A Relationship And Life Update

An important and rather difficult update from me this week talking about my relationship and some changes to plans for the future
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[@Alex_Bertie]

You're such a positive role model mate it's great to be able to see you move through and navigate even the rougher patches of life. The future sounds bright and I hope moving goes smoothly! You're one of my favourite creators and don't forget you inspire me and many others in all sorts of ways. Sending you positive vibes as always! :)

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+TheRealAlexBertie Alex thank you so much, that means the world my friend it really does. This is where I am so blessed, to have the wellwishes and support from such wonderful people as yourself. Thank you thank you thank you. :)

[@alclark5830]

+FinnTheInfinncible you don't need to explain yourself to anyone. Just stay positive buddy!

[@TheSLOfox]

I'm so sorry that you two have split up, Finn. Very hard. Best wishes as you move forward into your new chapter of life.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+TheSLOfox Thank you mate, it is so very tough but I am trying to stay focused on the positive and there is a lot of that!!

[@garyc]

Sorry to hear things are tough, especially with the surgery happening too. Thinking of you xx

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Gary C Thank you so much Gary, thats so kind xxx

[@kavitadeva]

Hi my dear friend, all of a sudden I have been getting all these 5,6, and 7 year old videos on my feed. It's been amazing to see such growth and just see How much you have changed and yet how much you are just like you are now. The essence of you is always present. I never heard about Drew before was that a big long relationship? Anyways it's really been interesting and enjoyable to watch you 7 years ago, it's been quite an eye-opener. I'm glad that KZbin started putting these in my notifications. Have a good day and I'll talk to you later. 😘❤️🌻🔥

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Hi lovely! Yes, so much change but in many ways that change has just allowed me to be more me, if that makes sense! Drew and I were together for 3 years, we started our relationship as two women, I transitioned first, then he came out later. We needed to go out separate ways to grow. Best thing to happen for me! I enjoy looking back and seeing how far I've come. It reminds me that life really is so very good, even with ME/CFS!

[@aryfletcher2345]

Hugs from across the pond Finn. Sorry to hear of the split, I'm glad you're taking time to recover and much needed time to come to terms with everything. Keep your chin up pet and Know I'm always here. Xo 💐👊🏻

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Ary Fletcher Bless you mate, thank you

[@JackolynSparrow]

Finn, it must have taken a lot of courage to make this video, but that amount of courage is nothing new from you. You are remarkable, and so incredibly strong and I have nothing but the utmost respect for you. Know that no matter how hard things get for you, you have my support and I'm rooting you on! Stay strong, and best wishes!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+JackolynSparrow Wow what a lovely message! Thank you for those very kind and touching words. I am just so blessed to have so many people wishing the best for me!

[@Ocean_Grove]

I'm so sorry that things are difficult at the moment Finn, but I'm glad you're really taking care of yourself and making that a priority! I remember you talking about how your greatest accomplishment was having the ability to take life on life's terms. I hope you're taking your own advice - you know so well that this can only make you stronger and wiser and more open. You got this :) xx

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Leo Thank you buddy, yes this is exactly what I am trying to do, remember that I am powerless over what has happened, that the only power I have right now is to accept it and chose how I respond. I know I will come out of this stronger, and that is because I have such amazing people like your good self in my life. Thank you my friend x

[@Nickster7]

I'll never know how you do it, but you always have this beauty and tranquillity that radiates so strong. I'm sending you much love and support all the way from South Africa. A big hug to you and all the best for your future plans....

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Nico Barendse God thats such a lovely message, thank you! Right no I am really feeling the benefit of all the inner work done over the years! Thanks so much my friend

[@keloreilly7017]

My heart is with you during this really difficult time in your Life, Finn. You are a remarkable person and a true inspiration. Stay strong and know that you will move through this experience feeling what you feel, leaning on your safe people, and good safe care. You are in my thoughts.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

thank you so very much. you know this has actually all been such a gift and it has made me realise just how much good I have in my life.

