A Woman MUST Bring You Value 💯…

[@okoo7385]

Moral of the story... Dont get blinded by the backshots😂 😂😂 Legit tho!

[@rhideflory]

The ending to this short was wild! Homie threw off the whole vibe 😂

[@Tarantulisimo]

FELLAS: Listen to this every morning & every night -- we all get caught up with some female who is more of a liability than an asset, & hopefully you cut her off before you make a mistake like getting her pregnant or marrying her

[@stanmoney8470]

You said mouthful brother 👍🏿✅

[@fritzthekidd]

Definitely can’t get blinded by the back shots 😂😂😂

[@FracturedReality777]

Right on! My ex-wife was like that, a total liability that added little value.

[@illmatiK4]

Stephan stays dropping the real 411! Too many men respond with the unnecessary pandering….”a woman doesn’t have to bring anything”…smh! No, she absolutely does. Stephan paints the full picture on how it should be! Respect Bro!

[@jeanmm6823]

Backshots come a dime a dozen. How does your partner fulfill your needs to just be?

[@deonlion]

🎯

[@steveomari2828]

This resonated with me. I just prayed for a sign. Followed the steps in 'Love After Heartbreak,' going to therapy. She came back, but fasting from sex has revealed a lot of things. I love her, but I've been asking what is she doing for me?

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

[@c__lovexo]

Update?

[@dreambig7425]

What do you want a woman to do for you? Seeking solid answers from men.

[@achhkay4229]

Facts!!!!!

[@achhkay4229]

@@dreambig7425 be there for me, have my back, speak life into me instead of tearing me down, stop comparing is to Socail media relationships, be loyal, show interest on the things i like, i can go on and on

[@HealinAllOfMe]

I love this msg because many think tangible or monetary when it can simple be her pouring into you mentally and spiritually ❤

[@garygreen7104]

It needs to be tangible also

[@andreaharris4683]

But Im sure you want the man to pour into you FINANCIALLY lololol

[@mubafaw]

Saving lives out there 😊🙏

[@verycherry4459]

I watch StephanSpeaks (for women) and this is the first time I've heard him address the men. I endorse his message 100%.

[@lynettenorwood2864]

THIS IS TRUE FACTS 💙❤🙏

[@wandafossett846]

😃💓 i love the Shorts And the Messages but what Affected me most is the CONSIDERATION FOR the HEARING IMPAIRED!!$ For they too are human And people in Relationships Toxic or Not.. Thanks for caring putting the words on Screen. And soon your Books Will reach out to Other Disabled people Like the Blind. 🙏 🙏 🙏😃😍💓

[@Goodwillwinoverevil1984]

Works both ways folks. Works both ways!

[@Makeitmakesensejo]

Rightttttttttttt!!!!!

[@britanicajohnson]

Yes to this. I’m tired of us always feeling like we have to be “good enough” for a man. Is he good enough for you? Most women will settle for some good d… but most men won’t settle for good p…. It definitely goes both ways.

[@JackieS812]

This is true! Withdrawing without making deposits!

[@POKPOK96121]

this is so true

[@MyPrimeone]

All I say is oh boy if I knew better My Guts telling me from the beginning! As the saying goes nice guy finishes last Thank you, Stephan 💪🏾

[@SolLuz-x6b]

WOW, I DID FOR MY JOSHUA. HAVING ME WAS to him HAVING HIS NEEDS.

[@dreambig7425]

I am interested in hearing concrete examples of how a woman can add value to a mans life. Fellas please chime in…

[@urbanobstacles]

I've tried to find the answer bro. I've asked dozens of women and not a single one can answer the question. In fact all of them tried to shame me instead. If anyone knows the answer I'm all ears

[@mint_soup9743]

You are such a good role model to our young men, Stephan. Once and a while I come across your for men page and it always impresses me. Men need to be heard and it's nice to see you take up that role in a positive way. Cool!

[@adrees]

100% facts

[@fantasiaroberts5157]

I fully agree👏🏾👏🏾✋🏾👊🏽 🙏🏽💚🙌🏾

[@kilo6295]

Judge her with your eyes closed like KS said🙏🏿💯

[@fathersdaughter1225]

This is true

[@Rich44LA]

Facts!!!

