I highly recommend Vanessa Van Edward’s book entitled “Captivate”. It states that studies have shown that the most likable people are the ones who like more people. In other words, if you like more people, people tend to like you back.
@blanchespinkblossom2 жыл бұрын
@@mitsuha4788 People can sense if someone is being fake. So people who genuinely like others will be liked back genuinely too 😉
@Ctrl_Alt_Elite2 жыл бұрын
@@blanchespinkblossom I'm doomed 😂 I don't like most people because I sense fakeness amongst many 🙃
@Suveramort2 жыл бұрын
i don't believe that if you like people, people tend to like back, it's pretty relative tbh, people bend to carisma...i know it because my partner is very carismatic but he hates everyone and just wants ppl to go ded in a ditch, but people like him very much still :/ and he still gets more public than me, who likes people more and try my best
@ShadowPhoenix822 жыл бұрын
Accurate
@ShadowPhoenix822 жыл бұрын
@@Suveramort I don't know, that sounds like a special case. Your partner is skilled at manipulation. They are actively deploying their charisma. This post is saying that, for the average person not trying to affect a result, people will respond positively to people they perceive as genuinely positive. You compared yourself to your partner when saying they get more public (attention?) than you, but let's ignore that. When you say you try your best, are you saying you try your best to be likeable? Do you feel like too few people respond positively to your efforts? You mentioned your partner dislikes humans but many people are drawn to them. Does this mean you are impressed and fascinated and care about others and their interests and goals, but still feel most people dislike you? It's possible that your feeling of being disliked is creating a distrust that you don't recognize, which is actually pushing people away. Just something to think about. Don't hold yourself to a quota, especially one based on such disingenuous behavior as you described from your partner. If you want to smile at others, do so. If they don't smile back, that's fine. It didn't stop you from smiling and being kind, and that's all you wanted to do so you succeeded. Maybe it caught them off guard, but it'll make them smile at the next person. Just assume your positive efforts have positive impacts you don't see, and hopefully you'll begin trusting them again. 😊
@listeningtomusicistalentidgaf2 жыл бұрын
Summary : 1) Talk nicely about other people. 2) Be aware of ur body language. 3) Be aware of their body language as well. 4) Try not to judge anyone. 5) Ask them questions about their lives. 6) Spread happiness And positivity. 7) Let them know u like them. Hope i could help. Stay safe y'all 😄 Also, thanks a lot psych2go for all ur efforts. I will never regret subscribing this channel. Love ya so much 😘
@fang61362 жыл бұрын
how..
@hezuris28962 жыл бұрын
Time traveler much
@cheerycaramel2 жыл бұрын
The heck?-
@user-mh5yf3sz3o2 жыл бұрын
One day ago wtf?
@games4boredom15492 жыл бұрын
💜💜💜
@clearlystarley2 жыл бұрын
7 ways to make people like you MORE 0:25 Talk nicely about other people 1:03 Be aware of your body language 1:38 Be aware of their body language, too 2:16 Try not to judge anyone 2:59 Ask them questions about their lives 3:46 Spread happiness and positivity 4:28 Let them know you like them
@Vadamur2 жыл бұрын
thank you! :)
@noonegirl2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊
@zerotwothree2 жыл бұрын
thank you for the short version
@ann_iz-lame99632 жыл бұрын
TYSM
@alexx57972 жыл бұрын
+ this way
@khalilahd.2 жыл бұрын
As a social introvert these tips are so helpful but I think it’s helpful for everyone to follow these guidelines ☺️
@czowiekkontraswiat82792 жыл бұрын
no not for me , im alone and i dont really need other people , better for them when they hold distance
@avec.amore_2 жыл бұрын
@@czowiekkontraswiat8279 people's are good too. Just a suggestion ✨
@czowiekkontraswiat82792 жыл бұрын
@@avec.amore_ ye but im bad , and dont really feel needs to spend time with others
@avec.amore_2 жыл бұрын
@@czowiekkontraswiat8279 no one is bad, I had thought these same stuffs about myself. But I know deep inside, nobody wants bad for others. Do u need that? Okay tell me, can u see a person suffering with that evil smile on ur face like Hitler.
