nyc vlog: a week in my life living alone, chat with me, being productive, errands, biopsy & results

[@frombrisa]

I’ve said this before but it’s so comforting when you are open and talk about things that you are going through. Don’t let it get to you too much becuase ur channel should also be a safe place for yourself to freely talk about what you want to, and do what you want to

[@nickeysanders7084]

Honestly the mean feedback makes me so angry -- I love your channel because it is REAL it shows what you are going through. I have been there when I am spiraling and hyper-focusing on something because of anxiety. It shows other people went through it too and made me not feel so alone when usually all I see is everyone with seeming their life together. It was so genuine seeing someone be like "yeah I wasnt productive because I wanted to get this done" because so many of us have BEEN THERE and feel so alone That being said -- take care of yourself and do what is best for you!!! That is by far the most important

[@tinkerbell9196]

Yeah that makes me so mad to hear that people would say something bad…. Why can’t people just scroll on by… I do and sometimes I wish I could say what I really feel but would t change anyone but hurt them and make me look like an asshole lol not Alexis of course!!! I freaking adore her

[@lesandthecity]

I love the slicked back hair in a braid look!!

[@marylou6765]

Very glad it was nothing serious! Bennett knew you were stressed and was taking care of you. Cats and Dogs know when we are not feeling well, and they become super protective and affectionate.

[@clareking4434]

So pleased for you. It is incredibly stressful waiting for medical procedures and results. Bennett knows, he's been giving you cat cuddles 😍. Cats are the best!!

[@shannondougherty4947]

I am so happy that all the health stuff came back normal! I could tell that it was taking a toll on you. I hate that people feel the need to comment mean stuff on creators' videos! Especially when it comes to health! You were just trying to do the right thing by getting everything checked out and it should just be a reminder to all your followers that we need to think of our own health also!!!

[@Simplylakesha]

Glad for the great health results for you! I really hope the negative folks don’t cause you to hold back on us, each video is great and your openness, honesty is very much appreciated!!

[@andreeaandrei388]

Your channel became my absolute favorite, keep up, you’re doing a great job 👌🏻😊

[@winslow_j]

As someone who also has a history of health anxiety, you definitely did the right thing by getting it checked out and following through, especially since the doctor was also worried. Better safe than sorry!! The anxiety can really put you through it so I could feel the relief. Also...people are always gonna find something to hate on when they're miserable, you being so honest and open is one of the things that makes your videos and channel so great, and exactly as you said, makes us all with health anxiety/anxiety not feel so alone 😌🙏

[@allyjoy5943]

Your channel is killing it! Keep the uploads coming! :)

[@alexiseldredge]

thank you!

[@shane.s-747]

I am sooo happy for you and your good diagnoses. We ARE better together, you have a big heart and it shows. Don't ever stop being you, that's who we know and love. Have an amazing tomorrow, see ya next time!!!😊

[@glendagoodson4106]

So VERY happy you got a good report on your biopsy!!!!!!!!!

[@samanthawest27]

I am 40 and have terrible medical anxiety, I’m usually too scared to go because I’m terrified of bad news. Watching you face that fear and sharing with us has inspired me to get over my own anxiety and made me feel so much better. You are not alone, and though I understand if you stop sharing your vulnerable side please know that most of are thankful and appreciate it. ❤

[@orlaghclaire]

so happy you got answers and positive news! must be so scary going through it alone and having to fight to get seen/treated. Thanks for sharing with us

[@JustSheik]

Thank you for sharing your highs and lows.. I get anxiety too over health stuff and I feel like because you shared your own problems I liked your channel even MORE. So there will be mean/rude/bitter people (like you said unfortunately that's just how the internet is) but there are many of us that are able to relate to you and feel less alone. God bless you, Alexis. You're a wonderful person and I'm glad I found this channel.

[@karin9373]

Thanks for sharing. I am so happy for you. There’s no better feeling than knowing something you expected to be bad health news is nothing. Your mind plays out all the worst scenarios over and over and it puts your life on hold. So glad it’s all behind you now and thanks for vlogging about it. It’s so important to not ignore health issues and have them checked out.

[@lifeofhaylee]

The spin around in the beginning 😭😭😭🤣🤣 loved

[@renegarofalo1569]

I’m so glad your biopsy went well!

