5 things I wish I knew before becoming an OBGYN

[@reneldavisser1928]

Hey, I am in grade 11 . whenever people or teachers ask me what I would like to do and I answer " I would love to be a OBGYN " then everyone would say "eww" and "why would you want to do that" . However my point to this comment is that you have just made me feel confident and positive about my career choice so thank you so much and thanks for the tips😌.

[@biankaliz8524]

Same i am in grade 10 and it can’t imagine myself doing something else

[@Bigliyaah]

I'm in grade 11 and I feel the same way

[@elyanamartinez6392]

Same here. I hope we all achieve that similar goal of becoming an obgyn!

[@SmilingSoulful]

Just tell people who say ew that without OBGYNs, midwives, nurses, etc. they possibly wouldn't be here... And that an OBGYN, midwife, nurse, etc. was probably the first person to hold them. It's an amazing career goal, and I can't believe people judge it. Side note: I'm taking a wild guess here, but are any of you South African...?

[@aisha3005]

HEY I am also in the 11th grade well going to 12th now I really want to become an OBGYN and I get the same reaction I'm really happy to see others my age that want to go in the same field 🥰🥰

[@huntermcspedden2465]

Thank you so much for this. I am a third year medical student in Houston who LOVES women's health, sexual wellness, and all things OBGYN. I can't imagine myself doing anything else but I constantly have doubts about the field ONLY because of what I've heard about malignancy of residency and poor lifestyle. Hearing you talk about the field only affirms my own passion for it, and it feels so comforting to hear a practicing OBGYN say they love what they do and are able to find balance in their life. THANK YOU

[@alirodmd]

I am so so happy to hear this! There will always be people sharing their negativity but don’t listen to them. If this is your passion then this is the field for you!!

[@daliaelhanan]

Hiii I am a junior in highschool whos been interested in gyneacology since middle school. After reading up on the really upsetting statistics about women of colour and maternal mortality rates. I am so thankful for your video. I know its a bit (actually a lot) early to want a specialty but doctors like you make me so sure this is what I want to do.

[@ayeshukhan7136]

I almost gave up on my dream to become a doctor because of all the stressful things that i've read and heard people saying that you will have to work 24 hours straight with no social life and no family blah blah blah but after watching this video a little light of hope has ignited in my heart and i think i can do it, I really wanna do it cause I can't imagine myself doing anything else then this

[@crystaljohnson2425]

I’m currently going through the match process for Ob/Gyn and I can’t express how much I needed to hear your advice. People (mostly outside the specialty) are very discouraging when it comes to lifestyle as Ob. Even seeing you have a YT channel and being happy is so encouraging. Thank you so much for sharing!

[@madisonsiaravids]

Thank you for mentioning #5. I am just barely getting started on my first year of college and three people have told me that OB/GYNs are always on call and that I won’t be able to be a mom (which is one of my main goals in life) and I was talking myself out of it until now.

[@reginazankey5527]

Thank you for this! I’m not a physician but I’ve been an OR RN for a long time now, and I’ve worked within every speciality imaginable but I’ve always gravitated towards GYN. After having my son a couple months ago & working with amazing OBGYNs i was inspired to start WHNP school. Seeing vids like this are helpful and reiterate how special obstetrics & gynecology are!

[@alirodmd]

AMAZING! I am so happy you found this helpful! I'm so excited for you to join the women's health family, there's truly nothing like it! We're magical:)!

[@ioannaploumaki4502]

I think you are the first OBGYN I have ever heard that does not complain about their job and that is exactly how happy I want to be when I finally match into OBGYN residency. Whenever I doubt my choice again I will simply watch this video, so thank you for that!

[@nickiwifeee9530]

Hi Dr.ALI, i am only 13 but I have wanted to be a OBGYN since I was about 6 maybe 7 and watching this video just makes me so excited!!!