@avec.amore_2 жыл бұрын
@@czowiekkontraswiat8279 and i can feel kind of politeness and bunch of insecurities in ur thoughts, it's okay to take time and reflect on ur thoughts. The universes have magic for u🌼 And also if u don't feel like socializing it's also okay. Have a great life AHEAD 🍃
@loonatheverse2 жыл бұрын
Here’s some tips for being happier so you can spread joy: - every ngiht just write down 3 things that went well for you today -focus on what you have, not what you don’t -be empathetic -do random acts of kindness
@yinxingye2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@HAHAHAHAHAHAHahHHA2 жыл бұрын
First one wont change anything, others are useless
@ilovecats212 жыл бұрын
For me it would be 3 things that went well in a week lmao
@yukk94812 жыл бұрын
What if nothing went well? Everything is going bad
@userm1802 жыл бұрын
@@yukk9481 wanna talk ab it?
@clasherking45282 жыл бұрын
So basically be a nice person and spread your happiness to others when you can....... I've been doing that for the past....... 3 years now and can confirm it does work. I've had a lot of people I work with say they just feel like I'm easy to talk to and my manager says I'm about the easiest person they know to get along with.
@HAHAHAHAHAHAHahHHA2 жыл бұрын
Just to get used, great job buddy. At the end no one will cate about a guy.
@userm1802 жыл бұрын
good job!!
@tinahelbert15472 жыл бұрын
Cool!
@mememasterpro31052 жыл бұрын
niceeeee i made a lot of frens just by being hella extroverted lmfao
@rebeccaliew22472 жыл бұрын
No.7 is a wild card that needs to be threaded carefully. After letting someone know you like them, if you give off hints of wanting romantic relationship but the other party wants to friendsone you instead = whatever enjoyable time you till then can go south, where the other party can ghost you out.
@melaniemartin43192 жыл бұрын
Whys that?💜💜💙💙💔💔❤❤
@TheMAH953girl2 жыл бұрын
so truuue
@ezra57372 жыл бұрын
Idk what shitty people you hang around but I've told every one of my crushes that I've liked them. Sometimes it worked out. Sometimes it didnt. But i never got ghosted by them and we never stopped being friends for that reason
@rebeccaliew22472 жыл бұрын
@@ezra5737 good for you, dear. How I wish the other 7.7+ billion of the world population would think & behave like your crushes would back to you. Or else, we wouldn't have experienced awkward meetings post-confession & the death of friendship overtime after the rejection.
@Lea-np8rs2 жыл бұрын
Well i think its how you'd phrase it. You dont need to exactly say "i like you" you could also say Things like: you're a good friend, i enjoy being around you, i have so much fun with you. Or say things you like about them/with them directly. Like: playing video games with you is fun, i like the way you always have ideas for stuff.... Of course this COULD still imply feelings of love. But of you really anjoy being around someone and they Ghost you after telling them that, without ever stating why or see if they're right.... I dont think i'd want a friend like this anyways xD
@alonii.2 жыл бұрын
I’m honestly trying very hard to be more social. I’ve improved some which I’m proud of myself but I know there is always room to grow so thank you for this video!!
@UwU-ok2jr2 жыл бұрын
I wanna be more social too but i don't like most people in my school which is kinda a problem
@kfccaleb2 жыл бұрын
Ayo same here. I stay in a shell until someone talks to me. Then I might slowly get comfortable talking but that’s rare and that’s what I need to be better at - ( as well as reading emotions )
@userm1802 жыл бұрын
@@UwU-ok2jr what ab the people that u like?
@userm1802 жыл бұрын
@@kfccaleb its a hard process but honestly small steps go a long way. i believe in you!!
@UwU-ok2jr2 жыл бұрын
@@userm180 im pretty social with my friends but not social enough to yell across a hall to them unless im like really hyped up for something
@ArtDesigns4Creations2 жыл бұрын
For the past while I've been on autopilot and distancing myself from others and staying isolated to the point where going to the mail box feels like a weight of bricks. But recently, I started to get myself out there by dressing up in my homemade Spider-Punk outfit and cruising around the streets on my long board and handing homemade stickers of my artwork. In addition, I enjoy hearing people tell me that I've made their day, it just makes feel true happiness. My father once told me, "Money doesn't buy happiness, it buys comfort and misery." And he continued how I was able to make people's day and at the same time feel happy with myself is something that can't be bought. Finally, Psych2Go has made me feel more confident about myself about who I am as a person. Thank you 💖😊
@miguelmateus59362 жыл бұрын
That's a very wise thing your father said
@userm1802 жыл бұрын
haha i would love to see you on the streets
@lerneanlion2 жыл бұрын
There is one problem related to being happy about what other people are being happy about. If you're feeling not happy about what the others are being happy about but being forced to go along with it such as being forced to attend some loud and lawless parties where everyone goes wild with endless liquors, you won't feel happy because you're being forced to just to fit in with the others.
