30 Cheat Codes I Know at 30, That I Wish I Knew at 20

[@Zzz-re5ot]

1. Your 20s are not the rest of your life 2. Focus on building a foundation 3. Focus on your health 4. Read every single day 5. Time Management 6. Learning how to communicate 7. Be the least knowledgeable person in the room 8. Stop seeing others as competitors 9. Don't be afraid to seek guidance 10. Ask for feedback 11. Learn to take accountability 12. Embrace the cringe 13. Playing small does not benefit anyone 14. Outwork your imposter syndrome 15. Do want you need to do 16. Show your work 17. Give your 100% 18. Say "I don't know" more often 19. Don't take things personally 20. Do difficult things more often 21. Do not settle early 22. Don't loose yourself in a relationship 23. Become comfortable in failing 24. Focus on building your ethics 25. Don't be afraid to do after money 26. The basics of making and managing money 27. How to stop trading time for money 28. Stop chasing happiness, start chasing fulfilment 29. Go to therapy 30. No one is coming to save you

[@nayanikasaha3860]

Di what does sentence number 21 means ?

[@nayanikasaha3860]

Di I am 22 years old and I am doing graduation. And everyone is asking me what will you do next after graduation.

[@nayanikasaha3860]

You will get married after graduation.

[@nayanikasaha3860]

I mean like marriage is everything in life or what.

[@nayanikasaha3860]

Everyone is saying me that I should get married after graduation because I have reached that age I look like an aged woman.

[@sayantisengupta5957]

"Your 20s are not the rest of your life" Ohh godd these words really helped like magic. I'm currently 25 years old preparing government job examinations but when I see people of my age doing jobs and settling down it really used to make me feel worse and I always thought what I am doing in my life? A lot of people tells me that I am wasting my time in preparation but I also know at the same time that chasing my dream of becoming a government officer is nothing wrong. Your video really helped me. Its absolutely right that 20s are all about learning, priotrising health etc. Thanks thanks so so much. ❤❤Really changed the perspective. Thanks once again❤

[@priyankapatil3363]

Hey... similar situation A 24 year old CA Finalist but the 'people my age have jobs,are married,are into relationship' thing bothers me a lot...But deep down I know that going ahead with the plan is the drill.....Hope you achieve your dreams soon ❤. All my best wishes to you for all your future endeavours 😊

[@pratikshadhore8062]

I was in same situation girl...now I am government officer...trust yourself 😊

[@anushkaphalke7296]

Me too going with the same situation. But I have to just keep going one day will be a good government officer!

[@shritisakumari1215]

Same

[@TribalChief26]

Eye opener video, i am 22, a big guy, who used to be a Leader in school days, now was lost in life, due to Failures in Professional Exams, i was stressed, compared myself with literally everyone, had a fucked up lifestyle and was completely out of track! But Adete, you are a Magician! Everything you talked about in the video, felt quite relatable to me, i understood where i was going, gave a Self Reality Slapppppp!!! And am going to start working on first the Damage Control, then Reversal, and then the 2.0 version of me! I am Really very grateful to you Adete! ❤ Lots of Love, Blessings & Respect to you! ❤️

[@kritikaanand4931]

No one is coming to save yoy is the most hitting advice. I am 22 years old recent graduate, hustling to get a job and to be independent, but still not giving that much effort, dont know why , Everytime I start but unable to do it constantly , THANK YOU SO MUCH. your videos are very helpful.

[@ipsitamajumder3167]

I am 30, messed up, no stable job, don't know what to do. Thanks for this adete. It's a request if you make a video for 30s people who are still figuring out.

[@AdeteDahiya]

Hey Ipsita, yes will make one on this

[@ravibhagat739]

You look like some times Pooja hegde

[@Thejeetjoshi]

Aap alsi bhi ho sakte ho shayad

[@Buddingdoctr]

​@@Thejeetjoshi I'm 19 and I'm a neet aspirant and I'm completely exhausted am facing a lot at my teens I never thought life ❤️‍🩹😑will be so tough

[@Thejeetjoshi]

@@Buddingdoctr so now you know it so you should start working hard more and more and best of luck but remember if you don’t get what you want then use the knowledge that you acquired in the process to figure out what you should do next.