[@Sporky86]

Ahhh Finn, my favourite sunshiney human, i am sending you the biggest, fluffiest hug imaginable and so so much love. Like everything else in your life, i'm sure you'll come out of the other side of this the same endearing, wonderful, lovely guy. Just remember during the dodgy moments that you have a bunch of people on the other end of their computer screens who all adore you and are wishing nothing but the best for you. Keep smiling you little sunbeam, you! Big love.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Sporky86 I am just so lucky to have so much love in my life!!! Thank you from the bottom of my heart

[@corona4806]

Sending hugs and positivity from California. Stay up, brother. Peace + Love + Positivity

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+corona4806 So very very much appreciated, thank you so much my friend

[@poisonouspractice5187]

I'm so proud of you for staying strong and looking after yourself and keeping pace with your emotional/mental needs. That is always the hardest part, and you're absolutely fantastic for keeping yourself in mind. I truly hope that this pain and hardship passes as quickly and as healthily as possible, and that your fresh start brings much needed happiness and healing into your life. My thoughts are with you.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+oDanniBoy o Thank you for your kind thoughts, taking care of myself is the one thing I can control right now so that is where my energy is going, bless you :)

[@martynsnan]

Hi Finn. Sad news and glad news. Your colleague is right. We learn and grow from the tough times but also from the good times like those ahead of you in Exeter. Life is full of change and acceptance is not always easy. You have the benefit of the love of friends and your subscribers, mine included. Stay well, happiness will return.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+martynsnan Bless you, I really so have so much love in my life, its incredible. Thanks my friend

[@AJBrown-uo3wf]

I'm sorry to hear about the break-up Finn. You seem like a really good guy and I find your videos very helpful and inspiring- you deserve a lot of happiness. I hope you feel better soon.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Luke Brown Thank you for your kind words my friend

[@UmbrellainaBox]

So sorry to hear about your relationship ending! :( It sounds as if you have some amazing support around you, you really are amazing at making positive change for yourself and finding healthy ways to cope.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Dylan Doran I count myself so lucky to have so many amazing people around me, thank you so much!

[@charliestrickland6194]

Son, I knew something was up but didn't want to press you about it. I saw it in your eyes. Know I love you and care about you. You are strong and have so much support around you. Take the light that radiates from within you and see it for yourself. You have an amazing future ahead of you and we all thank you for letting us be a part of it. Much love...

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Charlie Strickland Bless you, yes I just had to wait till I was a bit stronger after surgery to be able to say it outloud. I have so much support, I knew I did but the last two days have completely blown me away! I very very much look forward to sharing this next chapter with you my adopted Dad! x

[@AtomicMrX]

So sorry to hear the relationship news. No one needs to know the details about the relationship - just the update will do - and if they want to know more; then too bad. You are making great decisions about what not to share and when to share it - don't stress over that. Take all the time you need and want to heal and grow from this next adventure in your life. You are one sexy, funny, smart, honest, caring man; you won't be "single" for very long that's for sure!!! Take advantage, as you are, of all your resources and you will get past this relationship change in your life. You will find someone when it's time. Thanks for all you do! I'll keep watching and sending you all the positive vibes I can muster!!!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+AtomicMrX Such a truly wonderful kind and wise message! Thank you so very very much my friend!

[@abigailgraham6661]

I'm sorry to hear that. Let's hope your future is bright. Remember, your videos help to inspire all kinds of people, young, old, trans, cis. Your videos always come from the heart. Keep up the good work!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Abigail Graham You know what, that means so much to me and gives me a lot to smile about, thank you.

[@IsaRican810]

You are such an incredible man and you inspire me so much. I'm sorry that you are going through a rough time right now, but I send you lots of love and encouragement as you continue on your journey, not only through transition, but also as a person in general. Big hug from New Jersey.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Isa Quinones you are so very very kind, thank you

[@pachecotd]

i haven't kept up with your videos as ritualistic as i used to. so, i am just watching my Finn binge this morning ( Arkansas in the States). just wanted to say.... a new chapter in a book of life is exciting. you, as well as some others, know the whole story and it takes those previous chapters to keep the book going. i hope you continue to evolve and know that your videos have helped make me a better mother to my trans son. i found you on here 3 yrs ago. each video inspires me and helps me to see his perspective! nd internal needs he doesn't express. if i ever cross the water, meeting you is on my bucket list!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

How lovely to find your message! This makes me so very very happy! Please do come over!! Thank you and bless you, your son is a lucky fella

[@areyouz2570]

Glad you're doing ok. I'm rooting for you and wishing the best for you both!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+AreYouZ Thanks my friend

