Maintenance Vlog | removing ingrowns, cleaning your piercings, sugaring, & at home pedicure

[@afrikurl]

I love that you keep your stuff for a long time and it’s discontinued. I have been around for a long time and I know that you are telling the truth 💕

[@abetweene]

i may tell u a joke but i never tell u a lie! 💕 i shop until i find the right fit/performance and when i do im locked in 🤞 quality rarely needs to be replaced

[@squirrelsinmykoolaid]

I feel the ADHD maintenance struggles. I feel like my hair, nails, and feet are never done at the same time and if they are, I have a little tuft under my armpits (which I don't mind, but it's the principle! 😂).

[@abetweene]

exactly! 😅

[@lrim2156]

Omg , I have never related to smthg this much

[@liscc13]

I love how relaxing your videos are 🩷

[@abetweene]

Glad you enjoyed it! 😌

[@vanerey_]

Love when the polly pocket boot makes an appearance ✨️

[@abetweene]

😂

[@Sunny_27_Star]

@@vanerey_ Lol omg, Polly Pocket boot just sent me 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

[@familyguy2698]

Ur videos r so organic and nice to watch 😊

[@abetweene]

ty ☺️

[@OohpreddynailsAngie]

I'm allergic to seafood. I found out frosty lipstick and gloss often have a seashell ingredient that my lips hate. Every now and then I slip up and buy something that doesn't agree with my lips. And then my lips get irritated for a day or two. They peel like crazy once healed.

[@abetweene]

😮 wait, that makes so much sense that they would use the shells and such for shimmer. thats good to know. thanks for sharing

[@everydayinthebay3917]

@@abetweeneand shimmering fish scales are used also. It’s very cheap for companies to use because it’s a by product of the slaughter process 😣

[@abetweene]

ohhh wow. seems to be very few restsrictions, like the cochineal bugs they use for red food coloring 😬

[@everydayinthebay3917]

@ right? Yuck! Thankfully, because of the rise in veganism and people going cruelty free, these are becoming increasingly obsolete and more than likely, mica is being used instead! 💕🙏

[@flyscorp1773]

I had the same issue with my lips after getting African black soap on them. The only thing that helped was a peppermint lip balm by Eco Lips the mongo kisses line.

[@jezebelwalters9159]

I also suffer from cheilitis, but I’ve been able to reduce flares by identifying the following triggers; consuming acidic foods, ie lemon/tomatoes - as they tend to irritate the skin around the mouth, wind burn, licking my lips - I tend to do this a lot during the winter😅 and lastly, using products that have fragrance and alcohol. I love your videos by the way, all the best ❤

[@abetweene]

thanks so much for sharing 💕

[@elys1ann]

I loveddd the shape of your nails before you cut them. It’s my go to shape!☺️💕

[@abetweene]

same. they were the perfect length too but i chipped a few and in my mind that means i need to completely start over 🥲

[@thecrucialchick]

That polish color is beautiful!

[@user-ps3yl2dc5w]

For the cheloids trea tree essential oil work really well. You clean the area with a desinfectant and after that you put a the tea tree essential oil in the area. My cheloids was gone in 2 weeks. I hope it helps 🤭🤭

[@abetweene]

yes, forgot to mention theres tea tree in the tamanu oil as a carrier since essentials oils need to be diluted 💕

[@Bkr717]

I highly highly recommend adding glycolic acid from the ordinary to your pedicure routine. Once or twice a week, you mix it with your moisturizer, apply on your feet and put on socks overnight. You'll never have to scrub your feet ever again

[@Bkr717]

19:40 also works for the ingrown hairs on your legs

[@abetweene]

yes, i use predominantly glycolic, lactic, and azelaic acids on my legs 👍

[@abetweene]

AHAs and other keratolytics are great for my dry skin but unfortunately arent as effective for my calluses

[@amberc9053]

I've got KP as well. I started using an exfoliating serum a couple of times a week and it definitely helped

[@mizkk93]

This reminded me I can do a lot myself just need to set aside time. Also, how did you learn to e-file, I’m always nervous and was wondering what helped you learn how to use it correctly?