@userm1802 жыл бұрын
thats true, but i think theyre talking about some lighter matters that can be easily liked
@CashySwanson2 жыл бұрын
What it comes down to is to just be yourself. Work on yourself and truly refine yourself as a person. Anybody who doesn't like who you truly are isn't worth being liked by. I used to adapt to the people near me to be more likeable, but I'm more liked nowadays without giving a single care in the world about how people perceive my personality as. Obviously though don't treat hygeine the same way, be clean and work on your physical health. Just because you shouldn't value others' opinions on how you look/act doesn't mean you get to be a slob or an asshole. That's just my take on life anyways.
@ArtemisLizzy2 жыл бұрын
This is all amazing and totally true, but I still have the mental mindset of, “If I never show any signs of negativity, if I never show anger or sadness, if I just stay a happy bubble of joy forever, then they won’t hate me.” I always feel like my friends hate me, but are too nice to tell me so, so they just act like they like me. They’re good people, I know that, but my insecurities and overthinking make me feel that way. We have been getting more and more distant, especially with one of my friends, and the silence between us isn’t comfortable in the slightest. I only have one friend I truly, truly, believe actually likes me, and that’s my newest friend. She makes me feel TRUELY happy and supported, and I’m so thankful to have a friend as great and rare as that. Oh shoot I started venting, I’m sorry-
@CashySwanson2 жыл бұрын
@@ArtemisLizzy I have 2 friends only it's ok to only have a few actual friends lol, cause they are honestly more important than anybody who may like your content online.
@ArtemisLizzy2 жыл бұрын
@@CashySwanson I have 1 100% real friend, who is the newest one I mentioned, 1 friend who is good but not the best, and then 1 friend where she and I are drifting away from each other. But, yes, you’re right. I also like to have a few close friends instead of tons of regular friends. Thanks.
@ShadowPhoenix822 жыл бұрын
@@ArtemisLizzy 🫂🥰 I'm glad you have even one friend that makes you feel sincerely cared for.
@ShadowPhoenix822 жыл бұрын
@@CashySwanson sure, but those were never friends anyway. They're fans, and that's okay. We only have room for 4-5 friends in our heads anyway 😝
@gifteni79272 жыл бұрын
Note chameleon effect means matching other people's energy or body language, however, don't let it get too far. let them know when you're uncomfortable as well. You don't have to be friends with everyone especially if they do things you don't like. If you like being a listener that's cool, but if you like to talk about yourself, you can do that. If a person really likes you they want to get to know you. Do let them talk, no one likes it when someone only talks about themselves. Don't be judgemental doesn't mean don't have an opinion. They clearly said that so don't misunderstand. You don't have to fake it just learn that other people's views matter. THIS IS SO DAMN LONG. I feel like no one will read it, but try to. Hope it helps a bit
@userm1802 жыл бұрын
thank you!!
@milanaleksic76782 жыл бұрын
i read it
@thelegendarypancakee2 жыл бұрын
THE TIMING I SWEAR TO GOD-
@haloslayers1172 жыл бұрын
Yep
@ysmnflwr2 жыл бұрын
YES
@thechancellor-2 жыл бұрын
To the *incredible person* seeing this, I wish you all the best in life❤ don't over blame yourself, accept things and go forward. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn the skills needed and get after it, all the keys to a happy life is in your hands. Keep pushing.
@somerandomfella2 жыл бұрын
Zzzzzzzz do you have any new messages or are you going to repeat this 💩 for the foreseeable future?
@Angelik_2 жыл бұрын
Ty and same as you at everyone too
@userm1802 жыл бұрын
@@somerandomfella wdym for the foreseeable future?
@lamb4442 жыл бұрын
getting ppl to like u seems like so much work when you’re not a happy or naturally bubbly person. i’m quiet, have dry humor along with drawing half for comfort and half for fashion so i guess i don’t have much to be attractive from. i also find it hard to genuinely care abt someone else and what they do like their hobbies or how their day went, idk why i’m like that :/
@ifrahjama22152 жыл бұрын
You're cool 😎
@GamerBoy.17612 жыл бұрын
Hey I'm with you there, I don't speak much at school and I'm pretty introverted too, I think we'll be good friends.
