ALICIA KEYS' TOP 10 RULES FOR SELF LOVE

[@jarostigui2186]

Dear Alicia Keys, I don't know if this even applies, but I'm 72 years old and have grown so much in the past 10 years due to a heart attack in my 50's and breast cancer at 62, losing everything but my name after building for more than 40 years. Which I found that when I had nothing left to give there was no one there in return. Listening to you has been the hight of my life, I have learned so much from all that you are. Yes! I now I'm old enough to be your grandmother, but you are pretty awesome. I'm what is called a Heyoka from birth and life has been hard, but most rewarding. When I started listening to you on youtube in the time now, I can't believe how many skins I have grown out of... Thank you so much and I thank the Universe for someone like you, Julie P.S. Please continue what you do, there are many women out there so lost and no one road to follow and feel lost about themselves... Keep up what you are doing.

[@jackiejames3898]

Bless you. I loved reading your words🌟🌟🌟

[@universalname3401]

J Arostigui wishing health and healing upon you. Many many blessings 🤍

[@dawnkoski3590]

💛

[@jjheartscows]

Alicia needs to see this! 💙💜

[@GetCraftyLemons]

Love this and so could be my words!! I am 57 and have changed soooo very much!! I love Alicia Keys and who and what she is and does!!!

[@chevelllasheaedwards3090]

My Auntie taught me to sing love songs to myself!!!

[@mariaparamsukh]

yes! that's a great idea!

[@Honey-Bee-25]

Thats a great idea!! Trying it in front the mirror. I imagine it'd be like next level affirmations 😍💕

[@drjenwhite]

What a smart auntie!

[@m.m9136]

Great idea! 💕

[@EarlNova]

I love itttttt

[@MartinezGardenia]

Alicia is so at peace with herself she is glowing pouring with self love vibes. This is just amazing. I'm coming back to this video when I need a little reminder. :)

[@QuestforBeauty]

she's the best! ✨🙏🏻 her and Brene Brown

[@ruwansolangaarachchi5716]

Give yourself love. Be honest with yourself. Take care for yourself. Explore yourself. Pay attentions to the words you say. Live in now. The power of now. Selflove. The law of Attraction. Trust yourself always. Be creative.

[@clarcc]

I loved the "Be assertive" tip because personally for me it's really difficult to have the guts to face people and speak up and because of this I have zero self-confidence. So we all shouldn't feel guilty or ashamed to speak our minds!

[@msomuchoki]

My biggest lesson was be assertive do not apologize for being clear about what you want or how you feel

[@Shadaeprincessinspiration]

Sweet voice awww Alicia. She speaks well. Do what feels good to you.

[@jontezmuzik]

She's a whole package.. Beautiful,caring, loving, inspiring,,, name em

[@shirmes9950]

Talented artistic centered soul

[@QuestforBeauty]

beautiful inside and out! 🙏🏻

[@charlita25]

Her vibrations are always high,,, very inspiring positive energy.

[@mindspo]

We love her vibe so much 🙏 Which tip is your favourite? 🦋

[@brendacecil]

She is an underrated queen I will always love her, she´s so pure and full of love

[@QuestforBeauty]

SHE IS ✨🙏🏻

[@waynegill137]

I am a 73 year "young" man and I can relate to the idea of doing something I want to do and just do it by myself. I've been planning a trip to a major city like New York or L A., Los Vegas, San Francisco and Washington DC. I have been worried about having someone to share the experience with. There is no significant other in my life and thus far I have not taken any trips at all. As of this moment I am making plans to go to New York for a week. By myself. Thank you Alicia Keys.

[@robindebacker]

I hope your trip was / is amazing. And that you embrace/explore yourself on the journey. I'm also inspired by Alicia, and at 69, there's no end to the learning.

[@waynegill137]

@@robindebacker Thank you for that comment. It is an inspiration in knowing that I am not alone in my pursuit towards an "old folks trip" all by myself. Lol

[@robindebacker]

@@waynegill137 Did you finally make it to NYC? Any follow-up inspirations?? I'm not much of a solo traveler, but I am also thinking of needing to be more of one.

[@waynegill137]

@@robindebacker Not yet. Not until this Covid-19 is over. It will happen in the summer of 2021 for sure. I'll need to get out of the house by that time before I go crazy. Lol.

[@monave2938]

I like how Alicia acknowledged that all humans have masculine & feminine energy, unfortunately not ALL people know this, or understand this concept. It is only something I learned in my 30’s.

