9 Tips For Dealing With An Emotional Woman

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@marishajames3581]

I’ve been talking to my boyfriend about leading with with calm energy whenever I’m openly discussing my feelings with him. I had to teach him that it’s not always about finding a solution. Just actively listen and be loving.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@ColdBloodedVince]

Good luck with your no solution having leader 🤣🤣🤣

[@travelnurseneenee]

i think alot of immature men feel being emotional is always being down and out or sad. EMOTIONAL is EMOTIONAL. there are several types of emotions! thank u for making this video! ❤️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤

[@zeal4god402]

Nah that's perpetual depression. In that instance, she is an assignment, not a purpose partner

[@olamarie5816]

My significant other is great at mastering his emotions. Sometimes he would do something negative reminiscent of what I may have gone through in a previous relationship and I would overreact. He would never engage, he stayed calm and would hear me out and if it was something he thought deserved an apology he would apologize. But what I found was so beneficial in his reaction, was it allowed ME TO HEAR AND SEE how emotional I was being and I was able to calm down and talk to him about how I was feeling, even now when I get upset I mirror him and we are able to handle out disagreements respectfully.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@olamarie5816]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you for all your tips and pointers. I find them to be quite helpful. It’s nice to have strategies in my mental Rolodex when I encounter issues, in my relationship. I’ve been so accustomed to negative exchanges in my relationships it’s been almost weird communicating with a good guy who doesn’t engage, overreact or get mad when I’m not at my best. So hearing your voice in the back of my head ( I listen to your videos more than once) helps me avoid /better handle the bumps in my current relationship. No more sabotaging. So again THANK YOU

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤

[@candywilliams7767]

I agree, learning how to deal with women emotionally the right way, will help, especially if she's the right one for him.💯

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

💯 Yes!

[@RobertSmith-sh5fq]

I don’t ever comment on KZbin videos. Me and my girl been having problems the last few months just from us arguing cause of how you said not finding the real problem instead of what the moment problem. Keep doing your work brother. You’ve given me some wisdom today

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

[@vickyp7700]

If my man stands in his masculine energy I feel reassured I feel his peace his strength I feel safe and I calm down quicker

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!

[@perism1586]

Vicky You're absolutely right! In that specific moment, what I need is a stabilizer. The more calm & masculine you remain, the more your strength shines through 💞

[@sweetie932]

This message is tough to hear, I am an emotional woman.🙂 A male has to though meet the woman in the middle with that calm, leadership masculinity. A different perspective; That soft feminine energy that comes with an emotional woman is usually wanting that masculine protective safe energy to console her.

[@HealthCoaching]

Offer support. That is not when you need masculine energy.

[@3ddythagoat3ddythagoat47]

You have to learn to express your emotions better that is not okay and apologise

[@giantking6744]

Great point sis.But now a days were not dealing with a soft feminine energy we're dealing with a masculine & feminine energy combined lol.

[@operationnarcnemesis2383]

True but you are still responsible for being able to healthy regulate your emotions

[@nick1luke]

yo stephan please post more videos like this for MEN

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I will, thank you I hope you enjoyed watching it!

[@kortiniamartin9682]

Happy Father's day!!! Even if you don't have kids you have helped so many people in the world by teaching!!! Blessings going up!!!!☝ Hope you enjoy your day...

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

[@crystaliiams8410]

HOPE U ENJOYED UR FATHERS DAY

[@blondieb.harris1330]

The relationship check up sounds like a good plan i like 💞

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@humblewarrior7593]

This is very good Stephan! It’s alot but it’s worth it for someone you say that you love.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you I appreciate your response!

[@OKPEK]

Brother Steph! This was truly profound🙏. In 29 minutes I discovered what it truly means to be emotionally intelligent. Thank you

[@chefnic4763]

Don't let anyone tell you you don't have the right to feel how you feel. Being heard and having your feelings validated are essential. Communication with comprehension is necessary in my opinion. This is def coming from an emotional empathic woman ❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

[@MannyLoxx2010]

You are wrong but ok.

[@jeanettebustamante3309]

Omg's thank you so much for explaining that first tip about being her rock. It is so beneficial it's not even funny. By him being my rock it actually allows me to be able to feel and deal with an emotional moment and get through it quickly instead of having to stuff it to now take care of him which makes things worse in the long run.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing. I appreciate that!

