I have ADD. I am more chill, calm, or relaxed. A bit of an introvert. When I was a kid, I was alway told to try harder and stop being lazy but then told "You're an intelligent person but how come I never see the work being finished? You need to try harder." and my mind would just give up and not care anymore. Now as an adult, Sometimes in life, I feel like too many things are thrown at me and I stop to care about it altogether. I literally become carefree. I also procrastinate a lot. I tell myself I'll do it later then actually forget because something else caught my mind and I've been hyper-focused on something I enjoyed doing more than the more important things 🤦 This has led me to miss appointments, pay fees, and other important stuff.
@carsynhruska73132 жыл бұрын
Dude we are the exact same
@Tadashiismid2 жыл бұрын
@@carsynhruska7313 Same
@vnova1052 жыл бұрын
Same with me
@Zwiiipe2 жыл бұрын
I am exactly the same
@bigstrawlearning48422 жыл бұрын
Literally happened to me last week with the city lmao
@renaee_qt2 жыл бұрын
When you explained ADD I was crying because that’s what I’ve been called me whole life, lazy or lacking motivation. I never passed my maths because the learning style I had growing up was a bit aggressive. Lucky my mum was there for me and let me know that it’s okay not to be good at everything. Recently we discovered she had ADHD and I have ADD and we now understand why we have this nagging and annoying feeling of laziness
@rubymoon49902 жыл бұрын
Same! I have always wondered why I have a lack of motivation and just can't get certain things done, like start schoolwork or turn the shower on (I think I have some ingrained way of dealing with stress by staying away from the thing that's stressing me out). I started taking Vyvanse a few weeks ago and it seems to be helping, especially in school. I got sick 3 times in a row and missed 2 weeks of school and in just now getting back on track. I haven't had a proper diagnosis for ADD but my doctor thinks it might be ADD and my mom thinks it is too. Lol just laid out my life story
@renaee_qt2 жыл бұрын
@@rubymoon4990 thank you for sharing this, it honestly helps because I’m the same. I avoid anything that I decide is something I don’t like or find boring and I have to really motivate myself to do basic things. I think I’ll try to get a diagnosis so I can take medication
@thehappyside33962 жыл бұрын
Same
@Killswitch14112 жыл бұрын
Adults expect children to sit in a class room at a desk for hours on end in a school day 5 days a week like robots and for someone whos ADD that's torture. Kids in themselves don't wanna sit in a class room all day expecting kids who need more attention and help and getting it, is very difficult for some schools. I can go from distracted to hyper focused.. But my distracted mind makes every excuse to avoid the current boring unbearable situation I might be in.
@tatertoot40982 жыл бұрын
@@rubymoon4990 Glad you’re doing better!!, but be careful with vyvanse, i was on it last year for my ADD and i lost 10 lbs because it ruined my appitite and i stopped eating and i didn’t even realize it
@metfreak1003 жыл бұрын
What a rosy picture you guys paint, the teacher holding hands with the struggling student,whole class together in support. Reality is way brutal. The "teacher" mentally harressing you over your struggles and the students being bullies and utterly useless. Even parents fail to protect and keep blaming you. I went through hell and back with my symptoms and lack of support.
@ajbinc69973 жыл бұрын
Yes exactly. I was called lazy and disrespectful, shouted at, had teachers call me out and mock me in lessons for not paying attention. I've asked teachers to send me the PowerPoint we went through in a lesson because I couldn't focus and wanted to try going through it again only to get yelled at that I should have just listened in the first place. I was constantly struggling but instead of helping me, teachers just put me down and said I wasn't putting in enough effort.
@uriftrg3 жыл бұрын
This video have educational reasons and this picture was an optimal situation which should exist in real life. Thats why they drawing it, this is how they want to see reality. Isn’t it what you miss from your life too? ‘Cause thats how I feel about that. I’am sorry for your serious troubles too in your life. I think we have to forgive, move on and try our best to fix this world.
@SomeFreakingCactus3 жыл бұрын
I have been called horrible things by teachers, all because they interpreted my behavior as insolent.
@curtisnaidoo28413 жыл бұрын
When did you realise you had an attention disorder. The more I think back to my days in school, the more I start to think I had add. I still struggle to study and work, I've just accepted that I'm lazy. The problem is I always did well at school even if I didn't pay any attention in class or do my homework. Am I just lazy or do I have add🤔
@ajbinc69973 жыл бұрын
@@curtisnaidoo2841 You can't self diagnose online, or have us diagnose you. If you think you may have ADHD then definitely go to a doctor and just check. For me, I didn't get diagnosed until I was an adult because even though I always really struggled to do work or study, I was naturally smart. So I managed to pull through in school and get decent grades despite never revising or doing homework, and never thought that my constant struggle was anything other than laziness. It was only in college where I started to really fall apart because the content was much harder, and just being naturally smart wasn't enough to get by anymore. I drastically dropped from decently high grades to lowest in the class and developed a whole lot of other mental health issues as a result of being undiagnosed for so long. You may very well have ADHD too, people can appear to do well in school on the surface up to a certain age without revision or homework if they're naturally smart and therefore not get diagnosed till adulthood.
@thea91533 жыл бұрын
I have ADD and SAD. I get called lazy and stupid 24/7 by my parents, and friends. No matter How much i try to consentrate or get good grades i literally cant. My memory is horrible and i cant even study for more than 1 minute without being distracted or bored asf, and ive got zero motivation to do anything that Im not interested in
@BreadBoi693 жыл бұрын
Same whenever I’m doing something like doing schoolwork or reading it’s hard for me to focus on one thing and I have to do something else like listening to music or watch KZbin videos
@enmanniska57513 жыл бұрын
I have dyslexia and probably also ADD. The worst thing for me is that I go in a school where everybody does so well and there’s a lot of pressure to do well. And the tests in my school are literally harder than in other schools. I somewhat regret choosing this school😅 But at least there’s good help from the people that work in my school and the other students because they are so good in school. COVID hit me really hard but I’m starting to do better now❤️
@BreadBoi693 жыл бұрын
@@enmanniska5751 same I get stressed out with all of my work and then when I get bad grades and when my parents yell at me when I get bad grades I just cry
@theycallmealex4542 жыл бұрын
Get medicated
@shellpoop23382 жыл бұрын
@@theycallmealex454 bro yes. What an insane game changer!!
@rahamamusamamman61522 жыл бұрын
ADD reached close to home. I was literally on the verge of tears. I'm not lazy like my parents say, I'm not unmotivated, I just can't concentrate.
@FallahPladasque2 жыл бұрын
If they’re your biological parents, one of them will definitely have struggled with these things, probably not as much and in a different time (it was easier being like this before the internet) so that may be why they lack empathy on the subject. Show them this video maybe?
@RiVe_Clan Жыл бұрын
real
@fatimah5183 Жыл бұрын
If feel you, when i first realized i was literally sobbing. It hits hard.
@PurpleSamurai97 Жыл бұрын
so many times i have told people ... its not that i dont want to is that i cant ... its hard to put words on it and most people around called it an excuse... its sucks tbh
@derrickmcadoo3804 Жыл бұрын
I grew out of it by middle school, but suffered with it for early elementary years. No drugs.
