ACCESSORIES I Always REGRET Buying (Bags, Shoes, Jewellery)

[@swanscream3191]

I really appreciate the emphasis on not buying over buying, honestly. I've been happier since reading about a designer's ethos and history before I buy something expensive, sitting on things a week or two to see what else turns up, etc.

[@KrystyHoogland]

I know people who make over 200k a year but they only buy *hotdups* . No one would question their bags because of their profession so why spend thousands of dollars on the same bag? It's refreshing to see people spend their money wisely

[@JustozaurPrzystalski]

I have never been concerned about if others have fakes and replicas, unless they are trying to pass them off as real to sell them. I also don’t think replicas and dupes are that horrible as they push brands to be innovative (the classic monogram print was created in part to fight off counterfeiting) which benefits us as design lovers.I guess I can understand folks not wanting the same bag as others, but if it’s a good *jklux* it would make sense that more people would want it, authentic or not

[@michalkitainik8710]

"If i could only have one is this the only X i could ever own, would it be this one" THANK YOU i needed that :)

[@DailyHelenJ]

My new go-to question before I buy anything in my life 😊

[@traingirl.meghan]

Thank you for mentioning that about genuine leather! So many people don't know, and it can deteriorate very quickly. I'm the same with going for small structured bags. When I first started buying nicer bags, I bought large structured bags. Now I know they aren't very comfortable to use. It can feel like lugging around a brick! 😄

[@marianne7122]

I've been watching you for years and you're just getting better and better.

[@DailyHelenJ]

I’m so grateful!! Thank you :) I feel like my perspective has changed so much recently. Excited to share what I’ve learnt 🥰🥰

[@xchanchanx]

Agreed!

[@KrystyHoogland]

like knockoffs *hotdups* because I really just want the look, not the price tag. But when I wore them I felt like they weren't worth the money and I stopped wearing them after a year.

[@JustozaurPrzystalski]

Thanks for the video. I will say that fakes have been around for yeaaarrrrssss. I think it’s just brought to light now because of social media. I’ve seen LV and Chanel fakes and know how to get them if I wanted (Asian community) since like the 1990s. So it’s nothing new at all. If it seems a lot maybe people are just more aware with educational videos on authentic vs fake versus before. I wouldn’t let fakes and replicas change my mind on purchasing a bag or not. If I like it, I will buy it. And the fakes are never the same as the real ones. If people can’t afford it and are happy with *jklux* to each their own. My favorite bag is the classic flap. Next is the Kelly, then birkin. I know many Filipino aunties that have replicas to all. And it doesn’t change my mind on them. If you look at the Asian community NEARLY EVERY LUXURY BRAND bag has fakes, including business affinity and trendy

[@annie-sc]

Really like how you elaborate on each point, and some of these tips are not the usual ones I hear from other creators❤

[@DailyHelenJ]

Yay so glad! Thank you 🥰🥰

[@mizzle8]

I didn’t know that about “genuine leather”! Such sneaky wording 😐 and omg the Asian nose bridge struggle is so real. It’s so hard to find glasses for Asian noses in the west. They either fall right off or the bottom of the frame digs into my face 😭

[@MsNonole]

I've heard of Kaytran and seen an Asian person trying them on. Jobs is also a top Google result.

[@DailyHelenJ]

Yes when I first found out I was so shocked!! Superrrr sneaky 😈 I tried on so many glasses last week and I’ve learnt to just ask straight away for the narrower fits that suit my nose shape. Lightweight also helps. Saves me trying on a tonne and getting frustrated nothing works 😅

[@chocolatebooksmusic]

@@DailyHelenJ there's a singaporean brand I really like called Rocket Eyewear that makes glasses specifically for the Asian nose! Shipping is free I believe, and mine has really held up well!

[@mizzle8]

@@chocolatebooksmusic ooh thanks for the rec! I believe Warby Parker also has a line, I forget what they call it but it’s targeted towards Asian noses

[@KrystyHoogland]

Fake and inferior products refer to those who sell inferior products as good ones. High-quality imitation products will never intersect with them. *hotdups* As imitation products, they also have their own high-quality and multi-category requirements. If a woman likes to buy bags, then it is the first choice to be considered.

