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Dee’s African perspective

Dee’s African perspective

Күн бұрын

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@saininj
@saininj 29 күн бұрын
It costs at least $100 to step outside. Honestly, not worth it.
@Vovin999
@Vovin999 29 күн бұрын
Round here its about $250 to step outside.
@justinebailey5333
@justinebailey5333 29 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@p.gizzle90
@p.gizzle90 29 күн бұрын
Riiiiight, and I hope ppl factor in the gas bc depending what u drive that’s damn near the *whole $100* if u topping off!😅
@gemartsiha
@gemartsiha 28 күн бұрын
At all…💯💯💯
@chrisstephenson8311
@chrisstephenson8311 26 күн бұрын
Going to the grocery store costs me $120 when I go out, for just me and my 2 cats🤦🏼‍♂️ so yeah I don’t go out other than to the store and work🤷🏼‍♂️
@indigojes
@indigojes 29 күн бұрын
44 here, I go to work and back home to get back under my blankets💁🏽‍♀️
@SCFLEUR
@SCFLEUR 27 күн бұрын
Exactly. I don’t know where you are, but especially now that the weather is cooling down. This is prime stay inside watching a movie or something weather.
@kemikyja4star421
@kemikyja4star421 26 күн бұрын
Girl!! SAME!!!!! 😂
@lahlahluv8380
@lahlahluv8380 26 күн бұрын
Me: 🙋🏽‍♀️
@teeeteee000
@teeeteee000 18 күн бұрын
Yessss!!! I look forward to doing just that every single day!!! 😂
@sherocks9654
@sherocks9654 9 күн бұрын
Thought it was just me
@TrueMiThompson
@TrueMiThompson 29 күн бұрын
I’m 46 years old I don’t go out anymore, eat out once in a while save my money for vacations and true experiences.
@pablodelsegundo9502
@pablodelsegundo9502 29 күн бұрын
I'm slightly older than you and came to that conclusion about 8 years ago. The pandemic more or less made that my permanent mode, and I'm fine with it. Trips to the shooting range or a movie once a month is the most of it. I used to make it to a concert once a year, but the costs of that now are ridiculous, so nah.
@TrueMiThompson
@TrueMiThompson 29 күн бұрын
@@pablodelsegundo9502 I wholeheartedly concur!! 😁😁
@GrantDiva
@GrantDiva 27 күн бұрын
Very wise ❤
@babyg7796
@babyg7796 29 күн бұрын
Going out used to be fun when you could really let lose and not be in fear of being recorded or judged & could literally get super drunk for less than $40. Everyone was there for one purpose…make new friend and let loose!! Whether you were drinking or not, that was a super fun space to be in. There literally wasn’t 1 bored person in the entire vicinity. That’s the difference…
@Mini-ge9sm
@Mini-ge9sm 29 күн бұрын
Exactly, now everyone has a phone. Nobody dancing together or talking, just on the cell phone. I go out but museums, movies, shows l, road trips. Other than nice experiences I rather be home reading a book.
@justinebailey5333
@justinebailey5333 29 күн бұрын
Yass
@Purplelemon5033
@Purplelemon5033 27 күн бұрын
@@Mini-ge9smI go out and do free stuff. I joined a tree hugging group, I do mud larking, forest walking, ghost hunting, fossil hunting,drawing/painting,Im a member of the national trust so can visit lots of historical places and gardens . I take a picnic and flasks of coffee wherever I go. Much more fun than sitting in a pub paying £10 a time for a glass of wine surrounded by people on their phones. If I want a drink I’ll by a bottle from the supermarket for a £5 instead 😂
@gemartsiha
@gemartsiha 28 күн бұрын
I need to be back in the house by 9pm on the hour so I can get ready for bed. That’s how old I am 😂😂😂
@melanie9425
@melanie9425 25 күн бұрын
Me too!😂😂😅
@Hersheydimples
@Hersheydimples 29 күн бұрын
No money, so I stay home.
@Stillthatgirl.
@Stillthatgirl. 29 күн бұрын
This is why I don’t want any “new” friends people are so expensive !!!and they literally don’t understand you can’t afford it. And its not like old times where you invite people over and cook and watch a show. All of my bills are paid and I’m at peace working on a higher salary GOODBYE 😂 I’m even waiting to date, because looking extra good cost money too!!