[@emelyandtheuke]

hey, don’t feel bad, don’t feel guilty about looking into your health. health anxiety is wild but hopefully now you can move forward knowing more about your body. I used to panic into symptoms of a heart attack and end up calling EMS to run EKGs (not cheap lol) but now I know, after all the neg tests and a diagnosis of an annoying but manageable autoimmune disorder, I can trust myself and my body. now that you’ve had those tests, remember what the “symptoms” felt like and next time something like that happens you can remember, its ok.

[@cyn2480]

You've been through a lot the past few weeks. Im very glad for your great biopsy results. The more i watch your videos - the better your content grows on me. Thank you! Bennett is a sweetheart.

[@ThePinkRock93]

Your vlogs are the highlight of my day ❤️ I can’t wait for the next one💕✨

[@budislavak]

So happy that everything is ok! It’s visible on you that you are relieved 😊

[@KJett-Uknow]

I love your hair pulled back. Very flattering.

[@venusbucci4829]

It’s ok to share, try not to pay attention to those mean people❤️ your just being honest and being yourself! I am so glad your test were great!

[@PamelaNicole]

I'm glad the biopsy came out great!

[@lenorebaker8158]

Me when I thought the vlog was over after the pasta and then "Saturday" popped up on the screen 🥳

[@suelyons531]

I’m so happy you are ok! It’s important that you make sure everything is good. Good for you for getting it all checked out!

[@thisblessedlife2422]

Alexis: “Bennett you’re in my seat..” Bennett: “umm your in my vlog” 😂

[@simonehickling5776]

You are such a beautiful and lovely soul, Alexis. Keep doing what you are doing. I, along with lots of your other followers, watch you because you are you 😊 🩷😊🩷 xxx

[@StephaniesChickenCoop]

You know, people are gonna be themselves. Just do what makes u happy❤

[@richardottley4611]

Hello Hello my friend.. Hi Bennett, it's great to see you both again. As I am watching this vlog episode it is currently after 4 in the morning on Monday October 9th. Happy Indigenous People's Day

[@djsutherland877]

Alexis, I am so glad that you are doing well. I am a mom and an empty nester and there is something comforting about watching another young person thrive while living alone in NYC. If your health is good, it is not because you are "lucky". You are blessed and if you change up your vocabulary, try using "bless "or "blessed". I don't think anyone can teach you how to be lucky but you can learn how to be bless and acknowledge a higher power is watching over us. Prayers and meditation invite blessings into our lives, not luck. Try that the next time you are anxious about anything, day or night.

[@Scifi-eh8fw]

Your vlogs are about your day to day life so it’s understandable that you would talk about ongoing health issues or other difficulties you maybe having. The funny thing is that if you didn’t people would criticise you for making your life look perfect and not being genuine. Honestly you can’t please everyone and there are some people who will always have something to say regardless of how hard you try. I don’t have health anxiety but have seen a lot of comments from people who do and clearly relate to what you’ve been going through. It’s your channel Alexis so do what feels right for you. Personally I love your videos, life isn’t always easy and your vlogs are relatable.

[@AnuragJ100]

Hi Alexis, my wife and I watch your vlogs to relax to. We really liked how honest you were about your difficulties scheduling the appointment and health anxieties. It's just this nice, real, window into your life. Feel free to share or not share whatever you want. I don't think the comment section should get a vote!

[@SarahIsCoolBeanz]

I feel so comforted by your videos, you’re raw and real and that’s good for people to see! I’m also curious if the rheumatoid arthritis flag they told you was Rheumatoid Factor? You mentioned that cleared you for autoimmune so forgive me for being nosy, but a positive RF and a facial rash are key symptoms of Lupus in case you want to look into that.

[@catwilson6208]

I feel ya, waiting on test results can be stressful. Sometimes you don't even realize how much it affects you

[@andreacullen770]

How nice to have that instant information and relief! Trolls gonna troll… rise above and carry on enjoying your great life!

[@fernandaparente1967]

So happy that nothing is wrong with your health ❤❤

[@jamiechoi13]

I’m so glad your results came back clear. 💕 I have autoimmune issues and it definitely sucks. Sending hugs! It’s so hard to deal with that stuff when you have health anxiety. I have that too.

