AITA for not inviting my bridezilla sister to my wedding? - REACTION

[@CharlotteDobre]

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[@Good.Morning.Petty.Potatoes]

Must resist fast forwarding to the add that I know is here. 😂 Edit: The ending 👏🥔🥔🥔🥔🥔

[@Lucky-Charm-547]

That advert was AMAZING 😍🤩😍🤩😍🤩

[@janetseidlitz5976]

Speaking of cosmetics and beauty. Your eyeliner and shadow is beautiful Charlotte.

[@soundofsouls2320]

I have to keep resubscribe to your channel I don't understand why nobody else uses my account and this has happened with a couple of other channels too

[@zuzukris4952]

That would be meeeeee. 😂❤

[@stephanieramirez15]

My Maid of Honor speech: “hello everyone do you like the decor… the food… the flowers… thank you it was so stressful planning this wedding but I’m glad you all enjoy it… if anyone has any questions or wants advice planning a wedding come see me at my assigned table… IN THE BACK” 🎤 😂

[@britgirl4814]

And then 'oh yeah congrats and shit...

[@TamaraAWhite]

I love it. 🤣🤣👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@ZaiKechi]

Exactly this

[@gojosgirl6487]

​@@britgirl4814Haha!

[@kehaulani1467]

Perfect!

[@nmhummel]

"You're being childish." "You sat me at the kid's table..."

[@Jackielovin143]

😂😂😂

[@chrissyduncanson7461]

Exactly

[@addie-eileenpaige6460]

If the shoe fits.

[@MonsterPrincessLala]

Honestly, I know it's over used but this is actually some narcissist abuser behavior

[@erikaafernns]

"bUt WeRE fAmilY" Not with that disrespect.😂

[@melindaroop1346]

Exactly! I wouldn't do my family like that and expect the same in return.

[@ingloriousbetch4302]

Family members are almost always the worst ppl you're exposed to

[@lisag-mh5rc]

I know my older sister well enough to know that she is exactly the type of backstabbing, double standard standard bi_ch who would choose to hurt me for entertainment & expect to suffer 0 consequences. That's why I've gone no-contact with her. It eliminates the possibility that she'll continue to hurt me. (By "hurt", I mean hospitalize me, try to bully me into sleeping with her boss so she'll get a promotion, & stuff that'll get me kicked off youtube for saying)

[@BernadetteShalala-zu5vb]

For real🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@hera_avria9265]

I hate the concept of family

[@dianaquill9969]

The moment a fully grown adult tries to "punish" me for literally a single thing instead of talking it out is the moment they lost contact with me. I had to deal with that with a somewhat narcissistic older sister and honestly believe that only someone who is a narcissist can think that disgusting way.

[@Emmywe8002]

I planned my sisters bridal party and I was a witness to the wedding which I didn’t know till I was on the stage at the wedding. I had a basket sent to the hotel room with none alcohol champagne and some snacks because she was pregnant. She said that she didn’t know who send it but I wrote on a card and my writing is unique. I know that it was her husband at the time who was the boss at that time.

[@rachelfoster2872]

That's happened to me! Grown ass adult friend tried to "punish" me for forgetting a rule in a game we were playing Safe to say we're not friends anymore lol

[@dianaquill9969]

@@rachelfoster2872 Exactly! If you have punishments for doing wrong in a game, then it has to be agreed upon beforehand. Like in my dnd game, we have to reply within 5 minutes because we have indecisive players. Then we have to agree on a 'punishment' which just pushes people to be more out there most times. Consent is just SO important!

[@rachelfoster2872]

@@dianaquill9969 PERIOOOOD It was a DnD game too, and I'd accidentally done my level up stats wrong (DM had his own system) He "graciously" helped me fix it, but said I wasn't allowed to have all my exp points as "punishment" for getting it wrong

[@YGOphantom]

My older sister is the same way. She's a veterinarian. She always told me I was so immature and that I needed to grow up yet she would do the most immature things. Example, after she said "f*ck you," to me five times in a row, I grey-rocked her. When she saw I was ignoring her, she took my laptop, which I was using at the moment, and walked away with it. Yeah, real mature am I right? Moving out of my mom's house now and I can't wait to be fully NC with this c*nt.

[@jessicatalbert6646]

I like how we just skipped over the fact that the husband was like "oh your sister took your dream church away?? Lemme give you your dream country instead!" ....that's a husband right there 👏🏻

[@saddlerrye6725]

"Ah, you're so childish for not wanting me at your wedding!" "Well, you already said that I belong to the kids' table."

[@chrissyduncanson7461]

SO GOOD

[@sarahglover3286]

Oh I wish she'd gone up to do the MOH speech, pulled out her preplanned one, ripped it up in front of everyone and said something like "Well I'm supposed to do the MOH speech now but clearly I'm not the MOH as I've been seated at the kids table with my fiance. So I just wanted to make sure everyone knew that I was the MOH until that, the bride didn't even invite my fiance until I told her I wouldn’t help plan anymore. She never had a wedding planner, I planned everything, I did (proceed to list). And she didn't even want my fiance here or either of us at the top table! *Turn to groom* Good luck, you'll need it. I'll help you out once this marriage ends," *turn to bride* "but I won't speak to you ever again!" Ideally pair of you storm out after

[@BrianAndresScott]

Yes 💯 great idea

[@Good.Morning.Petty.Potatoes]

Brutal! I would have given her the invoice for services rendered.

[@joiedevivre2005]

I would've made the MOH speech from the kid's table, complete with occasionally saying "can y'all hear me from back here in my assigned seat?"

[@klm_shadow]

This. I would have made some epic digs. Or she should have recorded all of the crappy things the sister said and do the thing the one best man did. Make a collage with the crappy things sister said as the background. Or a slide show with texts from jerk sister.

[@klm_shadow]

@@Good.Morning.Petty.Potatoesoh yes I like this too.

[@sdube001]

The woman in that first story was in a "damned if i do, damned if I don't " situation. The bride didn't want people asking why the sister and fiance weren't married yet. But if she had shown up without him, people would have been speculating if they had broken up.

[@frigginresulrum]

What's funny is the bride looks like an ass either way, either "My sister (bride) didn't want us getting married before her." or, "My sister (bride) didn't invite him to the wedding despite all the work I did to make this happen."