[@tongulajones9910]

AMEN!! Self love is the best love!! I am a deep person. For all the deep people we are very misunderstood at all times. Only a deep person can understand a deep person!! Alicia keys is deep!! Loving me 2020

[@elizabethwoods2853]

OH G0D THIS IS S0 DAM G00D Y0U SPEN Y0UR WH0LE LIFE TRYING T0 MAKE 0THER PE0PLE HAPPY THAN Y0UR SELF I SPENT 33 WITH A MAN I WAS ALLWAYS TRYING T0 BE THE BEST WIFE T0 HIM D0 EVERY T0 THINGS T0 MAKE HIM HAPPY I WAST MY SELF IT WAS DRIVEING ME CRAZY I NEVER LEARN WH0 I WAS AND WHAT MADE ME HAPPY I L0ST MY SELF I N0W KN0W Y0U CAN N0T LET A MAN TAKE 0VER Y0UR MIND I DID AT 58 YEARS 0LD I LEFT MY HUSBAND I WAS MARRIED T0 HIM 33 YEARS I AM N0W 65 YEARS 0LD I AM SAD STILL S0ME DAYS BUT N0W I AM FREE T0 FIND WHAT I LIKE AND WHAT MAKES ME HAPPY N0W I D0 PRAY F0R M0RE SELF L0VE F0R MY SELF AND THE G0D WILL SEND ME ANTHERE HUSBAND THIS WAS S0 G00D FOR ME

[@jontezmuzik]

Iam one of them

[@QuestforBeauty]

YESSS ✨🙏🏻✨🙏🏻

[@jeffreyrichardson]

amen

[@roniquadavis8564]

Be Assertive and when Alicia describes the feminine and masculine side in us (females and males). That’s amazing

[@SoulGlowHealing]

I have always loved Alicia Keys. She is one of my biggest female idols. Have always loved her music, her spirit, her wisdom, her essence, her aura. She is everything beautiful about a woman

[@kimwoo3504]

The self love tip from Alicia that really resonated with me at this time in my life is: Self tip no. 5 - “Pay attention to the words you say “ - “say when not if”

[@mindspo]

Hey Kim, That’s our favourite too! 💛 Thank you for watching ✨

[@taylorcamille5493]

The first self love song I've ever heard was Epiphany by BTS. The second was I Love me by Demi Lovato. I think that these kinds of love songs should be much more popular in our culture. Songs that help to Grow the relationship with ourselves instead of encouraging us to always focus on everyone else.

[@dorahtsamai8076]

I feel safer with me and I always tell the ladies I train, you've got yourself to lose, therefore show yourself grace...I respect you Alicia, you are pressing all the right Keys....

[@freshnsweet2082]

Alicia: Switch up love. Remind ourself to love ourselves. Me: Deep Loving yourself is pure and beautiful and I agree with her words. Alicia need to write a book on “Loving yourself 1st”.

[@kortney3767]

Fresh n sweet she did if i’m not mistaken it’s called more myself

[@paulinezipagan2136]

Tip #1 is what i surely resonated with. I just realized this few months ago that, I shouldn't sing for anybody else, but myself.

[@mariahwilson6486]

i cant express how grateful of you for putting together this amazing motivational and inspirational blueprint of how to love me and find me thank you thank yo thank you

[@flerinepierretoussaint6108]

I say yes to everything that has ALICIA KEYS 's name on it ! But I say yes for you too ! Thank you for this video !

[@ninazenayac.9150]

3. Take time for yourself and 4. explore yourself : this is so important for your self-esteem to figure out who you are and what it is that you stand for! Ask yourself in an inner dialogue! In this busy society we need to take time for ourselves!

[@mindspo]

We do! 💛 Thank you Nina ☺️🧚‍♀️

[@Homebody_yogi]

I love her view on assertiveness and opposing energies. I am a cancerian and very fiery and defensive about things that I truly care for and love. My emotional side just urges me to speak up and I simply can't keep quiet. I often come across then as not so "feminine" because I take a masculine approach to things : If I were to stay silent, nothing woul ever progress! We must defend the one's who don't even know how to defend themselves, who feel that they deserve to the oppressed and so on. I need the dynamic to SPEAK UP and shake things up a bit. I do not want to apologize for that quality in me, ever again. Thank you Alicia for being an advocate of freedom!

[@mindspo]

The Universe cherishes those who are brave enough to unapologetically use their voice ✨ Monika, the world deserves to hear you!! You’ve got this!! 💪💛

[@kathy2888]

Love your comment! I agree.

