A difficult conversation-overcoming confusion.

[@BelindaShanle]

It is hard to see Ed struggle and it's also heartwarming knowing it's all about caring for his family.❤

[@n.w.414]

Grandpa is a lesson to us all. Family is what counts!

[@kimberlyk8505]

DAN...You did an awesome job addressing your dad’s concerns and made him feel that he had authority over his own choices. Excellent example of how to communicate with a person with memory issues.

[@Cannarozzi1234]

Very well said!!!❤

[@bethshebas]

Agreed. Dan is doing an excellent job. I have much respect for him

[@berniceherrera5003]

Dan I thank God you love your dad.i would love to know why don't you eat with your dad.the vido's that I have seen your dad eat's along 😉 😀. I would think he would love You to eat with him.GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR DAD.AND DAN TAKE CARE OF YOUR SELF.I JUST LOVE ❤️ 😍 💖 ❣️ YOUR DAD.THANK YOU FOR TAKEING CARE OF HIM AND MAY GOD BLESS YOU FOR THAT.GOODNIGHT GOD BLESS

[@carhiewyatt5972]

Excellent job Dan

[@lauras6762]

What a great father. Always thinking about his kids and making sure he can support them. What a great man!

[@sonalichatterjee951]

It's heartbreaking and heartwarming at the same time❤ Ed reminds me of my late father in law who was an airline pilot and at 89 he still believed that the airline would call him back any day and ask him to command a flight. Love to Ed and family from Mumbai India

[@marlonbabb2034]

That's so understandable , he must have flown planes for decades. I'm a Flight Attendant and I've worked with some of those guys that's ALL the consume their lives with , is Aviation 🤗... I've seen a few guys retire by force because of age 65 ( I just heard they're extending retirement by 2 yrs ) and a few of them would take on call/part time jobs just Taxing Planes from the Hangers to the Gates , just to get back on the planes , they are company men... I have a Aunt that's in a Living Facility with Dementia and she was a RN for 40+ yrs , so when she 1st got there she would try to take other residents Temps & what not... It's amazing how the brain works, it's so fragile. I like how some ppl only go back to the loving gentle parts of their lives as opposed to being constantly confused & combative , my Dad's at that stage right now , and it's hard sometimes. I just agree with everything he says, when I visit🤗🥰

[@SoulM8dSunshine]

@dsalnorcal it breaks my heart when they still know that they are confused and can’t communicate. You’re doing a great job Dan!

[@mariedelima9947]

@@marlonbabb2034It is very very interesting. I just can’t stop watching it over and over again.THIS IS REAL LIFE The son Dan is coping very well. H e has the patience of God I think. Bless his heart.

[@myrakucharski552]

Dan, youre dong a great job, with your dad! Ed is such a thoughtful man about his family! God bless you and yoour family for taking such good care of your dad! It's a big responsibility! Keep up the good work!!

[@RobertGraham-f2y]

My mom was 92 and thought I was trying to kill or poison her and then every time I had to leave for a few minutes and had her sister come over mom would think I was kidnapped and br sure something awful happened to me even tho I was BK in an hour. To her That was a long time. She like Ed wanted her keys to Her car too and would go out and try to drive without them and be soooo angry. Difficult days. Chris from Michigan

[@sherryscaringe7976]

Even when he is struggling he has a bit of a smile on his face. He is amazing. I hope I can be like him if I ever develop dementia.♥️

[@TheGaredbug]

I love this man. SO so precious. If only every father would be as concerned about their children's well being as he is. God bless him.

[@arcticwanderer2109]

1. Where is my car? 2. Where is my checkbook? 3. Where is my brother bill? 4. Where is my house? what did I do with the money? Dan and Danielle have to answer these and other questions more than 20 times a day. Guys I tell you it is very very hard. Major respect.

[@sarahjane8949]

👏👏👏👏💯💯💯💯👍👍

[@Valerie654]

❤️❤️❤️

[@cindifischer6919]

Yes and Ed hears it like it's the first time every time.

[@ksmith9207]

Yes, I agree!!. I assisted my Mother in Law when she was going through it. I just answered her repeated questions as if they were the first time she asked it.