[@devinjohnson9749]

This was honestly so helpful, I have had a had time understanding my woman . Staying composed while diving thru her sentences finding the issues.. I look back on it and one major this I noticed the woman that raised me (my mom) Is a very direct person .. she tells what exactly she is thinking . So I’m having to adapted to this it’s definitely a struggle but I love her and I’m trying to get better

[@Matthieu260582]

woman are not scared to used their ultimate weapons: anger and emotions sometimes violence as they will not be punished for in modern society (outside of work) most of time. That is why i use my ultimate weapon: no more relationship no more wedding, you just here to be a girlfriend, nothing more nothing else, you will never ever get the very best of me.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@Texas903G]

Being cheated on and Lied to will make any Woman emotional if you know your emotional. Dont put up with a low down dirty dog to bring out the emotions.

[@kaysgraphicalexpressions219]

Amen sister

[@lyndapeoples8127]

Texas903G...exactly!!!

[@AC-km4gf]

Indeed...

[@killakangz5317]

u been taught wrong. men cant cheat unless itz wit anotha man woman/wife. men can have more than one woman/wife if he chooses to. hope u undastand. peace.

[@kikikiki3216]

Home truth

[@ketsiaisrael8406]

I’m happy you explained this ❤️ I thought I was wrong for being emotional 😭

[@josephinempundu4205]

My late husband would let me get emotional and hear me out, console me assure me that he understood what i was feeling in that moment. But he would promise me that we talk about it when i had calmed down. Two or three days later he would sit me down and explain to me his perspective view of the situation and in most cases i would see logic in where he was coming from and i used to feel embarassed and i would apologise. I learnt a lot from this.

[@boredpandacafe]

Ironic, mine called the fifth point "talking to you is like walking on egg-shell. You're too emotionally unstable. There's nothing wrong with me, it's you." When in truth, I was assertively addressing him why I felt hurt when he's emotional-cheating on me with other women. I just gave up after a while because I didn't feel heard the first three times. Just turned into a lot of resentment towards him.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

[@lyndapeoples8127]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks...lol 😆 you guys make us emotional. 😔 😭 stop it. 🤣😅😆😂😁

[@tanishajones74]

@@lyndapeoples8127 😂

[@alexgear959]

>micro cheating You know what maybe you are kinda crazy. Wtf is micro cheating.

[@boredpandacafe]

@@alexgear959 Emotional-cheating

[@mastahkush2398]

I just had a moment with my woman. She was feeling very emotional because I didn’t check on her yesterday. I told her that she tripping and need to chill out 😂. Came to this video and made me see things differently. I’ll keep these tips in mind and try them out. Great video brother 💯👍🏾

[@TomikaKelly]

What stopped her from reaching out and checking on you?

[@mastahkush2398]

@@TomikaKelly She didn’t, she was just letting me know about myself & coming across this video was a wake up call. We still together till this day learning from each others mistakes & growing ❤️🙏🏾

[@lizcdiaz776]

I like this. I feel this is great advice not just for emotional women but men as well. I definitely dealt w/ emotional men. As a woman it’s odd. So this helps

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad I could help!

[@queenwendyjackson4228]

Thank u Stephan you're exactly right,people need to understand the difference.Love this we are emotional as are some men,but understanding and communication is the key.All the man has to do is make sure she is good in every way,and women need to make sure that man is good in every way then u can't go wrong more important keep Yahweh first blessings everyone.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You're absolutely right, both the man and the woman need to pour into each other and including God in the relationship is important!

[@ketsiaisrael8406]

My ex did not stand in his masculine energy, he didn’t want to listen , he made me feel worst then I already did and he would say mean things. He always said I had masculine energy! Every time I got emotional the issue I had wouldn’t be recognized but we would have extra issues and whatever I was emotional about would be forgotten and I would remain emotional and become even worst. Sometimes I felt like I was arguing with a woman. Afterwards I felt a pain I couldn’t understand, I was confused. I love a man with calm masculine energy, it really helps me feel secure and safe and less emotional. I’m happy you spoke on this topic❤️ please talk about “how to know when a man is manipulating you.”🙏🏽

[@kid3686]

Yeah sometimes acting like a piece of shit can get you dumped it’s life

[@TomikaKelly]

It sounds like you don't know how to control and regulate your emotions and communicate effectively. If you're doing this, you wouldn't be "getting emotional."

