The Dark Truth About Splitting: Relationship Wrecker Unveiled

@DocSnipes 9 ай бұрын

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@chernagast6754 11 ай бұрын

My husband went through surgeries and emotional neglect as an infant and then later the divorce of his parents when he was five. Splitting is exactly what I could call part of his behaviors towards me in our relationship any time he perceived me doing something like his mother. He's been able to get CBT and EMDR treatments that have allowed him to start to process his trauma, and it's saved our marriage.

@maximinoblas1171 11 ай бұрын

😊good for you 😊

@Nuverselive 11 ай бұрын

That’s inspiring ❤️🙌🏽

@DocSnipes 11 ай бұрын

I am glad it all worked out for you and your husband! Thanks for watching the video and for sharing

@user-yp7jm3mk6l 10 ай бұрын

And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19 Therefore say to them, Thus says the Lord God: None of my words will be delayed any longer, but the word that I speak will be performed, declares the Lord God. Ezekiel 12:28 He who loves money will not be satisfied with money, nor he who loves wealth with his income; this also is vanity. Ecclesiastes 5:10 Then what if you were to see the Son of Man ascending to where he was before? John 6:62 For I delivered to you as of first importance what I also received: that Christ died for our sins in accordance with the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day in accordance with the Scriptures. 1 Corinthians 15:3-4 So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart. 2 Timothy 2:22For every house is built by someone, but the builder of all things is God. Hebrews 3:4Jesus answered them, “This is the work of God, that you believe in him whom he has sent.” John 6:29In you, O Lord, do I take refuge; let me never be put to shame; in your righteousness deliver me! Psalm 31:1You shall serve the Lord your God, and he will bless your bread and your water, and I will take sickness away from among you. Exodus 23:25Preach the word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, and exhort, with complete patience and teaching. 2 Timothy 4:2

@marybischoff-moore8615 4 ай бұрын

❤️❤️❤️

@milkywayranchsc 11 ай бұрын

Can we address the stress and trauma experienced by people on the receiving end of abusive behavior of someone with BPD?

@Nuverselive 11 ай бұрын

This is highly necessary right now. I study the cosmos and quantum physics as well as spirituality of indigenous cultures that didn’t have criminals or a jail. As we approach the nodes moving into Libra ( balance) and Aries (ego) we will feel the impact of unhealthy relationships. I hope Dawn gets a chance to reply to u. U took the words out my mouth.

@DocSnipes 11 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching the video. I have added your request to my list of upcoming videos :)

@user-yp7jm3mk6l 10 ай бұрын

And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19 Therefore say to them, Thus says the Lord God: None of my words will be delayed any longer, but the word that I speak will be performed, declares the Lord God. Ezekiel 12:28 He who loves money will not be satisfied with money, nor he who loves wealth with his income; this also is vanity. Ecclesiastes 5:10 Then what if you were to see the Son of Man ascending to where he was before? John 6:62 For I delivered to you as of first importance what I also received: that Christ died for our sins in accordance with the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day in accordance with the Scriptures. 1 Corinthians 15:3-4 So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart. 2 Timothy 2:22For every house is built by someone, but the builder of all things is God. Hebrews 3:4Jesus answered them, “This is the work of God, that you believe in him whom he has sent.” John 6:29In you, O Lord, do I take refuge; let me never be put to shame; in your righteousness deliver me! Psalm 31:1You shall serve the Lord your God, and he will bless your bread and your water, and I will take sickness away from among you. Exodus 23:25Preach the word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, and exhort, with complete patience and teaching. 2 Timothy 4:2

@jonathanclarkin8844 5 ай бұрын

Yes and I disagree that there's nothing wrong with them. You don't act violently and say there's nothing wrong with them...

@milkywayranchsc 5 ай бұрын

@@DocSnipes thank you

@Prat0998 11 ай бұрын

Good morning @Doc Snipes and everybody. Excited for the premiere. Hoping that everybody is going to have great day🌸❤

@DocSnipes 11 ай бұрын

Good afternoon, Prat! Thank you so much for watching the video

@Prat0998 11 ай бұрын

@@sweetmunchkin6118 Thank you.

