Am I Happy With How It Looks? | Phalloplasty Outcome

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

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[@ArinBombastic]

1 take a shot everytime the word penis is said (pls dont youll die) and 2 thank you for explaining ur experience and everything past the 1st stage. ive only ever seen and heard past the first stage and never more. i have done research everywhere and looked around and have not yet found what i was looking for and yeah im not visually seeing it but hearing u talk about ur experiences and what all happens and y honestly helps me choose one that would suit me and i am now convinced 90% phalloplasty and all the stuff after is the one for me(only 90 because my brain will always say "mmmmm r u sure? everyone is different after all >:) it might look horrible and be horrible and youll never be good enough) sorry thats what i have to deal with but otherwise this has been extremely helpful.

[@_soupus]

this was so relieving to watch. i just saw a video on how the surgery happens and it honestly scared me, but to hear that the surgery can be worth it and it isnt some mix-and-match mass that hurts and you regret it is relaxing. i can say that, if i do get the surgery, that it will be ok ❤️

[@gideoncharles9328]

This is a really great video! I just got Phalloplasty six weeks ago and I wasn’t feeling too great about my results but watching you talking about it really helped a lot. It’s so great to hear another trans man talk about it and in such a positive way.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Congratulations! I hope you are healing well? I am so glad my sharing helped, thank you for your kindness! There are a ton of extra resources and blogs on my website finlaygames.com

[@gideoncharles9328]

@@FinnTheInfinncible I’m having quite a lot of complications so I’ll have to get another surgery (or two) as soon as possible but in the end it will hopefully be fine Love your website!

[@glowindark64]

​@Gideon Charles what complications did you have? Did they fix them?

[@gideoncharles9328]

@@glowindark64 they fixed them and added new ones haha I’ll have to get a revision at some point but I can’t bring myself to enter that hospital again just yet…

[@glowindark64]

@@gideoncharles9328 good luck friend

[@transmensociety]

Thanks so much man. It’s amazing & so helpful to see someone talking about this stuff for somebody just starting this journey

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Im so glad to hear that! Its important for me to get the informormation out that was missing when I started my journey. You can find more resources and blogs over on my website at finlaygames.com Thank you for watching and for your kind comment!

[@griffinvongabriel9369]

I am 17 weeks post op stage 1 today. I smile every time I see him. I no longer have to pack, that’s me:) I do get sad from my arm still. My guy is hairy; I’m trying to get electrolysis right now to fix that. And of course I wish he was bigger, but I am so thankful to have a penis now. I’ll be getting stage 2 in 44 days. I have my tattooing scheduled for October 14th. No idea if that will work, but since electrolysis is painful I’m hoping to do tattooing while I can’t feel much. As of now I already feel the base with pain. As far as nerves go it’s no pain no gain. I’m so excited for stage 2:) As always, thank you for sharing your journey with us:)

[@nikkij4873]

Was wondering if you had any updates! :)

[@griffinvongabriel9369]

@@nikkij4873 I’m now 9 months post stage 1 and 16 weeks post stage 2 and 4 weeks post first session of medical tattooing. I have some pinched nerves in my abdomen that I have to exercise out. I either have a stricture or pelvic floor issues. I’m hoping it’s pelvic floor. I have to take some tests to find out, but I can’t get in until December 1st cause of hospitals being overflowed with covid patients. December 1st was originally my stage 3 consult, but I’m not sure what’s gonna happen now.

[@nikkij4873]

@@griffinvongabriel9369 wishing you luck. You can get through this, it just takes patience. I'm a NB myself with disabilities. Patience and self-compassion are key. Keep hanging in there.

[@griffinvongabriel9369]

@@nikkij4873 thanks mate:) I have disabilities too. It’s a rough road, so I’m trying.

[@nikkij4873]

@@griffinvongabriel9369 *hugs* same. This pandemic has been hard.

[@alisonryan6482]

I have learned a lot from your posts. I hope you have a happy life going forward.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

That's lovely to hear! And thank you!