[@cammyTalksLife]

Thank you Stephan on clarifying and handling an emotional woman . Each situation is different and delicate, but you covered it all with great advice and care . Happy Sunday and Blessings.🙏❤️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤🙂 Thank you!

[@christinacapps8261]

I am a very emotional person. I cry when I'm mad, upset etc. I got out of a very toxic abusive relationship. Physically, emotionally, verbally, and mentally. When I'd start crying during him accusing me of doing something I didn't, he said why are you crying if you didn't do it. That it makes me look guilty. So now in my current relationship I am quick to explain myself or defend myself even though there's no need to. I go into defense mode because I'm so used to it. When a man raises their voice at me , it usually upsets me to the point I cry. My boyfriend trys his hardest to understand how I am emotionally, it is just hard sometimes.

[@kerryanderson3060]

Some Women can be so manipulative at times, and using these so called emotions. A woman who uses her Brain, instead of yelling and screaming is far better and honest. A woman who is calm, and intelligent with her emotions is far more loving 🥰 and genuine and caring. And she actually knows this. I’m a woman, so this is from a woman’s point of view. A woman who talks to God, will be calm and loving 🥰 with her emotions

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@loveismylanguage9162]

I agree, but to say you never get upset and maybe cry or get upset is a lie. Let’s be honest and truthful. Unless of course, you are passive aggressive. A-lot of people are calm and then aggressive in other ways.

[@devontaejordan4644]

Sounds like you’ve been born again

[@AllNamesTaken2]

Not true. You can’t speak for all women. You don’t have the same Hormones and wiring and past as every other woman. So no not all women of God are calm. And it’s not that you’re not intelligent nor loving or genuine if you’re not calm. That’s ridiculous to say😂 you won’t find a more Devoted person to God than me. But my emotions can’t just be handled, same with 99% of women whom has some sort of ptsd, trauma, bad upbringing, bad past relationships. You can be born again and still have triggers. You can be in situations that triggers your fight or flight. You can have pms hormones raging and not a thing to do about you’re not close to God or anything else. So you are not speaking from a woman’s point of view but simply, your own. Thank you. I know plenty God fearing woman who are the best loving most genuine women. And I know many calm women who are snakes. So puh-lease don’t make men think that is true. The most manipulative and malicious women aren’t loud. They are the most quiet people in fact.

[@AureliaBessard]

This is good. Every situation is unique...

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You're absolutely right! Thank you for sharing!

[@12Messenger]

Hey Aurelia you're so fine. I just had to throw that out there. Hope you have a good day

[@JamaicaLove876]

Great video. Lead by example is always key, remain calm, and establish a foundation of open communication. Agree, that women are usually wired emotionally and they are also really great at expressing their feelings. A man who loves his woman learns to listen with his heart and open his eyes to feel her spirit. Looking beyond the surface always unveils the depth of the issue and the root cause. Productive, consistent communication when calm is key and allows both individuals to learn each other at their core. Prayer is key and healing is essential. When you master your emotions, you master your life. Thank you for the video, be blessed.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much and may you be blessed as well!

[@tashajones7864]

@Naomi 💯

[@peaceful_and_blessed2879]

Love this Stephan! I sure do appreciate a man who is in control and understanding when I have my emotional moments. Its a great balance and all ends well. 🙌

[@allthings...crustymami6514]

The opening line......you gotta love Stephan, he truly speaks!

[@healingwithpatience]

Some men create more-emotional women by handling those situations poorly but doing other things that give her false hope that things will get better.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I feel you. it definitely isn't an easy situation but we need to focus on doing what is truly best!

[@yolandam611]

Yes the lack of communication use to drive me insane. I dated the worst communicator ever, and I would have emotional outbursts and go off. I realized that this person would never change therefore never meet my mental and emotional needs. We were complete opposites in every area. Truth be told, after 4 1/2 years off and on, I never felt like I knew him. It was an emotional rollercoaster. I had to get off to keep my sanity.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing I pray that you heal from all that you have been through!

[@whatshesaid23]

Wow I’m going through this right now ! Glad you found a way out. Bad communication is such a killer. For me I was the last one to send a message, it was factual but with questions and yes some emotional things I wish I hadn’t of said. I asked if he really wanted to be in relationship with me and he has not replied since. I’m unsure whether to ask again, it’s turning me into someone I am not .

