Annoying Things ENFPs Say and Do

[@FatefulMender89]

ENFPs have always been my favorite type. They just automatically make me feel 1000x better whenever they’re around because of their fun, optimistic nature. The other thing I’ve noticed is that if we haven’t had any contact for a long period of time and then meet up again it’ll be like we were never apart. They don’t forget about anybody. I wish there were more people like them on earth

[@ENFPerspectives]

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[@ENFPerspectives]

That's very nice. Not a lot of people think this way honestly. We get a lot of flack for our authentic and blunt nature.

[@kacake]

Just so pure hearted never plays games, what you see is what you get.

[@tamarabrooking4555]

ENFP here. I’m NEVER late. I think it’s rude and shows a complete disregard for someone else’s time. I’m easy going but that’s one good way to annoy me.

[@Sofiarey285]

I'm an ENFP and I made it :38 seconds in before pausing. I want to watch this video for its information.... but I got distracted by the comments. 1. Ne - Not committing until last minute is true for me, BUT if I do make a plan I will 100% follow through unless something catastrophic has happened. To me it doesn't really make sense for an ENFP to have both, last minute plans AND being late/skipping appointments, because that's the reason for committing last minute, because I DON'T want to cancel on you. Any appointments/meetings/time commitments stress me out. I can't relax until the time is over. I just know in my brain I have something to do that I committed to . This applies to going to the dentist or meeting a friend for a movie at a specific time, or giving an important presentation, it all feels the same. The only time I would risk being late is if the meeting wasn't important to you and I can sense that you aren't that serious or that maybe you would bail on me. I am sorry that there are unhealthy ENFPs that give us a bad name. 2. Fi -

[@antiday]

Just wanted to tongue-in-cheekly point out that your comment wasn't finished either, so technically, you got distracted by the comments to comment, but then got distracted by something else XD Just a friendly jest, please don't take this too seriously haha. I'm an INFP, so i also absolutely relate to distractions, but, i think we xNFPs should look out for each other's blind spots and gently point those out where we can. (Please dont feel like you now have to finish your comment, if you dont want to, though.! This is *not* that.!) Have a great day!

[@ENFPerspectives]

@@antiday 2. Fi - = FINISHED 🧐😄

[@cynthiapereira8403]

Same, straight to the comments!

[@tcggggg]

Optimistic but sadness glooming in the background 😂 accurate as hell.

[@justinb9612]

Another video painting ENFPs as super bubbly, which, yeah I can be excitable and fun in comfortable situations like with friends. I don’t think I show up that way most of the time and can be very defensive of my inner self in new social situations. I’m definitely not going around mingling with everyone. This is what makes it so hard to type, because based on stereotypes alone, I probably relate to INFJs the most, or ENTPs strangely enough depending on which side of my personality is coming through. Function wise, ENFP makes the most sense, but not relating to key characteristics of the type makes me think I’m either not one or I’m a failed version of an ENFP 😔

[@Manu-dc5wb]

I feel exactly the same. It's ridiculous how strong this unreal stereotype is. I'm an ENFP and for a long time I thought I was an INFJ.

[@meowtotheworld4801]

It's a paradox. We can be enthusiastic, but we're also wired to find the problem... which means we're also pretty cynical. I think we're a cool kind of bubbly... like it doesn't take much to delight me, but I'm also REALLY good at calling BS, especially when it comes to inauthenticity.

[@jwpd359]

I’m an enfp. Everything you said fits me. My unhealthy Te helped me to feel superior in my early years, but made me lose true friends later in life.

[@ellier2018]

Aw :( I’m sorry

[@user-uh5tb9er4o]

super motivating suggestion... "to stay on the cutting edge, share your vulnerable story" that is super helpful and to recall this value will help me "take the risk of slowing down (resisting stimuli) and nurturing self" thanks yall!

[@ENFPerspectives]

Cracking me up telling ENFP to retest if what you're going to say doesn't read true. ✋🤣 1). enneagram 2). preference is on a continuum. Carry on. 🤓👍

[@questionthingss]

omg.. Fi men with long hair is actually very truueee I noticed that too

[@antiday]

infp (Fi dom) and guilty as charged.! :D

[@ellier2018]

Thank you for discussing unhealthy Te and Fi in an ENFP!

[@nataliewantscookies]

Your advice is really good for each of the functions!!! It’s really refreshing. Thank you.

[@izzygrooves2514]

i'm actually incredibly particular about being on time, as well as being responsible and reliable, it's still always with other people in mind as a motivator, like i'm always thinking of 'oh i don't want to waste this person's time, i don't want to let this person down, i want to honor my promises, i want to be responsible and reliable and dependable'. i think the way i was raised and the way my life has been, plus having had a very very very close and healthy bond with my late-mum who was an intj, i'm a healthy enfp who has developed at a much quicker rate for my age. good evidence for this is that i'm described as being mature and grounded by everyone in my life even though i have the classic enfp energetic, optimistic, exciteable, in-tune-with-inner-child persona, and i'm described by everyone in my life as creative and emotional and a little loopy/eccentric and scatter-brained. it's super interesting how i'm for the most part the epitome of an enfp, but i have some well-developed features that fall outside the classic image of an enfp.

[@ENFPerspectives]

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[@BarbaraMoretti]

in particular very interesting was this analysis of the Ne Te loop discarding Fi when with other introverts or other types. Very accurate and helped me understand why I get EXHAUSTED when on a trip woth other extroverts going in too much Te Se Fe. Take care of your Si fellow ENFP's! Thank you for your videos Alexis

[@DeanValleyMusic]

This video was so helpful and sweet! Thank you guys ❤

[@BarbaraMoretti]

Thanks for the recommendations, great to see your very objective constructive criticism

[@user-kh7ef4ho4d]

3 ENFP female annoyed by a 3 ENFP male bc we trigger each other by our similarities

[@Duck-fy6xn]

In somtimes its not that i dont think coming in time is important but its that i was think that i can do evrything in very short time that cuz of low si, but i fail and i found out that i need more time but i will learn from that.

[@wellingtonwhite2546]

As a male infp, what would be my best match for female personality???

[@kacake]

Your shadow personality

[@NadiaJullienne]

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