Abi Wilkinson Meets Dapper Laughs | Best of Enemies

[@gingerutd]

shes one of those women who wont give you your football back out of her garden

[@cantbarragethefarage9519]

Haha spot on!

[@rebel.23]

luke robson legend lol

[@AlunParsons]

And the reason is you're one of those guys who kicks it there purposely 20 times per day, just to piss her off. Because that's the only way you can ever meet a woman.

[@stevenlijertwood9403]

@@AlunParsons wouldn't you kick the ball in her garden if you lived next door

[@N17-u6d]

Alun Parsons dick

[@coldworld5]

'Freelance journalist' = latch on to anything to get a buzz on social media.

[@blueprint7]

u mad?

[@HH011]

Dapper came at the wrong time. Since 2012/2013, the world (particularly internet) has gotten waaay to sensitive about EVERYTHING.

[@TGFLdn24]

Na, he is popular of the back of the current time, with all the social media avenues we have. His issue was thinking you can do what you do on these new avenues and take it to a major TV company like ITV, he messed up and never cleaned it up a bit when he signed that contract.

[@stooooogs8763]

SJW losers

[@Cynane27]

No its just the people with money and voices are sensitive.

[@TheAJNWproductions]

siksongloly3 United need to win the league then

[@AlunParsons]

Being sensitive is a bad thing? Since when?

[@footballmanager777]

lets face it you hear women talk about fucking men and how good looking men are when theyre in their little friendship groups same as lads do #doublestandards

[@aaaa-xf3hx]

Yep, when I hear woman talk on holiday or something they'll be just staring at men talking really loudly about their bodies and aren't ashamed at all when describing a man as ugly, they can even slap or throw drinks in mens faces but as soon as a man describes an attractive woman it's apparently so offensive and makes you a borderline rapist. It's only the woman in their 30's who still haven't lost their virginity who complain about all that because if they had a man in their life they wouldn't be worried about every other man on the fucking planet.

[@gloverdragon6854]

You can not have conversations with people like this, this woman is really condescending and it's become a platform where dapper is just explaining himself as apposed to having a mutual dialogue

[@seanwarmington-wan6372]

have you heard of an interview? It's where someone asks questions and the other responds. It's what tends to happen when journalists meet celebrities.

[@gloverdragon6854]

Sean Warmington I know it's an interview but with the whole casual feel to it you would think that this was meant to be an exchange of ideas and thoughts, that's how it comes across and that's how they presented it out to be...imo. Either way, it doesn't take away that she has a condescending approach to this, she looks down on him and this is where it becomes unbearable.

[@TGFLdn24]

She is coming across like this because anything to do with Dapper and his "followers" act and come across like silly kids. It's hard to talk on a level when you have to deal with what she has dealt with.

[@euphoric-6177]

Yeah but an interview is meant to be unbiased in order to get honest answers. She obviously hates everything he says because she constantly roles her eyes and wants to interject.

[@kishpatel9574]

She's clearly not open minded enough to understand his point of view and at the same time doesn't even represent majority of women so her opinion is not overly important.

[@robbrown2685]

My view is that if you don't like something then simply don't watch it.

[@Ineedtorecover]

Agreed...... Too much of oh I'm offended. Well you can't please everyone. if you don't like it don't watch it. DAPPER keep it up my brother

[@robbrown2685]

Shutup you mug. "Stand up for women" do me a favour 😂😂

[@jessb4648]

Rob Brown Shutup

[@RidaBade1]

I think that is redundant in this case. its more of a matter of influence on much younger viewers on a large scale, encouraging rape culture and degrading women. I mean don't get me wrong, I do find a lot of his videos funny, but i can see where she is coming from.

[@glenmcelhinney11]

jess bowle Eloquently put.

[@mayhemman100]

If the world was full of people like her everyone would be depressed

[@stansarproductionz]

She's so patronising lol. Seriously annoying.

