Don't LET A Woman Play You, Do THESE 7 Things

[@orarichman9948]

Men can keep from getting played by not giving too much too early. Don't give too much money or too much of yourself. Don't be quick to invest your heart, money, and time into a woman until you find out her true intentions . Know where her heart is before you fall head over heels in love. Court her at least a year without any strings attached and learn about her and what kind of company she keeps. Women are who she hangs out with!!!! Take time to get to know her instead of investing in a woman only to get played and get your heart broken. Remember how you start off with a woman is the same way the relationship is going to end. Don't start something that you are not able to finish. When selecting a mate, don't just look for a nice body and pretty face. I am talking from experience men! My sister had a size 0 figure and a very beautiful face and was loaded with the AIDS virus!!! R.I.P!!!! Looks don't mean shyt!!! Please do your research on a woman before allowing her in your lives.💯

[@greenhax92]

I wish I had this knowledge before 😢

[@crw3673]

All solid advice !👌

[@meme-zv7kw]

Don't ever get emotionally attached to a woman. Most women punish men who care about them. Always be willing to walkaway

[@virgiliomendes7860]

I'm paying the price now, but what's killing is the fact that there's kids in the middle 😢😢

[@meme-zv7kw]

@@virgiliomendes7860 Bro women don't care they will use the kids to play you. They become SAVAGE when you care it's a sign of weakness to then

[@blackwolverine1]

Stoicism and Discernment is paramount fellas, trust and believe. One Pimp once said, you learn from the burn.

[@shellaposse4703]

Facts 💯

[@Quianna]

​@@meme-zv7kwFalse. Everything you said is false.

[@peter_knowz_lifting]

I’m turning 42 this year. I think I can speak for most men my age who are single or going through a divorce, we are at a point where we want to redirect our energy into more productive and meaningful endeavors. Do you have advice for men who want take a break from dating so we can become the best version of ourselves.

[@badhabit714]

Focus on yourself.

[@stevecokaiko2975]

Remember the way you pictured your future self when you were a kid? Go for that

[@peter_knowz_lifting]

@@stevecokaiko2975 Wow, great answer.

[@crw3673]

Truly learn from the divorce and learn from the 20 years of dating! Be a good man and stand on your values and standards. Don't be a nice guy and get played.

[@msblu7368]

Doing nice things are one thing But, When you start paying a woman or a man's Bills! (Hello) Big Red Flag. Run

[@shawnrigney4354]

I admire men who have value in them men who refuse to be subject to a woman who respects himself and women but sets boundaries in his relationships.Never leave his door open to manipulation, disrespect and all other narsistic behaviour from women,Time and money is an issue because he could have saved his life doing something with a someone who truly loves him at a time of invesing the same money on a tramp.Its amazing when a woman advises you not to waste money but most drain you mentally and emotionally and leave you broke and confused.Love yourself enough to walk away and stay away. Most women use men then play the victim knowing all the shit theve done to him and behind his back .Love traded for betrayal is for weak men .Grow up grow strong and grow balls to move on in life.

[@Palmbeach33486]

I have spent a fortune paying dinner for women who were serial daters that love-bombed me, but all they really wanted was free meals with at least 4 alcoholic drinks on the average. Then, they ghosted me. I have been taken advantage of over and over because of my generosity.

[@Chief_Chill]

Did u learn something from this bruh?

[@naturalhealthrevolution1518]

​@@Chief_Chilldon't take them to dinners at first. Just hang out and chill

[@badhabit714]

Ha!Ha! (inthevoiceofNelson)

[@shawnrigney4354]

The advise given by the video is good the simple gestures they don't like just hanging out spending time communicating having an icecream a walk.watching a home movie sitting giving each other time with attention shows her true character but if her time always has to be beneficial then it's the bad begging of a bad ending...most women need to use a man then gaslight him no longer into him,ghost him then wait for him to crawl back.ive been here , I've grown wiser I put me first buy clothes go out alone save money eliminate bad company distant from sneaky women .don't even have lady friends they use you when their men are toxic no go.just stay single and stay in God's presence and see how your life flourishes . Surprise you'll see and hear from the demons . Advise leave those doors close .Avoid them if it was manifested in them that you were of them they would have respect and cherished you but it was beneficial for a season that they would empowered and educated and strengthened you mentally and emotionally about life and who to invest in .First God second yourself Stay safe guys love you and protect you before her.............

