THE 3 WORD METHOD

[@ScrapHappy]

I could watch you go through this process with 100 people... it's so good!

[@kelseyyarnell5983]

Yes, please make more videos like this! So so fun.

[@hyeats]

For real!! Should absolutely be a show.

[@claremagee2592]

Allison, I love that you made your subject matter expertise available at affordable price points: free (social) and ~$25 (book). This kind of socioeconomic inclusivity is refreshing and appreciated.

[@9catlover]

1.what you normally wear/ wear a lot of 2.what you put on mood boards/ pinterest 3.how you want to feel

[@oliviacurzi4124]

Please make these a series!! This was so helpful and fun to watch!

[@heatherframpton9693]

Yes! 😊❤

[@JocieFire]

Please make many of these! Helping people find their 3 words and dressing them up in outfits that fit them.

[@wrendor9465]

Layered/Timeless/Authentic ❤

[@Just_Kirsty]

I just got this in my recommendations and have already seen several other people talk about your three word method. I could never really wrap my head around it, though. It always felt like "How am I supposed to put my style into THREE words only?", especially because I wanted my personality to be reflected within it. It just didn't wanna click or work for me. But I did you very wrong, because now that I saw this video, even when I was just half way through, it clicked and I was able to find my three style words (versatile, bold, dynamic) and actually describe and write down what they mean to me personally and also how they can look like and be achieved. This was a breeze to watch and also incredibly helpful. And I have to admit, to find the second word, I had to write down many words that would describe the visuals of what I usually put on mood boards, to then find the matching word that actually describes the vibe that makes me like this specific aesthetic. But that wasn't even taking long and was a very fun exercise as well. So thank you very much for this video, even though I'm quite late to watching it.

[@vinccimoraless]

The 3 word method is an absolute GAME CHANGER. The things I have purchased since exploring my 3 words have been amazing additions to my wardrobe!

[@Jaimihyde]

I love this video so much! It’s so refreshing to not hear the same capsule wardrobe talk and see people express themselves in their unique way ❤

[@lizpollock2376]

Thank you! That was so helpful. 🙂 I surprised myself! 1. Reserved. 2. Boho 3. Free/Confident. That third one was a big surprise - I want to escape from my current style, I think it's a by product of childhood trauma where I just wanted to disappear or blend in. Now, at 60, I want to escape and be me! I'm creative and I want to walk that walk. I just need to figure out how to do that. So I just ordered your book and will re-visit my three words after doing some reading. ☺

[@MuyassarSattar]

I thank God for sending this video to me. My third emotional word made me cry. This method also helped me discover something important. May God bless you 🙏

[@Androgynary]

This method changed the game for me. I apply it not just for my fashion but also for my interior design style as well!

[@AllisonBornstein]

I love that!! I do too!!! It really helps

[@katieodea5378]

The first thing I thought when I saw her living space was “warm and inviting”

[@witchlizisthis]

I love this method because it feels like it can work for anyone, regardless of their gender identity! My husband has watched some style advice videos with me, and he gets frustrated that the language feels exclusively feminine. I'm literally ordering your book now!!

[@radiantmasterpiece5649]

These are my favorite kind of videos I watch on repeat!!

[@acec8]

Same. Moooore please lol

[@kimmaguire3621]

Me too! Also book is preordered. 🎉

[@Heather.C.ButterflySage]

Practical. Aspirational. Emotional. Love this.

[@TM-zq7qx]

I’ve watched several videos for the purpose of identifying my 3 words. And I kept playing with the same 3 words (basic, romantic, polished) just didn’t know in what order to put them. However today I was finally able to realize that romantic or even funky was not my aspirational, but rather emotional word. So: “basic, polished, romantic” is my final result! 💐💐💐

[@hyeats]

Could not agree more about how great that strapless top outfit looked on her! And that would not be an obvious pairing at all but fits the 3 words perfectly. Impressed!!!

[@anitafischetti1746]

Love this kind of video 😍 Please make it into a series 🙏🏻 And I'm really looking forward to reading your book, I already preordered it!!