[@MarthaHernandez-jc1ql]

Aprendiendo Ingles con Las clases Aqui ❤

[@bettyboop4263]

At 91 he has a lot of things stored in his mind and it takes awhile to get his thoughts sorted out❤ He just wants to be sure his loved ones are doing ok❤

[@mollieboldt2696]

❤❤❤

[@lisashreve3937]

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[@lisashreve3937]

Spirulina will help your dad's condition by all ,eans do your own research but I myself had ,Emory issues due to a brain injury but I started taking spirulina and I can't even begin to tell you what it's done for my memory and over all brain health hope you see this god bless you guys lisa

[@wendylu6939]

He must have been a great podiatrist. It's very evident. 😊

[@sarahjane8949]

I just want to give Ed a big hug 😭🙏🏻❤️ and his smile and laugh is the best ❤️

[@forrestmanueljr9196]

I love his little laugh he does so often! He has a heart that everyone needs. There's one thing for certain and that's the love and concern for all of his family.

[@deb9160]

There is not a minute in the day that Grandpa isn't thinking of his children's well being❤ REAL FAMILY MAN❤

[@jazzy-jazz6798]

Once a father always a father ❤ he has more concern, about his children, than his own self! What a kind gentle man! WE LOVE YOU ED 🥰❤

[@denisemmunger9437]

Definitely heart wrenching to see Grandpa Ed or anyone struggle to think what they want to say. It could be one of us someday.

[@CCitis]

If we are lucky!

[@srjwildcat3589]

​@@CCitis If you're lucky???? You mean unlucky. NOBODY wants to have or deal with a loved one going through this.

[@daniel2377]

@@srjwildcat3589he meant lucky to reach 91

[@CCitis]

@@srjwildcat3589 If you are I make it to 91, and are as happy as him, we will be lucky. My Grandma dealt with dementia for 12 years

[@sweetpotato7702]

Amazing. Ed has so much love and care for his family. Your parents raised amazing kids, it shows with your love( and of course Danielle's too) and care back to your parents.

[@markdalton3900]

All Ed cares about is the family happy,this shows you how they care for each other! THIS IS A REAL FAMILY!

[@paulastahl7227]

This brought tears to my eyes, because he is always so concerned about his children. What a wonderful human being. ❤❤

[@amandamuzyka3704]

I can't. I just can't. He is so sweet. All he wants in his old age is to make sure all his kids are OK. So universal. Ageless. All we ever want. Thank you so much for sharing!!

[@justjane805]

Dan, I admire your ability to wait silently while your father struggles to find the word he wants. I need to follow your lead and do this more often with my Mum. I am too quick to offer suggestions of words. You continue to educate and inspire me. Thanks.

[@maggiedoor6093]

If we jump in too soon it interferes with their thought processing. My husband has aphasia from a stroke and it's often tempting to produce the word to hurry things along. He will ask for help when needed though.

[@melodytan8826]

That was my thought while I was listening at their conversation. I’m too quick at offering suggestions. I will try to improve that in my conversations with my 95 years old mum.

[@yvettepayling1481]

Grandpa is really concerned about his Family. Love him what a sweet spirit he has🙏🏽💕

[@tristin_spargo]

As someone that takes care of their cousin who has late state dementia, your father is brilliant, still hanging on to the smarts. You’re quite good yourself

[@carolschober8028]

Dan is only in his early 50s let’s hope he’s still doing fine for many many years. Aldo I have sadly known some who have had early onset dementia & Alzheimer’s in early 50s😢😢😢

[@Maggies87]

Dan, I sense that you are grateful for each and every opportunity to reassure your dad or solve a ‘what is Dad trying to articulate’ puzzle, together.

[@michelewillis4701]

This is definitely getting harder for grandpa. I love how patient and understanding you all are with him. That's so important, and you were able to ease his mind. I can not express how much I commend you, Dan, and your entire family for your composure in dealing with him!

[@ny3974]

Think Ed meant vocation. 4k+ miles away yet I feel attachment to your family. Its a wonderful feeling too. God bless you all. Blessings from England 🇬🇧 🙏

[@barbaramoore5070]

What a wonderful caring father…..I can only imagine the frustration that Ed feels when he can’t find the words to express himself.

[@lisagraham1537]

I love that all ed thinks about is his kids and making sure they are ok ❤I love him ❤

[@pamela-gw7xo]

Ed is the best father ever in spite of the dementia!! And Dan is the best son ever for his patience and love he honors is dad with!! Although this is sad in some ways for Ed, Dan is always right there helping his dad sort through his confusion!! Love this father/ son interaction !! Thank you Dan for being so understanding with your dad!! Truly commendable! ❤ 💙 ❤

[@peace5647]

My siblings and I just lost our Dad a few months ago. Beautiful job you’re doing. You’ll never regret helping your Dad.

[@thejmc4074]

I hope you’re at peace. I am sorry for your loss.