[@debapriyabanerjee4976]

As a 34 years old woman who has been earning and staying on her own since 21 years, one thing I would suggest to all 20 something women is that go to gym and lift heavy and eat more protein. Lots of mental health issues would resolve just by these two. You'll think clearer and have less health issues

[@geeta-upadhyay]

True

[@sudipabodak4377]

So true..... Thank you ❤

[@Miyani-h4f]

In my case even if I go for a running know it makes me so burn out that I can't even do simple chores like bringing a bottle of water from kitchen it becomes so tough n mental exhaustion idk even doctors aren't of any help. And gyming didn't suit me so I had to just focus on yoga.

[@saumya4392]

Being in my 20's i feel that is video is really helpful. Some of the lessons i've already learnt through my own experiences and I 100% agree with your codes, thanks a lot for this. I wish you happiness.

[@happy.sappy1018]

A personal cheat code which is a add on for me is I found your page in my early 20s. Love your work and content, Have been following you since last 3 years couldn't be more grateful to have to learn from you.

[@TROLLCHATTER0069]

The fact that nobody talks about the book whispers of manifestation on borlest speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance

[@user-dv6ht5dh6m]

??

[@archnaaind4432]

I m 21 and this is what i wanted..i was feeling lost , leftout, self doubt but this video is like the god message to me .. thankyou adete❤️

[@anushkatiwari8467]

I used to lose my shit every time a friend used to leave me because of the sense of abandonment that would come along with it. I used to get attached to them and I'm glad things have changed now,only for the better. I look at you as an older sister who's a guide and mentor for everything. Thank you❤

[@annriya4566]

I feel ya. This is so me🥲

[@soumilighosh452]

I am 26.... and I am extremely thankful to you for this video...

[@Star60400]

I should learn to accept hard truth

[@Ritubhati06]

Each and every line in this video is pure gold!!💛

[@vanithajawahar1327]

"stop chasing happiness Start chasing fulfilment" ahh I needed to hear that ❤

[@Asim-pp8nm]

That doesn't apply in real life 20s me paisa nhi kamaya to koi value nhi dega 😂

[@sowm_01]

This tips will genuinely help everyone out there who really don't know about this age and time!

[@xoemanittarius3831]

the whole video was a gem but these three points were the most helpful one for me... learn to take accountability... outwork your imposter syndrome.... top trading time for money.. thank you so much for this video.

[@AdeteDahiya]

Glad it was helpful ❤️❤️❤️

[@rohithraghavan363]

In recent days I am jobless and frequently feeling demotivated and left alone but watching this video gives me much more clarity and awareness od DO's & DONT's in teenage. Thanks a lot for posting valuable content which was an eye opening for me😇😌

[@bickyyadav7106]

U are a great adviser, seeking help from others was not so easy but thank god I found u as a best friend who advise me like no one else. 💕

[@Unnatimalla]

The fact I am on my early teens but also learning so much from you . ❤💖

[@risha2402]

hello adete didi! i am an 18 year old law student who is in first year right now. i randomly found your channel while i was browsing to find something to help me grow more in life because i do seem to be stuck in most areas and like you said the psychological conditioning that has wired me to become like this is actually very hard to beat. i understand this is for people way elder to me but i feel if i try and lay a brick for all what you advice in your videos from now i have more space to make mistakes and learn quicker. amazing video, thank you so much! 💗🙏🏽

[@sanskargoud6896]

Thank you so much maam This was so needed for me at this moment and it just changed my perception towards life

[@afifashaikh9104]

I'm 26 in next 3 months i will be 27 still no stable job no stable relationship everything in life is falling apart no good support system from family nor friends . Feeling lost demotivated to do any thing feeling like lost lots of time of 20s just overthinking stuff kneeling to society's norms family restrictions.. trying so hard to stuff still failing misarably ..your vedios are such a good eye opener..