[@TressSpecialist]

Number 3 really stuck out to me as a life lesson. I'm 28, I'm currently a nurse of 5 years trying to get into L&D (I currently work in the neonatal ICU and the cardiac ICU). When I started college I wanted to become an OBGYN.. it just always interested me but financially things didn't work out so I started community college and got my ASN/RN then my BSN along the way. I'm not sure if I want to go the OBGYN route or midwife route at this point but it's an idea I find myself revisiting often. Trying to decide which end goal will align more. Enjoyed the video and your positivity!

[@Curiousarawr]

You can do it! I went to community college too and I'm currently a 4th-year medical student. Financials are always hard but there are a lot of scholarships out there and honestly, many of us end up taking out loans. I also have classmates that were nurses previously!

[@sophiahernandez5558]

Loved this video!!! So motivational and inspiring! The "OMG I'm not going to have time if I become an OBGYN!" thoughts/ anxieties hit it on the head! Thanks for sharing and giving such great advice, Dr.!

[@rhenblogslive6045]

Hi Dr. ALI, CAN YOU GIVE US A DAY IN THE LIFE AS AN OBGYN. THANK YOU

[@therealkallie_KAH]

Yes please!!!!

[@alirodmd]

Yes!! Something I've always wanted to film! I just need to figure out the best way to do this, but it's coming I promise!!

[@phatphat4521]

@@alirodmd Can you make a video on "Clitoral numbness" is that a false thing, it is it just a health condition causing that and if you can gain feeling back?

[@a.__mie7544]

I'm a medical student and I wanted to go into ob/gyn from day 1. Being a "cheerleader for women" is precisely what I wanna be.. I couldn't have worded it more perfectly!! I'm so excited to start residency in a few years. Thank you for your content! ^^

[@HappyPharmLife]

When you talked about the feeling of being lazy when you did nothing after residency ended, I totally related! I still struggle with this. I wish I would have taken more time off between residency and my job, 3 weeks which included moving across the country was not enough to learn to be a normal human again! 😅

[@alirodmd]

it's such a big transition! I definitely still struggle with just being okay with relaxing, but I'm learning day by day. In our careers we're conditioned and trained to believe the "go go go" mentality is the only way!

[@ellesterling2422]

I’m so glad you talked about being too busy and not having time for stuff, because I want to be an OB/GYN but I’m scared I won’t have time for a family and stuff like that

[@RedRoseSeptember22]

Check out Mama Doctor Jones, she is married and has four kids and is an OB-GYN :)

[@prapanthebachelorette6803]

@@RedRoseSeptember22 yes, I’m a fan

[@jordanguardado3755]

Can you pleaseeee do a video on how med school life was? I plan to go but I am so scared by everyone telling me that I am never going to be able to live my 20s and have the slightest bit of fun. Also MCAT if possible :)). Loved this vid.

[@alirodmd]

Great idea! I'm adding it to the list of videos to film in the future!

[@andrianachin3914]

Did you ever find a good answer anywhere?

[@Abby-qf8pu]

Hey would u rather have fun in your 20s but always have to worry about your career and finances or be a doctor by late 20s getting to live a lot because u have the finances to do anything u want with the job u love ❤️. That’s what my dad tells me at 13.

[@Viennafly1]

I had similar feelings for different reasons, but don’t do medical school unless you’re sure you want to be someone’s doctor. I love medical school because the idea of being a doctor to my patients keeps me going. It’s incredibly hard and emotionally challenging, but it will feel worth it if it’s something you really want. I would give my 20s and 30s all over again for medicine because I think it’s the most incredible privilege and fun to be in this field. And the MCAT is a stepping stone. You’ll never stop testing in med school. You just have to study slowly and steadily. I found the Kaplan books to be incredibly helpful. And I saw some comments about finance: Do NOT go into medicine if you’re not 100% sure you want to do it for the right reasons. You won’t even make much after student loans, and if that’s all that’s motivating you, you will be absolutely miserable.