[@MissNickkieJ]

I appreciate the communication and how expressive this process was. This was SO helpful.

[@LeGadabout]

This kinda made me cry… so moving to see someone embrace their unique style.

[@alexisgaines7644]

I had previously come up my 3 words over the last year of pondering and I am pleased to see that they fit with your method! Bold, narrative, absurd.

[@AthalieM]

I loved this format and hope to see it again. It was really helpful seeing your strategies in real time with a 'regular' person (though maybe not that regular....Grace has some amazing pieces!).

[@dianehutchinson9257]

I am extremely late to the party because I only found out about you in the last few months, but I've binged all your content! I recently redid my closet using your method and it was brilliant!! I will definitely buy the book!

[@AllisonBornstein]

Yaaay! Welcome!!!!! I’m so happy to hear this!!!

[@seeit.sewit.sorted6255]

I already use a similar process that I got from another fab book, Style Statement - Live by your own design, Carrie McCarthy. They base your style on 2 words though. I found it really helpful. Great video, I agree would be good to see more like this.

[@bentleylicious]

Love these videos - you need your own show! And I've pre-ordered the book. Can't wait!

[@helenlayley]

I clicked becuse Grace was casually dressed, printed t-shirt and more shapeless clothing. I enjoyed this! I do find that l got into a rut of my 'wear every day' plain coloured basics and that l have recently started to reach for more jewellery to get the life into my outfits, the personal aspects, the quirkiness.

[@denisekirshenbaum7798]

The book is amazing. An incredible resource.

[@juliettepsvy1026]

This is amazing ! I love to watch these as I organize my cothes and closet. Please make more, a series is definitely called for !

[@kristinagrom2270]

This is so inspirational ❤ I even tweaked a bit my three words to make them feel more personal, I went from “casual, classic and bohemian” to “casual, elegant and soft”. Thank you very much now I feel like my 3 words will help me to shop better 🤗

[@mirandamirandamirandamiranda_]

So enjoyed this! And i love the way you engage with your clients- so open-minded/ encouraging whilst still helping to guide/ inspire!

[@debrajane7622]

This was SO fabulous!!! 😍😍😍 More videos like this, please!! Can’t wait for the book as well! ❤️❤️❤️

[@pchinn4373]

I discovered you recently via Alyssa Beltempo. Although I am old enough to be your mother I still enjoy your styling concepts and just tweak for my age. Especially liked your Closet Edit and I pre-ordered your book so I can learn more from you.

[@karinefrommontreal]

I just bought your book « wear it well » cannot wait to define my style and make my own stylish identity❤🇨🇦

[@sukaicosmica]

These series are gold. You are really a genius at analyzing every bit of the process of helping people distille their style.

[@marionannmacredie]

That corset with pants looks amazing! This is so helpful!! I struggle with exactly this … minimal AND fun 💞

[@susanb3192]

✔️Book preordered! 😁 So happy to support your great work even in a small way. Thank you, Allison!

[@pasitheathanatosasmr488]

I found myself smiling when she had her outfit on! I love this so much. I did it myself for the first time this morning, and I feel like I unlocked the secret of my wardrobe!

[@BrunaBarbosa-xp8yv]

Read your book and had such a hard time deciding my 3 words. This was SUPERRRR helpful. Can't wait to see more of these.

[@SKA1017]

I would LOVE it if you did some more of these🥰

[@_andreamakes]

Loved this video so much! It is definitely super inspiring to watch the whole process. Thank you for sharing and I hope to see more videos like this. Can‘t wait for your book!!

[@elizaollett]

❤❤ 3 words method work for me too. I have never been this satisfied with my wardrobe before.

[@adcoriginal]

Just preordered. 😊 Hope you post more because your videos are always so fun.

[@AllisonBornstein]

Yay! Thank you!

[@R-hp4mj]

Loved this video. You are so talented Allison! I also love how friendly, approachable, fun, and kind you are with clients. Doing what you do means you get to meet all kinds of personalities and help clients shine as they are and feel accepted. The way you ended the video was so cute!haha I think you are far from sounding like a news anchor. Muah, much love!