[@crw3673]

No disrespect, but you was the nice guy that got played. Be a good man and stand on your values and learn from past experiences.

[@PhantomVortex]

The last one is the cause of most people getting played. You're overlooking, accepting, and tolerating things based off of what you've learned in the past. (Good or bad) Not everyone deserves what you bring. You may want to give someone the best, but it becomes unhealthy when that's not the person for you.

[@nele350c7]

A powerful man is a man who can control his emotions and his urges!

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*Staying calm and confident when addressing her actions is key - there's no better way to show self-respect than by not tolerating games.*

[@ReginaldJamalPettway3]

God has amazing plans for us all stay encouraged.

[@MrMC-xg8qp]

Bro, I married this woman and felt I was sold a lie. I just found out she took out a loan 4 years ago and didn't pay it while we were married. A debt collector called me looking for her. I've been asking for honest communication for years now and still not getting it. I have a lot to lose at this point in my marriage as all of the lies she's told over the years are starting to get exposed. I feel women want to get married just to take off the mask and show their true selves because they know the consequences for you if it doesn't work out. Marriage just benefits the woman not the man.

[@Jaxmusicgal23]

Not all women are like this. I have met men like this too. I am so sorry you married someone and then their true colors came out. Sometimes we miss the subtle red flags until the big ones come out later. I pray you find peace and see there are good women out there wanting YOU and not just what you can give her

[@blackwolverine1]

You learn from the burn.

[@fitnesshigherselfhealthand7102]

You’re speaking real facts. I just lost a women that I was afraid to lose. I rarely find women that I really like. I’m not talking about physically, I’m talking about personality and physically at the same time. so I find it that when I do find one I do like that I start to feel like I don’t want to lose her. Also, I started feeling inadequate because I had to take off work for 3 months because of an accident, while she works around millionaires and taking big company trips. I’m just realizing that deep down inside I might’ve been feeling insecure about it and didn’t recognize but she probably picked on the vibe. I was operating from a place of scarcity while she was in a place of an

[@tyrell2710]

Never settle

[@RogerDuly]

?

[@shad3654]

All this time I never knew you had a page for men I’m glad I came across this to soak up some knowledge from you man

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Thanks man, I’m glad you found the page

[@Ekjunior-y7v]

Do not be afraid to lose her, good point bro, but can that be applicable to someone you are married to and have kids with? Please help me understand that cause am going through a lot with wife.

[@Ahkeem00]

Walk away from the toxicity anyway. Work on being a good role model for your children

[@antoniojohnson285]

These all good points! I experienced most of these issues in my last relationship. I didn’t address the red flags in the beginning.

[@thestrategist2485]

Red flag is anything that makes you uncomfortable 👌🏿. Stephen is at the root of the problem! Sometimes discomfort is a subtle warning of an unclear red flag that you don’t know yet how to define! Thank you once again

[@marygranke204]

I highly recommend his book, love after heartbreak and I have read this book and his other books. I recently lost my mother last month and am need of doing a certain step in the healing process again.

[@darkknightk]

I'm tired of getting played by women. It's like it's becoming my fate. I'm not going through it anymore with another woman, even if that woman perceives herself to be different from those I've been with in my past. I've given up a long time ago. 😢

[@tyturner5870]

I agree with the walk away part, cuz their this women who I LOVE still this day & I walked away because it wasn’t working out and it was very toxic. I needed to heal so does she….i rather see a better version of her then get broken version & that’s love. I still want her in my life too 🤷🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

[@sedricksupreme]

Man just watch a few Red Pill videos, get over the initial Red Pill rage, and move accordingly. Listening to Women's advice about Women? Make them invest in you First/Simultaneously at worst and you'll avoid these problems. The days of us opening our wallet to impress them are over. The grand awakening is here

[@edwolf9433]

Everything you said is true, I wasted 28 years of my like and invested all that time and money only to be discarded.