@malcolmhodnett8874
@malcolmhodnett8874 29 күн бұрын
Nah cooking at home and watching something with company is still the move
@Kiyonce.Kartier
@Kiyonce.Kartier 29 күн бұрын
All of this!!
@Professor__S
@Professor__S 28 күн бұрын
I've been saying this for years lol!. Why go out and spend $200 for a steak at a resturant, $100 on a bottle of wine and $50 on an uber.. why do that when I can cook the same steak on an open firepit, smoke a cigar or blunt, play whatever music I want and no have to worry about parking. All that and probably save half the money😂
@MelanatednNature
@MelanatednNature 12 күн бұрын
Right
@Ytorisv
@Ytorisv 9 күн бұрын
Makes sense to me.
@Lolaloveslemons
@Lolaloveslemons 29 күн бұрын
Why is the only option when going out the bar? Do we not have creative hobbies anymore? Your local rec center, library, church, ect haslvenfun stuff thats free. The bingo hall near me recently booked a bowling hall, provided game cards, food, and drinks for the community absolutely free. I can always find some free or cheap activities and the people I invite are always ready for the next adventure 🤷🏽‍♀️ My boyfriend got me a telescope and now we go places to use it. We recently went kayaking downtown for 30 bucks total. Recreational sports keep you active and are fun for all ages! Paint at the park, read an adventure novel, discover new places you never payed attention to, do anything that brings you happiness. Joy belongs to everyone!
@Maxed2
@Maxed2 29 күн бұрын
I'm thinking most of these people are living in mostly bigger cities.
@jbar_85
@jbar_85 28 күн бұрын
Or park downtown and do a building architectural walk!
@Gkrissy
@Gkrissy 28 күн бұрын
I like her ideas exactly. I like painting and watching plays and small town concerts, game nights at home with friends.
@phactress891
@phactress891 27 күн бұрын
This is really what my friends and I do. We are not party people. We are painting, card game, nature walk, homemade pizza, and book club people. And that's the way I like it.
@tallglasscocoa6105
@tallglasscocoa6105 29 күн бұрын
When the pandemic came, we were forced to stay home. Then we found out we love staying at home.
@KAWTELENUH
@KAWTELENUH 29 күн бұрын
Speak for yourself. I love traveling to different countries and trying new foods.
@tallglasscocoa6105
@tallglasscocoa6105 29 күн бұрын
@@KAWTELENUH That's a dream job I would love to have.
@Gkrissy
@Gkrissy 28 күн бұрын
@@KAWTELENUHI like this too but I also love nature and being outside in my yard and at home.
@Niona_Shashai
@Niona_Shashai 24 күн бұрын
@@KAWTELENUHI'm not brave enough for that. You gone head now 🎉
@ruthhouston9860
@ruthhouston9860 23 күн бұрын
I was like that before the pandemic.
@terrellbrathwaite5689
@terrellbrathwaite5689 29 күн бұрын
We grew up watching music videos of a party culture that disappeared as we came of age. Plus bottle package culture ruined clubs.
@saininj
@saininj 29 күн бұрын
Not me as a naive child singing, 🎶"I knew my rent was gon' be late about a week ago. I worked my ass off But I still can't pay it though."🎶 😂😭
@Gkrissy
@Gkrissy 28 күн бұрын
@@saininjI like that Neyo😂 song. But they don’t play music or make music like this anymore so I don’t club.
@Ash_th3l1ght_
@Ash_th3l1ght_ 27 күн бұрын
It’s not just the economy, but places have become so overpopulated with ppl. The highways are always filled with bumper to bumper traffic. The restaurants have tables so close together that you can literally hear someone’s conversation as if you’re included in it. Also, people look you up and down to see what fashion brands you’re wearing. Customer service is hit or miss. Every time you meet someone new out and about, the conversation feels more like an interview. If you’re not doing x,y,z in life, you’re not important. There’s a huge disconnect. Lastly, ppl can’t stay off of their phones to enjoy being in the present. Everything feels like an advertisement. Modern society has declined into a 💩 show, I’m over it ✌🏾
@157ninasky
@157ninasky 25 күн бұрын
Yes to all of this!! Things have changed and not for the better.
@atouchofclass7388
@atouchofclass7388 29 күн бұрын
Been there, done that, over it lol. besides, no one wants to talk about the things that really matter
@Kiyonce.Kartier
@Kiyonce.Kartier 29 күн бұрын
I never leave my house anymore. I work, go home, home and work. I’m exhausted and broke lmao everything I need to be comfortable is at home. Tf I need to leave my comfort zone for?
