all the tea you need to know about me (boys, tinder, plans after college)

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A sPiCY Q&A ~spilling all the tea~ about boys, relationships, tinder adventures, and my sex life, probably all of which I definitely should not be publishing online. Also some real content not involving boys, like my career goals, plans after I graduate college this year, and where I’m moving next.
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shorts: agolde (rstyle.me/~ayPmq)
F A Q
what’s your name? ashley
how old are you? 20
how tall are you? 5'5"
what ethnicity are you? half british and half burmese
what equipment do you use to film?
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➭ editing: final cut pro
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[@CheezyMonsta]

“5 shots in - I was born in 1998 ... you do the maths” Me: oh cool shes the same age as me wait that’s still over 18 why is it ba- ohhh america

[@luciataylordeleon]

Same!

[@amaliwijesooriya8315]

Same times 1/2 I get easily confused by international drinking ages

[@amaliwijesooriya8315]

@Ella Figg sup duuuude :3

[@squid_nik7833]

What is going on in the replies? I’m very confused

[@sanjanasriv]

@Ella Figg Hola fellow ARMY

[@theFrenchBabette]

That's insane that you have a quarter million subscribers and busting out quality content and your mom has no idea??? I would be such a proud mom

[@gingerr8015]

Half a mill now!

[@clarissagutierrez5015]

Winyl Winyl lmao been another 2 months now and it’s 870k

[@kam6431]

Clary Gutierrez up to date it’s 881k ;)

[@swathymk7105]

Update: it's 952k now 😂❤️

[@AnaClaraCavalcante]

Now it is 1M 😂🎉

[@thefilmcubano]

Welp I officially feel like the only dude who watches these videos. But I stand by my decision.

[@Hakoona]

Chris Bailey yaasss!!

[@thesleepydot]

Chris Bailey I mean she’s amazing, so I don’t blame you at all

[@imdrum6881]

She's so cool, so don't worry!!! Her account is for everyone

[@motheomawela6076]

You’re not alone. And I also stand by my decision

[@EB_DC]

I'm here too. I plan to stick around for the foreseeable future.

[@stephkait6032]

One day she's going to be really famous from youtube. Then be out in public .with her mum, someone comes up to her knowing who she is. That day will be so awkward and confusing for her mum. lol

[@estheryang1247]

damn right, our girl is at 1.5 million and going strong (!!)

[@ceciliayw]

1.7 million!!!!

[@rosalinenguyen3146]

1.8 million!!

[@kirstyhill9019]

Rosaline Nguyễn 1.9 million :)

[@sarahhenschel1127]

2.1

[@carsyngatlin]

Does she have a podcast? Cuz I would live for that

[@zajobriofficial]

it is actually addicting hearing Ashley talk and her content is just so honest, a podcast is perfect... but i wanna see her to cause she's cute.

[@andreashelton]

Carsyn Gatlin yes me too

[@disc0duck]

Shit yeah

[@jinghangyang4824]

same！！！！！！

[@alissaye8826]

I literally listen to her videos as my background music like her voice is so perfect. Even if she says that she's not that articulate, her podcast would be amazing!

[@luisaflicker9753]

also i really sensed your anxiety when talking about not “helping” people with your job, bur you should know that it isn’t true. maybe you aren’t helping some dying children but your videos inspire me and just hearing you talk makes me fucking happy :)

[@meeyajae]

ditto!!

[@paulinerivera2708]

i literally binge watch her videos whenever i feel upset especially her thrift ones those are bombshells 💖

[@katherinefotopoulos9244]

I agree! I feel a real connection with ashley and we would be good friends in real life 😂! I just had a boy flake out on a date and watching this video put me at ease and not worry about that boy lol

[@laura_rovetti]

I agree! I freaking love her personality, and watching her videos or hearing her talk always makes me smile and laugh. Although her videos aren’t having a direct impact or obvious impact on people, they still have an impact - and a positive one at that :)

[@Tima-oz5te]

Definitely agree, her vids make me feel more confident to try new things and experiment

[@zheahra]

I wish I could talk fast and make sense.

