9 Signs of Powerful Sexual Connection 101

[@dharshansenthilkumar9492]

Bro reminds me that I am single, in every single video and in every possible language😭

[@Psych2go]

😅

[@dharshansenthilkumar9492]

@the good rules me too bro.

[@karlvinadams-jenkinson5164]

So true and very accurate feelings 😅😢😂

[@dharshansenthilkumar9492]

@the good rules love you bro.🥹❤️❤️ Btw, are you from India?

[@dharshansenthilkumar9492]

@the good rules oh ok bro. Have a nice day🤗

[@psych2gomandarin]

0:00 intro 1:06 1. Attraction 1:47 2. Awkwardness 2:19 3. Immediate connection 2:43 4. Similarities 3:20 5. Speedy heart and sweaty palms 4:08 6. Touch that excites both of you 4:46 7. You enjoy one another's company 5:20 8. Your conversations are very flirty 5:49 9. You continue thinking about them after you've separated 6:22 conclusion 6:49 outro

[@Labycant-ut4sb]

You're mom

[@苏苏酱-s5j]

@@Labycant-ut4sb what's mean？😂

[@lovekira793]

@@苏苏酱-s5j mighty omnipotent mortal.

[@sketchygetchey8299]

I mean if singing Hellfire counts as #9…😅

[@ellie4799]

i met someone and all the signs are clearly between us! they asked me out on a date and i am so so happy!!

[@Lightning_Flame]

Every time I listen to you, you always boost my imagination because I end up imagining there's someone who feels the same for me.

[@PhilosophiceRetardari]

Ah yes, my usual dose of listening to Psych2go explain something that hasn't ever happened to me and probably will never.

[@gamer22ftw]

Probably? nah, its a guarantee.

[@ashesfer409]

Ikr..😢

[@SiskoSvK]

Not with this mindset.

[@kaylewolf]

Naw don't think that, I'm autistic and slowly adulting And guess what, I used to say I'll never like Kissing and in december that has just passed, I got to explore my first kiss ever. Didn't feel much during but days later, I started to love and miss it. Now I crave it. However I gotta find someone who doesn't wanna just use me and loves me no matter what and is there for me I wish you all the best and when you are ready, you'll experience all this yourself. Everyone used to tell me something similar, so I hope you have a lovely day and if you wanna explore it, in time you will, or if you don't, don't fret, give yourself praise and keep being you ❤

[@Psych2go]

How about when it does? Are you prepared? :D

[@breadpocket9956]

The awkwardness hits hard . And then the overthrowing happens . I'm trying my hardest to just be friends first because going into relationships quick has been bad for me. I'm learning and growing

[@AustinOzGraham]

Solidarity, friend. Best to take our time with those decisions.

[@Wolfietjuh]

I'd just like to say that as a person with ASD, these things can be a real nightmare in terms of others interpreting it that way. -Generally being awkward and uncomfortable which the other may perceive as sexual tension. -Often unable to realize how others will interpret what you're saying (for instance, I love humour. I love dark jokes, dirty jokes. I tend to just blurt these out. Whenever it happens to be a dirty joke, people tend to interpret it as "flirting", whereas to me there is a strict line between "I make a joke about a general dirty topic" vs "I make a dirty joke specifically in relation to you" (flirting) ). -Often oblivious to cues that others are dropping: Someone else might truly be trying to flirt with me, and I'd fully interpret it as "oh yay! A new friend who has the same interests as me!" It's unfortunate as these things can be very hurtful on both sides. I hate feeling like i made a friend, only to learn the person wants to date me and then drops me when I decline. And on the other hand, I can imagine it must hurt terribly when you think you really have this connection with someone, you finally pick up the courage to ask them out... And then you learn their oblivious autistic butt wasn't about that in the first place. Just meaning to say: Even if these signs can be meaningful, please always be careful when interpreting the person in front of you. These signals are most definitely not applicable to everyone, even if they are to a lot of people. In doing so, you and the other person may well get hurt.

[@Psych2go]

Thank you for your feedback. If you were to change the parts of the video for people with ASD, what would be some of the things you add or change in the video?

[@jynx8875]

Im also autistic. Thats excacly what i thought. These signs are something i can easily misinterpret or others misinterpret it in me. Its such a struggle, because im always awkward, no matter with who

[@sophiedarnell467]

