Acting more rational - changing our automatic behavior | Ashley Zahabian | TEDxStanleyPark

[@shumakr]

This is one of the best talks I've heard. Super impressed. This young lady has a bright future.

[@dawidpodziewski4157]

1. Become aware about your feeling and people around 2. Harness these emotions (what is best possible action i can do now for best possible outcome) 3. Act for best outcome regardless your feeling Medidation is best exercise for increase emotional intelligence (breath). You can better control how do you feel and behave. I like this talk. Feeling are just information, dont ignore it and don't react automatic acording to past experience just do the right thing in present - every situation is other but mind learn to act the same everytime (more economy).

[@cheliae8560]

When you write something down, the very act of writing it down, takes it from your emotional side of the brain, to the logical side of the brain and there, you have just recorded that event: past or present, in your LOGIC side of your brain and now you will feel less emotional about that event/subject.

[@monsterjesse]

sweet. that helps alot.

[@malikayoussouf9406]

Beautifully phrased, thank you!

[@ClassicGaming7]

Thank you, that makes sense to me now

[@ehbaboo]

Deep, rich and thought provoking! Ashley, you're living proof of someone with an abundance of emotional intelligence!

[@assafassaf2974]

One of the best speeches that I have ever watched... Thanks, Ashley!

[@salwan231]

I was just trying to get information to write my essay and now Im crying, cool.

[@breannakeller7896]

Mood.

[@Drum3Matrix]

Words cannot describe how happy I am for you! EQ is not easy.

[@XffTheGrid411]

This was easily one of the most insightful and most powerful Ted talks I've ever witnessed. This info is life changing. Thank you so much.

[@simpleAZmom]

I absolutely LOVE that you're teaching this powerful practice! These things you've taught are all outlined in detail in the evidence-based practice of Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, and I recommend to anyone that loves your presentation to take a course in DBT to protocol. It is life-changing and good for anyone who wants to truly advance Emotional Intelligence! Thank you Ashly for sharing your amazing story and journey and being an inspiration!

[@katiet6569]

At school, we have to choose a declamation to say in front of everyone.... So I chose this one. Every one else is choosing a famous person (Queen of England, famous sport players, etc) but this one of Ashley's speeches(a speech? A declamation?) stood out to me the most. I think it might be able to help the kids, and maybe even the teachers too! I was going to choose the one about like don't give up, and rebuilding self-esteem, etc. But the teacher who assigned this said no because I don't know where she said it... Then while looking later, it was made for a certain 'group' of people online. I looked everywhere and it wasn't said. So I chose this one...

[@duhiii2226]

Thank you for beautiful lesson

[@rosemar917]

I absolutely love this! I think this is so insightful and useful and I stumbled upon this exactly when I needed to!

[@patrickskilz2182]

Thank you for reminding me how clueless we are at 22 years old 😊

[@firefighter8485]

Ashley, thank you. I am going through hard times now which requires EI. Thank you

[@firefighter8485]

Ashley Zahabian Ashley, Is there a way I can talk with you, (skype, viber..) It would change my world..

[@umamaheswariMurthy]

This is one of my best Ted talk Thank you 😇

[@234pinnni]

I don’t know what to say You presented to me my all life I still don’t know I got to this video But I believe it’s from god! Thank you!!

[@NuNu-xi8mc]

This is an incredibly insightful and meaningful talk, thank you so much! I hope it reaches more people that need it, it is amazingly helpful!

[@peraruor]

Congratulation and thank you. That was worth watching, every secund of it. Is the best talk about EI ever heard. I'm a highly emotional person and now I think I've got the tools I need to harness my own emotions. It's gonna take time and a lot of efort, but now I know what to do. Thank you very much. I sure your talk is gonna change my live.

[@gourovpaul3227]

I DON'T FIGURE IT OUT, WHY THIS BRILLIANT VIDEO STILL LACKS SUBSTANTIAL NUMBER OF VIEWS......!!.....JUST RIDICULOUS...!!.....

[@emadahmed3782]

Nice video

[@steeojabb1]

Masterful gestures. Salient points.

[@rolfiedsilva7499]

underrated....

[@gaylenemellor105]

Only We can work on our temperament

[@frankmash]

Great talk.. Sending her love and light for making this video..

[@lacasonarestaurante7420]

Great story, Great talk, great girl, great advice. Loved it!