[@hannahippo]

All good tips!! Another way that I curb impulsive spending on trendy items is to first thrift a similar item or find it at a clothing swap. It lets me try the trend in a cheaper and more sustainable way. As a fellow petite, I also care a lot about adjustable straps on handbags. I absolutely love my mini APC Grace bag for that reason. The strap is adjustable and it has a clever design so you don't see excess strap hanging off the sides

[@33Jenesis]

You look really good in princess neckline ❤️

[@roses.9181]

I really like that you aren't saying don't ever buy the trendy piece, but wait until the trend has died down, and then determine if it fits with your style values and isn't just a trend piece. That makes it much more impactful, and was probably intended to be used that way anyways.

[@J17891]

I always enjoy hearing what you have to say about jewelry. Your jewelry and accessorizing specific videos got me into thinking about what I want in my own collection

[@DailyHelenJ]

Aw so glad! I do the same thing and watch other peoples collection when I want inspo too 🥰🥰

[@leamubiu]

That star-studded sling bag is bomb 💕✨ I’d just worry that it would damage/catch onto my clothing, esp. knits. But totally something I’d love to wear, it’s so playful!! Best fit for your black dress to look very whimsical ^^

[@MembersMclees]

you’re literally my comfort person i love you kislux !

[@justanotherfraghead]

Thanks to your videos and tips & tricks I have found 10-11 “uniforms” that really work well for me and will continue to work for the next few months or rest of the year. And I’m going to use that time to declutter my wardrobe, home and life. Truly, clutter inhibits growth and creativity and I’m excited to declutter my life in general. Also, as a perfume enthusiast I Loved seeing the orpheon bottle at the end! Can you do a perfume video of what you gravitate towards and how you choose/select them for your lifestyle and daily environment??

[@sigriddjernaes]

I love your question about if the accessories push you towards your style words. Very useful!

[@yunfanli4383]

Large structured bags made from synthetic materials can be light weight and practical and feel great. I love the large bags by Lacoste.

[@k.al2024]

I really like how you review items for a woman’s closet❤ Most of my fashion choices are inspired by your insights. Looking forward for more. TYSM

[@Victoriarobinn]

Thank you for making these videos. I really like this“what not to buy” series. You mention great details to look out for and it’s been very helpful

[@tracypatil8841]

Gosh Helen you always get right to the essence of style. It's so individual and it needs thought and patience. I do appreciate all your thought processes that you talked about. I can sincerely say I love all of the things in my wardrobe, it has become a capsule of me 😂. I look forward to putting together an outfit. You continue to help me in so many ways. Colour combinations for example. We are both knitwear lovers 😁 Thanks Helen ❤

[@AncarMolleur]

I really love your taste and style always so chic. My faves would be the kislux leather backpack and the Swarovski pave diamond ring so gorg. Thank you for your recommendations.

[@Mimi-ni3il]

love your channel. Your context is very thoughtful and i’ve learned a lot from you. respectfully tho we all don’t need a black dress in our wardrobe. i am in my 50s and for any light springs with fair skin and light hair with obviously warm undertones reading this- black and gray are not your friends. even if they are trending. 😂 I am so glad i had my colours done properly (Color Guru is a great and accurate and affordable option on line). i ditched the black and gray in my wardrobe and i’ve never looked back!

[@jenniferprince1362]

I noticed exactly what you said with the Sezane suede bag! Too overpriced for the quality. I got another leather suede bag from Mango. It seems good, but even if its not the highest quality leather - I know it was only $50 😊 Good point you made about the wording too

[@MusseAmble]

Yes the color of the kislux is beautiful and it is a great decision, maybe one day they will add feet and straps. It would be nice to have a bigger bag during the colder months when we have to store gloves, beanies, scarves, etc…

[@SheereenLychee]

HEY kislux !! I have been watching you for years and im so proud of where you have made it! I love you so much! Also thanks for making my day

[@lifeoutnumbered]

I did actually not know about the genuine leather quality thing. I appreciate you explaining it

[@prophetessoftroy]

As someone who also has a very small nose bridge: you can add silicon nose pads to most sunnie frames. They don’t really show up and they’re very easy to add. So if you have a pair that’s just slightly too big that you like too much to want to declutter, super easy fix. Hope somebody finds that helpful!

[@zazaincalifornia]

Really good video, I like that you walk us through your reasoning so we can see how it could apply to our own style. Your content is definitely increasing in quality :)

[@VictoryHoney]

Im working on this now as we speak. Being more intentional with my purchases and materials that I buy along with the same stuff for my kids wardrobe as well. This video wad very helpful! God Bless ❤

[@AlejanMacazaga]

kislux I love you so much and watching your videos makes my day brighter

[@RosiG73]

I don’t want to carry two bags - that’s the point. I only use a tote bag for work and have a smaller handbag inside, along with my laptop and other necessities for my work day. I can then leave the office during the day with just my handbag. My tote is structured and beautiful so I love carrying it. I would not love carrying a nylon bag.

