To Make Flirting Easy, Play The "Push/Pull" Game

[@TheRealSpicke]

I think Gordon Ramsey could be a very interesting person to be analysed on this channel.

[@light5891]

No you donut

[@kalpeshrawat418]

Also that missing lamb sauce

[@strawberrymilk2303]

@@kalpeshrawat418 He found the lamb sauce

[@LDarlong]

His Charisma is like Gandhi’s Flip Flops

[@tonyoramos1]

For being a bad person?

[@anthonycooper6441]

Video suggestion: how to never run out of social battery

[@TreblePvP]

PLEASE. I can't tell you how much this is needed as an introvert

[@watema3381]

People are exhausting. We could use this.

[@whodatboi2567]

I imagine you just have to not overextend yourself in social situations.

[@vision4860]

Impossible.

[@Endershock1678]

I'm extroverted, but because I'm the very high energy animated kind of extrovert, people exhaust me after a while, so this would help a lot.

[@TakeBackYourMind997]

I prefer this kind of charisma to the 'cool guy', it makes people around you feel better about themselves and it's just a more positive vibe.

[@IsaacJoshi]

Yeah definitely play your personality strengths if you are a warm person he warm. If you are chill be chill :)

[@TakeBackYourMind997]

@@IsaacJoshi Totally agree. I think too many people try to force the wrong style for them

[@disciplinado2190]

Save the Uygur people. Byctt China! who is kllng them. Byctt France who banned religious freedom.

[@Sifar_Secure]

@@disciplinado2190 I'm happy to donate some vowels if you're running short.

[@disciplinado2190]

@@Sifar_Secure I'm happy to share some knowledge if you'll benefit.

[@sanasafeena2416]

Him: the first tip is to smile Me in the middle of a pandemic: 😷😷😷 am I charming enough yet?

[@sirkmar9756]

Smile through your eyes. And oyeah listen with you ears

[@fzfzfzfz499]

Indian?

[@sanasafeena2416]

@@fzfzfzfz499 yeah

[@TheGreektrojan]

As someone who works in retail, its trivially easy to smile through the mask.

[@fzfzfzfz499]

@@sanasafeena2416 yeah feels terrible

[@velvetsteele]

Simple: just be a movie star. Works every time.

[@riadheddine1838]

At the end of the day this the rule number one 😂

[@AxxLAfriku]

I have a big... BIG... BIIIIGGGGG... muscles!!! HAHAHA!!! What did you think I was going for? That's so DIRTY of you! GAGAGAGA!!! I am the funniest KZbinr ever! Maybe that's the reason why I have TWO (!!!) HOT (!) GIRLFRIENDS. Thanks for being alive, dear val

[@KorpusV6]

@@AxxLAfriku big appetite, ego, head, nose

[@WeAreAllOneNature]

Charisma on Command - ''The way to fake a genuine smile is to ....''

[@twilamcintosh6032]

Well I mean there is Brie Larson... 😳

[@AhmetKaan]

*“You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending...”* *―C. S. Lewis*

[@christopherbucher7017]

My favorite author :) :) :)

[@RealWolfmanDan]

I liked this and wanted to share it, when I looked it up apparently there is no record of Mr. Lewis ever saying it, but there is a very similar quote from author James Sherman: "You can’t go back and make a new start, but you can start right now and make a brand new ending.”

[@StreetHierarchy]

I thought that was Annie Wilkes...🤔

[@ReasonAboveEverything]

@@TheCpj1976 Yeah the first guy who said it lived 6000bc in Mesopotamia.

[@beasthaven1571]

@@ReasonAboveEverything know first guys name?

[@johnnyprogress7498]

1) Speak through a smile; 2) Own the space around you; 3) Use the push-pull method; and 4) Be willing to laugh at yourself.