[@Wz96-i4c]

LOL , I asked a female some questions and she said I was nosey , mind you the questions weren't personal. I got her from around me in a hurry.

[@dominance_inc]

Sir i respect you and love your teachings a lot. Learning so much already.

[@deborahchildress7305]

Healing is hard

[@nathan_drake1237]

Going through that right now 😢

[@jcsmouse1]

Preach !! Great advice

[@Cindy_Love_2025]

I love this video & your topics! I love that you have videos for men too! Men need to be valued too! 💗 Men, you are worth it to the right women 💯💓

[@msblu7368]

In my opinion & what I have witnessed! ... When you see & learn the Red Flags Run! If you don't, you will turn into the Therapist, the Potter & the Clay (Trying to make them who you want them to be or fix the person). They R who they R & They have to make that move to get help. And then it can turn into co- dependency. Some Women & Men R Good Big Liars.

[@golden9018]

Here is the information you need for life so you want have so many headaches from women he is the truth with these videos.......Memphis tn

[@TP-qs9wp]

M-town bound my nig😅

[@Rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr333]

Thank man I need that I’m 32 still learning 😮

[@513ChrisHeltzer]

Thank u bra as a single man I never had a relationship with a woman I've been single 18-31 an even before that I never had a woman kissed a woman or anything else to keep it real even in high school I've also been rejected a lot by women any never understood why other than they wasn't interested I also have a hard time with understanding if a woman is truly interested In me or not an still have some social issues I'm trying to work on this I will keep in mind when I finally find a woman

[@deborahchildress7305]

I prefer time and the truth than money I run across men that run away because I can provide for myself but I love the stability in a man that doesn't think that I just want them for their money

[@cmsconcerts4179]

Is there a message board or website or information source that the majority of women, feminist or NARCISSIST women read or learn or taught from because ALMOST 80% OF WOMEN ie Black Women Operate the same and believe the same and try to treat men the SAME... IS THERE??

[@gabriellove8488]

All FACTS

[@siguardlyles9654]

Great video

[@mikyl-fo8rh]

You must either investigate or hire an investigator to do research on anyone you plan to enter a committed relationship with. Boaz checked up on Ruth before he even met her (Ruth 2:5-11). You may be pleasantly surprised or be repulsed by the discovered horrors.

[@deborahchildress7305]

I addressed concerns early and got called miserable and I laughed I just figured he got caught in his own bs

[@angelm6497]

I think many men have their own commitment issues and like the transactional "prostitution" based relationships. They see them as safe in the sense they don't think they will get hurt; until one day they wake and watch the genuine woman walk out their life. Auf Wiedersehen! I walked away from one 20 years ago only to find him in my face one day, sparkling eyes and apperently pleased to see me, as I wondered who is he, and why is he in my face? Boy had he changed in 20 years; I didn't recognise him. Then he had the balls to tell me he hadn't seen himself that day when I asked how he was, thinking I was talking to a staff member. Anyway I have since got over my Daddy issues and now I avoid emotionally unavailable men. Who BTW, blame the women for all their issues.

[@TanikaNakeyaLewis]

Don't Give, or Receive ,any Thing, Un-Less, any Thing Given, or Receptive, Is a Gift. 😶. Respectively. Tanika Nakeya Lewis, 6127

[@deborahchildress7305]

You sound like my mom

[@TanikaNakeyaLewis]