[@yolandam611]

@@whatshesaid23 Sounds so familiar. I am a middle aged woman and you don't want to be going through this at any age. Life is too short.. truly. Don't waste your time if you've given him to get it right and he hasn't, move on. It's just not worth your sanity

[@whatshesaid23]

@@yolandam611 thankyou for replying 💚 so true life is too short, I’m 26 and even though it’s only been a few months together I don’t think I couldn’t handle a lifetime of this, Its just sad that it wasn’t like this in the beginning, Love and learn I guess

[@josephchess2624]

“ It doesn’t matter what you say, it’s how you say it” BOOOOM!!!

[@perism1586]

It's not what you say, it's how you say it! 💯 Golden👌

[@ItsOkayToBeHappy]

I love how Stephan addresses all the thoughts you are probably having while listening (ie: I don't feel like doing all this) lol

[@austinhilton9266]

Why don’t you feel like doing them

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤🙂 Thank you!

[@joegaragozzo1640]

Diffuse that mine. It's something that I have learned and mastered with time and maturity. I learned the hard way but this is gold for young dudes . This is golden info for those young lads!

[@kaysgraphicalexpressions219]

Stephan is here for me. I am very emotional but I try to not let it run me

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

It really helps when you embrace that. Thank you for sharing!

[@Dania.q]

I’m not a man, but I needed this video to know how to deal with my emotionally unstable mother 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@ItsOkayToBeHappy]

Same

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad I could help!

[@noneofyourbuizness]

Mama might suffer from something deeper

[@Dania.q]

@@noneofyourbuizness 100% it’s deeper issues. She had a very difficult life growing up, so I try my best to be patient and understanding. She refuses to go to therapy, so for now all I can do is learn how to tolerate her erratic behaviour, and try to heal from the trauma she put me through, so I can make sure I don’t repeat this cycle when I have my own children in the future.

[@AB_1211]

Good stuff Stephan. I love this dude. Ladies, send this to your man.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@kenallenchannel3911]

Blessed to learn this at 21

[@jddiesel3447]

Thank u for sharing this, important information king.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤

[@thisismystone9658]

I love it when I listen to men being talked to. It gives me hope. Our bodies are a set up for disaster. Sometimes you are acting up and you yourself wonder what exactly the matter with you is. Let's be kind to each other. Otherwise, men are heroes.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@mw7882]

Hormones are real. When I was a teenager I thought that it was an excuse for grown women to act DISrespectful until it happened to me. The only way to counter it is a healthy diet, exercise, and healthy masculine energy.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@austinhilton9266]

You are making a lot of sense here

[@tess7798]

I sometimes become emotional if I feel like a lot have a lot on plate, and suddenly, one more thing is added which makes it all just too much to handle. What I need most is a hug and to know that someone can be strong and calm when I can’t. To me, that solid support is priceless.

[@TomikaKelly]

Perhaps you should learn how to manage time, responsibilities, and stress better so you don't find yourself in these situations...🙃🤷

[@taylormadejay6064]

Man this HIT. I def needed this video bro

[@heronbaycourt]

Needed this refresher, just had a situation, and I got sucked into the emotion...

[@tashajones7864]

This was well detailed, filled with CLARITY 🙏🏽 , I BELIEVE THAT WHEREVER MY FUTURE HUSBAND IS, HE'S NOT JUST A SUBSCRIBER 📲 OF YOUR KZbin channel but a Listener👂🏾 💯.... Masculine Energy Facing things Head on 4 sure! God Fearing Disciplined Emotional Maturity Communicator Etc..

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

[@tiagriffin2196]

What me dont realize. When he embrace at the time of emotional melt downs that makes her want to trust him more as well as be more submissive to him. Because at that time he's making her feel safe with him.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@DivinelyGuided777]

No matter the situation at hand, both parties man and woman; should sit down with each other and have a civilized conversation, agree to disagree, (do not) talk over each other; be respectful to and towards each other at all times…allow each other to express your feelings, wants, needs, etc; in a calm loving peaceful manner; otherwise, it create trauma in one’s mind…..do unto others as you would want them to do unto you; feel each other’s hearts ♥️ and remember the love ❤️ you have for one another, then proceed forward ❤️👑🙏🏻

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Yes, it is always important to express any concerns that you have in a calm, loving , and peaceful manner. It really helps when we embrace that. Thank you for sharing!