[@Subhashreepriyadarshini]

I'm in my 20s and these are really helpful to make myself better and grow more. You are just like an elder sibling who shows you the right path as you've been there. Thankyouuu Adete di. And I want you to make a video on how to work on ourselves like about lifestyle, personality, communication, understanding things and not just reacting to it suddenly like a all total development of a being. Hope you make a video on this ! Lots of love 💕

[@punithakumaran1029]

Thank you adete Didi I am now 16.I learnt so much from you. I also developed the habit of journaling from you. And more. Thank you for your efforts❤.

[@trishawalia944]

Finding your channel is the best thing that happened to me❤❤

[@SANJANAKUMARI-tf7wm]

The 8th point as seeing others as friends not ur enemy or competitors are really true. I felt it that when u value more to the people in front of u or around u...they will just respect u a lot and it will make u feel as if u have done a great job.

[@aakashsachdev4352]

You are adorably non avoidable person. Unintentionally I was busy in watching your pretty face and smile rather than listening to what you were saying ❤. I had to watch twice just to know the things that you were talking about 😃

[@raghavan23]

Your videos are amazing and have given me great clarity on navigating my 20s. While exploring your channel, I noticed many videos tailored for girls and women. If possible, could you post more content specifically for men in their early 20s on how to navigate life? It would be really helpful.

[@RaviKishan-gt4fl]

Di, i am 18 right now and had confusion about the next 10-12 years , but now i got clarity, thanks.

[@Ta_anii]

I will turn 20 next year I am so glad that I found your channel before all of this didu love you loads ❤

[@TribhuvanasriBhuvanagiri]

i am a girl who is slowly knowing how the world is going on.... next yr i would start my first internship aka job and ur tips felt like guidance to my life ....i literally felt like a long term development tips for my life.... kudos to u for speaking such things which actually matter a lot for others....thanku

[@srujanabs]

Thank you, I love you! The best video for people in 20s. Thanks for putting out such high value♥

[@namratamayeedash7303]

Your videos really help me alot. I had really fucked up my life till now, so is this mother universe's sign because Next year I'm going to be 20 :)

[@SunehraTabassum-sx2dh]

Hi adete. I love your videos. I m 19 and i will turn 20 next month, i am currently doing a remote job which is very flexible and i am learning new skills as well. But i liked that how you mentioned that we dont need to figure out everything all at once and trust the process. Ps: this thin eyeliner suits you more than your previous eyeliner style.😍

[@Mysterygirl02-z5p]

Thank you sister 😊. I wish I would have known this in my teen days before approaching 20's. But it's never let to mend. 😂. But a person who has gone through this stage can only guide me in the mental stage which I am going through.Feeling blessed to get a mentor like you. With lots of love from this little sister ❤❤

[@guraseessingh8131]

Hey I'm a 22 yr old, I just completed this video and firstly I'd like to tell that you're just "AMAZING" and your content has helped me alot in learning new things, realizing what i was doing wrong and also realizing what i was doing was actually right an not fall for what that "Bhaiya" or "Didi" was saying But i wanted to give a review on this video that in my opinion it's better to make either a shorter video or include 5-7 points in a 30 min video and include other points as a subpoint because in my experience that make people more concentrated to what you're saying and we'll be able to enjoy and understand what you're saying in a much better way, having so many points in a single long video made me and few of my friends a little confused by the end of the video and is not that engaging! At the end I'd like to say again, I really "LOVE" you content and I wish the best for you :)

[@Embracing_Impermanance]

I am 29 still I think these guidelines are very useful for me, i am working on them I think I am on the right path Thank you

[@MisbaShaikh-o7w]

Literally, i cannot express adete di how much of a grateful i am to you, you are like literally the best helping hand for us people, i really really like your content and value you instill on us, hoping to be like you one day, you are my inspiration adete di. Lots of love from me . Keep going better, keep providing these values and information❤❤❤❤❤ I am 19 years old girl and so grateful to find you and your channel. 😊😊😊

[@Sahana1991]

Great insights Adete ❤ I really liked the stress on getting resilient.. it’s a highly desirable skill to attain.. I must say

[@anshikapandey5546]

You're amazing😊😊I am 20yr old and always thinking about my career and today I feel very bad...but your video help me a lot....❤❤Thank you...❤❤

[@realsahilshah]

When I see your content, I think about the struggles you would have faced before reaching at this level of clarity in your life which reflects in the quality of your videos. Thank you for sharing and enlightening.

