A Messy Conversation About Sex & Marriage

Sadie and Christian are joined by Reeves and Lydia Walker to answer your questions about sex within marriage, such as: What IS the will of God for sex and relationships? How do you get free from the mindset that “sex is bad” when you're finally married? How can you avoid lust in your marriage? And why is confessing all the parts of your past to your future or current spouse a foundational step in experiencing true intimacy in your marriage?
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ABOUT SADIE ROBERTSON:
Sadie Robertson, first introduced to the world as a star of A&E’s Duck Dynasty and ABC’s Dancing with the Stars, recognized she could be a positive voice to those in need of an inspiring presence in their lives. Since her early 20s, she's been one of the most prominent voices of her generation. Sadie’s passion is to speak, to write, and to encourage. She is a sister and friend to more than five million followers on her various social platforms, which she sees as a direct line of communication to her peers.
Sadie’s creative and entrepreneurial spirit has helped her become a 'New York Times Best Selling Author' and launch her Live Original brand, which speaks to millions across her various platforms, including KZbin, social media, the Live Original blog, LO Sister Community, the Live Original tour, and her WHOA That’s Good Podcast.
Additionally, Robertson has long poured her heart into philanthropic efforts. She has loved partnering with Roma Boots, Help One Now, World Vision, and the World Food Program over the last few years. To date, Robertson has been able to be a voice and agent of change in many countries, including Peru, Somalia, Moldova, and the Dominican Republic.
Sadie is married to the man of her dreams, Christian Huff, and they have two daughters. They look forward to continuing to learn what it means to truly live and celebrate in every moment of life.

[@SadieRobertson]

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[@robbieturgeon]

How to identify a false prophet, "by their fruit you will recognize them" - what is fruit? SADIE? - I'll test you to see if you can identify fruit? - what is FRUIT to identify in a person?

[@elisabethlachance5838]

“Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, envy, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God. But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.” ‭‭Galatians‬ ‭5‬:‭19‬-‭23‬ ‭ESV‬‬

[@robbieturgeon]

@@elisabethlachance5838 was Buddha a prophet he had love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfullness, gentleness, self control.....? anyone can have these qualities and preach lies.

[@robbieturgeon]

@@elisabethlachance5838 Genesis 2:17 says, "but of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil you shall not eat, for in the day that you eat of it you shall surely die fruit is distinguished by what? wisdom - i can easily preach gay rights with love, but unless i have the truth, which is knowledge i have nothing, i am bad fruit. nice try though, keep it up. Sadie, you need me.

[@robbieturgeon]

@@elisabethlachance5838 mark 8;24 He looked up and said, “I see people; they look like trees walking around.” imagine you could see the kingdom around you and you were a tree. what kind of fruit do you bear? good or evil? emotions cant determine wisdom...Can i have joy as a Mormon, am i true?

[@hannahlanell5024]

For the first few weeks of our marriage I had to keep reminding myself that we weren't doing anything wrong after keeping that boundary for so long😅 I so wish Christians would have more of these conversations. S3x was never talked about because it was "bad" and I understood why I shouldn't have it before marriage. I didn't know how truly beautiful it could be, why and how God designed it. I wonder how many young people would decide to practice abstinence if a Godly leader in their life stepped up to have these conversations.

[@kaylad578]

it’s really not awkward and strange to discuss as a christian. it’s something that a lot of us need to talk about because it can all be so isolating and confusing

[@kadenbrantley728]

I'm a recovering addict from shreveport, I'm new at walking the Christian life and I really like this podcast

[@kelseyDOD]

Ladies, if you don’t have firm boundaries and are secure in yourself, the first person that comes along and tests you could very easily be your downfall! This was the case for me. Finding friends that help keep you accountable is so important! Journal about your desire to stay pure until marriage, something that will be on your mind if you are ever tempted to give in.