@posthumanismkarma61202 жыл бұрын
Same :(
@Alejandra-ge9gm2 жыл бұрын
Personally, I’ve mentally been using these tips on my own and I would say it’s been good! But one thing is make sure that person you want to befriend doesn’t end up relying on you. Like for example they end up always wanting something from you and never give you anything back (different if they just don’t bring supplies and genuinely talk to you as a friend outside of asking for supplies). Or maybe they only come to vent to you (sometimes asking or maybe not asking if it’s an okay time to do that) instead of actually talking. But don’t forget not everyone is like that, there’s a lot of good people in this world but don’t let the person rely on you to the point it drains you. You deserve to feel good in that relationship too!
@AhmetKaan2 жыл бұрын
*Remember, the moment you accept total responsibility for everything in your life is the moment you claim the power to change anything in your life...*
@mawishi2 жыл бұрын
Law of assumption beeeetchhhhh
@czowiekkontraswiat82792 жыл бұрын
nice lie
@HAHAHAHAHAHAHahHHA2 жыл бұрын
Shut up man everywhere spamming guru cope
@ashleyinao2 жыл бұрын
This really does work (at least for me personally)! I've been doing it for years now and have felt less disappointment, don't hold grudges as much as I use to, and have felt more positive and happy after realizing that I have the power to surround myself with positive things in life c: of course, there will be situations you go through that you feel you had no control over (maybe being born with toxic parents for instance), but I believe what he means is that you choose to put yourself or keep yourself in certain situations and thus, you have the responsibility of owning up to your mistakes while also having the power to take yourself out of toxic situations and surround yourself with a healthy environment. With parents for instance, you might not be able to get away from them, but you can choose not to believe the toxic comments they make. Life is hard but we're all trying our best and I hope things get better for those of you who are having difficulty in life ❤️ I am rooting for you! 💪🏼😌
@rawrokathrin2 жыл бұрын
you dont understand how much i love this channel im currently studying psychology because i wanna be a neuropsychologist now this channel is the main reason for it lol
@hannah-sc8wr2 жыл бұрын
Me hoping someone nice would like my comment ☺
@Your-average-sans-i5g2 ай бұрын
2 years and stilll nothing
@Your-average-sans-i5g2 ай бұрын
Dam that’s sad
@Your-average-sans-i5g2 ай бұрын
Ngl I feel bad
@hannah-sc8wr2 ай бұрын
@@Your-average-sans-i5g lmao what?
@hannah-sc8wr2 ай бұрын
@@Your-average-sans-i5g for what
@vince065us2 жыл бұрын
Most important thing:Be yourself,be true to yourself,and don't change so that folks will like you.
@scarlettrutan91052 жыл бұрын
low-key goes opposite of the video but the best advice you can get! It is okay to want to be more kind and stuff, like in the video, but never change who you really are
@fritzflitz2 жыл бұрын
im always a chill, helpful, friendly guy, that cracks some dumb and wierd jokes sometimes, im not really good looking at all, anytime i get the "wow ur really that friendly how i thought you would be" compliment. 😂 Im getting closer to real relationships lately, I'm more confident since a while and all around just happy. it randomly came to me, that more and more people start to like me or wanted to get in contact with me. this sudden turn is weird but ill take it
@linojvni2038 Жыл бұрын
based
@Smile-py5qz2 жыл бұрын
I tried talking nicely about everyone else around me, no matter how they behave around their surroundings and I'd try my best to spread joy everywhere, but the more I do the more my friends would think I'm weak, or just stupid, or a freak. People just dislike me even more. I don't know anymore if I'm a good or a bad person anymore. Although thanks for listening! I appreciate. C:
@hno61592 жыл бұрын
Same here. I honestly tried all these tactics before and recently and still notice how people dislike me. I’m at the point too where I feel as if those around me truly hate me but just refuse to say it. I’m comfortable with that thought now tbh, but I wonder what’s actually causing this at this point. I’m doing something wrong or is it just how I carry myself? I may never know honestly.
@hno61592 жыл бұрын
Oooh and to add to this they do visible body language that shows they aren’t a fan of me yet say they like me to my face so I don’t know. Been told it’s anxiety or whatnot but I swear there’s something to it. Never doubt your feelings as horrible as they may be, gut feelings may be right.
