I completely understand what he’s saying; I haven’t walked away from my calling because I know it’s from God and i absolutely love what I do; but i absolutely have had moments where I’ve questioned and wanted to walk away. But riding out the storms with God is something I absolutely do not regret! Obedience is best, whether that’s marriage, business, parenting, or whatever God calls you to❤️
@renepcj4017Ай бұрын
And by people we mean mostly women😂😂😂😂😂
@outsidethebox8406Ай бұрын
Exactly this! My husband and I were just discussing this last week. You have to have a servant's heart and spirit to be a good spouse/parent. Many people are too selfish as he stated. It also requires an above average degree of maturity.
@Joelle_SoBlessed28 күн бұрын
That is beautiful. The whole truth nothing but the truth did that Man of God speak. He is 10 Billion% correct! Marriage is not about self serving interests; marriage is about serving God and your spouse to give God All the Glory through your marriage. Kingdom Marriage between one man and one woman is a reflection of God’s love for His bride the Church. Shalom 😊💖
@guerita724421 күн бұрын
Godly marriage is a self sacrificing covenant of serving & helping your spouse pursue God & become their most Christ like self, while worldly marriage is a self serving contract of serving one's ego at the very expense of their spouse's soul!
@CL-do5eqАй бұрын
God has a beautiful way of reminding us that marriage still exist. When we submit truly to his plan, we cannot live by the flesh. Fleshly living will have us thinking that marriage is impossible that all men are horrible. When it’s clear, they still exist. We have to believe it we have to claim it, and we have to allow God to make it a part of our calling when the time comes, but until then submit to God’s plan, and do the inner work ❤️
@jslack8973Ай бұрын
Treating marriage as a calling is definitely something that can help spouses show up
@ShogoMakishimaxx24 күн бұрын
I know we're talking about marriage, but this is EXACTLY how I feel about the medical field, flaws and all. I nearly walked away from it and I was CALLED to come back to it. It's just something within you that you just know you can't break away from. Its just in your destiny. 🙏🏾
@guerita724421 күн бұрын
Oh, to have that knowing! What a blessing!
@jaiyeolaolaribigbe651819 күн бұрын
See the movie KNOWING starring Nicholas Cage...🎉 @@guerita7244
@jaiyeolaolaribigbe651819 күн бұрын
I feel that way with working with Children and families to create strong bonds and break chains of childhood trauma. I still discussed at length with my praying sister. ❤
@khadenecampbell1663Ай бұрын
Marriage is a calling! It’s refreshing to hear someone else share the same understanding about marriage! May Adonai bless you abundantly!✨🙏🏾👑
@konsyansnou8623Ай бұрын
Facts! It's not about feeding our ego and selfish needs but about serving. Too often we got that wrong thanks to Hollywood and the music industry. Thanks for the confirmation #called🔥🔥
@mypointofview1111Ай бұрын
For a long time I have felt that the film, music & media have skewed what marriage is. Even the church and politics has contributed to this. Having the emotional intelligence to distinguish if someone is going to be a good fit with you or not. If you can make a life with that person, how you're going to approach your difficulties as well as your pleasures; that's what makes a marriage. Not the finding your fairy tale Prince, not the build up to the big day, how many people attend, how much you spend in the party - thats irrelevant. If you want happily ever after you need to be clear and realistic
@konsyansnou8623Ай бұрын
@mypointofview1111 Right on! Most people dream of the white dress and the big show for their weddings whereas real marriage starts after the big show, it's a lifetime of dedication and commitment. Unfortunately, many will focus more on the show itself than the commitment. As if they're using marriage to go back to their old ways:"I tried it, not for me (oh, and crossing it off my bucket list).
@JosieLaBord23 күн бұрын
Beautifully and truthfully said brother.🙏🏾
@Sass269Ай бұрын
Absolutely! I truly believe I am called to be a wife to the man God created just for me and me for him.
@deemarie6422Ай бұрын
My pastor husband let me walk away. He cared more about serving folks and “performing” than taking care of his 1st ministry
@user-by4uk5xb3gАй бұрын
I’m a black man 22yr old & 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯👑 approve this everlasting wisdom 💎💎💎💎💎
@williamsanders4495Ай бұрын
In the name of Jesus Christ Amen 👑
@robbinjefferson7470Ай бұрын
Amen🎇
@RosieRochelleАй бұрын
He said a MOUTHFUL! 💯💯❤❤
@renepcj4017Ай бұрын
And by people we mean mostly women😂😂😂😂😂
@kristalliiite6408Ай бұрын
He’s absolutely right
@renepcj4017Ай бұрын
And by people we mean mostly women😂😂😂😂😂
@user-by4uk5xb3gАй бұрын
Let the church say AMEN🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@marilynbarney703425 күн бұрын
Amen 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼Beautifully said😢❤🕊️😇🌺🌟
@jaiyeolaolaribigbe651819 күн бұрын
This is DEEP, folks! My heart had been HEAVY due to coming from parents who seemed NOT to take their marriage as a CALLING but as a chore that adults do. My mom even told me we all have to just try it out and see if marriage works or not. I totally agree and I just went ahead with a marriage based on NOTHING. He just said let's get married so that he could process his papers through my British citizenship and I agreed as we had been living together. No discussion of godly vision or life values. Gosh. Never again for my generation as we had a babygirl. I break out of marital abnormalities in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, amen! 🙏🏿
@chrissyh3270Ай бұрын
This is the conversation. Not all these lists and ridiculous requirements people are putting out here.