[@Womenballin]

Same, I’m so happy I’m mentally stronger now❤

[@afrofaeries]

I’m a virgin waiting for marriage and I agree. If I’m a virgin and 40+ I won’t have no problem bc I love the Lord more than anything

[@abigailgade4945]

Yes that's it loving the Lord more than anything else ​@@afrofaeries

[@izzlebizzle]

Thank y’all for being so vulnerable and having the courage to talk about awkward topics!

[@carolinelvsewe]

One huge things to remember and teach our kids is that you are NORMAL to have sexual feelings and is more difficult to resist when you fall in love. If you’ve never smoked, you don’t have the same urge to smoke as you do with someone you fall in love with. So have your kids/teens listen to this and learn the whys and then explain the difficulty and reward God has for you.

[@the.victorgeorge]

When I think about this topic, I think of Psalms 16:6 - The boundary lines have fallen for me in pleasant places; surely I have a delightful inheritance. The boundaries God has gives for sex, for it to be in marriage are not to restrict us but it's because He knows beautiful it is in the context of marriage and when done His way. The world makes sex before marriage look like freedom while it's actually bondage. People say they don't want to commit to one person because they just want to be out in the streets wilding and living their best life. The world calls that kind of life sexual liberation or sexual healing but is it really? At the end all that brings is soul ties, heartbreak, confusion, shame and condemnation. Thanks guys for speaking into this. As Christian said, we need more of these conversations in the church because growing up we either heard nothing about it or we were told 'Don't do it, Period.'

[@christys.3912]

One of my biggest regrets is not following Gods design for sex. Having sex outside of marriage causes so many problems before and after marriage.

[@Naturellee]

Yeah but listen.. i am single and havent even looked at a man of the thought of sex , bc i knew that it would be within the marriage if i ever get in a relationship, plus i knew i wanted a faithful man.. 4 years sober from the perverted version of something Sacred and it is within the marriage and going back to the will of God. U r not alone So trust me.. there's a lot of people going back to the way it supposed to be, not some perverted version of it.

[@SKimilku]

Thank you all SOOOOO MUCH for this episode!!!!!!!! Such an EXCELLENT way to talk about this with youth!!!!!

[@Rush4Life70494]

Sadie, I love that you are talking about these things! I have been married for almost 3 years, and due to hearing all my life that "sex is bad" I developed a condition where I am physically unable to have intercourse. My body tenses up to the point that if my husband and I attempt, I get excruciating pain. It is something that we are really struggling with right now. In the spring, my husband tried to cheat on me while I was out of town at a women's retreat. There is just so much hurt right now...

[@nursemarie4819]

Sounds like you have vaginismus- you need to see a doctor

[@dhartling5205]

You guys need to get Phil and Ms. Kay on the podcast to share on this topic! I want to hear from a couple like them who with 50 plus years of marriage can shine a light on this topic and give us younger folks wisdom in godly intimacy over the lifespan

[@loganbaumstark8950]

Great idea

[@arianeprice3176]

one thing i’d love acknowledged is that in Biblical times people got married at like 12. So their “natural urges” etc are fulfilled - when it gets tricky is when a person is in their 30s-

[@eminenceautumn]

Amazing episode. So true! The world thinks pre-marital sex has no repercussions but our actions do indeed have consequences!!

[@Proverbs31Angie]

SEX! See, it’s not scary to talk about as Christians. Thank you Sadie for addressing such an important topic. ❤🎉

[@42bellabella]

I always felt like women were shamed . In every relationship I had it seemed like I was the one that had the pressure about sex because men didn't have the same pressure to stay pure before marriage. I think we need to teach men more about why the wait is worth it but I also feel that this day and age we don't think about marriage the same anymore because it is so normal to throw people away. We are not disposable and we need to quit looking at marriage like that. Thank you for this open conversation.

[@42bellabella]

I guess what im trying to say is that it seems like girls are always taught that it is important to wait but the reasons are all over the place and we don't seems to tell boys how important it is for them to not give that part of them for the same reasons. Men are not pressured to wait as much as women.