[@prapanthebachelorette6803]

@@Abby-qf8pu what you say applies to investing in yourself career wise in general, not just becoming a doctor. What ever you pursue, do it for the right reason and you’re good 😊

[@habibaisah7386]

Being a resident in obgyn....a senior registrar. I enjoyed this video. Esp ur last point when i started i heard so many naysayers telln me i wnt have a life bla bla. And its all BS, i have my job, i have my family (2 kids) and im living my best life. So it is doable, lyk u said, its all time management and knowing how to balance ur work and family. Thank u for this 💞

[@chuckhamilton1101]

You are a amazing woman. Never be ashamed. THE BEST Wish you the very best.

[@The_farahmansour]

Hello DR. Ali, I am an intern and still confused about the speciality I’m looking forward to take, but I think this video of yours is so real , raw and very informative which I really appreciate , thank you so much also for being such a wonderful soul doctor💗💗

[@christavernon4198]

There was an MD on KZbin who is internal medicine and he said “I didn’t go into OB because…ew.” I could NOT believe this guy is a physician. What a child.

[@prapanthebachelorette6803]

To this guy : oh yeah, you get the chance to be alive and well in the first place because of your mom’s OB…… guess who’s grosser now 🤷‍♀️

[@kapembkabeya7051]

I love you. Thank you so much for the encouragement. I'm currently a student in Medschool in second last year towards residency, what we call "internship" in South Africa. I've always been fascinated about OBGYN but my concern was whether or not I'd have a lifestyle that involves family. This video has helped confirm that this is the right career for me. Thank you so much. This video has made a difference. Dr Gloria

[@S9136h]

thank you so much for the last piece of advice it really comforted me, I have had almost everybody telling me not to do OBGYN cuz it is so stressful and I will not have time to sleep or eat.

[@jess0629]

I was 21 when I was told by my OBGYN my baby had t18.. which I didn’t understand. She cried and grieved for me. I’ll never forgot.

[@jess0629]

Therefore it’s a job, I could never imagine.

[@alirodmd]

Such an incredibly difficult situation. Sounds like you have a pretty amazing obgyn. I hope you are well and wishing you nothing but the best!

[@aynazchan2771]

I know this may be off topic but.. in addition to the fact that everything you said in this vid is amazing, your hair is SO PRETTY and the colors you choose for the place around you is so calm and aesthetic!!! Even the colors of the clothes your wearing are convenient for the atmosphere ✨✨✨✨

[@ohemaaafia5651]

Your temperament and outlook on life is everything. You are awesome!

[@aliciakanapilly8617]

Thank you for this video!! I'm trying to explore career options(freshman in college right now) and obgyn/obstetrician is looking REALLY interesting to me, and since I don't have a ton of connections your videos give me a lot of insight :)

[@sourpatchkid247]

“Giving me their opinion... that I didn’t ask for”... yess I’ve been experiencing this soooo much this year as an M3 😫 You addressed so many of my concerns. Would love to talk to you for some mentorship since I’m stuck between OB and FM. Thanks for the video!💕

[@isabe11e99]

I’m up at 3am and just had a thought what would it be like working in labor and delivery? Not that I ever could (I can’t retain information or study easily) but gosh obgyn’s who deliver babies… how amazing. I’m taken back by your day in the life videos!!! That’s a crazy day at work… you delivered so many in one day on hardly any sleep! You’re a super hero.

[@cloudy_tea3857]

That's obstetrics obgyn is both while gynaecology is only women's health if you want something go for it tbh

[@aastha2167]

You are a lifesaver!!! Tomorrow I have to fill choices, and my only concern before taking obgy was lifestyle but I am taking a leaf of faith after listening to you❣️

[@Miadabratt7]

This was an AWESOME video!! Thank you for your encouragement on this long difficult road to become a Doctor

[@alirodmd]

I’m so happy to help!! Glad to share more!

[@decemberbiankasandoval4333]

I will be turning 25 in a couple of months, and I feel like I finally found what I want be in life which obviously is something in women’s health. My question is, am I too old to start a medical career?