[@DivinelyGuided777]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks you’re welcome 😇 ❤️👑🙏🏻

[@RyuKen0601]

This is so accurate and helpful.

[@reneebcc]

Yes great communication and relationship checkups holds each other accountable and shows whether they should be together or not. ❤😍

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You're absolutely right thank you for sharing!

[@alyu9337]

“Whatever she may say or do at the moment”? No men needs to deal with any women that’s disrespectful no matter what

[@myslali5065]

This happened to me today felt sad about something and communicated with him about why I was sad calmly yet.. he burst out and said I was being petty and being overly emotional and then said I need sometime to learn to be mature.. I’ve never been sadder😢😢

[@deanj8870]

This is awesome wisdom for the men. Keep up, the great work👑🙏🏾📖

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤🙂 Thank you!

[@kerryanderson3060]

Let our actions be so loud, ( in a good way ) that the words cannot be heard.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@jahunt5792]

Thank you for the TRUTH!!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ Thank you!

[@mwhite805]

Yes, Good advice again Yes life is a journey and there's ,alot of different directions, in life and trying to make a relationship work takes two people who want the same But , when you have tryed and the communication is not there and no show of effect to make it work to see how to make it work to find out what is the real issue ,and you have prayed , it's time to move on it cause you have put forth the effort and care towards the relationship than it doesn't have to be the woman who is emotional, but what about the man ?

[@Averagesasquatch]

I wish in the decades of therapy I've done, the therapists taught me about this stuff (or what healthy relationships look like it really anything at all). I learned it from books. Much of it parenting books. Anyway, very good advice. I like how you talk about your faith but you're not pushy about it. I'm not really religious but I got no problem with other people's beliefs and learning about them. Another point, if you have kids, modeling this behavior for them will teach them to be healthier and not fall for abusive people. it will teach your daughters to respect themselves enough to not fall for abusive men and teach your sons not to be abusive. Even do this for them. I do this for my daughter. In parenting it's called coregulation. We need you hear in three Bay Area to speak to these young men. They need a push in this direction.

[@myselfmadeeye7613]

This dude is a scholar and a gentleman

[@abbykendrick5748]

Thank you so much for this.. 💯♥️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤

[@Plantladytiff]

I’ve tried so hard to explain this to my boyfriend. He wonders when he does stuff that hurts me like ignoring me for hours, calling me names, forwarding me, threatening the relationship oe lying. When I have pointed these things out and how they hurt, I get deflection oe that I talk too much or that I’m making a big deal out of nothing. I have spent 2 years in tears now…

[@heatherjeffrey8997]

Thanks Stephan for making this video.

[@godseed79]

This was so good!!!! I'm sharing. ❤

[@Focus293]

Yo this has really opened my eyes

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@rubiwade8009]

Ugh!! It’s very frustrating because I’ve had my moments where I’d have an emotional outburst and that turns into an argument. He’d call me emotionally immature so I self reflected and started working on effectively listening and better communication (I’ve been in therapy) And when would implement it during future arguments I start to realize I wasn’t the only problem. Almost all of our arguments were “my fault” because I “always complain, am never satisfied, try to be controlling”. But watching this makes me realize another factor. Almost always would he get super defensive before I could even try to explain what I’m feeling. And if it made no sense to him he would disregard it. We’d still argue. Then we would “make up” but never address the problem. So it made it really hard for me to try to express my emotions so I could keep the peace because I associated expressing my feelings with arguments and breaking up. But in the meantime I was suppressing so many emotions and they would be triggered by certain things he did or said. We would argue again and it became a continuous cycle. All I was looking for what understanding, acknowledgement and accountability. I just wanted us to create a safe space for each other where could openly express our emotions without fear of conflict; where I could feel emotionally safe with him. Often times I felt accepted when I’m “good” but pushed away when im not. So I started to suppress my feelings more and developed feelings of ambivalence and resentment. So we’re broken up now (probably a blessing) because to him I seem ungrateful because he’s bought me things and spent time with me and I’m never satisfied. And though all of that is great, I just wanted to feel emotionally safe.

[@arusu1806]

I feel this so deeply.

