How Wives Control Their Husbands In Marriage ?

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@arunas7151
@arunas7151 Жыл бұрын
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@DalitShiv_Nagwanshi
@DalitShiv_Nagwanshi Жыл бұрын
Aadmi ke liye ek hii Solution hai ke, Man zyada se zyada Biwiya rakhe, kyuki Duniya musafir khana ha, or Zyada biwiya hogi toh kisi ek par dependency nahi hogi, toh Biwi apki achhe se seva kregi. Or Biwi ka bhi Kaam kam hoga, Sath me mil kar ek bada parivar bnega, Khushal parivar bnega. Sirf Aadmi ko Strong, Samajdar or Family-Loving hona chahiye, or kisi Biwi ke sath discrimination Nah krta ho.
@PrakritiSehgaal
@PrakritiSehgaal Жыл бұрын
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@drsapnakaswan
@drsapnakaswan Жыл бұрын
Shawshank Redemption- the name of the movie.
@sakshibhel914
@sakshibhel914 Жыл бұрын
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@sumeetkumar6900
@sumeetkumar6900 Жыл бұрын
I caught my wife watching this video. In her defence she shared the link to another video of yours "how men control their wives" 😂😂
@sapnatripathi7934
@sapnatripathi7934 Жыл бұрын
😂
@blazingpheonix3925
@blazingpheonix3925 Жыл бұрын
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@ac9158
@ac9158 Жыл бұрын
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@AnkitKumar-kk3iw
@AnkitKumar-kk3iw 6 ай бұрын
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@GreenCoordinates
@GreenCoordinates 4 ай бұрын
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@dummysngh7725
@dummysngh7725 Жыл бұрын
CONTROL - We loose CONTRIBUTE - We progress COMMITMENT- We win 🏆
@alkadeshpande6628
@alkadeshpande6628 Жыл бұрын
sahi!
@shashigupta7428
@shashigupta7428 Жыл бұрын
Wah, right 👍
@vibrantvaidehi
@vibrantvaidehi Жыл бұрын
Pls also make a video on how a widowed mother controls her married son emotionally (passive aggressively) while living in adjoining houses
@nidhimathur2076
@nidhimathur2076 8 ай бұрын
Not only widowed but also MIL taken everything in control. Least bothered about pro& cons .Pl advice how to survive .
@jigneshtyagi8406
@jigneshtyagi8406 2 ай бұрын
Widow mothers gain sympathy from everyone, society and relatives.
@namratas1929
@namratas1929 Жыл бұрын
Father's sacrifice is always underestimated.My dad only breadwinner,never enjoyed lavish lifestyle but gave us highest level of education,always would teach us after coming from office till 1 or 2 clock late night.That's why we became experts.When all the children started earnings the entire credit was taken by my mom.According to her,she sacrificed her life but what about my dad,he never ever went alone or with his friends to watch movie or to eat out.He always gave us more than what he could.I totally agree with you,Sir.These moms are manipulating and scheming, plotting to take the entire credit.
@rahulroy515
@rahulroy515 Жыл бұрын
You are understanding this thing about your father. This is the reward of your farher's entire li9fe struggle.
@Mathretaledvideos
@Mathretaledvideos Жыл бұрын
Pls dont generalize things... Aisa hua hoga aapke ghar mei, not everywhere. All moms r not manipulative, not all dads r manipulative... changes from family to family
@I_am_groot_3874
@I_am_groot_3874 Жыл бұрын
U never know what ur mother has gone through nobody is manipulative since inception. As children we shud try to understand both parents equally
@bhanuemani6176
@bhanuemani6176 5 ай бұрын
Fathers never have time to create good impression as they were always busy in earning money and taking care of children's fees college education, marriage expenditure etc. They were Never loved enough by own grown up kids. Only fortunate fathers get support - what they really deserve.
@rahulrajbhoj
@rahulrajbhoj 4 ай бұрын
This is so true. Sadly my passed away last year, wish i had learned this earlier in my life. My mother also made him a villain in my life. Later I realised that was not the case.
@shalkiseth2893
@shalkiseth2893 Жыл бұрын
Main point is that everyone needs an emotional support . Kisiko kaabu nahi karna hai , bass dhang se sorted life lead Karni hai bina kisiko ghulaam banaaye ya control kkiye.
@shalkiseth2893
@shalkiseth2893 Жыл бұрын
Thanks to all those who liked my views.
@shashankarora8623
@shashankarora8623 Жыл бұрын
Controlling another human is the main reason behind toxicity
@DalitShiv_Nagwanshi
@DalitShiv_Nagwanshi Жыл бұрын
Women or Shudra ko control me hii rakhna chahiye. . Women(by Nature) ( Men bhi Woman ke Nature ke ho toh unhe bhi control krna chahiye) . Shudra( Not by surname, but by behaviour, Occupation & Quality)
@amu808
@amu808 Жыл бұрын
​@@DalitShiv_Nagwanshipagal ho kya
@Pictureofmy_world
@Pictureofmy_world Жыл бұрын
​@@DalitShiv_Nagwanshiapni maa ko kiya karo
@DalitShiv_Nagwanshi
@DalitShiv_Nagwanshi Жыл бұрын
@@Pictureofmy_world meri Maa_ko mere Pita ji Love, control & protection meh rakhte hai Jii
@ensign62
@ensign62 Жыл бұрын
​@@amu808😂😂😂
@TheCycloneTrooper
@TheCycloneTrooper Жыл бұрын
As a man, choose your partner wisely, understand your parents' marriage deeply, support your own family over all others yet understand your role as the weighing scale in the house. What you allow to perpetrate will become the precedence for all others - be warm yet firm in your dealings at home. Lead your people in the right direction, lead by example.