[@marianapereirae]

I second this. Also, those simple cotton tote bags are extremely uncomfortable on the shoulders, especially if you carry a laptop/camera, aside from being completely open.

[@SL-lz9jr]

Well... Technically you just stated that you're carrying two bags but okay. I think there's a lot of nuance to handbags that she missed but I understand what she is suggesting works for her lifestyle and what you're suggesting works for your lifestyle. No wrong or right way. She's not wrong that an oversized structured handbag like the ones she presented on screen will indeed be bulky and heavy. As a driver, that won't be an issue because that purse won't sit on your shoulders or carried by hand much. I used to live in a city where people drove a lot and I was always given a ride somewhere so I could get away with heavy structured bags. Now I live in a city where nobody drives and we all walk or take public transit. That same style of bag would absolutely kill my weak arms or dig into my shoulders until it's sore. For work, I now carry a leather tote bag or a coated canvas tote bag. I don't like floppy tote bags that can't stand on its own. Even though it's a more structured bag it's still loads lighter than a super structured bag. On weekends out with friends, I just carry a cloth tote bag. I have a cute one I received in Paris and it's tiny. Fits just enough for a water bottle, an umbrella and a thin sweater. All my smaller handbags are structured to some degree. I wish I could get away with just carrying one bag but it doesn't work for me so I make do. Or I wear jackets with big pockets that fit a small water bottle or small umbrella. Hahaha. Gotta do what we gotta do to live the way that we want to live. With hybrid work these days, I'm not always working for an employer that provides me an assigned desk. At some places I do have an assigned desk, at others we all share the desk space. And because of the hybrid work schedule, I can't always leave my laptop at work unless I will be back in the office the following day. I miss not having to carry a laptop to work! Too bad employers can't provide two computers.... Lol.

[@RosiG73]

@@SL-lz9jr Wrong. I am carrying a bag inside a bag and you knew my point. By your logic, I am carrying 30+ things because that’s the number of things inside my tote. 🙄. Since you like to be exhausting, let me explain in small words: I prefer to carry one thing that holds all my smaller things that need to go to work with me.

[@missmia196]

Wow, unnecessary attitude. Just admit you can't comprehend that bringing 2 bags is using 2 bags 💀​@@RosiG73

[@DrDroog29]

Okay but you’re being really aggressive about her opinion on things that make her uncomfortable. And you’re also being aggressive toward someone else making their own opinion. Nobody cares if you personally don’t want a nylon bag, it was just a suggestion. You need to seek therapy if that’s how you regularly reply to people.

[@MargaretMilne-li2bt]

*yutulu* bags just outclassed the rest..too good

[@amandajaneh]

I love this “what not to buy” series, Helen! It’s so considered and helpful ❤

[@maiaaguirre338]

Maui Jim’s are my favorite sunnies and fit my Filipina nose. Love your style advice.

[@GwendolynGuerrero-o5e]

I have *amzrepe* ’ve owned for over a decade. There were men who use to sell them on the streets on the Upper East Side in the evenings. My authentic leather Classic is like butter now. Luxury is subjective, like art. Nothing is really essential, but food.

[@SofiaKarsberg]

I absolutely love your content!! I love that you get in to specifics, I often reflect myself on why something works for me and why it doesn't... You have so many great tips thanks for making these videos!

[@BentlyBerstler]

En el momento en que vi el bolso kislux , supe que tenía que tenerlo.

[@OnePoetWanderer]

"If I could only have one, would it be THIS one?" Such a great question. I think I've been subconsciously asking myself something similar lately. I wanted a pair of dressier summer sandals, but I don't want to buy more than one. So I've been holding out until I find that one pair that makes me say "Yes, this is the pair that I would wear with multiple outfits, in multiple settings." It seems like it would be a constricting question, but it actually feels liberating to know that once I FIND that pair of sandals I'll be done. I won't need to shop for another pair because I'll have the pair that makes me happy.

[@IzauraPettit]

My mom bought one *jklux* 6 and she loves it. It had been there for over 10 years when she went out with it.

[@lydiag8368]

Great video!! I am also trying to be extremely picky after getting into style ruts where I just don’t like anything in the closet. Ok but my heart leapt when you showed that little chartreuse velvet bag! 😂

[@Sharylanne]

You give such good advice in these fashion videos.