[@AlunParsons]

Why does she annoy you? You somehow think you have the right to feel annoyed by her, but she has no right to feel annoyed by Dapper Laughs? Do you see the contradiction in your comment here?

[@lozzybozzy234]

All your responses are actually intelligent, so it doesn't surprise me that no one has responded.

[@mrDeathtrooper]

Alun Parsons at no point did he say she has no right to the way she feels he only expressed how she made him feel, dumbass.

[@jackhenley22]

she was triggered asf

[@Jay7MU]

She is so uptight and highlights society nowadays where people are too touchy.

[@shemarrodney144]

type in sjw in google thats the term for these people

[@sheep3370]

She got rape threats, Jay

[@JuanSanchez-pe9bu]

I like how he's accepting his mistakes and saying how he's learnt but she keeps being patronising. Like wow

[@lancevernon4394]

It's sad he has to explain himself it's clearly banter

[@ColumRogers]

Feel sorry for Dapper, having her speaking down to him like a little kid. She pretty much sums up modern feminism.

[@TTHT2024]

I think there is an underlying problem here abi. I think has issues of her own. When you confront someone and don't look them in the eye and read from a script with only one intent of getting your questions out and not listening to the answer. I think she has a fear of men where ever it comes from she has made dapper a scapegoat. Strange but true........

[@F1Sam64]

Squared circle strange but your opinion you mean

[@TTHT2024]

My opinion makes no sense you mean?

[@jhill8693]

Spot on. Even think she fancied him in the end

[@SASMADBRUV7]

Tbf there are certain people who struggle with eye contact. They're just awkward about regardless who they're talking to

[@ryanalexander3088]

Agreed

[@Justrobschannel]

I'm not a fan of dapper laughs but rolling your eyes at him every time he says something isn't really good journalism. No wonder she's a freelancer

[@emrys9547]

It's important to realise people like Abi will never be happy. She wrote an article saying that the crying with laughter emoji is evil because it's "inherently mocking and cruel" and reminds her of "the detestable, carefree smirks of Nigel Farage and Boris Johnson"

[@benmurphy9667]

Autumn seriously???

[@makeitsonumberone1358]

Errr what?!?

[@fitasatrout8879]

Jesus... What a silly little girl

[@Jor_dan.]

You can see from the get go that she was only going to see her point of view, every time dapper tried to explain something, she was very quick to shut it down!

[@killerbee8892]

Jordan or role her eyes. Very shit interviewer

[@rhysthomas7957]

"His response incited his followers to send Abi misogynistic abuse online" - Now THERE'S the BBC I know and love!

[@whackatgolf305]

She has fair points but dapper nailed this interview haaaaa is she insecure? Only asking.

[@karmadelivery4407]

"The quickest way to get a girl's braw off is to cut it".....that's funny

[@MortimerDuke83]

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha yes it's extremely funny. Imagine how complex the creative process behind coming up with banging material like that. The guys a genius 🤟

[@Spencerlayne]

I bet ABI is the life and soul of the party

[@LurkingCrassZero]

I hear Dan is the potential rap1st of the party.

[@hdog548]

lads banter is not okay, buts its fine for woman to go on about it all

[@walnuts1986]

despite her calling for guys to talk differently when in friends company, my wife and her friends are just as bad if not worse. girls talk about and are explicit just as much as guys are.

[@MrLMS75]

She needs to get a life, why has he got to justify anything to her? Who made her important? Being interviewed by a dibbly! She knows!

[@Skols-se7jn]

She's a woketard 🤦🤣👍💯

[@Topman-99]

As much of a bellend I think this bloke is, I think people were just way too sensitive

[@hd7352]

It was awkward how she made no eye contact

[@ChaseEverything]

I know... I mean she's a journalist but watching this interview, It's like a rape victim who builds up the courage to sit opposite her attacker...

[@ashleyjamescant5332]

shes very rude sitting talking with her fingers at her mouth and not even using eye contact, tbh i think it is very ovious she has other issues with other people and if people are to young or imature to realise his content is being said in jest, as a joke then that is really there problem.