[@SellyGouw]

zheahra SAME HAHAHA

[@mishripettinger6170]

I can

[@gellethecat]

s a m e

[@rominamayrin]

Same

[@BiMiHi]

Same

[@sarahk.g.7861]

*~sweaty is my main personality trait~*

[@stonecat676]

what a coincidence, I fart whenever I drink tea we should meet up!

[@gracemullane5681]

at least it's not mayo

[@zompatenzin4995]

Blushing is my trait

[@ooogaming2246]

Sweaty from what?

[@VictoriaHatzson]

It's amazing how: 1)You managed to make a 20-minute video without making it the tiniest bit boring, I usually never stick to watch a full 20-minute video expect if I need to for some reason or it's super interesting so wow congrats for that... 2)You talked so openly about sex stuff just wow wasn't expecting that, you really have an amazing personality

[@emmymarlene5022]

I’m watching this while David is your boo

[@robinjane6197]

Me too. And I smiled when she said she wanted a bestfriend. And I guess she finally found it. And I'm genuinely happy for her

[@siennaforrest8126]

Me too. And I smiled when she said she wanted a bestfriend. And I guess she finally found it. And I'm genuinely happy for her

[@alexandracole7092]

Why are y'all repeating the same comment again and again lol

[@emmymarlene5022]

Alexandra Cole exactly 😂

[@joanasoares5559]

I'm so happy for her

[@firstnamelastname3654]

oh HELL YEAH a 20 minute talking vid from ashley

[@andreashelton]

some person you dont know so good.

[@tessa7463]

also it really makes me feel a lot better that your first boyfriend was in college because I often feel like I’m behind everyone because I’m 16 and haven’t even had my first kiss but idk this just makes me feel a bit better

[@meganphipps850]

Same 😅

[@audreyboos1148]

sameeee I’m literally 17 and haven’t done anything!! I’m also really picky so that doesn’t help lol

[@TheFoocookie]

Guys, don't worry about it. And don't rush it. Just wait for a person you feel comfortable with, doesn't matter how old you are. I was 20 when it happened for me and my sister was 23. Don't stress yourselves.

[@alittlefella985]

me too!! like when the time would come, that I would have a boyfriend, I would have no clue on how a relationship works and that kinda scares me even more because he would probably have more experience and then it would be awkward and usfhoaifoüa help

[@TheFoocookie]

@@alittlefella985 If he's a decent boyfriend he will understand and show you. Chances are he is going to be just as clueless as you. Being awkward is normal around the person you fancy so take it easy and laugh it out :D

[@keke21891]

WAIT. So youre only 20, still in college, and you live on your own?? WHAT AM I DOING WITH MY LIFE LOL

[@FLdancer00]

Right? I thought she was 14 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@ivylee8824]

Kiki Lee I feel you girl

[@MiaCarter7]

I’m literally having a crises trying to figure out how all these people who are younger than me are grabbing life by the balls while I’m just continuously trying and failing LOL

[@frangipaniapples]

Mia Carter sameee

[@aimz878]

I'm also 20, in college, and live on my own lmao

[@anniecargeeg5510]

the story about the guys fighting over the toilet paper hits different now....

[@Camillatalks]

LOL

[@leahjohnson4880]

yeah lol. also how she was talking about moving to ny and now she is there 🥺

[@tianaroy5566]

can we just appreciate her editing and cute ass doodles?

[@user-my8qj]

heythisistiana yessss ik it takes a loooott of time to edit

[@user-pk1cq9ny9q]

This is off topic but I just clicked on your account out of curiosity, you make amazing content! And you earned a new subscriber :)

[@chaarvisingh9814]

you’re like the older sister i never had

[@urtesireikaite9602]

Chaarvi Singh same shistar

[@alviandtheforest]

She’s so brutally real and honest and I laugh my ass of every time she’s making a point because it’s so relatable and on the edge. She gives me LIFE

[@vividpetite]

Please stay the same when you become famous, you are the coolest person

[@annregnitue1641]

Mary Mualchin preach

[@kiaratheexplorer4]

well she pretty much is already famous

[@윤설호-u2t]

to be honest I like that she talks super fast because I absolutely dont have the time to watch those youtubers who make freaking long videos :)

[@amyb6455]

설호 lol same but this video is 22 mins 😂

[@hoineihaokipp]

물만두 SAME ILOVEHER

[@윤설호-u2t]

@@amyb6455 LMAO IKR

[@sarahg.5977]

this was hands-down one of the most interesting Q&A's I've ever watched. The questions you answered were chosen so well. Love your personality, as far as one can tell from a KZbin channel.