@ramonadixon8597Ай бұрын
Amen and Amen
@gck_replayzz1029Ай бұрын
Periodt! Couldn’t have been explained even better
@kuziwamtsvamuno4016Ай бұрын
Amen ...i heard one Preacher say dont get married if youre not willing to serve
@willaribraheem414023 күн бұрын
💯% FACTS! Well said 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@nieme_kingdomworkallen9061Ай бұрын
Amen...this is honestly a message for the masses
@RomanusWhoislikeGOD9Ай бұрын
I agree wholeheartedly 🎉🎉🎉🎉
@Faithlovehappy2316Ай бұрын
🙏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 God I need your help.
@samueldick9933Ай бұрын
This is so true 👍 😊
@Time4change111Ай бұрын
❤ Amen
@LotusMoonTarotАй бұрын
Realist words out there 💕 it’s a man’s mission to find his wife.
@altheahoyt3795Ай бұрын
AAAMMEENN HALLELUJAH ‼️🙌🏾🙌🏾
@Oluwatoyosi.AАй бұрын
Hmmm. Well said. I need to change my perspective on this.
@haleyy.9324Ай бұрын
Wow, just wow! So powerful!!! 🙏🏽❤️
@Wubby8052 ай бұрын
Gospel.
@tarchelleenglish437429 күн бұрын
Powerful
@empressericaАй бұрын
Wow. Deep and appreciated ! Bless🙏🏾
@belle4978Ай бұрын
Woo!! I wholeheartedly Agree! Amen Sir!
@dafnenoel9825Ай бұрын
Facts ❤❤❤
@tonyadmckissack909720 күн бұрын
That's Theee most beautiful thing I've everrrr heard about marriage ❤❤❤ is he married???
@moniquefrazier5195Ай бұрын
Thank you and amen!!!!!
@the_analytical_mind289Ай бұрын
I feel this young King on this.😮💨
@edithharmon6810Ай бұрын
Deep Truth! ✊🏽❤️✊🏽
@samturnerii6062Ай бұрын
Great message D! I hope Leah's doing well! Who Dey and may the Most High continue to bless you!
@sabuholliday4795Ай бұрын
This Real Talk right here 🎯 💙🙏🏽🫡
@user-gy3vd9mm3rАй бұрын
Well said! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@alexistaylor7483Ай бұрын
Amen my brother. You know God never said for us to not be married. He has always made it clear why marriage is important. 1 Corinthians 7:9 But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion. So many of ya are connected to the devil. Though you think you are not. Its called manipulation. You can be spiritual. You can be religious. You can be an atheist. You can be a sourcery worker. And you all will be connected to the devil. How? Through sin. As long as you are against the most high God and Jesus. You will never prosper. You will never have marraige. You will never have peace. So why punish yourself? I pray for so many in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen 🙏🏼✝️❤️❤️🙌🏼
@sharrellfaithАй бұрын
Whew💯
@SR-hf3hxАй бұрын
This is an absolute beautiful take on this. No one can say it better
@Abbas_DaughtersАй бұрын
Nothing but Facts ‼️👏🏾
@insatiablelionessАй бұрын
❤
@dtjisdivineАй бұрын
Wow
@renepcj4017Ай бұрын
And by people we mean mostly women😂😂😂😂😂
@jordanglasper1064Ай бұрын
Perfectly said
@zeeinvest9473Ай бұрын
Woooow ❤
@darleneachille491Ай бұрын
AMEN…GOD let me wait for the marriage that YOU have called me to!!!‼️
@karenthornton2949Ай бұрын
Wow can I get one of him please:)
@indiamoore8988Ай бұрын
I get it now ❤ thank you
@LB-qf1jy88Ай бұрын
🎯
@CopiousKeАй бұрын
💯💯💯
@paigenicholespeaks6172Ай бұрын
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@roxannethomas7302Ай бұрын
That's powerful
@redruby9804Ай бұрын
Yes YES Yes!! This is truth! Listen to what he says. Self evaluate & then see if what you want lines up with what he said 🤔
@markspencer5248Ай бұрын
DAAAAAAAMN❤❤❤❤
@tabathaspencer21272 ай бұрын
YES!!!
@stefanmatton8778Ай бұрын
Yet women only care about the wedding.😊
@IndiscrazyworldАй бұрын
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯👌🏽
@KelahCashАй бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 🙌🏽🙌🏽
@reginad.tucker-musicminist6198Ай бұрын
🔥
@atlsongbyrd6084Ай бұрын
This was deep 🙏
@user-vh5hg2fl7qАй бұрын
That’s right.