[@FireJach]

you copied the list from the description

[@uneekuh]

@@FireJach they summarized the video so people don’t have to sit thru lmao

[@All_you_need_is_love2018]

Thank you

[@NeilCWCampbell]

Ty dude these talks ramble with no decent summation

[@raredreamfootage]

And star in an all-time, record breaking, blockbuster movie.

[@papajupri1070]

I was smiling the whole time while watching this. Chris Evans' smile is contagious for sure.

[@Heywood.Jablome]

Jeez. He's a 10. Of course he's perfect. Therefore not a good role model for the 90%

[@neerajbaranwal7294]

Oops noticed after reading this

[@fillpereira]

As someone that used to be obese and recently got into the best shape of my life. Being comfortable in your own body is HUGE. It's a heck of a lot easier to "own the space around you" when you're not self-conscious about how you look or if your love handles are hanging out in a weird way.. Being in great shape boosts your confidence automatically. Once you do that, a lot of the tips being discussed here simply come naturally. That's my personal experience anyway.

[@jacobstevens6633]

100% truth

[@sludgerat666]

Legendary man 💪

[@Lessk69]

When you go from fat to fit and you see women looking at you that never would have before it's incredibly motivating and inspires a lot of confidence. That confidence just amplifies your attractiveness.

[@k.5425]

Agreed. Was also overweight. Haven't gotten to my goal yet but I see the difference.

[@brago1997]

what if you're short?

[@simranbansal9303]

1) Speak through a smile. smile through your eyes and be charming. laugh at your own words. do not smile 24/7 like, starting a story, start serious and it gets to the funnier part, you can start smiling and then start laughing. keep the smile genuine. try to guide the conversation to things that actually make you laugh. 2) own the space around you. use your hands when you speak, use gestures. and even when you're not speaking, you can take up space when you laugh. put yoir head back, pur your hand on their shoulder or knee. this way you can slowly make people more comfortable to your touch and so if you're interested in them, you will easily be able to kiss them. also, another way to know if they're really interested or not. take up the space around you. ALSO, do not laugh at everything the other person says, it's cringy 3. Bounce between a) teasing lightly b) complimenting kindly bounce back and forth between this. this is called as the push-pull technique. this makes you less predictable and makes gou moe interesting. they wanna know what you'll say. more likely to work on people who are used to JUST good compliments. they're more likely to be attracted to this. don't just tease and be a jerk or give compliments and be out in the friendzone. 4. don't hide your flaws. own the mistakes that you did. if they jab at you, take it and laugh at it. if you're scared, admit it. Admit being scared, embarrassed. be willing to laugh at your own mistakes and be willing to own them. this shows you're not afraid to be judged. the thing that would bother other people, you're comfortable with it.

[@antalyalyaync1423]

where is 5th i cant find in this fckng video

[@damiansaucedo9951]

@@antalyalyaync1423 is be yourself (:

[@All_you_need_is_love2018]

The 5th is to sign-up and pay for the course they’re offering.

[@yaublediesa4448]

Goat

[@pranjaldangwal1425]

Tbh, You deserve more likes..........

[@epiloguemetalogue]

Don't forget to be physically gorgeous while you apply these techniques.

[@connorbetancourt5605]

Oh I almost frogot ( Changes face shape)

[@forgetfulstranger]

@@connorbetancourt5605 perfection.

[@connorbetancourt5605]

@@forgetfulstranger thank you😂😂😂

[@trainerrrss]

Ofc

[@cerenyldz2754]

Wow genius who would have thought that

[@noelnunez1372]

Please Do a video of “how to talk to someone that we haven’t spoken or seen since the pandemic started?” I love your videos, great job

[@MoonAtomic7]

What a great idea!!!

[@AnneGoggansQHHT]

Give them an F-ing hug. 😁

[@melonie_peppers]

That's so specific lol

[@FireJach]

dude, i need it

[@biffit9060]

Be better than you were before, physically, mentally, socially. It will be SUPER noticible!

