) and simply made a wrong guess, in place of her other option which would've been "excuse me - are you a man or a woman? - can I help you?"

[@CharlieFox2015]

+cx1735 are you really not understanding what the point of the reply would be? to show the girl, who is clearly not open-minded when it comes to being trans, that Stef is definitely not a "sir". it's sarcasm. it works this way. As for the "I'm sorry, are you a woman or a man?" - Jesus Christ, NO, please, never ask this anyone. I don't know you, but chances are you don't have first-hand experience in being asked this. I do. Please, just don't. You can ask if a person needs help without knowing their gender. If they are comfortable, they will tell you themselves.

[@mechantechatonne]

That person may have misgendered you because they were trying not to make assumptions. There are some men that choose to present themselves in an androgynous way, and she might have assumed you would have been offended if she used female pronouns. I know men that wear makeup and hairstyles and clothing associated with women but go by male names and pronouns and do not identify as trans. It's impossible to guess by looking at a person if they are trans or simply gender non-conforming. Maybe you were a dude who just liked makeup and would have been like "I'm obviously a man. Quit playing just because I'm in lipstick." She couldn't have possibly known without knowing you.

[@imafreakingmuffin]

I see your point. The worker could have had good intentions.

[@monicamazurkiewicz2707]

Great comment.

[@chevvy427]

That does make sense though

[@sarahperterson2412]

Maybe

[@limealemur]

mechantechatonne if they were trying not to make assumptions they shouldn't have said any gender centered words. It would have been easy to say 'can I help you?' end. Done. Not hard.

[@ravenofroses]

oh, that's wonderful. i just found your channel, but i love it when folks can take steps to be more comfortable in their skin. here's hoping everything goes smoothly and that recovery is quick and painless as possible. much love.

[@ravenofroses]

ah, saw your "dear cis people vid," and i just wanted to clarify the whole "more comfortable in your skin" comment. cos you are you, but i know that cosmetic-type surgeries can help folks, well, feel more comfortable. and i'm happy that you've been able to schedule this surgery. (i'm not cis myself, but i try to be mindful of my language and try to make sure i articulate my thoughts clearly.) again, much love.

[@JupiterJulia]

I don't think she looks like a man at all tbh

[@brit8737]

For real though. She looks pretty feminine to me. Idk how someone would misgender her.

[@torrisimon4315]

seriously tho.... I keep forgetting she is in transition .... there are times where I'm listening to her and I'm like WHY IN THE FUCK DO YOU NEED THIS? lol but I'm so happy that she's happy. I can't wait to see the results and see how happy she is with them!!!! I'm so excited for her!!!

[@kitten_purrrs73]

+friendly egg me either .. i think the person was just being an *** ..

[@xjustmekaileyx14]

i know him and he was always weird...

[@GeorgiosD90]

Because you can really tell just by looking at her face in a video. LOL

[@50sRockChick]

Congratulations on your surgery date. As for the woman in shop how bloody rude. You look female and why would she even say that. :(

[@wowazowgirl]

i thought the same thing. she is 100% female, no doubt.

[@emilyhancock3456]

And even if she didn't necessarily pass, the woman still shouldn't have assumed

[@leviadams6587]

because people are mostly out with good intentions and make mistakes. now days we have plenty of males walking around in full faced make up because society has opened up a lot and most people are thankful for that. she called her sir because she made a mistake. it was an accident

[@leviadams6587]

I'm sure Stef nicely corrected her and the girl understood and most likely said sorry.

[@emilyhancock3456]

Levi Adams I'm sure you're right and that the girl didn't mean to be rude and probably had good intentions, I just think it's best to always just avoid using gendered pronouns until you're absolutely sure

[@lesisalwaysmore]

I am so happy for you! I have watched you before you started your transition. I have always loved your personality. also we have from what I learned similar interests, and are both from the same area from what I have learnt. I hope everything goes smoothly and with the doctor you have found there is no doubt in that! your fan base will be with you 100% and we all can wait to see the results!

[@benski98]

"Can I help you sir?" The amount of times I've said that at work to people who are women because I'm dreaming of being at home is insane, she probably just waned to go home, but if she never apologised after, then that's not nice.

[@darky8904]

This is the first video I watch of you and I subscribed right away!

[@stephaniewhite7620]

I did the same thing the first time I saw 1 of her videos! XD

[@kittolszewski-peacock9261]

same here

[@AnniesNight]

I'm so excited and happy for you! I love how honest and clear you are with your fans! Can't wait for the surgery video, we're all excited for you!

[@missFindlesticks]

Your voice is lighter too

[@nikkismall1589]

She trains her voice. Estrogen doesn't change your voice.