[@abetweene]

yes ma’am! and more comfortable being in your own home instead of in public. a lot of practicing and getting a feel for what felt right. the first time i used a cuticle bit, i filed soo much of my natural nail off, lol so practoce is the best teacher. i also used to watch a lot of videos of Japanese artists, especially at nail expos. even though i couldnt understand what was said, im a visual learner, so i found it really insightful.

[@RondaSmith144Empress]

I live for your self care/ maintenance EVERYTHING plus there's always something to learn which feeds my nerd😊. That pedi was like a berry wash and so pretty and I was like noooo when you cut your nails😂 but I get it. Your ear piercings are super cute and I stay cleaning the folds because acne in the ear is not fun🤣. Thanks A 💖. So satisfying and aesthetically pleasing as ALWAYS 🦋. Winter hair care next🙏🏽.

[@abetweene]

thanks love! girlll, i filmed my last wash for this video and accidently deleted the footage from the sd card. i wanted to cry but will def be in the next vid + a healthy trim!

[@lizethsarahicastelanorduna5970]

I love your voice It's so relaxing ✨️🖤

[@abetweene]

aww thank u 😊

[@Dt.Minarasheed]

OMG u are amazing Ariane , i watched all the videos in the sugar wax playlist and i made it and it came out excellent, i dont have a thermometer so i tested by dropping it on the counter every minute and i got it on my first try :) half cup of sugar was more than enough for me , i did my upper lips,under arms, legs and arms...uhhh its soo soft...unfortunately i dont have numbing cream like u said, so i left my cat** alone ..... i ain't going back to shaving....thankyou soo much

[@melissac.4028]

that tweezin was super satisfying

[@Sunny_27_Star]

It's so funny how much I H8 feet, but can watch ur pedi vids. The nail polish kinda has a stained glass window look. I like it. Love the microscopic camera thingy😁 Is it possible to get content showing skin right after hair removal, to show ppl why it's important not the submerge urself in water or being "adult play active" for at least 24 hours bcuz the pores have to rebound from hair removal 😊

[@abetweene]

thats a great idea. not sure if this particular microscope is powerfull enough to capture it but i can certainly try!

[@Sunny_27_Star]

@abetweene Awesome!!!! Thanks so much!!!! I think it would be great bcuz so many get hair removal services right before vacation or date night, not fully understanding the risk they put themselves at with their skin in a vulnerable state

[@2HotAtlanta]

Yes, changes in weather can cause seborrhea dermatitis or atopic dermatitis. Other reasons include stress, diet, etc. There is a prescription a dermatologist can give you to help control it including its pain.

[@ansharaabidi2089]

Soo satisfying , Jusst loved your diy body scrub❤

[@abetweene]

ty 💕

[@hannahmaughan6056]

I love these videos💖I had a baby almost 3 months ago and this is the inspo I need to take a little time for myself. Well, easier said than done. I sorted my brows while breastfeeding the other day so that's a start lol

[@abetweene]

congratulations! hope u and baby are doing good. fr multitasking is key lol

[@sunshinepeace]

Take your time momma! be gentle and graceful with yourself

[@hannahmaughan6056]

@@sunshinepeace Thank you❤

[@d0llfacevirgo]

This calmed me after a stressful day 🥹 what brand is the sheer red polish, please?

[@abetweene]

glad it helped; hope you have a good night & a better day tomorrow ♥️ the red polish is from manucurist

[@d0llfacevirgo]

@ Thank you so much ❤️

[@amberaa4782]

Can you please drop the link for the pointed tweezers? The current link goes to the studs website. Love your videos!

[@abetweene]

thanks for letting me know! ive updated the link for u and here it is again just in case amzn.to/3VtKtv6 glad youre enjoying them 😊

[@twelv8]

Ahhhh…my favorite distraction. 🫶🏽🕊️🤍😂 Hi Sug! 👯‍♀️🥰

[@abetweene]

hi punkin!