[@ginalashley]

Cannot more highly recommend Heaven In Your Home podcast. Healthiest convos I’ve ever heard about God’s good plans for our sexuality.

[@elizabethlagreca]

This was such a needed conversation. Really proud of you guys! Young couples need to hear these things - that people are REALLY struggling with all this stuff....and it's made to be "normal' and 'accepted' - and it's NOT!!! Really good job you guys.

[@autumn.breann]

1:03:12 no doubt in mind, I had to hear this segment twice today. I was so mind blown by this that I wrote it down, meditate on it, and praise God in my prayer walk. Lydia, you said this best: “The person the Lord has sent you will fully know you and love you.” It is very messy to have conversations about who you are, past and all, and be vulnerable about it. I am in a serious relationship with my boyfriend, and we have been vulnerable with each other. We have had conversations that were so uncomfortable, yet it was so freeing to us because we wanted to share our lives with each other. The night I poured out the ugliest part of me was when he told me he loved me. And it didn’t hit me until tonight that I am fully loved and known by God and that’s because of my boyfriend’s love to me. I would hear it and move on, vaguely understanding that truth. But I had to hear it twice today because that revelation was so good that I wanted to share it with everyone. I am fully known by God, the Creator that made me with no flaw, and He loves me in spite of me rejecting His love at one point. I don’t deserve His love, yet, I am forever grateful that His love have no ends. The hardest part of this too is that Jesus commands us to love one another just as we love on ourselves (love your neighbor as yourselves). Just as Jesus loves me through the good, the bad, and the ugly, we have to do the same to everyone we see, enemy or friend. Thank you very much for this episode and going deep into the conversation. Because of you guys, God spoke to me tonight and I am able to share it with others.

[@SKimilku]

Reeves is so wise!!! You all are thank you so much for bringing this to light!!!

[@maycievanpatten6633]

He really is and SO OPEN! It’s so helpful!

[@daisyangelman]

At first I thought what the heck do these young people know but I was very much surprised how you all handled a tough subject. You weren't silly and gave great advice. Super proud of you all

[@tional5266]

Sadie is absolutely correct about the message of the world and immodesty ! I’m overcoming similar mistakes from the past 🙏❤️🙏

[@ishalph452]

Hello Robertson, how is it, I want to request you to give us subtitles for all your dialogues especially to people who live in Africa, it'll be supercalifragilisticexpialidocious . Please

[@user-hf9tn6ik8z]

So grateful for your courage, you all, in talking about this and in this way. These topics need to be talked about often, from a real, authentic and godly way...and by young adults!! More please...

[@brittneyfox3031]

I wish more Christians talked about this more so it weren’t so “taboo”. Look at Song of Solomon, God did not intend on this to be taboo and uncomfortable. It’s supposed to be the most natural and beautiful thing, if done God’s way. As someone who both my husband and I did not wait until marriage, we also separated last year and dated other people during that time, which of course we let our sinful nature take over & had sex with those people. Only for us to reconcile and not proceed with a divorce. If I could save anyone from the torment and emotional trauma that I’m currently in therapy to overcome, then I 100% will bear witness to it. My husband was supposed to be only mine and vise versa. When we gave our bodies to other people, it broke that and essentially broke me. God did not intend on us being so relaxed with our bodies and it is because we are meant to have that special bond with only our spouse. I know I’m washed clean because I’ve repented of my sin, but that doesn’t mean the pain isn’t still there. Oh how I wish we had followed through with God’s plan and only given ourselves to one another. I can’t imagine how beautiful that would be and how powerful it is to have that in a marriage. It’s the one hope I can truly give my children and say don’t do what we did. I know it’s hard to wait but it’s so vital for the health of your future relationships. God’s plan is so much better than our own & he does not wish this pain upon us that is brought by giving into our earthly flesh. You will be rewarded immensely if you obey God’s design for sex.