[@friendoftherese1]

Oh Finn...great big hugs from across the pond. I have a friend who says "When God closes a door, he opens a window...but it's hell in the hallway!" (grin) I'm so glad you have a solid base with A.A. and good friends. Lean heavily on them! You will be in my prayers my dear, as you have been all along. I'm thrilled for your new opportunities and adventures. God will be using you in a BIG way, I just know it. I hope it's O.K. to talk about God so much...if it bothers you, please insert Higher Power in its place.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+friendoftherese1 I love that saying, very apt! I am indeed leaning on my amazing friends right now and on my faith. To be honest any word works for me, I say higher power most often as it more closely represents my spiritual beliefs but I have nothing against the word God. Bless you and thank you for allways having me in your thoughts and for always having such kind and wise words to pass my way

[@transamjourney4728]

Hugs brother. You are incredible. Let yourself heal and take care of you.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

bless you my friend. thank you

[@maddoggy88]

Hugs and comfort to you! Take gentle care!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+maddoggy88 Thank you my friend

[@Ericapantses]

You're lovely, I admire your openness with this sad news. What a heavy-hearted announcement that had to be to make. You don't have to spill every bean all the time. No hard feelings. Power to you, Finn. I hope you feel better as soon as possible.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Lady Sekhmet It was the hardest vlog I have ever had to make, thank you so much for your kind words :)

[@Gekkotogo]

Sorry that you're going through a hard time, Finn. Thinking of you. You *will* get through this and be stronger and happier on the other side! xxx

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Thanks so much my friend. Its all much easier now and some wonderful new doors have opened!

[@bentransmanuk3825]

Much respect for putting yourself out there m8, as everyone says you're a great role model and approaching this situation in a positive way.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+BenTransmanUK thank you so very very much :)

[@mlinn1980]

I'm so sorry to hear about you and Drew. I hope someday you're able to be friends, but if not, I'm glad he was there for you in a time of your life you really needed him and vice versa. It's wonderful that you have a really good support system, and it sounds like you have a lot going for you. Best of luck with all your endeavors

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Mariah Young Thank you , I had hoped that too, we have been through more in 6 years than most couples go through in a lifetime. I am very lucky to have so much amazing support and I know that I will emerge anew at some point :)

[@SomeoneBeginingWithI]

I'm so sorry that you've had to go through this, and I wish you all the best.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+SomeoneBeginingWithI Thanks so very much

[@becomingwill]

Well done for being brave and telling everyone. Now you will realise just how many people care about you.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+becomingwill Thank you Will and thank you for being one of them.

[@HumanVoiceFilms]

You know where we are bro. As mentioned I am in Exeter for a two week on a course from 17-30th July, if your around that time would be just you and me in the evening, a great chance for two brothers to re-connect. Great honesty on this video as always, keep doing what you doing.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Human Voice Productions (Films) Sounds bloody good to me bro, thank you x

[@Merel-fb2uu]

Hey Finn, so sorry to hear you and Drew split up... Keep taking life on life's terms just like you are and you'll get back on a smoother path. Your fantastic support system is such a blessing! It doesn't surprise me one bit you're doing so well in your studies because you're clever and insightful and facing stuff knowing you'll get through it! Good luck with moving house as well. I just moved, still surrounded by lots of boxes and not planning on moving again for the next 8-10 years :)

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Merel 1379 Ah yes the moving is the thing I am not looking forward to! The getting there part will be ok its just the packing!! Thank you for your incredibly kind words, means the world

[@EthanJay1261]

in Spirit and Light the walk must be walked, not jogged or ran. Your vision on your journey has always prepared you and taken you by the hand. Allow the time for your breathing and pace to beckme one once again. As it is said by many, who love and adore you, thank you for everything you give in the raw and thank you for continuing to take care of yourself the way its needed. As many, I am always here!!!! With Love and Light

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+EthanJay1261 Bless you that is such a wonderful message! I have so many blessings to count and you are one of them. Thank you

[@squirrelbackedhedgehog8877]

you have a really positive vibe considering the circumstances. also its good that you are focussing on the future as appose to living in the past and focusing on the tragic things. im glad you are fine and im sorry about you and drew.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Squirrel Backed Hedgehog Thanks my friend, this is so so sad, I am heartbroken, however I can also see a lot of positives and that is what I am choosing to focus on. Bless you