[@concernedcitizen6577]

My notes on this video... Step 1: Look like a Hollywood stud Step 2:

[@AmbitionIsaMust115]

Mission completed

[@cltnthecultist]

Have a giant member, too. I’m sure that helps in the confidence department

[@BoissonMedia]

Step 3: Profit

[@artetconscience]

@@cltnthecultist No I'm afraid it doesn't.

[@Jesusisyhwh]

Step 2: be incredibly rich.

[@tameratupou4217]

I would love to see how these techniques work for an average looking non celebrity.

[@ClarenceEwing]

Seems like a warning is appropriate: be VERY careful when touching other people in public, especially people you don't know. The two Chrises can do it because they're obviously friends and enjoy being around each other. But for those of us who aren't gorgeous Hollywood stars, it can be very easy to invade someone's physical space in an unpleasant way without meaning to. Read the room, always.

[@LivingALifeOfAbundance]

the more you get rejected.. the less you care about it ....the less fear you have for it.... the better you perform

[@randomdude79404]

I see you on every video bro 😂

[@drewp2170]

I don't necessarily agree with that. You want to be successful, if you get rejected or fail that means you main a mental mistake or error, which is going against a competitive work environment that shuns errors. You want to feel confident and have a long history of successful experiences to draw from. If you keep getting rejected, you get numb and slowly turn into a loser.

[@TheGuitologist]

If these celebrities see themselves picked apart on these videos, I bet they come away with a serious complex.

[@nikaivanisevic8887]

i love the video, can you make a video how to react in negative situations because most of these actors you cover are usually in a nice group of people and the energy is always lifted. how about a situation where you really feel uncomfortable? love your channel

[@alw2839]

He has

[@connorbetancourt5605]

@@alw2839 is their a link? Whats the title?

[@alw2839]

@@connorbetancourt5605 Go to his profile and scroll through them. Apologies I don't have any links.

[@connorbetancourt5605]

@@alw2839 oh your fine

[@DeansLists]

Check out his How To Command Respect During Conflict

[@zoeydeutch6768]

I hate myself because I’m nervous in every conversation and in the middle of a sentence I forget what I’m talking about.

[@DocPegLegRed]

You got this, Zoey! Keep putting yourself out there and tell yourself the truth, which is you don’t have to be anyone but yourself. Have fun

[@OMGSHEENA]

Have you considered that you may have adhd? I do and one of the symptoms is that I forget what I'm talking about while I'm talking about it. This doesn't mean you can't go into the conversation with confidence though. Remind yourself that no matter how the convo goes, you'll be ok. Because you will. Then remember that if you mess up or forget you can laugh it off knowing you're human, we all make mistakes, and you will be ok. You've got this! 👍

[@zoeydeutch6768]

@@OMGSHEENA Thanks for the comment! :) yeah, I thought of that. I know that I have social phobia but I don't know if it's the cause or consequence of something else, maybe adhd. I'm still looking for the courage to go to therapy. Because of the communication problems I'm very afraid of it.

[@katietremaine6359]

Don't worry hun! I have this problem too and it gets embarrassing at times but you have to just let it go and understand that you're only human 👍🏻😁

[@OMGSHEENA]

