Aberoo: A complicated and culturally influenced concept influencing the quality of life and choices

Aberoo is a self-written #script about a life that includes self-censorship, #self-blame, compensation, and denial. Aberoo is a non-written cultural #concept that means behaving in a way that keeps the façade or surface. Keeping this facade meaning not challenging the status quo, while not saying no because you fear hurting others emotions. Aberoo is a complex concept that stops self expression. Aberoo literaly means "water of the face" meaning you have to always the face shining and convincing.
#Aberoo is a social status subject to psychological and social pressure; it is a learned behaviour that develops over time, shaping the #self, personality, and identity. Aberoo is in our #head, #heart, and entire physical body. Aberoo is in between our #personal and #interpersonal relationships. Aberoo involves anxiety and fear, rooted in our unconscious mind and passed down to us by our caregivers. Aberoo gets into our conscious mind when we are with others. Aberoo is in anything we carry, eat, or touch. Aberoo is everywhere and with us! #Reputation is a picture you offer to your outside world, which you, like others, have of yourself.
Your reputation is a #collective #mental #construct that you share about yourself, a construct based on your actions and the perceptions of others. Your Aberoo depends on what you share with others. It is about boundaries that are sometimes enmeshed and boundaries that never exist. Aberoo sometimes defines who we are since it prohibits individuals from being #assertive and #open-minded. Aberoo is a #paradox. It's a self-oriented discourse that silences our thoughts and feelings, fearing they might hurt others. At the same time, it's other-oriented, pushing us to prioritize others over ourselves. This dichotomy of Aberoo can lead to a suppression of our own needs and desires. #mentalhealthawarenessday #middleclassfamily #iranian
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