[@KK-rx5xs]

I'm sorry Finn u have to go through this right now. U r so brave to share this with us. Hope you are gonna feel better soon. Take care, much love and hugs 💞

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

thank you so much my friend. I had to share it really as everyone has been asking and I could no longer avoid the issue . I feel better for sharing and so many people have sent me such kind messages. thank you so much for your kind words

[@EarlCornbread]

I'm so sorry you're going through a hard time, friend. I'm thinking of you, Finn and sending sweet buddy vibes across the sea. I hope all goes well in your move and that the shift brings many new and wonderful experiences and gifts your way, dear brother.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Earl Cornbread Sweet buddy vibes, I love that, thank you so much my dear friend

[@SirChubbyBunny]

Hey Finn, sorry to hear about everything you're going through. As others said, it's good to know that you're doing okay. Sending you a ton of good vibes with everything :)

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+SirChubbyBunny Thank so very much.

[@wargzilla]

Aww dang...well... I wish you all the best on your adventures to the south! Really sorry to hear that with the ups there are sadly downs as well. The coast is a wonderful place and i look forward to hearing wheat the future has in store for you. Hope we'll bump into each other again sometime.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Jack Bless you mate, thank you, I shall see you at Pride at the very least!

[@Jaiden7fold]

So sorry Finn, I'm about 7 months into a big break up. One day at a time, you deserve the best in someone and that someone is out there when you are healed and ready they will find you/you will find them. Big hugs from across the pond!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Jaiden7fold Bless you mate, sorry to hear you are in the same boat, hugs back from here too, thank you :)

[@buttersdebby7564]

I'm sorry to hear about your relationship. i know how breakups can hurt. things will get better for you in time. I'm glad to hear your career is going good. always look ahead and not behind you. continue thinking positive and your future will be brighter🌞

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+butters/Deb Thank you my friend, wise words indeed.

[@JayTee67]

Sad to hear this. You two have been thru so much together. Sounds like you are doing all the right things to get through it, although I am sure it will take some time. Thanks for sharing you journey with all of us viewers.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+JayTee67 Thank you, it is so sad after all we have been through, time will heal indeed. Thank you for sharing this with me and for all the amazing support!

[@TheVeryAngryShrimp]

I'm sorry to hear about this, especially not being able to be friends :c That must be super tough. My condolences, and I hope you can get through this bigger than better than ever!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Zurgo Pussysmasher Thank you so very much, with all this amazing support I am so lucky to have I know I will get through this just fine.

[@taog4928]

You are such an inspiring person. Through everything, you manage to be a genuinely positive person. It's amazing. I hope your move to Exeter will be smooth, its sounds very exciting! All the best Finn (the infinncible!!!!)

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

bless you! thank you. I intend to live up to my name!!!

[@taog4928]

most definitely!

[@Greyedable]

Sorry to hear about your breakup, Finn. Surely, you will continue to have a good life.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Greyedable I do believe I will , thanks my friend

[@CocaineKenon]

I'm sorry to hear this Finn. I just went through the same thing about 6 months ago. We were together for 6 years. But, I came out of it know more about myself than I ever did. Stay strong friend!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+PsychoSpade Thats very true and I am holding onto that, thanks my friend

[@Ursulas_Odds_and_Sods]

I'm really sorry to hear about the end of your relationship. It's always hard when a long-term relationship comes to an end. I hope you have success with all your future plans. There's a Hebrew saying, "Meshane makom, meshane mazal," "Change your place, change your fortune/luck." Maybe your move to Exeter will indeed bring you lots of good fortune and luck.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Baryshnitsa That is just so very very kind, thank you so much my friend

[@jaedeniah340]

Hang in there Finn. I hear your pain. Just one step at a time. This too shall pass, although it sounds so shallow. We all love you!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Jaedeniah Not shallow at all, its a strong truth that is keeping me afloat. Thank you, I love you all too

[@ellie7117]