@@zoeydeutch6768 @Zoey Deutch Don't be afraid of therapy. A good therapist that is the right fit for you will listen to you and offer tools to cope with and/or overcome the obstacles that your brain is creating. Try online therapy if it's easier a lot of health insurance companies are starting to cover online therapy now. Your brain, like mine, may work differently from some, but that doesn't make it broken or bad. As simple as it sounds breathing is the best tool I've found for almost every issue I have and I have so many issues I offer subscriptions. But seriously, feeling anxious? Take a deep breath and let it out slowly counting backwards from ten. (Also if you have someone you trust near by, hold their hand. Skin to skin contact releases dopamine and other "feel good" hormones) Feeling angry? Take a deep breath, close your eyes, remember something that makes you feel calm (think of something ahead of time to be your go to so that you'll remember it when upset), smile and let the breath out slowly. Got the hiccups? Take a quick deep breath that expands your chest pulling shoulders back and hold it for 5 seconds and release slowly (gasping when scared or holding breath expands diaphragm which is what really helps hiccups), Can't stop crying, having IBS issues or experiencing pain? You guessed it .. slow deep breaths in, slow puckered breaths out (like you're blowing out candles slowly) Rapid short breaths when in pain or otherwise can cause hyperventilation so slow breathing can be vital. I had a boss that used to ask every new trainee what the number one rule in a knife fight is. Most would say bring a gun or don't forget the knife etc but the answer is to "remain calm" and I've found this to be true of almost any situation. The best way to remain calm, or atleast appear calm is to take slow deep breaths, in my experience. Even if someone is verbally attacking you, arguing etc just tune them out, hum if you have to (it helps tune out inner or outer noise, and take deep slow breaths until you're ready to continue. Obviously if you're in physical danger remove yourself from the situation if you can, breathing can't stop a knife or a fist or bullets but it can help you to think clearly and calm your body and mind. Also you'd be surprised how much standing with good posture, chin up, shoulders back etc., will influence your ability to feel confident. Good luck!

[@youemayare]

Video suggestion: do a breakdown of the character "Jimmy McGill" from the show Better Call Saul.

[@sararoberts2973]

My smile is crooked so I’m not much of a fan of It.

[@starRushi]

Another thing to do is laugh at the jokes they really care about. It makes them feel like you understand them, and often promotes a feeling of empathy

[@prepperjonpnw6482]

You need to come back and edit your comment please

[@starRushi]

@@prepperjonpnw6482 Haha, good catch, thank you

[@amantedelmondo1787]

Why don't you remake this video, only this time with a below-average-looking dude which is what most men look like? I can guarantee you the impact won't be the same...

[@wge621]

Push pull is hard to pull off if you're socially awkward and especially with the opposite gender. I've seen so many clips of guys on dating shows who think it's cool to talk down to their date or constantly tease her, but then say the odd nice thing. I think if you are doing it, the ratio has to be 80/90% nice and 10-20% tease. Because humans trend to overestimate the mean comments so much more

[@toddjohnson7572]

Push-pull requires you to do it with a friend of yours who is good at it, when in front of a girl. Takes two to tango. If he certainly isn't (he doesn't have to be great) -- it won't get you anywhere, and if you continue to keep trying, you'll look annoying to him as it'll make him more closed in. Trying to do that with a girl is only going to work if she's very sociable herself + banters well with you. It's something to employ with a girl After you get things rolling with her in some banter, to test out -- and to really roll with if it clicks with her.

[@Frankie5Angels150]

None of this works unless you are naturally charismatic to begin with. These people are movie stars because they had charisma to begin with. They did not learn it afterwards.

[@wge621]

@@Frankie5Angels150 that's not true. Look at his video of the rock. Charisma is absolutely a skill you can develop, it's just that most people don't put the effort into learning and practicing

[@pinkclouds5388]

You can be confident and do almost anything and people won't question it

[@Bilbus7]

This is true.

[@gerdina5168]

This is so true lol

[@xaviercruze1111]

All these could quickly become creepy if you're not good looking.

[@DiceNinja]

Quick question: throwing my head back and laughing like that is something I really WANT to do, but I feel like as a girl it gives off a different impression than when a guy does it. Is that just a false perception on my part or is there something else I should do instead?

[@peckishcloud]

Just because it gives a different impression, doesn't mean it gives a bad impression. Some people will like it and other's won't, so it's a great way to differentiate between people you should spend your time around. But like they always say, do callibrate it to the people and the situation. A general rule is to just keep your energy at 1 level above everyone else (in group settings.)

[@D00Rb3LL]

@@peckishcloud My problem is that leaning back and laughing is just so unnatural to me. I’m worried it’s going to come across as fake or excessive. I am a man btw.

