I took a personality test yesterday which told me I have the ESFP type but I watched one of your other videos where you said 16personalities can sometimes be off by one letter and recommended other personalities to look at, I ended up resonating deeply with the ENFP personality type and now I'm looking for ways to work on my second function. Your videos are really handy for this, thank you for your efforts.

im still struggling

I wish I had this video back when I was starting. I was so mad because I had great content but wasn't getting any attention. 1k was mission impossible. I was lucky when I found out I can boost my channel with initial subs just enough to start getting noticed. I got myself first couple of hundred subs for very low price (personally used Fame - Ster). After that my main channel gain a ton of organic traffic.

This is actually so incredible! Please turn this into a book that takes readers through the steps 🙏 I would buy a copy for me, one for each of my children, my best friend, and everyone else that I care about in life!! I have saved this video so I can go through the steps that you lay out, but a book / workbook would be phenomenal!!

Thanks a bunch for this Alexis- So helpful. Im gonna get started. I think my niche is making spiritual journey and healing videos. Sharing my own insights and healing. You are a very good teacher and motivator for others on here

Min viable routines

Angry: Change what? Who to help? Heartbreak: Help with what? Purpose/your people? Envy: Criticize people you envy. Next step…

Thinking out loud: my Fe doesn’t ignore that which goes against harmony in others. I have a compulsion to diplomatically win those people with those ideas over toward compromise. My Ti will spend time understanding them for this purpose. And also just for curiosity. When I was younger, I did ignore negative emotions in myself for the sake of harmony.

I love this so much! Thank you for sharing.

remenber..all Introverts do the opposite of their endings...... Greetings from an intj 😊

Same, same ,same. My jokes are taken waayyy too seriously. So much so I don’t even joke anymore

what's her husband's channel? I want to support him aswell.

Absolutely terrific video Alexis. Very glad that I found it. Loved and subbed and will be implementing a lot of this for 2025

Love this! So helpful ❤

Thank you from a fellow INFP, it's refreshing to hear someone who believed and appreciate our gifts. I shut away a lot of my dreams and goals and had been on this search of my career for 4 years now, as I couldn't see myself working in a cubicle or just doing office and everyday work till I die, I tried to negotiate with myself as well, telling myself I just have to get through it and figure a way out when I earn enough and be content with it but every time I am at work my brain drifts off to drawing and music, I have goals to share stories in drawing format but it got crushed by a lecturer who told me my art style was overrated and procrastination led on. Not to mention social media help me to have a negative perspective in my art progress by comparing my work to others works who probably spent 10 years+ of hard work to make a beautiful masterpiece. I recently broke out of that mentality and am actively practicing a healthier and positive mindset, your video and words inspired me to try and start again. I have to properly sit down and plan things out step by step, maybe be a little more honest with myself too. I heard a job advice that said, often times we already know what we want to do but we just don't see it as a possible career, yet we failed to remind ourselves how social media and technology happened from a person's vision from many years ago who wished to see this day happened. That is probably me now, I know what I enjoyed doing but I do not know if I can turn it into a self-sustaining business too, my path is now overrun by fear and worries instead of faith and trust, I haven't been inspired and confident like this in a while, so thank you. To all my fellow INFP's or anyone struggling like we do, let's work hard and live an honest life! God bless you all

Thank you so much for this video, I have never created a vision board before and this video just guided me and put me through on how to go about it

Oh wow! 51 year old here.. Been trying to get control of the TE function for around 10 years.. It’s time in my life where it’s now or never and I have to get control of the TE!! Can’t believe how spot on this video is! Thank you! 😊

As someone who tested INFJ six years in a row, and only just recently got ENFJ on a 4th test, I finally feel like I can understand myself. You actually have a talent for explaining this in ways that represent the idea in a grounded way.

FAVE video Alexis

This is great!! Awesome way to look at things. I was able to break down my goals into the year and month, will dedicate an hour a week day to my goals. Super excited to try this new system :)

I love your videos. Your channel made me understand the cognitive functions. It’s like listening to a teacher who’s really genuinely into their subject matter.

In my younger years I was an ESTJ and have been in leadership/a manager. Now that I’m older and not managing I retested as a ISTJ (which in other personality tests, I’ve always been on the border of extroversion/introversion). Your explanations have been the best in accuracy and helpfulness I think I’ve ever heard about this type. Thank you so much!

Working with ideas rather than hands... Reminds me of when i brought a big thick science book with me to Scout camp...

I'm an ENFJ. Not everybody, but some people tell me they feel like I can see through them. And yeah, blunt honesty.

‘I think I’m more suited to a slower communication style, than video.’ -Your videos are the kind of golden nuggets that motivate me to keep sifting through the KZbin rubble. Actually valuable and actionable. I hope you’ll keep doing videos!

super helpful

Great work. Thank you for the video. Well detailed.

INFP here with Rh negative blood type _ I can't help but suspect That would be extremely common.