@SinghAjit211
@SinghAjit211 Жыл бұрын
You have said the best possible thing amongst all debate... appreciateing your valued comment after listening and reading all responses.
@SRP63
@SRP63 Жыл бұрын
OMG 😅could not control my laughter ..the way you explain ,but on a serious note ,what you said is true .But we all learn on the job ,as husbands ,wives ...and if you get the lesson its fine . Balance is a very important in evey thing ,especially in emotions. That takes care of your decisions ,relationships ..but again till the day we die we are still have a lot to learn.And bitterness should be out of your relationships, when you are 60 and above...just let it go. Do something and keep yourself busy.Happiness is a state of mind .no matter how young or old you are. This is my view .
@bickeyrana8656
@bickeyrana8656 Жыл бұрын
Akele hi jivan ka anand Lena hoga lag raha hai ladka ladki dono ko, itne sir k information sun k Aisa hi laga mujhe, paise kamane hai, Ghar k logo par adhikaar nahi jamana hai, na biwi se koi matlab rakhna hai na control hona hai bas thoda pyar Dena hai thoda saath dena hai , bass thoda thoda karke har chiz jina hai ultimate 100% jeene k liye
@palashchanda9308
@palashchanda9308 Жыл бұрын
Being a recently married guy nearing his 40 and then being falsely accused by my wife (36) of DV and dowry cases after just 1 year of marriage, this video really clears a lot of doubts.
@seeker7090
@seeker7090 7 ай бұрын
Divorce mat lo
@sanu588amit
@sanu588amit Жыл бұрын
Jiska father paisa udate hain unka mummy control karna chahiye for better future of their family. Men jab kamata hai woh jyada future expenses nahi sochta yeh sachai hai.
@purpleshine6832
@purpleshine6832 Жыл бұрын
My mother in law has done the same with her family. She has passed it on to her daughter. I heard my sister in law's daughters telling me " mom does everything in the house. If she is not there, even a hanky won't be in its correct place. There is no house without mom." I asked the children "who told u this?" They said "mom"
@ashanaithani6248
@ashanaithani6248 Жыл бұрын
Yes, we don't depend on each other and yet we want to be together, this is Love.
@alaypatel6050
@alaypatel6050 Жыл бұрын
Bollywoodiya style !!
@nirupamasharma4389
@nirupamasharma4389 Жыл бұрын
True, and that's an amazing marriage!!
@mamtaSingh-mu8qx
@mamtaSingh-mu8qx Жыл бұрын
Video is very nice 👍👍. Things are so well explained. How much a woman has to do to make a safe place in her sasural ! This is a servival story of a bahu who wishes to make a secure ground for her . Please do keep on guiding and councelling us
@sanghatidas3616
@sanghatidas3616 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. New generation want to play T20. We don't have that much patience to tolerate torture for 20 yrs. These 20 yrs are sufficient to create huge bitterness for a marriage. These bitterness stays in old age also.
@DalitShiv_Nagwanshi
@DalitShiv_Nagwanshi Жыл бұрын
Exactly, basically this uncle is saying that Woman should have Patience to Bear the T0rture of Husband & his in-Laws.
@DalitShiv_Nagwanshi
@DalitShiv_Nagwanshi Жыл бұрын
Lekin bohot se cases meh Wife bhi Husband ko Mentally itna T0rture kar deti hai, ke Aadmi Khudkhushi tak kar lete ha, ye bhi Duniya ki ek sachai ha, ap ish par bhi dhyana lagaye
@dummysngh7725
@dummysngh7725 Жыл бұрын
Yes true
@priyankapattanaik5414
@priyankapattanaik5414 Жыл бұрын
Hmmm.thats why old age in India is living hell ...they used others life hell as theirs.
@MohitYadav-th7fz
@MohitYadav-th7fz Жыл бұрын
​@@priyankapattanaik5414toh abhi kon si young generation maze me hai 😂
@nabeelarora
@nabeelarora Жыл бұрын
Truly speechless with the level of knowledge and understanding and clarity. Hats off! Now looking back at our families, I can figure out all this..
@bharatideore3101
@bharatideore3101 Жыл бұрын
Excellent analysis , Amit ji. I liked the phrase "moral corruption." Truth is difficult to digest.
@soumilroy
@soumilroy Жыл бұрын
Seen similar dynamic in my uncle's family. Uncle acted as a sher but after retirement he became a billi. Now my masi has became a sherni in their relationship 😂😂😂
@ANi-nc7zc
@ANi-nc7zc Жыл бұрын
I usually agree with you but not on this. My husband helps me more than I want…he can do all household work but still after 32 years of marriage, we both miss each other if one is away.
@Ninanani-4085
@Ninanani-4085 Жыл бұрын
Yours is a ideal family. No need of any power dynamics balancing. You both are already balanced.
@Devi-pg4rj
@Devi-pg4rj Жыл бұрын
​@@Ninanani-4085could be codependency too.