@MisturInfamous2 жыл бұрын
2:10-2:42 As a 22 year old college student who recently got diagnosed with ADD, this couldn't be more accurate to what I experienced for years. I was a great student in high school and thought I'd simply burned myself out going into college. The consequences of doing academically worse snowballed until I hit my rock-bottom, but after getting treatment for the condition, the difference is far beyond what the term 'night & day' could ever emphasize. Topics that would've seemed impossible to grasp a few months ago are well within my ability to understand now. Edit: For those asking for the type of medication I take, I’d rather keep that answer private, as not every case of ADD & ADHD is the same. In a parallel manner, sharing what I take might not be what YOU need. Getting consultation on the treatment you might need is something that should be done with your psychiatrist or a similar medical professional. Hope this isn’t taken the wrong way; intent behind the comment is to ensure those of you who also need help are encouraged to get the RIGHT help
@mcgamingproyt2 жыл бұрын
That’s very encouraging to hear. Just got diagnosed at the same age as you and my experience has been like you described. I hope I can also fix my academic performance
@MrLethalShots2 жыл бұрын
Same here bro. I failed the first semester of my masters, getting the second lowest grade of everyone in the class. I used to look at the others and think “how the tf do they do this?”. I got diagnosed during the summer and repeated that same class eventually getting the highest grade this time. Beyond night&day is exactly how I felt. These other people were never superhuman, they were simply wired correctly. All this stuff that I thought was impossible is so simple when you can actually pay attention in your classes and process what you’re reading in a book. I wish I could help all the others in the same position who don’t realise the condition they have.
@mcgamingproyt2 жыл бұрын
@@MrLethalShots Very happy that things got better for you, this gives me hope. I have an appointment in a few days to get my medication and I hope I get the same change as you guys have. I have my mid-semester exams now and things are not looking good.
@killaknight122 жыл бұрын
@@MrLethalShots I want to get tested, because in hindsight I've been struggling all my life with problems that seem to point to ADD. May I ask what exactly made the night&day difference (medication?) and how does it manifest?
@Spearb08112 жыл бұрын
I went trough the same, after one semester I failed my apprenticeship and school as well but since I’m on stimulants everything works out well!
@jonathanjollimore71563 жыл бұрын
Lazy till yea find some that get yea going then go at 100x harder then anyone else need that dopamine spike!
@jnmarshmello27283 жыл бұрын
I had a stroke reading this
@Tom-ye5dn3 жыл бұрын
Are you Scottish?
@jonathanjollimore71563 жыл бұрын
No I am from Pottsylvania I am from Pottsylvania
@Tom-ye5dn3 жыл бұрын
@@jonathanjollimore7156 the mystery deepens
@whooptywop49873 жыл бұрын
@@jonathanjollimore7156 must be Amish😭😭jk
@hayleylovegood71443 жыл бұрын
This Felt like a commercial
@hannahpeek4143 жыл бұрын
I'm pretty sure it was, and although there were some good points, I overall felt this was kind of oversimplified, pandering, ableist and rather offensive, and I don't get offended that easily. But as someone who lives with ADHD, this did not do us justice at all.
@panzerkampfwagenviiimaus52243 жыл бұрын
@@hannahpeek414 me (someone with add) have a lot harder to feel any emotions except irritation, sooo.. that was completely jumped. But in my opinion, they give a basic understanding of the subject and the biggest things about it. For example what not do to maybe hurt them
@prehistoricmale23453 жыл бұрын
catch add and adhd today!
@soupgod14483 жыл бұрын
The music
@lunarstars97883 жыл бұрын
Gramaly-
@Hison-Dcarman9 ай бұрын
I was diagnosed with ADHD since my teenage. Spent my whole life fighting ADHD. Also suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Not until my wife recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 8 years totally clean. This is something that really need to be use globally to help people with related health challenges.
@ErnestoHorner889 ай бұрын
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@CathieGomez-mp8sk9 ай бұрын
YES very sure of Dr.benfungi. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
@MarcWilliams-dz7ik9 ай бұрын
How do I reach out to him? Is he on insta
@AndrewLiam-lp5cj9 ай бұрын
Yes he's Dr.benfungi. Shrooms to me is a natrual healer. I know a guy who has used mushrooms in the same way and they have really helped him. mah dudes have safe trips all.
@PriscillaLogan-by9ll9 ай бұрын
I wish they were readily available in my place. Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac. He's constantly talking about killing someone. He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.
@ahmedyashfi3 жыл бұрын
This is the worst disorder to have in an Asian Household :')
@e.p35092 жыл бұрын
Oh fuck
@ghostwithaheartbeat71712 жыл бұрын
I feel you bro same here
@shawnmendrek35447 ай бұрын
LOL
@ahmedyashfi7 ай бұрын
Update guys: I no longer suffer from it I just have it :)
@shawnmendrek35447 ай бұрын
@@ahmedyashfi haha good
@AidenSalts3 жыл бұрын
I zoned out when it got yo the part I was tying to listen to. Lol
@cellno.72 жыл бұрын
Same:)
@LeChapeauMusic2 жыл бұрын
same!!!
@christopherr1830Ай бұрын
Then it's certain you are officially diagnosed with adhd.. buy the treatment now with three easy instalments of $29.95 & I'll include not one but two tickets to my newest show entitled - "keep your legs closed you obnoxious tart you can't afford kids till you're 35 " or the newer release - "Stop holding everyone up in line at the post office, some of us have bills to pay that don't involve having your picture taken to attach to your passport so you can rub the idea of travelling in the face of onlookers"
@niahawk3678 Жыл бұрын
I'm 33 and I just recently was diagnosed with ADD. But instead of having a moment of enlightenment about myself i only seem to become even more depressive thinking about how i got treated by my parents, classmates, friends, teachers, bosses, coworkers etc. and how absolutely devoid of any kind of selfesteem i ended up with: feeling useless, hiding from the world, not finding my place in it as if i were an alien... ive been in therapy for a year now.... i wonder if they can make me a functioning human being again...
@stellamariefanboy.6768 Жыл бұрын
Honestly I’ve always been looked down upon as well, and I can never follow instructions, I get happy when I do basic things right, I have poor motor skills. I forgot stuff and I can’t even talk to people. it also doesn’t help that I’m ugly. I know when people say that, they look okay but J literally am ugly.. apparently.. when I was in pre-k, I was washing my hands in the bathroom and this 5th grade was talking to her friend about something, then out of the blue I heard them call my name and call me ugly and then I turned around and she was like “oh sorry” and blamed her friend for saying it when she didn’t. I didn’t even know who the fuck she was, how did she even know me? Then in elementary school kids would always look at me in disgust, no one wanted to be paired with me or to be in a group with me, everytime I’d smile people cringe, middle school was bad too, even my classmate cringe when my ex friend asked them if I was pretty. It took a toll on my mental health, now I really don’t wanna do anything.
@queenofrats14543 жыл бұрын
I was diagnosed with add at a young and but people still get confused and think I’m lazy. :(
@bobthepro_1013 жыл бұрын
And i dont know if i have add or am just lazy well any way where i live these are not real diseases
@zadekeys21943 жыл бұрын
I think to the outside world we seem lazy as we visually look normal, talk normal, etc. I take some organic meds to help me concentrate but I still have to use sooo much energy to just get done what must be done.. By the evening I don't want to reply to most loved ones messages as I'm mentally drained. It feels like a snake eating its tail.