[@nkyimkyim8734]

You can’t help but appreciate your Dad; even with his own struggles, his thoughts go to his kids and whether they are well or need anything!

[@zuzuspetals1977]

Aww if I had a podiatry office nearby I’d certainly let Grandpa come in for a few hours and let him feel he was helping out. I’d even pay him! 🌷🌸❤️

[@KrystleVoss2013]

Awww he would love tht

[@Junebugreen]

You’re an angel. Thank you for all your patience with Dad. You’re both wonderful human beings. Thank you. In this world, it’s just good to see goodness in the world.

[@deborahhardinge3443]

Dan I commend you for allowing your Dad to live in his reality by answering appropriately to his needs at any given time. It’s are tough gig looking after your parent with memory loss but also comes with rewards. That little glimmer,smile and satisfaction that you listen and not dismiss his questions is reward for you both. I was an aged carer and all my clients had dementia, it was tough but also rewarding when each of them at different times would say thank you or I’m sorry for pulling your hair, those moments I appreciated. Also it’s clear family are his main priority and he cares for you all,bless him🤗

[@EAG963]

What a wonderful father. And an amazing son. Much love 💕 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

[@lallavillamil2221]

Grandpa Ed is the most thoughtful and the sweetest husband, father and grandfather of all time, his smiles and laughter makes me smile too ❤❤❤

[@Jkk55]

You can tell he really cares and loves his kids it's heart warming Dan I wish my dad was still around he passed in 2009 I will never get through it. Your time is so precious with your dad. 💜

[@Lindoalza3]

I can see how difficult must be to try to make sense in a minds that doesn’t help. That helps me to understand my husband 76 with this horrible illness . It is painful to watch and to listen. God bless you all !!

[@leesashriber5097]

This is a family unit I'd happily be a member of. Dan, thank you for being such a wonderful son. During his struggles and the easier times, Grandpa Ed always wants everyone to be okay. God bless you all ❤🙏❤️

[@traceycole3314]

He’s a good man. Always worried about his kids. And he’s so happy when he hears they’re ok.

[@PecanBaby...]

It's awesome that even though he has dementia and is absolutely wonderful for 91 years of age, you are an amazing loving son and your father is clearly loved by many. My own father went through alot of absolute fear from nowhere, his eyes would glaze over, then suddenly could see the fear come into them when he clearly didn't recognise me or anybody. It was so terrible to witness and try to get him through it. I wish they could find a cure for this terrible disease, it effects people in many different ways, but the outcome is still the same. 😢

[@carolpasscall5987]

Dan, thank you for being the kind, caring, patient son that you are. It is not always easy for caregivers. You handle it well. Wish more of us can and will be like you and family caring for someone with Dementia.

[@SunsetFirefly]

It’s hard to watch but these are things we need to see in order to better understand.It’s great to see how you honor his dignity by telling him it’s his choice even though you know he has no choice. You can see that matters to him just by his expressions. You and your wife are doing a wonderful job.

[@jodyjustice7571]

What a heart, his love and concern for his family is heartfully overwhelming. God kind of Love.

[@cjmary]

he seems like hes happy most of the time, thats great that he still looks out for the famiy and asks about his kids, also the fact that he can still get around and walk on his own. You guys are doing a remarkable job keeping him at home and not couped up in a nursing facility. I give you great KOODOS for that. dont understand how anyone could criticize you or your wife. You two are amazing!

[@LittleFrenchHen]

You guys are so very lucky to have a father who always has his family in mind. Even if that mind gets a bit confused sometimes, family is ALWAYS first with Ed. Makes me a little teary sometimes, but its happy tears! :)

[@AJHR77]

Dan,you handled the conversation exceptionally well. You gave your Dad time to think through his thoughts and the physicians always told us this. It's good you helped him feel best about his family!

[@Jess-gc9zg]

Reminds me of my nana. How the progression of the disease affects speech. She was the same though, always wanting to know we were all ok. Although her obsession wasn't about keys or wallets, she would constantly ask when the babies were due, and check if we were pregnant. It became a family joke, I already had my 4 and my sis had one. The last time we saw my nana (unknow to me at the time) my sister whispered in her ear before we left that she was pregnant. Finally nana would have been right to talk about babies being born...she died 15 days later😢. I love watching your videos, as a nurse, I love how you keep grandad as independent and mobile as you can, it's so important. You are all doing an amazing job and I hope the US has lots of resources and help for you as carers. Much love from the UK

[@stephaniepapaleo9001]