@Prat0998 11 ай бұрын

@@sweetmunchkin6118 Means a lot. Improving my mental health after going through depression and anxiety disorders.Been doing a lot better since started following videos of this channel.Yes hoping the best for you also.Wishing you peace and good health❤

@Prat0998 11 ай бұрын

@@sweetmunchkin6118 Nobody has said such kind words to me. This conversation brought smile on my face and breeze of freshness in my mind.Such healthy conversations help mind to reenergize and feel better.Nothing much but wish the best for you and take care of yourself too.Thank you once again ! Have great years and life ahead. Looking forward to see you around here later on whenever possible ❤

@user-yp7jm3mk6l 10 ай бұрын

And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19 Therefore say to them, Thus says the Lord God: None of my words will be delayed any longer, but the word that I speak will be performed, declares the Lord God. Ezekiel 12:28 He who loves money will not be satisfied with money, nor he who loves wealth with his income; this also is vanity. Ecclesiastes 5:10 Then what if you were to see the Son of Man ascending to where he was before? John 6:62 For I delivered to you as of first importance what I also received: that Christ died for our sins in accordance with the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day in accordance with the Scriptures. 1 Corinthians 15:3-4 So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart. 2 Timothy 2:22For every house is built by someone, but the builder of all things is God. Hebrews 3:4Jesus answered them, “This is the work of God, that you believe in him whom he has sent.” John 6:29In you, O Lord, do I take refuge; let me never be put to shame; in your righteousness deliver me! Psalm 31:1You shall serve the Lord your God, and he will bless your bread and your water, and I will take sickness away from among you. Exodus 23:25Preach the word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, and exhort, with complete patience and teaching. 2 Timothy 4:2

@onemoretime734 9 ай бұрын

I wish I worked on this before it cost me one of the most important relationships of my life.

@DocSnipes 9 ай бұрын

I am sorry splitting cost you the most important relationship in your life and I appreciate you watching the video

@MySpaceDxC_Suffo_AtTheGates 7 ай бұрын

Great job on this video! You were able to emphasize with the person that’s not splitting as well which is helpful. Very nice Doc Snipes!

@DocSnipes 7 ай бұрын

Thank you. I appreciate you watching the video

@NatureHeadSupreme 11 ай бұрын

I like this take. Everything is contextual of course. I've seen splitting or split off described as something a bit different, in terms of dissociation and separating from reality or even breaking (splitting) off from your family of origin. Either way, all usually involve trauma.. your insight is priceless. Thanks!

@DocSnipes 11 ай бұрын

You’re so welcome. Thank you for watching.

@user-yp7jm3mk6l 10 ай бұрын

And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19 Therefore say to them, Thus says the Lord God: None of my words will be delayed any longer, but the word that I speak will be performed, declares the Lord God. Ezekiel 12:28 He who loves money will not be satisfied with money, nor he who loves wealth with his income; this also is vanity. Ecclesiastes 5:10 Then what if you were to see the Son of Man ascending to where he was before? John 6:62 For I delivered to you as of first importance what I also received: that Christ died for our sins in accordance with the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day in accordance with the Scriptures. 1 Corinthians 15:3-4 So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart. 2 Timothy 2:22For every house is built by someone, but the builder of all things is God. Hebrews 3:4Jesus answered them, “This is the work of God, that you believe in him whom he has sent.” John 6:29In you, O Lord, do I take refuge; let me never be put to shame; in your righteousness deliver me! Psalm 31:1You shall serve the Lord your God, and he will bless your bread and your water, and I will take sickness away from among you. Exodus 23:25Preach the word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, and exhort, with complete patience and teaching. 2 Timothy 4:2

@Arid379 11 ай бұрын

Thank you for this information! I didn’t know this word Splitting till now and wondered why what’s wrong

@user-yp7jm3mk6l 10 ай бұрын

And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19 Therefore say to them, Thus says the Lord God: None of my words will be delayed any longer, but the word that I speak will be performed, declares the Lord God. Ezekiel 12:28 He who loves money will not be satisfied with money, nor he who loves wealth with his income; this also is vanity. Ecclesiastes 5:10 Then what if you were to see the Son of Man ascending to where he was before? John 6:62 For I delivered to you as of first importance what I also received: that Christ died for our sins in accordance with the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day in accordance with the Scriptures. 1 Corinthians 15:3-4 So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart. 2 Timothy 2:22For every house is built by someone, but the builder of all things is God. Hebrews 3:4Jesus answered them, “This is the work of God, that you believe in him whom he has sent.” John 6:29In you, O Lord, do I take refuge; let me never be put to shame; in your righteousness deliver me! Psalm 31:1You shall serve the Lord your God, and he will bless your bread and your water, and I will take sickness away from among you. Exodus 23:25Preach the word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, and exhort, with complete patience and teaching. 2 Timothy 4:2

@ythatesfacts 11 ай бұрын

I kinda had a splitting event where I mainly saw my mom as the villain even after her remorseful acts. One thing I started to question was, "How many times would I have to get back at her for the numerous times she did it to me? Would it even make me feel good? A short time, maybe, but what then? I would be nearly torturing her for years on end, and no one will get any rest, and I wanted rest now."