@ninii394
@ninii394 Жыл бұрын
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@hk89426
@hk89426 Жыл бұрын
things we independent new generation used to wonder , seeing things in society. Now I am 40 and getting a stamp on my wonders that my judgement was right seeing neighbours, relatives
@Shri_Hegde
@Shri_Hegde Жыл бұрын
Now a days girls marry not for family or love, They marry only for financial stability... Women wants their rights without any responsibilities and duties and they termed responsibilities and duties as domestic abuse..... That is why marriage become liability for men.... I belive in - If possible do love marriage , otherwise dont marry... However if it is love marriage or Arranged marriage ready or know what to do and How to protect your asset if wife blackmail you, cheats you or want to divorce you....
@doremon9999
@doremon9999 Жыл бұрын
Solution to all this problem is man should learn to do all the house hold chores and should learn to do nursing care for their own parents without expecting a out side women to do it for your parents.....why men is not capable of that? Now a days women r working and taking responsibility, same like man also must do all domestic labour work with wife for a complete happy family
@brinjal1371
@brinjal1371 Жыл бұрын
​@@doremon9999nonsense That's not solution. Men should better themselves as man . Learning cooking and domestic chore is ok it's part of life. But domestic chore must be done by wife. Only those who know women's psychology can understand the wisdom behind it.
@aastha466
@aastha466 3 ай бұрын
​@@brinjal1371😂😂😂
@brinjal1371
@brinjal1371 3 ай бұрын
@@aastha466 😂😁
@mahendragiri7236
@mahendragiri7236 Жыл бұрын
Thanks from Pune, Maharashtra Guruji🙏, your every topic 75-80% relatable for me, but this was 100% relatable.
@anuradhamakhe2402
@anuradhamakhe2402 Жыл бұрын
It's an ironical coincidence that I saw these same power dynamics in the movie "Rocky and Rani ki Prem kahani" and have actually seen this happening in my life as well, with my parents and now when I am married.
@hk89426
@hk89426 Жыл бұрын
This movie put a stamp on my understanding upon narcissistic personalities
@shivanimalik6739
@shivanimalik6739 Жыл бұрын
My husband has been controlling me for last 9 years. He decides to whom i should talk or not. Even it's been 9 years i haven't visited my father's house, because of my kids i can't leave or divorce him. I have to live like this my whole life
@banditonehundred
@banditonehundred 11 ай бұрын
Get some counselling from a professional. Don’t talk to your friends, they will only listen and gossip. Speaking poorly about your husband in public will only reduce trust even further
@ShubhamSharma-ky2tf
@ShubhamSharma-ky2tf Жыл бұрын
Sir ji. You spill the beans. Gave me so much clarity. Victimhood mein bhi dominance
@Ninanani-4085
@Ninanani-4085 Жыл бұрын
Dominance karenge to jhelenge bhi, victimhood se ho ya revolt aur ladai se. Behtar hai ki dominance karo hi mat.
@stillbliss1
@stillbliss1 Жыл бұрын
The uniqueness of this channel is its very real and relatable. You should continue doing this. Please don't get into selling a book in the end like the whole creator market even if any content manager advises to.. yes It is a part of monetizing online content but now in the subconscious of the audience it has become like, Bhai ye bhi wahi creator jinko apni book bechna hai aur phir mehenge courses bechna hai. Hold your unique content as a USP. Thanks & All the best.
@ankitpanwar3992
@ankitpanwar3992 Жыл бұрын
😊
@shefalianand612
@shefalianand612 Жыл бұрын
Ya. Worst are the Medical Doctors on Ytube mostly American doctors selling their Books & their own brand pills & supplements
@aks1706
@aks1706 Жыл бұрын
But in 90% cases, it was natural flow of family. If women were so sajishbaaj, why would she wait for 20 30 years of marriage until achieving 50 60 years of age. Age bachti he kitni hai uske baad.... Today's generation is spot on becoz they are earning....They want equal partnership. Earlier money was less and women were dependent on their husbands and their own family
@blazingpheonix3925
@blazingpheonix3925 Жыл бұрын
🤬Jisne paida Kara hai usko Chhod ke Teri SEVA Karega kya? Ladkiya bhi apne parents Ko zyada priority deti hai, apne husband se ZYADA. Husband ki burai karti hai logo ke saath lekin apni family Ki criticism Jhel nahi paati... Women are MORE MAMA'S GIRL and PAPA KI PARI.... MEN can sometimes go against his mother for his wife. But WIFE WILL NEVER GO AGAINST HER OWN FAMILY
@aks1706
@aks1706 Жыл бұрын
@@blazingpheonix3925 same would have happened if men would have stayed with their in laws. Distance always provide more care and love. Daughters agar parents sath rehti to unke sath bhi khat pat hoti.... Mutual respect for each other's parents is the key for happy marriage.
@amijoshi2559
@amijoshi2559 Жыл бұрын
Shaadi control karne ke liye nahi saath ek dusre ka Dene ke liye karo...nahi to single raho .chahe koi bhi Ghar chala Raha ho aur kitne bhi members family me ho...milke raho,enjoy karo.. control na karo..hamare liye Jo sahi hai vo kisi ke liye galat bhi ho sakta hai..