[@hydrameion1595]

No. You are not too old to start what you will be doing for the rest of your life. I would rather you do something that makes you happier than something that will be less fulfilling. You may have to find other ways to start your family and to get around things if you haven't already. But it is possible, and I really suggest going for it. :)

[@valeriebeltran2647]

Girl, I’m 27 and I’m a premed student working on my bachelors. In other words, DO WHAT WILL MAKE YOU HAPPY

[@taliaowens5578]

In no way am I bragging I’m just stating what I’ve been through: Reading this comment & comment section makes me feel better too cause I am 20. I got my associates degree when I graduated high school, went to a university, but ended up dropping out and taking a gap year. My grades weren’t the best, I struggled a lot with mental health issues and I think I need to get adhd meds, etc. but I really want to go to back to school. I have a meeting with an adviser at UW (Seattle)next week and I’m praying that I’ll be able to go back to school and afford it

[@alirodmd]

You are not too old! Follow your dreams and do what makes you happy! If women’s health is what your passionate about then this is your sign to GO 👏🏽AFTER👏🏽IT!!! I’m so excited for you!!

[@miajenkins3494]

I started medical school at 31, and I’m currently a 3rd year medical student trying to decide what specialty is best for me. It’s definitely not too late! There are quite a few folks in their late 20’s and 30’s in my class.

[@JustinAdamsMD]

I tell people that in our field it’s “Rainbows and puppy dogs” until it’s NOT. When it’s not, it’s just the worst day in the clinic/hospital. The VERY worst

[@Curiousarawr]

Incoming 4th-year med student here and just wanted to say I really appreciate you and these videos!

[@shitalravte6680]

Hey Doc ! I'm preparing for my PG entrance exams & taking efforts to get obgyn seat ❤️ my doubts are cleared after watching you... Too helpful for me ❤️❤️ thank you 🎉

[@saminadenis3634]

Hey, I just found you and thanks a lot! That's the speciality I wanna do and this video is really helpful. New subscriber here😍 Sending my love all the way from Haiti 🇭🇹🥂

[@renee6989]

I’m a third year student and I felt that when you said “I read books” (on your time off) I miss reading for pleasure. Medicine makes you read for work, and it’s hard for me to read for pleasure.

[@junyi2613]

Sameeeeee :( just read for exam rn I barely have time to read for pleasure after entering med school

[@prapanthebachelorette6803]

Me too. The struggle is real

[@cerridwenfavira5538]

Hi Dr. Ali, can you comment on how you achieve work-life balance as a full-time OBGYN?

[@alirodmd]

This is a great idea for another video!! Gonna work on putting this together!

[@sheilabastida6145]

@@alirodmd how long is medical school? Asking as a high school student and how long it took you to become a obgyn dr

[@manahilijaz7815]

@@sheilabastida6145 obgyn journey usually takes 12 yrs. 4 yrs college. 4 yrs med school. 4 years residency

[@Rockerfeller26]

So informative and clear cut. I loved the video 💖

[@nyahanderson3162]

I really needed to hear this I wanna be married one day and start a family but ppl told me I couldn’t Bc I would be working non stop thank you so much 🥰

[@ashleyleighton-haggy5759]

You are so inspiring, thank you! 🖤

[@alirodmd]

You are so welcome! Glad you are enjoying the videos:)!

[@lorrideur2639]

Thanks for this!!! I really want to be an OBGYN so I enjoyed this!😊

[@alirodmd]

Yay! I'm so glad you enjoyed it! I loved filming it! I want to film more like this in the future!

[@anammm966]

very well explained reasons and i really needed this video. Thanks, Doc! hoping you reach to the top soon

[@katiemcglynn7124]

This helped me so much people have been telling me that its going to take over my life

[@drshaghayegh1358]

I love to become a OBGYN but I scared because lots of scary things I heard from my attending, residents and friends and I'm so happy to see your video 🤩🤩

[@AnAngolanGirlAbroad]

You are an inspiration for people like me who are discouraged to do obs/gyn. I am in medical school and I just love it but everyone keeps saying I will not have time

[@jameshisa1996]

Thank you. Needed number 5. Thank youuuuuuuuuuu

[@danajamanley9451]

Yesss!!!! Super excited to do this career in the futureeee

[@akbarkhanmuhammad9218]

Thank you for the video!! I really appreciate your words and the spirit in which you gave them🙏

[@yasicaakaur4983]

Hi there Dr.Ali. This is my first time watching your video and I really enjoyed watching it. Thanks for this useful guide. Also, I agree with you when you speak about the number 5. ☺️

[@KC9KEP]

I was just some dude who was searching KZbin to understand what OBGYN means! .. and I found your video. Very inspirational and enlightening :-) Thanks for posting :-)

[@orange_catenergy]

I have always wanted to be a OBGYN. The only think I’m scared of is the residency. Are you on call for 24 hours 7 days a week. Also do you have a good memory because my memory isn’t the best but I think I can do it.

