AMAZING BENEFITS OF BEING MARRIED

[@samia6888]

May marriage be written for me, my siblings and all the Muslim brothers and sisters who want to get married. Ameen. May Allah bless us all with marital bliss. Ameen.

[@starlite710]

Ameen

[@user-pn9zf2lj4c]

اللهم امين

[@TheNabVerse]

Ameen

[@nahoooli]

Ameeen

[@faozianana5854]

Amina

[@queenmysaelsheikhofsudan]

Benefits of marriage: 1. Live longer 2. More money 3. No longer lonely 4. Confirms relationship 5. Sex needs fulfilled 6. Inheritance 7. Married couple are less stressed 8. Sunnah of Prophet pbuh Thanks for lovely reminder 😊❤

[@Susan-fg3nv]

All true if given in the marriage. Both have to be a benefit to the spouse

[@runa505]

Good marriage have so many benefits. I also do believe that marriage life comes with a big responsibility. But... It's so hard to find good husbands nowadays Thank you sis❤

[@raisa_cherry35]

Indeed 😢

[@sadafahmed9563]

Must say nothing beats a happy marriage the benefits and the Sunnah and the true blessings. Trust me I was a career woman a while but nothing beats the satisfaction of being a mother and being a house wife. No longer wanted to be part of this 9 to 5 prison trapped with these miserable nazi feminists, the bullying, the backstabbing the gossip the negetivity, plus the single stressed out mums. Not a healthy environment for Muslimas full stop. May Allah bless all with good spouse.

[@noormuzamil9850]

Oh, I am very glad to hear your statement How many children do you have and which country do you live in? Why did you leave your career for the sake of children?

[@thedrasc1465]

I could almost take your comment seriously if you didn't say the whole "9 to 5 prisons trapped with these miserable nazi feminist.." rant. You paint an accurate picture, not hyperbolic at all to bolster your own personal choice, no definitely not 🥱

[@Halo.H]

Marriage just isnt written for some of us. We will never enjoy what others will, it just isnt meant to be...

[@runa505]

Marriage is qadar and Allah knows what is the best for us! «Asá 'An Takrahū Shay'āan Wa Huwa Khayrun Lakum» Life is too short to stress. Stay positive, sis!👍❤ True happiness and contentment is in Jannah. May Allah ﷻ grant us all Jannatul Firdaus & protect us from Jahannam

[@Halo.H]

Jazakhallah very beautiful words ameen

[@Assia131]

In this life you will never experience 100% how love feels, so it motivates you to attain jannah even more whether you are married or not

[@aminah761]

Exactly this video made me feel worse

[@sevilla7ful]

@aminah6119 yes I was feeling really bad anyway but I totally agree that it has definitely made me feel much worse. It's hard for so many sisters both revert and heritage Muslims and sometimes however we'll intentioned videos like this exacerbate this hurt and the pain of loneliness. One of my friends a heritage Muslims even found it distressing to go to weddings and Mehndis as she wasn't married and was nearly in her 40's. She went through a great deal of pain. It was heartbreaking 💔

[@fatimaaddy6535]

Maa shaa Allah, you are glowing! May Allah grant you more barakah in your marriage and motherhood journey 🤗

[@Freetoughts]

May Allah reward you for this video ☺️ I feel like a lot of sisters and brothers are losing hope for a good marriage. I highly recommend to do shadow work on yourself before entering a marriage. Work on yourself, your deen, your character, your traumas, your hobbies, your Timemanagement etc. Work on yourself first before entering a marriage. You can’t be perfect. Be aware of the fact that marriage won’t solve your individual problems. Work on creating good and healthy habits for yourself. And together you can work on a healthy marriage as a team with the blessing of Allah.

[@TheExostan]

as much as it hurts, no truer words have been spoken about this topic on youtube

[@SherifaNakalema]

Mashaa Alllah 🎉 Alhamdulillah. I think every marriage has some kind of issue but it depends how big. There are happy marriages though ❤. Thank you so much sister ❣️

[@syah147]

Assalamu alaikum, I love your videos, they educate me a lot. But lately most of them have been about marriage and I miss when the videos used to be about Iman/ sunnah, more to that kind of lifestyle, like daily life things.

[@miakamei1751]

Relax. She's in the period where she wants to make these kinds of video. Let her enjoy. Let's just support her kay? Although your request is totally valid, I think a lot of us ladies are also requesting Islamic marriage kinds of contents too.

[@warnacreamadeicecreamskool6305]

@@miakamei1751 yes and indeed marriage is about ibadah too in fact the longest ibadah. With the right kind of marriage, women can grow both world and Akhirah.