@nilinimagupta5311
@nilinimagupta5311 Жыл бұрын
I'm 55 yrs old. Shaadi se 2 saal pehle se husband dusre city m job karte hue ghar akele manage karna seekh gaye the. Shaadi k pehle saal m muje bhi bahut support kiya but usi duration m unki mother k sachchai pata chali k dono beto ko bhed bhav se pala tha.husband bade bete the to unko sirf zimmedariyan ,yahan tak k padhne ka bhi time nahi deti thi aur chhote bhai ko padhai k alawa duniya m kya ho raha h ,isase kuchh matlab nahi hota tha. Apni maa k baad husband ki duniya m dusri aurat mere roop m aayi. Jab muje khud bhi unke parents k behaviour ka experience hua aur pehle ki baatein bhi pata chali tab subconsciously husband k liye care karne k bhavna aati gayi .Means patni k saath maa ka pyar bhi diya ,jo unki life m missing tha. Ab kya maine unko dependent jaanboojhker banaya taaki wo baad m mere gulaam ban jaaye.
@abhaysoni926
@abhaysoni926 Жыл бұрын
You really loved your husband.. just be with her.. he needs your support for his further life.. maybe he had been exploited by his mother and brother.. I hope I also get a wife who treats me also as mother do..
@nilinimagupta5311
@nilinimagupta5311 Жыл бұрын
@@abhaysoni926 thank u so much for yr such a heart touching feed back
@Manik_4315
@Manik_4315 Жыл бұрын
dont worry!! you sure are a good wife... If you are long life partner you're not only husband and wife but everything to each other, You can fill the void of their Parents, Teachers, Sibling even you can treat them as your child. There is nothing wrong with it. I also have some scars from my childhood due to family problems and I'll be happy if my wife is filling them (By choice) and even I am ready to fill hers.
@Ninanani-4085
@Ninanani-4085 Жыл бұрын
​@@abhaysoni926 You won't get if you be only Mama's boy. You will get if you equally respect, love and stand by your wife. And, Love is not dialogue. Equal sharing by Actions is love. Use bataoge, ki wo aurat hai, to use ye karna chahiye, to apne time pe wo tumhe batayegi ki tum admi ho tumhe, wo karna chahiye. It will go on.
@abhaysoni926
@abhaysoni926 Жыл бұрын
@@Ninanani-4085 I'm not any mama's boy type..and currently I'm not married 😂.
@VSK6030
@VSK6030 Жыл бұрын
This man deserves an award !! 🙌
@hk89426
@hk89426 Жыл бұрын
Seriously, things we independent new generation used to wonder seeing things in society. Now I am 40 and getting a stamp on my wonders that my judgement was right seeing neighbours, relatives
@pawanjalandery
@pawanjalandery Жыл бұрын
To add on, one more reason Till the time father do the job, they remain adamant and never listen NO for an answer. All of sudden when they get retired and started facing resistance to their decisions, they get confused how to address it. Then they start taking help/ support from the mother and eventually statics changes.
@blazingpheonix3925
@blazingpheonix3925 Жыл бұрын
🤬Jisne paida Kara hai usko Chhod ke Teri SEVA Karega kya? Ladkiya bhi apne parents Ko zyada priority deti hai, apne husband se ZYADA. Husband ki burai karti hai logo ke saath lekin apni family Ki criticism Jhel nahi paati... Women are MORE MAMA'S GIRL and PAPA KI PARI.... MEN can sometimes go against his mother for his wife. But WIFE WILL NEVER GO AGAINST HER OWN FAMILY
@pratikshukla9573
@pratikshukla9573 Жыл бұрын
Your insights into this phenomena are indeed, phenomenal!!! Such depth can't come just by hardwork or experience alone, a very subtle right mix of understanding and erudity is needed to pierce so deep into the depths of truth... I seldom appreciate youtubers.. but you really are one of a kind... hats off to you sir
@nishabharti659
@nishabharti659 Жыл бұрын
What u said in the last minute was the star of this whole topic...deep thinking👍so true...we exaggerate past whether happy or sad....usually it is neither as life runs in the middle
@arushi_gupta
@arushi_gupta Жыл бұрын
Very well explained, the thing is nobody wins in this dynamic. Mothers sure teach their kids about their sacrifices, but the fact is it impacts those kids for the rest of their lives and next 2 generations as well. A system of failure of relationships where relationships are mere give n take and nothing more
@naina763
@naina763 Жыл бұрын
Perfectly said sir... Gen Z mai patience nahi hai.... But sir sara patience sirf ladki se hi expected hai.... Jo ki ab girls ab nahi karngei accept... Rehna hai sath tho equality se hi rehna padega... N mother in law (mil)ko bichari uski beakar halt hai.... 😅expectations high rakhi (mil) ne... N woh bhi galat.... Ab baith kar ro rahi hi😂😂😂😂
@blazingpheonix3925
@blazingpheonix3925 Жыл бұрын
Girls ke "acceptance" pe nahi chalegi dunia. FORCEFULLY ACCEPT KARWAYENGE. WARNA UPAR
@naina763
@naina763 Жыл бұрын
@@blazingpheonix3925 u mean mother in law 🤣🤣🤣
@Amanrathore23
@Amanrathore23 Жыл бұрын
​@@blazingpheonix3925 nhi brother apni Ghar ki ladies ko upar mat bhejo
@SNomnamo
@SNomnamo Жыл бұрын
You are a true gem Sir❤The average Indian will not appreciate you because they don't have the brains to understand your layers. The average Indian tends to either glorify or demonise anyone whether it's their mother father wife husband etc meri maa toh Devi thi.....yeh comment har baar main padhti hoon mujhe hassi aati hai....phir toh bharat mai 50 crore deviyaan honi chahiye ghoomte phirte..... Also they get very offended when you say the naked truth.... But there are people like us who accept and appreciate reality and therefore you !!!