@DocSnipes 11 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching the video and for sharing. Rest is important and forgiveness is a gift for ourselves

@user-yp7jm3mk6l 10 ай бұрын

And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19 Therefore say to them, Thus says the Lord God: None of my words will be delayed any longer, but the word that I speak will be performed, declares the Lord God. Ezekiel 12:28 He who loves money will not be satisfied with money, nor he who loves wealth with his income; this also is vanity. Ecclesiastes 5:10 Then what if you were to see the Son of Man ascending to where he was before? John 6:62 For I delivered to you as of first importance what I also received: that Christ died for our sins in accordance with the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day in accordance with the Scriptures. 1 Corinthians 15:3-4 So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart. 2 Timothy 2:22For every house is built by someone, but the builder of all things is God. Hebrews 3:4Jesus answered them, “This is the work of God, that you believe in him whom he has sent.” John 6:29In you, O Lord, do I take refuge; let me never be put to shame; in your righteousness deliver me! Psalm 31:1You shall serve the Lord your God, and he will bless your bread and your water, and I will take sickness away from among you. Exodus 23:25Preach the word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, and exhort, with complete patience and teaching. 2 Timothy 4:2

@ythatesfacts 10 ай бұрын

@@user-yp7jm3mk6l Dude. With all due respect... I am a Christian but vomiting bible verses is not the way to actually help convert. You can use it a reference sheet if people ask but I promise you that hardly any atheists will listen to you if you just do it that way.

@SusanaXpeace2u 7 ай бұрын

@@ythatesfacts yeh, and that quote doesn't even seem to relate to splitting.

@DocSnipes 9 ай бұрын

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@oliverrojas3185 11 ай бұрын

Thanks this topic has a lot to relate to.

@DocSnipes 11 ай бұрын

You’re so welcome. I am grateful to be of help and I appreciate you watching the video

@user-yp7jm3mk6l 10 ай бұрын

And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19 Therefore say to them, Thus says the Lord God: None of my words will be delayed any longer, but the word that I speak will be performed, declares the Lord God. Ezekiel 12:28 He who loves money will not be satisfied with money, nor he who loves wealth with his income; this also is vanity. Ecclesiastes 5:10 Then what if you were to see the Son of Man ascending to where he was before? John 6:62 For I delivered to you as of first importance what I also received: that Christ died for our sins in accordance with the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day in accordance with the Scriptures. 1 Corinthians 15:3-4 So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart. 2 Timothy 2:22For every house is built by someone, but the builder of all things is God. Hebrews 3:4Jesus answered them, “This is the work of God, that you believe in him whom he has sent.” John 6:29In you, O Lord, do I take refuge; let me never be put to shame; in your righteousness deliver me! Psalm 31:1You shall serve the Lord your God, and he will bless your bread and your water, and I will take sickness away from among you. Exodus 23:25Preach the word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, and exhort, with complete patience and teaching. 2 Timothy 4:2

@Arid379 11 ай бұрын

OMG! First; Dr Snipes ❤looks good today! Second; thank you! I had no idea about splitting behavior.

@DocSnipes 11 ай бұрын

You’re so welcome. I appreciate you watching and am grateful to be of help.