[@mary_teatowel]

Loving the extra uploads!!! Glad your biopsy was all tickety-boo.

[@louanndunlap]

Best always to have things checked out. Really glad about your biopsy results....!!!!

[@LoveDancingLoveSinging]

I am new here and this is my first vlog of you that I am watching right now.. but I have to say it's nice! 🥰❤️

[@alexiseldredge]

welcome!!❤️

[@isawthesign4421]

I fully support you keeping things to yourself if it's best for you. People suck. But as someone with health anxiety it was really nice to see that I'm not the only person that deals with this stuff. I hate that you are dealing with all of this, but it was nice to not feel alone. I'm struggling with health stuff recently and I've been feeling really alone in my anxiety. So thank you for sharing what you did. But definitely do what's best for you.

[@lauraelisee]

Don’t feel bad telling us how you feel! It’s totally justifiable. I just went through a similar situation with a lump in my breast I found this summer. The waiting and worrying really is awful. ❤

[@CarmenHernandez-yl9bg]

You speak your mind but you’re gonna be OK❤

[@lesshustlemorecoffee]

I’m so glad you are ok and still going to share your life. I’m sorry some one was not nice. Hopefully they won’t ruin it for the rest of us. I was watching all the weather and videos coming from there that day. So scary. Also my daughter’s lymph nodes get so hard in her neck when she gets sick. I’ve never seen that before but it goes back down once she is better. Take care!

[@parkerrose3590]

It's 45 degrees here in Manhattan, Kansas! I'm spending the day in bed with my cat and a sweat shirt on. I had 2 cups of coffee already, and I am making pork ribs that take about 4 hours in low heat in the oven. We are waiting for my daughter to go into labor, which can be any time now!! Those cheese shakers can be used for cleaning later. I wash them well and put baking soda in them. Sprinkle on sinks and in toilets, etc. I love tomatoes in my grilled cheese. That is such wonderful news that the biopsy was negative. ❤

[@sleepy_pandas]

Thank you for sharing! It is helpful to know that we are not alone

[@venitamurray7998]

Glad your okay love seeing your cat lay in your lap

[@LSChestersMom]

No one blogs like you! Well done :) I am such a fall/winter/stay inside person....Not a summer person at all....Hope you enjoy it :) And most of all, so happy you are ok.... we all care about you.

[@alexiseldredge]

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[@jazwilliams-eldridge1703]

I love ur channel because u are so realistic

[@jazwilliams-eldridge1703]

I have Anxiety and it worse when u overthink things 😢but u will be ok

[@hillareads]

I’m so glad your biopsy came back okay!

[@Cherurei1109]

Bennett: the camera’s pointed in the wrong direction, mom! I’m the star of the show

[@noradedios7639]

So happy for your results; 😊 Bennett is the best for you right now! 🍁

[@lynnhurst7365]

I'm so glad everything was good with the biopsy. Your skin is looking much better. Bennett is adorable, and so cuddly. I saw on the news the subway flooding, it looked scary

[@Gowicklesswithmel]

You shouldn’t let anyone dictate what you want to express or include in YOUR LIFE.. people are here to watch your authenticity. Once you take away your genuine life experiences because of fear of people not liking you, that authenticity goes out the door. On that note, I was especially intrigued in your skin and biopsy situation and would even wonder how you’re doing. I’m so happy that everything turned out positive ❤ Stay true to yourself. Those who are here, support you and enjoy your content ❤

[@edwardleecaliforniausa]

Good morning Alexis happy Saturday morning and happy weekend and I loved your vlogs and you are amazing Supporter and I'm proud of you

[@patriciahughes666]

So happy to hear that your biopsy was negative ❤❤

[@jessicakrumtinger2445]

We often minimize the reality that stress causes physical effects in our bodies and can present in ways that other more serious ailments do. I’m slowly learning to listen to my body and how stress effects it and adjust things where I can to help 💛

[@elizabethrenteria1311]

So glad everything is stable in regards to your biopsy. 🙏 If possible once you read your new book (loved your bookstore visit segment), greatly appreciate if you can give a quick book review.

[@Billy33753]

Hope all is well with your biopsy. Have a great weekend!

[@stephanieolson5980]

My cats all get extra cuddly as the season changes. Maybe Bennett is doing that too.