@Thekappa3 жыл бұрын
Don't I know it . I have been called lazy and annoying by my parents and sister but they denied it .
@JM-it3xu3 жыл бұрын
I feel you, I have pretty severe ADD and am constantly told I am lazy, which leads to me being depressed and then people just say I am a depressed loser with a terrible work ethic
@WorldWalker1283 жыл бұрын
I have ADD, and I can tell you with 100% certainty....I am INCREDIBLY LAZY. I also get bored with some things insanely quickly in general, but if I don't need to do work, I will gladly ignore it until the absolute last minute. That doesn't mean I won't do my best to get the job done, but I'd rather just avoid doing it if possible.
@GARYAINSWORTH Жыл бұрын
Soooo many people think ADHD and ADD are the same but those of us without the "H" catch utter hell from spouses and bosses/coworkers at times because we aren't fidgety or display typical ADHD symptoms. It makes daily life an unnecessary struggle sometimes. Great video and love the drawings
@stellamariefanboy.6768 Жыл бұрын
I’m ADD in terms of forgetfulness, losing items. But Im adhd in terms of fidgeting and constantly changing subjects. I don’t think im impatient though or talkative.
@trendy_nails4 ай бұрын
Well, it's also unfair on the coworkers not to know about an ADD peer. Coworkers are not supposed to guess that something's wrong with you. I have a coworker that is very likely an ADD: he got the job through connections, rather than merit-based (in fact, he failed his interviews). Now, his behavior is forgetful, illogical, everything is last moment, unreliable - and this is the IT sphere. I am not from the medical realm, however, his abnormalities are obvious even to a commoner. Yet he continues to act as if everything is OK. In conclusion, we got a person who got the job on special conditions, his inadequate behaviors impact the job of others and on top of that he continues pretending as if nothing is going on. I don't think that everybody around should be accomodating this person.
@bwarrior63402 ай бұрын
Adhd and Add is the same thing basically. I just think people with Add variant just do not get diagnosed easily because the lacking the "h" which is more easily identified in kids.
@slothwantssleep23292 жыл бұрын
As an ADD person I find it very hard to sit on chairs. Like I just CANNOT sit on a chair without getting up all the time, changing my position and so on. So I sit on the floor most of the time. In school I used to leave the classroom during breaks, so that i could find somewhere to sit on the floor peacefully. Can you relate?
@killhimnotme91292 жыл бұрын
I can relate very heavily. I cant sit on a chair without moving around on it
@i_reallylikecrows2 жыл бұрын
that happened to me in elementary id have to squat in my chair and this one substitute teacher told me i was sitting like a frog 🥲
@nuttereater77692 жыл бұрын
Me at the cinema: how many times can I shift my position on my seat. Also me: YES
@jackcolson47452 жыл бұрын
I can relate in the sense that I need to get up and reposition all the time, but I don't think the floor is more comfortable than a chair and desk.
@wessle32332 жыл бұрын
people with ADD still show signs like this so the video's explaination is pretty shitty
@is_abellag28 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for making whatever this is. As someone who has ADD i feel like people dont talk about it enough and when people are diagnosed like me nobody believes them because nobody knows it exists.
@wwdefender3 жыл бұрын
I got diagnosed with ADD just recently and my parents still complain about my homework and have no idea how difficult for me to do it, it is. I'm going to show them this and see if they can finally figure out that telling me to do it or you're going to drop down a class, or, you aren't going to make it into your school if you don't do this. I can't argue back kuz I'll just cry
@a1kev2 жыл бұрын
Be careful using that word “add.” Some donkey is going to reply and tell you add isn’t a real word and your diagnosis is bs or some other stupid shit.
@MrLethalShots2 жыл бұрын
You’re parents should sit down and help you with it. If they are not helping you solve the problem then they are the lazy ones avoiding their responsibility.
@NoahMartin12 жыл бұрын
man, ive been having the same issues, bro when i try to explain things i just cant, then i get really depressed idek, also dont be discouraged all the time, instead of taking add medicine, take the adhd medicine becuase you feel more motivated and everything, i love people telling me to work harder because i always end up working harder, and i never get offended if someone doesnt understand me, like bro people who care are just dumb, if you want to be imporatant in life you have to get out there once in a while and try hard. i got high honor roll this semester, its all about the work and efffort
@djjjh277 Жыл бұрын
I was diagnosed with ADD and I am now 30 years of age, currently in a job where I get called lazy, selfish and even stupid . No matter how hard I try, it over stimulates my mind and I get confused .
@eman71832 жыл бұрын
I can’t believe I’m just now getting diagnosed. I definitely have ADD. I’m a senior and I’m probably gonna retake my ACT. When I took the ACT I knew it would be a struggle because I work slow and the test is timed. Even with all this pressure to work fast I still found my mind wandering away from my test and I kept getting sidetracked.
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@kaylasmusic11 ай бұрын
Its better to take it slow, rushing is not good,….. if you need more time for tests, accommodations would need to be given to you
@shawnmendrek35447 ай бұрын
You get extra time on tests w/ADHD. See if your place offers accomidations.
@dumbsheep11342 жыл бұрын
I’m 12 and I haven’t been to a psychologist before. I’ve been getting ADD/ADHD symptoms, my parents say I’m just lazy and I need to pay attention and I would be more active and running around if I had ADHD. I hope I can get tested. It might not be anything but I want to make sure. I might just be overreacting. 🤷🏾♀️ Edit: I’ve gone to a counselor and she thinks I have anxiety. I’m fine now even though sometimes I have really tired days or really active days. I’m not worried about it much anymore, even though I think I’ve been having more ADD/ADHD symptoms unless it’s my anxiety.
@chloebenson71182 жыл бұрын
Girl I felt the same way, but then my mom took me to a specialist one day and got me diagnosed. So if you suspect that you mighy have it, do some research. And maybe compare other people's experiences with ADHD to your own
@megb4122 жыл бұрын
Check if you can go through your school to see a psychologist employed by the school district. Start advocating for yourself now & never let up, because school & medical systems will find every reason to ignore you, & not just about ADD/ADHD. Document everything, from the first time you ask to see a school psychologist, the date you asked, who you asked, their response, & the date you have your first appointment, the date you get an IEP (Individualized Education Program ), if that's a thing where you are. Be sure they know you take it seriously, be sure they see you writing it all down. ADD/ADHD is not a measure of intelligence, so don't let anyone tell you you're too smart to have it, or that "you're bright, you're just lazy." If you get put on medication, document how it makes you feel, & if something makes you feel ill or funny in the head, speak up about that too. Some people will go through a couple different medications before they find the right one. There's a great website called ADDitude (additudemag . com) that has articles & symptom checkers. It can't diagnose you, but you can get info that will help back you up when you start self-advocating. I wish I could go back in time & tell my younger self all this. I'm 42 & realize I've been struggling with ADD my whole life, but I didn't look like the stereotypical hyperactive kids, so they let me fall through the cracks.
@NaNaydo Жыл бұрын
@@megb412my parents say that. I’m 13 and I’ve been struggling with this. They say that it’s lack of discipline and that I’m too smart to have it. They say that I shouldn’t be thinking such negative thoughts then say I have depression. I don’t think I’m depressed just because I’m trying to get help .-.
