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Alcohol addiction may not be the problem and here's why...
Why your 'inner child' may be at the root of your alcohol addiction and how to deal with it. Learn to heal your inner child and why alcoholism is often deeply rooted in our childhood.
When I trained as a quit alcohol coach I learned all the tools, tactics and strategies to help anyone quit drinking if they truly desired it. More recently I have come to understand the link between our what happens in childhood and addiction and the huge part it can play in helping people successfully stop drinking.
We all have an 'inner child' and very often it has been left in a state of pain or hurt from past traumas, stress, hurt or anxiety that were projected onto us as children. I am not necessarily talking about sexual abuse or violence here, it can simply be from a parent who is always too busy to listen or doesn't give the emotional support, feeling of safety or comfort needed to feel emotionally secure and stable.
As children it can be easy to assume that when something is wrong it is our fault and we must therefore be a bad person. As we grow older we need to soothe ourselves and we often turn to alcohol as a solution, this is often combined with other behaviour traits such as over-achieving and people-pleasing.
There are almost always episodes of Childhood Emotional Neglect (CEN) linked to alcohol addiction and sometimes the neglect can be hard to spot as it often comes down to what our parents (or siblings) didn't do, as opposed to what they specifically did do.
As we discover that alcohol enables us to suppress, blot out or avoid our past issues we drink more and more. An alcohol dependancy forms and before we know it we are caught in the dangerous cycle of addiction.
I have spoken on previous videos about my own experience of childhood trauma and how it sent me down a path of self-soothing and addiction to deal with an inner child that was left unstable.
When we are addicted to drinking it can feel like there is no way out, we can feel lost and hopeless, but this isn't the case...
There is a way out, we need to find peace with our inner child and work on getting sober using the tried and tested methods I share on my KZbin channel and in my quit drinking programme at www.joinbesobe...
Join my community and I will help you understand how to quit alcohol without the need for too much willpower.
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Simon Chapple
The Quit Alcohol Coach
www.besober.co.uk
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