How To Build Sexual Chemistry With Someone & Maintain It

[@YumiTsui]

How important is sexual chemistry to you in a relationship?

[@DeRez19]

Very! Don't ask me for help, though. I have 0 experience.

[@keiron.4612]

It's pretty important because when I come to it if both sides are not feeling it it's not gonna be that good sexuly

[@Juuchan17]

I have zero experience in it (relationships included), but it would be extremely important to me. Gotta communicate & keep that connection going strong!

[@talithmara2589]

I want to say "very" purely because my worst relationship ever was with an avoidant partner with no interest in sex, and honestly I just felt so sexually repressed and awful. ... but I mean, I'm not exactly experienced so I don't know for sure; I just know that my relationships where both sides were actually interested felt a lot healthier, even if things never actually went that far for various reasons. So it's PROBABLY important?

[@karimabidi8312]

In my first relationships, I thought it's not so important, but I'm very experienced now and it became very important for me. It makes a big difference when the sexual chemistry is good

[@Vincent-nn6gq]

Step 1: Get a partner

[@macncheese_]

yup

[@macncheese_]

have no parents

[@pd_heart]

@@macncheese_ damn 😭

[@neofulcrum5013]

Still stuck on step 1

[@YesIHaveManyProblemsThanks]

Mission failed! We will come prepared next time!

[@hannahmetzger4880]

As someone who's never been in a romantic or sexual relationship at all, this video helps a ton.

[@B.I.-EIO_macdonald9786]

Please don’t rush into it.

[@hannahmetzger4880]

@@B.I.-EIO_macdonald9786 I'll try not to. I'm just kind of desperate to, you know, NOT die alone.

[@krab6775]

@@hannahmetzger4880 real

[@DeRez19]

​@@hannahmetzger4880 real

[@Lisamlovee]

​@@hannahmetzger4880real

[@nikitasaville5422]

I'm glad that there's finally educational videos that talk about avoiding porn..most places seem to say to watch it and that it's alright but it genuinely does affect your relationship and how satisfied you feel. If you get to see other people's bodies, it makes you feel less appreciative of your partner. Moreover it's degrading, and also affects your mind in general. My partner and I haven't watched porn in almost a year and our sex life improved when we stopped, the chemistry hit the roof and the sex is absolutely amazing.

[@LR-jo7ci]

Not to mention that it can decrease grey matter in the brain as well as shift your perception of the receiving person in porn so if it’s het or lesbian porn, it’s women and in gay porn it’s gay men. It’s best not to engage in it if possible

[@AngelicaRobles22]

Also don’t forget that your own mental health and your partners can definitely affect your sex life. It’s important to address those

[@TysonMichael77]

Truth

[@anitagarcia8056]

Very true

[@rs7maniac]

This video came in the most perfect time

[@470angel6]

Nah fr

[@dissonanceparadiddle]

Mazel tov

[@keshaunblack6596]

I can’t tell if this was suppose to be a pun 😅

[@KuLaydMahn]

Is that a double entendre?

[@thegodhoward8037]

Did you come in?

[@EcpliseCrow]

✨ Timestamps and Major Points ✨ 1. 0:35 Express All Kinds Of Affection 2. 1:30 Avoid Porn 3. 2:19 Get Creative 4. 3:03 Work On Your Relationship 5. 3:40 Get Excited About Your Partner I hope all goes well with your partner and that you have a good day!

[@gyneve]

Alternative to number 2: Watch porn together.

[@laulaugag12]

​@@gyneve a genius

[@Chamelionroses]

My husband couldn't watch porn and sex at the same time. Ha

[@FromUsToAshes]

@@gyneve It's sad anyone upvoted this because the negative effects are not negated by watching it together; no more than taking drugs together or binge eating together.

[@EcpliseCrow]

@@FromUsToAshes It's scientifically proven that watching porn and sex can actually improve your relationship in some cases. However, it doesn't work in all relationships. Sometimes there will be negative effects, and sometimes there will not be negative effects.

[@galaxy_mooncat779]

Fell in love with my friend. They are straight unfortunately… but i Value my friendship with them and we’re still friends. Told them in the end and they let me down gently.

[@jellyomega5518]

HUH???? A MONTH???

[@ansun1987]

one month ago?

[@DeRez19]

I call hax

[@phoenixmcgrew2964]

@@jellyomega5518 The channel might have a patreon or something like that

[@TheOnlyGutss]

Ew

[@Swam0811]

I learn more from these videos than from school. Thank you for providing us with this superb content 😁

[@anderstermansen130]

than*

[@Swam0811]

@@anderstermansen130 thanks for the fix!