I'm surprised there aren't more comments on this. I've been following your channel for about the past month, I find your information to be well stated and extremely helpful. True to form, this video is Singley one of the greatest videos I have seen all year from anything online. It has been extremely enlightening and helpful and has given me the tools I need to be able to learn more, particularly when it comes to knowing what to search for and how to better understand how to improve my process. I'm sure more people will chime in after the holidays, however I just want to make sure to say that I for one am extremely grateful and you're doing an excellent job please do keep putting out your work. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. God bless you and your family!

INTJ here. Just wanted to remark that your husband seems to give off INFP vibes. My brother is INFP, and has a similar look. ISFPs care more about the details of their look, like they can have a well maintained mustache. INFPs are more likely to have this long naturally unkept hairstyle. You can type INFP/ISFP also based on their Ne/Ni usage. INFPs like to try out a lot of things that do not make sense for an Ni users. Like Windows phones (back then), when it was obvious that you should go either with android or ios. It’s like every option seems to be viable to them, before they try it out.

Unfortunately the only ENFJ I met (that I know of) was narcissistic. 😖 Everything was about image (she was self-admittedly “pretentious”), I never felt she had genuine empathy as a friend, and she seemed insistent to place herself above me and to make me feel below her - when I didn’t go along with that idea, or when I had “success” in any form, I saw it bother her. The healthy kind sound wonderful, though, I want to meet one!

Thank you for this info, as always! 👍

Bizarre knowledge 😂 that's me

Ohh are you on Bluesky ?

You talk really good.

No noise, Nirvana - Day 1

Okay, so Ti is like an internal error-checking system. Like it's incredibly easy for me to edit a piece of writing; the mistakes practically jump out at me. Combine this with Ne and you are pretty much a great scrutinizer and theorizer of whatever field of interest you're into.

11:54 yup. This makes it more difficult to follow through and finish interests.

Great training 😊

Love the vdo absolutel... Just turned 13 today

I love watching your videos! Very enlightening. But this one video caught my attention because you're speaking with an extra heavy vocal fry, especially in the intro. I wonder if that could hurt your vocal cords over time? Maybe that's just a myth. 🤷🏼‍♀

7:00 I'm INFP. I"m hyper critical towards myself but I most certainly show grace towards people. Live and let live. This lack of grace in ESTJ for is the most infurianting flaws in ESTJs. I'm absolutely disgusted by that.

As an ENTP, I did not follow you the past year. Most of planning makes me turn around in my grave. But it is funny when you told about moving to a bigger place and rising to the occasion. Yeah you gotta be careful with that. I hold my dad partially accountable for failing as an ENTJ buying a way too big house in 2008 in retrospective. This induced work ethic idea is very dangerous. Like induced demand and induced supply often is overstated, and luck be understated. I have seen people make the most outrageous, idealistic, outlandish, and faithful expressions which can all be summarised through the economics of induction. Mainly, just live small and you win in life. The higher the fixed cost, the higher the likelihood of bankruptcy. Always minimise fixed cost over variable costs, unless you can get a substantial fixed cost dividend (economies of scale). For example, capital building and asset management. How does it look like as an investment, no really, are you living in SF because it's an investment, or is that just the ESFP kind of rationlalisation. Is it cold hard assessment, or fuzzy feeling investment. Usually a 50-50 is the ideal combination, a mix of a core on fixed assets, but a substantial variable asset mindset. If you are planning to live less than 5 years in one place, just go variable. I'm 25 and almost all of my assets are semi-liquid. Makes me much more flexible. Do not be mistaken, your brain is gambling when you say "it works better when I take a leap of faith". It is the same circuitry you are activating. My dad got caught off-guard in the financial crisis, and he was trying to fix his problems, and it just got worse and worse, not being able to bite the bullet of recession of his own life, essentially not raising the interest rates, but just suffocating through inflation which he in a way caused by his grandiosity. Then he started to become frustrated, and subsequently started frustrating his family. Now he lost all contact with me and my sister. A good plan contains a plan A, plan B, and a plan C. I do not engage unless I can guarantee success. Just counting on a plan A is a terrible hand to deal with. It is gambling all your money on pocket jacks, and everybody knows pocket jacks can be the most divisive hand in poker. It can be massively winning for some, and massively losing to others. I play jacks because I know I can fold, but people who get too caught up in induction may be inclined to inflate the pot because "I am pot committed" while absolutely not being pot committed mathematically speaking, just busting off their entire stack with mediocrity.

INTJs have the potential to do great things but sometimes lack the opportunity. From my experience, no matter what job, I put my all into it plus some. What prevented the opportunity to move up was my ability to question bad decisions. Bosses hate to be challenged. Your mind is your true wealth. When you're feeling down, just keep going and don't lose yourself.

“I feel like 40k subscribers is not possible” you have 65k now girl! 🥳

Thank you