AMANI TALKS Ep. 20: Why do old men chase young women? ft. BK Brasco

BK Brasco of Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta shares his very divisive opinions on age gap dating, transactional relationships and everything else under the sun in this thought provoking interview.
IG: @BKBRASCO

[@sydneylumpkin6151]

The fact that he saw the 13yr old more in the wrong than the 20yr old really shows how men rarely hold each other accountable. So many times in this, he was like, "but..." and then backpedaled when she gave specifics and was like, "that's gross." His whole thought process is dangerous and completely perpetuated by society.

[@Theworldismine5]

The reason is men especially black men see women as adults as soon as they can have sex, yet his daughter is different! I wonder if he’d have that same reaction if his daughter was having sex at 13 with an adult!

[@Ichigothegoat546]

He's a huge walking red flag

[@kelly9704]

I was thinking the same thing, how are you going to blame the 13 yr child and not the adult men

[@karengibson6258]

This hits home and it's gross.

[@miminotbovered2857]

@@Theworldismine5 Who says they see their daughter as different. They'll blame their daughter just the same.

[@Wanderlust4Us]

He literally blamed children for an adult’s wrongdoing…wow.

[@moni3467]

the fact that he has a daughter is scary. i hope she sees this and knows his logic is flawed tbh

[@purplelaketafahdhali7753]

Exactly. A 13 year old was supposed to know what to do about a grown man dating a child. Idiotic.

[@Tauruseats]

No he blamed women. "Where's her mother." I thought a father protected the daughter 🤔

[@editahusic8925]

Everytime I hear a man speak I’m more and more grateful for learning how to de-center men from my life. Best decision I’ve ever made for myself

[@PleiadianArcturian888]

Same here

[@elizabete6327]

Yes, girl me too

[@loveraindown]

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[@grimlife2731]

Majority say the dumbest shit

[@oshynblair7907]

I’m learning

[@S-jy4fd]

He calling her aggressive because they never expect us women in our 20s to be so smart and clued up. You couldn’t play with her and he knows it.

[@Alexa-uk8lj]

Not just your 20s. Stay a woman with a strong mind and you'll be called everything but a child of God by these dusties until your last day.

[@TheofficalDreamteam]

thisss is very correct they have made up thought that young means dumb

[@serious7179]

Try being a woman who speaks her mind in her 40's...we are called washed up, useless, cat lady, etc...they really hate women who are older who have standards and stick by them.

[@kingsleyoseghale8315]

You look 40s

[@S-jy4fd]

@@kingsleyoseghale8315 I know you ain’t talking to me with your dry lip and cock eye

[@iceprincesss1013]

His whole vibe is disgusting I’m so shook

[@daishamarie9941]

The weight comment has me shook at the lack of education he has it could be numerous reasons for someone gaining weight

[@EricaExploreIslandTours]

I'm not surprise no wonder why his ex called off the engagement

[@loveraindown]

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[@littlevuggey93]

He's oval himself

[@DashwithTash]

I saw a clip of this convo on Twitter and tuned in for a few minutes. Honestly I’m tired of seeing Black woman who are smart, witty, opinionated, have conversations about relationships with dudes who can’t string together a sentence. My unsolicited advice, find educated, kinder, worldly men who add value to the conversation and your business/platform.

[@KimmyR12]

Honestly, she should have found someone more intelligent to hold this kind of a conversation with because this one ain't it

[@pixienaeeeee]

what was the twitter @ i really wanna look

[@JustVern]

I think that he needed to be exposed like this though.

[@munchandmotivation8128]

I think it's a great way to reveal their true colors. It's good to see how these males behave. We can see their thought process on different levels. Education. Class is in session. Take notes. Although it's hard to listen to the foolishness 😫

[@munchandmotivation8128]

​@@JustVernFACTS. This is how they expose themselves

[@tiaslays255]

I am disgusted he told his daughter that she has to go through traumatic experiences due to men preying on her to “become a woman.” Society is really brainwashed. It is so sad. Please stop telling young girls that they have to tolerate that behavior in order to mature themselves. And we wonder why so many black girls and stuck in abusive relationships and women In general. I bring up race here because it’s an issue in the black community. This is just straight up sad. I have no words.