This was a really brave thing to do! I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through this but I'm also really proud of you for coping with it in the most positive way that you possibly can. One door closes so that another one can open and bigger and better things are going to be coming your way. Life is a crazy storm sometimes but we all believe in you and that you can get through anything that is thrown at you. I'm so glad that you can take life on life's terms now. We 100% respect your privacy, you share so much of your life with us and give so much love to people that this is smallest thing that we can do to repay you for all the things that you have done for so many people. We all will forever support you through everything you do, whether good or bad, because we love you and care about you tremendously. You truly light up this world. Go and have as much you time as you can and just go out and enjoy yourself, you deserve it. All the pain will make you stronger and make you grow even further. Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it and you have so much strength and you react in such positive ways even when it's hard to. Good luck for the future my friend!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Forever Lovatic That is so very very true, our responses to life shape us far more than what happens to us. Thank you so much for your always wise and incredibly kind words

[@ellie7117]

+FinnTheInfinncible They do, we can't control so much what happens to us but we can control how we react to it and we just have to do what we can to react in the best way we can. You're very welcome - lots and love and hugs being sent your way!

[@Zublime75]

Aww I'm so sorry to hear that Finn, but you are a very strong man and you will get out of this "funk" soon, like you said, you've come a long way and you still have a few more steps to walk, if you have to walk them alone so be it, you can so this and you have us all beside you!!! Stay strong love!!!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Zublime75 That is the amazing thing, since starting to share on here I have never walked alone, so many people support me, cheer me on and wish me well, I truly am so very very blessed. Thank you so much my friend

[@sarah4hp]

I am so sorry you are going through a difficult time right now, and yet happy to see you handling it so well, and taking good care of your own well-being. With that amazing attitude there is nothing you can't achieve, and I hope you never let yourself forget how much credit you deserve for how well you are handling everything. Exciting news about your move, and the future career that seems like such a perfect fit for you. I can't wait to see all of that unfold! Lots of love and positive energy sent your way. Thanks for the update, and for sharing your life with all of us

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+sarah4hp Thats such a lovely message, there is a child part of me that wants to kick and scream but the adult part of me knows that that will not serve me well! Thank you for your kind words

[@sarah4hp]

FinnTheInfinncible You are very much welcome! I SO get what you mean about the child part of you - we all have that I think. And it's okay to allow yourself to feel the anger and frustration at times if you need to :-)

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+sarah4hp I agree, I am finding friends to ofload that chid part with so that I can then go back to being an adult with the rest of it! Thanks again :)

[@sarah4hp]

FinnTheInfinncible That's great. And you are SO welcome

[@sidddanis]

really sorry to hear that Finn. It's never easy :/ Hope things get better soon.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Sidd Danis Thats very true, I know it will pass and better times are ahead! Thanks my friend

[@itsreallyimportantman]

Hi Finn, well done for standing up and making this video, i am sorry to hear you've parted ways but its a chance to move onwards and upwards in you're life.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Unique soulja. Thanks my friend, this was the most difficult vlog I have ever made. Onwards and upwards indeed

[@alclark5830]

You inspire me so much. The fact that I'm still waiting to have my first therapy session really annoys me, but you make me feel so happy. The thought of waiting is gone when I watch your videos. Love ya man!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Al Clark Bless you, this is exactly why I share, I get the frustration its bloody awful but I aim to show the ways you can use the time positively and that it passes and life gets pretty darn good....even when there are bumps in the road!!!

[@alclark5830]

+FinnTheInfinncible cheers mate. I'm trying to stay positive but I have this thing I have to do for my uni course and idk whether to do it. Only my facility and a few others know I'm trans. I'm just so scared what people are going to say when I go on this trip. Oh and btw I don't pass as male yet

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Al Clark Doent matter if you "pass" you are a man regardless of how you look on the outside. Its hard in early days when we are only out to a few people but maybe yu could use this opportunity to come out to more? Either way, stay close to the people that know and support you in this time, they will be your safe bubble , a place where you can be you,

[@alclark5830]

+FinnTheInfinncible cheers mate you've really helped. I guess I will stand in front of my class tomorrow and tell them lol 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😜

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Al Clark you know what, I have honestly found that to be the best way, if you are open then that leaves nothing for people to gossip about! I used a conference i was speaking at to come out , worked a treat and saved me so much stress...scared the life out of me but i got so much support. Good luck!!!