I'm not autistic, but sometimes I wonder if I do have a little bit of it, especially more within the past 2 years then when I first was wondering, also the stories I hear from others who do have Autism, sound so similar that it's hard to believe that I wouldn't have just a small percent of it. I'm really not kidding when I say, your comment has described me to a T. These symptoms really collided with myself, and my psyche, which made senior year extremely difficult - academically, socially, and on top of it all, in the dating world, basically dating world is my most fearful nightmare out of the few things I'm truly afraid of. Not until I was 18 was I official diagnoses due to the psychiatry protocols, I ended up having BPD, and would after HS in combination with, OCD, and PTSD, at least these are the bigger ones that affect me daily, along with a couple of others. While they're completely different diagnoses it's still so strange to me how much the Autism and my disorders overlap so much. I've done a bunch of research on it, and have even a folder in my notes section for taking and bookmarking links I find. I mentioned this to my therapist, that with all the stuff I have, I'm slightly surprised I wasn't mistakenly diagnosed for this one. For instance, aside from my learning disabilities dating back to pre school, BPD caused me to have lots of learning issues. This is HUGE when it comes to being social and interacting, primarily focused in dating. I was on a bit of learning/researching hiatus for a long time, and decided to dive into how I best learned things. I was asked my therapist her thoughts on what I was doing, and maybe combining what they and how they teach people/kids with Autism, and how BPD people best learn, among ADHD as well. I will also mention, BPD specifically - the number one tell tale sign, is that you struggle on a deep level with any relationships, but mainly the romantic ones. I've not only learned this through years of therapy, but even after watching some of the videos on here, ( I find a great deal in value for me to review those things every once in a while!)I have realized some things to this day, which I still hadn't realized that even happened, and most of it is from 4/5 years ago. Briefly, from what I know/knew back then, in total, I've had 5 exes - most except one, I've dumped. I started dating at 17, I'm now 22. It was so hard - not to mention studying to graduate which almost didn't happen - all but one, were some of the most brutal, and abusive relationships I've ever had. This I didn't realize until after reflecting on last year: the first 2, both were one sided in "faults" wise." The other 3 I did contribute to that, and I still find it kind of insane that as unfortunate as it was, during the whole ordeal, I was so mentally f*** even I never realized that I also contributed to it. However, what I for sure know, it for SURE wasn't a 50/50....There was a couple, that just no matter what I did, how hard I tried, he wasn't a good partner, friend, or person and became unsafe, almost violently dangerous towards me. With the above said, when it comes to the topic of this video, it was the absolute worst. I was always told, of course, coming from a good place of those very close to me "don't have sex on the first date!!" then later after high school, they switched to "ok, well now that your 18, lets try not to and then work on this." Of course, never worked. Only did about once, and then didn't really talk to that person after that first date.... at one point after high school, had up to 6 dating apps on my phone, because situations like these, would correspond to my symptoms from my disorders, and it would be the most awful, depressive, heartbreaking and wrenching things sometimes. Sometimes I'd be on the opposite end where I would do those things you've mentioned above, and the other guy might've been on the same page, but then after a bit of a few dates, I'd bring up dating, but they'd always either find a loop hole, find my behavior off, mainly due to my disorder, and back then, I didn't come out with my disorder immediately, so it was always after we decided to stick to friends is when I'd say that. I know this is a wall of texts, but I share these stories so others don't feel alone. This isn't just to the person that posted the comment, but for anyone that feels free to read!

[@lizillusion2318]

Those are some fabulous points. My own bf is on the spectrum and I am making sure that we're taking it slowly per his request, as I heavily respect his boundaries. We have a very strong mutual connection and attraction, but initially (and now as well) it was all about making sure we communicated and understood each other. Our growing relationship naturally developed from there, and I've never been happier. I hope you have or find that person for you too!

[@juanfernandocastroreyna478]

Happened to me before, now i know how it is this girl and i've already healed, forgive her and myself for that and forgot the bad about it, but yeah its all about learning on the way, im glad it happened so i travel through people with more care, and of course without taking it personal as hate or love, we both are people and we are more important than these events, confusions and interactions so the last thing in would desire is to leave a mark by that.

[@projectmanager2352]

imagine being lucky enough that you get attracted to some one and that other person is also attracted to you and you have similar intrests and wants to spend time with each other and talk endlessly and think of a future you both are satisfied about eah other everyway. I have never felt this. I am very hard to get attractd to someone.very rare bfor mtbto find someone attractive. but is does happen. but then other things doesnt match. I wish i will feel this one day.Every human on earth should feel this feeling atleast once in life. ❤

[@DoodlePoodle199]

I couldn’t agree more. Every human being deserves to feel this feeling, mutually. It should be a requirement to live life. It honestly really breaks my heart that there are people that don’t get to experience this. It also makes me mad, actually. Why do I get to experience this multiple times in my life, while ‘X’ doesn’t get to at all. It’s not fair.

[@CosmicGlitterGoddess]

Currently experiencing this. The only thing is, it’s at work. I’ve had a crush on this person the last few months. I enjoy our conversations. We laugh quite a bit. Think about him a lot.

[@roselandpetals]

Had this happen recently while on vacation in Europe. You just feel so ALIVE to be seen by someone in this way. Damn.

[@gehteuchnixan3052]

I always had the feeling people aren't attracted to me, sexually or not. But it's nice to know that there are clear signs - or a lack of them, rather - that I am right with that.