[@AdeteDahiya]

❤️❤️❤️

[@sanjanadesai6827]

The content is genuinely very helpful but the organised editing makes it even more attractive to watch the video.

[@AdeteDahiya]

Glad you think so!

[@prathiushak7152]

Thank you so much, Adete ❤ I'm in my 20s and this is exactly what I need right now. Your insights are incredibly valuable and I feel at peace knowing that not everyone has it all figured out. I've been rushing to get my career sorted, but I'd love to see a more detailed video on trading time for money. It's a deep-seated conditioning imposed by our society.

[@kiddish18]

I was planning to message my date if we can continue speaking even though i feel there will not be any reciprocation. Looking at this video helped me in getting a sense of ethics and do not be customizing or downsizing for someone just to chase attention and happiness. Deep down i know I might get hurt. Thanks for this !

[@HarshitaTripathi_9]

I'm 20 certainly I needed this didu

[@shrutiranjan0511]

Your videos are really like cheat code for life 😊 I like the video but your videos explaining a single topic in detail are the best ones ❤ I'll request you to make more of those videos 😉

[@sabeekrahman007]

Growth comes from comfort...🙌🙌

[@aayushichaubey3415]

Learning how to communicate. This was an advice I didn't know I needed. I would love to see a video on it soon.

[@sumayramayabi3322]

I've been watching your videos since last month and the more I'm watching, the more I'm liking your contents. I like the way you explain everything to us just like an elder sister. In a very short time you’ve become one of my favourite content creator's. Thank you so much and good wishes for you. Love from Bangladesh ❤️

[@Kalyanigautam21]

22, failed ventures, poor heath, confusion , Thankyou so much

[@Citizenofyoutube]

You're literally me🥲

[@Kalyanigautam21]

@@sk55559 Pcod and other things are yet to be diagnosed 💟

[@linaaaheyaaa]

About to get 20, thanks again for showing up exactly when I needed to hear this. Love you girl!! ❤❤❤

[@LakshmiPriyaNaiduT]

Hello Adete didi. The whole video was so beautifully carried out and each point you explained were so related. Thank you for this content.

[@ShivamYadav-v5o]

really loving your advice❤ and want to become like u can u please make a video how u to get to that point in your life and business i am 21 years old interested in business not know how to start so want to learn from your experience please make video on your journey really i will be very thankful for that

[@srishtiraheja174]

Truth Bombs in a guided and aligned way, Thankyou Adete for this!❤

[@Nikita_Thakur-c7s]

It is amazing Chanel I ever see Thank you so much for your guidance ✨🎀

[@manjitshortsm2shorts821]

Thank you didi ❤ for such valuable insights , I have recently entered to my twenties and these valuable insights help me to grow in life and achieve my goals.

[@reflexologie.plantaire.8460]

Girl, I listened to your video out of curiosity, and your advice is soooo good. Hope many young women will take it into account 👍✨

[@AdeteDahiya]

Thank you so much!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@ADITIY259]

Thankyou so much❤️🔱🧿🦚

[@anithaanu5370]

I am 27 year girl watching u r videos since 3 months it's really helpful to me❤ selfcare so many... this concept of video amazing

[@pjslnk5]

You always deliver what I need at the moment thanks sista 💖

[@jitishagupta5361]

Hi Adete!🥰 A VIDEO SUGGESTION- Can you please list down or even great if you could make a video on the topic “Sources from where you get knowledge” For eg: In this video you mentioned that you like reading about space and deep ocean so I’m curious what are you reading and from where did you got that source material? I would love to know what podcasts or articles or books you are reading!! Or another thing, you can make a monthly favourites video about 5 things you learnt this month and how did you learn it PROs 1. It will motivate you to learn more 2. And even we’ll be benefitted from your learnings Just a suggestion! Thank you for all you do🥰love you and your content! Keep growing🚀

[@skincarerainbow4950]

You can google it for eg:- best books on ocean , best books on space. Or you can google like this, which are the best books on space and ocean would you recommend.. something like this. I do the same

[@spandansahs8816]

I am 21 and having issues with time management since I get carried away watching series. A small request: please make a video on how to develop time management skills

[@ravikirannayak3884]

This helped me,29 now.