[@peckishcloud]

@@D00Rb3LL That kind of excessive laughter isn't a necessary thing, but just like any skill you have to develop it. Most situations don't call for it, so I would focus more on laughing deep in the belly, making it feel more natural, and training your mind to focus on the funny to make laughter more common. These things take time, but making it habitual is what will make it feel natural.

[@CarlosFernandez-df7mi]

Some charming girls I’ve met move their head sideways and use hand/arm expressions when laughing. It’s more subtle but it might be easier for you to adapt yourself and personalize it if you feel like leaning is too much.

[@RusticVisuals]

Late to this question but my girlfriend has a really drastic laugh when i tell a good one. Head back and a very loud HA that quiets down into more normal hahahas, but I always just go "yeah! I really got her that time" its what I always thought since the beginning

[@loe3175]

So many parts of communication can be very different for women than for men. Could you do more female focused breakdowns?

[@CrunchySnacks]

Need more videos for females, unless I'm missing them?.. I know a lot of these work for women too, but just seems tailored more towards men. Still pretty good content but ya.

[@WinedandDined27]

I just think that since both of the guys who run this are straight men, their experience is going to naturally be tailored toward straight men. I think there are probably plenty of channels directed towards women specifically who are made by women on KZbin that might be up your alley. It’s kind of like going on a vegan cooking channel and saying “these are great, but I’d love a good meatloaf recipe”. You’re probably not gonna get that out of a vegan channel, and you probably won’t get worthwhile female advice from a channel by men that is more or less for men. As you said, there are some famous women they use as examples in some of these, however.

[@casedogLTD]

0:00 - Intro. 0:30 - #1: Speak through a smile. 2:21 - #2: Own the space around you. 5:25 - #3: Use the push-pull method. 7:30 - #4: Be willing to laugh at yourself.

[@midnightsun2085]

I'm a simple man. I see Chris Evans I click.

[@anpatman]

I am a simple straight Woman, i see Chris Evans - i click

[@garyglaser4998]

Plus, it always helps to be unbelievably fit and handsome.

[@williamseric7691]

Reason why everyone should have a profitable investment.people need money

[@michaeljohn3328]

You're right Investment is the key to surviving during times like this when the government decided to mess with people.

[@ruthfrank9873]

Yeah what type of Investment y'all are into .the stock market has been crashing lately.

[@zackyo370]

Bitcoin investment is the best when you're on a profit based platform especially with the current rise.

[@Veronica-kp6sd]

Investing in cryptocurrency and gold which is better?

[@jameswalk7958]

I must say I haven't seen a relatable investment, my wife pushed me to start looking into stock and crypto some time before the pandemic because we were looking for other sources of

[@Confidenceiatry]

Confident people love sharing a smile. It makes other people feel comfortable.

[@karaokeforyou4]

FINALLY a Chris evans Breakdown

[@AD-ui6sk]

Oh yeah I hate when people start teasing me about less enjoyed MOVIES I starred in 😂

[@lunarcat632]

No one can replicate the perfection of that man 😰

[@AdityaPrasad007]

This channel is basically game without the toxic parts of red pill. Love the work you do!

[@barbarossa9591]

I think toxic parts just come from the people who have problems in past

[@Claudiogamaofc]

I'm from Brazil I don't know what I'm doing in this kkkk video 

[@taliesinhalliday2483]

How to be charming. Build confidence because youre rich and good looking.

[@nathanherren6708]

The funny thing is when you have a whole bunch of money, these things just come naturally

[@timo4022]

How come

[@my_family_journal]

Mark Zuckerberg looking like a lizard: 🤐

[@Jack_Mehoff]

Cap

[@spiritgaming1442]

Its more of the opposite effect, these traits are what make people successful, for actors and celebrities charisma is what gets them to success as an actor. Entrepreneurs like mark Zuckerberg, Elon Musk, Steve Jobs don't need as much charisma because their strength lies within there respective work, though the ability of public speaking is extremely helpful for big company owners.