[@shinecam1]

Gems

[@alitava6844]

Agree for sure. But I believe she should also spend money on you. She should be soft and femenine around you, she should give you confidence, she should do extra things like making delicious meals for you. She shoule lower her expectations to make you feel easy with her etc.

[@louisesandifer4020]

How about already having confidence. She can reassure and encourage. Having expectations can't be one-sided.

[@urbanobstacles]

Hoow happy will you be with a girl who lowers her standard to be with you. Confidence never comes from an external place brother

[@RhondaR4]

PREACH🔥

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

🙏

[@fantasiaroberts5157]

I love that 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏽💚💚💚🙌🏾

[@ThaiBo0gie420]

As a man you must be comfortable with being replaceable when you accept that people will do what they want no need to drive yourself crazy for someone that doesn’t respect you or care if you leave or not once you are the first to walk away you will see if she’s even worth your time because the second you allow them to treat you a certain way they wont stop so you need to double down and choose your peace and self respect first because if you don’t why would they feel me you gotta respect yourself before others can respect you better to respect yourself and they leave than to keep them just for them to disrespect you for that choice

[@Phil_ing]

I wish lots of guys gonna watch this.

[@tradersodd]

Great 👍 bro

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@kellymills8779]

💯💯

[@AZ-Polska]

Literally going through this as we speak. Head over heels for this women would be ready to marry her and start a family tomorrow. She’s 30 years old and is unsure wether she wants to be with me? We’ve been together for 6 months and I haven’t met any of her family/friends/etc…

[@michaelmabry6113]

Run

[@lukas4016]

Where can I find full version?

[@pol-ek3yq]

For the Simps psy🐱 does not count as value , value for me is you work for your self do the house work like cook , clean etc is happy to see you back from work , motivates you for everything you do and supports you and is a good mother everything else is a bonus BUT you gotta do the same back when she is gone for whatever reason you take her place and never complain.

[@alicianottkeys337]

I'm so glad I came across this comment

[@darlenecarruthers-shelton837]

I Am an Asset definitely Not an Liability. Knowing how to pour positiveness, Peaceful, Inspires, Encourage, know how to talk to a Grown Man. Thank you Stephan, for reminding what we as women should know, especially it's not ALL about monetary etc.( grown boys think like that). Grown Men think different and move different. We as Woman should ADD VALUE to the relationship, if not, then nothing else matters.

[@urbanobstacles]

Lol sure it's not everything but I promise you if your husband lost his job and didn't bother finding a new one you would leave him 100 times out of 100. As you should.it's pretty blind to assume money doesn't have anything to do with it I mean most divorces are over money

[@florida8431]

You said all that but none of that pay bills.🤣🤣🤣

[@urbanobstacles]

@@florida8431 that's because men are providers. Women wait at the finish line and fuck the winner

[@davidjones-rd6lo]

So true

[@earlhoneyghan5695]

Facts

[@keithfew76]

🎯💯

[@ritaceron7329]

wow beautiful soul ❤

[@cindyvazquez4333]

Pour into your man with love, affirmation, prayers and Peace. ❤❤🙏🙏

[@duncanmac2195]

Just went no contact with a total liability. Deleted her number and don't expect to hear from her. Once users can't use you they vanish.

[@Kiki-jx6by]

I concur!!!! Yes yes yes I bring ALL of that to the table and MORE! If not, I usually end the relationship.

[@j.e3336]

I agree but I honestly don't know what women do lol. Nfs. I was taught theyre not supposed to do anything lol. All that protecting and providing, nothing can equal to the value of that...

[@shahtalha9325]

That’s true Most women say they are a 10 and want a high value man, but the real question is what do they bring to the table!!!