[@fibanocci314]

Also she was the reason they weren't married yet. She expressly demanded OP not get married until after she was.

[@jacklow9611]

Which could have drawn a lot of attention from the bride by itself.

[@alexiatr]

They treat you like trash but of you hold resentment then you are the ahole🙄😐

[@ashlynadventures912]

Remember this whole thing was one OP. Even if you know family is going to ask, most of the attention usually still sits with the bride unless you OP were to pull a stunt. Her brothers bullying her about not making a speech and making her leave really created more drama than she even wanted. If the bride was fine with her sister, it shouldn't matter if OP was with her fiance or not at the wedding 21:07 because you can't stop other people from talking.

[@juanita_rocksteady2761]

The sister is a Doctor? I would NEVER want someone like that to be my Doctor.

[@JaneM-v5w]

It’s a fake story😂😂😂

[@heatherlowe7330]

My thoughts exactly. I would be terrified 😱

[@artemis_justiceaizawa5978]

Unfortunately there's quite a lot of doctors and nurses who are like that, mean and rude and it's so ironic because a doctor and nurse are meant to be caring- the only way I think we could combat that is if we start testing people secretly (on attitudes) but that could get messy and unnecessary fast

[@novvy25]

The Bride in the story set her sister up from beginning to end. She only gave her the MOH title so who would be more receptive to planning the wedding and doing the donkey work. Even not inviting the fiancée was calculated so that the bride could treat her badly at the reception. Elope and put those siblings on kids table at the luncheon

[@MsEdenofSweden]

Medical secretary here, doctors are not required to be smart nor mature. I’ve had doctors in the same team send written referrals to each other because they couldn’t speak without fighting… And many people are intelligent but not very smart… 🤷‍♀️

[@revinaque1342]

This is so true!!! I feel like most doctors spent so much energy on their studies/training that they didn't have any left for emotional growth and maturity. Heck, I even had a psychiatrist who was hella toxic and judgmental!

[@marshawargo7238]

And geez let's not forget about empathy😢!!!

[@MeredithAnne88]

Smart person here. I can confirm this! 😂 I don't consider myself to be that mature when it comes to the world.

[@msbecky7946]

I knew a doctor that was cleaning up his PC and decided to delete his system files because it wasn't something he saved to the computer. Guy is a genius and a nice guy but some things escaped him. But a friend explained it as sometimes there is a trade off with common sense and an abundance of education. Lol

[@nicoletteamourdesigns3601]

I swear sometimes the PAs are better than the doctors. I feel like I get whiplash seeing the cardiologist-in and out while I’m like ….☝️wait….I have a question….. ok guess not….🤦‍♀️ unless they’re getting to cut into me the cardiologist is too busy but the PAs are willing to break everything down and discuss it all with me.

[@NHarts3]

I swear I only read AITA posts in Charlotte's voice now 😂😂

[@heathersmith8549]

Same!!!!!

[@shantoreywilkins651]

✅

[@DancingQueenLAI]

Same lol

[@moviesrocks2]

me too

[@5tarVega]

I beg your finest pardon!! 🤣

[@dawnreed1631]

Full quote is "The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb." Which means that the relationships you choose are stronger than the ones you inherit!!!

[@DawnKellyMedia]

Yes!!!

[@NellyBaileyCedar]

Yup, my sister was a bridezilla. She has always been so nasty to me our whole lives. So I keep my distance and that's how we get along lol. Siblings huh. I always looked up to my sis and wished she liked me, but oh well. Her kids love me and that's what I cherish so very much. 😊

[@dawnreed1631]

@@NellyBaileyCedar 🤗 I have a half sister 10 years younger than me and I love her, unfortunately our Mama loves🙄🥴to play both ends against each other and chooses favorites (even between our kids), plus she loves to keep the “gossip” ( more like bs) going! To this day I absolutely loathe partiality! One thing I did learn from all this was to make absolutely sure that ALL 4 of my kids (all in their mid to upper 30’s) know that I love them wholeheartedly and I won’t do for one if I can’t do for all! The same thing with my 6 grandkids💜

[@rebeccamccann8710]

Finally, someone who understands the entire quote, and realizes the difference the full quote makes in context. Thanks

[@panicplay1576]

It isn’t, but I like that version better. The long version was first written much later (can't remember when)

[@hsjdndhdjkska76w_dpuswehnd]

planning the wedding around her due date is maniacal 😂

[@ckilbarger01]

The fact that none of the siblings are upset at how she was treated but still expect her to pay to attend her destination wedding says all I need to know about the kind of people the siblings are

[@loveli420]

Anyone else DROP THEIR LIFE when a Charlotte video drops?!! GET OUT OF MY WAAYYYYYYY

[@davinastein5776]

I literally have an alarm set so I can pop over asap 😂

[@tamekiab1499]

Me too ❤

[@marissatourney9839]

I’ve been literally waiting for her video about 15 minutes ago. I was literally refreshing her page to see if she uploaded.

[@perennialgypsy6491]

Hahaha yep. Need to clean but Charlotte first😂😂

[@funny-onee1044]

I mentally tell myself at work, "You got this! You got Charlotte's video at 11!"

[@dlt2826]

Im from the Philippines and renting a private island is around 300-500 dollars. I think they made a good choice than spending it on ungrateful family

[@nikkita1688]

That sounds incredible! What's the downside?

[@Hollowluna]

@@nikkita1688Google and do your research. You never know, it does sound amazing. That’s why I’ve thought of vacationing to Thailand for 3 months in about 5 years, if it’s something safe enough to do.

[@ericwilliams1659]

​@@nikkita1688 Exercise increased caution to the Philippines due to crime, terrorism, civil unrest, and kidnapping. Some areas have increased risk. Read the entire Travel Advisory. Do Not Travel to: The Sulu Archipelago, including the southern Sulu Sea, due to crime, terrorism, civil unrest, and kidnapping. Marawi City in Mindanao due to terrorism and civil unrest.

[@ericwilliams1659]

.gov Travel warning

[@cosmicrae]

That's per day pa!!! 😂 Lol

[@teri2466]

Her sister, the bride, is a DOCTOR? How can someone with no empathy for their own flesh & blood take care of anyone else?

