An Gambian woman said some time ago that their men have 4 wifes and are sending them to work and the men stay home and pray. Is that true?
@swaziinkenya8 ай бұрын
😳I don't know about that
@PakandeKebe20 күн бұрын
You sound so ignorant that's why nobody respects black diasporans
@TheLutheranDude79388 ай бұрын
50/50 is unimaginable in societies where marriage is still largely traditional. The entire financial obligation should ideally not be on one person. A man should provide; it's his role to go out and slay dragons. A woman can "help" based on defined agreements but it's not her job to provide. Women as primary providers to an household is a culture of single mother communities..
@swaziinkenya8 ай бұрын
You have literally summarised what I am trying to say. Thank you ❤️
@dennisndirangu25365 күн бұрын
You cannot police everyone telling them what to do. I'm a Kenyan man and i support that both partners should help each other in all aspects including financially. Quit this golddigger mentality
@swaziinkenya4 күн бұрын
You can also not be telling me what to do
@panafrican.nation8 ай бұрын
Before I even watch, passport bros really annoy me. If they have a problem with sistas in the US, they should fix that problem, not run away from it. Otherwise that problem will just follow them wherever they go. We are going to develop too, so we should always build good relations between genders. Then the image they paint of Kenyan women, when you think about it, is not a good one.
@devilsadvocate7218 ай бұрын
The gentleman at the beginning of your podcast is a SIMP. In Africa I would understand you go 100% if the woman isn't working. After all I'm married to an African women but I'm sorry, in America it's 50/50 all the way. IF YOU WORK AS A WOMAN AND WE ARE IN A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP, YOU ARE PAYING HALF THE BILLS.
@swaziinkenya8 ай бұрын
It depends it's not always the same for working couples some would be both working and the husband still provides 100% for the family.
@Gracie-Dee8 ай бұрын
That brother lives in america with his Ugandan wife, and he still provides 💯, I don't agree with your labels on the brother. I also believe there so many american bothers that still provides 💯 to their families.
@Brian-bo4bz8 ай бұрын
African women work and still the men are expected to provide, they say hers is hers and the man's is for both, the main duties of a man is provision and protection, if you go 50/50 don't expect a woman to submit to you and cook for you and do all those traditional female roles if you can't do your traditional male roles
@swaziinkenya8 ай бұрын
@@Gracie-Dee thank you for this useful information sis!
@swaziinkenya8 ай бұрын
@@Brian-bo4bz TRADITIONAL FEMALE ROLES UNDERLINED
@shyroll95658 ай бұрын
Key words (REAL MAN) gen x
@swaziinkenya8 ай бұрын
That's it ❤️ not just any man
@paulad5748 ай бұрын
Spirutual alignment matters! It depends Brother and Sister! We can share and work together. There is no 1 size fits all! Work together!!
@swaziinkenya8 ай бұрын
Yes yes yes we always work together in an African home, the woman's job is to help the husband but not to take up half of his role. There are many ways to do that as explained in the video. Thank you for your comment 😊