After Love - Making It Last - S1 E6 - The Black Love Doc After Show

In the season finale of #BLAfterLove, the official aftershow of Black Love on OWN, the series co-creator and director Codie Elaine Oliver sits down with Bill & Kristen Bellamy and Yvette & Glen Henry. While the drinks are flowing, these couples discuss sex, the marriage journey, and "Making It Last." Binge the full season of Black Love on OWN on-demand!
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[@EOOgunro]

Yvette's head wrap!!!!!! Everything to me!!

[@nikamoff5835]

It is beautiful that color too!!!!

[@dumfriesspearhead7398]

@@TheyGlorifiedGodinme Do they? I clicked on the link and it's a company designing marketing for vehicles.

[@keishadouglas2011]

@@dumfriesspearhead7398 thewrap.life/collections/head-wraps

[@lkpeace911]

Right!! I’ve done that with shirts so many times and now folks wearing it for style. Go figure 🤣..

[@stelakem]

We need a tutorial for it 😁

[@4justforme]

I am so proud of BLACK LOVE! WE NEED TO SEE BLACK EXCELLENCE ALL THE TIME!

[@thaliawoodson5429]

Amen!

[@4justforme]

@kricket15000 I BIND YOU SATAN RIGHT NOW IN THE NAME OF JESUS CHRIST MY SAVIOR! NO WEAPON FORMED AGAINST ME SHARE PROSPER! MAY GOD HAVE MERCY ON YOUR EVIL SOUL!

[@6kYe]

Cody is so beautiful! She looks like she should be a Disney Princess or be on Broadway. She's gorgeous! I LOVE Yvette and Glen. You guys HAVE to check out their How Married Are You?! podcast. It's super insightful, fun, and vulnerable.

[@mrs.w2942]

Agreeeeeee!

[@soniakoyoukamdem9045]

Thank you!!!! I just subscribed 😘

[@LimaB30]

The vulnerability in this show, is what makes it AMAZING! 💗💕💕

[@margarettnwankpah927]

Good chemistry between these couples!

[@MyVlogTherapy]

The best 🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@beatricealexander2102]

I never really considered the complications that come with the lack there of intimacy and then all the sudden your intimate on your wedding night. This is why we need this show. It shows that everything takes some work not anyone way is easier.

[@Echotheduo]

I wish I could like this a million times!!!!! The discussion was pure and valuable. The chemistry was natural. And Bill Bellamy with the comedic timings were perfect. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@Echotheduo]

@Error Report 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@nadex6485]

Celebrated 27 years this past August and what has kept us going is the understanding that "marriage is a business ". We plan and execute our tasks knowing that we are building our legacy. We never lose sight of our goals. We love hard and fight hard for our love. We laugh daily and give each other space and time to evolve so we can meet our own expectations and the expectations of each other. We keep prayed up and are %100 unapologetic about our devotion to each other.

[@sakuraesther6309]

Amen!!!!

[@ladysmile2001]

I'm not married but I've learned so much by watching everyone's story. Thank to for sharing your experiences

[@1LocWonder]

I had an older coworker who scheduled sex on Monday and she called it “Monday Funday” she’s been married almost 50 years, & to see her excited to go home on Mondays to have sex was sweet to me! I learned from her that scheduling sex can be sexy...& plan to do it whenever I’m married! It’ll be spontaneous & scheduled😉

[@Ndi1st]

You have to be prepared, do the work, educate yourself, be financially literate and handle your family business! - that’s marriage...🔥👌🏾❤️

[@ericafielder8134]

Loved this finale. It was so sweet at the end. Please don't make us wait too long for the next season💕💕💕💕

[@skylerward2578]

I loved "marriage is a business." We absolutely structure ourselves that way in my current relationship.

[@EvenSterVens]

BLACK LOVE TEAM... Stop playing.... This Need to be Longer... (45 minutes please).... Glen & Yvette (Love Y'all)

[@practicalteachingchronicle6631]

Learn a woman mind on this channel

[@mrs.w2942]

Love me some Glen & Yvette 💕they always speak of their scheduled love time, but never make the kids their excuse.. kids are typically only brought up when someone else asks or mentions.