@Clarityinlife335
@Clarityinlife335 Жыл бұрын
Bohot zabardast baat hai, kyunki mummy ke nani house jaane par papa ki waat lag jaati thi. Arey ye kaha hai arey ye kaise hoga. Arey mera samaan saath mein le gayi kya kuch nahi mil raha yahi toh pada rehta tha. Acha aaj tiffin nahi aaya.
@amitsahai9518
@amitsahai9518 Жыл бұрын
This is mind blowing , such an observation on our society and the perceptions created so well articulated. It takes real guts to show a mirror to society !
@Jay-rv4ee
@Jay-rv4ee Жыл бұрын
Spot on, Sirji. I joined such a family where the mother was an internal Shoorpankhi, but an external Sita Mata. My father-in-law was the first victim. I could never explain this to anyone. I split from the marriage after 25 years of this toxicity, which ran in her son's veins too. My children and I have moved on, but it takes lifetimes to end this inter-generational trauma.
@som0s0r
@som0s0r Жыл бұрын
😂 I left them and now live with my kid my own.. But it took time to heal
@Bluesmiley05
@Bluesmiley05 Жыл бұрын
You deserve a peaceful life ahead.
@Jay-rv4ee
@Jay-rv4ee Жыл бұрын
@@Bluesmiley05 thank you. We are healing, but it will take a lifetime
@vinceisgod1547
@vinceisgod1547 Жыл бұрын
Accurate😂story of every family❤on target guruji😊😊😊
@wellbeing4914
@wellbeing4914 Жыл бұрын
Economic dependence kept people together, even in dysfunctional families and the results affected children, which is extremely tragic.
@vibha-ff1ee
@vibha-ff1ee 9 ай бұрын
जिसका बचपन ही घर की लड़ाइयां-झगड़े देख गुजरा हो "वाजिद" अब वो डरा-सहमा सा रहता है तो जमाने को मलाल क्यूं है?
@sk-ss1nu
@sk-ss1nu Жыл бұрын
Very intelligent ,educative and unbiased content on this channel. Wishing you lots of subscribers Sir.
@vibhamittal4686
@vibhamittal4686 2 ай бұрын
😂 सैल्यूट सर , जीवन में पहली बार एकदम सही बोलने वाले इंसान से मुलाकात हुई है
@dr.reshmaschede4054
@dr.reshmaschede4054 Жыл бұрын
Your observation is absolutely right..gen z is smarter and much resolved.
@nageshj1340
@nageshj1340 Жыл бұрын
Pranam Guruji 🙏 , i can relate now what has / was happening in family life till date.. thank you for keeping it to the point and unfolding yhe secret
@kritipriya5789
@kritipriya5789 Жыл бұрын
Thank u for sharing these things.. it’s really what I have experienced at my home and at my inlaws place😂.. aapne toh saari pol khol di.. keep sharing such things..
@sushilkumari1203
@sushilkumari1203 11 ай бұрын
धन्यवाद सर आप बहुत ही अच्छी एक नंबर की बात बता रहे हो
@tulikapanja5514
@tulikapanja5514 Жыл бұрын
Shawshank Redemption -- Sir all your contents are practical and doable.
@KomalNirwan
@KomalNirwan Жыл бұрын
I was about to mention the movie name. 😂
@truthwall
@truthwall Жыл бұрын
Guruji is a brilliant observer and know the dynamics too well
@mantreshagrawal
@mantreshagrawal Жыл бұрын
Kya baat boli hai sir I'm 20 years old but i agree 100% with you, great knowledge.
@SK-df9kl
@SK-df9kl Жыл бұрын
Could you please make video on narcissistic MIL and unsupportive husband? We live in another city but still MIL is controlling husband.
@anamikas227
@anamikas227 Жыл бұрын
I feel you . I have MIL and Sils . Toxic to the core who remote control their sons, brother. Son in law along with husband
@panktislifestyle2354
@panktislifestyle2354 Жыл бұрын
​@@anamikas227me too can feel it. MIL created divorced.
@rahulmore4584
@rahulmore4584 Жыл бұрын
play power dynamic game, as sir told in video.. Easy.. I bet you, if you handle all your Mil's problems now to 45-50 ki age me pura ghar, aapka husband aapki control me hoga.. Bilkul 12:40 - 13:25 aise
@sanjayshetty1533
@sanjayshetty1533 Жыл бұрын
Think of her as ur mother for 3 months, n analyse her actions n u will get ur answer
@anamikas227
@anamikas227 Жыл бұрын
@@rahulmore4584 we are working n earning people who are not interested in doing this , some people are highly toxic ,they go to the extent of dividing sons family . Not easy
@muneeza9165
@muneeza9165 Жыл бұрын
This is good. Understanding life and power dynamics requires acceptance. Kudos
@janamedia8171
@janamedia8171 Жыл бұрын
Sir ❤..... Please make a video on daughters raised by parents too pampered cos when they get married they see a different lifestyle..Few adjust and change and few break marriage and go back leading to broken marriages.
@mohakvasisht6106
@mohakvasisht6106 Жыл бұрын
It is not as if the women of that generation were doing this so called pati ki seva as part of a grand scheme with the purpose of one day ruling the family.. They were expected and often bullied into a subservient position by the in laws, relatives and neighbours. After a time, it just became a sort of habit and, more often than not, a way of life to keep peace in the family. The brewing bitterness, of course, was never addressed by the man or his family so she vented her woes to her children who witnessed it firsthand. Nobody stopped the husband from becoming self dependent.. it just suited him fine to be the way he was. It's only when that bitterness is felt for the daughter in law that the older woman should introspect and refrain from becoming a part of the vicious cycle
@Checkmatestellar
@Checkmatestellar 2 ай бұрын
This is happening at present as well because we are taught not to answer our inlaws. Agree that no one stopped men from being independent. Inlaws always play mental games to make their daughter in law servile.