[@misterspino9646]

nah

[@Scorbutics]

The important thing is self-awareness. With it you can realize what's funny in the current situation you are. You can start to see yourself as someone else and therefore distantiate your feelings from your thinking. That obviously requires some energy / attention span in each of your conversations.

[@prisonmike4991]

I Don't know man but watching Chris Evans laugh everytime I couldn't be able to stop my laugh either.

[@DanielRandB]

NEAL CAFFERY FROM THE SHOW "WHITE COLLAR" CHARISMA BREAKDOWN Please And Thank You

[@tannerstettler7300]

Yes we need this

[@jirensays6994]

I don't find Chris to be charismatic, he is extra ordinarily good looking otherwise he wouldn't stand out at all...

[@wowandrss]

Ever think that trying to come to conclusions on how to act based on the behavior of an ACTOR who has reasons to behave in a way that garners popularity might not seem like the best idea, that it might not carry over 1:1 to regular people? Being on shows where they're paid to be there won't have them being their genuine selves. Just my 0.02, still fun to watch these clips.

[@costascostas1760]

Yeah, it is a play for the audience as much as a play between them. Still worth considering implementing some of the behaviour patterns and have some fun :)

[@BV-us9fw]

Chris is naturally a cool, charming guy.

[@unchained8491]

Yes, Chris

[@247tubefan]

Being Captain America is such a cheat code.

[@jklopsch99]

Why is it always just about how men can be charismatic for women never the other way around. Would love to see the women version of this video

[@annamarczuk2030]

Couldn't agree more. I hated that the example of women being charismatic mostly included flirtatious behaviour. It could be described as teasing and may confuse some men giving them a false impression that a woman is romantically interested in them.

[@user-sw7pi8cy5c]

Make a video on Draco Malfoy (Harry Potter-movie version). He is a really interesting character but what makes such a huge number of people like him ???!!!!

[@wendywendy8157]

So what about adding some more examples with women to your videos? I'd recommend looking at the cast of Ocean's 8 - those ladies are so fun to watch, their chemistry with each other is pulpable and each one of them has great sense of humour.

[@LivingALifeOfAbundance]

Things About Women I Wish I Knew In My 20’s 1. Rejection is a part of life never, take it seriously. When one bus leaves another comes in 5 minutes. Abundance mindset 2. Never play the nice guy buddy buddy role with women. When a women friend zones you, she’s rejecting you. But she still wants you around so she could use you for free attention. 3. Never Chase A Women After Being dumper or FriendZone 4. Quiet/Shy Nerdy girls are the BEST girls to date. 5. Female Hypergamy Does not care about you. 6. Never make a women your whole life. A women should only be complimentary to your life 7. Men at the age of 18-25 will have the most difficult time dating 8. A woman can never love you, she only loves you on how you make her feel 9. Women at the ages 18-25 are not looking to settle down they just want TO have fun 10. Never let a women walk all over you or manipulate you just because she’s pretty always stand your ground & follow your principles as a man.

[@Aaronarea52]

Do you have a successful relationship with a woman now that you have learned all this? Or are you still drifting..

[@b3a3n3a3n3a3s]

I'm sorry you believe some of these things

[@b3a3n3a3n3a3s]

@@Aaronarea52 he seems to believe number 8 is true so probably not

[@Aaronarea52]

@@b3a3n3a3n3a3s Right so sad that he believes number 8. I think that my girlfriend loves me, and I love her as well. and I don't always make her feel amazing. My mom loves my dad and it is not because he makes her feel a certain way all the time. Perhaps he has been around women who are insecure and don't have the ability to love because they have too many walls. I think it takes a secure person to love, as they have to have the courage to take their walls down and be open to giving and recieving love. So in my estimation this man has not been with women who are secure. This is unfortunate

[@tsherman393]

Competence and confidence, along with good looks and charisma. Good luck

[@wajidshaikh8775]

Shahrukh Khan is the most charming person in the world when u are gonna make a video on him ?