[@user-xg6bx8zv8d]

The need to be loved and held by another person was what made me cave. I was also told d lose the guy I was with if I didn’t have sex with him. The most horrific mistake . I knew God was good and kind but I’d never heard that God Is Love. I still crave what love I never got but I know that the creator of the universe loves me and now that my husband died an early death. .. His love sustains me.

[@kelalisha]

ILove the last raw and real conversation . Thank you so much Sadie,Christian, their Friends and Team WHOA that's good. 💖

[@maclew8324]

I’m so grateful for this podcast

[@angelapadgett8026]

What an impressive bunch of young people. Bless all of you for being obedient to God's call on your lives, even when it may be a bit uncomfortable.

[@watkanekgebruik]

Thank you all for this. Sorry for the long comment. I ask myself the question, where did “sex is bad” originate from, and I would say from my parents. They tried to put the “fear” in you to make sure that they protect you from just having sex because you want to or because the world says its all good. 1. God blesses us when we do things His way. He has put boundaries in place to protect us, not to keep us from enjoying sex. He has given sex for us to be enjoyed within His blessing and protection. 2. Marriage is a unity that God has put in place. 3. When people are united, they become stronger. When families are united within marriage, they become stronger. The enemy hates God and therefor he hates us. He cannot touch God, what is the next best thing? His creation. I always say, Christianity is so simple yet so complicated at the same time. The topic of sex is the same for me. I ask myself the question, why does God want us to have sex only in marriage? Is it due to all the bad things that could happen. STD, pregnancy and you are not in the position to support the baby or babies, the “love of your life” decides this is not for him/her and just leaves? Last 2 points: 1. If a person says to his/her partner, if you love me, you would have sex with me, my response to that is only, if you love me, you would respect me and marriage and therefor wait till we get married. 2. When the people get to, you need to test drive your partner to find out if you are sexually compatible, would you like to marry someone that has been test driven like a rental car? Line up with God. Not always easy, but if you line up with Him, He is faithful and just and He loves us SO much!

[@kellyandlexiheartu]

Thank yall for being so bold and brave! Such great perspectives & connections were made here ❤

[@canatutuuuuuu]

Really appreciate the vulnerability you’ve all opened to up in this podcast - especially Reeves🙏🏻 God bless you all❤️in Jesus Name Amen

[@rhonwynvincent7309]

I’m very impressed that you have all been obedient to share your beliefs and convictions that are scripture based and honoring God and each other in your marriage relationship. So much truth. ❣️❣️ Truth sets us FREE I would encourage you to edit this podcast into bite size pieces for this generation who are so easily distracted. As a 50 year old I was a bit daunted to start watching a pod cast that was over 1hr long. I have 3 kids in their early 20s that I am sharing this with. Pornography is an addiction that does not get prayed away and damages and destroys many marriages. Even in my generation when it was so much more difficult to get hold of material, so right now with the internet it is raging a war against the next generation. There is a real necessity to get counseling together and individually for the wounds of betrayal and disappointment either with yourself for your failures or your husbands failures to walk in freedom into mid life and old age victoriously inlove.

[@Sarah-sr8zw]

test drive of the truck part is sooo good

[@user-tg5gp7tp4v]

Christian you should talk more. You are insightful and I appreciate your comments.

[@rolio222]

The world is not looking out for your happiness, Jesus is!

[@sandyhine2160]

There’s another perspective that is equally complicated and difficult. And that is entering a second marriage after divorce. No one ever talks about the topic of sex and the emotional toll it takes on a couple who are starting out after being married to another person.

[@maycievanpatten6633]

This amount of real and raw is SOOOO BEAUTIFUL! Praise god. Thanks you guys!

[@SKimilku]

Christian is excellent too. Yup the lion cubs in our lives! Get them out! The men here are awesome!! The women obviously too!