You have patience and kindness to help your father get thru those difficult times and his daily memory loss, it’s not easy having to tell him multiple times and it’s got to be wearing on the family but you having him comfortable, safe and loved is all an aging parent can ask for. This is just a glimpse into your day shows us that putting your Dad at ease is most important. Thank you again for starting this channel, it shows us also that compassion and care in all of our families is needed.❤

[@janetfendley8917]

He loves and worries about his family all the time. He is the most caring and gentle soul. Thanks for treating him with love and patience. Grandpa is so loved by so many❤️

[@jackieday5845]

Grandpa Ed absolutely melts my heart!💜💜💜 Dan you have the biggest heart! You & D inspire & encourage us daily….wayy more than you may know! The real, raw & genuine footage is what sets you apart! Ppl can relate on a level that speaks to everyone…no matter what phase of the journey you may be in-it helps us all!💯 Can’t thank you enough for sharing….the good times “&” the hard times as well! The precious memories you’re making with your Dad & your family, are a priceless legacy of love!❤🫶🏼❤️ Thank you both again, Purple Jackie Day! 🙋🏻‍♀️💜

[@cmiddlebrook1957]

The first part sounded like a news story he was bringing up. Second part I knew immediately what he was asking about Mark's virus, because we've been watching Danielle's videos✌🏽 Keep fighting Doctor Ed, we're with ya!💞

[@ginacap100]

Your dad is such a loving person. It’s hard I know some days, but he’s so blessed and so is your family🙏🏽

[@cherylcarr8761]

I love this man even in his confusion he loves his family an worry’s about them.🙏❤️

[@KiKiisBlessed9233]

His heart was tickled with happiness to know that all his children are in a good place and doing well. Awww ❤❤❤

[@PrairieRose4]

I love how he is always concerned about his family. Its so sweet.

[@bethedmonds9635]

Bless his heart. Praying for all kids for strength, understanding, patience, and love for their Dad.

[@annakoutsoukou3011]

The most important concern for Grandpa is to know that his kids are happy. He is a great and respectfull father. God bless him and all the family. Many greetings from Greece.

[@peanuts1173]

Oh my gosh. What a sweet man concerned about his kids. You are so good and patient with him. Thank you for sharing him with us. I miss my dad so much. 😢

[@JoshBrazil]

God bless him great man one of a kind special human in this life we live

[@davej2011]

I love you guys so much we only get to see a few minutes of what poor Ed and the family got to deal with but I thing that he never forgets is his family and are they all doing OK ❤

[@marysmuggs]

Grandpa cares a lot about his family. Bless his 💜 heart

[@joanfreedomlife871]

Awwww Dan. Wow you are trully Amazing. Your WIFE is a very lucky lady I'm sure she knows that. Your PATIENCE Is unbelievable with your dad. HI from STL

[@nikoh6703]

So nice how he becomes happy n just reassured all his family is well n doing okay it's like the most important thing to hear that n how he comes around quick when he knows there's nothing to worry about. Great father and son .

[@ingridbrathwaite9773]

Oh dear he's such a sweetheart. God bless you Dan for being so patient with him.

[@mysaviour587]

Times get hard but times are good A lot of times misunderstood, but in his mind and his heart the love for his family will never part. Always love and prayers for you Grandpa. And family. 🙏❤️❤️🙏

[@lorisheheen2198]

I think besides Loving Grandpa Ed...😊...I watch these video's because I look back at when I cared for my Dad and these bring back so many memories for me. Dan you are an absolute blessing! Grandpa Ed is in good hands. I admire you, Danielle and Mark for the inspiration you all give so many people that are caring for a loved one or a person who has this terrible Disease Dementia.🙏❤❤

[@klt123100]

He is precious. I am so sorry he is living with such confusion. How wonderful for him to have the support and love of his family. Bless him.

[@sharonh2172]

Bless his complete heart, he truly truly loves his kids. Thank you for doing an awesome job reassuring him that all is OK.

[@MikSonus]

It is hard watching Ed struggle and try to express himself but he gets there and I salute Dan’s patience, solid steel patience. That’s the love of being a family. Through the thick and thin you stand tall. Ed is a happy soul. ❤️‍🩹

[@Swagismystory]

I love grandpa. May god bless him.

[@Bobman4354]

It’s so obvious that Ed’s #1 concern throughout his dementia is the well being of his family and making sure they are provided for. He is such a loving and caring man. You can see where his kids get their compassion from. God bless you all and I continue to pray for you all❤

[@deb6828]

He’s always concerned about the well being of his kids. Even in the throes of his dementia his biggest concern is the well being of his kids. This is missing in so many fatherless homes. It’s a very admirable quality in this man.