@Lonewolff93
@Lonewolff93 2 ай бұрын
Sir apne ek baat bahut sahi kahi ki "Aadmiyo ko toh pata hi nahi match kaise khelna hai"
@Subhamjaisworld
@Subhamjaisworld Жыл бұрын
Just like sikhar dhawan and jonny dep
@Masteroflifestar
@Masteroflifestar Ай бұрын
Ye wlaa video kaafi acha tha...deep analysis kiya hai aapne purane generation aur abhi ke generation ka 😊
@abcxyz9783
@abcxyz9783 Ай бұрын
As always, eye opening and profound. Thank you, sir.
@binoylive
@binoylive Жыл бұрын
Very interesting content, nicely articulated as always❤
@deepti8920
@deepti8920 Жыл бұрын
This is the most practical video i have ever seen on the dynamics of relationship. The same situation i have seen in my family as well.
@Vijendra_Seeker
@Vijendra_Seeker Жыл бұрын
कोई महिला किसी पुरूष को कन्ट्रोल नही करती पुरूष तैयार ही बैठा है कन्ट्रोल होने के लिए 😂
@jaitpurmcd5696
@jaitpurmcd5696 Жыл бұрын
You are absolutely correct. I have seem when elder lady becomes real owner of her property , FD a& other assets after demise of husband real power game starts in family. In the name of property she make life of her children hell
@abhisheksharma-ht6nd
@abhisheksharma-ht6nd Жыл бұрын
Please make a video on having one kid vs 2 or more kids under different scenarios like, single parent working, both parent working etc.
@ayushisrivastava5278
@ayushisrivastava5278 Жыл бұрын
So so so accurate!! Uncle ji you rocked👏
@sunandapowar2645
@sunandapowar2645 Жыл бұрын
💯 True Each word. Worth listening always
@user-yk5xu8gr1e
@user-yk5xu8gr1e Жыл бұрын
Last mein aapne sahi kaha....sahi pyaar aajkal hi hai jan ek doosre ki economic slavery nahi hai :)
@drasmitapagar.606
@drasmitapagar.606 Жыл бұрын
What a Keen Observation Sir 😁 hats off to your practical knowledge. Best Videos ever I have watched on your channel. Thanks a lot 🙏 respect from heart.
@arti232005
@arti232005 Жыл бұрын
Indian men r brought up in such way they become r dependent first mother then if continues after marriage ..
@banditonehundred
@banditonehundred 11 ай бұрын
That is nonsense. Men want peace at home and are willing to compromise on the power dynamics for that.
@neha4674
@neha4674 Жыл бұрын
Sir, best video till date, this wisdom is priceless . Thanks for considering us worthy of this gyaan. Thanks
@panktislifestyle2354
@panktislifestyle2354 Жыл бұрын
Sir, in my family, no one wish to sit and discuss. Can you please make a video how to talk in family N convince them that problems can be sort out via open talk?
@nirupamasharma4389
@nirupamasharma4389 Жыл бұрын
Being a woman and also a feminist, this video doesn't provoke me at all. I know this thing used to happen. I have seen that happening in my family. And honestly, its just an after effect or consequence of what has been the home system set up based on patriarchy. Women werr dependent on men for money, and men were dependent on women for each and every daily housework. Ek time ke baad paisa mahila ko mil gaya, but daily housework ka kya hoga, wo kahan se permanently mil jayega? Truly analysed by sango sir, ye aadmiyon ke liye ultimately ghate ka sauda hi raha.
@DalitShiv_Nagwanshi
@DalitShiv_Nagwanshi Жыл бұрын
Agar ham, Aadmi ki bhalai ke liye 4-Biwi rakhne ko kahe, taki Old age me ushe ek Mahila par depend nah hona, pade toh ap mujh par Gussa nikalege
@namanjain2488
@namanjain2488 Жыл бұрын
if both are earning then they can hire maid.
@ayanmahato6049
@ayanmahato6049 Жыл бұрын
Shadi mat karo bf gf hi rho
@namanjain2488
@namanjain2488 Жыл бұрын
@@bapparawal2457 meine kab ka 4 wife ke liye ?
@arunas7151
@arunas7151 Жыл бұрын
@nirupama ek time bad paisa mahila ko kaise Mil gya??? Property naam krne se kya hoga jabtk usko ye hi nhi pta ki use kaise hoga?
@injar88
@injar88 Жыл бұрын
The people who show the mirror will not have a huge audience and yes each person can get triggered. I have seen how it is very closely. The one who does the cleaning and if you speak the truth for bringing change. You are helping so thank you and keep going. Thank you for giving the next generations some credit. 🙏🙏🙏
@poulomimondal6145
@poulomimondal6145 Жыл бұрын
whatever you said 100 percent truth
@krushnadurga600
@krushnadurga600 Жыл бұрын
Please make videos on RICH CLASS too. An insight into their life and relations behind that show off will be Interesting!