[@vanshikakalra7277]

It is definitely one of the best ted talks i have ever watched...I can relate with this so much ..thank you😊

[@jamalwillabus6470]

Yes ashley ! Im so proud of you!!!! Omg this is crazyyyyyy!!!!! Im puting this in my favorites ! To think that I had class with you and we conversated about so many things, and now you have eveolved into an amazing woman (which you already were)

[@gourovpaul3227]

Why have you removed earlier videos, from your youtube channel..??...I'am a big fan of yours, from INDIA...I've learnt so much from your earlier videos on emotional intelligence..please put those videos back..!!....

[@krike13]

Very good speech! Congratulations!

[@oursavior9339]

I’m pretty sure you are the second person in my life beside Bruce lee to change me with reality. Thanks for uploading this. Very inspirational speaker, great words.

[@urbanforester6478]

Best influential speech!

[@melissajhaynes]

Thank you for sharing your message Ashley!

[@integratebpdmedia]

My pleasure, Melissa!

[@You-jt2ku]

Best talks!

[@latoyahenry5881]

LIGHT BULB momet. Thank you little one...

[@Gedankenful]

Amazing talk! Love it.

[@sharanyayapa6507]

Ashley..you are amazing..

[@mrdwk]

very good ideas

[@maheshvangala8472]

Best of all

[@Luis-vi9is]

Good Job, Ashley!

[@integratebpdmedia]

Thank you!

[@hencogrobler4402]

Awesome!

[@swathieprabhakara2539]

Perfect 👏 thank you !

[@nidamarif8550]

Very strong.

[@mar-mar3700]

Wonderful talk 🙏💐💖

[@camayankjain2075]

Thanks for sharing your views on eq😊

[@mudasirabrar2381]

Excellent

[@letsthink5832]

She is very impressive story teller. But I wish she explained how exactly she has become emotionally intelligent.

[@Scott21]

I am a rational person and because of that I feel like I lack any emotion that others have. It sucks yet a lot of the time I feel like I am open to forgive others easiar. I still struggle with any emotion because of how rationality affects my life. I just hope to develop some sort emotional connections in my life.

[@anuoluwapolebile4055]

The very first step towards change begins with yourself. You have to show emotion to yourself , then you can change your attitude towards each other.

[@LewdCustomer]

Behavior is closely related to diet, as are metabolic diseases.

[@stephennjuguna2531]

Wow!..thanks Ashley

[@seneca7170]

she is very pretty 🥰

[@FoodTrucksForDummies]

Our feelings can be controlled 👀 👂🏾

[@parakhj911]

No

[@susanaplantbasedadoptacat1677]

este discurso ya no puede superarse.

[@coura1474]

Amazing

[@visualelement7youtubechann941]

Yes To know thyself

[@AlagTunes]

same!! same!! same story

[@emiliaashurova130]

my apologies, only for english

[@musselchee9560]

That wasn't a Cinderella childhood. Cinders was the bullied step daughter forced to do all the work around the home.

[@ange7422]

I was thinking the same thing.

[@ozanerdogan9914]

am i the only one who did not lkle this video. i mean it felt so cheap, all she was doing give a morale boost which goes away very easily.

[@lighthouse6120]

I'm thinking its common among young women. Except most young adults know you can't go jumping up on a horse !

[@9414350148]

Same story here dear

[@ye2855]

Why not just get to the point instead of useless blabber? Ugh

[@JKingProductions]

attention

[@elanahammer1076]

Hmmm 🤔 a good reminder that we can learn from our young instead eating and berating our youth! Lol

[@worchuikashung6958]

Wowwwwwww

[@mikazukisato4185]

I didn't like this talk

[@cezhou2412]

Can u share the reason plz

[@paulbeck2816]

Wow

[@jany0125]

💜💜💜

[@rahulc4403]

Rip

[@jefrijude4742]

Oops first know what is intelligence and what is rational . Intelligence is something that's irrelevant in this topic . Intelligence is just your capabilities of solving something like problems or quiz something like that . So if there is a part called emotion comes inbetween then it'll be a another topic so know the difference amd speak

[@GrindLikeNoTomorrow]

She sounds like Meg from Family Guy.

[@sandymahamed3710]

So you mean Mila Kunis

[@GrindLikeNoTomorrow]

Sandy Mahamed Bingo! Lol

[@solitario779]

Lets be honest fellas.. this chick has real bad energies I bet that most of you were disgusted by her same as me

[@jestectivegaming0469]

I cant trust any of you here cuz my couzins must die fore what they dou tou me

[@StarvEgoFeedSoul]

haha, nice girl, i love u already, marry pls ^^ hehe .. smartie ^^

[@incl_00]

Are you still single?

[@StarvEgoFeedSoul]

YUP@@incl_00

[@SACHINYADAV-hp4jm]

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