[@amberotl5276]

He's not mature. He has the IQ of a teenage boy. He chose not to be a real man. He can't handle that kind of responsibility and accountability. He's gonna die alone for sure.

[@oshynblair7907]

He’s very disqusting for saying that. This is exactly why I do not like blk me anymore. I’ve tried not to put all in one bunch but it seems to be all.

[@CeeShelli]

He's not too bright.

[@RapidRants]

🤣🤣🤣🤣literally

[@leeyahdior]

At alllll😂😂😂

[@UltraBall23]

He announced himself as BK… that’s all I needed.

[@Cobras17]

Not good looking or in shape either

[@daishamarie9941]

I’m cryin 🤣

[@tsmiley4]

The fact he keep complaining about women’s weight while being overweight and looking like that is crazy

[@brianiac8083]

Right!! 😂

[@taj-mahalwatt7276]

True 😂...and women who are 5'2 should only date 5'2 men

[@Cobras17]

@@taj-mahalwatt7276You are obsessed. Spamming this whole comment section making it obvious no women is giving you the time of day.

[@TheeBratzDollxox]

@@taj-mahalwatt7276nigga you keep bringing up height under all these comments as if Latinos don’t reproduce by the dozen per household like girl go find you a Mexican chick I’m sure she’ll be perfectly happy

[@imanidclarke]

That’s the part! I’m mad she didn’t bring that up lol, like sir have you seen YOU?!?! Tf!

[@iceprincesss1013]

So because she has a opinion she’s not feminine? He a gaslighter

[@loveraindown]

She’s a chameleon. kzbin.info/www/bejne/oGfUp2l-e52Jocksi=OWKC3ECKVRbrSDLp

[@dani9676]

mentioning Age Ain’t Nothing But a Number like it wasn’t written by R Kelly and Aaliyah wasn’t a victim is CRAZY

[@sequoyahday9427]

Absolutely NUTS! My mouth fell open

[@SpacedOutI]

what is an underage girl doing in a playboy house?

[@t.k0m__]

Like wasnt she 15?

[@joeshmoe0136]

​@@SpacedOutIbeing groomed?

[@SpacedOutI]

@@joeshmoe0136 okayyyy

[@janirealonso6629]

This dudes poor daughter. Imagine a 13 year old naive child that is looking for some kind of attention and here comes a 24 yr old giving it to her and her father tells her SHE’S fast and disgusting

[@PinkDiamond380]

Because I promise you if one of his homeboys tried to hit on his teenage daughter he would have an issue.

[@lolabunniiii]

I will say I agree with the young girl being fast. I wouldn't tell it to her like that BUTTT that doesn't take away from the fact that the older man is preying on young girls either. He also said the girl should've said she was only 13, it doesn't always go like that especially if there isn't a good parental foundation. I can say all this because I HAVE BEEN IN THIS SITUATION! I WAS fast when I was 13 talking to an 18 year old lying to him that I was 14 cause that was only half his age. AGAIN it doesn't take away from the fact that THAT man should've been more mature and responsible enough NOT to try and touch me. There is ALSO a difference between a young fast girl and a girl who is being sexually assaulted or harassed. I would know this too because I have also experienced this. Like for real... Let's Talk About IT !!!

[@karengibson6258]

I am so disgusted by this .

[@shelbywilliams]

@@lolabunniiiiinstead of calling a child FAST, maybe consider that she’s a child exploring herself and that a GROWN MAN should say NO to any child. Easy as that.

[@shelbywilliams]

@@lolabunniiiisome children are going to be more CURIOUS than others. Curious children don’t deserve to be sexually assaulted by an adult, regardless of whether they are trying to be with someone older than themselves. Plus a parent or family member may never have told them child to not be with someone older. There are too many children with no education on relationships and sex so they don’t understand the concept of wrong regarding these situations. You were just a child with a curious mind. YOU WERE NOT FAST! Please don’t do that to yourself

[@DemiRiot]

This one sided thing where men feel like women shouldn’t gain weight and have to be in the gym but they can have syrup bellies big as big pun is wild af to me.