[@michellestanley5456]

“She’s good people,” Bill is Crazy.....love him 😜

[@tineshamalachi3122]

C'mon Bill Bellamy👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 You better preach...its not just love to keep going its our faith in love that keeps it going❤ Loved this!!

[@eb4478]

"Soon as you take off your glasses and I take off my glasses" Hahaha so funny !

[@WilliamsTanisha]

I love this so much. Married for 6 years. I use gems in Black Love to apply to our marriage.

[@hch5498]

So proud of black love - about time we had this - bring this to London we need it

[@ukaeze5652]

Children’s “quiet time”: afternoon-delights😉 is what I call them (for the parents); yasss!!!

[@AngelasTravelAdventures]

I love this show and what it represents. Its truly refreshing and encouraging to see people that look like me so in love. 💓 I'm learning alot.

[@AllThingsTiffanyTV]

BILL: All you gotta do is take off yo glasses 😂😂😂😂😂

[@xpertsolutionsinc]

Love lives in the gaps. Grace is what allows our partners to catch up to us. Faith in your love is what will see you through to the end. Love is a verb. Love isn’t something you say. Love is something you do. Lots of lessons from this amazing season to help us get through the COVID crisis. Thanks to all the wonderful couples for sharing their Black Love with us. Salute! ✊🏿❤️

[@mimimmatladi3126]

my partner and I are preparing to spend the rest of our lives in marriage with each other and this series has really brought us close together in conversations and preparations to be the best versions of ourself in the future. Thank you for inspiring us all the way in South Africa

[@sophie0169]

Beautiful and amazing. Hearing the growth these relationships are just beautiful. I can watch the Black Love episodes over and over. You take something from it each time. I look forward to the next season.

[@NaturallyBeautiuFUL]

I love seeing this! It’s refreshing to see honesty and real black relationships

[@johnmpe3358]

From South Africa. Great show and it changed my perspective on marriage. As a traditional African man, it really helped me to be a better husband

[@poetslanefilmhk7012]

Black love 🙌🏾 all the way from Australia.

[@adventureswithadrienne]

Oh wow! How is the life in Australia for blacks sis?

[@LaTreseSheffield]

This season was the best... especially the one with Felicia and Karega

[@jewelj7507]

that was the best. ever. it was so heartwarming. i wish them well. and these couples too

[@rosej5029]

"Having faith in your love" that's profound.

[@AthenaAthena]

This is a good example of why you need to talk to your kids about sex. Better they learn from you than from someone else. Have talks with your kids.

[@Chocolate.barbie444]

Faith In LOVE

[@raquelcolon5785]

One of my favorite shows. What beautiful stories you tell. I am a Puerrto Rican and married for 30 years. The journey has been one of joy, pain, sorrow, happiness, sadness, frustration, anger, growth, stagnation and so many other things that your show as touched on. Thank you both for sharing this with us all. Can't wait for the next season. Until then, I will be all in your website !!!

[@choozynharrys1481]

I love Black Love I love seeing Black men that love and appreciate Black Women the main stream won’t show much of this ain’t nothing like it we understand each other struggle and these are strong black women that are their men back bone.

[@TA-ye5eg]

This was such an awesome episode! I love both couples! Who would have thunk underneath, the laughter of Bill was the romance?!? I loved the way he and Kristen poured into the other couple😍🤗😍. But I was able to learn so much from Glen and Yvette as well!! Thank u Black ❤️

[@nomzalicious8075]

To Faith, Love and Grace ...l think that grey area is grace (which includes patience, kindness, sincerity). Beautiful episode. Thank you ALL 🌷💗🌅

[@stanjones7054]

I enjoyed this! You got to put in the faith and the love translation...the work. Thank you !!!