@NaNaydo Жыл бұрын
@@megb412oh, and they are 100% against medicine. They say that they just drug you and destroy your body
@megb412 Жыл бұрын
@@NaNaydo I think I ended up with some depression because no one took my struggles seriously. Are they completely opposed to all meds? I haven't been able to get regular ADHD meds myself, but a Bupropion prescription helped me quite a bit. (Just sayin')
@K01T4tt00 Жыл бұрын
I was diagnosed with ADD today. I thought that I had ADHD, but knowing that the h part is specifically the hyperactivity externally, that makes me feel a lot better. The time and I do have periods of spontaneous motivation but it's not constant.
@uriftrg3 жыл бұрын
Why this channel lacks of subscribers and views. I had ADHD an when I was kid and this video made my youth into a (almost) 4 minute video. It contains every info needed for most poeple. That is helpful for parents who don’t understand their kid(s) and by that realize their errors. This channel could make this world better.
@_nia.terra_2 жыл бұрын
You always have adhd it doesn’t go away, you just learn to work around it
@ZakH6442 жыл бұрын
I recently got diagnosed with ADD and everything from my whole childhood just makes sense now.
@ashleyharris6932 жыл бұрын
But if you were really diagnosed then you know it's ADHD not ADD (no longer in the DSM)
@ashleyharris6932 жыл бұрын
What subtype are you? F.0?
@ZakH6442 жыл бұрын
Innatentive
@ashleyharris6932 жыл бұрын
Pal
@NoahMartin12 жыл бұрын
just cause you were tested and everything makes sense now, don't blame everything on that, work hard my man, holy crap its so important that you work for your gaols even when you cant focus, its exciting! You learn to love things, its weird and it worked/works for me now
@Silencio1253 жыл бұрын
I've seen a lot of people confuse ADD with ADHD. ADD is ADHD without the hyperactivity. That's it. It's that simple.
@ryno4ever4333 жыл бұрын
ADD doesn't exist anymore though. This is an outdated term. You either have ADHD inattentive type, ADHD hyperactive type, or ADHD combined type. This video is just kind of bullshit.
@erikawright15103 жыл бұрын
Its because there's no with or without hyperactivity/impulsivity. Its mainly degrees of hyperactivity/impulsivity. My diagnosis is ADHD-predominately inattentive *presentation* (formerly ADD) which is to say I struggle most with inattention but the H part is still there: impulse spending, interrupting, fidgeting...etc
@YIMM_J3 жыл бұрын
@@ryno4ever433 EXACTLY!! Everyone thinks there is a difference between the two.
@itsjackiebro18723 жыл бұрын
Pretty much
@a1kev2 жыл бұрын
@@ryno4ever433 who the hell cares and who the hell asked?
@hamliflan7590 Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad there’s videos out there highlighting the differences between the 2 disorders, because as a person with ADD, I cannot tell you how many times people have said I have ADHD because that’s the only learning disorder they know, so I appreciate the video greatly!☺️
@soulcrusher-zt2mn2 жыл бұрын
I felt like as I got older and I spent 7 years on ADD/ADHD medication from middle school to high school and once I graduated I got off on it and I learned more about myself when I was off it! I sometimes hated being on that medication in high school because it made me antisocial and i would beat myself up if I fail at something. Honestly after I joined the military and made it through initial training it got me to grow out of those issues! Whoever is reading this and if your struggling always set your mind to what you want to accomplish in life!
@FigureFarter2 жыл бұрын
What branch?
@soulcrusher-zt2mn2 жыл бұрын
@@FigureFarter army
@FigureFarter2 жыл бұрын
@@soulcrusher-zt2mn Nice, one of classmates wants be in the air force
@mjoymusic3 жыл бұрын
I’m so thankful my mom and brother had adhd and there wasn’t pressure on us to excel in school. We found out I had add later on in life because I wasn’t outwardly similar to my mom and brother. So I’m thankful for the environment I had.
@jonahpaley57253 жыл бұрын
I have ADD and my dad does not seem to understand how hard just "working harder" is.
@cuzthatshoweyroll2 ай бұрын
ADD isn’t a thing anymore. Everything is now under the umbrella of ADHD.
@lindsaybriggs51985 ай бұрын
ADD has not been a thing since the early 1990s. I'm shocked that THIRTY years later we are still repeating concepts that are widely known and understood to be out dated.
@PSA6585 ай бұрын
While ADD was formally replaced by ADHD in the early 1990s, some individuals may still be diagnosed with the "inattentive" presentation of ADHD, which shares similarities with the previous ADD diagnosis.
@ssspit3 жыл бұрын
ADD used to go crazy for me I h a v e to keep my routine in tact daily
@Nini_Bucko2 жыл бұрын
I always thought I had ADD because i sat relatively still and didn't interrupt as much but I was diagnosed with ADHD and the reason I sat still and didn't interrupt is because I would sit on my legs so I didn't swing them bounce them or lean my chair back and forth and I didn't interrupt because I'd keep biting my tounge till It hurt as to not say something while someone was speaking but that lead me to not hear what the person said and not remember what I was going to say so the reason the doctors could tell it was ADHD is because I'd sit with my legs crossed and peel my skin around my nails and they said they could see my jaw clench occasionally when they'd been talking for a while and said they could see my eyes yelling "i have something to say!" So basically the reason I thought I had ADD is because my teachers would constantly punish my for tipping my chair or talking in class which caused me to develop generalized anxiety and hide things that I simply cannot control so I now have to litteraly peel my skin and bite my tounge in fear of people getting annoyed at me
@tiadoesinternet2 жыл бұрын
ADD is adhd. it just depends on how u present on a spectrum. you present both hyperactive and inattentive, some may struggle with one more than the other but it's all still the same condition. ADD isn't actually its own condition anymore its just adhd- ADD was removed as a seperate condition in like 1990
@blej_bleh3252 жыл бұрын
Y’all ADD is the outdated of ADHD you can be diagnosed with ADD and get older and be diagnosed with ADHD
@rstrid55053 ай бұрын
Exactly. I would question the credibility of any Doctor Who diagnoses somebody as ADD in the United States. Their information is clearly outdated.
@geoffroyfwah32322 жыл бұрын
I have add and asperger, ADD still undiagnozed surprisingly but I've been called lazy my whole life and struggled to do task fast. I am not that sad as illustrated, thank god.
@velerina20173 жыл бұрын
I don't think I have adhd. I mean I can't figure out, its getting hard. Can someone please help me out. I am inattentive and I constantly am playing things in my head, which makes me ignore the present. It's like I'm awake but asleep, things are going on in front of my eyes but Im not paying attention and can't recall what happens later. I feel low energy throughout the day, I think night or evenings are a little better. I don't know if it's bcuz I don't usually wake up early in the morning. Maybe it's become a habit, but idk.
@huejazz9983 жыл бұрын
Its best not to self diagnose, try seeing a psychatrist and talk about it with them.
@velerina20173 жыл бұрын
@@huejazz998 your right. But not everybody will have the access to a good psychiatrist. Here, where I live, I don't rlly trust them. We don't have many, and most diagnose the people with bipolar disorder only . Almost everybody who visits has bipolar, idk if it's for real, but is my town rlly full of bipolar. A good one in the city is rlly expensive
@joshadams56023 жыл бұрын
Could be anything from inattentive type ADHD to an underactive thyroid, or any number of other things. You can have a look into symptoms or youtube videos on the subject, and maybe something will stand out to you and make you go "hey, a lot of those symptoms sound awful familiar to me", which might give you a better idea of what's going on, but there's really no replacement for a professional diagnosis.