[@nyssa1005]

YO I WANNA SEE LIKE A BAKING W ASHLEY VIDEO PLEASE

[@minifleckk9248]

yes yes yes yes yes yes yes

[@sarahk.g.7861]

that would be a) incredible an b) deeply relatable, no matter how the end result came out 😂

[@emilyfraker7580]

hell yes!!!!!

[@Rousina]

Yes same

[@keya7774]

Nyssa Aftab yes yes yes

[@meeyajae]

"i feel like i'm giving yelp reviews of these relationships" 😂

[@katherinewu1292]

ashley's adjective collection: - spicy

[@sahithyasudhakar3015]

Dollarino😉

[@LuvNerdyLina29]

The "weirdest sexual experience" story had me SCREEEAAMMING

[@babygroot5594]

ryan from the office

[@amy-zv2cf]

baby groot lmaooo I thought the same thing!! Kelly wouldn’t fall for that shit though lol

[@beautifulplaces2703]

Actually you are doing something for the environment - you are shopping in thrift stores, altering clothes. And you are doing something for humanity - inspiring, teaching skills, making ppl laugh.

[@grace_09]

Rosalie Brunet I mean you’re not wrong-

[@DamonAndJo]

17:29 We gon slap you Ashley. 😂 While yes, we could all be working in jobs to help the environment or end world suffering, our jobs as KZbinrs are necessary as well. Definitely not as obvious and ok this may be a streeeeetch, but every. single. day. we all are looking for activities that make us feel good; we all want to have fun and also learn something and that’s the purpose of our job making videos. After all, those who work in more “meaningful” industries need to go home and watch soemthing! If there were no entertainment, the world would be quite...dark, and boring. Never sell yaself so short!

[@patriSayGoSelena]

That's such a great advice, also, hi damon and jo

[@destanybatista9213]

when your fave youtubers are friends. livin for this

[@dashasmirnova5359]

hi damon and jo!

[@jazzyroly]

I work in an office and can confirm this is very true. Also I love ya'll

[@carolchen2320]

What?!! My universe is exploding from this crossover rn

[@atrisha5179]

You're the funniest chick on the internet. 😂 "Well, my eggs aren't dying anytime soon". Lollollol.

[@tishaliciouss2]

I love love love your humor and honesty.

[@livvsho]

no you don’t understand my earbuds have been messed up lately and randomly playing my parents music or pausing and playing videos. and I was watching this and when she said “do I like pineapple on my pizza, and the answer is yes.” MY PHONE PLAYED HARDCORE METALLICA AND I LAUGHED SO HARD IM-

[@ohcessiliaa06]

Lmaooo

[@Catwomen4512]

r/thathappened

[@user-pk1cq9ny9q]

NightOwl it did I was the left earbud

[@peachleelee]

@@Catwomen4512 I know it was true, as I was the right earbud.

[@puthypicasso640]

@@Catwomen4512 it happened, I was the microphone

[@ameliecollins4295]

I love her handwriting and the little doodles she adds - so nice to see!

[@firstnamelastname3654]

you love bojack horseman too??? what is this, a crossover episode?!

[@kathylennerds750]

Especially the last season just straight up murdered me

[@firstnamelastname3654]

right on :') new season in 4 days!!!

[@gsev38]

10/10 comment

[@VictoriaHatzson]

can you explain please?

[@leslienicole1325]

Oh my god I say this joke all the time but nobody understands lmao

[@alyannakristine]

wait i haven’t watched the entire video yet i just wanna say that you look BOMB here babe wow

[@hanianizami3179]

I literally never watch twenty minute videos but I'll do it for Ashley.