[@Psych2go]

Thank you so much for watching! Did you learn anything new?

[@hlodavaci816]

@@Psych2go yes

[@synicritic524]

“Ms. teacher can you teach us the art of foreplay” 😂

[@alimtimm7355]

As a single man turning 18 in less then a month, who has only kissed a girl once in his lifetime, this is very informative. Edit: I’ve never really seen any meme comments on this channel at all, I guess because the audience is either teachers showing this video for sex ed, or people who genuinely care about their relationships.

[@asexualpanic_]

Even as an asexual male, this is very informative for romance and affection, too. Thank you Psych2Go.

[@Psych2go]

Thank you so much for watching. We want to ask, how does your asexuality affect your relationships?

[@akabaneaki]

@@Psych2go sorry, i'm not the original commenter but i am a asexual female. In my case, i always have to make sure my partner knew my sex drive is rather low before even starting/ attempting to start a relationship with a person as i do not want to disappoint the person and make them worry. I'm always worrying that me not looking/ thinking about having sex with my partner as like a forefront thought, will lead to them being sick of me and cheat on me (happened before) or if i made them feel insecure about themselves. I love them but i do not use sexual moves to show it. I just pamper the crap out of them and always compliments them.

[@whatabuga9910]

@@akabaneaki I made the mistake of not being upfront about it and it ended terribly. She kept pushing more and I kept pulling away more and you know how that goes.

[@akabaneaki]

@@whatabuga9910 ikr, it sucks but hey its alright buddy. We just learnt from it! To begin with, relationships is all about communications so if they do truly cared for you, they would have respected you for you. Unfortunately, human needs is indeed also important so we might have to let go of some things for the better of our love ones, but just remember YOU'RE NOT AT FAULT NOR ARE YOU BROKEN OR WEIRD. Everyone is born different and this is just how you yourself function. I just tell ppl upfront about it now cus i find it easier to nib it at the bud first before shit spirals, but i can confirm you, there would be ppl that thinks they can "fix" you too. Like i swear, i had known someone in which i told them about my asxuality and their answer to me is "oh no worries, i'm sure after being with me you'll want to do it very often". =w= Just be safe darling and you do you.

[@whatabuga9910]

@@akabaneaki thanks mate, that actually means a lot, more than you probably think. It’s really difficult for me when it comes to the whole being “fixed” thing. Mostly because a lot of the time I myself feel that way. Without too much detail, I had an SA experience very young, and most people I’ve talked to personally about asexuality has viewed it as a trauma response, except for a few of my friends. It’s nice to be reminded of everything you mentioned, and of course, your final sentence goes for you too.

[@thunderblossom8114]

For my partner and myself, we fit very well together as a couple. A lot of similar likes. Even if we’re doing our own thing, we’ll still sit together in same room and talk. Also, we both are cuddlers. Both love to cuddle. I can vouch that learning a lot of your partner does bring you both closer, especially when you’re both being vulnerable or just one is. What we’ve found helps is we have made our apartment a judgement free safe zone. Might look at the other sideways and ask questions, but there’s no shaming. I’m not saying this is exactly what people have to do, but this is what has worked for my partner and myself

[@davepan6084]

Love that you included avoid porn. It is really the worst. It’s a drug and it ruins relationship (not just with your partner). Source: my own life

[@dorjjodvobatkhuu6457]

Amen, I almost lost my partner because of that and yet she is still walking with me on this journey of love and companionship... I gotta double my efforts to show her how much I care about her and how much she has done for me

[@justalpha9138]

​@@dorjjodvobatkhuu6457Don't be afraid to ask her questions about what she likes and prefers! It's tough at first, but it really does help a lot to know EXACTLY what sexual preferences are present. :)

[@eviecuts9942]

I immediately clicked even if my relationship is fine I still wanted to know.

[@gyneve]

Always good to stay curious

[@allenqueen]

Just realized that relationship is basically a co-op game

[@Raphael-pt7rx]

yeah never seen it that way either

[@Psych2go]

How do you mean?

[@GotoMaki4Micah]

@@Psych2go Cooperative games (co-op games) are a form of play or sport in which players work with one another in order to achieve a common objective. working together is not usually associated with romantic relationship where jealousy, un equal power balance and both partners trying to get their way all the time are commonplace.