[@Theresa-Lottodo]

Many people have all kinds of plastic surgery for all kinds of reasons. Thank goodness we have good surgeons that can make this possible. Thanks for sharing. ❤

[@reesehowell562]

This video came up in my recommended just by chance. Fantastic job Finn! 💜💜💜 As a queer man, I’m so grateful for your content. I have only ever heard “men are gross, d*cks are gross” my whole life.. and this radical acceptance and love of oneself - and the beauty of loving others like oneself… gave me so much hope and warmth. 💜💜💜 The hard work you have done to find self-acceptance shows brilliantly.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

What a lovely comment, thank you so much! I have been on one hell of a journey, fto learn to love myself and my body. I love to share these realisations with everyone else, because we all deserve self love! Did you see I have written a book? It charts my phalloplasty journey, and details all my insights of getting to know and love my body finlaygames.com/my-books/

[@sorol79]

I really appreciated this as someone considering phallo. What hit me is when you described about the "feeling" of having a penis. That's pretty much what I'm experiencing-I can't pinpoint exactly "why" I need to have/should have/ want a penis; it's just an unnamed feeling. To be honest, I have a hard time imagining what it will look like because it's not really about how it looks for me (it's how it will make me feel inside-more complete). It is like a huge, really scary, risky decision, that I don't take lightly. But hearing your experience is very helpful. I look forward to seeing your other videos too. Thanks, man!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Hello my friend, thank you for watching and for your kind words. This is exactly why I share, beause this surgery is such a tricky one to decide on. Like you, I was more concerned with how it would make me feel, and I can quite honestly say that I had no idea it would have this much of an impact! I have recently made a video, comparing how I felt with how I feel now and looking back on my expectations. kzbin.info/www/bejne/mXixh2udgpZqa8k

[@danjames4086]

I don't know how I got here, but I've stumbled upon your channel somehow. Absolutely fascinating...and I'm sure you will be an inspiration to many others.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

I love accidental stumblers! Welcome to the FinnFam! Thank you for your lovely comment!

[@mauriziavilla3958]

My dear Finn, I am so happy for your journey, you have diserved everything!!!! I give you a strong hug, my dear !!!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Bless you!

[@natemcgaw221]

Just found you as I’ve been sorting out my referral for top surgery with Andrew Yelland and I’m so glad I have found you!! You’re truly amazing!!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Yay! I am so glad you found me too! Welcome to the FinnFam! Thank you for your lovely comment. I am thrilled for your referall to Andrew Yelland, he is a wonderful guy and an amazing surgeon! I have playlists of my own journey with him, did you find them? I also have more reseorces over on my website if that helps finlaygames.com

[@natemcgaw221]

@@FinnTheInfinncible I did and will happily admit that I’ve binge watched a few already!! Thank you so much for making these videos and just being your wonderful self!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

@@natemcgaw221 oh l love a binge watcher! I love it when new folks find me! Love our FinnFamily here! If l can ever help please do message, here or on my website, always happy to chat!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Ps....you are wonderful for saying l am wonderful!

[@natemcgaw221]

@@FinnTheInfinncible thank you bud!! You’re a star!!

[@chromeo3945]

You're so inspiring, Finn. You're comfortable with exactly who you are, it's something I strive to have one day soon. Thank you for helping me understand that my existence is like many many other trans folks. I always appreciate the honesty of your content!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Bless you my friend, thank you for that lovely comment. Its taken time and a lot of work to get this comfortable, and it takes work every day to maintain, but its worthwhile work! Small steps my friend, you will get there and if I can ever help, please do pop me a message. You can contact me directly over on my website finlaygames.com/contact-me/

[@lilmochieater1]

This video made me tear up ❤️ Thank you so much for sharing! I think a lot of trans men need to hear this.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Bless your heart, I agree! That is excatly why I share and why I wrote my phalloplasty memoir! finlaygames.com/my-books/

[@TransKameron]

I can relate so much to what you talked about in this video. Before phalloplasty we only saw photos and videos of OTHER folks' peni (I meant that with no "s") After tattooing I'm super happy with how my "whiley" looks. Glad you are satisfied too!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Yes thats exactly it! Seeing other peens is great, but really gives us no idea of hw ours will look! Im really happy that you are happy too!