[@taj-mahalwatt7276]

It's so one-sided that women want a man 6 ft. When they are 5'2 ft. You guys should date your height.

[@emiller1822]

Exactly

[@aim-for-greatn3z947]

Ots not one sided because we do have to literally take car of a whole damn household 😂 Is staying in shape that difficult literally in a relationship you number women responsibility towards a man and I bet that list won't pass 5 fingers of what a man want from their women 😂

[@anonnnymousthegreat]

He’s not a looker himself. He got a lil pop belly himself under that hoodie.

[@Theworldismine5]

@@taj-mahalwatt7276Really I’m 5’10 and men have an issue with my height . Stop it . Men don’t want tall women and women don’t want short men. Yet y’all be overweight , unhealthy and unattractive and still think a women should want you !

[@MamaHuntress_]

Never trust anyone who blames a child for acting in the ignorance of a child instead of the adult that revels in a childs ignorance and encourages the child to do harmful activities that benefit themselves smh

[@3DSuccess]

Listennnnn. When I heard that everything else he said went out the door.

[@Takamiko22]

Men wanna be animals so badly until you start calling them dogs 🙃 Even that's too kind bc I love my dog 🤡

[@Takamiko22]

"That's why I can say I love you and have sex with multiple women." That is CLINICAL bro unless you're in an open relationship. I wish she'd gone back to that statement

[@LightSoldier222]

Comparing themselves to certain animals makes them feel more manly.

[@lisabutler448]

It's also him comparing men to lions. I laughed. Why not a skunk 😂

[@Lisa-sg1of]

Yeah, don't insult dogs like that, they're *wonderful* . Can't really the say the same about men though.

[@Lisa-sg1of]

Yeah, don't insult dogs like that, they're *wonderful* . Can't really the say the same about men though.

[@renear89]

He's disgusting for holding a CHILD to the same level of accountability as the grown man

[@loveraindown]

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[@TheGreenContort]

This man doesn't have anything intelligent to add to the conversation. He's lucky to have an audience. Bless his heart, Lord.

[@ravenswood118]

This is why, whenever I question whether I deserve money because I wonder if I being enough value, I remember people like this dumbarse. Ain’t money got nothing to do with deserving, so I might as well have it. 😂

[@miffycarter3876]

No this nigga need to be saved not blessed sweetie him even having money yet an audience is baffling to me

[@loveraindown]

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[@tierratowne]

I love how you can have these conversations without getting mad😂

[@heyitsnasira]

A true superpower. Podcast deserved 😂

[@f.n.246]

This was so eye opening, not to be mean but the level of ich and ignorance this man has at his age and lack of shame is astounding lol. He is also incredibly condescending. May I also add why do these men never seem to care if a plain, regular woman doesn't want to breed? Why they only angry at the women that are extremely good looking by everyday standards?

[@serious7179]

Girl it couldn't be me lol

[@tiaslays255]

@@serious7179right? This man is irritating. Saying that women are here to please men. 🤣

[@ravenswood118]

I would be losing my sh-t no doubt

[@jadibdraws]

She let him get away with a lot but males think she being mean.

[@cm2fresh]

Him struggling to introduce himself said enough

[@icecreamprincess09]

I thought it was just me 🙃🫠

[@EricaExploreIslandTours]

Already was like this man is childish af

[@MadameLa78]

Thank you!

[@Ebizzill]

he does a whole lotta nothing and claims he's high value

[@queencushie2905]

Omgoodness that's where I'm at 🙄🙄 lost

[@sunflowerglo5492]

Blaming a child for getting groomed by a literal predator is wild crazy

[@Natyyy8D]

He’s constantly “telling” her what to feel and do…. Like “I’m telling you”. Homeboy, you’re telling me your preference. 😂

[@Rae.2x]

‼️‼️

[@tazhienunurbusinezz1703]

Dudes really act like their opinions are facts & it's wild.