[@emreaction9343]

I truly needed this!

[@movieshowdown5705]

YASSS to #3 ! Such a good point to make.

[@toobachandio7982]

Boss, I really really really needed it❤️❤️❤️ love u❤️

[@RoeishaThomas]

Your amazing I can't wait too become a OB GYN Doctor keep up your amazing work

[@eltonjaxxie5989]

Thank you! I really needed this.

[@stephanieisabelmartinez3601]

Awesome video! I'm a Labor and Delivery RN. I was wondering if you can make a Q&A alongside a Nurse Midwife please? I am trying to decide which I want to pursue. Thanks!

[@alirodmd]

Great idea!! I'll see if I can get this filmed!

[@stephanieisabelmartinez3601]

@@alirodmd thank you 💖

[@DM-qx3yz]

Can you please do a video on how insulin resistance affects the woman? Thank you in advance!

[@jessy6112]

Puedes hacer un vídeo explicando cuantos años te tomo convertirte en una OBGYN ?? Please y a que escuela fuistes explicando cosas que necesitamos saber ! Por favor 🙏🏻

[@harrystyles7822]

Yo tambien quiero saber!

[@jessy6112]

@@harrystyles7822 well escuche el video completo y ella dijo que le tomó un periodo de 12 años en total en la cual recorrieron de la siguiente manera 4 años en la universidad después de salir del high school seguido por 4 años más en la escuela de medicina en San Juan Puerto Rico , por último 4 años de residencia para trabajar como un OBGYN con residencia al parecer la residencia te ayuda a tener. Un rango más alto y ganar más dinero !!

[@Acheampomaa100]

Thank you so much for thissss,!!, you are inspiring

[@soziema1310]

I wish you talked more about how you can achieve a “good” lifestyle, like what’s your schedule?

[@chantyescobedo7031]

OmG I love it so much!😭💕

[@marisapious4042]

Thanks for this video it’s very motivating

[@darshikagoyal2100]

That last lines were really happy Iam from India n iam planning to take obgy

[@kcpetranovich6474]

Question: how would you talk to a friend or patient that has had a horrible experience with their OBGYN? My last prenatal apt (that is considered high risk) went absolutely horrible because of the mannerisms and professionalism of my doctor. I ended up asking to be put on a different doctors care. As the doctor would you want the patient to speak up up you? How would you deal with this from a doctors point of view?

[@kcpetranovich6474]

Or even yourself. If you had a bad experience as the patient what would you do? Specifically with OB care

[@KarmaWorlld]

8 years to be an obgyn scares me a little, like I want to be able to experience the “new adult” lifestyle and do fun things but I’ve also had a lot of women struggle with miscarriages so I want see the happy side of it

[@lailabelle1029]

How old were you when you went to medical school? I’m almost 23 years old and am only finishing my associates and would love to become a OBGYN. Do you think I have a chance?

[@alirodmd]

100% You have a chance! I started medical school at 24! You're never too young to go to medical school!

[@domolovr00]

Thank yoou! ✨💯

[@sierracm1905]

can you do a video on talcum powder? like, is it safe or not? is the use behind using it based on shame? is it actually effective or is it a waste? glad to find a new obgyn to subscribe to :)

[@shreyapourush5025]

Not safe. The ones that contain asbestos and other silicates are Known to cause vaginal cancer! Best to avoid it I say!

[@malikaalibdat7079]

Please do a video on your match process as an img!!