[@Professionalintrovert]

Can you guys make a video about how to reject someone but still be friends with them or not have a bad relationship after? Edit: I know you can’t control what they think of you after it’s just if I had to reject them I want to reject them in a way that’s respectful.

[@AverageJohanson]

I would be as kind as you can while being firm. Most of the time when this happens the person who caught feeling really did simply want to be friends then like a natural disaster their affection for you just happened to them. As for maintaining a good relationship, I think it's possible but unless they're very mature you'll probably have to be happy with a bit more distance between you both than before so that they don't get into the same situation again.

[@LifeisaBeautifulting]

That's not really for you to decide. If you don't want something romantic, but the other person did and they're really hurt by the rejection, they don't have to remain friends with you. Even if that's what you want. This is coming from someone who had to let an 8 year friendship go bc he fell for me. It sucked, but l followed his wishes and stopped talking to him. Think about if it was you in their position, and you really love someone that told you that they couldn't love you back. It would be harder to move on if you continued talking to and spending time with the person

[@anderstermansen130]

you make it sound like as if women cares about men. Why are you blatantly lying on the internet?

[@Professionalintrovert]

@@anderstermansen130 why do you think women don’t care about men? Also, why are you just assuming the person is a guy, what if it’s a girl?

[@Professionalintrovert]

@@LifeisaBeautifulting I know, but I could try my best to not ruin the friendship.

[@sarahgrzyb5939]

Thank you for using language that is ace-inclusive in this video. That’s very important, and is very appreciated

[@didi85515]

Avoiding corn is a big one... very important and im glad u mentioned it

[@Vampirebear13]

Sex and love are 2 completely different & diametrically opposed things. It's love when even the thought of the person makes you happy & spending time with them makes you feel like nothing else matters. That is LOVE.

[@johnk5896]

This ⬆️

[@s.hayles8032]

There are many cases where they are mutually inclusive, though. Sex can be a great way to express love and affection as well.

[@s.hayles8032]

As long as the precondition is met where love is present, I have to add. And in a healthy balance where partners don't expect sex all the time (where the fact that the other partner isn't always willing to have sex) or where a partner doesn't want sex at all (making the other partner unsatisfied as a result, then resulting to porn addiction or cheating). Those extremes are where a relationship can be unhealthy. Though each case can be different, I have to say in the end it all depends on what both partners want (for themselves, and with each other's wants in their best of interests too. Both are equally important)

[@DeRez19]

Bold of you to assume I have/had sexual chemistry with anyone 😤

[@ognjen6125]

i love how they made it sound so professional but also so educational

[@curiousme7353]

7/10 Great short video with professional to backup points and going through the most important points just needs to go deeper on practical things to spark and relight that sexual chemistry 0:10 It happens in everything around the bedroom 0:40 Sexual chemistry Buildup/Psycho therapist:Aniel Debrot research 1:45 Psychologist Doff Zilman, negative affects on watching porn 2:35 sociologist:Osmo Kontula article, published in the archives of sexual behaviour 2:45 “Enjoyable sex does not necessarily you will always have good sexual chemistry but it can contribute to building sexual chemistry overtime” 2:55 New couple advice on sexual chemistry 3:05 A relationship is far more then Sex/Relationship improvements that will build sexual chemistry 3:25 Psychologist Leeman winn explains in the journal of marital and family therapy: Better relationship leads to better sex 3:50 “Sexual chemistry is not dependant on sex, instead it is dependent on your attitude towards sex” 4:15 Benefits on deciding to do something new 4:25 Sexual buildup is a co-op game not solo 4:38 Still worried about you and your partner sexual chemistry/communication is key

[@kitaj9094]

Can you do a video about the difference between introverts and social anxiety? Thanks ❤️

[@Psych2go]

Interesting idea. If we were to do a video on it, what would you like to see us cover?

[@kitaj9094]

@@Psych2go Honestly, I asked because I’d like to educate myself on the topic. I’ve been confused about my own feelings and social-related experiences. I’m unsure if it’s possible to be extroverted and have social anxiety at the same time.

[@LordBrittish]

@@Psych2go are there tips on how to be more confident in your ability to hold a conversation with other people? Such as people you don’t know yet or are not close with yet. Or how to avoid feeling *STRANGER DANGER.* I don’t feel this all the time, and maybe “danger” is too strong a word.