[@bizzille5989]

I'm 26 and worth $13M. I'm a black Nigerian man who lives in Lagos but frequently goes to London for work/meetings. Met people all across the world from South Korea to Qatar. African-American men never fail to amaze me. I have never encountered a group of people so devoid of reality, entitled to wealth/luxury or women, and not bringing jack squat to the table, and feel the need to chime in on the African American woman who works time times harder and has to deal with all the B.S in the world.

[@patricesanson649]

Facts thank you 🙏🏽👑🫶🏾

[@KanoniNaire585]

BINGO! 👏🏾

[@oliviaswan7419]

worth $13M? hit my line, quick

[@evegu1]

Amen!!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Say it louder so they can hear you across the ocean 😂😂 I could care less about the networth, but the part about coming to the table with nothing rings Soo true.

[@jamisedenari2449]

You had to put how much money you're worth. Makes you look desperate.

[@jayhess1511]

His conversation is repellent to a mature woman.

[@unlisted333]

Agreed! ❤

[@Angeloflight7]

YOH! Indeed😂

[@leeyahdior]

Why do men get so confused and malfunction when they hear some women don’t want kids😂😂😂they’ll tell you that’s not what you want or then blame you and say you’re selfish. I know a lot of women who hate being parents.

[@Aryasneedle]

Yeah only because they are not the ones who have to give birth and do most of the tasks 🫠 if it was the other way many men wouldn’t even think about getting kids 😅

[@jadibdraws]

​@Aryasneedle if it was the other way around instead if billions of ppl being in the world it'd be in the thousands

[@Naturefan354]

Women bash childless women more than anyone

[@MsAC1220]

Saw a snippet of this interview on TikTok and his ignorance and entitlement infuriated me so I decided to go here and watch the whole vid, hoping he redeemed himself in one way or another in the middle of the conversation... I HAVE NEVER BEEN MORE MISTAKEN IN MY WHOLE LIFE. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@fuchsia02]

can you please give me a time stamp for the TikTok part

[@MsAC1220]

​@@fuchsia0230:53 to 31:09. The one wherein he said she was born here to have kids lmao

[@fuchsia02]

@@MsAC1220 thxxxx

[@emwilz8743]

I showed up here for the same reason. 100% let down

[@Jules-fr5gm]

We all showed up for the same thing 😂

[@mphomokoena7168]

The fact these men think they top tier with 5 kids n broke divorced ladies in they 20s are gona be with them for love😂 it's giving delulu

[@candicesmith3347]

Do the 13 year olds were supposed to be more responsible than the man in his 20’s? He’s definitely weird.

[@solimine1007]

Men make every excuse they can to justify discussing sexual behavior

[@AriAbney]

A 13 year old having sex with a 24 year old is not her being fast it’s her being leed by the wrong person is not her being disgusting its that man being a groomer he grooms little girls its not her fault because she is the child it’s his nasty as fault for being gross dealing with a child

[@cdotnicole]

exactly that’s a baby!

[@imaalien4411]

Literally and ppl calling the little girl fast. THE MAN IS THE ADULT!!! He knows right from wrong in every way but chose to do wrong. He also chose a 13 year old because he knew it would be an easy target. Disgusting.

[@iamwell5654]

It’s her being innocent, and trusting somebody who she thinks that her best interest at heart.

[@momoe.4075]

It’s crazy for him to call a 13yr old disgusting. That is a literal child.

[@3DSuccess]

And saying it out loud, publicly, says a lot.

