Aita Reddit story | making dinner

[@itsmeayanna]

Do what makes you comfortable. However, Tbh I wonder if they were your biological kids would you distance yourself in that way. I say this because my coworkers talks about her breastfead babies/kids . She said it took her 6 y/o almost to now to stop touching her nipples when they napped together. If you had a connection with all the other kids (breastfeeding them) maybe it wouldn’t feel so uncomfortable for you to have them there. Because the way you describe is like the ick I feel of the thought of breastfeeding a husband.But when really they are innocent little kids. They just figured out how to clean/feed themselves, speak properly , and go potty a few years ago. They are still learning boundaries. I don’t think you’re and a hole, but I also don’t think the kids have any bad intentions. Maybe an instinctive want to feed (booby babies are hard to break). Last I don’t think you see those kids as your own. Not Enough to feel vulnerable around them. More like roommates. Because I couldn’t see and never heard a biological mom leaving her kids for the same reason. But it’s your mental health and comfort so do what makes you feel happy. But don’t put so much blame on those kids .

[@kartik4792]

I think she's just reading a reddit story. Not telling her story.

[@Stephanie-xz7qd]

I totally agree with this. I kind of feel like if you aren't completely comfortable with your partner's kids and 100% accept them as your own when they're this young, you shouldn't be in a serious relationship with them. OP also definitely doesn't know her partner well enough if she never noticed how neither he nor his kids respect boundaries. I think they're definitely all a lot more comfortable with nudity than op is too. Op and her partner seem to have very different parenting styles and this will probably affect their relationship a lot and cause some issues. Doesn't seem like they thought having a child through all the way

[@itsmeayanna]

@@kartik4792 yeah lol, all of the activities in reddit video aren’t connected to the Reddit itself. I’m responding to the girl in the story as if she were reading it. It just happens that the Chef is pregnant (the girl in the story just had a newborn baby). I’m aware they aren’t the same woman 🙏🏾