[@donnapauley8183]

She is probably a terrible doctor

[@scloftin8861]

I've had doctors with no bedside manner, as they used to call it, that did a great job of surgery or whatever. Just because they suck as a human being doesn't mean they don't have the technical expertise to deliver health care ... or ... at least ... it didn't with the ones I dealt with. This one ... who knows, but if she's a GP I'd change my Doctor.

[@jaqjynx]

You ever met a GP?

[@KTxAshy]

You'd be surprised how uncaring some (if not most) people working in the healthcare industry are. I'd never forget how my uncle ( a GP) addressed my grandma in an irritated tone when she was concerned about a growing mole. We had to have it checked with another doctor for her peace of mind, who advised to have it biopsied because it was suspected to be cancerous. Thank God it was benign. Another instance was I almost died from dengue due to him dismissing my symptoms in the same irritated tone as just normal fever for a week, when I was already delirious from high fever and my platelets were dangerously low. It's always the same irritated tone when family members would ask even if we were willing to pay for consultations. I worked at a hospital for five years sometime in my career and realized he was not the only one.

[@GaskyChan]

It’s for the prestige, she loves attention

[@jessicawelch6771]

Listen...my petty level is high.. I would ABSOLUTELY make a speech..get the mic, walk to my table by the kitchen and give it there...sharing my high appreciation for my sister allowing me to be her slave and completely plan her wedding for not a single penny or appreciation, and how much I am thankful that she finally gave in and let me fiancé come with me...and ensured me the best seat of the wedding..ending it with thank you so much sis it's been an honor. (All with high levels of fake sarcastic happiness). Then announce, drink on the new couple the rest of the night. Then bounce 🤷‍♀️

[@roxanasoldner4186]

That sister that was the "MOH" and get shit on should make sure there is a slide show of the destination wedding and all the fun they had! That would burn their asses...lol

[@luojingjie4236]

How dare her brothers call her a disgusting disappointment! It was the bride who chose her own wedding to start crap and "punish her".

[@ashleenicole71]

Exactly what I was thinking. She stated drama.. they did dramatic to begin with.

[@camillelively]

Thank the gods, we're back with AITA and bridezillas. It's the most wonderful time of the year

[@evelynneufeld7610]

FR

[@Burley6969]

Since I properly started wedding planning these have unironically been my favorite content, makes me VERY grateful that my fiancé, mom and MIL are normal 😮‍💨

[@rebny7801]

I feel similar. Both my sisters weddings were just wholesome!

[@genysis9598]

Weddings brings out the truth in people. All the pent up anger, jealousy, family issues etc…comes out that you never knew. I’d elope and have a fabulous reception. Go bestie!!

[@blehbleh1260]

*pent up not pinned up

[@genysis9598]

@@blehbleh1260 Thank you for the correction.

[@HummingbirdG6843]

I think when people die, it's worse. Man the greed that comes out..

[@kimmi2662]

That and alcohol...

[@genysis9598]

@@HummingbirdG6843 I can relate to that 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@mhartm93]

8:25 She should totally invite her sister to her wedding and say: “Your husband can’t come.” 😂

[@heatherlowe7330]

Invite the husband but the sister can't come 😂

[@secozan337]

I never knew how much my family listens to what I watch and also loves Charlotte until this moment... Afternoon, hubby and I are cooking dinner. Daughter wants to come hang out. I ask someone to turn on some tv. My hubby starts messing with the remote. I hear the fire tv "click click click", then suddenly stop. My daughter says "YES, lets watch that one!" Hubby says "Yea, I like her, okay." Video starts and Charlotte's distinct voice pops up. I giggled! That was years ago! CD is a staple in our house! We ❤ you Charlotte!

[@chrissybabyist]

The fact that she made the luncheon date around her sister due date is a straight up checkmate move. And all I have to say is good for her.

[@emeraldssapphires1305]

Husband and I eloped and had a courthouse wedding with my husbands grandparents as witnesses because they were the only ones we wanted to share our day with. We went to a local sushi spot after to celebrate. The entire day was bliss and I wouldn’t change a thing!

[@marythewinter]

Including his grandparents is amazing♡♡

[@blizz2795]

My husband and I eloped to Vegas because our moms were arguing about churches. Neither of them were particularly religious, but one was Catholic and the other Lutheran. This year we celebrated our 27th anniversary.

[@TheZibbor]

@@blizz2795 congratulations! We have a similar story, and ticked everyone off, lol. Still going strong 26 years later! Would not change a thing!

[@hera_avria9265]

Nice ❤❤❤

[@tobooki3733]

What's crazy to me when brides don't want people asking other people about their engagement or stuff like that is they don't want people to focus on anyone but them... but like... how creepy would it be if 100% of your guests spent 100% of the time focused on you? Like bestie... most weddings are spent talking about what's going on in everyone else's lives. We catch up with people we know, chat about how everyone's lived are going, and move on to talk to other people about other mundane things. We definitely aren't spending the whole day focused on the wedding party.

[@Loren641]

Such a good point. SO true. I was merely a decorative detail at an immediate family member’s wedding. I barely had anything to do with them or the wedding party that day.

[@mutteringcrone1210]

Exactly! The only other thing I would say is, of course people will share news about pregnancies and engagements. I don't condone big announcements made with ringing glasses or public proposals, but otherwise this is where people share their lives.

[@Sister_Felinity_Imaculata]

Exactly this. As if wedding guests would spend their time at the reception discussing the centerpieces and bride's bouquet. HOW BORING!

[@Tactility]

This girl needs to send a bill to her sister for the cost of doing her wedding planning.

[@dc_ox]

She absolutely should have made a speech, and it should have completely revolved around how much she can't wait for her own wedding

[@acrefray]

"Hate is too strong of an emotion to waste on someone you don't like."

[@joiedevivre2005]

OP could've planned the perfect wedding for her narcissistic sister, been the perfect, supportive MOH & bridezilla still would've found a reason to do her dirty like she did because that was the plan all along. Bridezilla is a narcissist, OP's siblings are enablers & OP is the family scapegoat who has probably been blamed her entire life for everything that has gone the least bit wrong in their lives (a position I am all together too familiar with). Thank goodness her parents are supportive & her fiance is awesome. OP needs to cut all ties to her toxic sibs.