@nehai4830
@nehai4830 Жыл бұрын
Thiers ladies are not financially or in any other way dependent, so easy to leave, then the jealous middle class feel they are "behuda" "asanskari", deep down they know they are stuck and just bitter how can a women of 50 years get divorced and leave a happy peaceful life, without a drama. Sangro, behind the sansaka ka parda, middle class is actually, toxic, bitter, jealous and controlling. The amount of control exists in middle class is not in lower or upper classes. (that doesnt mean they dont have issues, thy do have, its just thier issues are diifrent.)
@ninii394
@ninii394 Жыл бұрын
@@nehai4830 exactly
@manunair5881
@manunair5881 Жыл бұрын
This is one of the most informative videos I have seen recently.. this has been happening in my family as well, but mujhe itne saal baad abhi clear ho gaya.. 😢 Btw, this sort of dynamics is not just between couples- some mothers play this game with their children too. Bacche ko Itna jyada nikamma bana do ki woh aapke bina jee nahi sakta and then use it for full emotional control of the child. Aur alag se guilt bhi feel kara do - ki dekho mein tumhare liye kitna pis rahi hoo, tum kitne lazy ho....😢 instead of making the child self reliant, they raise a completely useless son... But i didnt know this was being done deliberately.. 😮
@GreenDriveIndia
@GreenDriveIndia Жыл бұрын
Sometimes it is not deliberate, then father has to jump in and make kids reliable
@Rush2KPK
@Rush2KPK Жыл бұрын
Very true. Lazy banati hai purey Ghar ko. Ane wali bahu ko takleef hoti hai.
@svgco2021
@svgco2021 Жыл бұрын
So true!
@shobhanakadam5308
@shobhanakadam5308 Жыл бұрын
@@Rush2KPK 😂 lagta hai apko apni chinta jyada ho rahi hai
@Rush2KPK
@Rush2KPK Жыл бұрын
@@shobhanakadam5308 I am dealing with this on a daily basis. And it is painful when MIL says things like: "humne toh kabhi apne pati se kaam nai karvaye"; "humne hamesha apne hatho se sab kaam karey hai"; "Aajkal ki ladkiya kaha hum jaise kaam karegi" and blah blah blah.. Maids ka kaam pasand nai ata. Khud door mat bankar rahi and new generation se b same expectations hai. Things have changed and are changing. People should raise their sons differently now.
@dabasmanjeet
@dabasmanjeet Жыл бұрын
Wowwwww sir🙏 Brutal reality playing out. So so true. Applauds 👏👏👏👏👏
@elenamarcus9588
@elenamarcus9588 Жыл бұрын
Sir please make next vid on new emerging family system of single mother or single father as guardian (divorced). I(22) and my brother(21) are friends to our mother. She does have male friends she talks on call too which doesn't bother us.Their friends(male) visit home too on occasions. But whenever the topic is about me (her daughter) coming home late or getting a call from a male friend, she gets all suspicious towards me when i aswer her politely she rolls her eyes over me.. which is not her reaction when my brother comes home late or gets a call from a female friend. But she keeps her this open minded mother attitude in front of the world, telling them that she's like a friend to her kids. She is independent. I love her a lot, we 3 do have a great bond but she doesn't realise few things. I'm a grown woman i can date but unfortunately i can't even though being a genZ because of this attitude of my guardian exclusively towards me. She's friendly to everyone else. These are causing cracks now in our relation.
@Ninanani-4085
@Ninanani-4085 Жыл бұрын
She should equally keep a check on your brother also. These unchecked sons becomes rot of society. Here she is selfish. Only thinking about you and not of other girls that his son might be rotting.
@nirupamasharma4389
@nirupamasharma4389 Жыл бұрын
Hi dear, you are right that she should behave equally with you as her sons. But don't worry. She might be just concerned. Oftentimes, children end up being in toxic relationships and she might just want to save you. She should do same thing with your brothers as well. They might be hurting a girl or might be on the path of getting hurt themselves. But her way of handling it looks conservative like you explained rolling her eyes down on you. You can talk to her about this openly. I am sure she will be okay to discuss as she has that friendly attitude in her towards her children.
@ninii394
@ninii394 Жыл бұрын
She's toxic and jealous of you ...she never got love and can't tolerate yours
@Doc.Sachin
@Doc.Sachin Жыл бұрын
27 yr old young fan of yours, sir 🙏🏻thank you
@rayanskingdom6029
@rayanskingdom6029 Жыл бұрын
I too had observed this power dynamics thing closely. And had come to the conclusion😊.
@parulprarthana5413
@parulprarthana5413 Жыл бұрын
Aapke videos dekhne me bohot mazaa ataa hai sir. Best baat ye hai ki aap bilkul unbiased hain.
