Sir sir sir itni deep bate bahut hi badhiya example d a nice video Kash aapke videos pahle mile hote life change hoti sir history would have been different.
@itreallymeans27097 ай бұрын
क्या हुआ बहन सबको भाई बोल दिया क्या
@monikadwivedi19939 ай бұрын
Thank you very much sir, after delivery i am facing lot of issues... Fights with mother in law .... Not able to handle myself and others as well.... I used to keep quite in my 5 years of marriage... After delivery had some arguments with mother in law , then husband started his own drama my mother bla bla bla .... Feeling lil better after your video.... But one thing i don't know whether i m doing right or wrong i have stopped talking to my mother in law because she trys to control even on phone and give instructions and guidance according to her ... But as i am a working woman , new mom and wife ... I can't follow her guidance and her rituals and way of living ... Also generation gap is a reason.. She is always shouting in the house i did that , 3 bachhe pale ghar banaya Duniyadari pta ni kya kya .. Aur bahuo ko sabse jyada trouble krti wo .... Subah 5 bje uth jati Aur bolti tum bhi utho .... Bina nahaye kitchen me mat jao , khana mat banao , Agr fresh hone gye to aake kapde change kro ... Jb naha k garam garam banaoge tabhi mai khaungi ... Subah ka sham ko ni , sham ka subah ni ... She had countless drama and nakhra Esa lagta h jese kisi janam ka badla le rhi ho hmse .... Merese ni hota manage Husband hamesa bolta h meri maa h ye wo wahi drama ... Ek din subah 5 bje utha k mujhe boli chai banao mere liye ... bahot gussa aaya mujhe Bolti h mera ghar h mene banaya h .. Naak me dum karke rakh deti h ... Aur kuch kaam ni krna hota ... Uske hisab se dinbhar kitchen me khade rho ... Jb bole utho jb bole so jao jab bole beth jao .. To mene baat hi krni bnd kr di .. Ab apna ghar aur apna bachha apne hisab se chala rhi hun ....aur apni capacity k hisab se ... Mujhe bolti h padhne likhne se kuch ni hota .. I am working with bank of america as data engineer... Abhi mujhe farak padna bnd ho gya h ... and i am happy 😊 Chahe koi mujhe achha bole ya bura bolta rhe ... farak ni padta
@akankshapatni72344 ай бұрын
You are so strong. Sach me sirf khud pe aur apne bacche pe dhyan do. Hum darte hai jhagde se but agle ko hi nahi padi to dheeth aur ziddi banna padta hai. All the best
@animesh..3 ай бұрын
Thik kiya apne
@sadhunar88728 күн бұрын
@monikadwivedi1993 same my MIL also does with me, same she instructs his son wat to do and how to restrict me etc. are you digambar jain ? Bcz wen I read ur things which you posted in an elaborated way it seems like in reading my situation. I cry many times, i shout, I go for complete silent mode , I don't have interest to speak with anybody even not to my birth family, no body means no body. Kabi kabi man karta h why i born as a girl why can't I die in the womb, or after birth etc.
@anjalimishra18237 күн бұрын
Exactly meri saas bhi same aise hi karti hai
@manjulashrivastav Жыл бұрын
आप काफी हद तक सही है. 99 percent marriage problems से गुजरती है. समय और समस्या अलग अलग होती हैं पर होती जरूर है.
@sanjoonri70Ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤Ek hi to dil hai guruji kitni bar jito gi...Your are Gods 🎉Grace person
@RakeshSharma-ej7pl Жыл бұрын
Sir I am really thankful to you for the inspiration.I m facing many problems due to health issues of my husband,even after 28 years of our marriage.Today morning I was totally fed up, after seeing this video I feel much better.Ye waqt guzar zayega. Thank you so much.
@pritammulaokar7549 Жыл бұрын
Stay strong meditate to remain calm to make right decisions. Take care.
@triptydatta7540 Жыл бұрын
Samay accha ata hai to kharab bhi aata hai. Kuch thoda lamba chalta hai par kat zarur jata hai. be brave and fight the battle of life. Zarur jeetengi aap
@itreallymeans27097 ай бұрын
Divorce के लिए late
@krishna_raj9331 Жыл бұрын
I'm already 30 now. Me and many of my classmates are still not married. I had financial and some minor health issues. So I could not marry in time. But my friends did not have any issues but they are still not marrying. I suggest people to get married before at least 27 and average 25. That'll help you in your love life.
@mandeepgill4931 Жыл бұрын
Fully agree
@GeetaArya-et5je18 күн бұрын
Thanks sir, mai lifetime aapki baat yaad rkhungi. Take care.