@elin28523 жыл бұрын
You should always get diagnosed by a psychiatrist. But these videos can help you to know what you might need to look into. I doesn't necessarily have to be adhd or add it can be other things like lack of vitamins, sleep and so on.
@harrOwbrO3 жыл бұрын
Get some blood tests done to check your hormones too.
@torptorptorptorp2 жыл бұрын
I have ADD, and I cannot begin to tell you how difficult it was to watch this video because of the loud background music. It made it so difficult for me to focus on the words and remembering what was said.
@donaldtrump54102 жыл бұрын
3:22 you mean this leads to withdrawal symptoms when they don't take their meds
@jorgikemp75322 жыл бұрын
I have ADD and this explains it well I also have autism, APD, ASD, anxiety,
@CathyLarkinWebSavvyPR5 ай бұрын
unfortunately, ADD is no longer considered separately in the DSM5 - but it is a distinction in reality, ADD is more often referred to as the inattentive subtype of ADHD
@lolly60882 жыл бұрын
One of my most favorite thing said about adhd is “you try twice as hard only to barely get by”
@HelloHello-um8it3 жыл бұрын
I hate having ADD
@joepvanderlinde27783 жыл бұрын
Same for me
@adeptus27143 жыл бұрын
I have inattentiveness but I'm not generally hyperactive except for interrupting and drifting attention when people are speaking, though I try to catch myself.
@pythonzz72593 жыл бұрын
2:25 my parents never understood this
@PIutonium943 жыл бұрын
mine either-
@daniel-san8362 жыл бұрын
I was diagnosed with ADD as a child, made worse upon the diagnosis was the talking between specialists, teachers and my mum like i wasn't even in the room with them, like i have some sort of 'problem'. It wasn't until I started taking my own health into my own hands that I realized how truly manageable and impermanent anything such as ADD is. I took martial arts from a young age which required active listening which became exercised because I was passionate about it unlike school where 9/10 teachers were black and white machines which take themselves home after a long day regurgitating the same shit they do every other day to polish off a bottle or two of wine being the unmotivated functioning alcoholics that they are, understandably so. My education truly began once I left school and this labeling of myself as a 'problem' has taken decades to heal from whilst this complex still plays itself out so I choose to stay alone for the most part and foresee the remainder of my future to be just like this, yes this is depressing, but it beats the same style of judgement I've incurred my whole life from feeling 'different'. So it's strange to see these walls of separation still been cast onto children, worse again, they're then given literal narcotics under the guise of it being helpful. Next minute every kid at the school is approaching your innocent 'problem' child asking to buy pills off them and you'd be none the wiser.
@kawaiicake8038 Жыл бұрын
Mainly the adhd/add pill deals happen in colleges. Aderall is a popular one for them to get bc I think the reason I heard was that it’s cheap or just bc it might be a common one idk, but yeah I remember my doctor telling me this when I was questioning why I couldn’t just bring my medicine around with me and why it was a big deal if I forgot to give some to the nurse. Bc later on I’d need to be careful to not do that bc they might get stolen.
@kawaiicake8038 Жыл бұрын
I’ve literally heard about adhd/add kids with meds have theirs get like stolen/taken around times of exams (mostly kids who carried it themselves)
@Poptartsthatareplain1012 жыл бұрын
Me, a person with adhd watching this, losing focus, and having to rewind.
@joshadams56023 жыл бұрын
I mean, ADD doesn't exactly exist, as far as I know. It's literally a form of ADHD, called inattentive type ADHD, rather than an entirely seperate condition.
@joshadams56023 жыл бұрын
@@porkedbeans5744 Huh, really? Everything I've heard indicates that ADD is no longer diagnosed as ADD, but instead as a type of ADHD. I'm not saying the symptoms are fake or anything, more that the term "ADD" is defunct.
@joshadams56023 жыл бұрын
@@porkedbeans5744 I honestly can't find any website claiming ADHD and ADD are completely distinct diagnoses, only sites that back up what I already thought, that ADD is a subtype of ADHD and is now more commonly referred to as inattentive type ADHD. Do you have any links backing up your claim?
@somefatkid20803 жыл бұрын
@@porkedbeans5744 add and adhd is legit simular add is an outdated word and only discribes inatititave adhd, the word adhd means inatitive and hyproactive or the other type of adhd or even both
@somefatkid20803 жыл бұрын
@@porkedbeans5744 in short add is legit adhd its just outdated way of saying it
@somefatkid20803 жыл бұрын
^
@carterzuro98492 жыл бұрын
I got to minute two in the video and realized I wasn’t paying attention… I’m glad this video is reaching its intended audience!
@taleya.s Жыл бұрын
I have ADHD and my sister has ADD but my parents don't really care ,they thing it is normal and they always call us messy, misbehaving and lazy 🙁🥹if you have ADHD or add just know your not alone...♥️
@NaNaydo Жыл бұрын
Right, I’m so tired of it I just want help
@DevPreston3 жыл бұрын
Hmm, there's maybe some misinformation or partial info in here. I suggest wider viewing / reading. Try channels including How To ADHD, Totally ADD and ADDitude for more info, amongst others
@polari76582 жыл бұрын
This video is actually outdated now. ADD has now been changed to be referred to as ADHD inattentive type, because they are the same disorder. One just results in the internalization of symptoms.
@Rosonicole Жыл бұрын
I feel you can honestly be both. Depending on environment. When I was a kid I was in a very hostile household. I’d go to school terrified unable to concentrate. I was told I had add. But as a adult I was told I have adhd because I am everywhere all the time. I’m not sad or anything but get bored with things very quickly and wanna learn everything. Tried medication and it actually helped so much. I realize I wasn’t dumb I just had a chemical imbalance. Diet helped as well. Running seemed to literally almost fix it all on top of diet. I walked a straight line for a while. But now we’ll no medication and I’m swinging from one job to the next, one book to the next. You get the point lol.
@stellamariefanboy.6768 Жыл бұрын
You can have symptoms of both or just one or the other (from what I heard) there’s *inattentive disorder* and that’s more like struggling to intake information, losing your belongings and being easily distracted. There’s *hyper activity/impulsive* where you talk a lot, can’t sit down, always fidget and are impatient. And then there’s this thing called *combined* where you experienced both symptoms, with varying degrees. (One is more prevalent than the other) you also always scramble todo everything at once, wanting to rush 😊and because of that, you do none of it.
@ControlAllDa13373 жыл бұрын
I told my doctor I thought I had ADD and wanted to get a formal diagnosis but he just said to me that there's no treatment for adults with it so there's no point
@erikawright15103 жыл бұрын
Lies. Be selective. Especially if youre a femaleA lot of ppl downgrade the severity or deny the very existence of the disorder. Those who don't might only treat kids. Seek treatment from someone who specializes in Adult Adhd. Not all doctors are created equal.
@ControlAllDa13373 жыл бұрын
@@erikawright1510 thank you for the response. I've only just had a notification for this. I'm going to change doctors now I've moved towns so hopefully I'll get a more understanding one this time
@erikawright15103 жыл бұрын
@@ControlAllDa1337 praying for you! Keep your head up!