[@akabaneaki]

@@kitaj9094 SAME HERE

[@24Luzmi]

​@@Psych2goalso how to approach someone you like could be a point to discuss. Another thing is how to manage your thoughts related to be in a room full of people and not feeling like you want to die

[@rowenhenning5151]

Sexual chemistry is as innate as what attracts us in general. It's either there or it isn't. You can't do anything to make it happen. It's entirely physical. It has everything to do with what attracts us as unique individuals. Sexual desire is largely psychological. That's what this is actually talking about.

[@funnytv-1631]

Begin this evening with a deep breath. Note the colors of the sky. Did you notice when day turned to night? One follows the other without fail. There is comfort in that reliability. After a while, your new habits will become as reliable as night following day. And when that occurs, take heart, there is always another path to explore. Your capacity for change will have grown, and life will begin to reflect your design.

[@DeRez19]

Nani?

[@OkamiSun1]

Who are you and how are you so poetic?

[@brain_respect_and_freedom]

Well done!👏👏👏 Don't waste your time to watch porn. Reading about TANTRA an ancient Indian practice will be probably much better for you. This practice brings together spirituality and sexuality and emphasizes the importance of intimacy during a sexual experience. However, tantra isn’t just about sexual pleasure. It’s more about celebrating your body and feeling heightened sensuality. The goal of tantric sex is to achieve spiritual or energetic contact during a sensual experience. This practice is slow and the aim is not always to achieve orgasm. Instead, it’s about feeling a connection either to your partner or to yourself that’s both intense and enlightened. It includes breathing, sounds, and movements to activate sexual energy.

[@Psych2go]

Very interesting. Woud you say that tantra is different from traditional view of physical intimacy? What would make sex "tantric"?

[@brain_respect_and_freedom]

@@Psych2go Of course TANTRA isn't about sex in general. TANTRA shows way to discover way to understand enligthement. But people like to simplify everything and we have a lot of books and videos about TANTRIC sex etc. Important aspect is to noticed person next to you, for example we could look in each other's eyes and show tenderness in daily life. We learn to build connection to our body, and person next to you without shame. We learn how to enjoy our life energy together or solo.

[@psunami]

Y'all missed the part where I've gotta pull someone first 😭

[@MrLiminalPhoenix]

Could you explain the psychology behind why we write sad books and poems?

[@Psych2go]

That's an interesting topic! So.. psychology behind tragedy perhaps? If we were to do a video on this topic, what would you like to see us cover?

[@MrLiminalPhoenix]

@Psych2go probably why it's used as a coping mechanism, whether or not it is a healthy coping mechanism, and maybe looking at some examples of how it's been used in that way?

[@justalpha9138]

Hello peeps! I'm currently trying to write a story that involves two best friends that eventually end up falling in love with each other, and I must admit, since I've never been in a romantic relationship before, I have to ask, to anyone here who's in a relationship (married or not, I don't mind), what does it feel like to become romantically involved? What does it feel like to initiate conversations surrounding sexual moments? What does it feel like to spend time with the one you care so much about? Any sort of input will help me out! Thanks in advance! :)

[@drxu3u]

Well, I don't have a relationship, and I've never had...

[@hekewika]

I think it might be interesting for you to write your story how you would want it to go. Like a fantasy.

[@justalpha9138]

@@hekewika I mean, it is already a fantasy story, but I can still take this advice.

[@silverletter4551]

If you're not in the elite class now, you're never going to be. For the sake of your story, imagine it if you were part of the elite class. If you can read about their perspective, perhaps it will help.

[@KuLaydMahn]

At first it feels kind of scary but in a fun way. I'm a bit socially anxious normally and when that sets in I'll usually go somewhere else with most people, but if it's someone I'm starting a relationship with and we know we reciprocate each other's feelings then despite how anxious I may be, I can't get enough of them. At some point though, things have to normalize. I mean, you have to fart sooner or later, right? When you start to relax around each other it's not as exciting but it actually becomes very comforting. It's nice to have someone you can lean on, literally and figuratively. And to be able to casually slip an arm around them, or just kiss them for a brief moment if you feel like it. That other person had a point though, you should try to imagine the ways you might like to give and receive affection. Imagine those at the early stages where you're still nervous but you realize it's ok to do it, and it becomes a thrill to do those small gestures of affection. And try to imagine how you'll feel later when it's not something you even think about but it just happens. The other side is learning each other's boundaries. Im touchy-feely in relationships so even just standing in line at the store i like to put an arm around my girlfriend or just hold her hand or wrist (I'm in my 30s, holdings hands isn't strictly for teenagers) but some people don't like to do that in public. I once had a girlfriend who was sensitive about having someone's hands on her knees but I KEPT DOING IT WITHOUT THINKING ABOUT IT! I felt bad, it was irritating that I couldn't just stop myself. But one day I did catch myself doing it again and jerked my hand away and apologized and she just smiled and said "no, it's ok. It actually doesn't bother me when you do it anymore." And that was pretty nice. But yeah, you should write about the awkward stages of testing/learning each other's boundaries too. All real relationships involve that to some degree This isn't comprehensive but maybe it can give you a good start.