[@HandyPandy989]

He probs looking for new women and perhaps a white or Latina one 😅

[@kikikiki3216]

This guy is just amazing...🙏🏾💖. Thank you Stephan. This guy am currently with thinks he can be affectionate with me one time and not other times and he feels like that's ok. He will say things like " If I didnt kiss you yesterday, does it mean, I can't kiss you now? When I want to discuss what's at hand, he calls me English (implying am a westernized black woman, he's African by the way). He was shivirous at first but not anymore. Few days ago, I asked why he didn't kiss or hugg me,he said it's because he doesn't want to hurt me as I just had surgery a week ago. Okay I understand if he says let's hold out on sex, but am I really asking too much? No huggs no kisses. This is a man that was very reluctant to bring me something I needed in the hospital. Saying he's tired from working the night before even though he went to the gym right after work as he usually does and went right home. When I sensed the hezitance, I said don't worry I will bear the pain till the doctors come. He's just never intentional about doing things with me and he expects me to be there and be his girlfriend.🤦 Please let me know if am currently asking for too much ladies/gentlemen/Stephan. Your guy/significant other, refuses to come see you in hospital, when you get discharged he comes to visit you empty handed, he gives you a lift to pick up food that you ordered and paid for that he will partake from. But won't do the things he did to get with you in the first place. To me, he's basically showing me am not needed full stop.

[@Touchedmymouthministriesint]

Pro 15:1 A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.

[@TheTimeOracle1234]

I like this 💯

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙂 Thank you!

[@rialove6943]

Lol my BF is the emotional one and always in his feelings. I feel like the man always choosing how to respond.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏 I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best

[@SanctifiedLady]

Great video… not many masculine empathetic understanding men that take responsibility for what they do to trigger us… then the very thing they love about is the very things they hate in the moment how stupid they don’t see how much better the intimacy gets after him giving space to discuss what made us “feel” this way. We are in a monthly cycle with ever changing menstrual demands and our responsibilities on our shoulders … a man that doesn’t get this is undeserving of a true queen that’s willing to have their backs…but they don’t have ours

[@TomikaKelly]

Your period and your responsibilities don't give you a license to act like you don't have hometraining or to behave like a child.

[@queenqueen1685]

I built walls 😔 DAMN the man said hey how u doing , I tore him to streads 😐 I was very Emotional that day . I felt so bad the look on his face he was diffently hurt , SMH I was just mad because I miss him couldn't tell him that .. Thank you I pray for healing , how I think as well..❤🙏

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

[@chike4697]

You started off the video perfectly

[@OCLuvsNKOTB]

Be a thermostat not a thermometer ❤️

[@rajamukhaimer1533]

I listen to your advice to know how to deal with my emotional sister thank you 🌹

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤

[@narviaflournoy3869]

Yes Lord I Pray !! 📢🌎🛠😊🙏🏽🌃🌇 Thank You for sharing this beautiful message !!

[@TheBeneby21]

Super Helpful! THANK YOU BROTHER !

[@OrignalAndTrUe]

This is real it needs to be more woman who watch this video and in reality a lot of shit don’t be that deep!!!

[@celestinebennett212]

"Can you withstand my storm" one of the most important questions to ask before dating a guy ...dont think they understood what it means...when choosing a life partner we have to choose wisely ..How are they going to handle being triggered when my Hormones are up on the roof, will they stay and be a "Tornado" or will they walk away and come back when all is calm and talk about it ...Attraction is the easiest part but can you stand with a Musculine Energy (King) and Lead as a Man God Created you to Be ....if you cant handle a situation know what happens when kids come in ...You have to be a King of your Castle 👑

[@shergan4031]

everytime im having my "emotional moment" he is not talking to me for days. then he'll talk me after a week as if nothing happen...

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏 I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best

[@shergan4031]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks i really hope so. thank you and more power.

[@austinhilton9266]

@@shergan4031 but you are controlling your emotions now right

[@shergan4031]

@@austinhilton9266 not anymore. i already said what i needed to say. i resolved it on my own coz he doesn't want to talk. I resolved it in a way which i think its best.

[@noneofyourbuizness]

Thats called an Avoidant

[@mike87364]

Very well said

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

[@abigailgrimes7070]

Really love the way you appeal to and challenge the perception of masculine strength... what that means, and how it impacts a relationship. And love the emphasis on communication and perception. Another great message, thank you so much for sharing!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤

[@MannyLoxx2010]

I'm not listening to illogical, irrational, emotionalism from a woman!! I will dismiss any and all women and or men that aren't calm, cool and collected!! She needs to get away from me, my brother!! I'm staying masculine and strong by not tolerating such mess by a woman!!