@ControlAllDa13373 жыл бұрын
@@erikawright1510 thanks again Erika. It's something that has held me back for years. I'm doing okay in life but feel if I didn't have all the complications of ADD I would have achieved so much more
@megb4122 жыл бұрын
Any time you ask for something like a diagnostic & a doctor says no, tell them you want them you write it in your chart. Also document everything.
@yashsvibhandari82883 жыл бұрын
the only reason I'm sure i have add is because my mom shows all the symptoms for add herself and so do i show some (which are really annoying). neither of us have been diagnosed with it yet, but i got diagnosed with general anxiety instead since i have been growing depressed over my studies and behavioral issues and now it's worst since the meds are obv not helping and I'm scared i might get worse marks in math again. it sucks!!
@thea91533 жыл бұрын
OMG SAME. I was kinda diagnosed with it, i talked to a therapy lady (Idk the word in english) for a long time, and she still wasnt sure if I had add, JUST because i wasnt hyperactive and walked around in class like some ppl with adhd do. My mom also has all of the symptons. Which is why Im pretty sure i have it because add and adhd can be genetic. I was also diagnosed with social anxiety. I also get shitty grades in math so i feel you. Nothing helps
@yashsvibhandari82883 жыл бұрын
@@thea9153 omg i hope everything gets better for you! keep safe buddy and don't sweat it. I'm sure we'll get the right diagnosis sometime. also i do have social anxiety that's why i as all lonely but my mom told the doc i was just a sad lonely child so i got my diagnosis with anhedonia 🤠
@Hon3yb3ar172 жыл бұрын
I have ADD and in the video what you said is true! I could take medication for my ADD but my parents don’t have the money for it… I don’t like to talk about school life with my parents because I feel like they wouldn’t understand… I have low self esteem because I always take things the wrong way… My friends sit with someone else I take it as they don’t wanna be my friend anymore… If I fail a test I am a failure and I don’t get to eat… I have issues but don’t talk to anyone because I it’s scary talking about those things… If you read this thanks for letting me vent.
@ryno4ever4333 жыл бұрын
Interesting that this video talks about the distinction between ADD and ADHD in 2021, yet clinicians don't even distinguish between these two things anymore. Everything is ADHD now with subtypes of inattentive, hyperactive, and combine. How do you get this wrong?
@robrobusa3 жыл бұрын
Because of old information that still circulates.
@ryno4ever4333 жыл бұрын
@@robrobusa The video was produced this year though. They didn't do their research at all. It's irresponsible to talk about a topic like this without researching it. This is also like pop science. They're making generalizations in the video that don't really have to do with symptoms.
@JHN12x123 жыл бұрын
There is a certain level of discomfort among many people with non-hyperactive ADHD, where they feel that "ADHD" doesn't describe their experience. Yes, they've read the words in the DSM but they feel it doesn't fit properly.
@SomeFreakingCactus3 жыл бұрын
Yeah this is a very outdated perspective on ADHD. “They’re basically impatient due to a shorter attention span.” I mean, yeah, people with ADHD can have shorter directed attention spans, but that is only tangential at-best to a person’s patience. It’s more that we’ve been conditioned to act quickly, since future distractions might cause us to forget forget about it.
@thatrandomgirl45743 жыл бұрын
Well I got diagnosed with ADD last year so apperantly it still fucking exists idc if people call is ADHD cuz its not the friking same! ADD is so diffrent like omg
@DiLive_2 жыл бұрын
I have ADD and ODD... It's not easy to deal with it especially when you're young, That's when you don't know what to do when certain emotions come up. Please if you know people with any of these symptomps, Be there for them.. They really need your support. I wish you all the best of luck dealing with these issues
@HvyMtlGma42010 ай бұрын
I must have ADD…. I couldn’t pay attention in watching it. So much so, after 3 times, I gave up 🤦🏻♀️🤷♀️🤣
@RobertEWaters10 ай бұрын
ADD is no longer a term that is used. It's ADHD, Inattentive Presentation.
@AngelRani2 жыл бұрын
I have both ADD and an anxiety disorder. I was diagnosed with those a long time ago. Over the years I've had many people (family, friends, coworkers, etc.) try telling me that my diagnosis is wrong and they try saying that I actually have ADHD. I know the difference between ADD and ADHD. I definitely don't have ADHD. Plus I've had multiple doctors tell me that I have ADD and an anxiety disorder. Not just one doctor. Multiple doctors. I think more people need to learn the difference between ADD and ADHD. So many people are uneducated on the two and it's very frustrating. Btw for those not aware, someone with ADD and an anxiety disorder can show symptoms that are similar to ADHD, but it's not the same thing. There are still differences.
@arjunraj47752 жыл бұрын
There is a paper published by adele diamond clearly explaining the difference between ADD and ADHD, it is from 2005, I am sad to find a lot of people in the comments saying there is no difference between ADD and ADHD the term is not the only thing that has changed, for example, for me with ADD the main problem is not the distractions, but the motivation, ADD is more introverted whereas ADHD is more extroverted. For people with ADHD, its hyperactivity, always on the go, always changing track to a new thing, for me its more sluggish, its getting bored, its losing interest and changing track to a new exciting thing. Even though, the changing track part is similar, the motivations and thought process that does it is not similar at all, If you treat a person who cannot focus with a medication to focus, it may help them, but if you treat a person who can focus initially but loses interest fast and doesn't want to come back to the task, its a totally different scenario. The significant overlap of these two conditions makes it difficult to distinguish, however for a person personally going through ADD being classified as ADHD simply does not make sense. And just because there is no research on this issue doesn't mean that its just the same, remember, research is done when there is enough funding and interest in a field. Being called dumb and lazy and unmotivated and getting bullied and tormented for it destroyed my mental health and made me fall into a on and off two year long depression; I cannot remember half of my childhood because of this goddamn disease and to be classified with outgoing, fun and extroverted people and getting said that my problems are the same as their problems is hurtful, the last thing I want is to be understood by someone, I want to be freed from this constant feeling of pretending to be something that I'm truly not Autism studies in the early days primarily had men in them, which caused women to not understand their condition properly and react to it as needed, don't you think there is a slight chance that this is happening with add and adhd research too? that people with adhd get easily classified as ADHD and people with ADD who show a lot of the same symptoms get pushed into a box where they don't belong? and get the same treatments but don't achieve the same results? Its frustrating, maybe it IS a early naming that has now been changed, but I believe there is a possibility that my condition is different, for anyone out there who is really confused please read the research paper by prof adele diamond on the difference between ADD and ADHD and how the symptoms and treatments are completely different It is human nature toseek culpability for everything wrong that has happened in your life. But we can be more than that, as a kid I cannot tell you how many times I felt like I am unintelligent, unworthy, untalented, I had no passions I had no friends, I had no one who I could relate to, at 18, and just after leaving home and everyone I love, in a foreign country as an international student I am slowly understanding the dynamics of myself. You are in no way less smart, in no way less talented, in no way less deserving of love and respect. There is a lot of arguments from people saying that medications are not a solution to ADHD and people lived without medications in the past- first of all f u, you know what else has come down since the 1990s-- suicide rates, yes there maybe natural ways where people develop natural methods to cope with their condition-- but that doesn't mean those same methods would work for living and managing life in the new world, today's society poses a lot more challenges, a lot more struggles academically and otherwise, people have a lot more to deal with, and a little help from medications goes a long way. Maybe its not a disorder at all maybe its a difference in cognition, ok, how does it affect your life? are you able to use those abilities of cognition to start a business and be successful, OR, are you a struggling teenager with mental health issues wjo is constantly depressed and suicidal failing out of college? who are you? where is your present state more leaning towards, is your adhd/add helping with your life or areyou a dustbin fire in a train wreck struggling to keep your life and relationships together? If you are the latter you should definitely seek medical help there is nothing wrong with it, if you are the former, then go ahead, you don't need any medication, this is a classical case of survivorship bias, "if I can, then you can too, there is no need for you to treat this condition, see, it helps in business and all the other interesting stuff, embrace it!!" just because one or two people on the internet are saying that their adhd/add was a blessing to them, doesn't mean that it will be the same for you too, because that is also confirmation bias, they have a prior belief, they see their lives, they see other lives who have also succeeded because of the same condition, and they feel, hmm, looks like these idiots are taking medication for nothing, well in reality it is just them confirming their own belives, it happens to everyone, even to me, but the problem is I too have evidence, when I look at my life and cannot remember even the face or names of my bullies who almost made me kill myself i feel like add has f'ed up my life. So talk to your physician about this and seek help if you really feel like it will help you get better and don't ruin your life just because of your believes, I didn't think this would turn out long, haha, hope everything turns out great for you! God bless
@Moonwalker10752 жыл бұрын
As someone with ADD thank you for clarifying the difference between them.