[@minicoopkia]

Hey! The lip issue happened to me as well when I used the ANUA niacinaminde serum on my face. Appreciate the video! 😊

[@abetweene]

thanks for sharing! glad u enjoyed it ♥️

[@theeyesiramirez]

I just have a painful big toe rn. Either an infection or ingrown nail. I was prepping my toes to be painted too. Now I have to wait...

[@_caram_]

Another great informative and relaxing video 😊👏🏼

[@gingerhalo123]

Omg I also exfoliate my ears 💀 I use the Paula’s choice toner it’s so good

[@abetweene]

very necessary 😏

[@AnalisaFreitas]

I've been meaning to ask, what do you use to exfoliate all the small areas/skin around the toenails? I feel like I always get so dry there, and I saw in this video you're using sort of an emery board with 210 on it - where can I get that? Thank you for your videos, you've inspired me to do my own nails at home and I am so much more satisfied with the results now

[@abetweene]

i generally remove the excess skin with the cuticle nippers and follow up with a nail file to polish the skin to ensure its smooth, but u can definitely just use the file to exfoliate without cutting. for that id recommend using a 180 grit first then the 240 grit after as shown here. u can find them at any beauty supply store or if u prefer to shop online, i really like this set (amzn.to/3Zyahrb) which also comes with sponge files for buffing. love that for u. theres nothing like getting what u want, and not having to pay for bs 😅

[@ayee_ja2898]

My sign for an overdue wax😂

[@abetweene]

always on time 😅

[@baddiemaes5750]

16:03 I had gotten contact dermatitis around my mouth really bad from my toothpaste containing SLS Sodium Lauryl Sulfate. Its in a lot of mainstream toothpaste brands that foam a lot since SLS is a very popular foaming agent (also in some shampoos and body washes) but there is a Sensodyne Extra Whitening Cool Mint toothpaste that allows me to have the whitening without the SLS ingredient. Take a look into SLS! I have sensitive skin so maybe its just me!

[@abetweene]

thanks for sharing

[@tinkerbellerock]

I get flare ups and I think it’s linked to not washing fruits properly or eating specific fruits themselves - citrus and berries x

[@abetweene]

interesting. thanks for sharing

[@ashleypasson8526]

Do you not need strips with sugar waxing? I'm slow, sry. Also favorite shower products!! I got the Osea set off your recommendation and it. Is. Amazing. I honestly didn't realize how dry I was till I started using it.

[@abetweene]

correct, u dont have to use strips. you can if u want to but u also have the option of doing the “flicking” method like at 24:59 so glad u like it! ill be sure to include some favs in the next video.

[@erykahleigh9139]

I soo need to try sugaring!! Great video as always ❤

[@abetweene]

u must! youll be amazed at how soft your skin feels. ty 💕

[@ccf303]

I actually experienced cheilitis once before (and never knew the name of the condition until now!) I was using tea tree oil and got it too close to my lip line. So that was the trigger for me

[@abetweene]

i can believe it, tea tree oil is strong!!!

[@heyyyloe]

your conch piercings healed so well !!! mine is taking years 🥲 what tool did you use to insert your jewelry after cleaning?

[@abetweene]

thank u, they took around a year for me too. the rook was the worst tho! 😫 theyre about 4 yrs old now; just the flat and 3rd lobes are newer. the tool is a flatback threader. the link is in the description box if u need it.

[@ubiquitousinfluence]

Loved this. Is that a cuticle cutter you’re using to cut your nails? Regular nail clippers, are those any good or should we use the ones that you have instead?

[@abetweene]

its an ingrown toenail clipper. looks like cuticle nippers just much bigger. regular clippers are good too, i just used to have difficulty finding ones that were straight across and not curved, so I prefer these for that reason plus gripping them is more comfortable and i can more clearly see what im doing.

[@Mane.ci_look]

What’s the tool you used to put the flat back earrings in your ear? The flossers for your ear is new to me. I’ll have to look into that. 😮

[@abetweene]

a flatback threader bit.ly/4fc2W64

[@xkimmyZ]

Do you mainly used regular polish on your toes? You don’t use gel a whole lot?