[@manchitas3531]

If you did not tell, I could not know you are trans. You are so gay all over! I adore you, Finn. You are an inspiration to everyone. We should accept ourselves and enjoy life. It is far more than a penis or a vagina (or bat cave LOL)

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Ah bless you!!! And l absolutely agree! Thanks for being lovely!

[@cloudsofsunset7323]

bottom surgery of some sort is something i look forward. glad to find this video of you speaking of your experience

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

I am very glad it was helpful! I have a reveal video in my shop if that is useful in your journey ko-fi.com/s/f854c136f2

[@ASMRLISAMJ]

You are absolutely amazing Finn.... you are so real and helping a lot of people... so funny love you're sense of humour in between your videos :) love ya ...xxx

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Aw thank you so much! Yes, humour is needed in this journey of life!

[@blvckp4ntherr]

I’m so scared to get Phallo but I think I’m ok after watching some of your vids! You’ve given me confidence to get this surgery done, thank you.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

It makes me so incredibly happy to hear that! Its OK to be scared, it is a big surgery, but if we are well prepared then the results are good!

[@blvckp4ntherr]

@@FinnTheInfinncible thank you!! God bless you, you just are wonderful!

[@Totalchaos0228]

Don't ever do that to your body.

[@duncanhewitt6557]

The complex internal workings of male genitals can't be replicated by surgery.

[@ilikepickles9568]

Don't do it. Your body is already wonderful. Align your heart with it❤️ Good Luck

[@TheDentrassi]

I have just discovered you and I am in love x

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Yay! I love comments like yours! How did you find me? I love to know! Welcome to the FinnFam! There is more of me and extra stuff over on my website too at finlaygames.com 😁😁😁

[@Moosh207]

Great video! If the Education department and schools wanted to implement the book that you've written into their education curriculum as part of their reading list for education surrounding sex and gender studies, where is the best place for them to resource your book in bulk? Is it through your publisher Jessica Kingsley Publishing or through your website? With the growing number of youth reaching out and expressing their gender identities outside of gender binary, it is very important they be directed to supportive and credible resources. Your caring approach to raising consciousness and normalising gender conversations beyond the binary is very nurturing and friendly. Your educational resources really do redirect societies conversational discourse in a way that galvanizes people's sense of humanity and takes what they now understand and helps them implement that in helpful ways. I love your content. Your amazing!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Thank you so much! I would love for my book to be on a school cirriculum, that would be a great day for trans rights! yes, my publisher can arrange bulk orders at a discount :)

[@Moosh207]

@@FinnTheInfinncible Your books should definitely be on the school curriculum. The world would be a better place.

[@KingRevvi]

Love the content man I thought for the last 15 years that this procedure was impossible for me to get and I also thought the “Frankenstein” mess you thought was the only option! But I’m finally in a position where it’s financially feasible. Quick question - I’m really scared also about the arm skin since my job requires a ton of typing. So… is your job 8 hours/day on the computer, and if not, would you have considered a different donor site if so? Obviously I’ll talk to the doctor but wanted to see what you / others here think

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Hi my friend, sorry for the delay in reply. I work all day on computer and I do not have an issue at all. It is very rare now to have any hand issues post op

[@SilentGamer_FOB]

Thank you so much this helped so much all of your videos

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Thank you so much for your kind appreciation!