[@jackiejames3898]

Alicia Keys please keep talking about self love. You have way of articulating what it's all about better then anyone I've ever heard. When you put it out there it's priceless🌟🌟🌟

[@smileducoeur2796]

So much wisdom from a sophisticaded lady tuning to thé all natural version....love her...as well with no make-up,juste being herself 👍♥️😍⭐✨

[@janehappiness4378]

I love your choice of words and the way you bring them out effortlessly

[@kailynembrack9110]

We're not going to talk about how smooth that singing to talking transfer was at 2:13?

[@alenoush21]

I love everything you shared One comment about frustration on people’s judgment: as you said let’s focus on ourself ... every one is entitled to their judgement ... the moment you give your attention to any judgment it takes your energy of that moment to that judgment ... then there is frustration But if there is no attention to that judgment subsequently you are living your life and therefore no frustration ;) 💞💪🌸💕🌷💓💖 Loads of love to you Alicia

[@maha6025]

I have read about self love for years and I didn’t change It is so easy to love everyone except myself idk why

[@aligningwithcoachlee3893]

Maha Hello, it’s a process and learning the technique to doing this will help you.

[@autimecerhone8802]

Yes Alicia yes I know exactly what you're talkin about at first is unfamiliar to us when we be by yourself but as we go along we come to realize it's the best thing could have happened to us we get to know ourselves in a way that we would have never discovered if we hadn't tried it

[@tyheciacampbell5060]

I discovered tip 1 just last week, it’s really a mental thing when you change the meaning of songs. Even if it’s a song that used to make you tear up now you can redefine and make it a happy song.

[@mindspo]

Wow! That’s powerful! Thank you for sharing that tip 🦋✨

[@Angie-mw4dj]

💖😆 first one she says - about listening to love songs and singing it to yourself, I been doing that now a few years, always done it with my children, so for instance Sade - by your side, that's my son's song, Etta James at last, that song is to all my children and how they made me feel when they was born and the love they brought me 💖💖💖 what I also did as part of my self love journey, and what really worked so well for me, was when I also started treating myself as my own best friend, as I was going thru life and a lot of traumatic events, I felt so trapped in the circus of my life I couldn't find my way out of the darkness I was living in! So I started talking to my self like I would with my friends, I removed myself back from each situation and said - ok imagine this is my friend going thru this what advice would I give to them regarding it? 🤔🧐 And as I started to live like that and treat myself like my own best friend, my life changed for the better, I broke up with my ex the father of my child, and you know he treats me with so much respect, it's quite an amazing experience, that once you put your boundaries up and be strong in love with yourself, people can't help but respect you and life changes up!!! Also remember there's a huge difference between self love and selfish! One love ❤️

[@toussaintan]

Brilliant. (my name's Angie too😄)

[@phoebemwirigi7685]

@Angie 77 This is really deep. Thank you😊

[@Carolina_girl86]

It'll be 5 years in May (I remember she did the mother's day special "Dear Mama", cuz I had just had my son (my one and only child with my ex husband) 5 days before and I was sitting there holding my newborn baby boy watching her on the mother's day , my first mother's day while crying (hormonal) special and noticed she had no make-up on) since she stopped wearing makeup. She said on here she's just taking a break.

[@camillanobre7404]

The only celebrity I follow on Instagram. Love this lady.

[@mindspo]

❤️❤️❤️

[@beatpirate8]

Thank you ! I started playing ukelele and singing slow to myself before bed. And it's been lovely time for me . I'm learning to do this a lot in shelter time.

[@mindspo]

That sounds so calming 🍃✨

[@ndodier]

I need to love myself more been in this journey for a while, I think it a lifetime journey.

[@aligningwithcoachlee3893]

Ngalula Dodier Hello, the process is getting over some past things that’s been holding you down. Once you over come them your mindset will change.

[@kawaiilibra2709]

As a mixed trans girl...with 4 older Beautiful mixed sister's...I look up to Alicia keys just as much as I do them..the no makeup movement....was so inspiring...I stopped wearing make up every day

[@yenni7363]

Binging on Alicia Keys' positive vibes is making my dayyyy. Inspired check, amused check, smitten check.

[@mindspo]

Yes 🙌🙌

[@suset813]

She had me at tip#1.....had those same thoughts and she’s right!

[@emilyrapp7132]

Alica your words are so powerful, you are my Inspiration,

[@longawelt9639]

OMG, these 10 sentences must become a morning prayer. Thanks for creating this compilation!

[@mindspo]

Certainly! 🙏 Thank you so much for watching ☺️💕

[@maryfifita2591]

I love Alicia Keys 😍😍😍❤️ I can listen to her all day. I love all her self love tips.