@user-yp7jm3mk6l 10 ай бұрын

And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19 Therefore say to them, Thus says the Lord God: None of my words will be delayed any longer, but the word that I speak will be performed, declares the Lord God. Ezekiel 12:28 He who loves money will not be satisfied with money, nor he who loves wealth with his income; this also is vanity. Ecclesiastes 5:10 Then what if you were to see the Son of Man ascending to where he was before? John 6:62 For I delivered to you as of first importance what I also received: that Christ died for our sins in accordance with the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day in accordance with the Scriptures. 1 Corinthians 15:3-4 So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart. 2 Timothy 2:22For every house is built by someone, but the builder of all things is God. Hebrews 3:4Jesus answered them, “This is the work of God, that you believe in him whom he has sent.” John 6:29In you, O Lord, do I take refuge; let me never be put to shame; in your righteousness deliver me! Psalm 31:1You shall serve the Lord your God, and he will bless your bread and your water, and I will take sickness away from among you. Exodus 23:25Preach the word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, and exhort, with complete patience and teaching. 2 Timothy 4:2

@Lexi_Con 3 ай бұрын

❤Thanks so much for your clear explanation of things. This is the first time I've heard the term "Splitting" though familiar with the concept. It sounds very similar to black & white (or polarized) thinking, a trait/behavior many people with narcissistic personality types display. Would you also compare this with projection? It seems like a similar thought process, or at least the same cause & effect. Our brains are so complex, I wish there was a magic pill to erase the negative impacts!

@DocSnipes 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching the video and for sharing

@janflower4068 11 ай бұрын

Snipemeister! Good morning!

@DocSnipes 11 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching the video :)

@user-yp7jm3mk6l 10 ай бұрын

And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19 Therefore say to them, Thus says the Lord God: None of my words will be delayed any longer, but the word that I speak will be performed, declares the Lord God. Ezekiel 12:28 He who loves money will not be satisfied with money, nor he who loves wealth with his income; this also is vanity. Ecclesiastes 5:10 Then what if you were to see the Son of Man ascending to where he was before? John 6:62 For I delivered to you as of first importance what I also received: that Christ died for our sins in accordance with the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day in accordance with the Scriptures. 1 Corinthians 15:3-4 So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart. 2 Timothy 2:22For every house is built by someone, but the builder of all things is God. Hebrews 3:4Jesus answered them, “This is the work of God, that you believe in him whom he has sent.” John 6:29In you, O Lord, do I take refuge; let me never be put to shame; in your righteousness deliver me! Psalm 31:1You shall serve the Lord your God, and he will bless your bread and your water, and I will take sickness away from among you. Exodus 23:25Preach the word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, and exhort, with complete patience and teaching. 2 Timothy 4:2

@lindsay5305 11 ай бұрын

Thank you 😊

@DocSnipes 11 ай бұрын

You’re most welcome. Thanks for watching. I am grateful to be of help.

@user-yp7jm3mk6l 10 ай бұрын

And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19 Therefore say to them, Thus says the Lord God: None of my words will be delayed any longer, but the word that I speak will be performed, declares the Lord God. Ezekiel 12:28 He who loves money will not be satisfied with money, nor he who loves wealth with his income; this also is vanity. Ecclesiastes 5:10 Then what if you were to see the Son of Man ascending to where he was before? John 6:62 For I delivered to you as of first importance what I also received: that Christ died for our sins in accordance with the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day in accordance with the Scriptures. 1 Corinthians 15:3-4 So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart. 2 Timothy 2:22For every house is built by someone, but the builder of all things is God. Hebrews 3:4Jesus answered them, “This is the work of God, that you believe in him whom he has sent.” John 6:29In you, O Lord, do I take refuge; let me never be put to shame; in your righteousness deliver me! Psalm 31:1You shall serve the Lord your God, and he will bless your bread and your water, and I will take sickness away from among you. Exodus 23:25Preach the word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, and exhort, with complete patience and teaching. 2 Timothy 4:2

@kims1912 7 ай бұрын

Ive been through this, my ex husband has ptsd, his depression meds were decreased too quickly and he spiralled into major depressive episode. Im the enemy in his mind, he divorced me and he also has had periods of psychosis that ive witnessed. Its a nightmare. Thirty years married then he turned on me like a rabid dog.