[@cassidybrewer]

I'm very sorry to hear that you and Drew split up. I know it can also be hard to share your life on here for everyone to see, especially as it comes to your personal relationships. I hope the absolute best for you and of course for him too, but right now you just need to focus on yourself and healing emotionally. You have incredible support here on KZbin (at least - hopefully in your private circle as well) and many other things to look forward to right now. Please do moving vlogs as well as you continue this journey. Love you!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Cassidy Farrar Thank you so much, yes this is the one thing that I am unable to share as openly as I usually would, at least about the specifics of the split. About everything else though I will indeed be sharing, once the pain subsides the excitement of a new chapter will begin and I look forward to sharing that with everyone! I am so blessed with so much love and support.

[@number1icebox]

Hey Finn. Easier said then done, but as you know. This to shall pass. Thinking about you and sending lot's of healing vibes your way. Big bear hugs buddy!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Indeed it will my friend, just wish it would hurry up! Thank you so very much, especially for the bear hugs!

[@kenaimiller6119]

I love you !! I know you said you're okay but I hope it does get better. continue to be amazing 🙏💕

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Kenai Miller Thank you, it will get better, bless you my friend, love back!

[@Katistic1]

A very brave vlog, much respect. It will be difficult but at least right now you're in a good place in yourself so as you say you can come out stronger. Exeter is a beautiful place to find some peace. :)

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

thanks so much mate. I already feel better for having this out in the open and for all the kind messages I have received. truly blessed. I am looking forward to this fresh start and new chapter

[@limecool3035]

Sorry to hear about the split. Things happen for a reason,and you will move forward. New growth in the spring. Keep your chin up.🙂

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Limecool I too believe that, thank you my friend

[@Moosh207]

Love you Finn! Am very proud of your inner strength and the person you are. So sorry to hear about you and Drew's split up. Always here if you need a chat while processing this part of your journey. And wow, so happy for your new up and coming adventure in Exeter. You have worked really hard for an opportunity like this xxx

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Moosh207 Thank you so much, I am very excited too and I am focusing on that, love you too sweets!!! xxx

[@arcadiaduit]

You're one of my favourite guys when it comes to documenting your transition and your life in general, I really appreciate all that you've done and continue to do! We all hope things will be fine, the future seems fresh - good luck!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Jason Brown That made me smile, thank so much my friend :)

[@clarissamiller3144]

So sorry Finn. my heart is with you. we are all here for you.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Clarissa Miller And for that I am so blessed. Thank you so much

[@abbrevslady]

You are awesome. Support and good vibes are being sent to you from Brisbane, Australia from a stranger. xoxo

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+pinkestplastic That is just so kind. Thank you :)

[@girlintheatic]

Best of luck, stay positive!

[@Kitetkat12]

Hey Finn, I'm so sorry about your relationship, I support you with all my heart, and I'm glad to ear that you have plan for your future. I'm so exite to see what your career is gonna gave to you. Big kisses ang huges from Belgium!!!!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+James Lison Ah thats just so lovely, thank you my friend

[@jail.2501]

sorry to hear this news. I fully believe things happen for reasons. we may not understand why at time they happen what those reasons will be, time determines that. sounds like you are doing what is needed for your health and healing, which is so important. it's unfortunate you both have to go through this and it's amazing how graciously you are handling everything. I had a rough breakup years ago of a partner I was with for 7 years. it was brutal and pretty ugly. if you ever need a shoulder or a friendly ear feel free to message me. wish you luck and all of your future plans sound empowering.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Jai L. Thank you so much mate, I too believe everything is for a reason, its time for a new chapter

[@rac7644]

so sorry to hear about this update. much love

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+platinum balls Thank you so much, love very very much appreciated

[@weeza25101979]

Sending you a huge hug dude. You are amazing dealing with everything in such a strong and positive way. Onwards and Upwards, keep smiling. Lots of love and light xx

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Louisa Howarth love light and hugs very very gratefully received, thank you!