[@zephdo2971]

i too feel the same😂

[@Keys879]

You may have heard it before, but even if only 0.05% (1/20th of a Percent) of the Human Population found you attractive (and it's likely much larger than that), it means there are at least 4,016,000 people who would find you interesting. By the math, this would mean roughly every 38km (~23 miles) anywhere in the World someone would find you handsome/pretty if we spread humanity evenly across all the land on the Earth and all you could attain was 0.05%. Realistically it is more closer to 10-40% with averaging and outliers removed.

[@A55a551n]

Timestamps 1). Attraction 1:06 2). Awkwardness 1:47 3). Immediate connection 2:19 4). Similarities 2:44 5). Speedy heart and sweaty palms 3:20 6). Touch that excites both of you 4:08 7). You enjoy one another's company 4:46 8). Your conversations are very flirty 5:20 9). You continue thinking about them after you've separated 5:49 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙

[@Shreya...1]

I know you are online

[@A55a551n]

​@@Shreya...1 okay

[@caniaskyoukindofaweirdques7053]

Thanks homie

[@RandomKowa]

You are a time saver, I love you

[@A55a551n]

​@@RandomKowa thanks

[@nael_luna]

Sex is personally something I am uncomfortable with as a topic and as "Imagining myself in it" Though since I want to be a nurse learning more about people overall helps always And your wholesome ways of making videos get me every time even if the topic is not something I'm particularly at a good relationship with, thanks so much🥰

[@Psych2go]

You're welcome and thank you for appreciating our work!

[@Ibloop]

Where’s your surveillance blimp?

[@nael_luna]

@@Ibloop surveillance blimp? Sorry I'm very very dumb so I'm a bit of a slow understander at times

[@Labycant-ut4sb]

Ayo

[@Yer_blue_angel]

Same, like it just grosses me out tbh. And I’m not asexual or whatever, it’s just that it’s not needed, and I try blocking it out because I wanna stay true to my religious beliefs and wait til marriage.

[@brain_respect_and_freedom]

Do you feel rejected or unsure because your partner doesn’t seem to be enthusiastic about connecting sexually with you? That’s a tough one! Shy/sexually bashful people may not initiate sex, or sexual conversations, and that can leave their more out-going partners feeling unattractive or undesirable. What to do? Tell them that. We should remember that a relationship is a two-way street, and we deserve to feel supported and desired as well. You can have a sexy, fun, consensual dynamic with your shy or bashful partner, it just may take some workarounds and careful communication to help create a healthy and sustainable relationship.

[@Psych2go]

Thank you for your insight. We also believe that open communication is absolutely critical in a relationship. In your experience, what is the best way to start a difficult conversation with your partner? Do you have any personal favorite tips?

[@brain_respect_and_freedom]

@@Psych2go timing is everything: make time for conversations about intimacy away from the bedroom, at a time when neither of you are rushed.

[@icysnow57cold64]

I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone. Women tend to be more emotional, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind-hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. Women feel a lot safer in general with other women than they do with men if either is alone with each other, and it is easier for women to trust other women more than it is to trust a man.

[@brain_respect_and_freedom]

@@icysnow57cold64 Thank you for your insight. Your question touched on a very important topic: Where do gender expectations come from? Where do gender stereotypes come from? Gender stereotypes are complex and originate from local culture and traditions. Children learn what constitutes female and male behavior from their family and friends, the media, and institutions including schools and religious bodies. If we think one gender is "more" or less" it's our bias. We are all human.

[@icysnow57cold64]

@@brain_respect_and_freedom Men are usually much lonelier than women are. Men don't often talk about their personal problems with their male friends like how women do with their female friends. Females produce a lot more oxytocin than males do. And that's a reason why women tend to hug a lot more and be a lot more physically affectionate than men do. Most daughters have a very strong bond with their mother, while they don’t have one with their father, and most sons don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their mother nor their father. Most females have a very strong bond with their sisters, while they don’t have one with their brothers, and most males don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their sisters nor their brothers. A big reason why many women hope to have a daughter instead of a son when they are trying to get pregnant is for the experiences one doesn't get with a son, like shopping for her prom dress together or going for mother/daughter manicures. In many cases as a girl grows up, she becomes closer to her mother whereas boys aren't generally as close with their parents. And also, it's also harder for females to bond with their brothers than it is with their sisters for the exact same reasons. The bond that two females have with each other is the strongest bond of them all, and that's one of the reasons why sayings like “girls always have to stick together” exist. The friendship of males and females can hardly be as good as a female to a female relationship from a woman’s point of view. How can a man and woman have a special strong type of bond with each other if women have a special strong type of bond with each other while men don’t have one with each other?