@SwagPapi768
@SwagPapi768 27 күн бұрын
Canceling plans or having them fall through gives me the same kind of joy as waking up on a school day after it’s snowed and finding out school has been canceled.
@NicksHEAT1995
@NicksHEAT1995 29 күн бұрын
Anyone, unless they rich, who is a middle aged parent be fucked. DON'T have kids, especially now.
@TheHonestTruth369
@TheHonestTruth369 29 күн бұрын
People really don't put much thought at all into having kids, i honestly have come to the conclusions that most humans were just accidents from two parties simply wanting to get their rocks off, unintended, most are not physically, mentally, emotionally or financially ready for kids but when the "happy" accident comes people just pretend it was planned or a blessing or whatever cop out is necessary to not consider the true repercussions of their actions. It's honestly boggles the minds, maybe it's just that strong a biological program, haven't felt the need to foster life knowing full well the depths of depravity this world has to offer, i understand that pain is inevitable and it yields growth, i respect that but bringing a child into this world when you yourself are a child is darn evil if you ask me, double so if you know you're just perpetuating the same woes onto your kin.
@NicksHEAT1995
@NicksHEAT1995 28 күн бұрын
@@TheHonestTruth369 Well said. Agreed.
@marissa._
@marissa._ 28 күн бұрын
​@@TheHonestTruth369 Nope. Pain doesn't yield growth. Pain yields more pain. A person shouldn't have to go through pain to "grow."
@Ytorisv
@Ytorisv 9 күн бұрын
Women still birthing babies in poverty.
@thecosmicsoulpodcast9153
@thecosmicsoulpodcast9153 28 күн бұрын
That second girl needs boundaries like yesterday.
@cbreeze123
@cbreeze123 29 күн бұрын
I relate to every single one of these people. They are all versions of what I’m going through.
@LittleMissSunshine721
@LittleMissSunshine721 27 күн бұрын
Just paid my car note and have less money in my accounts than I care to disclose until next week. 😅 I hibernated all day, made my meals at home, and really just chilled. No regrets. Sometimes, you just gotta save money (and stress) by sheltering in place.
@Francis.Rivers
@Francis.Rivers 29 күн бұрын
Yeah not worth to go out anymore. They upcharge everything and ask for TIPS!! 😵
@Ytorisv
@Ytorisv 9 күн бұрын
Bottled water is $15. Stupid shyt.
@dapperlygrungy3189
@dapperlygrungy3189 29 күн бұрын
I wouldn't go out either. I understand people need an outlet to escape from their 9-5, but the cost of going out is too expensive. Stay home and have people over. Do a BYOB and pot luck. Its just as fun going over a friend's house when you have the right group of friends.
@RahYisrael99
@RahYisrael99 25 күн бұрын
It's more fun and probably safer.
@TheAbxgirl
@TheAbxgirl 29 күн бұрын
Also crime and mass shootings have caused a fear for many in public spaces
@lolitah8560
@lolitah8560 29 күн бұрын
This! My mind is always on edge about all the horrific possibilities of what could happen when out and about
@07ikkin
@07ikkin 27 күн бұрын
I think about this during holidays or events for POC, due to rampant racism
@firztladywalker2045
@firztladywalker2045 29 күн бұрын
I was supposed to go out tonight...I just got dressed, got undressed and laid down. 😊 I love this for me
@Deeafricanperspective
@Deeafricanperspective 29 күн бұрын
😅oh I love it for you too
@lgee9027
@lgee9027 27 күн бұрын
Im planning to go out two weeks from now😂😂😂😂 picking out my outfit in advance
@alexandergonzie1200
@alexandergonzie1200 28 күн бұрын
I was never interested in this going out and partying crap at any age, I've always loathed parties where there was drinking too. People get weird and creepy when they're drunk.
@kaylawaters2691
@kaylawaters2691 28 күн бұрын
Same. And i always liked sleep too much to be interested in partying. I also don't drink, don't smoke, and don't do drugs.