[@nancytrobaugh1424]

Love everything about this video! I find myself trying to find my three words. Almost there!! Thank you!

[@bridgetfernando5854]

Fantastic video - so fun, and practical, and helpful to those of us struggling to find our personal style and build a cohesive wardrobe. Absolutely loved it!

[@aleksachyzynska]

Nice video idea ! The 3 word method is super interesting, I loved how you show the process of "researching" these words with Grace, it is really helpful how you proceed. the only thing I personally am less fan of are the outfits, they look great (the appearance isn't the "issue" at all and besides what is pretty to someone is subjective), but I find that these outfits are something we see everywhere, it is very cliché if I may say so, like a "cute" dress with a leather oversized blazer and chunky shoe...or a fitted top and oversized pants... I mean you see it everywhere, it would be nice to see eg a 3rd more original proposition.

[@autodidact2289]

This seems derivative of "What Not to Wear."

[@LittleDebbie11]

Holy crap! So cool. My 3: Comfortable // Whimsical // Gracious

[@StefanieZoe]

Hi Girl! I am just loving you work, that fresh approach. It is a pity you didn't put out any new video for quite some time. I am glad for you to be busy a lot with your job. I was wondering if you would consider to film a video about fixes of outfit. You know... To put on a "regular" look you see women around to wear. And after do a fix so we can see what we are doing wrong.

[@hijlaa]

I think I have my 3 words down and since I started narrowing that down, I feel like my summer style is coming into its own more now than it has ever done. It´s still not my favorite season to dress for, but I feel less distracted

[@CattLovins]

Love this concept and loved seeing the process! Can’t wait to read the book!

[@e.machocolat775]

Allison this was such a big help, I preorder you book as soon as you mentioned it, and i can't. Thank you

[@tinasteiger-lee284]

Thanks so much, Allison. I love your videos and styling tipps and also just preordered your book to support you.

[@AllisonBornstein]

Yay! Thank you!

[@HazeyFantazeyW]

I love these videos I always learn something new from Alison I’m going to start thinking about my 3 words and I’m preordering the book so looking forward to receiving it 😊👏

[@nalalog]

i think mine would be 1. casual/comfy 2. polished 3. eclectic !

[@barbb1672]

Already pre-ordered your book after I discovered you here on KZbin. Looking very much forward to receiving it!

[@jilll934]

Love this. Omg I need to make a styling session. I have different issues but totally get every thing she struggles with. ❤

[@Stacyparris]

This was so helpful! Please do more!

[@SallyRuckerllamalady]

Can't wait to read the book.

[@mmmvillalobos]

definitely going to buy ittttttt

[@AllisonBornstein]

Yay! Thank you!❤❤❤❤

[@KatieRosebraugh]

Okay I love your dress and boots look!

[@karycastonguay4825]

I have been looking for my three words for a while now and I think I found it thanks to your method, I can't wait to get dress tomorrow morning😊

[@hotpink3459]

I don't understand how many of the words are supposed to be about the fit of the clothes (oversized, fitted) vs the style (romantic, classic)

[@artapothecary53]

So great- she was glowing

[@filipaazevedo8706]

O melhor vídeo explicando o método das 3 palavras. Super!

[@barbarinachiesa3634]

The look with the pink dress is just perfect 😍

[@martynakubajewska6974]

I can't wait your book! ❤ I hope that it will be available in Poland someday 🥰

[@AllisonBornstein]

It is! 🎉

[@elisavioletta]

love it! she had already a great style though

[@katiet1739]

So enjoy this! This video helped me whittle down my three words 😊

[@AllisonBornstein]

I'm so glad!

[@sophiachalkley9839]

LOVE LOVE LOVE!!! ❤❤❤

[@Piddeaux]

casual/classic/relaxed

[@regroovable]

Love this Allison ❤ Just a note *ASPIRATIONAL, not *ASPERATIONAL on the overlay 😊

[@amiesparkle00]

Thank you! Spelling errors drive me nuts lol

[@thesarahcandice]

Can you do a video just on jewelry? How it can change the tone of an outfit. I need some tips in the department :)

[@TatianaTaninaNo1]

Love your methods! Can't wait for the book already ❤

[@TimeMovie93150]

i just bought this book i can't wait!!!!