[@sammichael2813]

As somebody who knows Daniel, I can tell you that those of who are writing insults about Abi in the comments section would not impress him at all. Grow up.

[@goingham4166]

This bird is a jar

[@user-rt9ui6ge5d]

How has she even got a job shocking interview

[@F1Sam64]

michael zulu it's not an interview, it's a conversation

[@user-rt9ui6ge5d]

Sam Williams what are you smoking

[@F1Sam64]

michael zulu it's not set up as an interview. she's not an interviewer, he's not an interviewee. it designed to create a an irl dialogue between two people who have had issues with each other online

[@user-rt9ui6ge5d]

Sam Williams do you understand the impact it made ? Anyway your 3 months too late dapper is back let's leave it there

[@F1Sam64]

michael zulu great reply there, really addressing what I said. and dapper isn't back. i haven't heard a perp from him since this video came out

[@asham76]

Just seen his podcast with James English. He's not my cup of tea but he definitely got thrown under the bus.

[@winkles2314]

She is like a rabbit sitting next to a wolf, sheer terror

[@sheep3370]

No she isn't. It was a very civil conversation. Don't think we watched the same video

[@mrDeathtrooper]

G Dog Gaming she couldn’t even keep eye contact, it’s disrespectful, during an interview.

[@sheep3370]

Not seeing it

[@nickUK88]

Dappers bossed it there in all honesty

[@messwatson6]

Shes pretty strange. Can't work out what it is but the eye contact and putting her hands on her face all the time.

[@thomasyoung3268]

‘It’s not clear that ANY of it is a joke’ Is she foreal? He’s a comedian. You would assume and be pretty clear based on his actual profession that it was ALL a joke.

[@barelytom5766]

why can't she maintain eye contact?

[@redcorner8953]

Because she's a feminist, they feel incredibly uncomfortable around confident men.

[@rees4995]

Why can't why we have light hearted comedy? Why do people take this so seriously? It's ashame really

[@martinmhs4173]

I remember on loose women they went in on him alot. All the while it was quite ironic as before on the same show the women hosts them selves had talked about how they would sether a man's penis with a knife!! And then actually brag about it by waving it around everywhere. The audience lauged so much.

[@robertmugabe4155]

Worst thing he could of done is apologise just because your offended don’t make you right 🙄

[@chrisocampbell5241]

Imagine , a comedian telling a joke.

[@lewisbradshaw4058]

Why should men have to talk differently amongst they're own friends, fair enough with other people present but no way when it's just you and your mates

[@BL1_1]

Dapper what happened to your turtleneck?

[@mikeybacon1453]

He ditched it, and said he would never bring it out again...

[@iim4xii129]

Characters in films: (Homicidal rampage) Media: That's ok. A character in vines: (Is pretty rude) Media: KILL THIS MAN

[@Shaha33able]

We all know how men talk about women when they are on their own, why does she want to change this? It's as if she wanted to change the blue sky into a yellow sky.

[@brumsgrub8633]

My dear God. It's all about respect each other. And having a laugh at the same time.

[@trevorfeelgood]

Thought he said " Merlin security"

[@mitchellcloke2566]

I don't think his content is pro rape I think that it's very funny and if his content encourages those fans surely that's there fault Dapper is lad and lads will be lads Y ain't people saying this to jimmy Carr or frankie Boyle

[@SNIFFMYBADGER]

Sensitive middle classes with nothing better to do than get offended

[@dirtymcghee]

if only all political debates could go like this the world would be a better place. respectful, honest, informative and a little bit flirty!

[@thesamlewis]

I can't stand these pretentious girls. Taking offence over 10 second videos is just pathetic. Dapper's intentions have always been good to entertain and help others. She probably watched Antique Roadshow or Dickinson's Real Deal...that's what she likes, the what people that like Dapper don't like as much, She's naive to the modern world and complains via the media, which is very harmful to anyone's career. She's obviously jealous that her articles haven't reached the heights of Dapper's Snapchat/Vines, and used Dapper as a target to try and raise her profile

[@davedavids2231]

He supposed to apologise for other people's comments ?