[@yvettehatrak787]

Loved this video! You can actually see you coming back into yourself now that all your health anxities were officially put to rest by medical professionals. Hopefully, your channel will start showing you go after your dreams again-auditions, singing, dancing. Nowyou can start manifesting all the wonderful goals in your life again!

[@victoriaadams2171]

I'm so glad you are ok.

[@oh.journals]

I've been lurking for a couple of weeks but I think it's time to say proper hello and subscribe finally! Love your videos, always super cosy!

[@rose.carter]

I haven’t watched your other video yet where you opened up about your medical issue and anxiety, but I just wanted to say that I think it’s so nice that you share things like that and I think it can really help other people who are struggling with medical issues or medical anxiety as well. I also can completely relate to not wanting to share anymore after receiving negative feedback, and it’s unfortunate that people can be so negative and judgmental. I don’t have many followers on Tiktok but I decided to post one day opening up about my abusive father and how I’m trying to help my mom escape him. I talked about our struggles with finding an apartment to rent together. The Tiktok got way more views that I expected and while I got a lot of support and advice there were also people being judgmental or saying my rental budget was too low and completely unrealistic and trying to discourage me. It was really off putting for me to have people commenting in a negative way about a personal issue that I’m already so sensitive about. So I can imagine how it feels to have people commenting negatively about your medical scare, when it’s already such a stressful thing! And I’m glad you’re okay! 💕

[@luzperez7796]

So happy everything is fine with you

[@RebeccaABeaudoin]

Love seeing the average days

[@heavenlymorsels]

Another epic vlog! Thanks for sharing your health journey am so glad all is fine! Food looked yummy - Bennett is the best - Lip color is fire - Make up on point! See you soon!

[@liliansmeenge3297]

Bennet is starting to really trust you and feel safe with you… I think😍

[@ayami7719]

You look stunning without any makeup Alexis:)

[@lisaschreiber2893]

❤❤❤ super happy for you!! i still think your lymphnode issue is because of whatever is making you break out, whatever it is might have your whole body pissed 😂

[@franzo13579]

Thanks for sharing and you’re very brave for being so vulnerable online. Sorry you’re going through a tough time. Good times ahead ! Have a great weekend ❤

[@tynchinnamccall5240]

The caramel from Dunkin' Donuts has a funny taste. I was thinking that the other day when i drank my coffee.

[@junekuntz1874]

So glad you got good news, sorry for trolls. 💕💕

[@2009lafs]

Im appalled that anyone can be negative on here. Id like to say thank you because one day I’m sure I’ll need to call in prescriptions and set up appointments and such and the confidence I got from seeing you react how I would is amazing. Almost like a guide of how to handle these things. You’re not stupid.

[@marccolomayt82094]

Nice lifestyle vlog + chat ❤

[@phillipray4380]

Great to see Bennet being more affectionate. Cats will sometimes give head-butts to show they like you, and you can do the same to them (gently). Extra points for forehead to forehead, because that way you are identifying yourself as family.

[@richardottley4611]

Quick question do you also put honey in your macha, for extra flavor?

[@yvonnetull4843]

Which lip oil color is it? It looks great :)

[@richardottley4611]

haha.. thats so funny 😅 half of Bailey's body was out of the video frame lol

[@johnnyc5382.]

And she's still the WCHB ! Go Alexis! ! ! (worldscutesthumanbeing)

[@tinkerbell9196]

I’m so happy for you I have been waiting to hear how it all worked out….. so happy you got good news!!!! About the other comments that you get that are negative…. First off you have calmed me and thinking I was the only one with health anxiety so you have to chew the good and spit out the bad bc for those who are annoyed or feeling like a keyboard warrior they can pound salt….. so who cares if they don’t want to hear about what you are sharing then they are NOT your people!!!! Other cherish and look forward to seeing you!!!! Xoxoxo so happy for the good news….

[@mssendfitness]

❤ just spent like 48 hrs in the city. I flew back home today and I must say the experience at starbucks this morning was a boot out the door... but i def still had a good time. Managed to visit my Uncle and have dinner at The Copper Still Wednesday night, last night we had Pasta Easter. Soo delicious. ❤ Explored Strand and a handful of Stationary stores. 😊 Glad to be back home in Michigan tho!!