@1994haphuong
@1994haphuong 28 күн бұрын
Can someone just step up and tell their friends sorry because he or she does not have time, energy, or money? It is okay to say no
@unicorn73212
@unicorn73212 24 күн бұрын
Yep because some of these places look like you have to be rich just to hang out there or sometimes you'll see a group of senior citizens at the outsiders bench having lunch. Sometimes they even bring they're dog so it makes you feel lonely at Christmas time of your an adult with no family. They don't make you feel welcome there I don't believe it's 250 dollars probably more like 47 and 20 for the drinks but if you go by yourself they would make you feel awkward like you're not welcome they're without a fancy car or escort. It's better just to get take out or groceries and go home.
@kolyxix
@kolyxix 29 күн бұрын
Come on people, going out doesnt always mean partying and hitting the club.
@CreativepreneurJourney
@CreativepreneurJourney 29 күн бұрын
I like to drink at home 🏡 than the bar.
@Deeafricanperspective
@Deeafricanperspective 29 күн бұрын
Cheaper and stronger and at home lol
@kurtrinamckinnon4214
@kurtrinamckinnon4214 28 күн бұрын
Same here
@modernviewer
@modernviewer 26 күн бұрын
Safer too
@enahayes1
@enahayes1 28 күн бұрын
The girl crying at the 2 minute mark, just say NO! you can’t be forced into Anything! sounds like she’s trying to keep up with the friends, why??? 🙄
@RahYisrael99
@RahYisrael99 25 күн бұрын
She's not secure enough to say no and mean it. She doesn't want to lose her friends. But if she loses them they aren't her friends.
@msJjbluematrix
@msJjbluematrix 29 күн бұрын
Everything they are saying I can relate to. For me its the phone thing. Everyone wants to put you online when all you want to do is have fun
@TheHonestTruth369
@TheHonestTruth369 29 күн бұрын
Yea, no cash so no experiences, not about going out and 'partying' just genuine adventurous experiences but can't do such without paper so :/
@Vovin999
@Vovin999 29 күн бұрын
Same. Idc about drinking. I wanna be adventurous but I literally can’t afford gas to go anywhere other than work 5 days a week.
@TheHonestTruth369
@TheHonestTruth369 29 күн бұрын
I think it's the same for most, paycheck to paycheck living, well existing, very few by virtue of good financial decisions, luck or being born into the right family can afford the luxury to truly be free, we're just cogs and we know it, billions of us can agree it's sick but not one of us can do a dam to chnage it, idk guys, is all we can do watch KZbin videos lulling us into a false sense of comfort that we're not the only slaves? Of course there is a solution to end all problems but such solution is either seen as wrong, weak or other negative adjectives and or it would affect those we still care for so we hold out, pretending we want to be here, existing, just existing, knowing full well this is no life, a falsehood, but we literally haven't the power to do anything to change it, honestly I'd sell my soul just to have 1 day without woes, without thinking about the fact that I'm sinking and no matter how hard i try to swim my demise is an inevitability i already see coming but try i still.
@p.gizzle90
@p.gizzle90 29 күн бұрын
My favorite place is home. So idc about going out. Just every now & again.
@ZurieRae
@ZurieRae 25 күн бұрын
No foreal, I stay home to avoid spending money. Although I have been enjoying free walks in the park
@peaceandquiet1983
@peaceandquiet1983 27 күн бұрын
Woman @ 3:52 is hilarious and correct! I pay for basic food, the house, and utilities. That is the fun weekend.
@CrepuscularQueen
@CrepuscularQueen 26 күн бұрын
I'm at college age (I don't do any stereotypical college kid activities), and this makes me so grateful I grew up poor and know how to have fun without money. I have a friend where we plan tea time. We go on long walks and watch shows together on free streaming services or share each other's dvds to watch movies together. We literally don't spend a whole lot or any money to enjoy each others company and have no plans for the future to incorporate drugs/alcohol/bars. We're lucky we can walk to the library, and to each others houses. The library has more movies to watch, art exibits, and other people gathering activities. At some point, we had a dnd group, too. Also not very expensive because I just shared dice from my friends collection. I'm not going to take my inexpensive social life for granted. I just feel bad for those older than me who were conditioned in this way to spend money to hang out, and hanging out has to have alcohol for some reason.
@TheRehabKat
@TheRehabKat 29 күн бұрын
I'm thinking about attending a Ren Faire this weekend , got an outfit and everything, but, checking the bank so much, I am not so sure. I think a lot of my anxiety for people has gone up as well. Not even just because of people being wild or dangerous really, but, every where you turn, people are just out of it and don't pay attention. They're completely checked out and dont even regard those around them and it's very frustrating. I can't be the only one to notice that...Zombie like, not even clubbing. Just ..everywhere. Shopping, work, etc.My patience has just ran so thin and I'm only almost 30.