@aishwaryapusalkar386720 күн бұрын
Very true. Bahut badhiya. ❤
@rahulpawar2170 Жыл бұрын
Shadi se pehle hi advice mil gaya, how to manage up-downs in marriage life, 🙏
@abhinavdeepsinha3036 Жыл бұрын
Bhaisahab.. kya gyaan hai iss aadmi mein. Ekdum top class. Erudite who can speak in the common tongue
@wowser2153 Жыл бұрын
I know people who are suffering in marriage for 20-25 years and still suffering. It is not bad times , sometimes the husband or wife is psychotic and it is better to divorce the psycho husband or wife. They don’t change .
@AlokBhardwaj90 Жыл бұрын
This is not ID of sir. This is absolute fraud
@rachangoudapatilnidoni5058 Жыл бұрын
Fake ID spotted
@amitgg2 Жыл бұрын
@sango883reported
@nishapillai891 Жыл бұрын
Yes.......he is not talking about that type of people.... people getting divorce for silly reasons , have no patience, financial problems...etc..etc..this video belongs to .. those 95% of people...ok
@pranitabakliwal94654 ай бұрын
sahi ekdum correct
@sanjanarana5401 Жыл бұрын
In some cases , I have seen that the problems start from saas side but time ke saath vo saas to bol bol kr sb kuch bigad degi aur chup hojati h fir husband wife ek dusre se hi ldte rhte h humesha kisi na kisi baat pr
@suhanaravichhabria Жыл бұрын
Toh gaadi achhi Karo na. Understanding banao pati se. With love n patience
@KiranDevi-yp8el7 ай бұрын
👌👌👌👌👌👏👏
@ArdShrivastav-we2zr8 күн бұрын
Hi😊😊
@ArdShrivastav-we2zr8 күн бұрын
@@suhanaravichhabriahi😊
@rajuguide5495 Жыл бұрын
Marrying means to halve one's rights and double one's duties Arthur Schopenhauer
@pratibhanath4879 Жыл бұрын
When you leave your ego , you can understand other person and his /her problem very easily………
@wowser2153 Жыл бұрын
It is not always a ego issue. Sometimes it is a personality disorder. People who are narcissistic, suspicious, paranoid, they don’t change
@rashmimanchanda6603 Жыл бұрын
@@wowser2153 very true. And it takes forever sometimes to realise this.😢
@aaysha16 Жыл бұрын
Can u tell how to check on these personality disorders? My husband stops talking every 15-20 days without any reason. And on asking he would I don't have anything to say. What to do I don't understand.
@vinodjain1796 Жыл бұрын
U are very kind hearted, like Swami Dayand ji. U are like a true harwani, a well wishers of humankind.
@shailarateja2634 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely right advice sir... Marriage is never a smooth ride... It depends on the patience and commitment of the couple to not let the marriage break down.
@learningsteps7781 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely right sir
@Ragas07 Жыл бұрын
Sir, very nice advice of bad roads and slowing down to second gear. You are doing a great work to make the young people of this country understand deeper aspect of life. Thank you so much for your gyaan
@AJ-oz7fxАй бұрын
This advice is good for most people and if we keep calm and carry on most of us make it with a few rolls and punches along the way😅 But if one is in an abusive relationship, or with a narcissist then run for your life. It ain’t getting any better in those cases.
@Harishsharmavlog Жыл бұрын
Your knowledge and understanding is very astonishing.
@masurimadhabvi1563 Жыл бұрын
Tq sir 7 yrs after marriage struggling for having children, but still continuing with my husband, hoping he will change ,only to keep my father happy as mother passed away iam single child and father stays alone
@wowser2153 Жыл бұрын
Leave husband and go live with father. Get new husband
@ashabora3932 Жыл бұрын
Very true. Everyone has to go through bad phases in life be it career or marriage. Sometimes if you marry again then the second person turns out to be even worst. This has happened to someone ..
@manjular3678 Жыл бұрын
Better not to marry again. Why repeat it
@manjular3678 Жыл бұрын
@@understanding-why Kindly see a psychiatrist. Don't spoil somebody's life just for sex
@AshTheDuke Жыл бұрын
Ya thats why those playboys become playboys forever 🤷🏻♂️
@AshTheDuke Жыл бұрын
@@manjular3678 yup i rather live with cats and dogs 😅
@manjular3678 Жыл бұрын
@Ash The Duke Faith, Prayers too help one to go thru married life
@vivekkaushik5832 Жыл бұрын
One of the best video , I ever witnessed on this subject matter !!