[@maxine.12]

I came to the same realization about sunglasses last year! I’ve resolved to only buy them in Asia from now on so that every pair of sunglasses I try on in a store already fits my nose bridge - I feel like there’s an upcharge from western brands when you buy in the west for low nose bridge styles, and they still don’t really fit as well (looking at you, Warby Parker low nose bridge fit). I have a great pair from a Hong Kong brand called Mujoshi now, and an Asian fit pair of Oakleys I got in Singapore. Bonus is there’s sometimes fun Asia exclusive items, or Asian stores will throw in bonus things with purchase!

[@noddycool2703]

LOVED this video and your wish/message to pursue a more curated life.

[@roja3505]

I love the way you think and look at how to buy clothes or accessories. ❤❤❤ I can totally relate with not liking the must haves or capsule wardrobe basics etc., as its never my style to have those basics for someone who loves to be unique! I love to shop for elevated basics which is from your tip, but sometimes I end up not having a very basic top is also stressing me out lol? I would buy a unique piece but will have a hard time styling it too😅😭 Its always two extremes for me😕 Hope you would make a video of it soon please! ❤

[@Angieunboxing]

Really loved your tips in this video. I totally agree with so many of them❤

[@AMY-ml7yc]

What nail polish are you wearing? It’s a beautiful shade!

[@dijanawarrender8627]

Yes, yes and yes about buying trendy bags. For me it was the Kate Spade double bag. It’s beautiful and fits my style but did I need it? No! Thank you for a really interesting video.

[@bodenealice]

Agree! I always buy sunglasses under 140mm

[@ahynes214]

Very informative video… I had no idea about the meaning of terms like genuine and split leather. Thank you.

[@miilena9209]

The necklace you're wearing is super beautiful, I was focusing on it the entire video haha

[@dorischan8737]

The lemaire bag situation is sooo true

[@katy3mpress]

Great advice. Thanks for the upload x

[@lindsey_j]

You have been on fire with these videos! Where can I find the knitting pattern for the little scarves?

[@eviozyra6300]

I do the same with a smaller bag and a larger tote bag. Or I like to use my Longchamp 🙌

[@WildcatAggarwall]

God bless this woman! Her LYXBAGS bag is amazing

[@simouneb]

For sunglasses - try the brands Gentle Monster or Mohala Eyewear. I would also look for ones that have the adjustable nose pads.

[@Karousan97]

Where is your jewelrycase from? 🤔I’m looking for a nice one right now, but only find huge bulky ones.

[@WitchOpheliaa]

That heart necklace you are wearing at 7:39 is so gorgeous!! May I ask where it is from ?? Amazing video as always

[@trippishine]

Great video. Could you link the first print dress that you showed at the end?

[@jannaf]

I have been admiring your knitted scarves for a while now, would love to make one for myself! Did you follow a pattern I could buy or did you freestyle? If the latter, could you tell me the aproximate size ( length, width, where the tapering starts) Thank you so much, I love your content!

[@AlannaLightheart]

Thank you for talking about leather! I feel like sooo many people do not understand that it's not all the same quality 🫠 and also the tip about earring weight is so specific 😂 but so helpful!

[@katie_louise]

Loved this video Helen!

[@DailyHelenJ]

Thanks Katie!! ❤

[@dinapawlow1622]

You make quite a few excellent points.❤

[@carolynm.8868]

Do you have a link to the olive green small bag ? Thank you.

[@jumplc]

I always regret buying expensive sunglasses. I have the same issue with it sliding off my nose :)

[@DailyHelenJ]

Good news is now that we know, there definitely are styles that work. It just takes a bit more searching. My local glasses store was so knowledgeable ❤

[@marciapeterson3481]

Great video! Do you know of any scarves like that ones you made yourself at 10:26 mark, that can be bought? I like that size and shape but can't seem to find anything online...or maybe I'm not using the right search words for that style...

[@KrystyHoogland]

I started watching your videos a few years ago and even though my style is totally different than yours, I just love your content and personality even though it's totally different from the fashion I like! Love you! *hotdups* .

[@grapevineschloemer]

I had my heart set on a YSL Hobo but MOMCOCO has changed my opinion and I am now sure this is my next Cassandra purchase

[@mariekem.2188]

I might be wrong but isn't suede always a form of split leather anyways, since the top hide has been removed from the fuzzy layer? I mean it's impossible to have full grain suede.