@mariancounsellor
@mariancounsellor 29 күн бұрын
I live alone and I work a lot of hours every week so if I didn't go out and do fun things, what would be the thing to look forward to? I like getting out to meet people, to experience nice environments, to be social etc. Yes, it costs money but to me, it's worth it. I do save up for things though because that's the only way I can eat out, take short breaks, do activities with friends and family.
@qay7586
@qay7586 28 күн бұрын
Right? It’s so fun to be out in the world sometimes. I get sad being stuck inside too long
@reebj8540
@reebj8540 29 күн бұрын
I love cancelations and staying home. Please don't feel bad for not inviting me lol
@Urby_urby
@Urby_urby 28 күн бұрын
I became a SAHM when our son was born & at least we can enjoy our home. Our bills don’t seem as bad now bc me & my son are actually using them. When hubby & I both worked full time - the bills & rent felt like such a waste. My “fun time” is going to Aldi 😂 and even then - it’s budgeted…
@qay7586
@qay7586 28 күн бұрын
My fun time is Marshall’s and dollar tree lol
@susiefairfield7218
@susiefairfield7218 28 күн бұрын
when my kids were little; going out to the store was a treat.. they give kiddos a free cookie at the bakery at Publix and we have fun with who gets to put the quarter in the cart at Aldi’s .. its making the little things fun and big in the moment raised two kids on hand me downs and riding bikes there’s a internet program for low income families that is only $9.95 a month called Internet Essentials, it’s low but affordable
@BEAUTYFUL18
@BEAUTYFUL18 28 күн бұрын
ME AND MY HUSBAND USED TO THROW BBQ AND PARTIES AT OUR HOUSE. AND I COOK ALOT. HAD A BAR TO IN OUR HOUSE. NOBODY NEEDED TO GO OUT NO WERE. 😂
@HSKNN16
@HSKNN16 29 күн бұрын
I'm 26 now and I stopped going out. You can see everything online for free at home. As long as your bills/rent are paid. Obvs everyone different. A lot people still go out because they have nothing else to spend their money on.
@rolandmarkland6844
@rolandmarkland6844 27 күн бұрын
Get out and get some vitamin D from the sun at the very least.
@dacianbonta2840
@dacianbonta2840 28 күн бұрын
@2:35 the tearless beagle squeal ... classic
@tippytoe1250
@tippytoe1250 29 күн бұрын
I love being home. If I didn’t have kids I wouldn’t leave my house if I didn’t have to. But I have to try and give them a good childhood.
@aranara_song
@aranara_song 29 күн бұрын
I've never enjoyed going out. I'm early 20s but I can't express to you how much I'd rather stay home. It would be different if going out didn't always involve drinking to some extent. I like drinking, but I always stop at tipsy, I do not enjoy getting drunk. It's also not to say that I don't enjoy partying but it's occasionally. I'm not going out every day, maybe it's to do with being neurodivergent but I'd be genuinely mentally exhausted if I were to go out so many days in a row. I'd rather be at home with my books and games and if that makes me lame then idc lmao. I'll die a happy grandma
@unicorn73212
@unicorn73212 24 күн бұрын
That's refreshing because I see a group of 20 something lined up at the bar the other day in mini skirts I think it was some kind of night club because the girls were wearing mini skirts and tub tops and I just had my sweater and jeans on I was mad some of them looked like little dork with glasses on one of them almost bumped into me when I was trying to cross the street. It's not a good location to set up a club like that because bums sit on the bench across the street. One of dude's cussed at me and I knew I had to get home. Cool chicks would never hang out in a teeny hopper clubs I don't like it because sometimes they let the 18 year olds in. They need a club for adults over 35.
@PrimericanIdol
@PrimericanIdol 29 күн бұрын
When I say "doing something", I mean getting things done, not going out and becoming more broke.
@scorpioseason3868
@scorpioseason3868 29 күн бұрын
Just don't drink. Go out but don't touch the spirits
@ChronicRachel643
@ChronicRachel643 29 күн бұрын
My people!!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@4CQueen
@4CQueen 29 күн бұрын
The club has been played out for about 10 years now. When I have the money, I'll hit the casino & that's about twice a year.