[@Sam-od3qd]

I started my M1 year when my son was 2mo and i'll be in M2 with another newborn. I don't know why I keep trying to convince myself against OB when I clearly enjoy the chaos anyways

[@ruthvansandt9713]

Pregnancy is terrifying, lol. Sounds like you do treat pregnant moms with respect. I wish all OBGYNs did!

[@minqrts]

I have a question, during college, how exactly do we make money? I'm worried I won't be able to pay for things.

[@breannastutz5955]

Can you please do a video explaining HCG levels❤️

[@alirodmd]

Good idea! I'll add it to my list of topics to cover in the future!

[@Mina2006-p]

How old are you and how long did you study to get where you are

[@rednataui350]

Is it too late to start at 45 years of age?

[@skunk12]

Can totally relate! 2 things I wish i had been a bit more thorough about before venturing out as an OBGYN. First things first: The smell. No one told me about the overwhelming odors. Do not underestate the power of that dynamic. Yeah, yeah vaginas are amazing and all that jazz, but they really arent always amazing. Second, dont know why, but i always imagined that 99.9% of my patients would be the calibre of models. They arent. I wish there were a way for my staff to prescreen the walk-ins.

[@Ruthokotie]

Hey sorry please i want to be an obgyn but I don’t know what to major in for university I was wondering if u could tell me what to major in bc I recently just found out that u can’t major in medicine or nursing as an undergrad

[@sakshikohli5393]

How many 24hr shifts does an obgyn resident have in a week?also in US do residents have sat sun off?

[@heartangel7875]

hi! what premed should i take if i want to be an ob gyne? is midwifery okay?

[@shrndz_11]

Hello Dr. Ali ❤ can you explain perineoplasty?

[@georgianaileqe4865]

So how many days do you work a week??

[@OluwanifemiOyebode]

Do you get paid for residency

[@amberkureshi7898]

Hi Dr. Ali, I’m a college student and I was hoping to get into an internship… any recommendations please,

[@brit1049]

Hi can anyone tell me what the best major I should get my degree in to become an OBGYN is?

[@ggsclearyourfavs]

10:35 this is so true plus they assume that all women want kids

[@Samrridhisethia01]

Hey doc , You’re so cool Wanted t okay , is your fifth point actually true that you can sleep and live your life after choosing obgy as a speciality?

[@amandacase3637]

Dr.Ali, do residents have a good salary during residency?

[@Legal.Knievel]

Hell no. A lot of residents make $50-60k a year and work 80+ hrs a week.

[@alirodmd]

Depends on each program how much a resident salary is, they also take into account the city you live in, ie a resident in NYC will get paid more than someone in say Texas because the cost of living is more expensive in NYC. But overall probably 45-60k depending on your speciality, city, program, etc

[@mimi.m.6227]

please at what age can you be an ob-gyn

[@mariakan9]

❤❤❤❤

[@manishshah6067]

Hi, Wanna check - There's student planning to do OBGYN as Career ahead. Appearing for NEET in 2024. Persue Studies in Abroad location & may be practice too. With My searches , Finding ample options but with respect to Degree - Which all Counties offered Affordable option & Opportunities. Thanks.

[@guwapjohnn5123]

can a guy be a OB?

[@anushkapapney8062]

❤️

[@truthstands4ever]

Try being a male who is interested in becoming an OB/GYN. Even more negative comments at times from family and friends, questioning motives etc. The majority of students entering the field today are female, but there are still plenty of males as well. The doc who delivered our first child via emergency C-section was an amazing male doc from the mid-west. Super competent and with very good patient communication. 👌🏻 As a male considering a change in careers, if I become a doc like my childhood dream I would want to be a doc like him.

[@Ducits]

🙌❤️

[@CRKindle149]

3:34 as a lesbian, that sounds really odd

[@drharitha8752]

Wowww…

[@mariasquif6332]

Can you post a vid on nexplanon?

[@alirodmd]

Just posted a KZbin #short on the Nexplanon! On how we place them!

[@aminemaravalo31]

You are very beautiful

[@nellaab779]

Runnnn from being an obgyn