[@CamiiGianna]

This just happened to me 3 days ago. I met this guy in a bar and we could not stop talking. As I started talking to him I realised there was so much connection and attraction on both sides. I was telling this to my friend today and I told her that it was as if we had known each others for years which is the exact thing you guys said in the video! Unfortunately he lives in another country so he left the day after... But I am still happy this happened :)

[@rosied456]

Same happened to me! Wasn’t attracted to him at first, but then we started talking and I was like woah😳

[@johntaylor4810]

I'm happy you've had this experience! I hope I can feel it one day too!

[@CamiiGianna]

@@johntaylor4810 thank you! You will! It's crazy how life can surprise you! I'm am trusting it day by day ❤️

[@linmonPIE]

The tension has always been one sided for me. I wish I could find someone who feels the same way I feel about them 😔

[@aniadawson5801]

Im definitely awkward. I went on a coffee date in my car (it was a super crowded and busy Starbucks and it barely had any chair to sit and it was super loud). I was self conscious because I had my natural hair out (which I never do for dates but I decided to try it for second time) and I had no fake nails on. I was blushing in the car and thank goodness he found it adorable. Like the sexual tension in the car was so intense, you could cut a knife through it. We had a good conversation (we talked about Disney, he has a deathstar tattoo, we talked about anime, food, traveling, both having a love for basketball). I hate to admit this but the tension was addressed in the car. We both did ask each if it was ok to kiss because why not and I appreciate that we both discussed everything because it made the kiss so much better. So make sure you and the other person are on the same page. We still communicate too.

[@publicserviceannouncement4777]

Don't feel insecure about your natural beauty. I don't mean this in a creepy way but men love to see the little girl in the woman they pursue. Things like bedhead or not wearing makeup can actually make you appear more confident and make him feel more natural and comfortable in your presence.

[@aniadawson5801]

@@publicserviceannouncement4777 i understand. Its was just a situation where I was very much physically attracted to him from the jump and I felt like I wasn't looking all the great. But I have realize as im getting older that the natural look is something men like a lot. I only have that awkward feeling when im super physically attracted to someone. I been like that since I was a teenager and years later it still happens.

[@thewheelsonthebus-i4x]

Why the heck your voice is just so calm and pleasing...sometimes I just listen to your voice instead of watching the clips...you nice keep going

[@linnflame]

Don't be fooled into thinking that a toxic dynamic is sexual tension - something that can feel scary can also feel exciting at the same time + if we come from a toxic home it will also in some ways feel comfortable to be in.

[@Labycant-ut4sb]

Definitely not me😐

[@Psych2go]

In your opinion, how do you tell the difference between sexual tension and a toxic dynamic?

[@sarahp3914]

@@Psych2go For me, they can be impossible to tell apart experientially, especially in the past when I was attracted to toxic men and didn't realize it. You might feel the excitement or attraction to someone when you're in their presence, and you can't control those feelings. The feelings by themselves aren't enough to tell them apart. You have to look at the *person* - their character, how they treat you, how they treat others, their philosophy on life - to see if this is a safe person to get close to and *only then* give your attraction some space to grow. I'm thankful and happy to be in a healthy relationship now, but it really took some doozies for me to realize I needed to slow down and really get to know someone's character before I could let myself give feelings of attraction any level of influence at all on my choices with that person.

[@eyeamme1917]

​​@@Psych2go with sexual tension, there is a high, which is normal, but if it frequently alternates with lows (confusion, disappointment, insecurity, mixed signals, etc,) it might be a toxic dynamic. Steady mutual excitement = good. Extreme highs/lows moving quickly = toxic.

[@ganndalf202]

This is the type of connection I dislike the most. It happened so often to me and it was always very shortlived, it was also when I experienced the biggest betrayals. While when the connection developed slower, I felt a much bigger and longer lasting love.

[@shockingheaven]

Oh, I do remember how it felt back then. So thrilling.

[@funnytv-1631]

Try and remember something you had to learn as a child, something that seems so easy to you now you don’t even give yourself credit for having learned it. Learning to walk, to speak… What else did you work to achieve in your early years of life? Take a moment to witness that young person who tried hard. Even now, years later, value that effort. Because that same power is still in you, to do this now.

[@Psych2go]

✊

[@Labycant-ut4sb]

I don't know what that even means

[@amethystspeaker6919]

@@Labycant-ut4sb lol me neither but it sounded super inspirational

[@ropesanddragoneggs8494]

That is such good wisdom. It takes time to build anything meaningful and worthwhile.

[@ULuvJanae]

I needed this thank you

[@daniellasalguero7033]

I wish I can connect with someone soon. I fantasize about meeting a guy one day, not being able to stop talking, actually enjoying and having a good time talking to this person, and actually staying in touch to create some kind of bond over time and actually making something official. Somehow, with my career, I doubt I would get to do any of that since with what I'm working with, guys are a little desperate and come up to me to try to convince me to "take me out", but I don't just play it like that and go to the first date I'm offered. I like to get to know people before going out with them. Like creating some kind of friendship. Idk why I keep ranting, but I can't help but fantasize about such a thing🥺😭

[@Externalreportsystem]

We hope you stay with us on the platform! You are an important source of information and Mental health

[@merzhoykin]

No, both people don't necessarily have to be feeling that same pull. All those signs still hold truth when one person is experiencing them, just the same as if many people were to experience them. But ye, this video would definitely get more views if everyone watching this will tell about what they saw to their significant other.