[@jigyashasinha]

Di Honestly speaking You have motivated me a lot I'm a 16 year old brown skinned girl And my family has always made me hate myself because of my skintone But idk why you made me feel good about myself even you have not addressed brown girlies But thank you Now I have started to work on myself so much I'm a jee asprint and I'm studying hard to become independent asap as I live in a very toxic household like I can't express in words And I have also started to exercise And I have also started to work on my skin also as I have some skin issues Thank you so much❤❤ And yeah if possible make a video on brown girls too Lots of love to you❤❤❤

[@manisaray8707]

Proud of you girl❤

[@sreelakshmiradhakrishnan2974]

You go girl!!!Proud of you❤

[@Mansi_02]

Hi Adete, thank you for your wise words..keep growing 💗 yes, we need more information to grow financially and manage money

[@c.v.siddesh]

I'm in early 20s, I got excellent view and idea about my feature what should do and don't. Every 30 points you have explained here is amazing and necessary insights for 20s. Thanks for sharing ❤...

[@arrowmini7122]

hey adete thank you for this video! extremely helpful. Would love to see a video on how to bring value/money to the table!

[@aadesh4913]

Please di, make a video on social anxiety, social awkward and how to improve it and overcome it🙏🏻❤️lots of love! Love these videos:)

[@anukritijangra]

hey adete , off topic but your eyeliner here looks soooooo good . i just wanted to say this once . and always always thankful to your videos , knowing that i still have time is such a burden off my chest and yes i will win .

[@SinghgamingL]

@@anukritijangra eyeliner? Ye kya hota है?

[@anukritijangra]

@@SinghgamingLthe black liner on her eyes is what I’m saying

[@anukritijangra]

Canttt believe she liked my commenttttt 😭😭😭

[@coralgalaxy544]

26 here.. I could relate to so many points i learnt so far ❤

[@namitakumari3978]

Thank you Adete di for making this video... I'm 22 nd this video gonna really helping me out. ❤ Please make a video on how positive affirmations/ positive talk nd visualization of goals help in to fullfill the dreams ✨

[@pubalichaudhuri1478]

Such an enriching video with a fresh perspective. Love your content.

[@sudiptadas6735]

Will be coming back to this many more times to refresh and realign!

[@Santhosha483]

Di also post a video, on how to celebrate impactful birthdays or what should the affirmations every birthday should look like in 20s. Plz post it, I have birthday on 23rd of September. Hope you will consider this❤

[@priyagounder3478]

I turned 23 a week ago and idk why but I feel lost in life with no purpose sometimes I feel wanna do everything that’s come and sometime I don’t feel between this I’m stuck Dk what I should I do which career path should I choose and now a days seeing social media feels this life has all the luxury day by day it’s getting tough watching people buying house car at my age living their life making me doubt when I will achieve all of these , just stuck 23 feels like 33

[@SiddhiJangamVlogs]

So true

[@HJHarsh-d8g]

Are you working

[@RakhiRoy-i4b]

Thanks for making this video its really help a lot

[@shruti_naik]

Just wanna say THANK YOU for such insightful advice!🤗

[@BadrinathBudhadeb]

Stop chasing happiness, start chasing fulfillment. This is very important: do what is important not what is comfortable.

[@lekshmiskumar6676]

You're such an inspiration dear.. love from Kerala

[@gwenny2272]

Please do the communication video which you mentioned :))

[@codingchamp5577]

I always admire your content. Thankyou for sharing ❤

[@preetilambachugh36]

Much love Adete.❤ Please make a video on how to make money from home after leaving job. Also, how to overcome everything and finally start posting on KZbin.