[@wajidshaikh8775]

It's not about Indian or American it's about personality.

[@chocolate2514]

Yes finally, I've been wanting a video on him! I'm personally inspired by the loving character he portrays as Captain America.

[@j-l6913]

MAKE A VIDEO ON PATRICE O NEAL ASAP. This cannot be a charisma channel without analyzing THE GOAT OF CHARM PATRICE.

[@pascalscherr5206]

I think he's too controversial for a big channel like this to risk it haha but I hope they do

[@GHIBaal]

4:40 i might try this one 😂💯🔥

[@sisotoy9254]

you forgot 1. being atractive as hell

[@AhmetKaan]

*"Pain of regret is so much worse than pain of discipline."*

[@Clara-in1fu]

I would reeeally dig a video on Anya Taylor-Joy (Queen's Gambit) charisma

[@hipnhappenin]

This is amazing! I remember when CoC was not even 1 million. Now you're close to 5 million subscribers!

[@ErenYeager-kr9gu]

U need to do a another breakdown of lucifer morningstar (tom Ellis) He Is the most charismatic man I hve ever seen

[@Beanaification]

I love this channel and have learned a lot, but it heavily leans towards analyzing white men. Would love to see more women, as well as people of color.

[@oliverford5367]

Check out the Oprah Winfrey video

[@Matt_Nor]

It's been a long time Charisma, where have you guys been?

[@maemagnolia]

I love this channel 🤟🏽 it’s helped so much with my social anxiety

[@eugenem.4481]

Just one of those BS videos... Be yourself and the world will gravitate towards you.

[@VincereVelMori1987]

Me watching this during covid: 😷 = 😁 Owning the space around me = "HEY, SOCIAL DISTANCE! WATCH IT!"

[@atthecore4560]

People shouldn't worry about how they're perceived when they interact with someone they're attracted to. When you put on a mask to increase you ability to be perceived as attractive, you'll only gain the attention of those who are attracted to the act you create, not the true, inner you. It's campy and it's corny, but never underestimate the power of just being yourself. Being sexy means that you believe in yourself. Best of luck to you all as you discover this. Just remember; if you can't love yourself, how can you expect to love anyone else?

[@techbites9233]

Does anyone else just learn one at a time until it becomes second nature? I find it hard to remember all of them so I was wondering if anyone does this like with the plenty of times we have been told to do friendly physical contact like a hand shake etc?

[@searchfortruth6889]

Com'on!! If someone is good looking and attractive, he automatically behaves in a manner which has a pullimg effect, ur body language during conversation comes from confidence, if someone is attractive he will not be looking much for approvals, so wat matters mostly is ur looks. If u r gifted with outstanding looks y would u feel insecure?? and it results in build up of comfidence.

[@GarderN95]

Its easy to be charming when you're comfortable with the people around you, and you're already respected like Chris here. If you can be like Chris in a room with strangers and you're not a celebrity, then that's impressive.

[@annamarczuk2030]

I'd love to hear more about push-pull method because it didn't understand it entirely.

[@windedemulation1159]

When I first found tgis channel, I was like "Perfect! I finally found a way to learn how to talk" but then I realized something: I still don't know how to fix a butchered first impression, or how to talk to someone when I know they know that I know their name. Could you please fix that, Charlie ?

[@dancingram79]

Im just here to watch Chris Evans being chsrming 🥰

[@mn-bs4cv]

I had a hard time taking this video seriously after you said "manspreading". IT'S NOT A WORD!!!

[@marcusj1167]

He’s definitely not charming on Twitter

[@yanguskhan8513]

i miss craig ferguson. his late night show was one of my favorites.