[@abetweene]

correct. i only use gel if for like a repair but never gel polish because it would pmo to spend 20mins soaking it off of my foot. its hard enough to do on my hands lol

[@evalilofee4724]

I need this so bad!!

[@baddiemaes5750]

What was the music used for this? I need this playlist!!! I have KZbin Music so hopefully its on there.

[@abetweene]

i use music subscription services for licensing

[@shanicavallari9126]

Hii love your videos , I have learned so much from you ! Question , what was the pink serum you applied after waxing your upper lip? I have been looking for something like that for ages.

[@abetweene]

glad youre enjoying them 😊 its the Ordinary Barrier Support Serum. heres a link if u need it bit.ly/3BsliSI

[@_tola]

My sister and I stopped using the topicals lip balm- we thought that was causing recurrent discolouration and peeling

[@abetweene]

i love it! its thick enough to stay put so i sleep it to keep my lips from drying out through the night- especially now that the heats on for winter

[@simonachaudhary2690]

I love maintaince videos. ❤️🥰

[@LovingMyImperfections]

I definitely need to do this 😩

[@Akichinay584]

Hey I wish to learn more about selfcarw and it seems you know alot. Do you have an indepth video about exfoliating skin/ ingrown hair treatments... i do have a bad problem with strawberry skin and lots of ingrown hairs. I dont want to over wxfoliate buselight exfoliation doesnt seem to do the job❤thanks for the help

[@Maverickgouda]

Try out different frequencies to figure out how often is enough to maintain smooth skin or prevent those skin conditions. Sea salt and sugar scrubs dissolve I I find that easier to not overdo it. I would recommend a nice bath. Stay in,soaking until the dead skin starts to easily rub off, then do a full body scrub. My preference is sugar scrubs at LUSH so I can recycle the packaging. By the end, my soles are wrinkly and I polish them with a body scrub that doesn’t dissolve in seconds oui the people and then a glass foot file on the callous-prone big toe. *slather on lotions and the butters afterwards. That is something for weekly or semi-weekly at the most. sometimes I like an exfoliant that lasts longer like oui the people. The I don’t get KP fr, but ingrown hair responds to body scrubs bidaily for me.

[@abetweene]

hi 👋 i think i have a few shorts on exfoliating. are you currently using chemical (AHA & BHA) exfoliators or just do manual exfoliation (like scrubs)? and are you shaving, or doing any type of hair removal?

[@Akichinay584]

@@abetweene Hello thank you for you reply! :) I am only doing manual exfoliation with an exfoliating glove and i go to get my legs sugar waxed professionally. Shaving was bad for my hair (to thick and too much quickly growing hair) and ingowns too. I didn't always have problems when i started sugar waxing but this year/last year idk what happend it seems that so many of hair follicles are inflamed.. :( i also did pick on them cause i want to get the hairs out 😥

[@Akichinay584]

@@Maverickgouda Hey thank you very much i will look into Lush sugar scrub but i never felt that those were strong enough but i willl try to be consistent, and sadly i dont have a bath tub :(

[@Maverickgouda]

@@Akichinay584 you are so welcome! The sugar scrub from the video is probably equal to anything I’d pick up from a shelf if you want to make it yourself to give it a try. I think sugar is a little hydrating and good if you are concerned about over exfoliating, because it dissolves. If you want more polished than that, maybe choose less soluble exfoliant like coffee grounds, ingredients including bamboo powder, or rice powder (gentle enough for face). I don’t think my bikini line ingrown hair is prevented by sugar scrub, but it does make my limbs smoother. How bold of me assuming everyone has a tub. Bath people really are a minority nowadays, but I believe you can get a similar effect by the end of a hot or warm shower re:Korean spa exfoliation where they get the dead skin softened with hot water or steam. It can really take some energy to do all of that. Beware of folliculitis if problems coincide with waxing and if you do get into chemical exfoliation, be mindful of ingredients and limit the number of exfoliants whether physical or chemical

[@rokayalc1566]

I have a thick hair and I don't know the type of wax that I can use

[@abetweene]

firm

[@yorkiemom-57]

Where did you get the pink water shoes?