[@lunamorningstar5488]

100%, i bet there be an update soon, after their wedding, about how the sister/siblings threw a fit at their reception, they are the type of ppl after all.

[@tictactoe325]

Absolutely

[@deirdrecorey3876]

Same thing I said...Entitled brats.

[@missnaomi613]

Greetings, Fellow Scapegoat!

[@rhondaw5054]

Take her to small claims court for payment of the work and planning. Even if you lose, it will prove to your family and community what a B#&*h she is.

[@sosarah929]

A few years after my own wedding I read something that has always stayed with me...the people at your wedding are supposed to be the people that will hold you and your spouse accountable. The people who will support you both and your marriage when times get hard, and they will get hard. Marriage is work and these are the people who witness your commitment to each other and then help you remember that commitment as the years go by. If you can't have faith in their support to include you as a true family member, they will for sure fail to be supportive of your marriage when you need them to be. Surround yourself with people who love and respect you, your partner and your commitment to love, honor and cherish each other. No one else is needed. ♥️

[@selindafloss]

Oooooh I love this soooo much!! I hope to remember this when I’m planning mine! 😭❤️

[@Carpathianpixie]

I definitely just screenshot this for when my time comes!

[@samanthashedd3975]

I wish I had read this b4 letting my parents "chip in" for our wedding, only to immediately take over decision making and fill the guest list with all their random friends that couldn't pick me (the bride) out of a lineup lol ... small weddings are always better ❤️

[@ASHl33164]

I LOVED that little Linkin Park snippet at 17:35 when Charlotte said the word “Numb.” So subtle 😊

[@eraxh94]

I've searched a lot for this comment 😅

[@iricandescence]

Yes!!

[@clicheighties]

I totally would have gotten up and made a MOH speech telling everyone that I planned the WHOLE wedding and was seated at the kids table by the bride... my own sister. What a catch. I'd want to make her cry at her own wedding.

[@kristie825]

Realizing that you're indifferent to someone who once hurt you deeply by treating you badly is simply AMAZING. It's a powerful feeling. It's freedom from hurt, shame, anger, hate, guilt, and everything else associated with engaging in toxic relationships. Stay petty, live your best life, and treasure those who love and uplift you. That is the BEST revenge. It's also the best way to move forward in life.

[@kimmyB9203]

This is so true. I was married to my son's father for 17 years, but only stayed in the same house with him for 11 years). He was physically (when drunk), emotionally and verbally abusive. I had been so in love with him for so long that I believed him when he said no one would ever love me, I was ugly and stupid, etc. After I finally left and he stopped harassing me to come back, which was about 2 years, my son said my husband had a new girlfriend. I hadn't dated because I needed time to heal. I was dropping off my son to his house, which I usually did without seeing his dad at this point, but this time his dad came out. When I saw him, I realized I was so indifferent to him that he was just literally a person from my past. I had no hate, no love, no feelings at all either way towards him. It was the most liberating feeling of freedom that I've ever had. It was AMAZING as you said. After that, I figured I was healed enough to start dating. Another amazing thing that happened is that I took my rings off and suddenly, I had many men asking me out. Apparently, I wasn't ugly or stupid and I had no problem finding new love and finding someone who treated me very well.

[@rebeccajesse4604]

This is so true. It can be hard work to get there but once you are it can be really liberating. I am kind of there with my bio dad. And surprisingly I think it has helped our relationship out more than if I wasn’t. I still chat with him on the phone but his opinion on my life doesn’t mean anything to me. I want him to be happy but it isn’t my job to make him happy. Now we are just 2 adults chatting on the phone a couple times a year.

[@blizz2795]

​@@kimmyB9203Right on!!

[@sharim]

I agree with everything you said except the part about being petty. Carrying negative feelings with you as you grow and mature is a surefire way to drag yourself down. Be kind, be happy, and definitely surround yourself with people who love, cherish and respect you. Unless, of course, you meant to be petty just to the person who hurt you. Then, that I agree with!

[@sunshiine40]

10:24 they only wanna go cause it's a destination wedding that's completely free.

[@looloolawrence4009]

To be honest, if I found out that me and my fiancé had been placed at the kids table for the meal, I'd have walked out right there and then, after questioning if it was a mistake and being told no. MoH or not. What a despicable piece of trash this bridezilla is, and her siblings. I would also send a statement explaining my actions for leaving the wedding, the reasons etc and then block them all, going no contact. There is some serious toxic mess in this family, and this woman would be best just walking away from it all. Could make it difficult for the parents who would no doubt get hit with fall out, but then again, what did they do raising this family to cause so much nastiness with the other siblings?

[@Protagonistinfluence]

God I felt that, "jumping at the chance to be closer", it's so hard to be excluded, my sisters are the best of friends and they never include me. They make plans together and I'm not even asked, just assumed to be fine with watching their dogs while they're out, they don't even give me some snacks or something as thanks, they go on vacations together, I find out by pictures on social media, I started crying last summer when my dad asked why I didn't spend more time with my sisters while I was visiting. Most conversations I have with them they find something to pick on and criticize me for. They're so mean to me but I still desperately want to be closer to them and have a good relationship.

[@cheshirenevande4701]

Give up. If you give up on them, stop trying to force them to want to be around, and start living a happy life things will be better. And guess what SUDDENLY they'll want you in their lives as they have lost their ability to pick on you. OR they'll begin to see you as a whole person and start respecting boundaries. Either way, don't hurt yourself trying to please people who will never be pleased.

[@heatherlowe7330]

Don't waste your time chasing this unicorn. Find you some friends that enjoy your company and spend your time with them. Stop being a doormat for your sisters. Next time they want to drop off their dogs, say no. No is a complete sentence, you don't have to justify yourself. They have been treating you badly and don't deserve your time or energy. At some point, you have think about what's best for you.