@deeksharajput12614 күн бұрын
Ab samjh aa rahi hai aap sahi kah rahe😊
@sanaahlathiwala940 Жыл бұрын
Very well said…I could have gone on listening to it 🙂
@auiiem Жыл бұрын
Mahatma ji Though you ask for comments after every discourse but as far as I think you do not need any. Since observations/solutions are indisputably correct! Are of the highest order, Even on subjects which are never ever covered or dreamed of by anyone!🙏
@evarajput9821 Жыл бұрын
The main question here is himmat kab tak rakhein? Jab day 1 se kharab ho aur improvement ka koi scope nahi dikh raha. Kabhi kabhi ek ganda fruit saare fruit kharab kardeta hai to us fruit ko fek Dene mein hi samajhdaari hai..
@rashmimanchanda6603 Жыл бұрын
Right. But very difficult decision, specially if new problems pop up suddenly after many years of marriage then what to do.
@theFifthMountain1233 ай бұрын
Your time is bad, not the marriage. Very true.
@prashantkumar78697 ай бұрын
Facing issues in marriage lekin himmat mili .. thanks
@saritabajaj9539 Жыл бұрын
Salaam hain aapko sir
@vibhasingh6 Жыл бұрын
Ji Sar aapane bilkul sahi Kaha
@PriyaPandey-kx1pq28 күн бұрын
Thank you so much sirji thank you so much thank you thank you thank you
@tinathakur8698 Жыл бұрын
Much needed words sir....thank you so much 🙏🙏
@gaurilaxmikant8108 Жыл бұрын
🙏🙏🙏🙏 thanks is a very small word to express my gratitude towards d life solving approach & ur guidance sir
@animesh..3 ай бұрын
Dum hai guru ji ❤
@shwetashweta15619 ай бұрын
Loved your expressions, rather I personally find the information very well versed.
@deepanagdev2406 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much I m going manopause as well as rough marriage at same time. I feel like all my life is slipping out of my hand. Your advice did not help me solve my problem but gave me patience to bear the situation. And patience is only solution which ll help this situation 🙏🏻 Thank you so much sir🙏🏻 today u gave me advice like my father.🙏🏻
@jaisejacob3751 Жыл бұрын
Bahut Acha Sir! Himat a rahi hai
@masurimadhabvi1563 Жыл бұрын
Iam following many of yours advices hoping one day my life will be successful
@shabadshappiness3975 Жыл бұрын
I always trust your advice🙏🙏
@darshanashinde504121 күн бұрын
Guruji, Thank you🙏 your video changed my mindset. I am a teacher, at present middle class. At a right time I am seeing your video I am feeling as if universal blessing showering on me. I am falling short of Words. Dhanyavaad 🙏🏻
@aps0456 Жыл бұрын
himmat--e- mardaan...Madad-e-khuda..!!
@precious_7863 ай бұрын
Thq means alot ❤
@SatabdiSahaOfficial3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much sir 😊
@narenr2375 Жыл бұрын
Could not agree more... Thank you 🙏 for sharing.
@DavinderKaur-ps6rl Жыл бұрын
Aap ke words, bolne ki style bhoot ki interesting hai,
@jyotichauhan6679 Жыл бұрын
Enjoyed , liked your suggestions and advice. Thanks and Best Wishes
@AnilKumar-po5wr Жыл бұрын
Good example and equally good advice.
@archananandapurkar9026 Жыл бұрын
Very nicely explained I vl share this with my sis daughter who is going through rough patch in marriage
@moonmatters...3857 Жыл бұрын
Right advice at right time
@daymah.l1840 Жыл бұрын
Great clarity ❤❤❤❤❤
@albenarana4895 Жыл бұрын
Thanks bade bhaiya aisi advices mere bade jeth dete the jo ab nahi hai
@zxzatomicxzxz2323 Жыл бұрын
Saadar Naman aapko Sir. Bahut badiya advise di aapne.
@NA-vt6mz Жыл бұрын
Marriage is gamble
@shirleybose1798 Жыл бұрын
Namaskar Mr. Sangwan, excellent and wise advice
@girrajsharanagrawal288 Жыл бұрын
VERY PRACTICAL VIDEO KEEP POSTED SIR, UR SMILE IS ALSO VERY GOOD
@itreallymeans27097 ай бұрын
काम की सलाह हैं
@sindhumenon7383 Жыл бұрын
Excellent👍👏👏👏 your example is super👌👌👌👌👌
@rabiyaali4734 Жыл бұрын
Very very nice video sir... thank u so much 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@tapashreeroy1186 Жыл бұрын
Apke videos mein aise special signs ❤ 🙏 hona chahiye
@saritabajaj9539 Жыл бұрын
Wonderful example
@MonikaMonika-yp6wf Жыл бұрын
Very nice advice, good examples
@RKBClassMaths Жыл бұрын
Excellent sir
@numaaftara381 Жыл бұрын
U always give best advice
@kirtimehta295428 күн бұрын
Amit ji se request he ki ek esa college banae jaha har age group ke liye class ho Age group 15-20 Age group 21-25 Age group 26-30 Age group 31-35 Age group 35-40 Age group 41-50 Age group 50-60 Age group 60 above Sabhi course ki fees ho But college ho to thik ho Old age vale parents ya jo kam age ke he or bimar he to unki seva kese hogi jisse vo bhi khush rahe or couple ko bhi khush rahne de Or pre marriage ka ek compulsory couse ho ho couple ko karna bahut jaruri ho jisme govt. Ki taraf se ho ki shadi ke pahle ye course karna bahut jaruri ho Govt. Approved ho Or couple ke family ke liye bhi ek course ho ladke ke family or ladki ki family In dono family ko kya karna he kya nhi karna vo bataya jae Plz. Open your college plz. 🙏🏻
@ArdShrivastav-we2zr8 күн бұрын
Hi😊😅
@shikhasingh1537 Жыл бұрын
Sir your efforts are truly commendable,nice content.