[@mariarosato4977]

I Love this. You 4 are awesome. Thank You for spreading your strength .

[@mariechenwillix3366]

Such a wonderful podcast. Much needed for the truth to be spoken about God's plan for unity and sex between a husband and wife in marriage. Thank you for this podcast!

[@tolutoluhi7252]

Yall always save the good stuff for after the cut 😂

[@michaelalanscantlin4426]

This something that people need to hear. Thanks for sharing this because I was brought up you should wait till you get married

[@Sofia-u4q]

Hey Sadie I have been watching since you started!!! I would really like you to have Asher and Michelle arwine on the podcast they have a podcast called for the good podcast!!!

[@user-hf9tn6ik8z]

"what is intimate is not public".

[@brandymcburnett3217]

This was a great Episode Sadie!!❤

[@elizabethsmith78]

Wooow Lydia, i can relate to your story soooooo much! Thank you for sharing ❤

[@trevorblackstone2317]

Thank you

[@loganfinucane6990]

Abide is the best!!!❤

[@EmilyGS31]

Thank you for your positive influence on the world!

[@christys.3912]

Well in the world they think its smart to try out the truck before buying because it might last longer, but they go into the dealership knowing that if it doesnt work out they will go get a new truck. Marriage is not valued in the world, so why wouldnt you try out the truck first. They think its the right way to go about it, but they discount Gods blessings in doing what is right by Him. My marriage would have been way better if we had done it His way. He is working things for the good, but my husband and I went many years not knowing if we would last. Luckily we valued marriage and stuck it out. Sex before marriage invites many issues into your marriage that may not have been there otherwise... same with being equally yoked... not being equally yolked caused many issues. But God is good and He can redeem. We went through 13 years of things that wouldnt have been a problem if we had listened to Gods word.

[@gracehill2424]

I genuinely am struggling so much with this topic. I used to be such an awful person and before I truly came to Christ my body count was too much. I’m humiliated by it. Now I hate sex. I hate it because I’ve experienced the worst part of it. To the point where I never want to have it again. I don’t like anything about it. It has hurt me to the point where I don’t even wanna get married one day because I’m dreading my wedding night. It’s hard for me to sit with myself and wait for marriage as I have been for almost a year now. And think about my wedding night knowing that I’ve had sex with many people in my life. How could I ever be that? My future husband doesn’t deserve that.

[@beckiholstine7436]

Ask God to forgive you and repent of your sins……He will forgive you!!! Then forgive yourself and NEVER look back. Your future is so bright you just need to forgive yourself!!! You can do it!!!! God has GREAT plans for you and your life! Hebrews 8:12 For I will forgive their wickedness and will remember their sins no more.”[a]

[@chloescott3338]

May I call you Grace? If you were my daughter, I would say to thy self DO NOT!!! GET!!!! MARRIED!!!!!😢😢😢😢😢😢😢!!!!!!!The relationship will be built on quick sand. Is it not equitable to the parties to be informed of the good, the bad,and the ugly, BEFORE entering into an ultra committed life long-lasting, laser pointed ❤❤❤ relationship ? What is important to thine own self to destroy a young, honest, blossoming family? It appears that thine own self have been(present perfect) reemed through the meat grinder, and are sinking faster than the Titanic 😢 Would it not be slightly decent for thine own self to be true to your future house-band, and turn to make good and wise honey-like decisions and stick to them? OH! what a relief it will be for thine own self and him. When a man knows he does trust his (to be) wife with his time, deepest thoughts, fears, hopes, dreams, aspirations, he knows he has a reliable,faithful trustworthy person! Then he will go to the ends of the world in spectacular, astonishing ways demonstrate his unwavering devotion, single to thee only. A major benefit is he'll anticipate returning from work to a peaceful, joyful home. Grace, such a marvelous name. Remember the goodness and generosity that God exemplified His benevolent love,care,and concern for Grace. Look with the faith of Jesus. Step from the cold dark shadows of shame,insult, guilt, humiliation, and the TAP ROOT, hate. Never dislike what God created! Dislike the misappropriation of what God designed, I get it. The first three chapters of Genesis has the contentment for Grace and her (to be) house-band, read/talk about it together😊.Does thine own self know a person standing in the need of a prayer? Now Grace, that thy self has made it this far, thine own self and yer (to be) house-band memorize Psalms 32, Psalms 37, Isaiah 53🙂 Grace, MR. ICCS RRRP says hello and Godspeed to all