[@diegopolo8979]

Thank you, its sondeeply touching hearing someone talking so deeply what I think too in my personal way, thank you

[@zhulia]

What a Queen. 👑

[@laurence2299]

💯🙏🏾🙌💯 TIPS 1 & 2 are definitely the one for me ❗️and for pleasure I’ll add 9 & 10 🤗

[@Centimilli]

Yes! I song love songs to myself/universe and it is overwhelmingly emotional I start to cry sometimes. Most beautiful thing ever.

[@mindspo]

So beautiful 🙏😌❤️

[@marjadauria4149]

Alicia hit home with every tip. Thank you home girl.

[@cynthia2351]

Alicia Keys is such a beautiful soul✨Her statements really gave me more confidence in getting to know and be myself

[@fitzbylea4851]

So beautiful

[@ivoryhowarth6564]

Such an inspiration✨❤️

[@Maria-rv2fk]

The thing she says about being assertive... Like, that hit me so haaaard! because I always do those self-judgements for the things I say.. Damn...

[@mindspo]

Yess girl!! I get you! We’ve got to start unapologetically using our voices and taking up space like we should! 💖✨

[@christinaheesakacowden-wut3809]

You know: SELF is just an accumulation of believes that we carry around. It is not US. We are bejond this self made self. When we grasp this, we can detach from so called "faults" and recognize them as just paradigms. We realize that we are so much more than "Self", the real US is so much greater. So when you get up in the morning, tell your"self": "What am I going to be today?, what role am I going to play today?, how will I let "self" feel today?, ... and so on. Take charge of your own "self" and the paradimgs it consists of and play with it. Create the life you want to experience. :-)

[@mindspo]

Christina, I love love love how you worded your explanation!! 💖 This will help so many people, thank you so much for your wisdom and for sharing your light 💛✨💛✨

[@christinaheesakacowden-wut3809]

@@mindspo You are very welcome. Love and Peace

[@justindavid8074]

Wow!! I was just looking for something to look at and this is exactly what I needed. I loved all of the tips , but # 10 was the t for me. Wow! Amazing

[@yadiraaquino1733]

she is trying to recognize and appreciate the value that she has just for being the human being that she is, and i think thats great! BUT! i recomend you people being careful about NOT "HANGING IN THERE" (thinking about yourself only) forever, because life is not only about you but about others too.

[@seacristal3080]

Facts on EVERYTHING! This girl is on🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@tarshablack6186]

Just love all the energy!!!

[@leislsmith4293]

She's such an awesome role model. I simply adore and respect her. I've been through some deep trauma. Thank you for the concept of turning the love song upon oneself. I never thought of it like that. Good stuff. ONE

[@aligningwithcoachlee3893]

Leisl Smith Hello, trauma can cause us to hold on to pain that causes us to forget the most important to love self.

[@diharmony5532]

That's my Queen here💜👑 Thank you for this great video!

[@autimecerhone8802]

Yes I feel that way I like to experiment with different styles different varieties of taste always experimenting with new creative ways upstyle and variety

[@kortney3767]

i love how she’s barefoot in 5:50, it’s just something about her🥺

[@QuestforBeauty]

she's so grounded! ✨🙏🏻

[@GatsieP]

Wow thank you was going through step 8 and nine. Now at peace.

[@mindspo]

Thank you for watching, I’m so glad it could bring you peace 🦋✨

[@rynrevels]

Don’t apologize for how you feel!

[@mindspo]

Certainly! Your emotions are a powerful guidance system ✨

[@jamettadickerson2203]

I REALLY NEEDED THIS!!! THANK YOU ❤️

[@ThnkLikeAWomn5]

She so beautiful 😭😭😭😭

[@domo000]

her soul has an empowering nature

[@oliviasade7530]

Wow!! I didn't know I needed that as much as I did. Beautiful!

[@mindspo]

Your intuition guided you here ☺️🍃Which one resonates with you the most? 💛✨

[@destinypalin8629]

alicia is so pure 😍😍😍♥️

[@QuestforBeauty]

this voice 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@5thousevibes1111]

My fav tip from alicia was #7. I can relate to embracing my feminine and masculine side. I’m more feminine driven than I am masculine naturally and that’s not because I’m a woman. My birth chart is majority feminine and physically in my everyday life I am. That’s so cool she mentioned that, because I was thinking about it in her earlier tips. A woman can be mostly masculine or a man can be mostly feminine it just depends on how they express them selves.

