Paul seemed to think that fanaticism was enough in Galatians 5.6. James said in James 2.17, James 2.20, and James 2.26 three ways that faith without works is dead. Islam clarifies that every bit of orthodoxy and orthopraxy is endearing to God. The externals with the right intentions is sufficient, but how much more acceptable is it to experience the spiritual connection to spiritual deeds. Trust, pleasing, surrender are certainly all stations we should all take on in our becoming a better Muslim. The most used phrase in English being fake news leaves it not surprising that it applies so much to what people say and express about religion by both those who speak English and where English speakers are a dominant force. Visiting of the graves should be primarily to remember death and then to strengthen the bond in concepts between the living and the dead.