@DocSnipes 7 ай бұрын

That’s awful and I am so sorry it happened to you

@Nuverselive 11 ай бұрын

Questions I’ve been journaling about are ; How does forgiveness play a role in splitting by a partner ? No matter how many times they apologize and forgiveness is offered , repeat reenactments of splitting are highly likely to occur. How can the partner remain open after another round of splitting occurs ? It seems difficult to find a middle ground. My body clenches each time an episode occurs. Though I can forgive my body struggles to forget. What advice would possibly help to avoid closing off my heart? I really hurts to open up, become the fav person, next thing u know ,your the villain. In childhood intimacy wasn’t always a prerequisite for a healthy relationship however as an adult it’s essential to the relationship. Ladies I’m sure I’m not the only one who has asked this question. Relaxing is key to any form of intimacy however most people dealing with cptsd crave love and connection yet the fear of being hurt again closes the bodies natural desire for intimacy which leads to faking headaches, orgasms and denying the huge NO in the body to satisfy your partner. Otherwise if u say No over an extended period your likely to be blamed for withholding intimacy to maintain control or u get accused of being a narcissist or cheating. As women we’ve been programmed by society to believe we must keep our men satisfied or they’ll find satisfaction elsewhere. This is very toxic and traumatizing. Any feedback is appreciated.

@DocSnipes 11 ай бұрын

Forgiveness can be a challenging process, especially when there are patterns of hurtful behavior and a repetition of negative cycles in a relationship. It's important to recognize that forgiveness doesn't mean accepting or excusing harmful actions. It's about finding a way to release yourself from the burden of anger and resentment, for your own well-being. Finding a middle ground in a relationship where splitting occurs can be difficult, and it's essential to address this issue with open and honest communication. Being vulnerable in a relationship can be scary, particularly when there is a fear of being hurt again. You mentioned that your body clenches with each episode, indicating the profound impact these experiences have on you. To avoid closing off your heart, it's crucial to prioritize self-care and set boundaries. Reflect on what you need in a relationship to feel safe and respected, and communicate those needs assertively to your partner. Trust and emotional safety are built gradually, and it's okay to take time to assess whether the relationship is genuinely nurturing and supportive of your well-being. Dealing with past trauma, such as Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (C-PTSD), can indeed impact one's ability to experience intimacy. In relationships, both partners should aim for mutual respect and understanding, rather than perpetuating harmful societal beliefs or gender roles. No one should feel pressured to meet unrealistic expectations or sacrifice their emotional well-being for the sake of others. Healthy relationships thrive on open communication, empathy, and a willingness to support each other's growth. Your feelings and experiences matter, and it's essential to prioritize your well-being and happiness. You can find videos on boundaries here: kzbin.infosearch?query=boundaries Videos on assertive communication here: kzbin.infosearch?query=communication This video will help you with forgiveness: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rHino6GFoLuboqM

@Nuverselive 11 ай бұрын

@@DocSnipes this was phenomenally helpful! TY🌻

@user-yp7jm3mk6l 10 ай бұрын

And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19 Therefore say to them, Thus says the Lord God: None of my words will be delayed any longer, but the word that I speak will be performed, declares the Lord God. Ezekiel 12:28 He who loves money will not be satisfied with money, nor he who loves wealth with his income; this also is vanity. Ecclesiastes 5:10 Then what if you were to see the Son of Man ascending to where he was before? John 6:62 For I delivered to you as of first importance what I also received: that Christ died for our sins in accordance with the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day in accordance with the Scriptures. 1 Corinthians 15:3-4 So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart. 2 Timothy 2:22For every house is built by someone, but the builder of all things is God. Hebrews 3:4Jesus answered them, “This is the work of God, that you believe in him whom he has sent.” John 6:29In you, O Lord, do I take refuge; let me never be put to shame; in your righteousness deliver me! Psalm 31:1You shall serve the Lord your God, and he will bless your bread and your water, and I will take sickness away from among you. Exodus 23:25Preach the word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, and exhort, with complete patience and teaching. 2 Timothy 4:2

@supermodelatlanta1354 11 ай бұрын

I wish my employer would understand this so I wouldn't loose my job every week

@DocSnipes 11 ай бұрын

I am sorry about the fact that your employer doesn’t understand splitting and that you are losing your job every week. I appreciate you watching the video.