[@nikkismall1589]

Yes, but it takes voice training and readjusting your voice to the softness, pitch, tone, etc that you desire. It takes a lot of time, like she says in her Vocal Training video. Either way, i just meant that purely estrogen alone wouldn't change her voice as drastically as it has been trained to be. Ya know?

[@nikkismall1589]

yeah, yeah definitely!

[@literallyaaliyah]

Good luck bby girl!!!!

[@bunnychick725]

I'm very happy for you. Best wishes on the surgery and recovery. Thanks for sharing and being so candid, I'm sure this is much needed for those who are going through a similar struggle.

[@BS-eq9eg]

She's funny and reminds me of bunny / graveyardgirl

[@crazyfrogenthusiast]

Is it just me or was this kinda blurry

[@lilyalejandro1350]

watching you develop from the start of estrogen and though out is really great and watching you change and grow is so very lovely

[@seppukuchuan5608]

I'm glad ukeeping ur nose cause it's so cute 💞

[@beatlebabe1969]

I'm a cis girl with a decently large cleft chin, more cleft and pronounced than stefs, does that mean I'm masculine? ( this isn't like a comment with attitude I just never thought about it being a "masculine" thing on women like stef mentioned ) I have the face shape she has now. God now I'm self conscious omg no

[@jaimebenway6064]

Girl nooooo. It's not a masculine feature at all! She said in the video that it's more for HER dysphoria, which is more of an internalized type self-conscious thing. You're fine sweetie. Stef is fucking gorgeous as she is right now, and if you've got her face shape, you must be too. You've got nothing to worry about :)

[@elizabethnicole2785]

No boo! Femininity and masculinity have a spectrum - it's completely natural to be female with 'more pronounced' features! For Stef, I beleive she wants to reduce dysphoria surrounding the features she has personally identified as masculine; for you, a cleft chin may not represent masculinity. It's all personal preference. All I'm trying to say is, don't worry! Having a stronger jaw line is just that - simply having a stronger jaw line, no gendering necessary. I hope this made you feel better!

[@beatlebabe1969]

+Jaime Benway +Elizabeth Nicole thank you guys! I have the worst self image, gotta love bullying shaping your self worth in your head forever! ❤️

[@wowazowgirl]

I'm sure you're beautiful

[@beatlebabe1969]

+ominotago min thank you so much ❤️

[@sourkiddo2470]

Oh my god I am so so happy for you

[@7ab3tha]

I've been called sir, I'm not trans. It happens. I wouldn't let it bother you too much.

[@7ab3tha]

Also, this may be a stupid question our considered rude for some reason please don't take it as such. But, listening to you talk about why you want ffs why isn't that considered bdd? or is it?

[@charlottelake966]

You also don't suffer from gender dysphoria. So...

[@7ab3tha]

+The Transgender Personal Trainer thank you for the positively displayed helpful information.

[@mariekt313]

when you constantly get misgendered and are already feeling dysphoric AND you have to be worried about weirdo ignorant people literally willing to go out of their way to make your life bad (even up to murder), it gets to you and you as a cis person honestly have no right to tell us trans people "to not let it bother us, cuz it happened to you once."

[@kittysunflower4811]

+mariekt they aren't trying to be malicious. sometimes people accidently say the wrong gender and it has nothing to do with how you look. obviously its going to bother trans people. I mean sometimes it even bothers me and I'm cis gender. we aren't trying to say that just because a person misgenders you, doesn't mean they were trying to be rude.

[@laurel_bee]

I feel bad about the hot topic thing... at mine they're very accepting, they have 2 beautiful Trans women working there and many of them wear pride pins and stuff.

[@sotahuuto]

So happy that you can get your operation done and so soon! :) You look beautiful but you're going to look even more so after your operation, no doubt! Looking forward to your process and hopefully you'll recover quickly

[@megdoyle47]

Does anyone else only get bread adds when they come on these videos? Lmao

[@eddyandgoliath6469]

lol

[@starrats444]

YES MOM

[@whatzittooya3873]

I'm so happy that you got the surgery booked! It has been wonderful to see you light up every time you tell us about your journey closer to what you've dreamed of. You are such a beautiful person.

[@moniquegonzales9321]

Does estrogen treatment affect the penis and function if it's still there?

[@dashah9]

and it makes it smaller a lot of the time which makes it so much easier to tuck tbh

[@kamisama2169]

you also don't have to worry about random boners as well

[@alyogagames]

Do we need to send you bras baby gorl?!?!