[@elizabethaponte4714]

He’s wearing a wave student conference hat!!! ❤❤❤

[@parker5122]

Tee shirt getters are the best.

[@rchfireinthebelly77]

Sex was to be a covenant. There was to be shedding of blood to prove the woman was a virgin. There are soul ties that when you have sex with someone and then someone else and you eventually get into a “ relationship” you bring pieces of those into it and it can cause problems.

[@stephengoodson9619]

Another thing is are we really learning what love is or lust?

[@slestage5725]

Whoa that’s so Good🙌🏻

[@unapologeticallyromel7096]

Enjoyed the episode

[@emmauecker123]

SO SO SO GOOD.

[@bobbiemichaelsNyc86]

It's a deeper for women not majority of men. That's why you see what we see because men don't get attached women do. That's the hard truth

[@RCGWho]

15:00 The hangup that sex is bad often comes from the natural guilt and shame we carry into marriage from our premarital sex. Premarital sex meaning everything sexually intimate, not just intercourse. If you've spent your dating relationship doing everything but intercourse, you're a technical virgin, not a virgin, which means pure and untouched. So, you come into marriage with a bunch of baggage because your conscience knows sex is sex including heavy petting makeout sessions. You have to pray , repent, and work through that baggage. This is a huge reason 💯 abstinence is important. I mean side hugs and high fives. Your brain will have a negative association between sex and all the past sin and guilt. Purity culture doesn't put that on you. Your God-given coscience was doing its job. Sin is destructive.

[@hannithurntwgypsyranch2146]

I havebeen married for 23 years and sex is still weird to me

[@user-tk6mp9nq5t]

I understand why sex is for Marriage it means a covenant between man and wife and bondage becoming one flesh I made a mistake and got ahead of myself I got a girl pregnant over 3 years which she later became my wife but me and her asked God for forgiveness I have beautiful 3 year old daughter who I cherish every day and unfortunately my wife is deceased

[@kevinmurphy8727]

Now it’s not Adam and Eve it’s adam and Steve 😂😂 this world is really nuts

[@Are.Baires]

Thank you so much Reeves for sharing his struggles with pornography. My husband too struggled with it before and after our marriage. I felt so helpless and hurt by it even after he kept telling me I’m not the problem and that I am enough to him I just didn’t believe him. It made me feel like if maybe I lise weight or wire this or did that maybe then he wouldn’t need the porn… but his wife is beautiful… even better looking overall than these woman who objectify themselves. It’s truly an addiction.

[@user-hf9tn6ik8z]

Maybe deepening conversations on the framework of "intimacy", under the lens of God's word and design, might help us... the depths of that touched us all at a very profound level...because it's something all of us desire, because that is what we are really created for. When you have just one line of transit, or focus on just one aspect of a person or a relationship, you are forgetting that a person and the human relationships are multidimensional..and the physical aspects of our being are connected to the other aspects, and viceversa...and you are seeing your own self under that reduced lens. Loving a person really is about the WHOLE person, and the physical is not detached from who they are as if it was a prothesis, or an appendix detached from an unity, a system ... neither is just a physical dynamic... the more you listen to godly wisdom on this, you see that true vulnerability and intimacy, from the heart and mind, builds a connection that is not just "more important", it is part and catalyst of things a "test drive" would never bring...