@@deborahchildress7305: I Under-Stand, But, You Did Not Hear any Sounds from my Self, and my Perspective Is a Perspective of the Golden Rule: "Do Unto Others As You Desire Others to Do Unto your Self": Only Give Money: Loaning Is Un-Necessary, or Other-Wise Do Not Give, is the Same As, First, Do Not Sabotage your Self from Being a Charity Recipient, Although, Not many Individuals Desire to Be "Charity Cases", and: Second, Do Not Limit your Opportunities to Give, As Generously, As any Other Un-Obligate Individuals Give to You, Exclusive of any Self-Preservation: Also, Remember, a Can of Soup Doesn't Change any Body's Life, It might Only Change a Moment, In Its Life-Time: Usually, Also many Females Desire Life Changes, and Only Receive Death. 😶. Respectively. Tanika Nakeya Lewis, 6127

[@KingLamarQuinton]

Man its like you're speaking DIRECTLY to me 😒

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

💯

[@sonyadouglas8565]

❤❤❤Quality of the date matters. Be creative!❤❤❤

[@fanamlawuli6761]

Hell no, most of you aren't worth it

[@deborahchildress7305]

What you say presentation is plus im not argumentative that's when the argument starts

[@animestarlord9021]

Washington DC ladies want to know your level of education and how much money you make before going out anywhere with you. This has happened to me thousands and thousands of times.

[@IsaiahKeivon]

Never get your money involved, that’s my first red flag.

[@MegaDrummerdude13]

Was anyone else's take away from this video "treat women like little children"

[@TashaStPierre]

I love you ❤!

[@badhabit714]

Calm down.

[@_Grade-A]

@@badhabit714😂😂😂

[@MetaLavish]

It’s just too much for me, good luck tho

[@timbelton2102]

Skip all this if she likes you more then you like her. work on fitness fashion an finances. dating isn't rocket science

[@dubnash24]

Tabernacle 🙏🏾⛪️🙏🏾

[@UniversalBabyKen144]

30 star 💫 VID 🔥👏🏽🎯💥✅💯

[@SgtMattBaker1]

This video came 4 weeks too late lol 😂😢

[@loandermcdonald8573]

👍👌

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Thank you for watching

[@barishankhonglah4690]

Yes you are 👍

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

💯

[@anonymous4gent]

you just told men it is okay to take women on a daytime date to save money. I don't trust your abilities anymore.

[@marvensjoseph1350]

Too late lmaooo😂😂😂

[@MelRog]

unfortunately the advice given here gets confusing and blurs the lines of communication. In short you will have to become a mind reader between man and woman.

[@Blaqmench]

@melrog You need to listen better! 🦻

[@melvinrogers7064]

Look brother don't get mad. Get better. Or get off youtube. It's just that simple.

[@Blaqmench]

@melvinrogers7064 Listen better brother! #IsaidWhatiSaid

[@deborahchildress7305]

When I asked questions I was told that I was nagging

[@turnerstransport2ify]

I was trying to spend time I was told I was too needy 😮

[@fishin2fit753]

YESSIR 💪🏾🤝🏾🫡

[@jameswilson1522]

⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

[@Florida_gyrl]

Yes! I wish more men were intentional.

[@Ducati007]

No shit Sherlock!.

[@badhabit714]

LOL😂😂😂

[@deborahchildress7305]

Im a runner I leave

[@Dickscipline]

Bye

[@BORN2LOSE13]

Enjoy your cats into old age

[@killerkaly]

Your content is getting repetitive, you’ve talked about all of this in other videos.

[@DetroitNative313]

Well don't watch then

[@youms237]

Well, then imma watch again to remind myself.

[@2WheelsForever]

Yet ....HERE you are...watching them ALL.😂😂😂😂

[@fkc2107]

I need it

[@badhabit714]

Yup.

[@2WheelsForever]

Men are better off with a good faithful dog..

[@steveobeng4444]

You can't fuck your dog.

[@jaagonfreezeyou]

Fax but when I get onat timing 😈💦 u gon need a shordy lol😂

[@badhabit714]

ummm Doggystyle? 😬🥴

[@reallyrell8892]

That polo crispy

[@ladieyo]

😂

[@deborahchildress7305]

What you say presentation is plus im not argumentative that's when the argument starts