[@_bluephoenix_]

For my wedding, having such a mess of blended families from parents getting remarried and realising that half would only attend either out of obligation or the free food.. my partner and i decided to spend the equivalent on a trip to America (where Dad is) for three weeks. We drove up the west coast from SF to Canada in a convertible Mustang, got married in Dads backyard (so he could see his little girl walk down the... back verandah 🤭) and had a lovely time stopping in Japan on way back home to Australia. That was way more fun and meaningful than the stress of planning a wedding for people I didnt want around anyway. 🙃

[@MarianaZuniga-fs4pz]

😊❤😊😊

[@TisPopRock]

That sounds like an awesome wedding ❤

[@Mitters]

LMAO! My brother has been engaged to his fiancé for a while. Because he's in the military, and they are struggling a bit financially, they haven't set a date yet (it's going on a few years -- covid didn't hell this either). My cousin got married 2 years ago, and at the wedding my family, who doesn't see my brother often due to his posting, all asked about when his wedding would be, INCLUDING THE BRIDE. This did not take away from the bride and groom 😂.

[@dominaevillae28]

@Mitters Finances don’t exisit in the military; you are either a spouse or you are not. They should just get married now and have a wedding/reception later. Orders are cut months in advance and it takes time to process a marriage. Also, if something happened to your brother she would have no right to come onto base and visit him, or receive spousal benefits as just a fiancée.

[@Kate-f1n]

Lololol but wait. COVID did, "hell" it...😂

[@Mitters]

@@Kate-f1n LOL definitely leaving the type-o now!

[@Mitters]

@@dominaevillae28 So lots of things to unpack here: 1. I feel like this response comes from the idea that I am American -- I am not, 2. He does not live on base nor does she have any reason to visit him while he's at work, 3. They are common law already because they live together, and he already filed for her to get his benefits, 4. HIS finances are good, but he recently absorbed her monumental school and credit card debt, and is waiting to pay that off before they get 'officially' married, 5. he is AF and they do things a lot differently than the rest of the military re: orders, particularly in his position, 6. They do not want to get married in the courthouse, etc., and do a full wedding later -- as mentioned in 3 they are already common law and she already receives his benefits so there is not a real reason to. I hope this helps! ^-^

[@annied1827]

​@@Mitters I hate it when people ask when will you get married. They gave up on me and my partner after 10 year of us being together. After I said ok, im saying this once and only once. We will never get married as I don't see the point of spending thousands on one day it's a waste of money and I dont see the point do do all that for a bit of paper saying we are married !! We have been together 26 years and we are perfectly happy, we have 2 kids, now adults, a dog, 2 snakes, 2 rabbits and a cat and we are one little happy family. I will never understand why people just assume you want to spend thousands on a wedding. We did have to laugh when his cousin came to us at the last family wedding telling us that his girlfriend of several years is complaining and insisting they get married.he said he told her he has to wait until we get married, we laughed and said well she will be waiting forever he asked why and i said we are not planning to get married , he said great that will save me some money 🤣 I just don't get get, why does everyone think you must be married to be in a committed and happy relationship 🙄 If you want to get married I fully support you, im happy for you you do you, but people should realise marriage isn't for everyone 😃 as for your brother there is zero rush, he doesnt have to be married to be happy, people need to understand this , his life with his partner is their business and it has nothing to do with anyone else , as long as they are happy that is what is important, if they want to they dont even have to get married, ever !! He's better off been happy with his partner living their best lives than getting into debt by spending thousands on one day just to get married in order to make others happy. After all i can think of much better things to get into debt for than spending thousands on one day, they can put that money towards a house, a dream holiday, and he's right paying off his other debt is far more important than getting into more debt. If they really want to get married and that bit of paper is so important to them and they want it that badly they could always just got to the register office with 2 witnesses and do it that way, it still costs hundreds but it's far less than a big wedding, I think that's what we would do if we did get married lol. As I see it as long as they are happy it doesn't matter if they are married or not 😃

[@sarahcatherinerabb]

the 1st one, the siblings are not upset they are not invited to the wedding, they are upset that they do not get a fully paid vacation with that destination wedding... I hope she sits her siblings at her re option at the kids table and see how they like it XD

[@sarahschafer8870]

The amount of time I would have taken to walk all the way up to the mic from my far away table just to make so so many redheaded step child and Timbuc Tu jokes before giving the most unenthusiastic MOH speech after my siblings yelled at me for not doing one 😂

[@lotstodo]

Then start the speech, pause and say Oh, I forgot my drink, can't toast without a drink, then walk all the way back get the drink, and slowly make your way back.

[@elisaseverns2543]

That would have been brilliant! But in the heat of the moment sadly most of us wouldn’t think that clearly. 😏

[@elisaseverns2543]

@@lotstodoyes! 😂

[@EH23831]

Yes! Many references to the kids at your table…

[@user-blob]

@@lotstodo 🤣🤣🤣

[@sweetmeme1987]

Whenever I hear a story about siblings not getting along I know it started with the parents, and it makes me sad because I know how wonderful and special your siblings can be in your life , its a feeling like no other and I wish everyone can have a taste of it.

[@wolffriendinus]

One of my favorite sayings is "Friends are the family you can choose."

[@TheSnowdogsShorts]

My mother and one of my brothers disliked my fiancé so much, that they managed to get her deported from the UK back to the USA. So I travelled to the USA, where we got married in a church office, with just ourselves, the Pastor, and 2 witnesses. It was perfect for us. The reason that my mother and brother didn't like my wife, was because they are both narcissists, and my wife would call them out on their BS. If there is one thing that narcs hate, it is being called out on their BS. Also, my mother hates Americans. The final straw was when my mother made an ultimatum, basically demanding that I choose between her and my wife. I walked out the door with my wife, and never looked back. It is now 20 years since I last saw either of them.

[@Sorchia56]

Well done! I’m sure your life has been blissful since cutting them out! Congratulations 💚🍀

[@TheSnowdogsShorts]

@@Sorchia56 Thank you, and yes it has been. :)

[@Sarahopal]

I'm sorry for your loss. You made the right choice though. I had to go no contact with my mother. It was a hard choice but necessary. Some people gave me a hard time. But you don't owe anything to people who treat you or your spouse like garbage.