[@loveki5369]

I suddenly got active and this feeling was so strong. I am 21 yrs old but sometimes I feel a strong chemistry with some girls and what I noticed is that these feelings are mutual from both side, if feelings are not mutual than i feel less attraction

[@Psych2go]

Reciprocation does increase the feelings of attraction.

[@nadia4985]

When you say girls..what age are you referring to?

[@Labycant-ut4sb]

Didn't ask I CANT do this

[@loveki5369]

@@nadia4985 18 to 25 range 😅

[@nadia4985]

@@loveki5369 I won't raid your cloud then 😄

[@kh8690]

Congrats to those who are attractive enough to create sexual tension or to be desired by your partner

[@claidheamhsoluis3044]

No truer words spoken

[@etherealmoonlight67]

Tysm

[@djay6651]

10. You get into the kind of argument that only romantic partners have.

[@GodammitNappa]

As someone with a small collection of neuro divergent traits and who has struggled with sexual anything I also find it difficult to articulate or differentiate between aesthetici attraction and sexual attraction as both illicit the same bodily response but how or what I'm doing dictates the reason behind it. Mixed with awkward social cues and the fact I have some level of aromatic traits this can lead to confusion not just around attraction and sex but also gender and sexuality. Chemicals be wild sometimes.

[@leonardomafrareina7634]

Never felt that, and I don't think I ever will

[@dregorerampin7439]

Yes, we do indeed share a very powerful sexual connexion. All the signs are here. We have to meet again. This will be worth it. We gotta try.

[@omomadara8001]

I have a sexual tension with a colleague/friend, I don't think I've ever had it this bad.

[@shohanashobnam3157]

Well.. same is going on here with me and my colleague 😅

[@enyonamagbemadzo8684]

Updates? 👀 I’m in the same boat

[@enyonamagbemadzo8684]

@@shohanashobnam3157 Updates? 👀 I’m in the same boat

[@shohanashobnam3157]

@@enyonamagbemadzo8684 my update is he left Australia and moved out to Canada.. sexual tension has also gone along with him 🥴😂

[@jeffk7734]

I felt just about all of these feelings towards someone who was my first supervisor when I moved here to New York from Michigan in 2008. Unfortunately, she didn’t have so much as a fraction of the same feelings towards me. If I had to quit a very stressful job if it meant we could get together, I would have. There has only been one other person who after being separated I cried for in the middle of the night. When I would go home after a tiring and stressful day of having callers yell at me in the call center I worked in at the time, I was thinking about this person in a whole other dynamic, and this even went to include days where we had arguments.

[@realIronKnight]

I’ve developed feelings for my friend, and all of these are things I’ve experienced. The only thing I haven’t experienced is the touching part because we’re both too shy to probably do things like that right now lol.

[@kristenswanepoel1449]

Awww. So cute! I wish you both good luck.

[@mysoulshelter]

Your voice and energy is soothing and make me feel very comfortable with myself. Thank you!

[@soraniostaur3839]

I've never had so many people DM me a video so quickly in such rapid succession 😭😭❤❤💀💀

[@Artsu1993]

What?

[@dominus2184]

Oh yeah, happened to me half a month ago. I was out of town for work, she was a village girl and working in the same place as I, she was absolutely into me😅, had been staring at me from day 1 and I only found out in day 2 🤣😂. We had a blast talking late night, I was akward, she was touchy, flirty and repeatedly said "I was ridiculously handsome". Made me drink her beer with my own hands. Man that night was wild. Now, I'm back home and got her number just in case. Also, nice video Psych2Go as always. I really like listening to ur soothing voice

[@Artsu1993]

What happened after?

[@dominus2184]

@@Artsu1993 Nothing happened, sorry to disappoint 😂🤣. Moments were heating up and I just backed up 🗿

[@bladegriggs4090]

Oh wow! Good luck just in case.

[@RicoLen1]

Most people decide if they're sexually attracted to someone within the first 3 seconds... Well that explains why no one wants me, and also, I didn't realize that cause I'm not that way at all.

[@C_98.]

I've noticed many of these signs that seem to increasingly confirm this mutual interest between me and a woman who is part of my daily life. However, I feel that neither of us takes the next step, due to our age differences, as we both know that they are different stages and perhaps we are both afraid of getting hurt. I feel like we are the right people for each other, but because we were born in different times, we will never be able to build a life together. I don't know, it's still a confusing feeling for me, anyway, I felt like venting this here in this very welcoming community 😌

[@hotpink3459]

How big is the age gap?

[@C_98.]