[@kishpatel9574]

Everybody chill, this woman does not represent all women. She represents only the ones with little emotional resilience.

[@deanoliver8998]

What a stiff..and she could do with one. Dapper came across true, honest and considerate.

[@donnymcguire5095]

She was disappointingly easy on him

[@KnightZ1987]

I wonder if she's tried to have a similar chat to the likes of Frankie Boyle or Jimmy Carr? I kind of feel sorry for Dan. He's being put on the spot and pretty much got a gun to his head.

[@beerguy177]

so glad bbc three is back on tv !

[@sanny24]

Abbie clearly has low esteem.... She needs a bf, sorry I'm not offering!

[@mrDeathtrooper]

You have a choice believe it or not to be offended, but if people are determined to be offended there’s nothing you can do.

[@benbassnett8674]

Naughty Naughty BBC Three this women clearly went into this interview/Chat NOT with the intent to solve this feud Dapper is going in with a strong head and just being completely honest.

[@TGFLdn24]

Is this a skit or a real interview?

[@bendavis5526]

Respect is earned not giving

[@soneyliston7902]

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[@JohnSmith-ix5gx]

scared to walk home from the tube .😕 OK love

[@sleeplessinstockwell]

i like her. Funny hows she's getting attacked in the comments for questioning the impact of his sketches

[@wildexplorer6576]

all she had to do is turn her tele off

[@WORLD8NSH5KNIGHT1]

So he is basically saying his own personality has nothing to do with his public persona. Sure.

[@dundon9999]

Reading the comments on here just goes to show how the majority on men/boys who've commented have completely missed the point and are once again proving Abi's point by regurgitating mysnojistic abuse.

[@RonOutdoors]

She was basically saying that she thought that men should not have freedom of speech

[@colinglen4505]

so, she would men t censor what they say when they are chatting. ...no.

[@LankyToes88]

I 100% think dapper laughs is a bit of a nob, well what I know of the Character “dapper laughs” is anyway but I do agree on what he says about men talk and act differently together than what we do around women

[@antwan.]

clear that Dan's ego was still at the wheel back then. he's a fully reformed guy now

[@WORLD8NSH5KNIGHT1]

He admits he is egotistical and then moans about being the 'pin-up boy'

[@qasimmir7117]

Much like Jesus…👀

[@johnmartin6814]

being offended is subjective... what offends one person may not offend another. if you are offended, so what... not like being offended is an illness you can contract that kills you. its literally your opinion so keep it to yourself. im offended by people that get offended....

[@WORLD8NSH5KNIGHT1]

A lot of Fan Boys on this thread. I reject the idea you either have to support 'banter' or third wave feminism.

[@jonesyXP]

bet they hooked up after this

[@AdamPearsonVideos]

Maybe it's just a shooting and editing issue but Abi didn't make much eye contact and seemed disinterested in everything Dapper said.

[@philipkingston6960]

I can't believe Daniel O'Reilly is having to justify what he talks about with his friends in private.

[@dannycrook598]

You will NEVER impress and keep EVERYONE happy, people get offended by fucking everything nowadays.

[@SnobAndAHalf]

I love how everything SHE says is correct. And any reply he has is INCORRECT. Fuck outta here.

[@PHS.44]

you love him duck... we're about the same age.. I think..

[@Mrsusan1000]

I just knew when I saw her she’d use like in every sentence

[@Creativecoverz]

Would of expected more from dapper, if you cant take a joke TOUGHEN UP.

[@sadako24]

Sadly Dapper is only a character. The actor playing him knows he has to kow-tow to the media class and show he's more responsible.