[@roselover411]

Woah they got her deported?? Talk about going above and beyond 😅

[@laurapitcock5414]

My ex's family is really narcissistic and they have mental issues too. It contributed to the demise of our marriage. I was the one calling them out on BS as well so I wasn't well liked, as you can imagine. He also has tendencies and did a lot of covert stuff that I didn't realize until later. I am sorry you had to grow up in such a difficult environment but happy you removed yourself from the situation. Family is hard

[@Marsena]

The first story: sis, I LOVE your strategy! The plans for elopement and reception are PERFECT!!! Excellent!!!

[@chickenwingbaloony]

I'm from Philippines and I hope the bride and groom have a great time celebrating here! Islands here are really beautiful and have a lot of activities to do.

[@PuertoRicanPecan]

“I’ve sucked on an egg… it’s not pleasant.” - straight faced - Followed by a picture of MIKE. *my heart stopped* 😂😂😂 Dear editor, I love you.

[@imshinycaptain]

"I beg your finest pardon" is sending me for some reason xD

[@loserplanet]

As a nurse I've met hundreds of doctors over the years. Being book smart does not make you smart in social situations, etiquette, bedside manner etc. In some cases it may have the opposite effect. Is the doctor is a surgeon, she/he will likely be awkward or rude. The kind and charming doctors exist, but are rare.

[@rebeccajesse4604]

lol I was at a child trauma response and the doctor was measuring the kid on the broslow tape (kid was 18m and just screaming in rage at all the fuss) and shouted out that he was Blue. I looked over and saw the grandma go pale (she couldn’t see the kid due to all the medical personnel). I quickly told her that the blue was in reference to a tape not his skin. He is not blue. She took a deep relieved breath. It is amazing just how much you can forget about how words have multiple meanings to different people. For me as the pharmacist, blue told me how to dose the drugs but when you don’t know what’s going on, hearing that a kid is blue is terrifying!

[@jessgunn6639]

As a patient I'm mad about my surgeon who has kept me this side of the veil. Awesome surgeon and normally quite friendly and sociable but there have been times that if I didn't know him he could have found himself in the middle of next week! Knowing him though I just find it hysterically funny the totally inappropriate things he can say completely oblivious to the reactions of the people around him, and even funnier the confused look he gets when he does realise it and can't figure out what he has done poor babe, lol

[@lilys7431]

My sister and I have discussed that their frontal lobe finishes forming while they are in high stress education program, we thought maybe it has an effect on emotional IQ?

[@bive4167]

Wait, I have never understood the correlation between being a surgeon and an Ahole. Surgeons are famous for it. Do you have a theory?

[@dominamortis1111]

Why is it so hard to be both a doctor and a decent human being? Like if you hate people that much go into IT.

[@jenelisheva]

“The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb” friends are definitely the family we get to choose.

[@ACLyoko]

The siblings on the first story calling her childish, I would reply "Yes, I am. That's why I was put in the kids table and no one went for me, right? I'm just acting like you wanted me to :)"

[@kathyr2792]

On the wedding day the brand new husband got his first look at what the woman he just married is truly like. If the sister thought the wedding was stressful just wait until she is served with the divorce papers!!

[@KaitlynMcCary]

10:39 “I have sucked an egg, it’s not pleasant” *mikes face pops up* AYO CHARLOTTE 🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭

[@angelmarie6544]

NTA. If you think that someone is going to disturb your peace at your wedding, then they’re not invited. End of story.

[@Mystearicia]

OP will not be disappointed with the Philippines because as they say "it's more fun in the Philippines" especially with the island hopping, I'm so envious, I'm Filipino but I haven't even been to any of the islands like Boracay or Palawan. I wish OP and her fiance have the best time! Screw the siblings, them being pessimistic and jealous of her will lead to their downfall

[@maryastridrose3490]

For seating, I would separate all the siblings, seat them between everyone that got to go to the destination elopement trip so they can be telling the siblings all about how amazing it was.😂

[@Just-Nikki]

Diabolical, I love it!

[@kalaiveinnill]

Charlotte should do merch that says 'Recovering people pleaser' . God knows I need it. 😅

[@akunomori]

Sussy Charlotte talking to Wholesome Charlotte in a very dramatic manner is what I'm here for

[@calicocritterscrafts886]

At 42 years old, I DONT CARE ABOUT SAVING FACE. If someone treats me in any way that doesn’t start with basic decency and respect I call it out. Loudly. Don’t tolerate bs.

[@AnonandMousey]

I would have repeated what the brothers said to me. 'You need to understand being a bride is stressful you get that this is my special day and that I will only get married once...you totally understand right????' Some peoples double standards are wild.

[@alexdelaossa2024]

When husband and I got married, this is exactly who we had. My parents, sister, her fiancée, and my grandma. His dad, step mom, sister, brother in law, niece. Best man, maid of honor, maid of honor’s roommate and our two friends taking our pictures. It was nice and not crazy. We had who we want and know would actually show up and didn’t put a crap ton of money into. Happy with how our wedding turned out

[@davidknight3249]

1-OMG, All those demands and you didn't walk away? NTA for not inviting spoiled children. Follow through on going no contact.

[@hannahb.a.9390]

If I am the sister of the bridezilla, I will stand and make a speech. A speech about my upcoming wedding. Lmao.

[@vlexvmvsic]

Speaking as one myself, this is 110% what it's like to be a middle child. Always being asked to do things for everyone and getting blamed for everything, even if it isn't your fault. Feeling like a second choice or none at all. Constantly feeling left out. Then when it's your moment, people accuse you of being selfish or ungrateful. The list goes further than beyond. I currently have major issues with my own siblings. You knows, maybe one day, if and when I'm ready, I'll share it and have it end up in one of Charolette's videos. Until then, I rather just move in the shadows with no contact.

[@Im_here411]

Something that caught my attention in the post is OP mentioned she was a sick child, which may have made her siblings resentful since she was given more attention growing up. Her sister became a doctor, which means that, as a doctor, her sister should understand how much attention a sick child requires. That just adds a new layer of awful on this.

[@LoveLokks]

100 percent agreed. Us middle child ppl always got the 💩💩 end of the stick.

[@vlexvmvsic]

@@Im_here411 100%!!