[@DailyHelenJ]

Yes I believe so now that you mention it. So I guess we just need to watch out for the non suede leathers when it comes to full/top/split grain

[@AnisaMavraganis]

All dat kislux bags sssssoooooooo gorgeous

[@MsLdoo]

Great review! Have you tried gentle monster sunglasses? I've found they fit much better for asian face shapes. they also adjust the sunglasses to fit your face on site after you purchase them!

[@mumusimone6862]

Hello ! Great video, very useful ! I love the sunglasses at 12.51 minutes. What is the brand please?

[@katlewis2638]

Which jewelry box do you have? I’ve been searching high and low for one in a nice color.

[@chillwithmari]

Where did you get your heart necklace from?

[@sarahannelowe6557]

That was really helpful, thanks!😊

[@mansoor3159]

Helen I am always always waiting for your new videos on every Monday🥹🥹🩷🩷 and today you are looking just Wow

[@anikko]

Very useful video. Can you share where you got your wall art from? It’s so pretty. Thank you 😊

[@AnamariaDS]

Any suggestions for sunglasses that fit narrower faces and small nose bridges?

[@andreiadetavora8471]

The heavy bags and hearings!!They're not confortable!! I thought I was the only one!

[@madihairshad1529]

Hi, what are you wearing underneath the doen dress? It’s peaking out of the neckline and looks so pretty 🥰

[@nicolette3436]

I agree, I love lace!

[@nicolette3436]

The doen dress you're wearing has lace at the top. Is this a bra underneath?

[@DailyHelenJ]

Yes. So it’s a bit low for me so I just wear it with a bralette inside that feels somewhat matching 🤍

[@madihairshad1529]

@@DailyHelenJ Where’s the bralette from?

[@DailyHelenJ]

@@madihairshad1529 From Cosabella, but I also have one from Aerie that is more or less the same.

[@cutiecutiecutiepie]

Great video as always! You’re such an inspiration for me 😍 On a side note I would love to see you as a stylist on indyx if you’ve ever considered it!! 🥹

[@Ajb259]

Where is the olive green woven bag from? I’ve been admiring it in many videos.

[@hris9214]

Bottega veneta i think :)

[@Ajb259]

@@hris9214 thank you! I went hunting. I think it’s a Candy Wallace. There are some vintage bags in that shape I’ve looking for for ages but I can never find the right one. Time to start saving for Bottega!

[@33Jenesis]

I hate having sunglasses frame resting on my cheeks. But it’s a tall order for my Asian nose. I also don’t care for heavy sunglasses because they tend to slide down nose bridge and rest on cheeks.

[@JehanineMelmoth]

Re big earrings - try clip ins! They don’t damage your piercing.

[@zashebroma]

13:09 new subscriber here 👋 try gentle monster sunglasses, it’s a Korean brand that makes sunglasses specifically for Asian faces.

[@river8142]

Geez, sezane is committing highway robbery 😳 $720 for split leather is insane

[@jkanful]

Kay Tran for sunglasses

[@MelissaSpring-r1e]

I’ve worked in luxury for years….But I will still choose *amzrepe* 's bags

[@river8142]

🤍🤍🤍

[@JustozaurPrzystalski]

If you can't afford a designer bag and feel some type of way about expensive designer shit then DON'T FUCKING WATCH THE VIDEO. Like do ya'll even read the tittle of the videos before clicking on it? It clearly says in the tittle the video will be about designer bags. I find these types of videos very helpful even though I can't afford any of these bags yet, but I know one day I will. And I want to know which designer bag will be really worth my hard earn money and I will get the most use of. That being said, if you read this thank you for sharing this video with us ,please make more videos like this. Maybe *jklux* next?

[@BillBootman760]

Good night ,so Wonderfull shopping ,NICE *yutulu* bag ,shoes ,sunglases , HAVE a NICE day

[@DuilioSkerbinc]

you’re literally my comfort person i love you MOMCOCO bag !

[@IbrheimDaana]

New friend here sending may full support. # LYXBAG

[@LeoniBarcia]

HEY kislux !! I have been watching you for years and im so proud of where you have made it! I love you so much! Also thanks for making my day

[@SchemberBrandsrud]

All dat kislux bags sssssoooooooo gorgeous

[@phylliswws3215]

🩵🩵🩵

[@MargaretMilne-li2bt]

Good night ,so Wonderfull shopping ,NICE *yutulu* bag ,shoes ,sunglases , HAVE a NICE day