[@joycetam3239]

I found you through youtube recommendations; bless the algorithm

[@catherinebailey8771]

i’m just casually listening while cleaning my room- her voice is SO SOOTHING.

[@rachelautumn7866]

I’m painting a mural for a restaurant in the hot sun 😌

[@reptilected4097]

Rachel Autumn that sounds like such a calm experience

[@rubs77]

omg i do that tooo

[@janco333]

I am listening whilst sitting on the pooper

[@nyssa1005]

ashley hun we’re never leaving catch me watching fifty year old ashley rant about those darn kids next door :)

[@scarletthant6382]

We love a pineapple pizza loving queen

[@saraarabi7355]

No please...😂😂 Here in Italy we hate eating pizza with😂😂 pineapple 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@abborable3767]

@@saraarabi7355 are the amount of laughing emojis a joke

[@maruk3y]

i kno this is a small thing but i love the lil written transitions!! hehe

[@basicinfo2022]

You are a natural comedian. You should do stand up. I could see you having a netflix comedy episode.

[@abijayne6225]

The whole you not helping people speech made me so sad to hear because as insignificant as I am, you have helped me! Listening to your quirky videos this week have gotten me through a couple of panic attacks and breakdowns and for that I am grateful! Your online presence makes people happy and what more could you ask for?

[@makenamalisse2332]

if you do come out with a clothing line PLEEEEASE don't make it outrageously expensive... luv your videos by the way :) sincerely, a broke student

[@shansay5252]

You were born in 1998? My goodness, I was born in 1997 and jobless. Im ded.

[@holysharayu]

same😂

[@sharonapadalecki9923]

I was born in 1996 and just graduated from college and I'm unemployed and clueless af 😭

[@joyface]

Mom advice (I'm not a mom but I'm 29 so I'm ancient compared to you). No one knows what they want to do. I didn't get a job I liked until a year ago. You will figure it out, I promise, and you're not a failure because you haven't yet.

[@sharonapadalecki9923]

@@joyface you are so sweet thank you so much! 😭

[@livenletlive4639]

1995😢 and trust me..you're doing just fine.

[@nurliyanahashim4071]

Gurl can u do a daily makeup video!!! U look spicy 😩

[@45webstar]

I think she has one!!

[@paulinerivera2708]

@@45webstar yeah and we need more 😅😅

[@juliaolive1302]

She achieved her adult Ashley dream of moving into new york! But she's spending it in quarantine :(

[@djkjestrup]

You actually don't talk fast by NZ/AU/UK standards

[@cheesecake134]

Damn, where did all these subscribers come from?! RISE QUEEN.

[@roaryg6203]

I love your channel even more just because the fact you like pineapple on your pizza 🍕

[@rubyedits-zz4vc]

you and @conangray go to ucla together and yall are both cute and stylish and both hard workers. yall you be so cute!!!

[@rubyedits-zz4vc]

you should hit him up or something!!!

[@allaboutmika]

would love them to be together but davids came right thru first

[@swand1383]

trashy mike is Conan not gay?

[@millyroberts7138]

Ashley : unfollow everyone who makes you feel insecure on your instagram Me : just deletes Instagram altogether 😂😂 But in all seriousness she gives great advise well done Ashley ❤️❤️❤️

[@jennamcclure7045]

Yes!! I had to delete instagram to for that same reason. I do not regret it.

[@taylorgoodier]

watching Ashley in 2023, still my biggest inspiration for making yt videos. I’m 24, but I’ll get there

[@RheaK]

YOU INSPIRE ME SO MUCH BC OF HOW INDEPENDENT YOU ARE!! AND SO GENUINE ❤

[@RheaK]

let me watch it now 😂

[@RheaK]

YOU LOOK SO FRKING BEAUTIFUL

[@hatorigirl1202]

You are so fantastic at filming and editing videos. If you feel bad about not doing more to help the world, then use those skills. Make a project for awesome video, or offer your services to a nonprofit for their social media. And when you're successful, you can ALWAYS donate to charity, do charity work, and casually help the people in your life, and if there's something you feel super strongly about, you can talk about it on camera. You can show why something is important. You can encourage people with different skills to help make the world better.