[@nancyrukavena6992]

I am a middle child, and was also very sick, but was ALWAYS overlooked. I was left on the outside of everything. Too young to be a big kid, too old to be a baby. It was a real drag to grow up knowing nobody cares what you want or need. Your boundaries get stomped and stretched all the time. It was to the point that l never was treated for this very rare and unusual condition, because there was too many kids, and not enough money, so l never saw a doctor, even though looking at old pictures if me it's obvious something is very wrong with me. I was 38 when I got treatment for a condition that is usually treated when you're 8. My condition severely limited my ability to do things normal kids enjoy, like hop scotch, jumping rope, being in the sun, so when I would stay in some shade with a book, I was told I was lazy. This gaslighting was easy for doctors to do because of my upbringing. I was always being told by them I need to lose weight, and get some exercise. I tried, I really did. It was useless to exercise because my weight was caused by my inability to exercise, and the physical torture it required of me made it unsustainable. I blacked out on a couch watching a comedian on TV with a friend when I was 38. Leave it to me to almost die laughing. I can't help feeling resentful of everything that messed up my life, health, wealth, and relationships with others AND myself. I had six surgeries in the span of four years, and I had my sister yelling at me the whole time for being a fat, lazy slob. That was a terrible recovery process. We are estranged, now. I try not to dwell on the past, because it can't be changed. But the future isn't here yet, so I will decide who and what gets in. Mothers: Look hard at your middle child. Are they ok? Ask some questions! Believe them when they say something. It might be the only time they will say it. They need you.

[@NellyBaileyCedar]

​@@nancyrukavena6992I'm so sorry for what you have had to go through! Hugs from another middle child with family trauma and severe health conditions 💗

[@LiMoo02]

Nothing like a family event to start family drama.

[@ericaheffington3404]

That 2 seconds of Linkin park when she said I've become numb... chefs kiss... that had me rolling 😂

[@rebeccaklages9783]

I missed it the first time through but rewatching the whole video I caught the two or three notes when she mentioned being numb - brilliant! My family loves Linkin Park!!!

[@elevensuns6874]

I never appreciated when youtubers uploaded daily, it didnt matter to me, because I did not have a routine in watching. But now, I sit down to drink my morning coffee every day...and I have to say: thank you for uploading every day. I need something funny and non-upsetting to start in my day, and I looooove your vibe in the videos. Really! Thank you for sitting down with me (and all your followers) and have girly fun about storys in the internet together.❤ I got a ton of "older" videos to watch in case you need a break, so please dont stress, but I just want to let you know, that I appreciate your daily upload now, very much. love you!!!😂❤

[@THE_TWO_ANGELS_]

when she said it indifference i immediately thought "i forgot that you existed" Taylor Swift. but more specifically the line "it isnt love it isnt hate its just indifference "

[@moonsaces2122]

I can’t believe how that bridezilla treated her sister’s long time partner. Weddings are supposed to be about having fun and celebrating your love and she decided to focus on someone else’s love “dulling her shine” when the very act of doing that is what REALLY dulled it. I once went to the wedding of a family friend with my parents and the groom asked why I didn’t bring my bf (he had to work and it was an out of town wedding). The groom had never met my boyfriend and was closer to my parents than me but still would’ve welcomed my boyfriend with open arms cause it was the happiest day of his life and he wanted to share the love. Great wedding and a so far wonderful marriage with two great kids. That’s class people!

[@lw3269]

OP have done the MOH speech and sweetly, low key draw attention to the fact that she was the sister/Maid of Honor, but still delegated to the kids table near the kitchen. Everyone would have looked over to her seating and known what bridezilla did. That would have be a nice way to shame sister. Also family who did nothing about it.

[@marythewinter]

She could have walked up slowly and said something like "I'm sorry it took me a bit to walk from the kids' table where I was seated"

[@vickymitchell9095]

*MOH speech option. “I want to thank the bride SO much for choosing me to plan the entire wedding! It was such a gift to me and I am so grateful that she finally agreed to invite my fiancé after I begged her to! She’s so precious!! She was so considerate to seat us at the kids table after she realized she hadn’t saved places for us with the family! But we love kids so much and it’s really fun!”

[@marielagutierrez6629]

It's the fact that my kids have been gobbling like a turkey whenever they hear judge Charlotte and they literally SCREAMED their gobble when they saw the turkeys 😂 it felt like an uprising

[@LynnSteward-mu2yj]

Thank you for being the empathetic, wise person you portray. Your genuine warmth comes through with every video. Shine on girl

[@katieb3265]

The "all rise...." and turkey gobble will forever be my favorite 🤣🤣🖤

[@lastphantom4243]

Charlotte secretly raises an army of turkeys that will ‘escort’ you out of the wedding if you cause too much drama for her.

[@tamekiab1499]

I can relate to the first story soooo much. I ended up going NC with my older sis for many reasons, but mainly being used and bullied. Good on OP for separating herself from the siblings.

[@FionaFairlie]

Me too!😊 Years of putting up with her crap. The final straw was her try to turn my son's wedding into a particularly awful episode of The Jeremy Kyle Show. NC ever since. Don't miss her or her drama. I'm sure you've done the right thing too. ❤

[@marissabulso6439]

As someone who also has four siblings, I am absolutely stunned and horrified. My brothers and sister would NEVER treat me like that, and have never once called me a burden because of my chronic illness. It breaks my heart that this poor girl has faced rejection from all four of her siblings to such a degree. My heart hurts for her, and I hope she can find healing as she moves forward. Maybe her sister’s atrocious behavior (aided and abetted by her other siblings) can have the silver lining of finally convincing her to give up on trying to bond with and please her siblings. 😢

[@donnapauley8183]

Parents are the solution and the problem. They did nothing to help the kids when she was little and now it is out of control.

[@dancinkitty77]

The nail break ☠️ 😂

[@Jessica-th6yx]

“👀 I beg your finest pardon” SENT me 😂🤣😂🤣 hail Queen Charlotte! 🥔

[@TsukiKageTora]

This story reminds me of the story where OP was a child and their older siblings all had child free weddings, excluding OP. Then when OP had their own wedding they didn’t invite their siblings and they all got mad at how petty OP was. Edited the part out that was this story’s reason why the siblings hated OP. Mixed it up with the one I remembered. The former’s reason was the older siblings hated OP because OP was really their bio cousin and their parents adopted them when OP’s parents passed away when he was a child. OP didn’t remember any of that and just saw his uncle, aunt and cousins as father mother and siblings

[@jacklow9611]

If he was formally adopted, he was their brother. My sister was from my mother's first marriage, and I always knew her as my sister, even after I found out she wasn't my father's child, but he did eventually formally adopt her, so she is not just my half-sister, but my full sister as well, and despite some problems when we were younger, love each other as family and get along well.