[@Thesiddiqua]

wa’alikumaslam Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuhu Obeying one’s husband and knowing how to be a good muslimah wife is very important. I’m glad these videos exist.

[@NafisasPearlz]

I will still make those types of videos too so don’t worry. For now I’m enjoying exploring things this way.

[@gypsynurse9792]

Subhanaallah, may Allah bless it for you. We are very happy for you nafisa... you are very informative. Ignore negativity and ask Allah to protect you and always keep you happy. I have been single for years still making dua for my one and only. Still no answer but we can't give up Allah's mercy. Cheers😊

[@LoveKing-fz2xr]

Peace be upon our sisters worldwide

[@ijuneberry]

Jazakallah for taking your time to cover these marriage topics ❤

[@tatandure47]

Alhamdulillah for all your wisdom Nafisa! ❤️ One addition I would add it that marriage pushes you to look at your faults and become a better individual. If you are with a great spouse who is also following their deen, that spouse will make you aware of your faults in a healthy way and just by watching their character, you will want to be better as well. Alhamdulillah, personally, I feel like I have better a better woman with better boundaries because of my husband ❤️

[@creativityenthusiast]

Ma Sha Allah Thank you Nafisah❤

[@NafisasPearlz]

You are welcome

[@kanizkhan5899]

Masha’Allah my dear sister I’m one older viewers I find you so inspiring for the young people with all your advise and different topics that you make vlogs so detailed and in a way to make it easy for young girls how to be as young women and have an identity that will make them confident in themselves, with so many issues that they have to deal with nowadays. This is what is so badly needed. Bless you my dear sister may Allah swt reward you abundantly. ❤

[@moonwalkerr87]

Get married! It helps staying chaste! Islam recognises the need for intimacy. It helps so much that it is considered half of religion. The only time marriage is obligatory is when there is a fear of sexual immorality, otherwise it is highly recommended. Facilitate marriage! Make it easy! Or else people will go towards haram. Cannot stop biology.

[@raisa_cherry35]

Instant fan of you,new subscriber here 🙋💜

[@runa505]

Welcome sis🤗✨

[@sialao849]

I don’t believe that marriage was not written for me. I believe Allah is in charge of time & when he will grant it for me when it is the right time. I’m happy being single & no man telling me what I can and cannot do except for Allah. I’m grateful for my free time & my children. Being able to spend time with them & building a stronger relationship with them. I’m happy for every breath I’m able to take & every heartbeat ❤Allah grants me. So much blessings that the amount of ink the sea carries will never be enough to write ✍️ it down. Ahumduillah for all the good things & all the bad times. I believe he is shaping me to become worthy of my soulmate & he as well for me. That the wait is worth it & the trust in Allah is true.

[@m_atisse484]

Thank you Nafisa ! ❤

[@YoungRiaz]

Much love and respect nafisa

[@aminah761]

This video is very depressing for the single sisters 😢😢😢. May Allah make it easy on us

[@nadhiramuhammad9158]

Another wonderful video Alhamdulillah

[@savannahwillis5902]

Eid Mubarak sis!!!!

[@mirlindalezi5062]

Thank you ❤

[@MuslimMessenger267]

Salam Aleykum, sister❤ You were beautiful today😊 I wanted to ask you if you could do a video about this : Could you make a video about women who want to be full time housewives ? What they need to look for, prepare for, expectations etc. Because i've seen so many people saying that men don't want all of this responsibilty on them in todays ecomomy. That would be very beneficial😊😘

[@sevilla7ful]

Yes I feel incredibly bitter at the moment. I have begged I have prayed and cried constantly on my prayer mat to no avail. I am tired of the loneliness and the hardship now. I am just ready to give up!

[@LoveLove-ev1cm]

I’m sorry to hear this sister , sometimes especially during and just before the monthly cycle things can feel intense. Don’t worry Allaah SWT is watching over you and will grant you what your heart desires when it’s right for you InshaAllaah. 🙏🏾

[@sevilla7ful]

@LoveLove-ev1cm thank you sister so much for your beautiful message. It's really helped.May Allah bless you always xxx

[@Thesiddiqua]

May Allah ﷻ grant you a righteous and pious husband. Ameen SumAmeen

[@sevilla7ful]

@TheSiddiqua Ameen aww thank u xxx

[@starsighting7167]

Nafisa I love that hijab color it brings out your skin❤

[@nadirajames4267]

Subhanallah Sis this was a very good topic you will have your ups and downs just don’t be so fast to give up on your marriage because it definitely works!!!! I Thank Allah each and every day for my husband Ma shaa Allah TabarakAllah Allahu Akbar 🤲🏾🤲🏾❤️🫶🏾🌹

[@sahar_ayat]

May Allah bless you dear sister Nafisa 🤲🏻💖🌺🧕🏻

[@NafisasPearlz]

Ameen

[@YoungRiaz]

Mashallah

[@bajanlandscapes]

Why do it again after trying it twice and it failed because of Jealousy...why do it again?