[@danilakassels431]

Team Glenn & Yvette my favourite couple 💯♥️ what a beautiful journey 🙏🏾

[@amil-amirmahmoud-jones4959]

Learned alot from this video and it will definitely help me develop patience and understanding of the woman I love so much. Chemistry is very important to a successful relationship/marriage .... Thanks for sending this link to me love .... J & S ....

[@nikamoff5835]

This is real good, love it!!!! Bill is crazy😂good timing on the humor 👌🏾

[@susansealy4984]

This warms my heart. It's so encouraging and gives hope.

[@chanellechateau6794]

I like that they had the support of couple friends to guide them in the right direction when it came to sex and emotional intimacy.

[@ACETHEEGR8]

Admiral to see a woman keep her virginity until marriage 😊

[@michelledowner5148]

Will love to see both not just woman

[@SunshineandFlowers456]

I absolutely LOVE LOVE LOVE Black Love!!! It's so refreshing to hear about US from US. Men who are evolved enough to express their feelings is the sexiest thing ever.

[@sophieopondo4065]

BIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIILLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL His personality is everything and then some. Love both couples and this is inspiring. Lord Jesus come through

[@knl5330]

Kristen Bellamy doesn't always rub me the right way...but her statement about the business of marriage was true and on point!

[@knl5330]

@Marie Farley she comes off as snooty and a bit cray cray too, especially in the Black Love tv series 😄😆

[@dawn5056]

Bill Bellamy wife isn't black or mixed race. She is a full Caucasian woman. I didn't watch it this season because the show is about Black Love not interacial/mixed race. He been with her for years, so I guess she is honorary. Show taking a turn I dont like.

[@raveeeyluxury]

It’s something off about Kristen! I been scrolling through the comments tryna see if I was tripping. Ion like her energy

[@Angelinoah8]

Thank you so much for this valuable show and necessary conversations 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@amberdenisetv1232]

This channel is everything. I LOVE to see OUR type of love! ❤

[@brandywarrior]

Cheers 🥂 to another grand season of Black Love! Love this new addition of the after love KZbin segments. Learn something every time! Blessings 🙏🏿✨

[@alisongardner7476]

It's good to hear this programme and realize your not alone and examples on how the "love blocks' where patiently cracked, to over come...and strengthen aka grow the relationship (family business!) 😊🍒

[@joannaansah4957]

This was THE BEST! The couples speak so freely and openly. I always wondered how you can expect to switch from abstinence pre marriage to being a sexually adventurous being after marriage. Thank you for this (apparentky) honest insight.

[@kimberlyhartsfield32]

Always good to watch! Black Love has helped me work through my fears concerning marriage. Thank you!!! I can’t wait for next season.

[@DECREEDANCE]

Love ❤️ Love 💕 Love 💗 Black Love and After Love...thanks so much for the great work, authenticity and laughs

[@meriyak]

Love how the conversation flows

[@danyellev447]

I love the insight, of 1. giving one the Grace to Grow (ie. Allow one another to catch-up); 2. Trust & 3. to the Faith & love is in the middle that makes the difference when the gaps are. This is Huge for couples.

[@preciousbrown7962]

This was my first episode, just beautiful dialogue. I’m going to go watch all the previous ones

[@kimberlysnoddy9068]

I LOVE THIS SHOW ALL ABOUT BLACK LOVE.

[@nursesth]

Great addition to the Black Love Documentary series!

[@motherantioch-pomona1610]

THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH FOR CREATING THIS SHOW 💎💙. I’m single, but I’m taking 📝 notes! #Waiting4MyKing

[@jasmineadjei2552]

This this this👌🏾how beautiful was this. Love LOVE. This show is EVERYTHANG! Thank you. x💗🙏🏾

[@tiad.9142]

It was nice to hear that you won’t always be in the same page as your partner and that you have to give them time to catch up. The only couple that I had been seeing is always talking about how they’re on the same page with everything but it’s nice to see older couples who’ve been doing it for decades who state that’s not always the case. I really appreciated this 🥰

[@jackiegarland817]

Loved, loved, loved! FAITH & LOVE ALWAYS

[@lydiaheelu2681]

Black Love is gold. Seriously, no other way to say it👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@sharpfamily4938]

That's so good that she waited!