@Kilava12312 жыл бұрын
My least favorite phrase: “don’t you dare blame it on your ADD or ADHD”
@Sleepp102 жыл бұрын
frfrfrfrfrfrfrrfrfrfrr pleaseeeeeeee tell me about this happens all the time and its frustrating. If it's something that you think I can't blame on then why don't we switch places and you can take my hell fr
@jenna57692 жыл бұрын
I have adhd,add,anxiety,and ocd so let’s explain my life! My adhd makes it hard to focus and all that. My add is so hard to cope with because people always call me lazy. My anxiety makes me feel scared and nervous to fail so I try harder and my ocd makes me want everything to be perfect and organized.So all of my issues kinda fight each other off so it kinda makes this stuff easier for me
@RaiVer928 Жыл бұрын
Finally now I know what ADD truly is. I was diagnosed with it back in grade 1 and ever since then never rlly knew what it was and never bothered to research it.
@GenesisJak7 ай бұрын
Ending the video with offering a person with ADHD a cup of coffee is pretty funny
@jeonjkluv80823 жыл бұрын
I was diagnosed last Friday with ADD and here I am 💀
@thea91533 жыл бұрын
I was diagnosed like 4 months ago
@thea91533 жыл бұрын
@@dreamflier2676 it depends on the place u live
@zealona43492 жыл бұрын
They just diagnosed me with ADD and I‘m so happy I can prove myself that I‘m not dumb.
@annakateburrows44162 жыл бұрын
I’m so thankful someone can explain a difference between adhd and add. As someone with add, saying that and having people say it’s the same as adhd, it’s kind of hard. I don’t let it get too into my head, but sometimes it’s frustrating so thank you
@bushral.tasneem54642 жыл бұрын
It’s is technically though. ADHD has three subtypes and ADD is the outdated term for inattentive- type ADHD.
@mouchoutte85953 жыл бұрын
The term ADD is no longer used to describe inattentive type. It's only ADHD which can present itself in 3 different ways, Hyperactive type, Inattentive type or Combined type.
@linuspb39042 жыл бұрын
It‘s still used. I got diagnosed with ADD not even a year ago
@Spearb08112 жыл бұрын
I got diagnosed with the last one but I dont get what exactly it means…like either u are hyperactive adhd or not add??
@yuluvii2 жыл бұрын
@@Spearb0811 People say ADD is non hyperactive ADHD while ADHD is (that’s why the “H” is gone, it stands for hyperactive). This is because some people, especially women/girls, show their symptoms differently than others. Ex.) Rather than being talkative, they daydream. Both are symptoms of ADHD, but one would be considered ADD (daydreaming) and the other ADHD (talkative), based on what is considered “hyperactive” by the medical community. But, this still shouldn’t be used because it isn’t as simple as that and ADHD is quite different than just this and that. So just use ADHD. ADD is outdated anyway, no one should be getting “diagnosed” with it. :)
@Spearb08112 жыл бұрын
@@yuluvii I just gotta go w/problem of focusing and concentration cuz ADHD don’t fit at all cuz I’m always tired
@yuluvii2 жыл бұрын
@@Spearb0811 Well, just because it doesn’t fit your symptoms doesn’t mean its other “form” exists.
@gemmyyxbill52192 жыл бұрын
it's so true when you said "they easily get bored" me at every single video 20 seconds in "well this is boring"
@TheReal_XxJAio5 ай бұрын
I got both, but my ADHD it's not like.. the same. What normal it is. It's like uhh.. I don't rly know.😮💨
@NoahMartin12 жыл бұрын
a tip for all you ADD people out there, if you feeling like you want to give up and be depressed, ive been there, i want to *** myself every day, but guess what I gotta live with that and I accept that, and when people tell you to work harder, you get your focus pills and you put in the work no matter how much time you have on your hands. also for all you christian ADD members, if you get so low and depressed, don't masterba** cause if you do, youll be so messed up. You just gotta work through this crap man
@Andrea-tc9mw2 жыл бұрын
I hate that the ADD thing explained my life perfectly. Like my parents always called me lazy so I started acting this way. (I just remember I had to do something else instead of watch youtube video’s) my grades were low because I could never finish the test because of a lack of focus, but the parts I did make I often had at least 70%/80% of the questions right. I had no idea about what caused ADD so that’s really nice to know :D
@uchihanaruto3839 Жыл бұрын
I get grounded all the time because of that and my parents dont believe me on that sh** running on my head
@coolperson66962 жыл бұрын
i’m pretty sure i have ADD but my mom always tell my that i’m just lazy and it actually really hurts me when she says that making me feel like i’m just crazy- but she doesn’t even know what’s going on in my head… i just wish she would know how i feel. i’m a freshman this year and ADD has really affected me in bad way because i decided to take 1 ap class and and the rest pre-AP and it sucks and it always hurts when i’m trying so hard to get my stuff done and i just have my parents calling me lazy and that i’m not trying hard enough and then all on top of that i’m in my schools marching band and in concert season this year i made the varsity band and it can be really tough sometimes i just wish my parents would understand yk ?
@megb4122 жыл бұрын
I'm copy/pasting some things I wrote to others here, hope you don't mind. Check if you can go through your school to see a psychologist employed by the school district. Start advocating for yourself now & never let up, because school & medical systems will find every reason to ignore you, & not just about ADD/ADHD. Document everything, from the first time you ask to see a school psychologist, the date you asked, who you asked, their response, & the date you have your first appointment, the date you get an IEP (Individualized Education Program ), if that's a thing where you are. Be sure they know you take it seriously, be sure they see you writing it all down. ADD/ADHD is not a measure of intelligence, so don't let anyone tell you you're too smart to have it, or that "you're bright, you're just lazy." If you get put on medication, document how it makes you feel, & if something makes you feel ill or funny in the head, speak up about that too. Some people will go through a couple different medications before they find the right one. There's a great website called ADDitude (additudemag . com) that has articles & symptom checkers. It can't diagnose you, but you can get info that will help back you up when you start self-advocating. Much of what's going on is a lack of dopamine, so people with our condition not only find focusing a challenge, but especially on tasks & topics that don't help the brain make dopamine. Some of us who fell through the cracks, as it were, ended up with dopamine-seeking tendencies like over-eating, retail therapy, drugs, thrill-seeking, etc. Don't let that be you. (Although things like dance & music can help! Keep up the band stuff, music is a lifeline.) I made it through most of school because I had a structure/schedule, but without those things, as an adult, I felt even more broken & lost.