[@mjzn6821]

Slm sister nafisa I definitlely believe in a happy marrieds when you have cincerely God fearing man and God Fearing women and when you can and willing to gif 100% the best of you and being appreciatet fore that as a result you will enjoi live Together in Sha Allah 🌸❤️

[@NafisasPearlz]

Well said

[@runa505]

Taqabbala Allahu Minna Wa Minkum✨✨✨ Eid Mubarak😆✨ How was your Eid day with your baby girl, sis?😍

[@NafisasPearlz]

Alhamdulilah it was lovely. Hope you had a great one too insha’Allah?

[@runa505]

@@NafisasPearlz Happy for you sis💕 May Allah keep you in his protection!✨ For me... Alright! satisfactory, but not great😅 All I can say is Alhamdulillah😊

[@BQ900]

I like that we have the option of letting the children live with the extended family in an Islamic country for part of the year. The US is getting bad for children.

[@starlite710]

Marriage is essential in Islam

[@bbjattachannel3602]

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[@sholay706]

Marriage financially is a burden on a man. Easier for a man to take care of himself than taking care of two people and a family so that financial benefit is not correct

[@Ummwaladaan]

Allah subhana wa ta ala gives rizq

[@sholay706]

@laurita28061 true I am.just saying the statement marriage is financially benefits men is wrong and not an advantage. It sure benefits a woman though as she is the one being taken care off. Number one reason most men are not marrying is due to the financial burden it comes with

[@amirashaven9331]

@@sholay706 I believe marriage benefits men financially as well .A husband comes home to home cooked meals which are way affordable than takeout as most men are not taught how to cook. By feeding her husband nutritious meals, it protects him from developing lifestyle diseases like diabetes and hypertension. Also, the wife ensures their house is clean, laundry done, home comfortable and children taken care of so that the husband can have the peace of mind to focus on his career. Though some of the wife's duties can be out sourced, it is expensive and can still not equate to that done by her because of the love and care she puts in her home. Again, as a man when you get to a certain age and you are not married in some careers, you are not taken seriously as you can take unnecessary and costly risks because you know you are the only one that would suffer the consequences. You might miss some promotions because of this.

[@ginapetonito]

Decades and decades of social scientific research shows that men benefit more from marriage than women do. Emotional, health, and yes, financial benefits accrue more to a man than a woman. And gerontological research reveals that when a man is widowed, he is more likely to get married again than a woman who is widowed. Again, because the man misses the benefits. If anyone is interested (which I doubt), I can link to a couple of social scientific articles. But only if I am asked.

[@sholay706]

@ginapetonito Yes there are benefits but financial benefits is not one of them. The woman benefits financially, men benefits other ways, health wise, sex etc

[@prettyloubey8411]

Beautiful video but why is is so hard for black Muslim women to find husbands. It seems like our men don’t Marry. I just can’t understand it. They won’t marry us Muslim men.

[@pineappleoreo5349]

God when🥴🥺

[@LoveLove-ev1cm]

Sisters. You are 💯 better off staying single, than being married to a naccisst and then suffering a life sentence should you have kids with them. Ensure you do isthikhara before marriage. May Allah protect us and bless us with spouses and children that are the coolness of our eyes Aameen 🙏🏾

[@ewablonska]

Marriage can be big prison also... :(

[@christofotto2499]

am a white christian German , I wonder wether you would marry inter racial a white dude ? Because in your religion a female cannot marry someone from a different religion and third hypergamy is something all women are into so in combination of that all a black muslim good educated female in the states or uk will often stay single I like black muslim female , could even imagine to marry one , to convert ' on the paper ' and stay christian but I guess that many of them wouldn't want that either, your expectations on a man are simply too high, many of you will stay single forever god may bless you

[@thedrasc1465]

It appears your expectations are too high. You expect a Muslim women to disobey God by marrying a non-Muslim man such as yourself? And your argument is she may stay single if she doesn't reject God's prohibitions by marrying you? 😂 you are a funny individual. If you like Black women, why not find a Christian one? Or any other religion besides Muslim?

[@juumya]