@ElbertJudkins
@ElbertJudkins 29 күн бұрын
Yea u not suppose to have an emotional breakdown before u go out with friends just don't go bookie u got nothing to prove u can do chill things me I like doing like orcastra performances and art exhibits we need to go do grown people things
@o_o8203
@o_o8203 29 күн бұрын
That video was so wild 😭 like it's not that deep unless she feels like the only reasons they're friends is cuz they go out together 👀
@Ashleyantoinette-vq7kc
@Ashleyantoinette-vq7kc 28 күн бұрын
😂😂😂 now I don’t feel so bad.
@Butterfly1798
@Butterfly1798 26 күн бұрын
Some people don’t realize how negative they can be with certain things. It’s great to stay home but also get up and take a walk outside
@RahYisrael99
@RahYisrael99 25 күн бұрын
They aren't speaking of outside in the fresh air. They mean outside at the bar, club, etc.
@tharpeaddy
@tharpeaddy 29 күн бұрын
I used to be homeless. Which means I had to always be out lol. I kept being laid off left and right back in 2018 when my ex took our kid and slept around with other dudes. So I had to learn how to budget how to be an adult…because I had no one…just me… Now I’m no longer homeless. I save invest don’t eat out at all… So now I look forward to work investing getting paid shopping for things that benefit me… Being homeless changed my entire existence… I know I don’t need relationships in order to succeed at life. I know I need water not a woman. I know I need god not a woman… I know I need money in order to survive and thrive not a woman…lol I don’t need the homies to buy stocks…I can buy stocks being single like I have been for almost a decade…
@RahYisrael99
@RahYisrael99 25 күн бұрын
2:50 Aww Precious. You are in a different space than your friends. It's ok to say "no." It's a complete sentence. You need to regroup and reevaluate some things.
@nadanalia3000
@nadanalia3000 19 күн бұрын
A lot of people who are chronically outside don’t have a very good home situation, which is sad.
@levelupgoddess9289
@levelupgoddess9289 26 күн бұрын
I wish I could go out every weekend but I also love being home (I’m in college plus I work). I go out once in awhile because it’s too expensive. One drink is $20 each PLUS they EXPECT tip. I buy my own drinks and drink at home most times. Staying home is cheaper. U want to go out but when u see the price, it’s not worth it.
@christines2047
@christines2047 28 күн бұрын
Okay but then there is this rut of being at home in bed clothes all weekend or filling your days with home tasks, which is good to get done but doesn't make you feel very pretty or lifted up.
@qay7586
@qay7586 28 күн бұрын
Exactly…I need to be out and experience even little things
@dmslater30
@dmslater30 25 күн бұрын
I just don't want too 😂 Every time I test it to see if I want to be outside. I want to go home. 1-2 hours and I'm struggling. When I get to my car🎉🎉🎉 the joy😊😂
@aaunyea4799
@aaunyea4799 17 күн бұрын
I don't drink, and i love staying home 😅 Home is my favorite place
@chinesefood2222
@chinesefood2222 29 күн бұрын
Just don’t drink. It’s not that hard. If you don’t want to, don’t.
@SantaBarbaraBiking
@SantaBarbaraBiking 29 күн бұрын
That woman that likes soda can just order a coke or sprite and pretend it's an alcoholic drink.
@Butterfly1798
@Butterfly1798 26 күн бұрын
Sometime you need to get out, local park or something! You don’t need to go to places that require more than 10 dollars
@love19851
@love19851 26 күн бұрын
I was the going out queen, now I make no plans ever unless it's vacation, I love being home
@shannonsollman3509
@shannonsollman3509 29 күн бұрын
Stay at home, no attractive people out anyhow, sadly you go to bars now and parents actually bring their kids and babies. Not fun sitting at the bar, and people sit right behind the bar with kids, instead of the tables further back in the restaurant. No worries about a DUI, and saving $$$=a win/win!
@Zucchini-Foster
@Zucchini-Foster 28 күн бұрын
Yes my husband and I have go through this . Everyone things were lame because we don’t drink or smoke . We build models have dance parties deep conversations funny conversations, what if conversations. Play dragon ball z are you kidding me that’s fun have you played the new dragon ball 🧐 no that’s why you’re lame ( excuse my English it’s not my first language)
@kaylawaters2691
@kaylawaters2691 28 күн бұрын
I don't drink, don't smoke, and don't do drugs either. Good for you. That kinda stuff isn't good for you.