[@pontshosepoloane3241]

Grandpa Ed reminds me so much of my granddad. Sharp mind and always concerned about our welfare. Be blessed for taking care of him.

[@amyhurley802]

I wish all caregivers were as nice as you when helping Grandpa!

[@elizabethgooley7838]

He’s a wonderful father with a huge heart! He’s always wanting his family to be healthy and happy! 💕

[@maureenwareham8822]

Thank You for showing those who need support, who are helping their parents in the same manner❤ ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Patience is key

[@shannonjackson1697]

I love how Ed never stops being a father. He is always concerned about his kids. Making sure they eat and are well especially Mark.

[@teresaturney6428]

Grandpa loves and cares so much about his family! ❤ Thank you for sharing this experience with us! I love ya'll and God bless you and your family...

[@rhondahulett9763]

You can tell Pops has always cared about his family...and he raised some fine boys

[@anitainmo489]

What an amazing father. Even if he forgets other things, that love for his family comes straight from his kind heart and soul.. Truly a remarkable person.

[@dalecollins-smith3551]

You are all blessed to have him as your father. Its no wonder why you arent putting him in a home. I wish I'd had a father like him. Beautiful soul.

[@lornaafrica3883]

A parent never stops worrying about his children...We love you grandpa, you are so kind, caring and considerate...

[@susiewoosie8569]

You are an absolute gem with your Dad, I know how difficult it can be, I look after my 92 year old Dad with dementia and my Mum with advanced Parkinson's disease, so I know it's not easy at all.

[@kristinadacus7691]

You are a good son ❤ I love sweet Grandpa, such a caring man. I'm starting to see some signs in my Dad and my heart hurts. God bless you all for all you do to help Grandpa. I appreciate you sharing, even the hard stuff. Big hugs to you all ❤

[@dawnstrohm6982]

Grandpa has to be the best father that I have ever experienced! I was not so lucky in life Dan. You are SO blessed!!!!

[@stayingathome]

It's so hard watching him struggle to find the words, and then when they don't make sense it's even more difficult. You are SO GOOD at appropriate response. Thank you for sharing. 💙

[@Lori-bw3cv]

He is just fabulous and loves ❤️ all his children so much!

[@Catherine-Terra]

Dan you’re blessed. I really identify with his continued desire for his kids to be well. You seem to know instinctively what to say. A testament to your relationship with him. ❤

[@DeborahAckerman1234]

You can always steady his coarse. It’s wonderful. You are the Best Dan!

[@trinapenunuri5475]

What a sweet man and it is clear he loves his children. He may forget many things but not his love for his family. God bless you and Mark for taking care of your Dad.

[@IrfanKhan-sx6ym]

Love from Pakistan/Canada ... My prayers and best wishes to Grand PA, Dan and all extended family members for their beautiful, patient and sense of service efforst in taking are of elderly parents! It is shared responsibility on all family members and it is encouraging and heart warming to witness that. ❤️

[@faithbringshope]

He always takes comfort knowing family is ok.

[@fatimal.330]

Bless his heart. What a sweet man. ❤

[@melsingh7046]

I go through this with my grandfather. Let me tell you it is no easy walk in the park. But it’s a true blessing to see them come out of it at the end . God blesss and take care everyone. ❤

[@ReneeTruehart]

Awww 🥰. Bless his heart. He’s so adorable! Hugs 🤗

[@xlady7772]

He is so humble and still want to provide for his family that is so sweet of him and he miss working for sure

[@nic3715]

Well done Dan ..I love how you give grandpa authority over his decisions to ease his mind. Fantastic 👏👏👏🙏🙏

[@scrambler6281]

You have a way with your Dad that seems to always calm him, even if it’s only for a moment or two. Much respect from a retired nurse, who then went on to do private duty nursing with the elderly. It takes a lot of patience from a hired caregiver but we have limited hours. You guys do this full time and I love how you guys love family❤. Tfs

[@lyndamcleod2242]

Oh! I just adore this wonderful man,watched him for a long time now and just love him! Also love the way you communicate with him Kudos to you lovely son that you are!!!

[@anthonymalfitano3143]

Your dad is awesome!!! And you and your family are superb examples of love in action everyday. Good bless all of you ❤

[@dsalnorcal1434]

Thank you

[@susanberdan1626]

What a dad , he always is worrying about the family and that's ok , he may get confused but still has his mind on family. Love you gramps, your pretty darn good with your caring of things . Bless you and your sons and his wife . Love this family.