[@moni3467]

the fact that he has a daughter truly terrifies me lmfao

[@hl7806]

Most men like that God give them female child

[@beanzthecomedian]

You terrify me

[@Adrienne.Michelle91]

That’s how some of these “men” (and I use that term loosely, hence the quotation marks) think

[@kaylaspencer5767]

This dude is literally telling on himself🤨

[@channn1101]

His very first line to justify old men preying on young girls told me everything I need to know about him. “Women mature faster than men”. I kept seeing clips of HER on tiktok and wanted to tune into the whole thing. But the first topic alone turned me off so bad. Black men are truly so embarrassing. There is something fundamentally wrong with men and I pray to god its rectified soon for the sake of women and children. I know it wont be in this lifetime though.

[@ravenswood118]

White men say all of this stuff too at the same rates, trust me

[@channn1101]

@@ravenswood118 That's why I said " There is something fundamentally wrong with men and I pray to god its rectified soon for the sake of women and children. I know it wont be in this lifetime though."

[@ravenswood118]

@@channn1101 You also said " Black men are truly so embarrassing."

[@Naturefan354]

"There is something fundamentally wrong with men" To make this blanket statement like it applies to all men is wrong and untrue. Just like you wouldn't say "Women are fundamentally normal" to imply all women are the same

[@ravenswood118]

@@Naturefan354 Oh be quiet, pickme. You'll learn.

[@alexixohara1640]

He's wrong and gross

[@kitcat89]

Women you better run when you see him coming at you. He leaving a lot of women emotionally damaged. Sad. He said "im not loving you for you." That means if your are left paralyzed he leaving you. Cancer, oh you bald now he leaving.

[@jaelynn-rosejames9718]

😂😂😂

[@misguidedpearls7456]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@Nikki-lh1tu]

LMAO 😂

[@Takamiko22]

He's going back and forth with this "oh yeah a 50 year old dating a 20 year old he's a pervert" and then brings up the girl groomed by the black community's favorite pedophile's "age ain't nothing but a number 😋"

[@JustVern]

That gave me the ick. A song written by a predator, for his victim, and he had the audacity to use that as an example.

[@misguidedpearls7456]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@baconista6657]

Bk’s lack of accountability is CRAZY

[@queencherie]

“men are put here to provide. women are put here to please. so please me” women…..RUN 😂😂😂

[@justnovie13]

“Most men won’t reach for a condom. I will.” - a man who has a kid with someone he was never with and told her to get rid of the baby.

[@wykkked]

“Getcho match” - 😂😂The look on his face

[@anonnnymousthegreat]

It’s hilarious he still doesn’t get it on every point she made. This shows how lost the patriarchy is.

[@denzilkelly7973]

The gag is that he’s a 40+ year old man still trying to get with younger women. That’s the whole reason he came on this podcast most likely. To prove he’s still got it, but instead he made himself look like an old, dusty fool. It’s laughable tbh 😂

[@kishakpeace]

@denzilkelly7973 You're 100% right!!!!!

[@PoppaBear760]

It’s gross hah? I’m 45 and see through his BS. Let these young things live their lives. They’re human beings. He doesn’t see women as humans. They’re commodities to him.

[@miffycarter3876]

Thank yoouuuu one of the best comments I’ve seen yet 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@holyempressw8531]

​@@PoppaBear760 Exactly

[@teekeciagaskin]

That’s exactly why he came on the podcast

[@FanTabulousSpeaks]

19 minutes in…..BK should have foregone this interview. 🥴 This is not a good look for him and anyone with a modicum of intelligence has written him off as a clown by 19:56. He literally embodies everything she detailed in her initial statement about older men dating young women. 🤦🏾‍♀️ This interview has officially become hard to continue to watch. By the way as a true Brooklynite who happens to live in ATL…..Brooklyn don’t claim him. ✋🏾 #IsaidWhatISaid #GoThatWay

[@sling0824]

18:12 nawww that would have pissed me off. This girl is not giving off masculine vibes she is just having a normal dialogue and just because it doesn’t go with his way of thinking he tries to tell her to be more feminine.. boy bye!!! He can’t tell me he isn’t a problem in relationships.

[@Evanescene8444]

Men use "you're masculine or aggressive" as a way to break a woman down especially when they can't run circles around her. He tried it.

[@sling0824]

@@Evanescene8444exactly! I’m glad she didn’t back down either.