@e113jelly6
@e113jelly6 26 күн бұрын
The only way I’ll go out is out the country to travel when I have the means to do so. I can’t stand my home town and don’t have the money nor do I know where I want to go to leave
@TheHonestTruth369
@TheHonestTruth369 29 күн бұрын
Honestly i think if there was a button to "exit game" in a clean and easy fashion, billions would glady push it and be free but we're not allowed to even exit gracefully without it affecting others so we hold forth, facade in hand while our soul dims to a faint memory.
@T.Harry79
@T.Harry79 29 күн бұрын
You can save so much money and cringe crying just by saying “No”.
@Deeafricanperspective
@Deeafricanperspective 29 күн бұрын
Yeap since i started learning to confidently say no my life has been better
@smartanajones4u
@smartanajones4u 29 күн бұрын
Starting at 9:55 that perfectly describes me to a “T” lol 😂
@21rarzate
@21rarzate 28 күн бұрын
And so they Say recesion is next year Idn what is this year
@Yirragee
@Yirragee 29 күн бұрын
I leave my home to spend cash to curb my loneliness 😢 No nightlife so only gambling. Its not like the 2000' s for sure.
@FaerieTidbits
@FaerieTidbits 27 күн бұрын
Just go to a coffee shop, cheap and way better vibes
@Yirragee
@Yirragee 27 күн бұрын
@slayfaee social anxiety and small town syndrome. Also multiple disabilities. Something only your own medicine can work. But I hear you. Coffees in australia are almost as much as a beer. That's over $5aud at least.
@pbj4338
@pbj4338 20 күн бұрын
I dont think people have that much energy, I mean a few maybe, I think its more of a distraction from life. I distraction from thinking about life
@07ikkin
@07ikkin 27 күн бұрын
7:54 she's talking to me. I treat myself to something small every once in a while. I wanted 2 pairs of new jeans 👖 👖(lost weight) but i was like, I'll wait a few more weeks.
@FaerieTidbits
@FaerieTidbits 27 күн бұрын
Decided to skip out on a concert(Cannons 😭) even though I love live music but I live somewhere now that it requires me to drive and stay the night at another city 2 hours away and apparently its sketchy over there esp downtown at night. Saved myself $300 tho including gas 😭
@weirdmyst7963
@weirdmyst7963 27 күн бұрын
I just spend $81 on parties alone. I’m just a kid. I don’t care who says In boring, In about to save for experiences. Crazy because I just started going out 1 year ago
@millabasset1710
@millabasset1710 29 күн бұрын
I had to ditch old friends from high school. I understand working and paying bills, but that excuse gets old when there's literally no effort at all. I had high school friends not call me for a period of 4 years, they act like it never happened. I had one moron not even check on me during the two hurricanes that recently hit Florida. Whenever I call him or message him, he's always saying "I got school and bills" Bro, you're 31 doing this, I did this at 19 and I still had time to enjoy my life. I worked 4 days a week part time while going to school 6 days a week. My parents have their own business, they're always working and find time to enjoy their lives. If you feel like you're being ghosted by certain people, just drop them. It's also cheap to simply hang out with someone, people think they need to spend hundreds a day just to have fun which isn't true.
@Allystargirl
@Allystargirl 29 күн бұрын
I just turned 21 in 2024, a few months ago, and bars and clubs are NOT what I expected them to be. Bruh I was born in 2003, my childhood music was fkn Brittney, Kesha, Katy Perry, pit bull, t pain, 2000’s- 2010’s pop music, crunk core, club scenes that’s how I THOUGHT it would be, going out with my friends and partying and letting lose when I finally came of age, but now I’m 21, and that shit just really doesn’t exist anymore. I don’t live in NYC or Hollywood, so I don’t have access to that experience. It’s literally the worst. All I got when I turned 21 was a fucking trash job market and economy and upcoming election and social culture AND NOT EVEN A GOOD CLUB OR BAR SCENE?! I’m hanging on by a thread 🫠 I am not doing ok
@Deeafricanperspective
@Deeafricanperspective 29 күн бұрын
It’s really sad😢 we just grew up hearing how good it use to be years and years ago but we’ve only seen bad expensive situations progress
@gp63
@gp63 29 күн бұрын
I'm 46 and did alot of clubbing 25 years ago. Unfortunately the best days of clubbing are behind us for your generation.