[@eddyandgoliath6469]

she's not a gorl, she's a girl. not a mix between a boy and a girl, a girl. always has been and always will be.

[@alyogagames]

Kennedy Welker Hey just fyi its a playful, slang term for girl just exaggeration. Pro tip gorl also means gurl girl guuuurl giiiiirl. How about not coming for me when you clearly dont understand this aspect of the slang word? I adore Stef and I'm sure she isnt taking it the same way you are lol.

[@nejdalej]

If Alycia wanted to suggest the mix between boy and girl, she would have said "birl" or "goy". In the words of Ethan Klein: "Being outraged isn't a hobby." Chill out gorl.

[@lucianotapia840]

+Alycia R roasted them.

[@werewolfbitevictim]

I'm so excited for you to have the procedures done! I cannot wait to see you the way you wish to be seen as you already are gorgeous now! My Birthday is the 15th of December and I feel this is the Best birthday present ever to have you more comfortable in your own skin. I cannot wait! :)

[@LMoon20]

Get yourself to the lingerie store girl! If they are doing their job properly they would love to help you. Go, enjoy and buy a million bras in every colour.

[@VampyreBarbie]

Seriously?!? Ok, You do NOT look like a "sir" and, a simple "Can I help you?" would've sufficed.

[@Thegupy1]

This is so exciting! I have a friend working on his transition too and it makes me happy to see people becoming who they want to be and who they are on the inside as well as the outside (he hates social media but he watches videos on KZbin and he mentioned how you were very inspiring to him and since he doesn't have a Gmail he won't say it for himself lol) so just congrats and I'm so excited to see the future you and what you will achieve in 9 more months! so keep going and all my good vibes to you!

[@lllMellll]

😊Hi, Stef. I love your videos. You're so beautiful. I want your eyes. The white in your hair was always there? I love it. You look like a Nature Fairy with them. I wish I was beautiful too. You won't notice this and reply.😂

[@CharlieFox2015]

982743 Gigi is a public person. The problem is that she is recognizable as someone who is trans because she expresses herself as one on a huge platform. They probably did a background check on her and figured it out, it had nothing to with the way she looks (and she looks stunning). Again, it's not their problem that people can be assholes. Neither Gigi, nor Stef look like a man. If you think they do, well then it's your problem. I just wonder, if you met Gigi or Stef and you had to talk to them, would you call them "sir"?

[@982743]

Charlie Fox if stef looked a woman, the sales person would never called her sir. don't you agree?

[@CharlieFox2015]

982743 I don't. I have explained this in details in one of my previous comments. You didn't answer my question: would you call Gigi or Stef a sir?

[@982743]

Charlie Fox i would not call them sir because, even having a male bone structure, they prefer to be called ma'm, i suppose

[@stephychado]

Girl you live in Toronto, be my friend and I'll go bra shopping with you!

[@stephychado]

Omg I'm crying rn. I'm so happy for you!

[@SaranghaeBiigBang]

So happy for you. Love you! Sending lots of love! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@cheyennehenry1]

I can't get over how beautiful she is.

[@jesserivera9704]

Hi Stef, first let me congratulate you on the 9 mo.s and the changes made, you're looking fantastic in my opinion. I am compelled to comment on your being "misgendered" at the Hot-Topic and proffer the viewpoint that you may actually be humbly selling yourself short! Let me explain. You have a quite successful channel, with many hundreds of thousands of views, PLUS, you're in town here, and to a place with almost zero naturally occurring culture like Toronto, you're probably followed a lot more by local people who want to touch fame and observe the scene. So since you were all done up and misgendering would be almost IMPOSSIBLE, it is more likely that the bitch at HT *knew* who you were and had a highschool moment where she had to take you down a peg because she was threatened by your femininity. Hot-Topic is really a "Hot-bed" of catty, jealous, drama prone fascists, as anyone who has shopped there knows. They do have bomb jewellery though...sigh Keep up the good works and thank you!

[@Ylluria]

Gurl, I would so go with you to shop for lacies. I took a friend to her first bathingsuit shopping excursion and we had SO much fun! She never got shite for going into her appropriate changing room, and if she had, I'd have been ALLLL over anyone that gave her even the stink eye like white on rice. I hope you have someone to stand- and shop with you, and that you have SCADS of fun when you finally go. Blessings on your journey, and be safe, mama! ♥♥

[@kristyliu7937]

wtf im sorry that a hot topic employee misgendered u ... i work there n that shouldn't happen :((

[@nejdalej]

Why use the term sir or madam in 2016?? You'll misgender so many people haha x

[@kenziered1008]

True

[@GeorgiosD90]

Because sir and madam cover all of the 2 genders and if someone cannot tell what you really are then we have the words sorry and it is ok, never mind or maybe you are doing something wrong with your look.