[@TomikaKelly]

It doesn't sound like you're into women....😬🤨

[@Megan6772]

Wondering why you clicked the video then 🤔

[@marilynflores7649]

I really enjoyed watching this video. ❤ please make one relating to men... thank you Stephan

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!

[@marilynflores7649]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks looking forward to it.

[@1afaro]

All a man wants is unconditional respect

[@mrzkikibabychannel282]

Wow! Stephan Speaks this is good. Every 9pts of emotional woman 👠 . Thank you taking this video to use working on myself. Be more calm, 🆒 collect on to the Man 👞 9pts of emotional Man. As of women be more understanding, listen 👂 to the man 👞 but don't get caught up in the man emotional either. She have to say to herself this her Man, not get emotional attach in his situation. Listen, to it moment calm loving God matters of heart thru his trouble times. Still ladies attend you praying for your Man that the uplifting moment of a emotional Man 👞. Same in visa versa with a us emotional woman 👠. U want our Man of God to pray for our trouble emotional woman 9pts like Stephan Speak 🗣️ say. This was good advice.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤🙂 Thank you!

[@toyabdool5127]

We as men trying to fix ourselves we have to fix these types of women too

[@Bobbyagreeen]

Good advice brother

[@chasebagherieh3869]

Thank you

[@FaithLuv4PHOTOGRAPHY]

These videos come in time for me..

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback.

[@kindguy314]

Man I hate how long it takes for these channels to get to their message smh.

[@lorayj115]

All Good Points, I've Tried To Tell Some Men Some Of The Things That U Mentioned .... A Person Needs To Get Heal Before An Commitment First Where Things Wont Get Worse. Now, My Question Is What If A Person Trying To Get Healed By Seeking Mental Health And Crying Out n Prayer For Healing An A Change n Their Life And It Seems Like Nothing Is Happening .... What's Next ?

[@vyscious]

I hear a lot of excuses for unstable behavior smh, cannot cosign this.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

[@alyu9337]

At all - so men are some rock to these disrespectful people and we should just eat it? Hell no

[@adrianamejia7548]

I wish my x could had understood this . I was in a relationship for 4-5 years and i dealt with excuses all the time to why he would go talk to girls. It never counted when we would be arguing he would turn off his phone and go do his own thing and like a dummy I would take him back . When I would talk it about it would make him pissed off. At the end it make me crazy I felt like I was losing my mind and he would call me crazy and tel me to get over it. Our last argument he was laughing at me and telling my son I was an idiot and started to insult my son and I finally left and he’s on to the next.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

[@adrianamejia7548]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks idk if u will see this but do u have any advice for me . I know I shouldn’t have done this but I went on his Instagram that he activated 5 days after us not talking and I can see he’s already dm girls . He hasn’t changed his passwords like he usually does . Is he doing this to hurt me . I erased his passwords off my phone . I just don’t understand. He said he didn’t need Instagram and it was nothing but he’s on it . Like I said I know I’m wrong for looking

[@cedricedwards2629]

Needed this 🎯

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that!

[@cedricedwards2629]

Thank you my G

[@alyu9337]

You don’t need no woman being super disrespectful- once they start they’ll always will be disrespectful and end up being super foul to you

[@briansmith8079]

Having never had a father figure it is hard for me to grasp all of this. But in my current marriage something has to change and now I see it's me. Or I loose the one I love.

[@pfiffikuskus2880]

So beautiful to see such an attitude😭 good luck! Hope your marriage will get better

[@Realness4sho]

Women/Men both.....Should be grounded, balanced and aligned With God and Self before dating.😃This will differently prevent any “Unnecessary Drama” without a doubt!! 💯🔥🔥🔥

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

💯 Yes!

[@nicolepeterson5829]

Wow, brilliant.

[@euriahsegun6362]

Im 24 dating the girl i want to marry. It seems like im gon always have to be the emotionally mature partner in this relationship. Like im always gonna have to treat her like a child that’s overwhelmed, just so i can lead us like i need to.

[@TomikaKelly]

So why are you still dating her? (Unless, ofc, you want to be in a relationship with a child...)

[@nokulungamoyo2296]

I wanna watch this

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤🙂 Thank you! I hope you'll enjoy watching.