@karyn552003
@karyn552003 29 күн бұрын
I lived in Hollywood in the late 80s and early 90s. It was crazy and stupid, but it was so damn fun. I feel for you youngbloods. You got dealt a shitty hand and I don't blame you for being pissed.
@yeamore6324
@yeamore6324 28 күн бұрын
Being born in 2003 is wild 😂😂😂
@susiefairfield7218
@susiefairfield7218 28 күн бұрын
6:41 the best way to deal with any emotional “stuff” is to get up and exercise it off
@IJN.OK1
@IJN.OK1 27 күн бұрын
You know, II actually disagree with this. I think that you can go out without spending a $100 every time you go out. I think the problem is that the majority of people do not have enough financial discipline to not either overspend or commit themselves to things that they know they absolutely can't afford. That's number 1 number 2. There are things that you can actually do that. Don't cost you anything, especially if you are not a social drinker, not a drinker and you just don't engage in those type of activities, there are tons of things that you can do that won't cost you money number 3, if you are going to go out and socialize, start to pick activities. That are within your financial range, that is all it doesn't cost $100 to step outside. People are so attached to material things that they think that every time they have to go out to enjoy themselves, that it's going to cost them something, and it doesn't have to be that way
@drewtrulock333
@drewtrulock333 29 күн бұрын
Eh I live in a small town in Montana it's pretty bland and boring I don't mind staying home cause I actually have music and art I can work on I got plenty of stuff to do without going to town and dealing with a bunch of normies
@pisceanbeauty2503
@pisceanbeauty2503 24 күн бұрын
We have to normalize home entertaining again. It can be very affordable.
@trella695
@trella695 19 күн бұрын
@2:35 just stay at home wtf 😂
@AlbatrossWhisper
@AlbatrossWhisper 25 күн бұрын
Only time i go out is to make money.
@punnymoney3692
@punnymoney3692 29 күн бұрын
I'd like to do a whole lot more!! But i'd like to ahead on my goals and not be worried about rent, bills work ect when i do! If you're money is made i say go be silly! it's ok to be silly and have fun too!
@WildArtistsl
@WildArtistsl 25 күн бұрын
Been doing this for years its nothing revolutionary
@RellySmoove
@RellySmoove 29 күн бұрын
Ok so bro in the first clip had a point bout the food I’ve been there. Not proud ugh it. Btw by now even in my 30’s, I’ve already started this like oh God I constantly check my bank account because it ain’t nothing for a mf to go in the negative. Nasty efficient work
@Filmchica99
@Filmchica99 26 күн бұрын
2:58 humor left in 2020 im sure of it
@davedsilva
@davedsilva 29 күн бұрын
Older women 30+ should never feel bad about going out. Either enjoy your kids and just ask your husband to take you on a family trip as needed. We guys love that. If you don’t have a husband, good for you, but it might best to be practical and save your money for retirement.
@JackofAllTrades357
@JackofAllTrades357 29 күн бұрын
3:34 😂😂😂😂🤣
@joshuabaker67
@joshuabaker67 23 күн бұрын
Take a walk at a nice park, dudes.
@Timm-v4l
@Timm-v4l 28 күн бұрын
Every time somebody asked me, do you wanna go out somewhere and do something? I just send them for Fergie take your broke ass home I’m too broke so I can’t go nowhere and no, I don’t want you to buy it because you start being resentful
@rapstar4575
@rapstar4575 27 күн бұрын
@taranatarana714
@taranatarana714 29 күн бұрын
Only get drunk with boyfriend once or twice a year.
@kabanchan5768
@kabanchan5768 29 күн бұрын
It all started with the 19th amendment
@millabasset1710
@millabasset1710 29 күн бұрын
You know before democracy got popular, men typically just allowed a king to push them around right? What a lame argument.
@o_o8203
@o_o8203 29 күн бұрын
Lmao if you wanna play that game then it all started with the founding of this godforsaken country 💀
@yeamore6324
@yeamore6324 28 күн бұрын
More videos on Africa and the carribean too many videos with black Americans
@prettysteeve47
@prettysteeve47 28 күн бұрын
Why are these black women crying so much these days about going outside? Are black women that emotional.This sister acts like someone verbally abused her or physically beat her in a bad marriage.LOLMy god what is she going to do when she gets marriage??
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