@NP-ls3js
@NP-ls3js Жыл бұрын
13:00 shivgaami aur lule hath wale pita ji 😂😂😂😂 Bilkul sahi bola aapne...😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@RanjanaGaur03
@RanjanaGaur03 Ай бұрын
luckily me and my husband had always a space from the very beginning. we are seventy plus and enjoying life
@shagunkapoor8954
@shagunkapoor8954 7 ай бұрын
Sir if people could think and live with the clarity you have put forth...and face the reality you have spoken about....our society would be a happier place. Like you said pyar bhi rahega🙏 Thank you for bringing put this series💗
@manjular3678
@manjular3678 Жыл бұрын
This video was very interesting Sometimes we go through what we go through to help others Not to go through what we Went through. Thank you guruji 🙏
@ushalundia2043
@ushalundia2043 Жыл бұрын
In my time , I am 74,women were not highly educated Those who were sadly to say were trampled upon It is happening even today. I gave tuition and saved every rupee to become independent. No asking for money It sets you free I even taught my husband to fend for himself I don’t boss my husband and don’t allow anyone to hold a whip over me The eldest bahu is tortured and not the Cha his if the sass is still around
@manjular3678
@manjular3678 Жыл бұрын
@ushalundia2043 We were born at a time when a girl child was not welcomed. Yet we survived, so we must be happy and celebrate every day. My best wishes to you. Take care
@San_home-chef
@San_home-chef Жыл бұрын
I am writing a journal and it has helped me to be stress free in the time of crisis
@blazingpheonix3925
@blazingpheonix3925 Жыл бұрын
🤬Jisne paida Kara hai usko Chhod ke Teri SEVA Karega kya? Ladkiya bhi apne parents Ko zyada priority deti hai, apne husband se ZYADA. Husband ki burai karti hai logo ke saath lekin apni family Ki criticism Jhel nahi paati... Women are MORE MAMA'S GIRL and PAPA KI PARI.... MEN can sometimes go against his mother for his wife. But WIFE WILL NEVER GO AGAINST HER OWN FAMILY
@kosha0101
@kosha0101 Жыл бұрын
Million dollar truth is 13:41 Thank you for acknowledgment the pretty fact..! Gen Z & alpha are truly more clearer..!
@artibhatnagar7062
@artibhatnagar7062 Жыл бұрын
Sir the way you guide ,even parents are not guiding their children likewise 🙏
@hero_007
@hero_007 Жыл бұрын
Heard this somewhere, but I feel this is true 'A woman who controls the kitchen, controls the house!'
@nirupamasharma4389
@nirupamasharma4389 Жыл бұрын
Obviously khane me zeher bhi to mila sakti hai wo😂😂😂
@Devi-pg4rj
@Devi-pg4rj Жыл бұрын
That was earlier..Now we have Zomato, swiggy, restaurants, hotels, street food, curry points etc..Now, not much power in controlling the kitchen. The only power now is economic power. You can buy anything. Good that most women are now financially independent.
@blazingpheonix3925
@blazingpheonix3925 Жыл бұрын
​@@nirupamasharma4389😂😂 phir Jail ki Chakki bhi to peesegi
@blazingpheonix3925
@blazingpheonix3925 Жыл бұрын
​@@Devi-pg4rjMOST WOMEN AREN'T 🎉
@matildamaher111
@matildamaher111 2 ай бұрын
Maybe some homes.
@dhirendrakumar6025
@dhirendrakumar6025 4 ай бұрын
Sir, I salute you. Psychologically you are correct.
@varshas8745
@varshas8745 Жыл бұрын
Every couple have their weakness n strength, agar spouse apne strength n weakness ke hisaab se kaam baat te hain ya things share karte hain, par harmony n peace ghar ka maintain karte hain to kissi ko problem nahi hone chahiye, compare nahi doosre couples se Karna. Let them make decisions, no interfere nce of outsider. Live n let live.
@Anonymous-nt4sz
@Anonymous-nt4sz Жыл бұрын
Somebody has spoken more sense than the author of this video.
@Ninanani-4085
@Ninanani-4085 Жыл бұрын
@@Anonymous-nt4sz If there is no dominance, then there is no need of balancing even.
@MohitYadav-th7fz
@MohitYadav-th7fz Жыл бұрын
Sir Aapke margdarshan se Life me Bahut Help milati hai 🔥
@246india
@246india Жыл бұрын
hahaa😂 loved it. ❤ true. Thank God I am living a decent life with zero politics. Hence, I love ur content.
@sritijhaswain8405
@sritijhaswain8405 Жыл бұрын
Ye ek scam hai ... May be I'm wrong also 🙏🙏🙏
@shaliniverma7020
@shaliniverma7020 Жыл бұрын
What a perspective.. your videos blow my mind !! What a clarity of thoughts.!!
@blazingpheonix3925
@blazingpheonix3925 Жыл бұрын
🤬Jisne paida Kara hai usko Chhod ke Teri SEVA Karega kya? Ladkiya bhi apne parents Ko zyada priority deti hai, apne husband se ZYADA. Husband ki burai karti hai logo ke saath lekin apni family Ki criticism Jhel nahi paati... Women are MORE MAMA'S GIRL and PAPA KI PARI.... MEN can sometimes go against his mother for his wife. But WIFE WILL NEVER GO AGAINST HER OWN FAMILY
@seema3933
@seema3933 Жыл бұрын
He knows it all
@Aashima_arora_bhasin
@Aashima_arora_bhasin Жыл бұрын
Exactly Same in my in laws ditto Ldke ko b nikkamma b na diya totally dependent on her khud much kr h na. Paye
@gvkumar2318
@gvkumar2318 Жыл бұрын
I don't think one gets married to play power games. If love dominates in a marriage, acceptance and adjusment comes easy. Unfortunately, in a T20 match there is no time to for professional advice or mid course corrections. And this leads to a lot of mis communications wrong perceptions. Love and frank communications are a must for happy marriages.
@jsrana3629
@jsrana3629 Жыл бұрын
Aajkal 20-30% newly marriage case divorce ke liye court me h , ye sab picchle doston ki vajah se h ,maryada sab khatam ,
@anveshkamboj
@anveshkamboj Жыл бұрын
Aapka content bahut he gazab ka hota hai sir ji. I can always co-relate.
@vaibhavis1
@vaibhavis1 Жыл бұрын
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