[@A55a551n]

Timestamps 1). Express all kinds of affection 0:33 2). Avoid porn 1:31 3). Get creative 2:18 4). Work on your relationship 3:03 5). Get excited about your partner 3:41 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙

[@sbplankton_1999]

😁👍

[@A55a551n]

@@sbplankton_1999 hey

[@elk1975]

I would say that the effect porn has on your sexual relationships heavily depends on the type of content you consume. Most porn is largely performative and doesn't provide a realistic view on actual sex with real people or emotional and physical intimacy with a partner. However, if you instead watch amateur couple porn that focuses on actual intimacy rather than appearances, acting and so on, I don't think it would negatively impact your sexual relationships irl.

[@israelulloa4017]

I love this videos because i'm a spanish person but in the Spanish channel always repeat old videos, here I can understand the language and the videos is very fun and interesting, THX for the contenid

[@cookies23z]

on the "avoid porn" part, ive seen a couple relationships of a few friends break up over porn, usually when watching it became the primary source of relief over engaging with your partner, but (at least for the friends who are comfortable talking about such topics at all) it seems porn occasionally or as the backup is less of an issue, especially dealing with busy schedules or travel and such. I dont have the experience to back it up, and these are just anecdotes, but eh...

[@philrices3173]

These videos are so helpful towards a good positive energy during luring thoughts

[@heyitsrachelb1096]

I would also add play together. Like tickling or little goofy touches. Keeps things light and fun

[@saintsheepy6682]

I'm not even close to having sexual chemistry in a relationship yet, I still don't even have a partner; and even then and there, I'd rather be married to a partner first after she and I have gotten to know each other for a few years, before we get to the intimacy stuff, but even then and there, I easily get cold feet thinking about the idea of a relationship.

[@kaylewolf]

thank you, i actually need this rn because the one I loved who had this effect easily, we arent a thing anymore. its been 4-5 months depending on what you leave it at. but basically, I might be trying slowly with another to see what happens thanks

[@flamegamer3424]

This is a very interesting topic. I’ll be sure to keep those points in mind when I’m ready.

[@Psych2go]

Yes! Which points did you find memorable?

[@flamegamer3424]

@@Psych2go The Express Affection point. Because certain types affection can indicate any kind of intimacy.

[@lipemagos]

Everyone already Said that but love your Voice 😊

[@severinenodine984]

As an asexual this is fascinating.

[@notafrog2040]

doctor freeman

[@MisterPyOne]

I envy you. Really wanting sex and not getting it is a burden.

[@Psych2go]

What do you find fascinating?

[@adamshafeeq8685]

Why not do a video on the psychology of why we love the action genre? Like action movies, action cartoons, superhero comics, games, animes and just about anything involving cool combat?

[@Levixne]

avoid porn is definitely wrong, lots of people share, read & watch porn smut, hentai and comics together The reasoning is definitely BS, sharing content with a partners very enjoyable. Seems like the study is only accounting for people who cannot dicern fiction from reality. Comes across exactly like "video games lead to violence"

[@MsLilac88]

I always feel that sexual chemistry is important in a relationship. 😊

[@keiron.4612]

Just when I needed phyc2go there here not felt to good today or tonight can you please do a video about emptyness how you feel inside

[@operationmc1984]

this is not the usual type of video i watch from phych2go but i would like to say to your VA:amanda, that she could narrate anything and i could watch, it like soothes my anxiety i don’t know how to explain it keep up the great videos and your channel really helps me mentally

[@MaxGamer07wastaken]

bold of you to assume my socially tolerated self has a partner

[@chlowover]

I'd be very interested to see you guys do a video about aftercare for sex

[@lakis666]

Psych2go is like that one friend who hypes you to talk with your crush

[@Psych2go]

Yup!