[@aaratinandre]

Thanks ❤. I really needed to hear this 🌻

[@vaishnavisingh3335]

I think I saw a similar video and took notes from Kritika khurana's video which I would like to share here might help other girlies. Þ 30 THINGS I'VE LEARNED AT 30: KRITIKA KHURANA's 1. You don't have to be best at everything 2. Sunscreen is more important than you think 3. Dogs are the best source of positive energy 4. Friendship break ups are fine 5. Less make up is actually better, have a fixed make up look. 6. It's okay to change your opinions, it means you're evolving 7. Find happiness in small things 8. Workout 9. Just because everyone likes it, you don't have to like it 10. Don't expect people to understand your pain and trauma 11. Listen to Taylor swift, this point was weird :) 12. Confidence comes from showing up 13. No one's happy all the time 14. Carry a notebook with you 15. Start your skincare early 16. You can never have enough watermelon, this point was so random ngl:/ 17. Ask yourself: will this matter in 5 years? more often 18. Go on a solo trip 19. Most of the times people are winging it, some people are faking it. 20. Save up and invest early 21. Life is not fair all the time and you have to be okay with it 22. Meet new people 23. Never stop learning 24. If you feel you're in the wrong story, get up and leave. Find which atmosphere suits you well. 25. F.R.I.E.N.D.S is the most comforting show 26. Never stop complimenting people 27. Social media detox is necessary 28. You don't have to change everything about yourself 29. You don’t have to be productive all the time 30. Time heals everything. 31. Never stop getting to know about yourself.

[@sakshikarn2624]

thank you adete i love all your videos . they are so helpful . thankyou .❤❤❤❤

[@dewdrops001]

Your content has such a huge impact!!!

[@AarohiShivali]

You're truly a life saviour 💓 Thank you thank you so much Adete di for everything 💓 Keep shining & growing moree day by day 🥰💓🧿

[@shreeshree8520]

Yay ! You are here ❤

[@fairytale3781]

Stop chasing happiness, start chasing fulfilment ☺❤

[@neetaspirant1542]

Today's I completed my 20th birthday and I got this video ...this is really amazing and gives a lot of information to start my forward journey....❤

[@AdeteDahiya]

Happy Birthday ❤️

[@neetaspirant1542]

@@AdeteDahiya Thanks🥰

[@ZYASO-n3c]

Time is My everything

[@rashmipatel.]

Thank you for the video adete❤ it's really helpful 😊

[@Miyani-h4f]

Hello ma'am. Would you please like to tell us that a lot of the times, when i have seeked the feedback from people then nobody responded so in that case how do we follow them up politely? So would u plz like to make a video on how do i speak professionally what are the keywords to use and how do we remain mindful of things because i mostly rely on past. I really like ur videos. It really boosts my confidence where i was lacking

[@malatimurmu7096]

Hi Adete, I have a request. Please make a video on point no. 27. I think it's a kind of topic which needs to be spoke about and I am really curious to know more about it. I will be highly greatful if you do that. Lots of love from West Bengal

[@nayanikasaha3860]

Thank a lot di your videos really helps me very much 😊

[@DeepthiAswini]

You are awesome ❤ Inspiring us with every single video. Thankyou 🤗

[@ProductiveAESTHETIC]

In whatever age you are you have to follow these steps to get to your goal.

[@jan26597]

Thank you Adete 🌷

[@simranyadav3789]

Thank you adete didi for making this video❤. I am 22 years now and Idk what's my dream. Everyone around hai figure out what they want in their life. I used to feel like looser. I am someone who is graduated and still jobless from last year. I really don't know what I want in my life.

[@AdeteDahiya]

And that is completely okay, you will figure it out ❤️

[@sakshi816]

What was your subject in graduation

[@simranyadav3789]

@@AdeteDahiya I hope so, I figure out things .

[@simranyadav3789]

@@sakshi816 Btech computer science

[@shrutikawaghmode122]

@@simranyadav3789Are you jobless because you don’t know what to do or its because lack of confidence in your graduation subject? Because i have done btech in CS.. i was like you who didn’t know what to do.. so tried many different things like banking and upsc etc. Although i cleared some, i still think is this what i want? I still feel like i don’t know what i want. now i think i should have invested time in learning skills in CS and till now i would have earned in 12-15lpa. So better do something, do not sit thinking and figuring.. you would figure out some things while doing something else. I hope this helps…

[@rushdakhan1506]

Thanks a ton for this video indeed very helpful but apart from this you're looking absolute gorgeous in this video ❤❤