[@briantbethea]

My wife & I want to be on Black Love. Hopefully that will happen.

[@andreafoxx925]

Gonna have contact them

[@chabridgettumusiime8994]

True! Truth Marriage is a business in the real World, but a covenant according to the Word of God Almighty 🙏🙏🙏

[@modernwomanTv]

Beautiful. Faith is a huge component to support your Love

[@maggicurry-williams8440]

Awesome after show! Faith in love!! 😍

[@cassandracraig3708]

I Love everything about this show

[@safi.4537]

Kudos to this black love couples❤️Bill is crazy funny🤣😂I got to get my “schedule” together..lol

[@patriciashort7106]

Yvette is Beautiful and her voice is so calming

[@mrcook4445]

Definitely important message i can receive this as a single man with no children. That's desire a black family

[@jackiepage1975]

Oh my gosh, that was so on point!💜💙❤

[@jasminethompson2118]

This was such a great conversation.

[@janecallender8936]

Marriage is really a journey that when two persons who wants to make it work, its sure to Last with God help as well.

[@mrsdeannawilliams9282]

Loving the conversation😍, and the kitchen!❤️

[@maishahunt3323]

This was the best! ❤️

[@dellanixon7657]

So much Wisdom! Love you all inspire me!!!❤️🙏🏾😇

[@striving1]

What a wonderful birthday present. Love 💗 Love💗 Black love. Hopefully I will have it one day.

[@lynnpearson4933]

Loved this!

[@Lavonwoods]

This blessed me today!

[@sharonchilds3871]

Great show!

[@kimberlysnoddy9068]

YOU ALL ARE ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL!!!

[@Reeses710]

Great conversations!!

[@lovelife8968]

Amazing!! HMAY! I love this so much! And I love to see Bill up on here!

[@sibymathew7859]

I always like yvette.. From. Beleaf in fatherhood and her own podcast.... Now knowing this makes sense. She's clean. I relate to her And feel I lost it

[@sizanesibanyoni6380]

This is beautiful

[@angeliqueellis2979]

I’ve always thought that “FINALE” meant the FINAL show of the series. When Cody said FINALE, I was a bit confused when she said, “See you next season.” Either way, I absolutely look forward to the next season.🙂

[@jerlynnghee207]

Love these BLAfterLove, series 😍

[@Dutchessnv]

OMG...this was so my experience. Except I "knew" about sex prior to marriage but it wasn't from my parents. I had the elementary school class. I thought i was the only one.

[@vonsheabooth1335]

Bill Bellamy, divide by two 🤣😅😆

[@tropicallymixed.]

I really like both of the couples featured. I hope the producers encourage the men to speak more in the future. I'm noticing the women in the relationships are doing most of the talking.

[@jaredlhulum]

that's because women generally talk more than men

[@tropicallymixed.]

Yes, which is why I said encourage the men to speak more.

[@lovelife8968]

I totally agree because hearing the men's perspective was great

[@plugged1]

Belief in Fatherhood has a KZbin channel where he gets to speak often. He may have been consciously trying to give his wife more time to speak because she is more of a soft spoken person from what I observe.

[@plugged1]

@Chanel Wafuana Exactly lol!

[@jenniferh.7219]

does anyone have input if they grew up in an environment where there wasn't faith in love but they later on found faith in love in their own life and how to maintain it?

[@cindyrobinson5667]

Great conversation. What a way to wrap the season.

[@thokoziletapambwa509]

Lovely couples💕

[@teresarobinson2302]

Good stuff!!

[@sharudd75]

Making room for your partner is so important! I Love the Black Love 💕

[@brownskin477]

Awesome!!!!

[@roycewynn6769]

After watching a few episodes marriage seems exhausting