@@hotpink3459 I'm 24 and she's 43

[@qrpcoaching8198]

@@C_98. i think the age gap isn't the issue here. Somehow you both do not dare to give in to your feelings because somehow you think of eachother that it feels wrong. Giving in, or starting to talk, will clear the air. Just tell her you like her more than average. She won;t kill or attack you. At most she will blush but i hope she tells you the same thing....

[@leafverde6753]

I mean I find some people pretty attractive but I can never tell when someone is interested in me

[@Psych2go]

We have several videos on how to tell someone is attracted to you! Maybe you can start here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/raHXfYSsZdWibpo

[@Grimsded]

The way imma describe it is like a gut punch. It feels like for a second you got dunked in ice water and stopped breathing from shock. I think part of it is the realisation of someone else's interest in you. :)

[@SeelenTaucher]

😅Hsp...Sensitive. Feel Exposed. 😳 The difference between Nervousness and Excitement seems so fluent. First was Not interested in that Soul at all, but somehow felt relaxed and after many months of slow Growth the Connection changed. Never thought that I might Wish this Person to BE my Partner 4 Life. Never ever felt so relaxed with a human before, plus I can say "That one never got in my Nerves" Like with Most people, after some hours, I was Like "Enough for now". U know? Plus Not good at flirting, but Like giving compliments. Most was confusing, Like later that Odd Feelings never felt before, I thought IT was anxiety, coz the Body felt Odd, but IT was more Excitement. That Feeling quite Confusion, coz New to me. Never felt that way before, so I did Not know what IT was. WHO Else was confused? 😅🥴😆

[@chronistderkonigin1116]

Even tho she and I met in a conflict about someone else. There was immediately a connection between the two of us… and I think we still have this connection to this day 😊

[@debbiewilley9428]

Yes--the first time I [originally] saw my ex-boyfriend---someone I nearly and should have married---the sexual tension nearly knocked me off my feet. It was instant---later I found out it was the same way for him too. (Instant lust?) It was nearly 45 years ago and I remember (and feel) like it was yesterday. We didn't even speak that day, but began dating several weeks later. Sadly things didn't work out long term, but I'd give about anything to be able to go back and try it again. ❤❤❤

[@jy7-relaxwithart347]

😮I felt a strong sexual atraction with a recent date, and the person felt the exact same, we realy had a lot in common, but I told the person I wasn't prepared to move on cuz I needed my single time ( I had a recent break up too).

[@chaneljen7783]

i literally have all of this signs with my classmate. We literally can’t have a conversation without touching each other in the end. He always hugs me and find excuses to make physical contact. Still when we are alone, i don’t know what to say to him, and i think the same goes for him.

[@bunch3008]

Same. But for me i don't want him as my life partner. It's may sounds wiered. But i don't found peace with in him

[@chaneljen7783]

@@bunch3008 no really the same goes for me. He’s a really really good looking dude, and a known player. I knew that nothing serious could ever happen between us. Idk if you care, but i’ll give you an uptade anyways. We went on a school trip together and ended up kissing both when we were drunk and sober, he even asked me to follow him into his room but i refused. After that we both knew we were more than friends, we basically snuck out of school al the time in order to spend time together and kiss for a bit. After school ended however, i made it clear that i would not do anything sexual with him bc i didn’t trust him enough (i knew he had plenty of other girls) so he just disappeared. I’m a lil heartbroken but i already knew that this was how it was supposed to end, so i guess it is what it is

[@Mommy.Delulus]

i love her voice 🥺

[@Labycant-ut4sb]

My heart starts racing when i run 24/7 bro

[@monz1331]

So helpful. Thank you 😌

[@Psych2go]

You're so welcome!

[@Euclidswrld]

the sexual tension between me and someone i cant get with, practically forbidden, is crazy.. no flirting just insult each other as jokes it jJAJSJS ITS SO SPICY

[@maserunit]

i came to this video because i'd been experiencing a lot of these instances with a female friend of mine, and i definitely felt some sexual tension between us. this confirms it

[@firtaandrei3200]

How do these ppl pump out content so fast?

[@Psych2go]

Because we are hardworking chibis.

[@RajeshSharma-up7cd]

Yes, the signs mentioned happen in real ❤

[@angelruruu]

When you're first but don't know what to say-

[@Lol_Chanz]

Ngl that's way better than simply just saying *first-*

[@Hakuna_Matata777]

​@@Lol_Chanz fr lol

[@PerceptionVsReality333]

But you're not.

[@DavidJackson-r5c]

I think your on to something here😊.. all good indicators that are undeniably true

[@BigTofficial]

My first video I watch from Psych2Go and I already like the voice of the person speaking :)

[@Cherrycreamsoda1]

Honestly whenever I see a new one of these videos I just watch them immediately no matter what they are 😂😂 (Context: I'm ace :))

[@Psych2go]

Thank you for watching! :)

[@dazaiosamu3660]

Guess what I did feel attracted and the guy also hinted to having sexual spark with me and even joked about us being together. And I playfully rejected saying nah I guess we are better this way being friends, why was I in complete DENIAL!