[@marythewinter]

I got so mad about this story! I don't think I have disliked people that much just because of a Reddit story...

[@melissaweintraub5854]

It was a beautiful thing for the parents to do. But it changed the family’s dynamics, and that might have affected them at the ages they were. They should have been mad at their parents!

[@TsukiKageTora]

@@jacklow9611 OP was adopted but the older siblings didn’t care about that

[@TsukiKageTora]

@@melissaweintraub5854 it’s ironic they are being massively upset at OP’s decision to not invite them but think OP doesn’t have the right to be upset when they purposefully didn’t invite him (or her)

[@Chez1991]

8:33 my comeback to that would have been "well I was banished to the kids table, so...."

[@ShewbieDoobieDoo]

"I have sucked an egg. It's not pleasant." & the more you know clip has to be one of the funniest things I think I've ever heard Charlotte say.

[@charlenemiller26]

I agree with what you said, Charlotte. I try to remember that the opposite of love is not hate. The opposite of love is indifference. Here’s to as long and happy life for OP and her husband.

[@AndyyWithAY]

Turning the sister into a pinata. Cold blooded!! 🤣🤣🤣 I'm living 🙌🏾🙌🏾 but at the same time I'm deceased 💀💀

[@muslimahhhh4]

8:10 I freaking felt nauseous by the act of the bridezilla I mean the audacityyyyyyy

[@GellaHumbug59]

Indeed! How is Dr. Bridezilla NOT EMBARRRRRASSED???!!!

[@lizajane2971]

One of my friends complained to me about how one of her coworkers basically stopped doing her job because she was going to be a bride! Every time she was asked to do something that would normally be part of her responsibility she'd say, "Oh no! I'm just too busy with the wedding coming up!" 🙄😄

[@angelicanordstrom33]

The editing on this one, Vanessa I just have one thing to say; chef's kiss! Mike's face in the star, Numb starting to play.. love it, just perfect!

[@tenshisakurai9873]

I'm from the PH and I wish this bride the happiest married life after an amazing time here in my country! 💗💗💗 Mabuhay ang bagong kasal!!! Long live the newly married couple!!!🎉🎉🎉

[@michellehubler6811]

I got married on D&D night. By our DM and my best friend. We had our kids there who were 3 and 2. Surrounded by friends. It was a great time we were comfortable, had fun, we alternated who cooked the meal, and had cookies. Then played D&D. That was in 2006. Happily married ever since and didn't have to spend a ton of money to do it.

[@lotstodo]

That is awesome!

[@TheZibbor]

Perfect! Sounds like a great time!!

[@Lorri6239]

Many yrs ago my cousin was getting married. We all grew up together and had been quite close. Then we got to the reception... my husband and I and our 3 children 8,10,15 were seated at the very back of the hall. While my sister, husband and 2 kids 6,11 were up front at the family tables. When I asked about it after, I was told that they thought they were being kind to give my kids room to move around. ALL OF our kids were well behaved and would have sat forever anywhere. None of it made sense until a few yrs later, yes it took them this long, to tell me that I was different and my family didn't want me at the family table. Don't talk to many of them since 🫤

[@kimmyB9203]

Wow! I'm sorry you were treated that way.

[@donnapauley8183]

How were you different? WTH???

[@joannecraft9842]

Make sure the rest of your family thinks you're different. My brother, who I am not close to, always told me the rest of the family hated me.....nope just him.

[@jacklow9611]

"Different"? How, exactly?

[@Lorri6239]

​@donnapauley8183 I don't remember a time in my life that I wasn't reminded that I was the "different" one. I spent my childhood and young adult begging for my family to love me. The difference between me and my family is that I speak the truth. I don't talk behind someone's back, always stand up for myself and I'm more outgoing. When they'd tell me how different I was, I'd always say "but my core, the way we were raised, my values were the same as theirs." I just wasn't a fake person. Many yrs, and alot of therapy, I've come to understand that different is ok and that I'm a good person. They are all very close, but for my own sanity I'm not a part of it all. Tho I am fully there for my aging parents. My mom may have caused much heartache for me, but she's still my Mom, and I will help them.

[@tinkiepoo3746]

Charlotte's aita turkey sounds are so iconic 😂

[@Sylwia220394]

Oh. my. GOD! You did the turkey! You did the turkey!😁 I'm so happy right now. I waited for so long. You just made my day. Please do it more often. I love the heck out of it😂

[@imjuliewaters]

If you put me at the kid's table and I find out you didn't serve them kid-friendly food, I'm Doordashing McDonald's for us.

[@katcaparula7898]

Gobble gobble Mike's "the more you know" face 😂😂😂

[@mahimamuthu]

When you said people who can't eat cheese like cheese and i immediately thought of Leonard from big bang theory and you put Sheldon meme there ahhhh I laughed out LOUDDDD

[@akmloves]

As someone who didnt invite my own mother or step mother to my wedding....do it!!! 11:11 Remove anyone who hasnt been there for you and your spouse. I had THE BEST WEDDING!!! I felt like I was on a cloud! Smooth sailing all day. My younger sister had her wedding months later with both there. Awkward but oh well! Lol. Both weddings were great but there was soooo much less stress without drama parties ❤

[@archivistsethia9594]

The random Bear in the Big Blue House got me. Well played editors

[@christinwright8564]

Omg my heart goes out to the middle sister in the first story that all her siblings were so very wrong towards her. I’ll be your sister 🥰 my heart just sank when Charlotte was reading your story and how you and your sibling’s relationship are 😥 but in the end it’s better that they’re not in your life. You’re better than that and better than they deserve. And when you made the statement that you’re not even mad at them anymore, good for you. Anger only hurts the holder 🥰 forgive but don’t forget. You sound like such a beautiful soul and I wish you the amazing life you deserve and know you’ll have. Congratulations to you and your husband.