[@griddark]

Real way to get women to obsess over you, be obscenely good looking, have a great personality, have insane career. Chances improve if you're married, get that "can't have him" vibe going too.

[@Caspianm2]

Just discovered your videos yesterday and I'm super excited to start testing all these tricks. Thanks for doing what you do to provide non-toxic advice.

[@acotnoir]

I don't know chris evans but he seems to do all of those things without thinking which means the tip here is just to ...be chris evans?

[@iwasanMBTInerd]

One thing this channel taught me about charisma is that there is no one size fits all and you should not try to be someone you are not. For my personality, I have found something akin to Chris Evan's charm to be most natural to incorporating into my own social interactions.

[@randomman9752]

Yeah 👍

[@iflankzttv2981]

For some reason I get girls using my charisma and I am genuinely average or just below in looks😂I just turn up confident and somehow it works

[@A-wz7if]

Any advice for interviews? I find that I get very nervous and speak really fast.

[@damon5894]

If everyone becomes charismatic, no one will be.

[@gageearle9477]

Hey I hope you see this comment, I think you should study Daniel Cormier. He’s one of the most charming people in mma and everyone seems to be his friend. I’d love to see a video on him !

[@dkied1419]

I remember you said he wasn’t charming lol

[@alw2839]

Maybe he is both or mind change.

[@Grityom]

Schrodinger charm 😳

[@connorbetancourt5605]

Except I always Smile so I look fake, Sorry I'm a happy!!!!! I CAN'T HELP IT!!

[@snapman218]

Step 1, be a rich attractive Hollywood superstar

[@brokenwideopen]

These videos are great at analyzing the actual behaviors that constitute charisma but IMO there’s no way to just do these things by memorizing these methods. You have to have the personal foundation that will allow for you to behave this way naturally-mainly being very, very secure in yourself-which means being very honest with yourself about your faults and loving yourself while fully acknowledging your shortcomings. Also, a deep belief that no matter what happens in your life or what people think of you, everything will be OK. The general lack of concern for what people think of you will follow, which will free you to be yourself. Being unburdened by insecurity and a genuine feeling of everything will always be fine, you’ll likely just naturally have good humor and be funny. It doesn’t hurt to also be doing what you love for a living. Developing these characteristics is the real work that has to happen. And as others have mentioned, it’s hard won for folks who aren’t wealthy, handsome, and who don’t have the outward approval of millions of people. I still think it can be done. It’s just a heck of a lot more work for the average Joe to do these things than for celebrities.

[@usernotfound162]

At this point i dont even know if im breathing correctly.

[@sobhan7785]

so basically just be yourself thats the ultimate method

[@icelemon6085]

To no one. I actually act just like Chris Evans. The small platonic touch. The big intake of space when laughing. For years I thought I was weird because my classmates were odd about it. But coming to my attention. They weren't right for me. And so I need myself the people that are fine by me. Not right. *Fine* by me.

[@joepesci2269]

thank you very much! i watched this video and now im just as charming as this ultrahandsome popular celebrity!! WOW works like magic!!

[@MuertoInc]

Please don't use man spread to explain how men naturally sit... only confused and socially awkward women say those words.

[@yMeMoo]

Wish I had these video guides in the 2000's so I wasn't this socially awkward kid that got picked on. Learning to laugh at myself along with others taught me to accept my flaws and has changed me to the extrovert adult I am today.

[@ahmerio7938]

Nobody listens when you don't have money if you're rich enough people will walk behind you all the time if a rich person says a lame joke and everyone laughs at it.🤣

[@noxusfinest4153]

Ah, yes, how to properly manipulate others.

[@hammads9045]

I don't know what my issue is. I think overall I just lack confidence or I just don't know how to begin talking. Once I start talking it becomes a breeze

[@doctoralla2067]

You and I both love Game of Thrones, and I just thought it'd be cool if you analyzed Varys since he's very similar to Littlefinger. Love your channel by the way.