@Smile-py5qz2 жыл бұрын
@@hno6159 @H No I'm so sorry to hear that, I can relate in both ways. In all honesty, I appreciate that you spend the time to share some sympathy, I never thought anyone would, you're genuinely very sweet! I think those people are just going along with the trends, and how they think it's "cool" to hate on everything, don't let that get you though! People here on earth here do care about you, they love you (including me), and a group of people like them in your life wouldn't change that. :) I also do agree with how you pointed out that our gut feeling is very important, I agree that we shouldn't expose it to ignorance, shame, or due to anything else. If you do feel them hitting your chest that aggressively, like a hammer, they must be true. I also believe you're a very warm-hearting person, and your heart feels heavy suddenly when you think you've done something wrong, but you know you haven't, and there is clear evidence. I just think these people can't see the sun shining so magnificently like you do, they might pretend to see it rain instead. But hey, don't let that bother you! Your lovely sunshine shines on certain plants, and it benefits certain ones. And you try to make everyone happy, so you spread that sunshine everywhere. Although many people find it annoying or weird how anyone would be positive all the time (don't get it wrong, it's an awesome thing to be positive. :) ) they just don't deserve the love you give them. I also hope I didn't type too much, I hope this kind of helped though, even if it didn't, I hope at least you felt some sympathy from a random person on the internet. I'm not a bad person, I come for no harm, but to share some empathy. Thanks for having to spend your time on this! I truly appreciate! Remember that people here, weather they know you or not, they care lots about you, and from now on, I will clasp my wish for you the best in the future. :D
@cinnamonrollsenpai44372 жыл бұрын
i don’t ask people about their lives, but if they mention anything they like i ask them to tell me more and it’s so nice to hear them talk. i like hearing about what makes people happy, because they get happy just talking about it :)
@ravlee2 жыл бұрын
2 WAYS TO MAKE PEOPLE LIKE YOU MORE: 1. BE YOU 2. FOLLOW TO NUMBER 1
@cristaljustice45342 жыл бұрын
That's why they don't like me
@dibakarbabu43852 жыл бұрын
@@cristaljustice4534 Don't worry, right people will find you.
@czowiekkontraswiat82792 жыл бұрын
thx i dont need this , im alone and better for people when they hold distance
@tuszlo71152 жыл бұрын
HARDLY AGREE.
@tuszlo71152 жыл бұрын
@@cristaljustice4534 right ppl will find you 😌 also, why would you be liked by everyone?
@swordsnorchids19972 жыл бұрын
Honestly, if you're in any way different or a little more complex, not seen as the fun person 24/7 than people often don't have interest or patience for you nowadays.
@carojammer2 жыл бұрын
I really love how caring and sweet Psych2go community is.
@sunvieightmaster882 жыл бұрын
This videos are gonna be liked by many people for this month.
@kbug0942 жыл бұрын
I LOVE THE ART IN THIS VIDEO SO MUCH AHHHH
@sandromauriciopeirano98112 жыл бұрын
Finding this channel is one of the best things that could had happen in this pandemic. I really love this content and helps me self improve, specislly in social skills, which I feel I didn't care much for it before
@kmmmmmma2 жыл бұрын
as someone who would love to be a therapist someday, these videos bring me so much joy (i know this video isn't about mental health but just wanted to put it out there)
@bee17712 жыл бұрын
As an autistic person this helps so much cuz I'm not the best at adhering to social normativity and don't want to come off as scary
@bee17712 жыл бұрын
@@Itz_Rubayet I'm confused sorry
@wuhoho46872 жыл бұрын
@@bee1771 I mean it's sounds like they were being rude in reference to you mentioning your autism because you mentioned it but I think it's totally fair enough to mention it because autism obviously affects you in this area! I'm glad the video might've been able to help a little as a reference point to thinl.about when around people :)
@bee17712 жыл бұрын
@@wuhoho4687 oh thankyou sorry I didn't understand that comment thankyou
@wuhoho46872 жыл бұрын
@@bee1771 it's no problems
@bee17712 жыл бұрын
@@wuhoho4687 :3
@rest15852 жыл бұрын
I’m a pretty extroverted person who likes talking to everyone but I’m not always successful because their not comfortable enough with me. So maybe this will help. Anyone else feel the same?
@florin92432 жыл бұрын
I am very introverted and i'm not confortable enough with anyone 🤣. I feel the same, sort of.
@rest15852 жыл бұрын
@@florin9243 lol
@yj_holic45902 жыл бұрын
@@florin9243 me too, am introverted, but I can talk to people who approach first... I believe I am a good listener, if anyone want to share their problems or something.
@czowiekkontraswiat82792 жыл бұрын
no im oposite of you i dont like other people so i dont talk to them at all and better for them when they hold distance
@florin92432 жыл бұрын
@@yj_holic4590 i like it too when people approach first. I don't how to start a conversation. I usually start with "hello" or "how are you" then after i don't know what to say anymore. Now ik someone will say that we both made an approach, but let's not compare the ease of tapping with real life.