[@urbanobstacles]

If you know let me know. I've asked dozens of woman never got an answer

[@Goodwillwinoverevil1984]

​@@urbanobstaclesSex. Comoanionship! Friendship! Someone to be there with you through thick and thin and of course, when you're old. Someone to give you children if you wanted them. Describes my parent's almost 50 year marriage to a T! ☺

[@urbanobstacles]

@svasianphilippinesgo6858 lol I have friends who would die for me. Every girl has a pussy so that's not special. Companionship? You ever travel with a woman? Those are bs reasons. Also no girl will be with you till the end not without cheating

[@amyitis]

​@urbanobstacles You asking women what they bring to the table is an automatic rejection or someone who WILL use you. Both parties need to pour into each other, but when you're looking at what she can GIVE to you and what she can provide to you, you will have her running the other way because to her, you're just looking to use her without you providing anything. This question should never be asked by either party. Pour into each other and the value starts to unfold.

[@Realness4sho]

💯💯💯✅🥰💜

[@jarredCut]

so sad.... this what ive been thinking with "mine"

[@TanikaNakeyaLewis]

My Self-Worth Is Distinctive of my Self-Esteem, and Both Are Distinctive of my Personal Value: I Doesn't Have any Thing to Contribute: What Feelings Does It Cause? Socio-Economically, It Is Not a Female's Job to Prioritize the Socio-Economics of "Man-Hood", Because, At Some Point, "Man-Hood" Is Not a Self-Extension, of any Specific Female, so When Should Females In-Cur Personal Capacity, As Wealth, Also Exclusive of "Man-Hood" Self-Exploitation, Beyond Employment? 😶. Respectively. Tanika Nakeya Lewis, 6127

[@kellygreenii]

(Other than sex) Does being around her make your life BETTER? If not, then why are you wasting time with her.

[@Rozeyred1]

Well I’m finding this the reverse that’s all I have to say

[@maregoodlow5399]

Value, liability, asset we're not talking about a product but a person , a soul, now we don't get me wrong he is talking about a user , they come in all genders all races, I'm so tired of these people talking about this, whatever happened to just old fashioned dating.

[@michaelmabry6113]

Dating Is a flawed concept

[@shawanahickman6952]

And I do

[@da_ghost8032]

A back rub or a hug is good enough.

[@sarahdiv2731]

HE NEEDS SELF ESTEEM

[@CM-rm3xj]

I realised this far too late. I was stuck on protector mode and didn’t think how little my wife actually did, bar being a mother. We’re now seperated and getting divorced. My choice

[@brandonpotts5815]

what flipped the switch?

[@yotiep.1072]

How come she can't spend money 🤔that's also an asset🤷🏿

[@CharlesChatman-js4sr]

Liability/not Asset💭💭💭

[@amyj.4992]

Oof she's a liability not an asset, what does she pour into that makes life better

[@backtothebasics3193]

🫡🤴🏾

[@TheColtonStreeter]

I don't need anything but presence

[@RichRayBeatsnFilms]

The only thing a woman can give you that you cannot give yourself is a baby. You can create your own PEACE.

[@ky.g2733]

Erm yes however once you are in a relationship as you have to open yourself up to her in a relationship your peace can remain peaceful by her or can be disrupted by her so she needs to amplify that peace you have

[@andreaharris4683]

Ok. All they claim to offer is "peace". However if you are single and live alone your household is already peaceful lol

[@goaldineyelife6291]

Time for Biden to go bye ✌️

[@keishabeal9978]

Oh please just stop already..we have nothing else to talk about?? Do u not see what’s going on in the world right now…if ppl actually just stop being relationships gurus the world would b soo much better..if u haven’t been married for 10 years or more plz get off social media

[@josedopwell9645]

Sounds like the God-fearing, righteous, devoted wife described in Proverbs 31:10-31. She "does not eat the bread of idleness." The woman of God is NOT self-centered and "gimme, gimme, gimme." She's also not coasting on her physical appearance (Proverbs 31:30).. "An excellent wife who can find? She is far more precious than jewels." The only way this happens is if she has received a new heart and a new spirit from Almighty God (Ezekiel 36:25-27, John 3:3).

[@thispersonrighthere9024]

since you manosphere types think women do nothing, then maybe y'all just can just date each other, and leave good women alone.😊

[@Silkpressboss]

Y’all need to get therapy…expecting a woman to fix u is crazy! And it’s close to impossible if she isn’t trained to do that

[@scorpio1977]

Facts

[@godsgrace2187]

💯💯💯