[@lakis666]

@@Psych2go ❤️

[@elijahmatthews2781]

This is not what I subscribed to this channel for. I originally subscribed because I need help with accute anxiety disorder, bipolar depression and PTSD and I feel that topics like this does nothing for me. But if it works for someone else,then that's all well and good. Thank you for what this channel is trying to do and help people with whatever they feel is most important to them.

[@Juuchan17]

I can't wait until I get to deal with this... but I'm single & waiting for a strong relationship with someone first before I get into the sex stuff. 😭 At least I'll know what to do until then, I guess...

[@sindisibanyoni2111]

Me too hey😩😩me too

[@dancecover143]

Thank you so much for these videos that you guys are posting here!! it helpes me a lot with my relationship 😊

[@elliotthefennekin6506]

My sexual chemistry is non existent. Been trying to crush my desire for it as well as building love after a lot of bad experiences

[@wildnfearless9840]

I feel you. You just have to trust in time and the universe because something could come your way when you least expect it. That's what I try to remember as I wait.

[@anderstermansen130]

Thats exactly how it should be.

[@RuseGuise]

Does no porn also mean no masturbating? Or just avoid porn? It's difficult because I'm still in the first few date stages. Getting to know each other and build chemistry

[@et0oo]

Just avoid porn. You can masturbate and think about the person you like etc ^^

[@summerella9484]

Can we please see a video of the benefits of doing non verbal communication and how we can do it?

[@roseywolf7867]

Helpful video but it hits hard when you’re single or in a LDR

[@Immanuelm.8]

Lol I'm still learning, but thank you🔥

[@kaylewolf]

Me too, but stay true to who you are and don't change for anyone

[@Immanuelm.8]

@kaylewolf Kk, I promise. Thank you so much!

[@Psych2go]

Thank you! What did you learn from this video?

[@Immanuelm.8]

@Psych2go Welp, I'm still a virgin, but I learned that sexual chemistry is just as important as having good communication and connection with your partner in every aspect. There were sooo many times where this happened to me when it came to signals. Looking at this video 😮😗😋 may have given me flashbacks. At times, I think I can get a bit worried about maintaining it, but still, I just try to keep my head up and not think so much.

[@HakimiGamer_]

Don't mind me I just accidentally clicked on this video while trying to take a screenshot of this video's thumbnail to make it a meme and I think I just beated the world record for fast typing while writing or typing this by bye

[@karolina6932]

But what if there is too much affection? My boyfriend keeps touching me ( hugs, asks me to scratch his back etc) and recently i realized that when we cuddle its not giving me positive feelings anymore ( I feel irritaited instead) and i was a bit sad, I like to cuddle sometimes but i am tired of constant affection : (

[@khakishark]

How are things now?

[@BrentJohn]

I feel like porn is more of a double-edged sword. It can be a fantastic way to explore the vast topic of human sexuality, but it can give a very misleading or unrealistic portrayal of sex and intimacy for those who don't know any better.

[@tertiusspengler]

@Psych2Go I've been facing constant rejection since I was a teen.. thats half of my life and I have to say it is pushing me to the edge. Could you guys make a video about how to deal with this? I can't say I've had one successful romance and it's breaking me down. I don't think I can take it anymore.

[@Psych2go]

Interesting idea. If we were to make a video no this topic, what do you think should be included?

[@trinsit]

I have zero chemistry. :( I can talk friendly, but don't trust people. After my divorce, I couldn't see myself getting married again. I long for a partner, but it's seemingly impossible to find someone that I vibe with. Touch is my #1 love language, but don't get to use it for anything really.

[@thawierdboi]

I never had a problem, not warchung porn. I kept it for weeks without a problem. But since my last break up, 3,5 months ago, I watch it almost daily sometimes multiple times a day and i cant stop myself from it. Any tips please?

[@samosskiy]

I do not have such thing. Thank you very much. Have a nice day

[@Jade-iw4rb]

How are some comments from a month ago if the video was just published...?

[@martinabonfiglio4247]

hey, thats true...

[@ayanabeads1614]

Re-published.

[@Alice_Walker]

I generally love P2G but I disagree with most of this. These are mostly good ways to feel comfortable and intimate with your partner but not to increase sexual excitement. Look at some Esther Perel videos about maintaining desire instead. Sexual desire is (counter intuitively) about creating space for the want to grow rather than more closeness.