[@aceofspadesguy4913]

“Did you ever feel a spark with someone.” I did…..once

[@avidhossanmansur9830]

Here is a funny experience regarding attraction,(at an Indian wedding). It's my friend’s wedding. Dj plays my favorite song. Friends try to pull, but I hardly move. “I will look stupid,” I reply. They leave. Dj plays another song. This time enters a middle-aged, half-bald uncle. His sweat perfume forces others to make a way. He smiles, he boozes, and he dances. Following the footsteps of Salman, he even crushes a few. Yet, the weight of his family pack dare not crush his spirit. He looks vulnerable, yet elegant. They laugh, and he dances. He is tired, but his spirit is not. In a bucket full of perfectionists, his imperfect moves sprinkle enough confidence, which rinses all my insecurities. This carefree nature makes him attractive, instantly! “Jhakas!” I shout and join in. [Superb!] He crushes me too! (-_-

[@Labycant-ut4sb]

Did I ask😊

[@toyeager6234]

​@@Labycant-ut4sb why would you ask anyway? He is a stranger

[@Labycant-ut4sb]

😐👎

[@manishmohapatra4104]

Yes i had these continuous tension with my ex before we started dating

[@kaylewolf]

Yep I've finally experienced this However didn't last long I'm thankful and I'll remember it fondly However I'll have to not think about him because he's not good for me, not gonna explain here

[@nameless.singer8217]

We literally tease eachother constantly, are comfortable with eachother, have known eachother for over 8 years now, always have flirty moments, share eye contact and physical touch and always give eachother attention even if it's just subtle, but we've shared this connection since we were kids and never got further. It's weird bc I feel like there's definitely a vibe and the fact that he never made any type of romantic connection with someone, kind of assures the theory that he's just shy,but idkkk. We know eachother really well and there are really few people that know him as good as I do (mainly boys and I'm pretty much the only girl that he let close enough). But I'm so confused and scared that I may just see what I want to believe and there's just another platonic relationship between two genuinely flirty people. Why does this need to be so confusinnngggg😮‍💨

[@jonasrauchfu6935]

At the moment, I feel very attracted to a young woman, she makes me happy everytime she texts me and i can't get the smile out of my face and especially not getting her off of my mind 😊. And as always love your videos, they help me understand some things i don't get in the first minutes of talking to someone ^^

[@TheBuilderPro2024]

"young woman" this could be taken out of context

[@jonasrauchfu6935]

@@TheBuilderPro2024 uuhh - thanks for that ,,very not needed" comment - she's 23 but alright then.

[@TheBuilderPro2024]

@@jonasrauchfu6935 oh, sorry.

[@jonasrauchfu6935]

@@TheBuilderPro2024 no worries XD i get your point man ;)

[@angelainbloom]

I am actually curious how old you are now 😂

[@tenyearoldsephora]

Caught u in a sec

[@sahajrathore5609]

Second comment

[@purplepikmin3533]

More like 3 Hours 😂

[@tenyearoldsephora]

@@purplepikmin3533 👁️👄👁️

[@equinesociety]

More like 18 hours

[@me1cqt]

applying this to the fictional men that raise my standards to a high level

[@Labycant-ut4sb]

And that guy was me

[@Labycant-ut4sb]

And that me who was the person who lost in a Mr beast competition

[@Labycant-ut4sb]

Lab.y can can't be here so I'm here

[@Labycant-ut4sb]

1st

[@Labycant-ut4sb]

Am pro and my user name for roblox (I didn't ask)

[@det06f006]

The art slowly change from anime fan to a kdrama fan…..

[@st3ryx]

This is really important to know.

[@StangeGirly00]

Hey, I really like your videos, can you love this comment if you actually read the comments? I know a lot of KZbinrs don’t read their comments! And I find a lot of your videos useful! Not this one, this one is quite as useful to me.

[@Psych2go]

Sure! 😂

[@StangeGirly00]

@@Psych2go now I know!

[@renanlinard7]

Amazing job🔥

[@kyuna2004]

Thx For Telling Me This I Subscribed 😅 Keep Up The Good Work ☕

[@Psych2go]

HAHA :)

[@Labycant-ut4sb]

Was that A joke?

[@Nitsuki8907]

ONE OF THE FIRST

[@trusha_tungare]

Whenever I feel this sexual tension with someone… I panic n start ignoring them and then they also start ignoring me… the end, m sad n alone. my love stories crash even before takeoff! How do I stop my faulty behaviour?

[@SeelenTaucher]

Hi there. I also paniced, coz IT felt Odd and New. Do U also fear those Odd Body reactions of yours. IT feels Like U "lose Ur Body or as If U are Out of Control"

[@trusha_tungare]

@@SeelenTaucher yes, my body temperature drops, sometimes my hands n limbs start shaking, heart starts racing and if I’m talking, the stammering comes along n I end up saying something stupid.