[@mindspo]

Hey Keshia, I love how you have worded your perspective 💛 I totally agree with you ✨

[@5thousevibes1111]

Mindspo Thank you 💚

[@5thousevibes1111]

Mindspo I’m happy you understand and I will watch more of your videos whenever I get the time 💛

[@krissing5228]

Alicia I love you yes I am in season of healing and self love

[@hannahbrooks7398]

I love you, Alicia. Awesome lady.

[@lucymaynard6798]

I love her more and more each day

[@darlene2454]

Self love I should be talk about more🦋

[@sherilynnbettevy8833]

Thank you very much Alicia...so very inspiring.love ya

[@Andrea-cc2it]

I so needed to hear this right now. Thank you ❤️

[@mindspo]

Thank you so much for watching we are so glad that it brought value to you ❤️

[@gionagrace3343]

Always so inspirational & such a beautiful soul ❤🌷😄

[@moonaa4495]

It takes a certain person to say something or it's like talking to a brick wall...when the moments right it can happen but change can be gradual or overnight

[@jontezmuzik]

Very true

[@Itsellasky]

I love this ! Self love the best love 💕

[@autimecerhone8802]

Yes Alicia give me some air so I can breathe and be myself yes I know exactly what you're talkin about Agape to you my sister

[@heywardsanders1680]

Its a natural things for one to be balance. Our system stereotyped people in different categories, we grow to adjust to. Nature build in us to understand who we are, without acting macho, or feminine. corporations seen the opportunity to separate it, buy watching how people were designed in the past. Is one reason we got stuck being in one box. When one cook food, change a baby diaper, do all the things to show love, respect, to the community, and people who come in their path, is both parts being display. because we had spend a lot of time with our mothers, when we were young. Macho and feminine is just a stereotype game like every sports game, against each other. Had created a design we learn to dislike because it program the mind to function out of out character, who use it to control our natural selves never understand the truth. All the other stuff were nothing but a create system thing, to play with people minds, the same way with relationships, to trick one mind to think they do not suppose to function by themselves.

[@AmyLaVonne]

Alicia is so wonderful.

[@MotivaTionVibescity]

Omg!!! This is my struggle. Number 7. Worried about how what I say/react will affect people.

[@aligningwithcoachlee3893]

Beneditta Fagbemi Hello, loving self wholeheartedly will help you move pass this. Speaking how you feel without guilt.

[@JoseLerma-r5n]

Love& respect for feminine Divinity intelligence

[@diamondunicorn2421]

A true ♒️ Aquarius ❤️

[@rapsodyevans1693]

yess

[@maryford2362]

I love every tip thank you so much Alicia

[@mindspo]

I’m so glad you enjoyed the video Mary! 😊🦋

[@maylovetraits]

“Trust your dope ass self”

[@sherylhokianga3]

Love U Alicia!!! Amend!!!

[@heathershupe6136]

I really love Alicias message😍

[@mindspo]

She is incredible ✨🙏🦋

[@charlita25]

Yes I am sick 🤒 of limitations and labels 🏷 too.

[@mindspo]

Yes 🙁 We can decide to vibe higher 💪💖

[@widie1284]

As you bring this Alicia keys, I got the reason to subcribe your channel 😊

[@valeriar2571]

I really needed this

[@Carolina_girl86]

Just a correction, Alicia's first hit came out 20 years ago in 2001 "Fallin'" not the 90's.

[@Iamhakeemomari]

I felt tip 7 fr even as a guy I feel like if you are a truthful but also caring person you go through them feelings of feeling a lil guilt of being real which is pretty stupid as I type but I’m like fuck that, I’m real so I speak truth and facts I don’t throw shade I can’t help if you’re under the tree you made.

[@Nourish2glow]

I needed this fuel Thnks for sharing sis 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@mindspo]

Thank you for watching 💛✨

[@coraw5674]

Love this!! I’m so happy I found this Chanel. And I LOVE your top where did you get it from?

[@mslamborghini4476]

As a first tip i always sing the same way 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

[@sandonthebeach9868]

DROP THE MIC 🎤📻LIVE WELL LAUGH OFTEN AND LOVE MUCH AND LOVE MUCH.Great Advice FROM Alecia 😄

[@minniecourtney6449]

Love this. Such an important message ❤️

[@mindspo]

Thank you for watching, Minnie 💛 If you have any suggestions as to who you would like to hear tips from, we would love to hear them! ✨🧚‍♀️

[@sharonwanjiru9959]

Nice create one for rihannah ❤

[@celiasevillanohernan2711]

Favorite so far ❤️