[@zainatalukdar2144]

YOU LIKE THE NEW YORK ACCENT??? omg everyone finds it annoying. i also think you'd make a great fit in ny. AND you get bragging rights it you say you moved from la to ny.

[@zainatalukdar2144]

Sumaya from one of the greatest cities in the world to the greater city in the world??? total bragging rights.

[@FLdancer00]

False. Not everyone. Maybe just the people you hang around.

[@alisonrae]

"if I had, my Instagram feed would be better" haha.. I thought so too... And now my boyfriend takes the most horrible pictures of me 😭😭

[@rishikashukla6526]

Who's watching in 2021? XD. We miss ashley!!!!

[@emmawendland5713]

pineapple on pizza is the best. case closed. 😊🍍

[@michelletran2637]

With your youtube channel it might not seem like you're helping anyone. However you're helping a whole generation, not only with fashion but dealing with the ups and downs of life. Or at least in my case, your videos have helped me so much in finding purpose and motivation to continue going through my days with what energy I can muster, until my revival on Thurs.

[@3536sbir]

Your embarrassing story is kinda like to all the boys i've loved before

[@ValAnnette11]

Ashley you're so down to earth like .. I feel like I'm chatting with one of my best friends spilling the tea on everything and anything 😂 love ur humor, style and personality ❤️❤️

[@iiiSSSTUDDERSZ]

Just came across your channel and subscribed and have been binge watching your videos for the past 4 hours & I just wanna say that, if your parents ever find out and don’t approve of your passion for KZbin, don’t be discouraged. You’re only 20 years old but you are so real and down to earth and so true to yourself, and that is something hard to achieve at such a young age. Our parents always envision a different future for us and they might not always agree with our plans for our own futures, but somewhere along the line I hope they see that your KZbin channel is someone’s light at the end of the tunnel because I’m sure you are making a difference in someone’s light at his moment. Didn’t mean for this to come off all cheesy and shit but it just came right out of my mind. Anywho, love your channel and keep doing what you love!! You’ve achieve big dreams and great things for yourself in the future :)

[@clxk3376]

The first guy I ever fell in love with was from tinder and I do not regret anything. Wish I still didn’t love him tho.................that would be nice

[@k.v.2049]

damn i love your way of just. being. honest.

[@chachoucharlotte22]

Watching this now is so cute cuz you actually moved to new york!! happy to see it was kind of a dream that has now come true :)

[@33doglover1]

if you ever come out with merch please have 'the french are screaming' on some of them

[@Maria-rz5st]

your videos popped up in my recommendations so many times and i regret sooo much not clicking earlier ashley ily please be my mom

[@manon8826]

love me some tea, gotta stay hydrated!1!1!

[@KristynaG]

I don’t really have any friends so I love these types of videos where it feels like I’m just chatting/ getting to know someone it’s sad but that’s the way it is 😂

[@jasminehy5694]

Me neither there are a few but so freaking fake

[@claracostasworld8275]

Hi Kristyna, i feel the same has you, i don,t have friends and when i watch these kind of videos they kind of make me company

[@joanleaks69]

hey 2018 ashley, 2019 ashley is now going to live in new york! can you believe that? im so proud of you 💞

[@amyb3212]

You should start webinars or like online film courses for people who may be interested in filming or production...like beginner friendly courses, thats also a very versatile job 😏 there are websites where people can pay for courses like $200 for a whole semester, just a thought 😁

[@patriciabizjak3394]

and they started fighting over a roll of toilet paper little did we know...

[@polocub1429]

Whoa you totally are the female Jesse eisenberg!!

[@PinkPolkaDotBeauty]

definitely don't move to nyc just for the dream of it. i decided to come here for college because i had that same dream. i've been here for 2 years now and its WAY harder than you might think. its really a eat or be eaten city, its really hard to find good friends and rent is ridiculously expensive. i wouldn't suggest moving here unless you have a job lined up.