[@JDLS-v8p]

Book preordered! Can’t wait. I need help 😂

[@9catlover]

loved watching this. it's so fun. like Grace was really discovering herself even though all the clothes were her, she just needed help to make what she had bring her personality out. It's genius

[@heatherframpton9693]

Brand new subscriber here ...by recommendation of Christina Mychas! Thanks Allison, for the content! 😊❤

[@clarisselibene]

Confortable / elegant / light

[@faithowan2680]

Missed seeing this kind of closet video. Please do more!!

[@veesvoyages]

Just been recommended this video from YT and I love the concept! The final looks are gorgeous!

[@karinefrommontreal]

Im so buying the book! Maybe for my Christmas wishlist

[@baebald1842]

i love your videos so much-- i'll definitely be preordering your book!

[@AllisonBornstein]

Thank you!!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@stargazerbird]

This really works. Loved the looks.

[@pasitheathanatosasmr488]

Such a great method. I love it.

[@yasminastyle]

uuu I loved this video! also, that feeling when Allison mentioned the book, but I've already pre-ordered 😎 I'm sooo looking forward to it!

[@cibelledalalba]

Is the book available as e-book?

[@christinez371]

Would love to see a video for styling when it's super hot out

[@stephallen9819]

She's got a KZbin styling herself for summer and also some tik toks. Personally in Australia they are more Winter/ autumn ideas 😂

[@dcoughla681]

I love these videos. I can’t wait for the book! I

[@bum7201]

love this! cant wait for the book!!! pre ordering now

[@AllisonBornstein]

Yay!! You are going to love it!!!

[@kelly.smith22]

My favourite kind of video 👏🏼

[@audreynadou1181]

I can’t wait to buy the book!!!!

[@karenburns8387]

Really looking forward to your book.

[@AllisonBornstein]

Me too!!!!!🎉

[@playtheukulele4flores200]

Ladies I need help , I have a hard time defining my first word . Basically my regulars consist of : Vintage 501 , plain tee shirt or vest top , oversized shirt, cachemire sweaters in winter . Boots in winter , chunky sandals in summer . What do you think ? Classic ? Nineties ? 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@stephallen9819]

I like the word efortless for basics 😊Have you binged all of Allison's early tik toks? She had some great different ways to find the words and ways some of her friends did it too (a bit different to how she explains it now -1. Describe regulars , 2. Aspirational, 3. Feeling

[@playtheukulele4flores200]

@@stephallen9819 thanks for your reply :) yes i have , but come to think of it , I guess it might depends where you are from . But yes effortless is definitely a great one for me !!

[@Kp1sCreations111]

Excellent presentation ❤❤❤ very very interesting video ❤❤❤ great work ❤❤❤ have a wonderful day ❤❤❤

[@kimidoodles]

Could this method still apply if you have a very limited closet? Weight loss, plus a new baby, plus decluttering has reduced what I have to a very small amount and it’s all basically boring. I feel boring when I wear it. Definitely going to preorder your book!

[@AllisonBornstein]

YES! Of course! You don’t have to have a lot of clothes to have style

[@stephaniex8776]

just foun dyour videos, so helpful!

[@Leuka_]

Mine would be Comfortable, Feminine, and Respectable or Stylish. I feel like you can have some flexibility with the emotional word depending on your mood or where you're going.

[@katerobinson6226]

LOVED this !!!

[@marionannmacredie]

OMG is that a fellow New Zealander!!! So cool to see this!! ❤❤❤❤❤💞

[@sonyafby]

Pretty sure she’s Australian

[@carolannf]

I thought an Aussie. But I’m happy for either ☺️

[@rlavelleSLP]

Congrats on your book- I’m excited to read it! Could you please say where your dress and boots are from? 🖤💫

[@AllisonBornstein]

Dress is vintage and boots are Khaite x

[@rlavelleSLP]

@@AllisonBornstein Thanks! So cute 😊