[@Miiiingtheebaddie]

All these things are important Communicating w your partner def helps the rela & the chemistry W time the chemistry elevates once you see your partner in tune w w you It’s spontaneous & keep it spicy 😊waves lengths are also on the same page

[@A.nameless.monster]

Yea.. I am in a long distance relationship so it's kinda difficult 😅

[@HiThere-lq6pt]

Imagine

[@FeralShadow]

I must build up her confidence, she puts herself down too much.

[@0915jkok]

If only my partner knew more than just sexual intimacy. We lack emotional chemistry or rather he doesn't meet my NEEDS but expects sex all the time.

[@et0oo]

Communication is very important. Talk to them about how you feel! Hope it gets better for you :c

[@brentkeller3826]

Don't reject affection from your partner, don't shower someone other than your partner with affection, don't complain about your partner no longer showing you affection after you've rejected every action they did to show you affection.

[@blink4life8616]

what about long distance?

[@charmaineranford935]

Agreed 👍🏽

[@MrWolfuo]

I am in deep speechless but I am ahead of time now 😎

[@soufiane990ss]

I want to find the one but how can i and how would i know it it is ?

[@SansUndertale369]

Ayyy thanks for the rizz tutorial🔥

[@A_nightknight]

Hi ^-^ I have a question What is the best age for starting sexual experiences?

[@sindisibanyoni2111]

Good question, I also want to know🤔🤔

[@jennifercatherinekarel8925]

Helpful video!

[@JediKnight207]

Step 1: Both be good looking.

[@uanime1]

Remember: porn = bad, romantic novel that women like = good. I mean that's not just some people excusing what they like and condemning what they don't.

[@Motishay]

Watching porn in a relationship is like constantly getting McDonald's when there's plenty of great and healthy food at home. You're so full there's no way you can enjoy the homecooked meals. (Unless your 'home' doesn't have much 'food' to begin with, that's a different story)

[@Levixne]

No its not, your partner is not a buffet and not always willing to have sex.

[@s.hayles8032]

​@@Levixne We agree with that for sure. But I'm pretty sure that wasn't the intended message. Care to come up with a better way to describe it?

[@Levixne]

@@s.hayles8032 2 people in a relationship may not have equal sex drive. I find his entire point about porn wrong, but hes also just way off on what being in a relationship is like period. Youre not going to be horny and flirty and wanting to be touched and sucked 24/7 It might be funny to pretend youll be that way in a real relationship but most dudes go one round and the affection leaves thier soul

[@s.hayles8032]

@@Levixne I agree that there are cases where 2 people may have different degrees of sex drives. A person obviously won't be like that 24/7. I didn't say I would pretend that way. Edit: It's important for partners to have a corresponding sex drive. If not, it's important to find middle-ground or a way around it together. Remember, it's a co-op.

[@s.hayles8032]

@@Levixne Most importantly: "Most dudes go one round and the affection leaves thier soul." You clearly have no clue about most dudes (who are normal, btw). You have no clue about the people around you. Either that, or wherever you stay, it's a sad- sad place. I'm guessing you live in America? Hookup culture is pretty widespread there.

[@cortoff]

If love is chemistry then I must be a noble gas (probably helium)

[@Psych2go]

So.. you're perfectly stable with no attraction?

[@tankofnova9022]

How would one go with trying to build this chemistry with a partner who is adverse to sex? I have a drive that might have anyone ask me to slow down. My girlfriend was abused as a child, remembers everything to a point that the mention of sex usually causes a mental break down. She once told me quite recently that even if we were double protected with the pill and rubber she would still not try do to pregnancy concerns. Every fiber of my being wanted to mention there's sexual acts that aren't intercourse, but I couldn't say anything about it. I was scared. Scared she'd break down, scared she'd think I'm a freak, scared she'd run away And we've known each other most our lives. 23 and friends since grade school.

[@tankofnova9022]

@@Rher_the_Moon Your tip is kind, but reveals a mistake in my comment. We only talk though text these days. Not for lack of trying to do more. Money, weather, illness, work hours and more have only made it possible to date once within the last 2 months. I'm happy to say that said texts do have a hint of flirting inside them. Calling each other babe, love, dear ect. Heart and kissy emotes, laughing at what wasn't a joke.

[@tankofnova9022]

@@Rher_the_Moon funny you mention face time when it's facebook messenger that we use. She does send tasteful pics of herself on her own and I tell her she looks nice when she does. Just face and upper body right now and in no way provocative, but the trust to do even that isn't lost on me, and let her know as much.

[@khakishark]

How are you two doing now?