[@user-xg6bx8zv8d]

I have got to say this. Please please please.. when you decide to get married.. listen close for the Holy Spirt to lad you. I didn’t and if I couldn’t tell you how wrong it was, by examples of what I went through. I honestly knew what I was doing was wrong and even ( to myself said) I hope I didn’t just make, the biggest mistake of my life. My husband became a different person after our children came and I never saw it coming. If one person.. who reads this.. thinks again about getting into an unequally yoked relationship. DONT.. God will see you through.

[@tobywoolf7932]

What brand of shoes are those Christian?

[@ConnorFotsch]

From p448. Google the below and they’ll pop up 🙏 P448 X VIBRAM - Monalea White Tree

[@CanadaCanada-q3v]

Yeshua Jesus Christ is the best role model. ❤☦✝✡❤

[@matthewrichardson4766]

What is the brand of Christian’s new truck?

[@ChristianKenyon]

Oh cmon nicholas sparks is everywhere

[@ozzycortes]

If God created sex for marriage, then why is there so many sexless marriages out there ?

[@kristenshaw1996]

Im not sure what the context of this question is but I believe that’s because sin exists and some couples are struggling it’s a sad reality.

[@meganwilliams1706]

I would ask how is that relationship is it healthy does everyone feel valued, cared for and loved! I know if a relationship is poured into and prayed over things tend to work out better. For example if no time is poured into without that being the outcome it will flourish. Or if you have small kids are you helping or meeting needs or leaving it all to the default parent and then expecting attention!

[@lisareiter5368]

Selfishness. If you truly love somebody, you’ll want to make them happy. Sex is a gift to both people, so if there’s a problem, there’s other stuff going on between that couple.

[@josevasquez-ju8rb]

the oracles are the principals of god to his children the intellect gift of the spirits ..but give always the control to him the lord and you will never be empty because he is all of it ...the world is a collective menhood that is a collective is not genuine ... if you want it just be that another gang member but trufully is hold the hood but is the savior who holds me ...virtue is power all powers from god and you can keep it and he trust you when you not longer want to impress the world but our god ...the world got nothing nothing all is in jesus ...i promised you that ...wait till marriged is perfect and great is your reward in jesus name amen

[@dorothyhatch3211]

What about Christ believers going to Gentlemen's Clubs? (otherwise called strip Club) I think it is no place for a Christian and not pleasing to Jesus Christ. My husband goes and makes me feel he disrespect me by going regularly and thinks nothing is wrong with going. I tell him he is not being a good example to anyone at those kinds of places. I beg him to stop.

[@torikrasovska]

whoa that's good

[@starburstsolaris6805]

He's muscular guy.Sports person?

[@MamaBear-jh7dx]

I’m sure the content is ok, but I couldn’t make it though. I cannot get past the shoes all over the coffee table. VERY distracting & gross. What is hard about just sitting there?

[@sici780]

❤

[@ChristianKenyon]

Sorry Christian. . . Gentlemen never uhmm say a word like right now

[@DoughboyGod]

🏟🏈🏈🔥🏈🏈🏟

[@Ariel_Cumming]

❤🧡💛💚💙💜🖤

[@RASHASA1237]

This will help a lot of people. It's definitely spiritual warfare. GOD made it beautiful, and satan made it dark. Be!!! Blessed!!!🕊🤍

[@kimberlyconnell1354]

Very vague talk with lots of words phrases and examples that don't say exactly what you mean. Like 'I knew all the things' growing up in church. I did like Sadie's explanation of why sex outside of marriage is sin and causes harm

[@virtual240]

Please stop giving dating and relartionship advice when 63% of all men age 30 & below (much higher for men over 30), who have never had a girlfriend or sex. You were born into a rich, Christian family and are also a celebrity. You have never struggled with dating: i.e., never come decades with 0 romantic options. Do continue talking about the Bible and other Christian topics but leave relationship advice to dating coaches & others who have more experience helping others with limited dating experience. Thanks!