@user-yp7jm3mk6l 10 ай бұрын

And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19 Therefore say to them, Thus says the Lord God: None of my words will be delayed any longer, but the word that I speak will be performed, declares the Lord God. Ezekiel 12:28 He who loves money will not be satisfied with money, nor he who loves wealth with his income; this also is vanity. Ecclesiastes 5:10 Then what if you were to see the Son of Man ascending to where he was before? John 6:62 For I delivered to you as of first importance what I also received: that Christ died for our sins in accordance with the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day in accordance with the Scriptures. 1 Corinthians 15:3-4 So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart. 2 Timothy 2:22For every house is built by someone, but the builder of all things is God. Hebrews 3:4Jesus answered them, “This is the work of God, that you believe in him whom he has sent.” John 6:29In you, O Lord, do I take refuge; let me never be put to shame; in your righteousness deliver me! Psalm 31:1You shall serve the Lord your God, and he will bless your bread and your water, and I will take sickness away from among you. Exodus 23:25Preach the word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, and exhort, with complete patience and teaching. 2 Timothy 4:2

@justreeree8662 28 күн бұрын

@@DocSnipesany advice for people who have issues in worķ place. My son loses a job every 3 months due to bpd

@user-wi3yx3gy2o 2 ай бұрын

What is it called when you are so upset that you just cannot take it and all of a sudden you just stop caring about anything that you were upset about, like you become ambivalent about the fact that your partner may be breaking up with you? Like from the most intense emotions you’ve ever felt almost like suicidal rage, to absolute ambivalence, even amusement over the situation?

@DocSnipes Ай бұрын

Part of the fight or flight response... fight, flight, flee, fawn or F*** it.

@diverstalent 11 ай бұрын

Thanks

@DocSnipes 11 ай бұрын

You’re so welcome. Thanks for watching the video

@user-yp7jm3mk6l 10 ай бұрын

And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19 Therefore say to them, Thus says the Lord God: None of my words will be delayed any longer, but the word that I speak will be performed, declares the Lord God. Ezekiel 12:28 He who loves money will not be satisfied with money, nor he who loves wealth with his income; this also is vanity. Ecclesiastes 5:10 Then what if you were to see the Son of Man ascending to where he was before? John 6:62 For I delivered to you as of first importance what I also received: that Christ died for our sins in accordance with the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day in accordance with the Scriptures. 1 Corinthians 15:3-4 So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart. 2 Timothy 2:22For every house is built by someone, but the builder of all things is God. Hebrews 3:4Jesus answered them, “This is the work of God, that you believe in him whom he has sent.” John 6:29In you, O Lord, do I take refuge; let me never be put to shame; in your righteousness deliver me! Psalm 31:1You shall serve the Lord your God, and he will bless your bread and your water, and I will take sickness away from among you. Exodus 23:25Preach the word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, and exhort, with complete patience and teaching. 2 Timothy 4:2

@alforliniteaching5670 11 ай бұрын

Great.

@DocSnipes 11 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching

@user-yp7jm3mk6l 10 ай бұрын

And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19 Therefore say to them, Thus says the Lord God: None of my words will be delayed any longer, but the word that I speak will be performed, declares the Lord God. Ezekiel 12:28 He who loves money will not be satisfied with money, nor he who loves wealth with his income; this also is vanity. Ecclesiastes 5:10 Then what if you were to see the Son of Man ascending to where he was before? John 6:62 For I delivered to you as of first importance what I also received: that Christ died for our sins in accordance with the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day in accordance with the Scriptures. 1 Corinthians 15:3-4 So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart. 2 Timothy 2:22For every house is built by someone, but the builder of all things is God. Hebrews 3:4Jesus answered them, “This is the work of God, that you believe in him whom he has sent.” John 6:29In you, O Lord, do I take refuge; let me never be put to shame; in your righteousness deliver me! Psalm 31:1You shall serve the Lord your God, and he will bless your bread and your water, and I will take sickness away from among you. Exodus 23:25Preach the word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, and exhort, with complete patience and teaching. 2 Timothy 4:2

@KatG-vw4db 3 ай бұрын

I have bpd and am always splitting. I find it so difficult bc im usually in rational mind to protect muself from too many emotions amd preventing a nervous breakdown. I find listening to Wise mind meditation helps center me and I would recommend this to others including those without bpd

@DocSnipes 3 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching the video and for sharing what helps you. I am sorry you are struggling with BPD. Have you watched the videos on BPD on the channel?

@1jw298 11 ай бұрын

Off topic, what do you call someone who can only exist while taking care of others but when they do anything for themselves they feel overwhelming guilt?