[@kenziered1008]

Scho0rschi There are more than two genders proven scientifically

[@GeorgiosD90]

Sorry biology supports only 2 genders....I have a biology degree. Show proof that there is evidence of more than 2 genders or shut the fuck up. You are delusional, sorry.

[@kenziered1008]

Gender dysphoria. It could cause mental issuses other than dysphoria like depression or anxiety. People change to the gender they feel and it will change the feelings of sadness or lessen them. I know. That being transgender is a real thing though. Now shut the fuck up and stop being a rude ass bitch

[@lucymackie9261]

I just watched one of your old videos and I'm so proud of how far you've come, you are a beautiful confident woman and I'm so glad you are on KZbin. You are a amazing role model, thank you

[@CarrionNorth]

Okay, I literally just stumbled upon your channel but hearing you talk about those surgeries got me so worried lol. Usually surgical interventions on the bones hurt A LOT during the recovery process, just... A LOT. I think you're really brave for going through with this and I hope everything turns out just as you imagined it!

[@obsessedwithapps18]

I just wanted to say that even though I identify as a straight, cisgender female, but I think that you are unbelievably inspirational and I LOVE watching your videos because you are super confident and beautiful and you are such a great example of how important it is to love yourself and be who you want to be. Thank you for putting out such amazing videos and I love you lots!!!

[@erin9868]

I have a short, small nose and I want to get a lip lift to shorten my philtrum, too. It's not a very common surgery, so I'm really excited to see your results and hear about your experience.

[@miriambutcher2544]

I'm so happy that you're finally able to live with the face that you want! You're going to be having your procedures on the same day that I will be taking my violin exam. We must be brave!

[@ChaosKastife]

Just subscribed! My girlfriend wants to go through her transformation in the near future, and I have been helping her research what is going to be involved. I look forward to seeing you after the procedure! Good luck!!

[@cattymingdu4151]

Gonna be hard waiting until December to see the results but I'll be patient! so excited for you Congratulations Steph!!!!

[@kaydenlyric6605]

I am so happy for you! YOU are a beautiful soul congrats and the best of wishes for your surgery!💞💘 confidence is coming

[@HollyKarnes]

congrats girl!!!! I'm so excited to be along on this journey with you. we love you and support you thru this process!!!

[@imogenchudykbarr7992]

Bra shop online, girl! There are tips and tricks to measuring your band and cup size pretty accurately, which are extra easy to do if you have a friend to help. There are bra size calculators on the interwebs, too, so that helps a lot!! This is what I do, too, since I tend to get SUPER demoralized while bra shopping, despite being afab, because my body is not catered to in the general market so eeeehhhhh being in the store can be a little overwhelming.

[@finne0n]

I'm indescribably happy for you!! I'm so glad that you can be happier and more secure about yourself. You deserve all the love in the world. 💞

[@MI-gu8lq]

Stef I'm so proud and happy for you! Literally teared up when you announced you'll be getting your SRS before the year is done! I've watched you come so far through your videos and I hope life keeps treating you kindly - you deserve it :) Much love!

[@Luna-ef8jz]

This video made me so happy. I don't know why, but it just made me so happy to watch you get so excited about your progress and it's wonderful and you're wonderful and I hope all your dreams come true

[@D.G.00000]

I'm so excited for you!!! I hope you have a great recovery, babes

[@Michelle70791]

I think Victoria's Secret is overwhelming for any girl. If you're feeling nervous, you should check out one of those small mom and pop type undergarment shops. Like the kind where the lady comes into the room with you and handles your stuff. I know this sounds waaaaay more invasive, but girl those boob ladies have seen EVERYTHING! As a woman who also struggles with her appearance and is incredibly intimidated by Victoria's Secret, I find the boob ladies really comforting and reassuring. They don't judge and just want to help you feel comfortable in your own skin. Btw, recently found your channel and love you!! You're helping me cope with some of my own issues.

[@katrinacompagna7579]

Although I personally am not a huge fan of cosmetic surgery I am glad to hear you are picking a specialist in Boston! I'm from the area and I know for a fact we have great doctors here. And as you said, you do you, it's your choice on how you want to proceed because it is your body your rules, you are doing this for you and nobody else. So I think you are in good hands stef. :) I wish you the best as you continue forward and also wishing for a safe recovery after the surgery in december!!!

[@redsquirrel6131]

I just busted into tears when you said you were getting ffs!!! Be safe! And be happy love. I'm so excited for you, love!!