[@serious7179]

The fact that he blamed the 13 year old for a pedophile praying on her is disgusting..... He is all messed up

[@3DSuccess]

Horrible

[@chelseasmith4572]

The fact he said he’s handsome made me giggle…

[@ecclairmayo4153]

🤣🤣

[@karengibson6258]

I'm so grossed out by this interview. I'm still having faith that not all men are exactly like this man... 😢

[@warmlavender5525]

A lot of men but not all of them. You just can’t entertain the ones like this.

[@TomboyGirlfriend]

Far too many are

[@Naturefan354]

Of course all men don't think and behave exactly the same, just like all women aren't the same

[@dr.anaB777]

All men are lol. The exceptions are so extremely rare that they don't count.

[@dr.anaB777]

​@@Naturefan354they aren't the same ofc but every man is socialized to believe he is superior to women. It manifests in different ways but it's all men.

[@galaxee1]

the fact that he cant accept that not all women want kids is disappointing pregnancy is a risk and it’s not something every woman wants in life 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@alisanina]

It really made me sad when he said “woman were put here to please men.” I am DONE with them.

[@e.v.a.1219]

He was so stunned with the not having kids topic and you answered so gracefully ❤ he was not too pushy either but that’s really how men be thinking when you don’t want kids lol 😅

[@valeriew4833]

Lol they're so offended. Like, how dare you keep your womb ALL to yourself? Because they believe on a subconscious level that women are born to serve them and their endless needs.

[@Cobras17]

He act like women not wanting children is a crime, like black men don’t dip as soon as they impregnate a woman.

[@iriswolfsbane1377]

Idk how she spoke to this ignorant man and for that she is a great interviewer. She chose a live example of the type of men she and other many other women disagree about and we are seeing it rn

[@Takamiko22]

Why do women have to wait for men to be worth shit but women should be pillars of the community at the ripe age of 17? And what if I waited until you're a grown man and now I'm 40, but you're going to go for a 20 year old? It's not making sense

[@VibeWitMe402]

The fact he "loves" his kids but don't love the woman who gave him those kids shows a disconnected mind. This type of man is the kind of man that WILL NOT honor a woman who gives him children and why women should NOT have children and trap themselves with these types.

[@tabethmwema]

His face when she said 'you're used'. I'm pretty sure the shoe fits so well. He thought he was all that. 🚮

[@samcarmen]

The babying of grown men is insane

[@itsrashard]

Refreshing Aaliyah - Age aint nothin but a number while speaking on the topic of older men dating younger woman is WILD 😳considering that song came out when she was working with R Kelly and we all know what that man did to her.

[@TheCapri88]

His face as she said " NO GET YA MATCH" 😂😂😂😂😂 Im screamin!

[@Aprilzeb]

God complex asf I’m glad he told on himself like this

[@Natyyy8D]

Narcissistic

[@BrandNameVegan]

The fact that he said he look good and he aging gracefully 😂😂😂 "I'm a handsome guy" 🤣😭😭

[@Issabookie23]

He has a lot of nerve 😂😂

[@brittanymitchell6948]

Love the fact she’s so opening about not wanting kids. A compromise with one kid is for sure a thing. Poor people having kids with no means is so wild to me.

[@misguidedpearls7456]

❤❤❤

[@goldmind9399]

If women mature faster than males why are so many little girls coming out of relationships scared or traumatized by adult males

[@zirone321]

I have to admit, this is a very unintelligent conversation

[@Lynvslyn]

Not him normalizing someone treating his daughter WRONG!!!! That’s sad. I haven’t ever “gone skinny” over a man

[@TaylorParker-d6y]

Him thinking he got fine with age, made me die of laughter. Woah thanks for making my day sir

[@Monica_Renata]

When he said he doesn't have to love her for her, I knew my decision to not love men for "who they are" is correct. Many men make you feel like an object but they want you to care for then no matter what.

[@keyfromthecity]

Any time a man keeps talking about submission is a red flag. He tried his best.