[@pmbluemoon]

🥰😎🤩 *UNIQUENESS IS PERFECTION* I love that Finn! I agree that you can ask ANY guy, and they don't like SOMETHING about their "twig and giggle berries" (my friend called his one time and it stuck with me LOL!) I've often wondered about how you and Chris get along intimately, but I never wanted to intrude, thank you for answering my question without me having to ask! I have a gay friend who told me if I got phallo, he would want to "take it for a spin" (yeah, I know 🤷‍♂️🤦‍♂️ ) but I think that would also help me get a bit more comfortable if I found someone I really wanted to be with and if I was "acceptable" to my partner. (Not to mention, figuring out how my new plumbing worked, even though in ALL my dreams, I'm always a cis gay guy!) 10:55 WOW, I loved that answer so much I got teary eyed with happiness and understanding! *SUBSCRIBER HUGS* I can't wait to see how you decorate your new place, are there pets in your future possibly? (If your new place allows pets of course!) I hope your move goes well and please, both of you be careful and don't hurt yourselves! I've moved quite a few times and it's NOT an easy thing to do! MUCH LOVE! 🥰😍🤩🤗

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Hello lovely man! Twig and giggle berries...hillarious!!! And yes, talking intimately about us is tricky! I try to share as its helpful, but also while protecting Chris privacy! I think all of us deserve to be with someone who sees our body as far more than acceptable! Learning plumming is fun....even more so with the help if someone else!! Moving day is next Tuesday, we are almost done! We would love a pet but we are waiting until we get our own place, which is partly why we are moving to Plymouth as houses are much cheaper there. Chris is still the main earner, my income is slowly increasing, but as self employed, its tricky to prove I can afford a mortgage, so its all on Chris! Bless him! WE are both just wanting to be there and unpacking now! I cant wait to share it with you! Much love fella!!

[@pmbluemoon]

@@FinnTheInfinncible Stay safe and I hope you both love your new place! I love moving to a new place, just to see how to decorate and such, pick which room is for what purpose, it's so much fun! Bless Chris for being such a wonderful Fiancee! 👨‍❤️‍💋‍👨 So much wonderful things are happening for you, and I am so happy that you can share with us while still protecting both your privacy 💖💗💞 Once you move to your new place, I have a fun idea that I hope will work out that I want to send you, but I'll keep it a surprise until I know you're settled in more, it's for the both of you 😁😎🥰🤗🤩

[@wolfman75]

Great Advice & Tips!!! Thank You Brother!!! 👍😎😁

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Thanks my friend!

[@stephaniearmer9831]

so most going through the journey are taking T, so they might have more body hair than from before, did you get laser hair removal before the surgery? i imagine it would be easier to get that on the arm than on your brand new happenis lol

[@game0nnemisis]

As a gay ftm I’ll eventually get phallo, I’m scared but your videos has help

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Fear around surgery is normal and understandable. Im glad my videos help.

[@lxcky21]

Yay! Another peen vid! (I hope that didn’t come out as creepy 😆) I don’t even know if I’ll want that kind of surgeries down the line, but I’ve seen so many results for it and I’m currently reading through “Hung Jury” which you recommended in another video (thank you so much btw) and I even wrote down the name of a tattoo artist because I saw the result of her work shared by one person and man! That dong was incredible! Low key want what he’s got ngl...

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Hahah! Not creepy at all, I love your peen enthusiasm! 😆 I am so glad you are enjoying Hung Jury, it is such a great book isnt it? Changed completely how I fel about surgery. And yes, I have seen some INCREDIBLE tattoo results!

[@anonmenhera2720]

How do you know if you can trust your doctor? And where did you find them? And how did you find them?

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Unfortunately it's a case of trial and error. If you are unhappy with your doctor, it's your right to see another.

[@anonmenhera2720]

@@FinnTheInfinncible so like,is it fixable if the first or second doctor messed up?

[@DanTheHuman_]

Great video! ☺️☺️

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Thank you so much!

[@DanTheHuman_]

@@FinnTheInfinncible your welcome mate! 🙂

[@jamieboy1965]

Thank you 😊👍

[@TarikOumayma]

Thank you broo

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Thanks for watching!

[@claire-j-bear]

It really is a crying shame there's no cosmic parts exchange, I can recognize that my... stuff, is objectively a pretty good example of such, I just... don't want it.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Oh I completely relate!