@ryuzakisimms10192 жыл бұрын
Amanda's voice is soothing. Thank you for these helpful tips.
@jojomacabre2 жыл бұрын
Your videos always look and feel so clean and polished, and the artwork is so pretty. Thank you for these videos, they're truly helpful to some people.
@301SO2 жыл бұрын
Whoever does these illustrations is awesome! It helps keep interest in the topic so much!
@ThalonRamacorn2 жыл бұрын
Interesting, especially for me who cannot really tell anything from facial expressions or gestures. Also I love a good, intelligent debate, for me it is fun. I can debate without judging others... some people are just a bit too sensitive in my opinion. It takes a while for me to make friends... Also I once tried mimicing the others movements and speech pattenrs to make myself more likeable, they noticed it and were confused. Its hard to do without them noticing
@ANTSEMUT12 жыл бұрын
Good advice as usual, but i just watch these because of how soothing Amanda Silvera's voice is.
@MangoHavoc36812 жыл бұрын
Sometimes im a bit mad,sometimes im calm, thx for this video
@louvi74172 жыл бұрын
Your voice relaxes me more than Lofi and relaxing ASMR, your art makes me want to sleep and cuddle my blanket. You have to be one of the nicest and most calm person in the world. I hope u keep making content like this, even though I’m not super stressed but I become happy when I watch your videos!
@deputyrook62322 жыл бұрын
P2G: "every opinion matters" that one guy: "stan lee wasn't that great." me: "i won't judge you. i'll just let god do that."
@ZkullShot2 жыл бұрын
The same applied to Keanu Reeves, every opinion matters, just that some of them suck ass
@bethjones80572 жыл бұрын
I love these videos! Thank you so much for them, I always try to be positive, it gets hard sometimes. Keep up the great work, you guys, it helps a whole lot♥️💙💜
@hacki22112 жыл бұрын
The fact that I already do most of these things has given me a huge confidence boost
@FrostyFix42 жыл бұрын
This so helped and it made me realize who feel comfy around me and who does not! Like the other day my gfs sisters bf was with me and while me and him where running for fun next to each other he said to me “you know I think we are going to be great friends” and that mad me feel more connected to him
@didi68162 жыл бұрын
I really like this channel and your work. But honestly, I don't know if my point of view isn't right but I don't feel that it's really important to "make people like you". It's like it send 2 wrong messages : 1. You need people to like you as if it was a goal in life and 2. You need to consciously act a certain way to make others like you wich in my opinion suppress a part of authenticity. I'm not saying that it's bad to make people like you more or to want to be more likeable. Just that there is so many vidéos just on this channel like that (how to know if someone like you offline and online and those stuff). We are not all the same and the way we express our emotion can be so wide. Don't forget as they say themselves, those videos are for educational purpose only.
@joelcampos87952 жыл бұрын
Everyone wants people to like them. I think these tips are meant to help people who maybe don't have very good social skills and just want to improve in that area. I agree that you should always be authentic and not try to be someone you're not. But I don't think that's what they're saying. For the most part these are just tips for being a better person.
@SoKelly2 жыл бұрын
I think we should all want to be a likable person while also being okay and at peace with the fact that not everyone will like you. Sometimes being “authentic” to “who we are” becomes a road block to bettering ourselves, and can easily promote the excuse “that’s just how I am” when in actuality it’s “that’s just what I know” & good genuine people that care about themselves and others will do better when they know better.
@kawaiiamarii22402 жыл бұрын
I think doing anything (well, most) of these things contrary to what the video says, it was high time to change anyway. These things is just about being nicer, it has nothing to do with actually changing your personality.
@payske48272 жыл бұрын
"Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know if your going to be given to someone and eaten alive." A famous quote for valentine's day soon! (I promise I didn't change it)
@yukk94812 жыл бұрын
@Regina George LMAO
@dawntannerofficial39232 жыл бұрын
I like that when the person in the beginning is gossiping they have a bad/dead leaf on their head but when people are being nice they have a good leaf or a healthy flower on their head
@my._bestays Жыл бұрын
Tbh, I love this art style SOOO much.
@nameno76582 жыл бұрын
Great video! My idea for your future youtube videos are about 16 types of personality, because I think they are not really helping me finding "the one" after taking the test. Keep it up!!
@ohsovague2 жыл бұрын
Hey psych2go! I must ask, can you do a video over ASD vs ADHD? I'd love more knowledge to be spread about them and the difference between them!