[@transceur5326]

All the best, think everyone here totally respects your right to privacy but hope you are able to move forward in a positive fashion in the coming months sounds like you're doing all the right things. You're a great guy, do what you need to do to to be healthy!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Ewan C. Everyone has been absolutely amazing, in the last few days I have been swamped with love and its just incredible. Thanks so much my friend

[@kimunderwood1573]

Finn- thanks for being honest and sharing this part of your life even since you didn't have to do that! I think you're an incredible person and am so glad that your doing so well during this rough patch in your life 💜

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Kim Underwood I have loved sharing my life with such kind people and I will continue to do so for as long as I can, bless you and thank you

[@adamsapple2012]

Despite the hard topics discussed in this video, I think this is one of your very best videos. It shows how an amazing person you are. Even though you're going through difficult times, you're being positive. I hope I'm not being a bit hasty and I know you have already but could you make another sexuality vlog? Keep working hard, Finn. I'm proud of you and I hope that this isn't a set back, but the start of something new. :)

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Blue “Abi” Squirrel Thank you so very much, It does indeed feel like the start of something very good is possible and that is what helps me to be positive. I will do an update on my sexuality at some point soon

[@ethanchambers6930]

Sorry to hear about the rough time uve been having chin up mate and ye the West Country welcomes u to a beautiful and promising new life xxx😄 take care buddy chin up.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Ethan chambers I have a really good feeling about moving back that way! New chapter calls! Thank you so much my friend

[@fyrespirit999]

Glad I got up to speed on this point in your life. Disappointing you could not remain friends but maybe it can or has been able to repair in time.

[@pondermac]

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Joy MacPherson (Mac) Thank you so much my friend!!!

[@TonyChakotay]

sorry to hear this news fin, sending hugs for both of you.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+tony boi Thank so much Toni , need all the hugs I can get

[@pyromanticprince]

Oh Finn :( I'm sorry things got so difficult, everything has a tendency to hit all at once especially when important things are happening hah. I hope things get better for you mate. Also my partner is studying in Exeter so I'm down there sometimes, I'll hit you up via tumblr when I'm nearby if you'd ever want to meet up or collaborate!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+pyromantic-prince Thank you so much my friend, it does seem that way at times! That would be fantastic to meet up with you!!

[@taztal13]

I'm sorry to hear this. From where i can see it; you're standing strong and doing great! Keep it up, you will be fin(n)e..! ;-) Wishing you all the best (sorry for my poor dutch english..)

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Bless you :)

[@ltyoung1980]

You are so brave. Take it one day at a time. Keep your head up.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Tasha “Tash” Young I will, thank you so much

[@FelixFFern]

Oh sweetheart, this was incredibly brave of you and I'm sorry you've had to announce something like this, hopefully everyone will watch and take it in so that they don't ask any awkward questions and things settle down.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Nathus Dorkus Thank you so much, yes this was hard hence putting it off for so long, I have so much amazing support and I wanted to let people know but at the same time I just havent been ready to say it outloud and really dont want and cant go into specifics publicly so I just didnt know what to do. In the end I knew I just had to say it. I am so blessed with the support I have and I know people will be respectful and thoughtful. Thanks so much for your kind message

[@FelixFFern]

+FinnTheInfinncible You have all of my empathy, I went through a very bad break-up last year from a relationship that spanned nearly ten years. Well done on speaking out, and I seriously hope that everyone respects your privacy.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Nathus Dorkus Im sorry you went through this too, its just so difficult isnt it? I had to speak out, so many people are asking about him and about us and its been driving me loopy! Its just hard as I am so public and its not my place to be public about Drews stuff...no matter whats gone on you know? So thats why it took me so long to work out how to approach this. So far everyone has been amazing and I feel like this has been a huge relief and letting go experience just saying out loud and having so many amazing and kind messages. Thanks again my friend

[@ElianaTali]

I'm so sorry you are facing this. I think the two of you gave it an amazing go, and I applaud you both for the love and effort you shared.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Eliana Tali Thank you, we really did and its a shame it had to end this way. Thank you

[@tobiaspatterson4512]

Finn I'm so happy you're doing well. Keep your head up, and just remember that everything does happen for a reason, and even if you can't see that reason yet, it will show up eventually. You're an amazing man, and please always remember that. You inspire me and so many others, and I know you'll be strong through all of these trying times. Chin up, friend. Good vibes your way :)

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Tobias Patterson Thank you for that lovely message, I do believe there is a reason, that this is to open a new path for me, I am trusting in that and just hanging onto the sides of the boat until the storm passes! Thank you so much my friend

[@zackriotpdx]

Sending you big hugs! Be kind to yourself, one step at a time. Thanks for sharing so much, but I hope you feel free to live your life without the camera on if that's what you need.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+zackriotpdx Thank you so much, I do feel able to do that, but to be honest sharing this is just so healing and peoples support is so incredibly uplifting. I am truly blessed

[@mercurious6699]

God bless you. All will be better. Take care of you

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+mercurius6699 I will, and thank you

[@yakasm8873]

Good luck for the future, you'll get through this tough time

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

thank you so much. I will!