[@inimaran1004]

emily marie well guess you can say that she made the right decision at the right time :,)

[@ihaveacrushonowlcity5763]

please become a stand up comedian. I would die of happiness.

[@annarowland2774]

When she mentioned bojack I was like yep this is it I’ve found my favorite KZbinr

[@maellea8437]

When she said "the French are screaming" I died, I was actually correcting her prononciation in my head 😂. But the French community (if there are other ones) still love her lol. 🇫🇷

[@nicolemarie0001]

Pineapple on pizza is the best!! Finally someone agrees with me!

[@SellyGouw]

Nicole Marie yes I love it too!!

[@sarsiella]

I likeeee

[@jaydehy]

My parents did long distance from Paris and Houston! They got married though and now I exist. I’m so happy you exist too ❤️

[@lilyamandine3779]

we, the french - are screaming

[@ambermegis]

Oui

[@lizzieb.9865]

Pourquoi?

[@gymnasticsgxngz8473]

one time when i was eating cereal i forgot weather to use a fork or spoon, and i decided to grab the fork🤦🏼‍♀️

[@LukeAlexander]

just found ur channel and wow i love u and ir videos ❤️

[@roaryg6203]

I’m going to start writing an outline What I want my first video to be I wanted to have a KZbin channel ever since 2010. And I have finally decided to stop listening to people and just go ahead and do it! 🤞

[@calistarenee4786]

Ashley I’ve done the same thing! Accidentally texting the wrong guy! 😣

[@sofsurv]

this is honestly so relatable and i love it. To being socially awkward, introverted, artistic human beings ✨

[@aoibhmaguire7573]

I think the body confidence was such an important note! I really relate to that, my body insecurities essentially stopped overwhelming me when I became confident and sure of myself in my 2nd year of college even though my body hasn't changed and i never realised that connected until watching this video, so thank u!!

[@FitriPhang]

19:12 advice for starting on yt from ashley🌸

[@fashionbyally]

Love you girl!

[@dametriamorris782]

Lol loved that “this is me B****” doodle! Freaking perfect, and awesome advice. ❤️

[@malinzoe]

Loved this 😍 this shows me that I am not alone with the Boyfriend stuff and social anxiety Litrally the best KZbinr

[@cheerscassidy1055]

i’m here in 2021 and i will say: ASHLEY WHEN THE EVERLOVING FRICK WILL YOU TELL YOUR PARENTS?????

[@Lailasstyles]

At 7:43 you say how you feel that you're a NY person and look at you now living the dream!! (I hope) well after this corona shit blows over

[@justinh5076]

I can't figure out if you are funny or crazy

[@springbearsinlove]

am i the only boy who watches (and loves) ashleys videos? i'm gay though, so i am not sure if it really counts lol

[@keeshand]

bro ofc it counts

[@lillyschwartz2672]

Don't demote yourself because of stereotypes of course you count lol.

[@browngirlramblings]

Girl you should start a podcast I could listen to you all day!

[@xL0V4BL3]

you're actually my favorite person because we're so similar and i'm also in film school rn and when people ask me about my career plans i just talk for like 20 minutes and throw words at them and at the end they still have no clue what i'm talking about LOL

[@a1124z1]

"if you get divorced, you know who's coming for you" LMAO

[@sharpayyevanss]

Yeah I've been so heartbroken that I had an anxiety attack for 42 hours where I couldn't move, great times. Took a year before I felt actually good. Lots of love to anyone who's going through that!!

[@ashlymcnally4660]

It's so nice to see her old videos and seeing the progress of her life, like how she talks about how much of a New York person she is. I'm happy for her :)

[@gigisworld9362]

“and slowly moonwalking away from my body” I’m dead because I pictured that in my mind🤣 you’re comedy

[@annasjournal]

Surprise Ashley from the past !! You live in NYC now :D

[@gaya333.]

Yeah ...this is literally like my 4th time or something watching this , she was my comfort for a while like i thought she was the KZbin I thought I would grow up with, I'm moving to collage soon , n I hope she does KZbin again