[@SeelenTaucher]

@@trusha_tungare Oh gosh dear. I feel U. IT feels as If mind can Not Form an normal sentence anymore, that feels Odd meanwhile She seemed soooo chill and cool, while I tried to cool my head and hands in bathroom with cool Waters. 😆😅👍🏻

[@acetheticappeal]

A lot of the things you describe here are more linked to romantic than to sexual attraction. Otherwise a very good video and as always I appreciate the effort you put into them :D

[@abigailgsantana]

The thing is, to later on identify if it is only sexual tension or if it is actually a true felling

[@Klappstuhl-Animation]

This animation are clean how did you learn to animate like this

[@revaslatts4301]

I'll keep my eyes open all the way

[@kiyameiiko]

I watch you a lot, you are in my favourite channels. Please make more videos!!

[@Psych2go]

❤️

[@charlita25]

Yes 🙌🏾 my heart ♥️ always raced around my first love ❤️ or maybe 🤔 he just gave me anxiety. He had a dangerous lifestyle

[@leebro9376]

All boxes ticked over here, omg it's driving me nuts

[@Teardroop_tutorials]

First!! Yayyy!!

[@OrangesXx]

No ur not

[@PerceptionVsReality333]

Nope.

[@CEDelJEFE]

How does it work when you are feeling sexual tension with more than one person, particularly when you already have a partner?

[@AtupakisyeMwakatundu]

I have a question..my crush is afraid to talk to me when people are around and he stares at me almost all the time...when we talk..he mostly talks about me and he talks about me to one of my friends....Suggest me guys!!😑

[@LilacMeme]

Approach him if you can. Me and my crush are both stuck in the exact same dilemma cause we are both psychoanalysing the soul out of each other and giving each other obvious signs (no one else seems to notice these) but we are both too scared to talk. I’d feel so relieved if he just got over it and talked to me because OH HELL NAW I’m NOT approaching him. Nothing on earth could make me… so best advice is you should probably approach him directly or look him in the eyes and make a bold introduction. Maybe say something like “hey can I talk to you for a second”? I don’t have any experience …but I have an imagination

[@alexcerv]

@@LilacMeme life is short, why don’t you approach him if u really desire him? Unless there will be major repercussions I suggest u talk with him, invite him to eat lunch with you or something similar

[@pugby.snorts]

Nice

[@DefinitelyMonika]

WOW! Thanks Psych2Go! I love ur videos! Can you PLEASE continue? I would always Like, Subscribe, Hit the Bell AND Comment!

[@Psych2go]

Certainly! 🥰

[@PsycheUp617]

If you are watching psych2go for a long time then gives me Thumbs up 👍😎

[@NoName-zb1gm]

We have something going on. It's powerful. I think we both secretly wish we could sleep together.

[@mystictemperance1615]

Not always 5 years ago, I confused attraction, dude ended up being the bane of my existence. Anyway yes don't misread the signs, or you'll hurt.

[@AkkonoreW]

Maybe my idea will sound bad, but I have an idea, can you make a video like: "What can you do if you fallen for tour enemy."

[@Klau_06]

I don’t even have friends, but I’ll check this just in case…

[@picklesims]

This has only ever happened to me once 😢 and I can't see him again.

[@HmmM-wn1dx]

All how to do videos watched, " I am so ready to rock my next relationship", I have been telling myself for years. Maybe, I should move to coaching.Don' t want to waste all this info 😂😂

[@ajsam2787]

Yoo first❤

[@OrangesXx]

No ur not

[@dingdong436.]

Good one❤

[@pundi2524]

Me having that with everyone I met in internet.. That one time where there's immediate attracted to a player in a game. Just from her name choice alone already attracted to it.. Then heard her talk for the first time and her giggles? I WANNA BE HER FRIEND I HAVE TO I MUST. Idk why but I wanted to be closer and keep her close by but due to my lack of social skill and repressed feelings. Idk how to connect.. I wanna say hi and asking lets play together in discord dm. But eh I'm scared lmao, WHAT IF she says no? I'm gonna cry Fast foward to this year, already been friends with her for four years x) and she still as amazing as always. Love her lots ^^

[@thebigalu]

I don't feel attraction during the first 3 seconds I see/meet someone. I feel nothing! They need to connect with me with time...

[@michellekleijne2636]

But how about the age-old question: How do you tell the difference between sexual attraction and a romantic connection?

[@dmgsoultogetherness6667]

yes every time i hear this audio

[@FarzanaHaq1]

Yes if that’s ever happened it’s been with my better half.

[@loriawinfree478]

Thanks for your videos

[@Psych2go]

Glad you like them!

[@shohanashobnam3157]

Thanks a lot.. I'm sure we both are feeling sexual tension so badly.. the way he flirts.. ufff.. hope it works ❤️