[@abetweene]

amzn.to/4fWxEk4

[@FatimasJournal]

I love your videos ❤

[@abetweene]

ty! 💕

[@begroovin]

Which pointed Tweezers do you use? Thank you.

[@abetweene]

tweezerman

[@alannasofia3337]

I love your videos so much thank you

[@abetweene]

aww ty ☺️

[@briannashanelle4858]

Any tips on how to repair feet after using a callus razor too much. I went a little crazy last night and now my feet are raw 😅

[@abetweene]

unfortunately theres not much u can do to speed up the healing process but adding cushions to your shoes or foam dressings on your soles can help alleviate some of the discomfort until then.

[@briannashanelle4858]

@ thank you so much! I read cold compresses and ointment help for the pain and healing too. I think I’ll stop using the shaver. I always think “it could be a little smoother”. I think your tips on the video of not removing too much was good to know. They don’t have to be dolphin smooth

[@abetweene]

exactly! u dont have to overdo it, just do it well & be mindful of hydration. you cant even tell i still have callus left behind after using the silicone socks, so just focus on moisturizing well and your feet will still be dolphin smooth 😉

[@casandraadeosun6998]

Could you do it without the music please?😊💗

[@abetweene]

i would but theres always background noise 😬

[@p_eople6789]

I dont mind it but compared to you most popular pedi video the music (guitar high notes and tinkly piano) is a tad loud and jarring to some. Love your videos!

[@gracekc3414]

How long did it take your double conch to heal?

[@abetweene]

about 14 months

[@gracekc3414]

@abetweene do you think they’re ready for hoops yet? Also @studs has fluggies so you can get the illusion of a hoop with a flat back!

[@abetweene]

definitely, theyre about 4 years old now, just the flat and 3rd lobe are new. still gonna check out those illusion hoops tho. thanks for letting me know!

[@brttnyncl2]

How do u get the wax off the muslin strips?

[@abetweene]

i let them soak in the sink or a bowl with hot water. thatll melt the sugar and loosen the hair. give a rinse then wash by hand or in a delicates bag in the washing machine.

[@brttnyncl2]

@abetweene will this work with other soft wax? Just the "regular" non sugar wax?

[@abetweene]

no, these are only reusbale with sugar paste. thats one reason i prefer sugaring, because its water soluble and compostable.

[@Palehotdog]

My sisters and niece get acrylic toenails. I don’t see how that’s at ALL comfortable 😂

[@abetweene]

i used to love longer square toenails during the summer cause i always wore sandals but i feel u. theyre def not as comfortable in closed shoes

[@Iwasonceanonionwithnolayers]

20:07 what is this!?!

[@abetweene]

a microscope camera

[@Iwasonceanonionwithnolayers]

@abetweene Welp, I was supposed to stop picking in the new year, but...

[@abetweene]

lol

[@juliabouy]

I thought it wasnt good to remove that part of your cuticles?

[@SofiaCavalcante]

Your videos are like a second hand everything shower

[@myrnaj4502]

❤❤❤

[@wthwhyiseverythingtaken]

Just wanted to say that you more than likely have an irritation bump on your piercing. Keloids are a genetic condition and are pretty rare to develop. They can only be removed by a doctor so the massaging wouldn't do anything anyway That spray you're using is actually pretty poor quality, it has too many unnecessary additives in it. You want to use a sterile saline with only 0.9% sodium chloride in the ingredients. Neilmed does a really good spray. Base Laboratories has extremely questionable products so I wouldn't reccomend them at all

[@abetweene]

keloids are more prevalent in ppl of color and i have them on other areas of my body. im massaging not to remove it, but because id like to repierce it and was instructed to do so by the body piercer. i appreciate your feedback on the brand.

[@jamiecastro7562]

i love you

[@monikamonika-dq2wh]

And u do it on your bed 🤢🤮🤮🤮