[@TheNonameHousehold]

That controversy is stupid, watching porn isn't cheating... whoever says that has incredibly low self esteem and they need help building it up 🥺

[@hekewika]

It could be. like if the partner is spending money on and getting off to porn, but doesn’t spend money on or have sex with their partner. Also, people decide for themselves in their own relationships what is cheating and what is not.

[@et0oo]

I personally feel like if my partner is watching another girls porn and getting off to that and find her attractive etc it’s cheating. Everyone is different.

[@dragon_cheez6718]

I love how you are so forward with traditionally taboo topics like sex, I personally don’t get why sex is so taboo, 😊

[@lazykid9167]

I don’t have impression sec is tabu these days. For me it isn’t anyway as I can talk very open about it within a conversation. What makes you feel sex is tabu topic ? Maybe it is subconscious and you just think it is tabu ? What is th e worst that can happen if you decide it’s not a tabu for you because of past believes and experiences .And what do you think you will gain if it is not tabu ( a lot 😉 from my experience ) ?

[@meganfox5219]

Haha I have to laugh because someone said 1) get a partner 😂🎉😂🎉😂🎉😂 So true!

[@sindisibanyoni2111]

Very true🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@tertiusspengler]

Me: What is sexual chemistry? Wait, what is sex?

[@muppetfan77show26]

THANK YOU🙏

[@whitewolf2001]

I dont even want sex anymore I just wanna be loved

[@dreamscometrue233]

How to build sexual chemistry: 1.Express any form of affection(ex hugs, massages etc) 2. Get creative 3. Focus on other aspects of relationship as well: sex gets better of you focus on other aspects as well 4. Flirt 5. Show excitement

[@everness4616]

the p**nhub sound effect and genshin sound effect in one video is so funny to me 😂

[@John11Hun]

I touch myself for your videos

[@sadnxssFPS]

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[@pawiler1080]

Me watching this video knowing damn well I'm never going to use the information:

[@Psych2go]

Not even in the future maybe?

[@pawiler1080]

@@Psych2go I don't even talk to people, man.

[@squeenslays]

A suggestion i have is there is this book full of sex positions. If u have a partner and ur tired of doing the same thing u can just flip through the book and randomly stop at a page that looks interesting or intriguing and then try it 🙃

[@qrpcoaching8198]

Kama Sutra; world famous book

[@squeenslays]

@@qrpcoaching8198 loll thankss

[@qrpcoaching8198]

@@squeenslays you’re welcome lol

[@vril7340]

nice, now i need the partner

[@hehe_77_]

I don't even know why i am watching this i never had a partner to begin with...

[@mekjarr4933]

the voice. so nice.

[@hmmm8158]

I tried all and it was not enough so I give up on love

[@marisela.martinez]

How are some comments from a 4 weeks ago???

[@DeRez19]

Have you not heard of the rise of Time Travelers? Those nerds are everywhere.

[@elianimations4569]

Fuckin' time travel

[@Raphael-pt7rx]

someone pls answer on this comment 2 weeks ago something like " yeah those timetravelers ruin anything"

[@peteregger5304]

hi, i have a question that regards a different topic than that video. I have seen the video where you talk about habits to maintain a relationship. I have a girlfriend and our relationship is great, we are in the last year of high school and we graduate in 3 months. We are together for 3 months now. The thing is, in country, as a man, you have to do 9 months community service or 6 months army. I am already registered in a job for community service in my home town. My girlfriend wants to study, which would take her over 70 kilometers away from our hometown. She would move into a small apartment near her university and only visit her home every other weekend, and thats not for sure. And in my community service i will work night shifts and weekends. We are very close to each other right now and we get to see each other every day at school and i go to her place almost once a week. I am kind of scared to think about a future with her because if she goes to study we will meet like once a month in person and i know we will miss each other a lot... do you have any advise what i should do or what do you think will bring the future? is there anything i can do?

[@GotoMaki4Micah]

if you want a life long partner then you can realize that each of you have separate things going on. it doesn't mean you 2 dont love each other. and thats ok as long as you find your way back to each other. i know things are intense because they are new, but the honeymoon phase will wear off. you can commit and be patient. you can be secure that you both will get your life together after the important things you have going on now have passed. set aside a time once a week where you both chat on the phone with no distractions. and dont get paranoid if they are late or don't show up. life will get in the way. just maintain quality communication even if its once a week or every other week. dont focus on her being far away, be proud of each others accomplishments.