@user-cg4us1hg2rАй бұрын
#CHURCH
@bookmarkforbooks61Ай бұрын
Can someone please tell me the name of this man?
@yemx5253Ай бұрын
Well these seems to be a man of god who takes marriage (calling) seriously. Basically it's either in you or it isn't.
@Loveddeeply626Ай бұрын
I think sometimes we can make things overly deep.Humans are created for companionship,and that is simply why people just want to be with people for that need of companionship and connection. There are people more healthier and have had healthier conditioning and that makes it easier for them to navigate relationship. The calling for marriage is a desire to be a healthy companion to your partner and the choice to commit to one person. Things are not always only spiritual but also have a very human and psychological component to them.
@dogstick12Ай бұрын
Marriage is for having children. Raising children is left out of the modern drama of marriage.
@JohnWilbourn25Ай бұрын
He said a 🤬 mouth full of
@aramisy.cajigas744Ай бұрын
For women it is a goal in their checklist.
@righteousmasculineАй бұрын
For the wrong ones but for the right one it’s a commitment
@Realrap2727Ай бұрын
Shut up. The entire population of women are not the same.
@ShannonsBibleStudyАй бұрын
There's nothing wrong with that.
@aramisy.cajigas744Ай бұрын
@@ShannonsBibleStudyPoor men who marry that type of woman.
@dogstick12Ай бұрын
For women they want to have kids.
@FadeMaster25121 күн бұрын
Men don't get married/ sign State paperwork. It's a loose loose situation!
@TheJeaneanАй бұрын
You need to evaluate people before you marry them.
@kerilynnae5551Ай бұрын
I'm gona have to disagree. The Bible says that if you can't abstain from sex, then you should get married. The vast majority of ppl can't abstain from sex their entire lives. Therefore, most ppl are "called" to marriage, whatever that means.
@alliwishis_2Ай бұрын
Pretty much in this world if you're not in the business of getting then you're in the business of losing When someone still has the baby a person that means that person has the Peter Pan syndrome I still thinks like an infant Even though they are winning all kinds of foreign cars and foreign clothes they are pretty much in the infantile state- The Working is a Sucka..
@truth234520 күн бұрын
Another Derrick 😒🙄
@cookie7241Ай бұрын
Where’s the full video
@Royal-Ty-ThingsАй бұрын
Im sorry I dont know , I just ran across it on my tic toc page .
@tallmarn8927Ай бұрын
I wonder who those "people" are whom he's laying mention to.
@yorosandrine2844Ай бұрын
You haven't been in a hard evil spouse like marriage. When you guys speak please bring the balance between destructive marriages and challenging / difficult marriages. Be in the first one, you will tell me that God didn't send you to be slaughtered. Cheers
@dogstick12Ай бұрын
Most people who theorize about marriage have never been married. You will notice married people are so hush hush about marriage.
@dogstick12Ай бұрын
Marriage is for having kids. Most theorists on marriage have never had to raise children with a husband or wife.
@dmoffitt1914Ай бұрын
I know this tickles people's ear. But explain why it's true. I feel called means nothing. I feel like cheating. Don't move on feeling move on wisdom.
@trevaswinsonАй бұрын
Prime example of missing the whole point!!!! 😏
@dmoffitt1914Ай бұрын
@@trevaswinson I understand the point, I disagree with it.. why do you agree with it?
@trevaswinsonАй бұрын
@dmoffitt1914 I relate to this message spiritually!!!
@ShannonsBibleStudyАй бұрын
I agree. This is nonsense.
@travelingwithteddyg7472Ай бұрын
Mmmm. I don’t know and would have to disagree with him.
@renepcj4017Ай бұрын
And by people we mean mostly women😂😂😂😂😂
@dailykaizen83132 ай бұрын
PANDERING TO THE MAX.
@stevencpegram-br7enАй бұрын
SORRY BROTHER. WOMEN HAVE BEEN THE CULPRITS AND PROBLEMATIC ISSUES SINCE CHILDHOOD WHERE THERE IS NO FORGIVENESS ON MY PART. I WILL NEVER LEAVE THE WOMAN THAT HAS ENRICHED THIS LIFE. BUT I INTEND ON LIVING A LIFE OF SOLITUDE. A LEGACY TO BE REMEMBERED FOR THE AGES. ALWAYS CONSIDER THE STEPS OF THE SURVIVORS IN THIS WORLD. BEING COGNIZANT OF WALKING IN THE LIGHT AS A LONE WOLF MENTALITY. IT IS THE BEST COURSE TOWARDS ACTIONABLE WORKS TOWARDS REDISCOVERY AND PEACEFUL EXISTENCE. SISTER NOD YOUR HEAD TOWARDS THIS AS A MESSAGE OF REFLECTION. ISAIAH CHAPTER 32.