[@ravn340]

I'm so sorry

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Helene raven Thank you, I like to hear that and I need to hear that right now. A silver lining has to be found, it is the only way! Bless you my friend and thank you

[@fuckincaseyphotos]

I am so sorry to hear that buddy. Stay strong X

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Clair Bear Thank you so much x

[@shanesworld8376]

Sending you love my friend

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Shane Porter Bless you mate, means the world, thank you!

[@94acidespresso98]

Hey Finn I'm glad you've got a plan and you're staying really positive. I'm also in my second year of psychology but unfortunately I'm just not getting the grades I want. I really relate with your message at the end of your video about the feelings passing. This is what I tell myself almost everyday. Sending good vibes your way.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+94acidespresso Hi my friend, psychology can be tough, I would recommend getting some "how to study and write for psychology" books as that is half the battle! And yes....it does pass, it still hurts in the meantime but having faith in the knowledge that it'll pass helps to make it that bit easier. Thanks my friend

[@lizknight7268]

all my love beautiful finn xxx big lizzy hugs xxxx

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Liz Knight Hugs gratefully received, thank you xx

[@ALFIE19]

Hey Finn, I'm sorry you're going through a rough patch - it's good to hear that you are on the right track to recovery though :) Best of luck with the move too!!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+A L F I E Thank you so very much, I will keep you updated on relocation plans!

[@ncburton1713]

I'm so sorry to hear you two are seperating. It's good you have a good support system of friends, I know I would have been lost without my fience, who was just my best friend back when my first partner left me. Moving and having a fresh start definitely sounds like a good ides. *hugs*

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Nicolas Burton (Mint Fox Talks) Thank you so much, I do feel so blessed to be surrounded by people who truly want to see me happy, today that has really been obvious as I have had so many messages. Grateful beyond words.

[@ncburton1713]

FinnTheInfinncible You're very welcome! :) *hugs*

[@keirtaylor4669]

sorry to hear that bud. hang in there mate and think of all you have achieved x

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Bless you, thank you so very much xx

[@ComeDownRedMolly]

So sorry that you are going through this. I have been watching the vids out of order so knew you were moving but was not sure why. On the topic of becoming a Gender Therapist, I think you would make an ACE one! Keep tredding water and best of luck, one day at a time. Sending lots of love from Canada

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

bless you! I truly hope so! love back to you over there! thank you 😘

[@ottawatransguy]

You are awesome! It is nice to see you so positive and making great decisions even when things aren't going as expected with life. Chin up brother, you got this😉

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

So very kind of you my friend. I am sad, gutted, shocked...all of the above but I have to just pick myself up and do the next right thing. Bless you

[@HiImSpencerTate]

sending you lots of love and support!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Natasha Tanke Thank you, it is such a tough time but I can see the light at the end of the tunnel and the ways in which it will make me stronger. Hanging in tight! Thank you so much

[@HiImSpencerTate]

You got this!

[@UXblunder]

Finn, you're amazing!! Thinking of you and sending warm wishes.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Parker Jones Thank you so very much, I really appreciate that :)

[@Poeboi]

Oh Finn I am so so so sorry to hear this. Oh man. **huggles to you mate**

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

bless you my friend than you

[@AlliesBeautyandHealthChannel]

Keep your head above the water, Drew. It's one day at a time with this kind of thing. Sorry this happened.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Allies Beauty and Health Channel Thank you

[@LeavesdenMr]

glad your staying strong

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+LeavesdenMr only way to be, thanks my friend!

[@ErinODonnellNYC]

Sending you lots of love and support during this intense time! Also that sweater is an awesome color :)

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Aaron Rose Thanks my friend, and yes, I hadnt really noticed I had chosen blue...appropriate...but it is a lovely colour. Thank you!

[@finntheotherone170]

love ya mate. so proud of you x

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Finn the other one Bless you, love you too mate and cant wait to see you soon xx