[@sandrajohn9893]

He got the audacity to say all that. Looking like that. Why didn’t she give him a reality check

[@mothercat6083]

For a dude who’s clearly gained some weight and it’s wearing an oversized hoodie to hide it, he’s real judgmental of other peoples bodies 😂, his points of view are honestly what I would expect from a middle school boy not a fully grown adult.

[@Missygail78]

His woman gains 20 lbs, and he's leaving. He ain't an Adonis himself.

[@keonomi]

This guy's justifications are gross. Watch out, ladies.

[@ethancameron7789]

As a London black guy, listening to this American black guy, just makes me think these men are stuck in a un-progressive time and I wouldn't ever wanna debate with them god I would leave tired

[@hardcandy71287]

we ARE tired. 😂 these men are exhausting.

[@FT-vv2lo]

it’s so funny because black men from other countries always seem to say this about american black men lollll

[@dswannbeautyartist]

Heavy flex on the two parent household, and a man with no kids yet 🙌🏾 this was a very honest interview. It’s also not selfish to not want kids do what’s best for you. I would like at least one.

[@lidz8726]

Quoting Aaliyah "age ain't nothing but a number" while she was being preyed on by R.Kelly is truly diabolical - choose the bear ladies

[@tadalamanda9877]

Dude really said he's aging gracefully 😂😂😂😂😂

[@tadalamanda9877]

Ain't no way he's out here using the bible to back up his cheating

[@Lifeisfun84]

With his balloon face ….. its bloated

[@nathanwilson1465]

Why would you bring Bk a known cheater on a show to talk about relationships. He has no Values, principles, or morals.

[@hersoulMusic]

Men date women who are younger because they are in the same mentality field. The man who is older has the potential to be more mature but those men use younger women in order to live out their immaturity.

[@misguidedpearls7456]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@nursekayc9255]

She’s preaching! And it’s studies that show the lower a womans IQ the more children she tends to have. Poor people do have way too many children! I know alot of unfit ass parents too that probably should have made the decision to not have kids! Its not selfish to know that parenthood is not for you and to not bring children in this world!

[@iamwell5654]

Bs

[@nursekayc9255]

@@iamwell5654 whats bullshit? With all the abused, neglected, unloved etc children in this world i think its awesome to hear a grown up say they dont wont children and stand on that! There have been alot of deaths in my family recently and the amount of 40 plus year olds that i know/ know of thats still suffering from childhood trauma is crazy!

[@Shaneebug25]

He’s so cringy. Blaming children for predatory men. He lacks emotional maturity. Ughhhh

[@Hu5h_]

I 100% lost brain cells watching this and can never get those 25 mins of my life back. WOW the maturity growth needed is scary!!!

[@mariahford5224]

Age ain’t nothin but a number and jail ain’t nothin but a cell……….🤗

[@kikimorah]

She's so smart. They really do tell on themselves.

[@samcarmen]

Him saying he’s a fine wine and handsome is crazy

[@breakinblack]

Not a single gem was dropped from this man.

[@kayjeffs3741]

I remember being 16 and having a guy lie to me about his age to date me...he was in his 20s but lied and said he was 18...its real out here

[@DayNicole]

I knew he was gonna be on some stuff when he proudly advertised he was a recurring actor on a Tubi show 😅

[@shelbyraz3]

GIRL THIS THE ONE FRRRRR LMAOOOOOOOO

[@DeyaniraYRendonLopez-yb7sy]

Watching this makes me thankful for my hubby. We've been married 10 years now and if anything were to happen and we were no longer together, i would stay single. No matter how much my body changes (I've lost AND gained weight due to my pregnancies) he's loved me just the same. I have also stood by him through every single one of his career changes. Ladies, dont ever settle for a man that only loves you for your looks. Yes attraction matters but you dont need someone who doesnt love you for you. Especially for man who doesnt even look good himself...