[@alexiaicenhower8314]

Lilth stole Adam’s seed- so just remember even at the very first instance of a “married couple having sex” only the wife eve, was the true virgin.

[@Naturellee]

I don't know what version of the word you read ..

[@birdjay1060]

Just like all the other Christian videos that talk about a whole lot of nothing Always vague Always the same content

[@stephenmaher1029]

I suggest the test drive every time

[@kaylad578]

it’s really not awkward and strange to discuss as a christian. it’s something that a lot of us need to talk about because it can all be so isolating and confusing

[@gracehill2424]

I genuinely am struggling so much with this topic. I used to be such an awful person and before I truly came to Christ my body count was too much. I’m humiliated by it. Now I hate sex. I hate it because I’ve experienced the worst part of it. To the point where I never want to have it again. I don’t like anything about it. It has hurt me to the point where I don’t even wanna get married one day because I’m dreading my wedding night. It’s hard for me to sit with myself and wait for marriage as I have been for almost a year now. And think about my wedding night knowing that I’ve had sex with many people in my life. How could I ever be that? My future husband doesn’t deserve that.

[@_purelight]

Grace, You need to stop looking at yourself from the lens of your past. The Bible says whosoever is in Christ is a new creation, old things are past away and EVERYTHING, EVERY- nothing left out has become NEW. The blood of Jesus has washed you clean and while I understand your feelings, you have a responsibility for your healing. Renew your mind with the Word. Ask Jesus to fill you and reveal His love to you. Invite the Holy Spirit daily. And starting when you see this, look in a full length mirror morning and night and declare Ephesians 1 over yourself. You are so loved. Sending you hugs beloved❤

[@beckiholstine7436]

Heard this and thought of you!!!! Praying for you!!!!! Brandon Lake Adoption song: kzbin.info/www/bejne/gJXGmmBtqMyXrKcsi=uo7fGmY8CodCe84Z

[@chloescott3338]

May I call you Grace? If you were my daughter, I would say to thy self DO NOT!!! GET!!!! MARRIED!!!!!😢😢😢😢😢😢😢!!!!!!!The relationship will be built on quick sand. Is it not equitable to the parties to be informed of the good, the bad,and the ugly, BEFORE entering into an ultra committed life long-lasting, laser pointed ❤❤❤ relationship ? What is important to thine own self to destroy a young, honest, blossoming family? It appears that thine own self have been(present perfect) reemed through the meat grinder, and are sinking faster than the Titanic 😢 Would it not be slightly decent for thine own self to be true to your future house-band, and turn to make good and wise honey-like decisions and stick to them? OH! what a relief it will be for thine own self and him. When a man knows he does trust his (to be) wife with his time, deepest thoughts, fears, hopes, dreams, aspirations, he knows he has a reliable,faithful trustworthy person! Then he will go to the ends of the world in spectacular, astonishing ways demonstrate his unwavering devotion, single to thee only. A major benefit is he'll anticipate returning from work to a peaceful, joyful home. Grace, such a marvelous name. Remember the goodness and generosity that God exemplified His benevolent love,care,and concern for Grace. Look with the faith of Jesus. Step from the cold dark shadows of shame,insult, guilt, humiliation, and the TAP ROOT, hate. Never dislike what God created! Dislike the misappropriation of what God designed, I get it. The first three chapters of Genesis has the contentment for Grace and her (to be) house-band, read/talk about it together😊.Does thine own self know a person standing in the need of a prayer? Now Grace, that thy self has made it this far, thine own self and yer (to be) house-band memorize Psalms 32, Psalms 37, Isaiah 53🙂 Grace, MR. ICCS RRRP says hello and Godspeed to all 0:01 0:01 0:01

[@kaylad578]

it’s really not awkward and strange to discuss as a christian. it’s something that a lot of us need to talk about because it can all be so isolating and confusing