@grahamdamberger71302 жыл бұрын
It's amazing to see what kinds of topics a lot of youtubers and channels can come up with based on the kind of research that they find from college and university studies. Definitely a lot of interesting topics available for class and dinner discussions covered by channels like this one.
@cheerycaramel2 жыл бұрын
I definitely need this.
@kokami162 жыл бұрын
Same😭
@Pablo-V2 жыл бұрын
I got a problem with all this advice that prevents me from putting it to use: Not getting out of the house enough
@GamerBoy.17612 жыл бұрын
Same here buddy, and I'm introverted. So, it may to be hard to get out of the house sometimes, but we'll get there at some point. We'll have a chance to hangout with our classmates after school and on the weekends.
@hazu41902 жыл бұрын
1- Talk good about other people compliments 2- be aware of your body language 3- be aware of other's body language 4 - try not to judge anyone 5- ask them questions about their life 6- be positive and goofy 7- let the people know that they like you
@H1storyRemembers2 жыл бұрын
Look at how much you’ve grown, been here for six years and still watching to this day!
@bontinz2 жыл бұрын
Thank you P2G for this amazing content to help me and others! 🤗
@im_not_deku_2 жыл бұрын
I just love this channel it helps me so much
@HazardKnight2 жыл бұрын
I've been doing this for a while now! Its true I am friends with a lot of kind people now and Im considered nice.
@SillyGoose-hp6zi Жыл бұрын
I founded this channel to help me not only with my mental health, but also to help me escape life a little-
@owens.studios2 жыл бұрын
Tips on starting conversation to avoid that awful silence?
@yxshitha32722 жыл бұрын
simply asking "hey, what's up?" or "what did you do today" can be the start to an interesting conversation! if there is an awkward silence, let it stay that way for a bit, and ask them another question (it could be anything at all). remember to smile and be positive! also, avoid asking questions where the answer is just a yes or no. for example, "do you like carrots?" can be replied to as "yes", but that's it. instead, maybe try "what is your favourite vegetable?" which can be replied to as "I like carrots! what about you?" which then allows you to answer back, and you both have something good to talk about. also, choose common ground. they may play basketball, and you do too. so talk about that! hope this helps! :)
@andybanda23662 жыл бұрын
anybody else see Encanto characters?
@wowisthisel2 жыл бұрын
i honestly just realized i’m kind of a “likeable” person already because earlier today, me and my friends were all challenged to say something bad about every one in the group. when it came to my turn, i really couldn’t bring myself to say anything that would truly hurt their feelings or be offensive, unless it was something they knew about and accepted happily. (ex: my friend knows she has very strong opinions, so that was the thing that i said i didn’t like about her, and she just said, “yeah, that’s very true. i am very confident in my opinions) also i love the vid, thanks for the advice!
@sunny_unknown2 жыл бұрын
Psych2go, I’ve been watching you guys for a while now and you’ve helped me understand so much, these videos help me change my point of view and even how I act. I have disingenuous A.D.D and with your videos describing how others act with certain disorders like PTSD or OCD, it lets me know how they feel and how they want to be treated, I try to be a likable person most of the time so these tips really help me! I just wanted to say thank you for your amazing videos.
@userm1802 жыл бұрын
proud of you
@Same_Local.Insomnic2 жыл бұрын
The evolution of the animation ♥️
@Psych2go2 жыл бұрын
Do you like this animation?
@Same_Local.Insomnic2 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go yes 👍
@MouthlessMonke11 ай бұрын
3:14 Excuse me, HAVING SEX??? 😭😭😭
@ch3to0zzz212 жыл бұрын
I have trouble socializing in school a lot so this really helps🥰
@b73shl2 жыл бұрын
AHHH I LOVE ALL THE REFERENCES AHHH
@Lo.152 жыл бұрын
I love this channel, it's helpful. These animations and the voice are amazing ૮₍ ˃ ⤙ ˂ ₎ა
@Psych2go2 жыл бұрын
Glad you like it :) What topics would you like us to cover next?
@txnsh_21762 жыл бұрын
this art style is soo adorable 💖💖💖💖🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
@crazilyryan62742 жыл бұрын
I’m that one guy in my friend group at school who sits by myself and does my work. I never give myself the chance to get up and talk to my crush because I can’t muster the courage to talk to them. It really sucks. I’m guessing I have some sort of social anxiety or just extreme shyness.
@user-bu6lj3bw4e2 жыл бұрын
“If you don’t have anything nice to say then just don’t say it” -My grandma
@reemulde65502 жыл бұрын
her voice is so calming
@Jackliino2 жыл бұрын
PLS YOUR DRAWING STYLE IS SO CUTEEEEEE 😭😭😭 and btw this video helped me very much ty!