[@moyneal1065]

I totally agree with the young lady. Men that want a young woman after they’ve done all they wanted seriously annoy me because you can’t cause problems in the community then want to be rewarded for your lascivious, no self control, and downright bad behavior. It’s a no for me. Women stop making it easy for them to do this to you. Find someone good and nice no more than 7 years your senior and y’all have a good life because good guys are out here it’s just that most women in the culture want the same bad boy. We see how that’s worked out the last 3 decades. It’s not working for us.

[@goddessvixen3486]

He talking all that with his hairline pushed backed.

[@carlislecampbell]

Him not being able to say "intimidated" 😂😂 okay babyboy 😂😂😂😂

[@kyshac81]

13:31 he’s trying to convince her that a 28 year old man isn’t her match, but him being a late 40s year old man is her match? I agree, don’t let no old nihha suck the life out of you.

[@ReginaJoyy]

Right, he sounds like he trynna to make a case for himself. BK, you don't have a shot, see the door, please!!

[@daryna94]

Amani is literally the antidote to the redpill podcasts and I'm here for it 🙌

[@ksager123]

No she doesn't. That's why she is afraid of the red pill debates

[@daryna94]

@ksager123 they're not debates. They're just veiled degradation of the guests.

[@sapphy11]

These women have way more patience than me, I have no desire to communicate with males.

[@nehemiahgatlin7620]

This conversation is good but sad at the same time. Good for her sad for him. The fact that they got men his age thinkin the same way he thinks is so sad.

[@jameegarland]

A 13 year old dating a 20 year old isn't "fast". She is a child. She is the victim. He is a criminal.

[@Therealryanmadison-]

As a 26 year old, I always find it cringey when guys that are much older than me try to “talk to me”. Even when a guy is 10 years older than me and tries to “talk to me” I look at them like there’s something wrong with them.

[@Naturefan354]

How would you know how old he is and how would he know how old you are just by looking at each other??

[@ThickenThoodle]

@@Naturefan354most people look their age

[@k-jk7vp]

Fact....I don't get how men are ok with dating younger girls. When I was 23 I met a guy and we went on a few dates before he told me he was 19 and still in high-school 😶😶 I couldn't even talk to him cuz it just felt icky...

[@Naturefan354]

@k-jk7vp Of course. The way women feel about dating younger men is the way Men feel about dating older women. Men prefer younger women and women prefer older men

[@alice5635]

Same age and the oldest i would date is 28

[@gravityclarity]

He's not even fit himself. He's shallow. Ugh. He's infuriating.

[@ToniAndra7]

It’s giving he just wanted to be in your presence because he made NOT ONE valid point. 🙄

[@sequoyahday9427]

Definitely gave this vibe and it gave me the biggest ICK! He was literally flirting Omg

[@larynbroussard6020]

As much as it’s a crazy fact that older men love younger women, it is the world we live in. It always has been. He just said men are from the ground like animals. He is justifying it with the “Bible “ lol. We could have this debate a million times and I promise you nothing will change.🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Ichigothegoat546]

True. That's why we don't need to lose time with men like him and bond with real men , gentlemen and "deconstructed" ones

[@Naturefan354]

Just like younger women prefer a man to be older than her instead of younger than her... it's just how it is

[@flybyky820]

Using Aaliyah for the age ain’t nun but a number comment knowing she married rkelly is crazy

[@Disdain7133]

The term is sapiosexual. (Someone being a sapiosexual doesn't make them gay.)

[@shawnlove4502]

I came here to say this. I am the same way. It's absolutely a real thing

[@Idkjustyet]

Her: “I’m not gonna let you suck the life outta me” Him: “why?” Me: what the? 😂 The young women like myself (23yrs old) are getting put on game about how crooked and manipulative men actually are. I dated a 60 year old and was a trophy & he was indeed problematic. Then I dated a 40 year old and almost ended up like the women on a fatal attraction episode 💯 Now I’m just traumatized and single watching a bunch of videos about men & the games they play 😭 He wants her to “talk feminine” because he’s attracted to her & would smash 😂 she don’t gotta talk to you nice sir. She’s literally talking normal 😭