@sarahtiara Жыл бұрын
Sir ek astrology aur karma pe bhi video bnao
@bhartigupta2218 Жыл бұрын
Proud of you sir 🎉
@vivekdesai8500 Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@akhild69 Жыл бұрын
Guru Tatva, Agree with you. Family interference and Netflix korean serials seeding ego, monetary, hatred, jealousy, gold digging as most of the time spend on these serials also one of the reasons
@Poonammahendru123 Жыл бұрын
Wonderful insight 👍
@Sunshinewebcam Жыл бұрын
V nice .thank u sir..
@minakshiminakshi7756 Жыл бұрын
Very helpful 👌
@talkswithnehabhardwaj Жыл бұрын
Need this vedio.. thankyou
@s_c294810 ай бұрын
💯 pasant each n every word is true sir i salute 🫡 ❤❤❤
@bawagrafix Жыл бұрын
aaapki fluent english and hinglish is awesome
@albenarana4895 Жыл бұрын
This is my 35th year of marriage all due to patience thank god
@priyankamaihar41795 ай бұрын
Sahi baat
@vineetarainakaul Жыл бұрын
Such deep wisdom
@renukhandelwal9322 Жыл бұрын
I was also going through d phase in my married life..which u described.... but after watching ur video got motivated to fight d bad times n not escape from it...
@NidhiSharma-xo9rh Жыл бұрын
Really appreciate u sir for this video going through such kind of phase,much needed for me
@triptydatta7540 Жыл бұрын
Useful video
@satpaulkukkar8340 Жыл бұрын
Real awakening ofyouth
@mokshainhell9 ай бұрын
Sir Jo apne sabse pehle bola iss video mein ..... Vo last mein kehtey to jyada acha lagta ... I hope u can understand my words ... 🙏
@rajchopraaccountsclasses7567 Жыл бұрын
Practical knowledge video sir👌👌
@prasantapanda9659 Жыл бұрын
If extra marital affair, then ... Kese chalae ??
@sheeladeshpande61366 ай бұрын
Present generation lacks patience,they decide very fast and don't want others to interfere in their lives,be it parents or friends
@adityavikram5338 Жыл бұрын
Good stuff, simply explained, alas! life had been so simple.
@nandinisingh8952 Жыл бұрын
Indeed excellent ...:)
@mysticalhuman Жыл бұрын
Sir, it is Cholbe na Chollbe na, from your Bengali fan
@nidhipandey89627 ай бұрын
Hello sir namaste 🙏. Sir Meri shadi bilkul tutne k kagar pr h meti shafi ko 3 sal huye h or ab mere husband mujhe divorce dena chahte h vo mujhe chorne k liye force kr rhe h kya kru sir me meti mummy k ghr pr hu 1 sal se but husband pr koi frk ni h vo lene ni a rhe h
@DK-25 Жыл бұрын
Best video so far 😊
@lineshshah5272 Жыл бұрын
Good advice
@mirecalmind4767 Жыл бұрын
Superb.
@simranjitgill9338 Жыл бұрын
Excellent!
@majestytoursandtravels3188 Жыл бұрын
Deep and practical.
@1ddlj Жыл бұрын
Give freedom n space to the partner.
@soniavadhera546 Жыл бұрын
Everything you said is true. 👍
@Jaya-Sia Жыл бұрын
Thank you sir 😊
@neelamaggarwal4053 Жыл бұрын
Nice topic. Need of the day
@manjular3678 Жыл бұрын
Whatever you are speaking out is good to listen to But mostly it's the wives who have to put with all the insults, humiliations, threatenings and beatings. Today, times have changed and the girls are not interested in suffering such marriages
@wowser2153 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes it is better to leave , otherwise it ends in murder or suicide