@unusuallylonglimbs2 жыл бұрын
Anyone else feel a little blushy after this? I can’t wait to start being a better person and to make others feel comfy around me
@jonathanalvarez35912 жыл бұрын
This gave me more confidence. Thank you❤
@05-REDACTED3176 ай бұрын
Remember "to be respected you have to look respectable" - gus fring
@XxHay_HayxX2 жыл бұрын
That chameleon animation made my day because my chameleon died just before Christmas :(
@itsthat79412 жыл бұрын
Reflecting energy is key as well. If a person is happy and jumpy reflect that same energy, (does not mean copy them) and they will tend to like you more since you fit them and they can rely on you.
@itsthat79412 жыл бұрын
And being next to them whether time is good for them or their going through hard times if they lack socialism in bad daily approach them and say what up, u wanna talk yet? I can help you, trust me. And they will build that trust on you since they know that you are willing to help and they can rely on you with their troubles. That will attract more people because they will like the fact that you are supportive as well
@benitabariownersassociatio98352 жыл бұрын
" Spread positivity " Ends up getting bullied due to being too kind
@phoenixrising50882 жыл бұрын
I like myself and my Dog loves me unconditionally and thinks I am perfect. If I'm good enough for him, then I'm good enough for anyone.
@user-kb2gv3ec8l5 ай бұрын
As a social introvert these tips are so helpful
@xusgaming8982 жыл бұрын
Funny fact about the shaking legs thing. My dad usually lets me sit on his thigh when I was a little kid and he would shake his leg as a joke. Well now I'm 16 with that habit, hoping that one day I get to take care of children, I get to be like my dad.
@iisimplystitch2 жыл бұрын
I love how she’s so creative in the art describing I might redraw her characters if it’s ok?…
@urvijain96382 жыл бұрын
Just the right timing!! I have my new class starting from today. Good luck to me.
@faryalwilliam91672 жыл бұрын
Tip, don't ask many personal questions, sometimes people are not comfortable sharing too much
@JynxClip52 жыл бұрын
This video helps so much! Learning about other peoples body language and realizing how you talk about others helps you be so much more positive with others!😄 thanks!
@TheOgMangleGacha2 жыл бұрын
I tried this out and now I have a lot of friends! Thank you so much!!!
@ameliaxx45382 жыл бұрын
i watched this and realized, im not the problem, everyone else just needed to pick on someone.
@jingwen12522 жыл бұрын
Actually tho I’ve learned that the best way is to be your authentic self 💟 we can’t really force anything 🤷🏻♀️whoever likes me , likes me. Whoever doesn’t, doesn’t.😌
@tetsucchi73422 жыл бұрын
why is your voice so calming?
@scarphity_x2 жыл бұрын
These are very helpful but The thing is I always overthink about conversations, and I end up making things awkward then they'll leave
@jubiji2 жыл бұрын
The thumbnail was so adorable
@dragonkfg2 жыл бұрын
"Similarly, try not to keep your arms and legs crossed." I felt called out as I had arms and legs crossed at that moment.
@flimdite2 жыл бұрын
Me the whole time : WRITE THAT DOWN WRITE THAT DOWN. I dont have a crush or anyine i like but i feel like i am disconnected from others i barely talk in school with my friends this helped a lot thank you ♥️
@grabakrfen93372 жыл бұрын
I don’t care at all about any of the topics this channel covers but I like the art and the voice
@mae80412 жыл бұрын
I have always found that when someone tells them they like me I end up liking them back even if I had little to no feelings for them before, so if you really do like someone, don’t be scared of rejection because it will most likely be completely fine.
@williamsanborn91952 жыл бұрын
Number 6 reminded me heavily of an old friend of mine from high school named Liz. She graduated the year before I did. She always had an infectious laugh and everyone loved her because of it, myself included. I wonder how she’s doing… It’s been about 5 and a half years since I talked to her last. 🤔
@RealengoPrimordialDemon2 жыл бұрын
I don't want to be like it more, I'm a introvert/avoider and the last thing I want is for others to take a interest in me.
@barbi86802 жыл бұрын
You don’t have to make someone likes you, just be yourself.
@EpicJackson2 жыл бұрын
I taught myself to use closed body language so that way I don't get approached by people, I don't like speaking..
@rangoligarg26342 жыл бұрын
"Knowing someone likes you will make you like that person too."