[@MsSassyMT]

Sorry that you were getting mean comments. People are strange. Glad you got your appointment done before the crazy rain.

[@BethMJones]

Funny your cat moved the camera. I just went to Panera Bread with our daughter Leah for broccoli cheddar soup and a Turkey sandwich. It was delicious. Don’t worry about the negative comments. Ignore them. Please feel free to continue to be real and share. You are a great vlogger & one of my faves I always watch. Glad the sun came out finally. Your cat watching out the window. 😂 Grilled cheese sandwich looks good. Facing coastal flooding to get a Dunkin’s. 😂 Glad you’re ok with that & about the biopsy. Praise God! You must be so relieved. ❤ Makeup looked great.

[@danabilhimer]

meal idea: EASY CHILI 1/2 yellow onion, diced 2 cloves garlic, pressed (or use powdered garlic) chili powder (I also use a little chipotle powder and tajin) 2 cans diced tomatoes 1 can black beans 1 can red kidney beans 1/3 bag frozen corn Sauté' onions in oil till translucent.. Add garlic, chili powder (etc.). Deglaze pan with tomatoes. Add beans and corn. Simmer on low for 20 minutes or a few hours.

[@ervinsmoviecorner8748]

Happy weekend, Alexis!

[@Eli_Arch]

Everytime you mention Rare beauty I remember you were right next to Selena Gomez on the escaletor and I fa girl for you 😂 Sorry if my English is off 😅

[@yvettehatrak787]

Hey there-now that you have a clean slate, so to speak (w/all your health junkie stuff), it would be great if you did a Vlog on a "Day in the Life of a Non-,equity dancer/dancer in NYC". I was thinking it would motivate you and get you back into the reason why you came to NYC to begin with, and something we'd all love to see! Also, more of a Q&A feel, but tell us your story from HS. til now of how you got into Musical theatre.Where has taken you, and what is your daily/weekly routine to get you to fulfilling your dreams!! So believe in you!!

[@alexiseldredge]

both of these types of videos are in the works for this month 🙂

[@yvettehatrak787]

@@alexiseldredge oh my gosh....soooo exciting!!!

[@HeyitsDeirdre]

loved the vlog

[@pris_pris]

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[@reapersphantomofhell]

Whoever wants to leave mean or rude comments to Alexis, please tag me cause I’m gonna set you straight. She’s the most sweetest,honest, kind person, so share with me.

[@silvinhabruno]

I'm so glad your results are all negative and the biopsy was normal. Really, I'm so relieved that you are ok. Piece by piece things will get together and better. And please, don't even read the bad comments. People that say bad things to someone they don't know are just reflecting their inside. They are just poo souls. Please share everything you want and feel the need to share with us cus we are here for you. Love ya

[@jamiechoi13]

I just love your videos! 💕💕💕. So I just adopted 2 kittens (brother & sister). I love them but they are DESTROYING my couch. 😭. Does Bennet do that your couch too? Your couch looks perfect! What type of fabric is your couch?

[@alexiseldredge]

shockingly…….my couch is perfect. he will scratch it every once in a while, but it has never left a tear, snag or mark. it’s a velvet material! I have the exact one linked in my Amazon storefront in the description, if you want to look at specifics. he did chew and scratch out the entire bottom of my couch which I had to cut out all the fabric, but as for the actual couch itself, it’s in perfect condition!

[@Jibril_Abdulkadir]

Your killing it don’t listen to any haters. All 💗

[@mansoor3159]

Alexis your apartment looks always so so so pretty and clean and if you don't mind can you make self care routine vlog you are my inspiration and I wish you have a beautiful weekend🤗💖💫

[@DancingKitkat13]

Yasss new vid lets go Alexis ❤

[@alexiseldredge]

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[@kristinestocker]

Anyone can have health anxiety, and it is exacerbated by the complete run-around we get in the US healthcare system. I had a situation similar to yours a couple of years ago, and I told the doctor, this is the exact reason why people stop seeing doctors and just let things go. She felt terrible, but there was nothing she could do to make the process go more smoothly.

[@DanielleJ27]

Great news about the biopsy results, really happy for you. Can’t believe some people left you so mean comments, it makes me so angry. Have a lovely week!