@bunny68203 жыл бұрын
I have something in between the two, since I can sometimes have hyperactivity spikes
@Borgo_XD3 жыл бұрын
god- i have the same, its just a random urge to spit out energy ig, once i was chatting with a friend when I felt one and idk what the hell I did but I think I just kinda started attacking a tree..? I think I just started to hit it or smth but AHAH She won't let me live a day without reminding me about the tree incident.
@LizAya222 жыл бұрын
Well ADHD explanation just fuked me up more than I thought.
@action16x22 жыл бұрын
Paused this video 5 into my maladaptive daydreaming 😭oh my
@PopcrankFrank2 жыл бұрын
literally had to watch this multiple times because i was thinking about random things
@XxilysmxX Жыл бұрын
I have ADD and my younger brother has ADHD. We both have prescribed medicine that we take to help us focus better but obviously it's not perfect. We both still struggle with school. Also, a side effect of the medicine I take is loss of appetite and sometimes I'll go 2 - 3 days without anything to eat, which is a huge problem for someone like me who is already severely underweight. Also for me, I often struggle to breathe which also makes it hard to focus, and I also experience most of the things that the other comments say. Long story short, living with ADD (and ADHD) is really hard, and medication isn't for everyone. To everyone else who has to deal with these disorders, I hope you get the support you need to help you succeed.
@XxilysmxX Жыл бұрын
P. S. Not that anyone cares, but I was diagnosed with ADD when I was very young, so to me, none of this stuff is new to me.
@xX_ewwwewwie_Xx2 жыл бұрын
I was fidgeting with a circle shaped lip balm and my teacher took it so I started with fidgeting with my erasers and my teacher said “NOW I HAVE TO TAKE ERASERS?!” I was just S A D
@DescendingAngel467 ай бұрын
Yup- all round yup lol. I was constantly told I need to try harder in subjects I really struggled with- Maths and Science being the top 2. Yet get me in a Design tech class, art or drama, I'd be really driven and focused. I wouldn't say I have the hyperactivity, but literally every single one of my behaviours is textbook ADD! The question is, how do you get a doctor to take you seriously enough to actually get a diagnosis?! I've tried twice with my GP and the enquiries haven't followed through.
@mysryuza Жыл бұрын
I once had a kid in class during my elementary school days who had ADHD, and the only thing I knew was the hyperactivity part. The details displayed here was what I wish I knew about then.
@MTF_Epsolon-93 жыл бұрын
I hava mild ADD acording to the doctor, ADD is ADHD without the hyperactivity nothing else.
@zrirukishizutakiari3 жыл бұрын
This video is innacurate since the distinction between ADD and ADHD is not made since many years
@maria754263 жыл бұрын
sry could you explain simpler for my slow working brain and bad english?
@somefatkid20803 жыл бұрын
@@maria75426 add is adhd inatitive type in short terms, the word add was used ages ago and evolved to the word adhd
@corbillat67183 жыл бұрын
@@somefatkid2080 um maybe it’s because I am not an native English speaker but… no, not at all ? I was diagnosed 20 years ago and there was a distinction between the two but I am still diagnosed with ADD ?
@corbillat67183 жыл бұрын
Okay my bad I get what you mean I just checked, now people just use the category « ADHD »as a genral therm do determine the disorder which includes ADD too :)
@somefatkid20803 жыл бұрын
@@corbillat6718 why tf are you so mad? Call it add i dont care im just saying its an outdated term that is now called adhd which includes the other types of adhd not just initiative type, also that guy asked for an explanation i helped him so why you going for me?
@GTSCHRIS2 жыл бұрын
Sad how true this is, I always get called lazy and not motivated it just honestly made me hate myself more I’m just understanding what I have and now I know I’m not the only one hang in there
@erikawright15103 жыл бұрын
Question: has anyone ever heard of CDD? Concentration Deficit Disorder? It differs from ADHD of all types.
@des_234 Жыл бұрын
Where I live, when you tell people that you have a condition like this, they won't take you seriously until you grow up and get a heart attack caused by depression and anxiety in your mid 40s
@ChristmasVavFFLi_And_Snowflake2 жыл бұрын
If someone Got ADD you should also mention addictions.
@waltersobchak72753 жыл бұрын
I’m ADD all the way. I take my self prescribed medicine I become normal I take to much I become ADHD
@Random-mo6ec2 жыл бұрын
My entire life has just been explained in 3 minutes and 50 seconds
@liammoltubakk2139 Жыл бұрын
Came here to see if i had anything in common, got lost in my thoughts after a sentence i heard and forgot to focus💀💀💀💀
@Lunaowe2 жыл бұрын
I got diagnosed with ADD once but idk i find it hard to believe that I have any diagnosis at all. I do have a distracting problem. Like when I'm watching a movie I get distracted even if I like the movie, and when my mom or anyone else talks to me I get distracted too. But that's also because I'm uninterested in the topic but its still disrespectful of me and I cant control it. Blab to me about make up and ask me for recommendations and I zone out lmao. I was also very distracted in all my school years. I wish to be more active but I feel like maybe I'm lacking something in the brain? I also got distracted a few job trainings 😢 it's embrassing I hate being scolded
@AP-pv6vk3 ай бұрын
Been considering getting tested. Found out my dad had adhd as a kid, it’s possible it mellowed out into adulthood for him. My brother also has adhd, so it’s hard to believe that I didn’t inherit it. I suffer with being forgetful and feeling lazy. Truly hard to relax when in my head I’m telling myself I’m being lazy. Growing up, my mother would be frustrated with me a lot because I would forget things, whether it be a chore or something she tells me. Really makes me feel awful and incompetent when that happens. I’m in my 20’s and this still happens. I’ve never been the hyper type, I’m very much introverted, so maybe I’m more of the ADD side of things
@Tiki_Trixx2 жыл бұрын
Me just having to rewatch tue video 3 times cuz I got distracted in my thoughts...
@SkullKid52 жыл бұрын
I clicked but got uninterested tather quickly cuz i started reading the comments...
@Haileeeeeeeey2 жыл бұрын
my pov: parents wont take me to see if i have any of these so i try to make it seem logical if i have one of them or not-
@madmax57892 жыл бұрын
me finding out this at 30 realising that all the time the bad voices in my head and the demotivator demons from my childhood have not been my fault and i was just born this way. Every kid i know enjoyed their lives while i lived under constant anxiety and depression. Haven't had a girlfriend ever and don't earn as much as my peers. Was bullied through two schools and haven't gotten any promotion even after trying my best. It's not easy being me but I guess we get what we get.
@shardulsonwane6752 жыл бұрын
I watched the video at 2x speed and had to go back to the whole video cuz i was daydreaming
@nebulicdisaster33513 жыл бұрын
Imagine having this and having to do geometry haha…