@DocSnipes 11 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching the video. I would say they are codependent. Other videos you might be interested in can be found at kzbin.infosearch?query=codependency

@user-yp7jm3mk6l 10 ай бұрын

And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19 Therefore say to them, Thus says the Lord God: None of my words will be delayed any longer, but the word that I speak will be performed, declares the Lord God. Ezekiel 12:28 He who loves money will not be satisfied with money, nor he who loves wealth with his income; this also is vanity. Ecclesiastes 5:10 Then what if you were to see the Son of Man ascending to where he was before? John 6:62 For I delivered to you as of first importance what I also received: that Christ died for our sins in accordance with the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day in accordance with the Scriptures. 1 Corinthians 15:3-4 So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart. 2 Timothy 2:22For every house is built by someone, but the builder of all things is God. Hebrews 3:4Jesus answered them, “This is the work of God, that you believe in him whom he has sent.” John 6:29In you, O Lord, do I take refuge; let me never be put to shame; in your righteousness deliver me! Psalm 31:1You shall serve the Lord your God, and he will bless your bread and your water, and I will take sickness away from among you. Exodus 23:25Preach the word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, and exhort, with complete patience and teaching. 2 Timothy 4:2

@patriciatribess5774 11 ай бұрын

As legendas com tradução não estão mais funcionando? É um problema do youtube ou configuração do canal

@DocSnipes 11 ай бұрын

As legendas com tradução estão funcionando corretamente.

@user-yp7jm3mk6l 10 ай бұрын

And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19 Therefore say to them, Thus says the Lord God: None of my words will be delayed any longer, but the word that I speak will be performed, declares the Lord God. Ezekiel 12:28 He who loves money will not be satisfied with money, nor he who loves wealth with his income; this also is vanity. Ecclesiastes 5:10 Then what if you were to see the Son of Man ascending to where he was before? John 6:62 For I delivered to you as of first importance what I also received: that Christ died for our sins in accordance with the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day in accordance with the Scriptures. 1 Corinthians 15:3-4 So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart. 2 Timothy 2:22For every house is built by someone, but the builder of all things is God. Hebrews 3:4Jesus answered them, “This is the work of God, that you believe in him whom he has sent.” John 6:29In you, O Lord, do I take refuge; let me never be put to shame; in your righteousness deliver me! Psalm 31:1You shall serve the Lord your God, and he will bless your bread and your water, and I will take sickness away from among you. Exodus 23:25Preach the word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, and exhort, with complete patience and teaching. 2 Timothy 4:2

@jamessanders145 Ай бұрын

Can splitting manifest in a more cold/ holding back/ putting up walls attitude as opposed to flat out anger or fighting?

@DocSnipes Ай бұрын

certainly. We all fight and flee in our own way. THe walls is an example of fleeing into your own head.

@justnoted2995 5 күн бұрын

But something is wrong with them... they are not resilient to be in the usual situations of life

@DocSnipes 4 күн бұрын

Thanks for watching and for sharing

@SusanaXpeace2u 7 ай бұрын

I feel like this describes what my teenage son has done to me. He used to be a funny curious affectionate kid but at about 13 he stopped talking to me. It got progressively worse and went from one word answers to being ignored and then being mocked for trying to start every day afresh bothering to try and talk. He's with my brother now because his hatred for me was so off the scale. He told me I was a bitch. I said why am I a bitch. He had nothing. Called me more names. But there's no reason, no ''you're a bitch because....'''. It's awful. I hope one day he values having a mother.

@DocSnipes 7 ай бұрын

That’s awful and I am so deeply sorry it happened to you

@kims1912 7 ай бұрын

You should take him to Dr. Amen at Amen clinics, he does brain scans and treatment based on that. He tries natural supplements first before meds.

@DanielRietsma Ай бұрын

How many times can a person split in one day

@DocSnipes Ай бұрын

Splitting is a psychological phenomenon often associated with personality disorders, particularly borderline personality disorder (BPD). It involves a person viewing themselves, others, or situations in extremes-either all good or all bad, with no middle ground. The frequency of splitting can vary widely among individuals and can be influenced by various factors, including stress, interpersonal conflicts, and individual coping mechanisms. While there isn't a specific number of times a person can split in one day, as it is highly individual, it's important to understand that for someone with a personality disorder prone to splitting, it can happen multiple times a day, especially during periods of high emotional turmoil or stress. If you or someone you know is struggling with splitting, it may be helpful to explore the underlying traumas and memories associated with this behavior. Therapy can be beneficial for individuals to explore their traumas and vulnerabilities and identify strategies for change. Grounding techniques, distress tolerance, and radical acceptance are important tools to restore a sense of safety and empowerment in the moment.

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