[@dave11owlett]

She had a valid point and I was all ears until she got on to the part about trying to change what lads should speak about amongst themselves. She's just one way too sensitive person with abnormally loud voice (access to media since she's a journalist) respect goes both ways, I'm sure what women talk about amongst themselves often wouldn't want to be repeated either, though no one is up in arms about that.

[@naviifra2374]

Shes sooooo controlling

[@Drwatson1977]

From 11:00 onwards, her comments about changing mens attitude says it all

[@Drwatson1977]

I would love to see Katie Hopkins take her on.

[@MEGAM4M0TH]

Support dapper lm this one, the girl is patronising and is more like an interviewer than a part of a conversation. She clearly hates him but not all girls are as effected & out of touch by 'lad culture' as she is.

[@alistairmac4702]

That bird needs to get a grip

[@harryrudham3]

He was responsible for so much homophobia & misogyny in my school. To the point I was being abused as a 'gay' 'effeminate' man when I was in a hetro relationship. But because I didn't make 'The fit' it hurt my upbringing.

[@DH33.0]

Scared to walk home haha wtf!

[@georginathompson3788]

I just don’t understand why people cannot take a joke. It’s comedy for goodness sake. If you don’t get it, don’t cry about it. Sick and tired of this sensitivity culture.

[@killerbee8892]

I don't know any girls like this. Thank god. Even my mum at 72 thinks he's funny.

[@theawesomelad9585]

from her perspective, what she wants is that women determine and approve what men can and cant talk about it. If you ask me that's a reverse sexism.

[@opritchard8611]

"Controvertial Comedian Dapper" meets "Journalist Abi". How hilariously loaded, just from that you can tell the BBC are condeming Dapper Laughs. Clearly this journalist hasnt learnt the technique of communicating an issue throught direct exposure. Putting extreme content out of a controvertial matter and putting a comedic spin on it has one outcome; unloading the issue - allowing viewers to step back and realise this is obviously wrong. This Journalist apparently think people who saw dapper couldnt see he's obvious play - which comes across as quite egotistical. On a subconcious level just based on the values of society kids know he is exposing a wrong.

[@philT897]

Nothing wrong with Dappers vines, Tv show or you tube channel! So chill out and enjoy life. There is far more important topics to worry about in the world. ..MOIST!

[@sadako24]

Proper moist!

[@ronanking6878]

She deffo wants Dapper

[@thomasyoung3268]

Look, the whole point in this style of comedy, and doing it successfully is being controversial and talking about stuff that’s close to the bone. You don’t dance around, you go in. Look at Dave Chappelle. The reason why he’s successful is because he didn’t backtrack or buckle in the face of critisicm. He simply went in even more. He was relentless to these people. So Dapper, don’t apologise or explain yourself, keep doing what you do. If they don’t like it, they have a remote.

[@georgedunckley3296]

If she was getting so "abused" online then there's called a thing called shouting the FUCKING laptop lid.

[@seanwarmington-wan6372]

or shutting it, but then again, why should she have to?

[@steveblackman3606]

+Sean Warmington she doesn't have to but at the same time it's the Internet and she needs to grow some thick skin.

[@seanwarmington-wan6372]

who says she doesn't? I'd say the reaction is more a massive fucking eye roll than anything else

[@Me-ji2pn]

What if she uses a desktop?

[@thomasaliyu630]

She is basically slandering a different type of culture, people are a certain way for a particular reason, for example ; where the individual came from, their background, their "culture". Yes she is speaking from a condescending position and this is where the whole thing is just cringey to watch, he doesn't have to explain himself, however I do agree that harassment does happen and not just to females but with both genders, this is not an ideal and she is clearly trying to portray an ideal world. Unfortunately that isn't how life works.

[@Z99-i9n]

Dapper was like she`d get it... 3:23

[@teralmiles]

She reminds me of that loopy Roxanne Pallett bird from Big Brother that claimed Ryan Thomas punched her.

[@nickscott3672]

She is one of them people that looks down on people